Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 61 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning still traveling still in undisclosed location received a number of emails people concerned of my well-being I look a little nervous sad no not nervous not sad everybody's healthy everybody's good in Good Moods I have to say that in terms of the shear because I'm traveling it's different for me I'm out of my environment don't have my sparm don't have my so yes in terms of the shear it's not you know I don't feel it but in terms of me myself thanks for asking know everybody's healthy everybody's safe and sound so uh let's start off the year with a [Music] for [Music] for for all those who are part of the she who are on the front lines relatives of those who need Yeshua the she is dedicated to those in captivity those who need a those who need for their terrible loss should have and everybody should go back to where they were the beginning and even better andem much brighter days up ahead today share is being sponsored by sponsored by L Ling families L Jersey because the best that's all I have in terms of that the rest y will insert right over here in the art of the month for all the that come from supporting we're holding the last last words on today that means that we are 60 into only another 20 days left we also know well not all of you but s is a special D for me because it happens to be the initials of my name Ellie stansky not every M do we get to it so it's an achievement so let me just tell you real quickly what we're going to see here and basically we have where did I put that chart oh it's all the way the last chart okay it's in the wrong place but y will'll have to do some fixing over here we have a chart that on the right side on the bottom it says hegdish and green words and in the left it says in red and in the center it says K so basically what we're going to learn all the way until the Mish super super simple is that if a person purchases a field or has a field that gives it to heges there's two different alas when it comes to purchasing and heges and that is if you have a field that has holes in it you can't plant it's t hole or you have some sort of rock formation that you can't plant and you sell a person you say hey I'm selling you an acre of land and it includes all these formations all these holes so the is going to tell us that's not included in the sale you have to give him extra land you can't include it in the acre but when I do heish is different thear wants to know what about kin when a person promises a woman to have X amount of real estate and includes all these formations below the ground above the ground does it count for an acre does it account for or perhaps he has to add a little bit that's the whole and the is going to say it's similar toes so let's see when is applicable in other words when most we don't have sounds like a lot it's very simple so we actually have a chart here that says base C and then there's another chart that shows on the bottom it's 15 times the size ofish let me see I skip the chart yeah Mish here's chart number one Mish is 50 by 100 it says in the middle of the chart equals 5,000 Amo base SA so it's 5,000 15 times that amount is a base it's equal to 75,000 Square amas quite significant so a person says I want to donate my field to heges and then he wants to redeem his field he wants to redeem it what's the Redemption price so there's a certain amount there's that that he plants if he can plant a a of of barley so it's 50 shekel so in other words a shekele a year basically you prate it however many years you have left if you have 10 years left so you pay he 10 now two lines down what if this field is not flat it has ditches that are 10 Deep or rock formations that are you can't plant on either of those that's not how you count the anything less than it's btle to the and that's how you count it we ask you're right it's not part the but a person donated this so why don't we count it within itself and you'll say well because it's not a whole court it's not and that's not true we're going to see that every measurement is so just because it's its own formation within a field that you gave to he doesn't mean that it should be its own it's it should have some sort of you can't ignore the fact that he's m it says in the maybe has to be exactly a how do you know a half AE and a quarter of AE is a 30th of a core is a half of a saw so it's a 60th 12th of how do you know a quarter of a in other words any size field how do you know that be so if so how come if you have a formation it doesn't have it own we're talking about a ditch in the ground that you can't plant in it why because it's full of water that's what we're talking about I don't know if I said this joke but it's time to start getting out of this um not really I mean we're deep deep into it but I need to get out of it h it's possible I said this literally um two weeks ago I remember I wanted to but I just I don't know just didn't happen then and maybe I said it afterwards but a I'll say it again it wasn't that funny if I said it then I don't remember anybody laughing so maybe that's why I remember aab there was a guy that was walking in the desert and he was looking for water and he comes upon a ditch in the desert and not sure he looks in and he doesn't see any water so he doesn't know what to do so he sees a giant rock so he goes and he takes the Rock and it's very difficult for him and he keeps on rolling it rolling it finally he pushes it into the pit listens listens all of a sudden as he's listening for the water he sees a giant camel running running running running jumps into the pit few moments later a bedwin comes by he says hey did you bet any chance see my camel he says I don't know it's your camel but I did see a camel run run run and jump into the pit but says oh that's impossible that's impossible because my camel was tied to a giant rock okay over here we're talking about a pit that actually had water and therefore you can't uh sew it you can't use it as a field and it's not included together with the field yeah I'll prove it to you because it's you have the ditches in the ground and you have the rock formations on top just like the rock formations you can't plant anything on top your tractor doesn't go over it what it's not part of the field so too the dit so if you have a dish that's let's say seven should also not be [Music] included these are all parts they're little puddles in the ground they're little ditch not a real ditch a ditch is separate every field is going to have your ups and your Downs a little bump here a little puddle there but they're all included they're all bottled to the field something more significant is not btal says the G okay so we just figured out what about sale I sell you a field and it has a ditch in it I sell you a field and it has a rck formation I'm selling you a base 75,000 sare and they had very deep ditches or rocks when I sell you something I want something flat but less than that it is part of it so over here when it comes to a sale even if it doesn't have water in it it's not included my since I can't take my tractor and plow the entire fi in one shot I have to get it off the tractor lift my tractor up put it on top of the rock formation and you it's not one field I wanted one flat field like to have in Iowa nice flat stuff I thought you're going to sell me 75,000 Square hours that's flat not with a bunch of formations that are impossible to to take care of in one shot says and finally we're up to the question what about when it comes to we're literally four lines before the mishna when a person promises his that he has 75,000 square amas of land does he mean with ditches or without ditches because if it's with ditches maybe he has to add and he has to do 75 76,000 Amor worth of land because he has a bunch of ditches in his land can't include them or perhaps it's like Hees that if you could plant in it it doesn't have water it's not filled with water is considered part of the [Music] land I'm going to say that's similar to and therefore if it doesn't if it's not fulled with water it's considered part of the land why why do you want me to have 75,000 Square because you want to be sure that I have decent paros that I'm I'm going to provide for you don't worry about it I'll provide you worried about my tractor going up to the second level I'll get the tractor up there I'll take care of business as long as I can bring home and provide for you you shouldn't have an issue with this and the K is we're talking about a very very famous concept called when you make a condition with someone let's say you borrow my ESG foras an ESG so it's appropriate for me to make a condition and I say I'm giving this to you on condition you give it back to me and I have I should add and if you don't give it back to me then it's not a because yes we are very smart and when I say yes you understand that the opposite of it is no but perhaps you have to be definitive I don't know if that's the word you have to be very clear in what you say you have to say I will I'm making aition I will do XYZ if you do that and if you don't do it I won't do XYZ it's not self-explanatory says we learned this from the condition that made with told we don't want to go into we want to be in G we have a lot of sheep a lot lot of cattle we want good Lush grass so he went will fight the war to conquer Isel then they get Gill and if they don't fight the war then they won't won get gilled what's this extra and if they won't it should be obvious if they fight the war then they'll get gilled you and I would understand and if they don't fight the war they don't get no when you make a you have to double up the L so in those pum Rashi brings down and we have a chart for it I don't see it here but maybe we'll put it on later there are other conditions that you see see from first of all you need that the condition should be before the action and also you need that the positive should be before the negative those are the three things that we see from these it say if they shall the positive the negative okay so first of all I want to point out just that says over here I said it once before but it's to hear it again the r says that ruen was born from an impure thought of Y Yu thought that he's with ra the first night in fact it was LE we know that's a problem to think about another wife about another woman who was impure says that the same thing by God God thought it was LE in fact it was B and half of has a half impurity because came from the marriage of or I should say the relationship of so it's half impure says didn't want to give it's unbelievable didn't want to give ruen God and half Masha didn't want to give them a part of because they weren't pure like that to even say it AR says it and therefore instead of telling them oh you don't get he made it in a way that they should desire not to go into that was D rson they came from them they didn't want to go they wanted Gil unbelievable so argues not on the three conditions that we have in tonight but on theight they you have to repeat yourself and say the negative after you say the positive or that you have to say two things negative and positive no the Torah had to say it that way why because if not so cannot because if you think about it and didn't want they they didn't like it they didn't want they showed that a displeasure in they didn't want it so you think they shouldn't even get if they didn't go to war they shouldn't get anything and May is saying no they they do get if they didn't go to war they won't get killed but they'll get their portion Isel happens to be that there are only two Mitzvah in the toyra that you do within your entire body that is M Suka you go with your entire body into the Suka and which we're talking about here which is because it's so difficult makes it hard it's not somebody yelled at me how do I I was insensitive I said that the people in don't understand what's going on it's impossible to understand something that if you're not there you could see it on TV you could see it on the news you could see it on your whatsapps you can't experience something the way a person is actually there when a person hears the bombing overnight he hears these new bombs these two thou these two ton bombs that you could see the flashes go off in you hear that it shook literally half of shakes it's different than hearing about it and experiencing it I'm not exactly sure why that person was upset at me I'm not saying you don't understand I'm not saying you don't understand what it means that just like we don't understand what it means to lose a loved one in Gaza we heard about it we're sad about it but we don't we we didn't go to the funeral we we don't we didn't s Shiva so it's not the same thing that's all I was saying but okay it's good that there's always somebody that is upset about something says how could Pro the that you need to say the positive and negative the is telling us a B I would think without the second part of the I think they wouldn't get anything Kam they get they do get something even if they don't go to war says no because if you think that the p is not coming to double up the and it just say and if you don't go if you don't go to war what's the extra words okay says we have extra words wording here for the for all those in need of andov in honor of my uncle and as for year filled with for all of the mdy family not extra maybe means in the land of G that they'll get a portion equal to whatever portion all of gets in 112th but they shouldn't get the the whole thing you think think that should divide G with everybody equally but in they don't get anything you still need the just to tell us how it should really [Music] work what is within your in the midst of you everywhere so now the brings a muscle a this's a we have to see how to reconcile this with our M let me give you an example there's a person who divided all his belongings yusha to all his sons he has three sons the three sons represent CL these sons are going to inherit these fields that's a is WR and the other one Ru is going to give 200 Z he's going to go to war the and he'll get a different field he get Gill and if he doesn't give oh here's what's important if he doesn't give then he'll inherit with the rest of his body Brothers in other words he's not going to lose everything pay attention he's not going to lose everything if he doesn't pay his 200 he'll just get what everybody else gets he'll divided equally with everybody because he repeated himself the father so that enabled the third son not instead of getting zero he gets together with his brothers but wait a minute it doesn't line up this doesn't line up with to begin with we thought you shouldn't get even zero even so in other words I would think in the Mish that if they didn't go to war they wouldn't get anything zero but over here it's different in the rest without Theos the son would get a in the even the Third Field that he supposed to get everything he would get at least a share of it without anyos in the Mish they wouldn't get anything over here you get something and also get something but we never had a that this son if he doesn't pays 200 shouldn't get anything he get something so all is going to do is you're right the mishna seems like it doesn't get anything but that was in the beginning but then afterwards when the when remor had a discussion with so it came out no that we never had a have a that they shouldn't get anything they were supposed to get something in the beginning of the we understood they shouldn't get anything but after mayor tells that in order to lose everything it's enough just to say you don't have to say remember said why do you have to say can and told him that just say we think that they get G oh so here already is saying they would get something so that adds up exactly to our muscle in the muscle the other brother if he doesn't pay he'd get at least something and that's what was saying that if it wouldn't say I would think that they get just Gill and that that lines up beautifully with the mush says the gar very very [Music] simple thear is going to do now and also into tomorrow theor is going to take all the examples of T that the T doubles up the says if you do this this will happen and if you don't do this this will happen so why double us can we understand according to we don't need a all you need to say is if you do this this will happen everybody understands and if you don't do that it won't happen why you need a double lotion says if you do well you do okay you bring a better Carbon great and if you don't do better here's the double and if not you get a punishment why do you have to say that according to why you need a double you said you don't need a double maybe will say very simple and that's what bottom line is thear uses this answer a number of times that without the think if you do well you'll get an award and if you don't do good you won't get an reward but you won't even get a punishment for that to has to say you get a punishment I need I need the double to tell me what happens when you don't do if I just base it off what you do do on the positive if you are positive and you do well I'll give you an award I'll give you $1,000 and if you don't do good so you won't get $1,000 but that's not what happens if you don't do well you get a punishment you're going to smack across the face that you need the T to say that's why it this double [Music] just say the words in case I miss something here you won't get even a punishment that there is a punishment was he's going to bring a wife for from his family and he said a double so according to her mayor you need double and if the girl doesn't want to come with you then there's no [Music] double what if the girl wants to go with you but the family doesn't like you in other words the was still on you'd have to force it to come or whatever but the was still there that's why said you're out of the if the family doesn't want tell you about the family question is why did AB have to repeat word for word what elzar said ask him question what if she doesn't want to go with me and ab repeats and what if she doesn't want to go with [Music] you I think we're the family wants the opposite what we said before the family thinks it's a great but the girl doesn't think we shouldn't listen to her we should force her to marry or at least you're not out of no both the girl and the family have to agree and if not you're out of the don't worry about it come home says if you do my rules my laws then you'll get and if you despise my rules then you'll get a punishment why do you need to double up is going to say the same thing as we said before if you do well and if you despise my rules nothing you're not going to get a punishment of course you're not going to get a reward for not doing anything you're not going to get a punishment no you're going to get a punishment if you [Music] listen get you'll get a punishment again if you don't listen nothing will happen to you not good and not bad I think we like to do a record here on the road it's good because the is waiting so say have a wonderful shabas wonderful week we should we should all be together again where this a do is into it now we know how to appreciate mdy live so have a wonderful day we see