Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 55 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] so we're sitting here the mat is it's a very tough situation kerol is in a very very um in need of RA we don't know the numbers yet it was uh we all woke up this morning to bombs many many very loud bombs which we hear in we've never heard before that size that amount sirens and um those of us who went to SCH we had Sirens local Sirens that went off we actually had missiles that fell in bees um people ran into mad we didn't know what was going on we knew that something bad happened we weren't sure what we never saw such a response an Israeli response in terms of bombs and right now M shabas the numbers are still coming in but there's over 200 um casualties 200 from uh the Jewish side and over 1,400 injured from those 1400 close to 300 are um how do you say uh an an more than critical an means more than critical the critical is 600 I think there's a lot of captured we don't know how many we have no we don't know numbers now we just know that many many yiden are captured just think about the of a captured person think about they know that we're dealing with they know families full families killed in the streets we we don't even know the what happened we don't know we just know that we're in a very bad maive we need to say to let's say something to now um I asked that people shouldn't come to she tonight because uh the government doesn't want uh many people sitting in the same place in the same room there's still a very strong element of danger out there there's still uh terrorists roaming the streets in different cities so [Music] for [Music] who my own nephew who learned right here he's the biggest behind us was called up to to go into which is a terrible place right now there's still buildings that are under siege um people from the shear their kids are being called up I think maybe even Ellie rosan I don't know who knows all the um supposedly full brigades of Golani were wiped out I we don't know anything still there's a lot of rumors a lot of things going on and it's volum one thing we know what I all guys were killed we have from we have from our sheer Pas is is on the front line and he said that it's whatever you hear on the news is Tim it by 100 and that his own fellow at Sol members were killed and it's not everybody okay I there's a video here just my head is hurting a lot I'm I can't really concentrate very much but we have to learn the da and just to give you an idea I was sitting and trying to prepare for Shear today and my family and I don't want you to take this in America might think oh not serious D is but you see you could see rackets and and this is from my porch somebody took it and you could hear them calling me they want me to see it but I can't you know we have to prepare Shear I was debating whether the show because you hear laughing in the background but that's not the mood here let me show you this real quickly with sound 's going up they're not they didn't shoot it up that's tonight tonight this was after ABD tonight we just heard a big boom a moment before we started cheer so anyway hopefully we can get through Shear without Sirens If there's a siren then we will stop shear and resume at a different time this was um let's see if we can get this this is something yeah 2,200 missiles was shot today from [Music] Gaza good morning Bo [Applause] I should have watch it first T is the best G have a wonderful day do the da okay that was the old thing I didn't really look at it before I did it okay Z we're not going to do any um emails anything like that we want to jump right into it Thea is sponsored by lock and love families L New Jersey because and of the best the par as that our family should be blessed with health for 120 family in memory of first today we're going to be learning to all those who were killed today all those who need P whatever you call it we have to get them out all the sick people we need we need a lot of of the month sponsored by for that come from supporting foran who sits here every single day was called up today what's his name she all come back safely and uh there should be no more Enemy by the time this thing is over anybody remembers what it is help me out I have to concentrate my head is is a question whether when you um I'm not concentrating okay think focus a person works on a certain object does he get paid every PR that he works or he gets paid all the way at the end does he Quire it at the end in the beginning in the middle is a concept a person a woman says go get my get from this in the city or go get my K from the city is he just she just saying that's where he is or giving it device where she's mocked but I only want to get divorced in this place I only want to be from this place this is not a concept but concept is in the head you could your thoughts are what make something happen you could be doing the same exact thing as the other person but you have thoughts the other person has other thoughts when it comes to monetary things then what you thought in your heart means nothing is a through it's obvious that you meant XYZ so we're talking about when you lend somebody an you don't have to do it because it's obvious that even if you didn't do it n you only gave it on condition that he gives it back Etc if a person gives away all is and he realizes afterwards that he has a son somewhere then obviously he gets back you cannot send the agent to do an a for you besides in few situations call this is a concept that we had that if you cannot marry let's say two women two sisters one after another then you also cannot marry them together the won't be is if it's impossible to have a relationship with this woman so then it's not a the idea of I just thought it's a cool concept it's not like we're going to have it 100 times but it's it's the case of when person tried to be M's five women and two of them were sisters so it's like saying you should be kind of this and the should be the other part sincear can't be since a um a fetus can't be Co so too the other person can't be Co is if somebody uh was watching something for you and then he claims he it got lost whatever so you could invoke a is what we're going to be talking about today a lot and that is if something's owned by the and you use it in a certain way that you make it yours you take it out of the out of that your over [Music] on is just a concept to remember in terms of that the people even though they were they were able to have some of the upon them they stayed away they let the other guys the frers whatever they want they said listen it's better if they stay they do their thing even though it's a big all right here we are by the way as because we're [Music] here so there's a story about uh writes in the that his father-in-law pasin on every single shil that ever came to him there was nothing in the in all types of there's one thing there's one couldn't pass and he says that they came to ask him that yes's commat they never had a vacation and they want to know since the B were so tired from dancing the whole day and they they ALS also put down they took out the Su could they get a little break one time break and he said because of such a concept of Y of learning every single day he can't pass in for them they really deserve a vacation it deserves some sort of break but to break a Seder and like right now we are doing we're not going to break a s there because I'll tell you I know that everyone in this room and we only have 10 people in this room some of them are even staff that I know it's very difficult to come out tonight everybody wants to know what's going on and they look at the news and calming the family down there's a lot of people anxiety and this and that to come out is difficult yet we don't break a so we're holding like eight lines from the bottom of n b we'll try to go through this as quickly as possible so the can get home and take care of the mishas we're trying to figure out is again sh people you have product and you're supposed to give certain things to the and then whatever is left over you take 10% on years 1 two four five take 10% for yourself on years three and six you give 10% that same 10% you give to the on now the 10% you give to yourself and you you have to bring to is it yours or is it m is it considered heish you just are allowed to eat it could you with it a person was buying purchasing from his friend and the friend said okay this these fruit worth one seller now we know that typically speaking when you purchase something from your friend you're GNA be M and that's what he did but over here he's trying to be he's trying to pay his friend po over here means to pay his friend and by that by doing that take the Meer off his friend's hand and perhaps M doesn't work because M doesn't work withes and the price went up to two what's he pays what he the deal was the S and he gains a full sell now it's not a real game because you would have to take that sell and purchase more product your but he doesn't have to pay for it to he doesn't have to give that guy to say who is this if it's it's and it says by there's no when it comes to anything owned by the you cannot purchase with M if you're gonna buy something you have to pay for it and may of the opinion that so how does it work doesn't work so we're trying to find something to corroborate before yesterday we said that and I'll prove it to you from okay and now we trying to prove says you're right this does go with the so why do you say that we have like and yeserday had like May so which one wins says the it's one against two we have two M that are Anonymous Against One mission that's Anonymous writes in a sa very writes that um who was the the famous comedian here in who became and he went became a big big he went he told mear said he had the nicest house in Israel whatever that means lived on the beach the nicest mansion in Israel and I could tell you that I've never seen in all my years in I've never seen a smaller apartment than his apartment it was basically 10t by 10 ft it was very it was a it's a storage unit that came with his apartment he gave his apartment to his son and he lived as maybe chish like he went to the other side he went away from all the gash that he had so his friends asked him tell us a joke your last joke so he said okay They begged him begged and said okay I'll tell you my last joke he said there was a cop that was following two two guys on a motorcycle and he pulled them over and he said listen I've been following you for a very long time I'm trying to get you a ticket and you're not doing anything illegal what's going on here so they said Hashem Manu hashem's with us so the cop said oh you have three on the motorcycle that's a ticket that was his last joke in other words it's not it's not even a joke Hashem is with us especially people that ride motorcycles V so the says okay you have one against two but they're both they're all Anonymous one like that's Anonymous two Anonymous anous is anonymous we always passing like the anonymous this we have many times in there's called ad ad is the testimonies of different and a miss that appears there that's so one of the two happens to be in say of theis and therefore therefore the is like if a person finds an anal outside of most animals in are going to beim they're going to bebas people broke carbas the uh little guy ran away got away and he's wandering so from to MD and then you take that so here's the chart M there is like next to I have to press again I'll press [Music] again okay so let's say that distance froml so it's the distance from let's say is one mile so one mile around in all directions so what happens when you find the animal that's what we're going to be dealing with today it's a very short da very easy da tomorrow is even easier even shorter if you find a male animal it must be now let's think about it let's put we don't have a lot of people there so you have to all be good let's say you find the male carbon a male animal not a car male animal what could it possibly be what else new what else a what is a female what else whatever it is whatever it could be that's what you have to assume it is so let's see the is going to talk about all the different cases and let's say you find the let's say you find a female what could it be so he said what else could it be what else could it be no cannot be a p no okay so let's see so that's what we're going to learn today we learn a little bit of Kim so what's the obvious question why maybe it should be something else the other animals that are brought other that are it could be whoa if you find the male it could possibly be schlam many people bring schlam not only many people bring schlam but like we mentioned the other day most sh money the extras go for SCH a ton ofl in we're talking about a big he found an animal he doesn't want to bring this animal as anything you cannot bring this animal as a why cuz maybe it's a schlam I don't know what it is it's a different type of carbon schl get to eat from it different things different D different things says we're not even talking about that he wants to do that he's trying to do a favor to whoever lost this and say listen this guy's he brought a carbon he doesn't even know that's lost what could it Poss be could be this this this I'm going to bring all the options for that person that's what he's doing and whatever other thing that we're going to be a s and that's we're going to see so what he does is he takes this animal he found a carbon right he finds a Shep and he says I am taking out Thea from this sheep completely I'm removing theusa and putting Thea into this animal now let me ask you something what if he doesn't take the out of this animal he says you hear what if he says I bringing this animal instead of this animal does that work that's that's very good so you have to remove the you have to I'm removing the and I'm taking an animal instead of that not instead because instead it would be but I'm doing the and this is a new carbon so let me just show you this real quickly there's two types of and means that the actual body of this animal is KES like it's kage then you have objects that are just donated to the they have but it's only monetary that you could redeem but something that's inherently you can't redeem can't be you can't remove the but you cannot do me after me by but what does that mean means that you're removing something out of so if I removed this let's say this was this is owned by b i I removed it I started ding from it I ruined it a little bit so became mine so I took this out of the now you come and you take it and you use it were you over no I was over I took it removed it out ofd I have to pay the some English whatever have to pay them after to bring a carbon Asam have to pay a sid plus 25% of another Sid but you the second person cannot be M where could you be M more than once in an animal an animal could never go out of the BD it always remains the so if it Remains the I write it you write it we're 100 people WR it they're all there was a a nonaffiliated Jew who wanted to make a bris and the mo comes there and he sees that the bris is going to come out on Chavis and he was very worried that many people will drive into the bris and the whole thing so he told the guy listen you don't want this on your head let's do a quick bris we'll do a bris on CHAS tell all your guests that the baby was little y whatever the bris is on Sunday this is brought down in a in a safer about brist by a mo he had a lot of funny stories and he writes this in there says he told the guy he said I'm going to make the bris on chabas it's going to be real BR on Sunday I'm going to come I'm just going to take off the diaper and go like this the night kids nobody will see make a br he says on Sunday ton of people came sh is small minion so then he wrot wrot the sa he says usually we say but over here there's a F there's a story that I just recently heard I have to say tonight M that we're in about unaffiliated Jews when I heard the story I m I cried I think it brings tears to everybody when they hear the story The there's a guy his name was air and he went to one of these conventions for you know what is it called thank you how do you say in English he went toim Discovery and the guy one of the guys there one of the lectures said let's learn so this kid of fear he he says what's Milla he says you know on PM read a Milla he says yeah what's that and he explains to him he says it's made he didn't know anything he didn't know that's made out of leather he didn't know P him nothing it's it's it's it's it's hard to believe that here in some of the know less than unaffiliated Jews in America whatever it is I don't know what so a few months two months later this air guy calls up the lecture and he says I decided to learn on my own I'm making a I want you to come to my like I can't come to the SE your father's like a real anti and this and that he says no you're coming to my so he go up at the see him and a gets up and he gives a speech at a see him for 40 minutes 40 minute speech all this course in explaining back forth all thing's done A's uncle gets up from guy gets up he says look we're two brothers me and yank you see that's yank he's not religious my brother yo was top guy in Yesa he's always the smartest guy iniva she B he decided to leave you he left he says since then my mother for 17 years every single had she cried for 40 minutes 40 minutes every single SNS says when my mother's n my father took upon himself a if my mother did it he's going to do it so for seven years after that my father cried at T for 40 minutes then his father's nter so my father's nter I took it upon myself to D for for 40 minutes every single says now I understand why this guy of fear he gave a a drush for 40 minutes and then this part of the mea air got married to a religious girl became came as all right it's okay to cry there's going to be a after how if you use the is animal horse so and then his friend did it everybody's he used the the golden from everybody says the this mishna that says that doesn't go out of this this that we learning up until now that you found a and what to do with it that's says okay but one teach the other what does to say that if you use heges by mistake it goes out it becomes it's not the Bas anymore he learns the of is the whole concept of is that you don't know what you're doing you don't realize that it's it's and that's when it comes out himself says that if it's K the animal the animal itself never becomes you can never remove the from an animal he says beautiful the whole mayor is not about whether becomes or not the only arguing on one thing is it that makes or M that makes but could you could you remove from something they never argued on so if you see that that you cannot something that's an animal that's you can never remove the from it says he just says that you're over when you do it by mistake you write it by mistake but it doesn't become so then the same thing would be by he that you do you by by um I might have been spoken forget about the animal riding the animal but the point is that happens by mistake but you cannot be will say happens what not mistake but he cannot be on that part he's going to agree you can not you cannot be something says no when you don't have the the want you don't want to take it out of f says the no it's very possible that according toor on purpose so when on purpose you want to remove it out of out of Kus you will remove it out of Theus rabud says in R says it all happens by mistake and by mistake you never intended on taking it out of the bdash was a mistake you didn't know it's bash but you're fine so doesn't remove the mayor says that on purpose so you have in to remove so it comes out even even something that's called okay I'll give it to you fine so you could remove something that's like about lighter level of where do you see that he says that you can remove that this seems like a simple logic something that's like like something you could remove the from it a certain thing certainly a I don't know what something that has very little compared to certainly you should be able to remove the we say the same when you go on purpose and you try to take hegdish out of it out of its place it works this is exactly what we just said a second ago whether it's or both even remove so certainly sponsored for all those in we have at least, just today the the numbers are just if anybody thinks it's not himself doing this like you have this whole giant army and and and and all of a sudden they're able to go in from a place that everybody knows they want to come in every day they want to come in they come in and they start cheing on these kind of numbers if you don't think is saying something here what nobody knew about it they they know that this guy in this apartment building over here he's planning terrorist attacks they go they they bomb but that hundreds of these people on jeeps and they coming in that they didn't know didn't know and that the track that they come with a little tractor and act on the wall that they didn't they didn't know they have these these flying you so these things they fly in flew in that they don't know not drones not drones parag paragliders that all this stuff could do whatever he wants whenever wants however he wants we have nothing but him okay B Innovations in honor of my uncle as for year filled with all of family I don't understand what happened there we're talking about a bigad walking around next to he finds an animal says thead let me help out PL what are I going to do he has a car out I don't know which one it is so let me be let me remove the from it and I'll give him I'll buy him I'm large whatever I need whatever he needs so that so they reminds me a little bit of my neighbor hope he doesn't listen to the she he's a big D and he dances Mish to music in a unbelievable dancing dancing very loud music the only problem is that's 2 in the morning two in the morning blasting music because he wants to be no they so doesn't make sense or I'll give you another thing what about this that thre there seriously who's going to remove that the Gabby whoever it is so I'm a big I throw my rers up there I don't know where it says you should throw it up there I don't know if anybody know has a for it fine but so that PL has to go and remove it okay huh used to do it about about thees up there I don't know I'm just there's plenty of things where how about the time I was in America a guy blocks me in so I'm waiting and waiting a double park car I had to go to m why your is worthless you just made me sit here for 10 minutes not it's normal over neb what do you upset at me okay if you're going to come here you have to understand that somebody might block you in because there a manufactur oh so how in the world does this guy remove the from this animal which is is do just so that his friend should whoever it is he doesn't even know he's like the guy that puts in the quarters that that's not a iser saying somebody guy will say it is AER but you know in New York I saw in the five towns as the the meter cop whatever his name is walking down the street this guy's pumping quarters into every meter as before he gets there shouldn't be okay so this guy's also a big every animal he finds he starts buying and but it's is no what you do is you wait until it befalls and then he brings two animals and he makes a he says if this animal is a o if the animal I found is O this should be an O and if the animal is not an O this should be and this animal over here is Aim so if I found if this animal that I found is a schl the animal I bought is a schl great and if not the schl is in you said if he found the Z it's as the maybe it's a carb now I to repeat this who was it I think hansi likes this yeah it's h so I'll say it again H the only thing in that can't say for us there one thing that we we have to say ourselves is you can't have say thank you for you you say thank you say it on your own can't send the over here it's interesting maybe he found a say he brings a but how could I bring a to for you okay the guy already brought a to again with rash I have to say this also when big surgeon when is you know close to 100 years old so he asked all the people next to teach him one two words they flew in this this G in America I forgot his name already for M I think had a private jet flew in The Surge to do a surgery for and they did it soash insisted on saying thank you in English to the surgeon cuz thank you is not something that I could tell somebody else and I wanted to say it in his language F so I think if we have a minute here let's do this to inside real quickly why do you have to bring another animal he's already bringing two animals he bringing and so the should be for the you have to put Blood on the wall of the it's not a problem it's the same type of blood they do for you do for yeah there's different types sometimes you put it above the red line below the red line sometimes on this corner but over it's the same type of blood same type of but this's another problem they don't have the same amount of days that they're allowed to be eaten eat I'm just reading because there's a lot of you say this here is eatting for two days only one day so T says over there's a concept there's a problem you can't switch two carbas because you can't go down you can't downgrade if a carbon could be eaten for two days you can't say let's treat it like a carbon that you only eat for one day why because a carbon that can only e for one day what if you don't need it you're going to have to throw it out it comes to a problem you might have to throw out some some of the carbon say no he doesn't hold like that it's not a problem to do that BR you can flip okay fine anyway so you have to bring the breads with the you can't just make a so bring bread so make if this is so the breads that I'm bringing the 40 breads I'm bringing should be in a you can't bring bread as fine upon him so it says like this he brings a to also so now we're up to three animals one one one well you can't just bring a you have to bring bread here's a picture of something here here are the different uh breads you bring it's 40 what do we have over here 2 4 6 8 10 12 13 uh I don't know no I think this's the two in one type and one in the other I don't know fine this is an old old picture don't don't hold me to it it's 40 breads he brings that says maybe it's now the problem with is you can't just bring and say but if it's not it should be there is no what else can you not bring a carbon as a what other carbon but now we're asking maybe it's Asam and this is a big problem so bring a fourth one you can't bring a fourth one has to be at least two years old we're talking about a case that he found a one-year old but there is one that's one years old we're not concerned because it's very rare that somebody very re that a person will become Tomy as another maybe the you found is a cover P say if it's right around time they're very careful so it's not it flips into maybe what you found is the first born that's go to the or it's it's the 10th animal that you have every 10 discussed now the problem with is that you can't be and if it gets a m you eat it as is says theor that's what the says what's the difference okay let's say the animal you found is a or you have to wait until it gets a moment then you eat it you're right this animal that you found first of all you're bringing three animals instead of it but the one that you found you're not going to eat until it becomes there's one thing by the way so let's just so what do we have so far a guy finds a z who's a year old what are the pass abilities could be it could be and it could be a it cannot be an because is 2 years old the rest of the are now could be so for that you're going to wait untils then you're going to eat it now one thing about brings down it's very important to know that even though it has a m you're allowed to eat it you cannot weigh it on a scale you can't treat it B can't put it meat on a scale and also you can't sell it in a butcher shop says I heard Ben making okay but what if he found so it's again a carbon that you bring when something bad happens to somebody one of the things got a jail this like we make today go guy had a disease got a disease he brings [Music] the the same question we had before but what if it's a and then you cannot bring a as a third option why because if it's not a what are you going to do with it it doesn't go as a as Ana when it's the you say oh I'll bring a and if it's not a okay I'm giving it a gift to the m he can't do that with say is only in a year old it's two years old says okay but maybe maybe it's older that's already lost for a year you found it when it's old that you found it was D around over there for a whole year no way but what about where you found a one-year-old what age is a person when he learns the most in his life I learned there once I don't know if it's EMS from zero to one is the absolute most that a person learns explain because a person a kid that age a baby feels that he doesn't belong he see everybody talking see he's dying to learn to get that information as as we grow older we we get a little bit more and more relaxed more relaxed we are we got it all so the idea is not to be so relaxed Etc okay so there a that actually says this you see it's a play on words over here so what do you do ask the if it's one years old it's you found a one-year-old you just told me oh we're talking about a case that you found a 2-year-old but what if you found a one-year-old what you do a a female animal that's one years old that's says how you bring maybe it's not maybe I don't know it's how you bringing treat like so here's the upgraded there are five types of that must go through a terrible thing called keep Rashi brings two either they had a special room for it or you make your own room the point is there's nothing you can do with this K absolutely nothing can't feed it it must die a terrible death why I don't know I remember Dr abstein questioned it like oh how that's it it's means baby born newborn from a you have a and it gave birth to another to another baby that baby is done we discussed before if you have one animal let's say a skinny little and you want to bring a big fat say this should be consider this it must die you not all to say that if the owner of the dies you cannot bring your that if let's say got lost and the owner brought another instead of it bye-bye and if it had a birthday it's more than a year old that's what we're talking about here then have a wonderful [Music] day