Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 5 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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voice I was starting top of that film The Isle of always in the top first word Mission tells us that dishes shows drop him Nicholas Michelle is drop him because how do we know start could only acquire wife but you can't give your pay your wife off and say hey here is a ten thousand dollars and you're divorcedure so a get here's my get gotta use it gotta get my money's worth oh really there's a real get a get that has the ability to divorce a wife which money can't so certainly if you take a document obviously not a get documentary take the same thing just write certainly it should work [Music] this is more about excessive she came poisoned by hegdish um so here's the apostle vimgoyles [Music] so if you could donate something if you want to buy it from the basement you can redeem it from the base Amigos you pay them obviously you can't give an IOU note to the base of mcdosh you have to give cash so we saw if it doesn't hurt to see again Meister Shane is when after you remove the tumor some maestras so in years one two four five of the shmita cycle you take 10 of whatever's left over from your fruit and you give it to yourself you eat it well we're only your line you live in svat you have to take the fruit from SWAT bring it to your salon if you're you have a lot a lot of fruit this is what you do for a living so you're not gonna slip all that fruit to your slimes too hard so what do you do you take it and you transfer the good usual you see it turns purple over here the nine apples turn purple so you take it and you transfer you take money out of your pocket and you say okay this money is going to be instead of the nine apples the so the nine apples turn red again and the money turns purple the money becomes Cottage becomes like the Meister shiny color s you redeem it what if you tell myself uh I'm gonna owe you some money it doesn't work you have to do it with cash then you take that cash then you go to yerushalayim and you buy whatever you want with it in terms of food you buy food steaks beer the whole thing that's next what Marcus you can poison myself okay you cannot redeem hagdish and you cannot redeem is a shiny because you need to come live what's that no so we just ruined the cover claimer we try to use it we destroy the garbage no more kava climber so again how do I know Isha we're gonna go straight to the apostle she gets divorced and then she gets married to somebody else's anytime you have two words you know next to each other you can learn one idea from the other idea and we're gonna learn anything that applies to a get applies to kadushan anything that applies to kadushan applies to a divorce because they're together so therefore just like I could divorce a woman with a piece of paper star so I can take a piece of paper that's worth less than a pruta and and right in itudaceously and that's it that's the end of this role that's how I know that a star is cleaner a woman Esther gamaro wait a minute if you're gonna compare divorce to kadushan so then do the another thing keep on going because of just like you could get married with money so maybe you should be able to get divorced with money you just said you have to compare one to the other you just compared that you could use a star to get engaged so use kessef to get divorced you have to go in both directions says of course nobody had to have him in the bill is in the garage because he's trying to get distant from her and and another reason he says so most times people get divorced because multiple ever stop or it's already and it's also to be with your wife okay bye y'all that can be San Diego the defender the good guy you use money for something good to get in to get married to get engaged to become arusa you're going to use that same thing to do something bad to me to be an Accuser so today it's a kiss from Hashem today we are the shadow where else in Shaz do we have this idea of category foreign [Music] [Laughter] how come you don't use a chauffeur of a cow interesting is that we have another another sheet over here we have a the content could you rather get on a cow's horn you can't use a cow's horn on Rosh Hashanah why because very good another type of rock I'm not from Hawaii but very good the coin godlinian keeper doesn't wear gold clothing because it reminds Hashem of the ego you don't blow a chauffeur of a party oh you can't take something that was that was used for the bad for the good mama uh uh yeah yeah you just told me that you can't use something that's done for the good for the bad so you can't use something from the bed which is uh a get and use it for the good and use it for kadushan says tomorrow fine that can't be that's more where it has to be merely this star talks all about a get the stuff that we're talking about is talking about hedushions two separate things the hike Hospital let's do it here I have the two different it's two different bills two different things here's one here's two it's not the same thing so what's the obvious answer to that hi guys look at it it's they're identical they say the same thing we're talking about a get and a star condition that's very very different [Music] this is uh I don't want to forget this I'll just say it over here the in the Metro serum says unbelievable story some people some of us know the story but it's could I have to repeat it story there was a um a couple that didn't have children for 10 years foreign just like you got married with a huge party you have to get divorced with a huge party they couldn't have kids for 10 years so they came to Virginia we want to get divorced it's a good idea divorced but you have to make the same party you made it you threw a big thing get a band get this you're gonna make a party so they made a big party and during the khasana she gave her husband a bunch of wine and he got drunk whatever I'm saying the kid sir and he went to sleep he wakes up and he's oh and he told her he told her you could take one thing as you take whatever you want but one thing he wakes up the next morning with a hangover and he's in a schwer's uh living room so what am I doing here so you told me to take one thing I took you oh oh so they went back to Russian back to represent was in the spawn from it and down for them and that is the first stir in my book and nine months later no they really had a kid tomorrow because the same thing what is not not repeating yeah Generations back yes fine at least at least you enjoy your own joke why why can't money divorce not a good passion money should you should be able to use money to get out of a marriage on my crowd because of Allah it says an apostle that you write a get and that's it you don't you don't get divorced with money so here we go first of all it says an apostle because I've lost save increases so we just finished getting this is possibles over and over you have to write again oh did I go too far perhaps yeah no sorry here goes so because it was safe increases tells me how to get divorced with a cipher with a document and not with cash okay so that's on the right side garage wait a minute maybe you think because of those seven creases the only way you use a document is to get divorced but not to get married and that will take away the first Lima that we had on this Omega how do you know that you you get it engage with the star we learn Vietnam and over here maybe from the positive that says no you can't you can't get engaged with the star it says which I do it says here so that's on the left side we have the Yachts of Isa that you could use ashtarification it's one of the three ways you may cause a woman who told you now look at this try for a second who told you to learn it this way that Versace logos and not money and the answer is says you can get engaged with a star maybe it goes this way maybe because of Allah says not you can't get engaged with a star and Vietnam says you could get divorced with money because just like you get engaged with money you get divorced with money and because Allah because he's gonna so because the exact oppositely moved him who told you what plastic to use for what umarisa what's the answer throughout Chas when we ask umari so who told you to learn like this maybe learn the opposite it's usually miss dabra it makes sense it's Common Sense we should learn like this you're in the possible of a get because of a saving crisis and do not use money don't jump and tell me oh because of the same cruises you get divorce with the get but when you get engaged we're not talking about engage this is a positive about getting divorced I'm telling you I'll lock Us in divorce how do you get divorced with the document and not with money I want to stick to the topic not jump to condition um I'm telling you and not with money you divorce a wife with a get and not with money I don't want to talk about condition when I'm talking about asking Mario there is actually the epically like Crow the drawstrina miscares because of manale so this is right here when I put this in I wasn't thinking about the Sharia para but this is it we're exactly Wilson is possible that you cannot use a live animal forget and you cannot use a live human being and something live and also you can't write again on fruit the kids are you used up this possum he takes it because of Allah you should write it on a document and not on a live animal or a slave or fruit so so how does he know that he cannot get divorced with money on my crawl safer crystals yet today stop thinking a lot today A lot of times the woman pays off the man you know to get a divorce yeah there is like but it's different not not we have a minute to take a hundred dollar bill give it to the wife and that's it that's the divorce just like you got married to her on my cross safe increases foreign there's only one way to get divorced with the safer with a get very modern High quizzes might have delay but they already used from cost of law so they have extra word creases what do they do with it at the end of githan we had this whole sugeya we barely in the Dover I curious when you get divorced has to be a complete severance you can't you can't have something holding on to the to the marriage whatsoever in other words in on condition I'm giving you again on condition that you don't drink wine [Music] on condition that you never ever go to your father's house now it happens to be before you say that Allah I personally know two people they got divorced because they they lived in their parents house in her parents house yeah so I got when I got married I was so scared because my friend a good friend got divorced the first few months of his marriage he lived in his Pat in his in-laws Basin they got divorced he claims you know they're constantly meddling and telling her and this and that was a terrible guy fine so when I got married I moved after three years and moved to Chicago so I went to my my shiver and Trigger like in my sugar and I said listen do me a favor don't don't come to my house that much when I moved away from Chicago I moved away from Chicago I told my mother I said you know you never came to my house she goes remember you told me I shouldn't come I didn't come all the years he like never showed up I thought she's gonna stop we have to go visit her I told her she was on travel again fine no we went there plenty my kids lived there what are you what are you getting nervous the whole Chicago lives in their house but in my house not we come to you you don't come to me [Music] yeah there's another yeah yeah yeah you take take AIDS is from what's going on here these are all okay oh here this is just the old from the door I just I like this uh this girl that's going to her father's house when that's being from the dharm Great okay now there's a a woman once ran away from her husband she went to her parents house and the mother's what's going on she says I can't take it anymore like he's driving me crazy she says you don't come here what we do is I'm gonna come with you I'm gonna move into their house she's in you'll see her ready all right because look he's scared he's worried you go to the parents house you never know what happens you might bring this figure back you might who knows what a decreases why because it's loyalum if there's a condition that lasts forever it's not it's not again but if it it it it's just temporary it's for 30 days you can't go to the year to the in-laws house Harrison it's creases immediately right we learn immediately to get you just have to fulfill the condition it's built out of two words because the third could have said car race or koirs and the Atari used the word Christos so there's an extra part of the word he can learn two dresses from its cars creases the marshmallow like you're looking at me how do you learn two things that's not that's not good enough for a limo now we have a very beautiful Sugi here it goes like this we we have the three uh draw him that you acquire wife kessef star and beer and we just established that you cannot learn one from one okay you need a apostle for each one of the three we had silken for each one [Music] you cannot learn one from the other you need apostle foreign like you say in the morning if I find something over here whatever it is so I I could say just like I find it over here we'll take the same unlock and apply it over here if uh wine you could bring it as an adava and so oil they can bring us we could also bring us you see the same thing by by why not use it by by oil mamatsuno just like I find it over I find it over here if I find that lock I buy money I I keep him cash with money and I can catch with the star so I keep in cash with a beer why not now just on the bottom I put there that amendmentsino is weaker let's see than a cover climber if you have a pure colder you have any sort of reason to say that it's not similar to those to those things you just throw it out and you start all over um so here we go so I can show you real quickly I want to learn kessef from cassavin Bia in the red box I want to learn star from it so I'm going to tell you no those are different because I know some Aruba I'm just going to go through this thing in 10 seconds I'll take question in the top box and learn beer from it no the B is not similar to them because and finally I want to take styrene B of the two of those and learn cursive out of it why'd I need a positive for Castle why do you pause your shot no this is about car steering wheel so let's see back slowly over uh hey hey tasty which which two do you want to do this with so we'll start from uh cassavin Bia yeah don't say the bottom one star if it is anymore or not you can't learn star from those two Mala enough the the different awesome Aruba this great benefit from money and star has zero benefit yeah you can get married with the star but this document you have any I know from this zero what are you gonna do with it make a paper airplane no huh okay uh you could use a lot of stuff I could use a stone I can use it very good yeah it's a normal foreign again the question is over and over why do I need to pause it for all three give me two Kim and I'll learn the third thing from it you could be a bakargo and you give a star you give a get well you don't ask the wife you just give her a gift we're talking about marriage you don't find that you could marry somebody okay so let's go just to review there's something called Ericsson that's stage one today we do both stages together under the hopa but it used to be with stage one you give a woman then you go on a hike for a year you go back to Yeshiva you learn she takes care of the khasana the Decatur the whole thing a year they come back and you do stage two which is which is Nissan so this errison and the sun you said Arizona is just makes her a nation canopy a room whatever it is excuse me and drops a bomb it says in the mishnah that in order to do everything there's only three ways to do everything says I have a fourth thing it's called Rob is going to ask what it says in the mission of three [Music] so I was gonna answer oh the Miss is only talking about what it says first in the tire and Apostle said the mission agrees to it just the mission is not going to talk about things that come from okay I have four [Music] now it happens to be it's very interesting this week's parisha says and it also talks about condition so what's the what's the cover um if you skip the whole ring thing just put her on the hopper she becomes arusa you go to the Hope again she becomes in a sewer you have to do it twice movie I saw in the wait I see I saw in the ryazakin yeah I'm pretty sure that it's twice touch me it's not gonna decide I could put him foreign [Music] Yoshi did this whole thing let me show you what Yoshi did I feel bad I'll explain to you why just the behind the scene kind of thing this was Yoshi's way of explaining this I said listen this is confusing me it's going to confuse everybody this is after you worked on it for a few hours so if you uh there's another thing just to show you it moves this way that way so okay I'm gonna go like this here boys I have something special uh I got this remote it's uh we're gonna use it today it goes like this hold on you ready oh like this it's a whole this is going to explain the Suga without this you're not gonna understand the thing okay yeah like this oh hold on look at this see this it says mdy on it there's a column hoimer I'm gonna take money this is money and I put on the scale oh you see that's how it works there's a column of climber now it's this is climber it's heavy it weighs it down it's very very harsh so it's more like this um hold on a second um when you get engaged you do everything so the color yet foreign after they married great but when they're engaged During the period of the erosion she cannot eat truma she cannot eat rumors oh check this out everybody's side made this myself a little Hopper if you put it on the scale it weighs it down check this out oh so if it weighs it down maybe like this so you see the hoop is stronger and if it's stronger it should certainly do what the money does money does a little bit of everything but it can't it can't feed powerful so certainly you should be able to get engaged with it it could it could accomplish exactly what kessem could accomplish wrong wait a minute what are you talking about it's not even when you get engaged after you put the ring on she could eat truma so why do we say she can't eat truma and said don't eat Truman it's dangerous but midday Rises she could so she couldn't has a lot of power money money better has power says that you you acquire with money it's a king with money so it fits into the king and cosplay after engagement foreign she's at her parents house she gets a nice bottle of wine she's gonna share with everybody but it's truma so they said you know what no treatment for you um so now we could go to so I told Yoshi I'm sorry you gotta erase this you gotta we gotta start over I I showed him this is what I want something like this with a scale so he did it nicely much nicer of course Hopper finishes off the the the engagement in other words now the mice you dying become the husbands her whatever she earns he could inherit her now beforehand he couldn't inherit she was they were only engaged so kesev which is weak yet it creates erosion which is much heavier much stronger you see right by his eye what's wrong hey didn't you thickness so let's see how Yoshi did it here we go yeah it's a gamar so it's a big you put a bigger weight is heavier it weighs down and certainly it should be able to create Harrison [Music] we just turned to that family base we have two new sponsors in honor of my uncle impressment you know this host for the year filled with Mars by Greg Haber panelsa Brio's for his family in Ellie all mdy and everyone doing the daf or Main I did it I did it I did it I did it so now check this out oh I think it has to go slower oh no it was animated but basically the poison comes down and equals out the castle with hopa now they're equal before he said is powerful because he gets inherited he gets her might see a die in it's so powerful guess what kessef as we discussed has the ability to redeem my sashini to redeem hegdish you don't get to redeem anything from them therefore they're equal if they're equal you can learn hope of you can't say the hope is stronger and you have you don't have anymore so you can't use for everything only for the sun wait a minute B is one of the three things that you kind of uh wife and you can't use beer to be poisoning and Hector so on the on the chart it goes like this python is not a reason to show a kumara poison doesn't weigh anything poyda is like a hot air balloon on the right side why because you see from beer that just because it can't be played that still has the power to be kind of a wife so poyda the fact that you could use money to redeem something hegdish and my training doesn't give it any weight at all it's equal to zero the hot air balloon it's not true be as powerful why because br is able to acquire Obama that's why Bia is able to acquire a wife it's one of the three things if cannot acquire Obama but could acquire wife so no sheikhas the reason why ivama uh I'm sorry Bia Isha it's not because it's powerful it could be kind of Obama is nothing look kessef is not going to give Emma and could acquire a wife so therefore the fact that it's cleaning Obama is nothing so this is a typical uh one of these sugios so you go around in a circle but each one has a power each one has something special Laurie Zachary is there they're not similar to each other because kessef what can you do with Casa everybody's eye you can redeem ice or Shane and hegdish beer what can you do with beer so each one has a powerful thing each one has a heavy weight and they're very different one can't do what the other one could do but they all could do one thing what could they do whatever exactly they have one thing in common there's one thing in common that that that's equal ground they could acquire other things like an armor like yee boom the coin and Khan and they could also acquire a wife and therefore which does another Kenyan which could do so hope it should be able to do Harrison yeah if kesif could acquire Alma and BR could acquire ivama and hoppo could acquire a wife at the end been a suing so they have one thing in common they can do all sorts of other King on them be equal to them when it comes to Harrison if you you can acquire a Harrison you could acquire a wife for to make your arusa through kesev and Bia should be able to do it through Hoppa says ravono very good what is it good for yerusha to inherit her and nadarim you could be made for another after you you get married like that actually completely by yourself so now you go like this the cast 7B all have something that koppa doesn't have they have great benefit foreign but nothing more than that my star and that's it I told Yoshi Maison because I I felt bad for him because I told him that like I think it was a little bit after 11 o'clock that we got to get rid of all his charts we gotta start from scratch that's how it goes and he started working in this Neta his wife in the background you know the whole Miser so I decided to stay up with him and about 2 30 he says should we go by there's no I think the island gets it we'll go from here we'll just do it and um so he says okay bye he's gone and then I go on to my PowerPoint and everything he did was gone gone so I texted him you see he didn't go to sleep yes he ran back this computer he was able to um this is at 2 38 A.M and I slept for 59 minutes Mark Hashem so that's why I'm you can tell who's after after this year usually uh Monaco comes to me says uh you didn't sleep at all because you had more energy yeah okay foreign this whole thing why because star is able to divorce a woman they have they're not common at all but they have one common denominator the whole thing the queen of Khan and the Clinton they're able to do uh everything is all something that you could do is not in marriage so Rashi over here Tyson says that the fact that you could buy keeps on saying it that um since he's the father even though a father could give his his daughter a father can take his young daughter and marry off so you see that that you could use money for kaduation about cargo there's a case this is no that's not considered about Carhart because the father agrees to it and we're talking about the father not about her what yeah it doesn't matter for that minute it was bakargo but he says that's not called bakara because he's in charge she's the one who received the money he did it he did it with his desk Roger disagrees he has different gears here [Music] and he says in in other things fine in other words by I think he means but the Arizona part you can't do about okay Palma oh my brother State University I have two bomb questions on it wait a minute the Mississippi there's only three ways to acquire a wife not four according to everyone to this four void is stage two but you need stage one before you get to stage two first you do let's say a half a marriage through a ring and then you do the whole marriage with the hopper we can't come and do the second half without the first half they go together foreign if you give a wife you give your color money twice you give her first uh a ring then give her a tennis bracelet it doesn't work which could finish off the second stage after the stage one of money so certainly you see money after money doesn't work but hope after money does work so certainly in the beginning should also work and the story now we have beautiful a completely different silky we're done with this this is where boys I mentioned the song many times throughout this is probably one of the only suggests that I recall from Haider and you'll see in a second watch I went to casino I went to minkaj I went to Kailyn and I went to sver this is [Music] when the rabbi said the sugya my head started spinning cases how does it work money how do you do it so we know I really couldn't just leave it about Zoo because that's what you throw okay but it's also gonna show you this but if she gave him a ring and she said I want to be your arusa I want to be my Kurdish to you I am your wife is fine you know the famous run in the dorm that a wife is Mafia herself so the and that's how that's how the condition works that's how you by her being mascular herself but she cannot say this lotion great um muscular purple you know what I'll just read it like my web you read it and then you'll understand why I didn't understand the word and I'll go back um what just happened so let's read it now that's why the Luther Java is much better time in Chicago there's three saturated that came to a show when they came to the sheer didn't have what was funny what are you saying why is that why is that why is that different though what do you mean okay [Music] there's a this is Ashkenazi says he he Ard this is I don't know if the Americans will even understand this joke and they said you know over here we uh we don't say soft we say tough she said oh yeah of course yeah she says strawberries anyway fine modular pop time but I have to tell you myself this is also kiss from Hashem a mindset that happened to me years ago I was on a dementor Mission it's uh or some f takes uh balabatin from America business people with guys that are I said this a few times guys that are being miscarried either Sky their college students off to their guys out there not religious from from not religious not off to that not religious people and they're like thinking about these guys I think we go on a trip with them I went on a bunch of these trips how's the sugar of the trip as usual fine and [Music] um and the baker was and and I was looking for the party I remember it was right around August time this that and I realized it's this week's Powershell my social check this out he reads he said he okay fine and then when he got and I think he got deposit his base and he says foreign so I scream out people look at me I know hey hey he stops he looks at me what are you talking I said so I I realize he doesn't come I said listen you said before and I say who so deposit that you did before is wrong if you're going to be consistent everything's like hey great we can't be literally based on Constitution hey you ruined it uh Michigan that's okay they asked me to move there whatever and fit right now foreign despite despite me despite me they're they're from that's your papa is very simple you agree that if he gives the condition he says great so you can infer from that what if he only did half he did one out of the two honosan who vomry he gave her the ring but she said because it says you have to do both things the man has to do both he can't do what Amy safer if so it's a contradiction because from the safe it says Evolution us if she did both then it's like she did one out of the two it is a good kid why is it not good because he has to he has it before he has to take her not she take him time is great racial I hope you don't have any listeners I'm gonna start getting emails from there is a contradiction but the race is the main thing the safer was just there that's a great answer if it doesn't ruin anything the Tony safe and builds the disaster relation you can't put a safer the contradicts the ratio if it flows well great but if it contradicts you can't do it but what if he only did half he gave her the ring and she said then it's bad it's as if that's what it means not only that case the half case that he did one out of the two it's as if she did both things and therefore will they have a condition points out a very beautiful thing it doesn't mention anything about her giving him a ring and he's saying doesn't discuss that case it's only one case he giving her a ring and she's saying what if she gave him a ring and he said so he says unbelievable it's famous gemara that there's a case that that would work and would be good condition when when he's a big time of hachem and it's a Hana for her to give him a ring that he accepts the ring from her that would be a good condition that's why he doesn't say it in the game that's the classic case the if she did too wrong he if it's half and half then it's a suffix and you need to guess his rash if she got engaged to another guy she needs to get from both men rabbosai have a wonderful day a wonderful Shabbos at 10 o'clock 10 o'clock here 10 o'clock