Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 38 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign so this is a very emotional email but he asked me to chop out the first half so I have to do that it didn't take and he sent it through Joseph you don't have his email send it to nasano to send it to me belam sham I'm starting from the middle basically he's going through a situation it didn't take more than three seconds for you to say the story of the guy whose mother recently died from cancer and this year gives him a spark I couldn't believe my ears is what I was hearing I didn't know what to do with that information I paused this year a few minutes later when I continued you had mentioned canceling Netflix and donating the share to the share instead again I couldn't believe what you were saying just yesterday we canceled our Netflix as a source you can't make this up I figured I would sponsor tomorrow's learning is exclusive for full slame which I did but then after calculating what it was spent on Netflix for the year 198. I didn't realize it's that expensive 198. the 180 share I was still 18 short so I looked for a way to donate 18 but couldn't find only monthly so I ended up signing off for the monthly for 18 dollars in the huge score to the tire we spread please give us a broker that everything should go well this morning I learned and Yosef added this to the bottom there is a custom amount okay but there's no 18. but he's saying it like it's not an easy way to get to 18 for some reason okay but what type in 18. okay a boy's eye unfortunately our gobble is now with us but levator I was hosting state I'd like to present with you the following slide of Dylan this is onposters.com so I have I will if some if I had something you should know the truth is I went on their side a few days ago I was trying to purchase one for my brother as a stick I was gonna send him didn't go through but I for some reason I have a couple of Horrors over here two hours I'm the only one that doesn't say new on it why I don't know was it there last year I don't know second of all I don't have a watermark are they not concerned that somebody's going to copy and paste my thing like the other ones have watermarks on them why not yeah I don't know multistan yeah [Music] of course we have him knock himself on the one hand we have the tournaments you ask him if that's a goggle that's a god of the world my friend huh yeah listen that's good material use that this morning when you mentioned locals from the show will make sacrifices to come to the live share you forgot about me this is mutti's thing he's a big honor of actually Batman he's right here focus on him watch how his face turns red if you focus the camera on him every morning I let my wife wake up all our kids and get them ready for school by herself and I can't help out at all because I'm at the share and it's truly transformed our show and bias this past week I missed three live stream and gained the new appreciative for all the visuals and how much you help with the retention you obviously put a tremendous amount of time and throw it into the presentation the result Are Much appreciated some personal mdy stats for five seven eighty three tough Shin pay gimmel 1062 daf learned including Hazara he's a big big asset in our chair six new mdy recruit force a human including the first time in 12 years to make a seal my mother's yard side 330 live shiorim you were even there for more than 250 of them in other words he's here in this basement is more than I am 400 plus cups of the best coffee in bed shamash how did you get to 400 a monthly but doubles is 600 or whatever no 700. 660. uh fast you gotta imagine she did the math thank you for everything is I'm forgetting what's your son's name how's he doing I haven't I love that guy he used to be a big part of this year he went to Yeshiva yes finally we got Judah things every day is for him you mentioned yesterday that even people who's large should sleep in the soccer I for one don't sleep in the circle closet do not sleep in the soccer the reason is simple finally we got a reason after all these years been searching high and low this one actually makes a lot of sense Judah please who who has who has the medication today rabbosai the reason is simple picture any Town Square running around asking people if they're Jewish who want to put on filling every shot is told the women getting the Shabbos candles the circus with a little Venezuelan pays up with the matches we see them all we've all seen them imagine if they held from sleeping in the sukkah they'll stop everyone and have them appear pajamas and ask people to go to sleep now middle in the mobile soccer somebody think I did on a serious note I'm very grateful to learn that I've ever deal with you and twice more I attended I attend two virtual streams yours and Robbie bamberger and in person every night with many of my fellow at solo members in that cell garage with a famous maggotier have a gamer Yours Truly please don't mention my last name would like to remain moisha okay so I got a lot of this thing about Suffolk about the khadosh so first of all one very important thing is from Jaco Friedman the Kula of khada Shadow very distroll is I believe there's no head there okay is also saying that's really radical this year that a lot of the flower that we haven't is a suffix and that that creates a little bit of huh it's all esophagus unless you know for a fact that it's not unless this manufacturer says I use brand new Anonymous rebellious says this tickled me the wrong way this line bachem says I don't like that you want to explain why he's Michael Vivaldi don't say he's mold on the Torah so he brings like this I put the red lines there it says we could use the bach what this individual sentence to me forgot to look at the next line it says it's on the same page two lines down the valentov later on in his life was okay the safer says yes okay rebelli Stills into with my colleague in the office addictive so I can't stop regarding please note that yoshan flower usually infested with bugs it's a festival bugs and each bug is seven love him if everybody says for this reason we shouldn't listen to the Torah because the toy itself says the 7-Eleven so maybe can't listen to the Torah be blessed cold but thanks kind regards David everybody who has seven bugs you push you can eat the old stuff I they know how to sift today I had an interesting cop on this year's Hebrew calendar the kid sir he said what I said a few days ago if you've been listening to all the children which a lot of people obviously missed because of Roshana repeat it because a few people sent it in as if children better through daily spreading teaching being ready many of us unless Rebbie many of us never had I learned in Yeshiva High School back in the day where all the Rebellion were from Europe brilliant but couldn't relate nor teach American boys who made gamara learning challenging your teaching methods bringing you smack to thousands of us and thank you the reason why I'm reading this also because look at this Rabbi pesach Greenberg San Jose Costa Rica I've been meaning to speak about this individual for many many days already this is an individual is given to mdy hundreds and hundreds of hours including on some gedalia alone you was here for five hours so my good friend of Remy Cohen I asked him to snap this picture and he did and this individual very very quiet guy but he gives a tremendous amount to mdy here he is in the desk that's right in front of me in the hole he's under the desk putting together the wires subscribe to Dave scharfman he's also the guy stepped on his back without any questions yeah step on my back no problem it was actually very he's a strong guy I didn't have a strong but you should have Dave for all your hard work foreign I don't know if you remember what it looked like like just a half a year ago there was dozens and dozens of cables coming out and everything by the way that's real Walnut that desk part of the the theme here in the basement and finally I've been asked to show these pictures I will show it yesterday I went to visit my father and a few people asked me so here it is my very very classical father we're still in all day and learns all day 24 is a very very hard to get an appointment with him to get in there I had a bag and I plea no I didn't but I don't I really don't like to disturb Mammoth I don't like this I feel like I'm taking away from him so a couple times a year I go over there I came with my son and we had a schmooz as gevalde okay [Music] Lakewood New Jersey because Toyota and actors are the best girl Abby what are you making fun you you're starting to see him every single day your own father and it can make fun it's it's hard yeah if you pay for it I do I do I do need you here yes it's right over here he's with his good friend from um [Music] you saw he gave a guy your email gave this guy is going through a very hard time what don't worry but don't worry about it you'll be asleep in five minutes trust me I'm gonna be I'm gonna start and you can go to sleep what are you worried about he's like I'm dying to go to sleep could he start the already [Music] by the way seriously I thought about this I'm not joking I didn't make a big enough deal that Avi Factor Dr Ravi factor from the goodness of his heart he just donated a thousand dollars the person he's never seen so that he could go to damn it so it was a very nice gesture we were making jokes as he was saying it but I hop later on a guy said listen I'm gonna make uh a sacrifice and I'm not going to go to the Disney World I'm not gonna sleep in a hotel and I've been I'm sponsoring Disney World it's very cautious okay the part is Justin if you're dedicated to my personal here inspiration or belly and in honor of your great father now you all saw the picture boom excuse me Rocky Kane reports was having brain surgery today she should have her for shlima parents from UK in honor my son Mordechai is Bar Mitzvah today and is completing a receptus tightness in order of occasion together with mdy he finished it Ruben Harrison in loving memory with my father-in-laws [Music] we have plenty of time oh foreign thing I was supposed to say it's almost in keeper and this guy donated uh 18 a month you could also donate DACA to the best cause that I know cause that brings people to toyo monthly oh if you listen to this if you spot if you go monthly.com you put in some there you will be uh included your name will be in the next volume of Bubba comma volume number one I'll go through all the names tomorrow position all the people gave yesterday he'll give today you're gonna go through all the names because Hashem and then I realize I'm not on it so maybe I should go on it as well I gave a nice check but I have to be on the monthly all right there's other people that are from the staff that are on the monthly as well of Ashton ambers that's what we're holding I don't know 15 lines from the bottom of London a person who has on his body like Shabbos like Bismillah that all applies all over the world it's not only a Mitzvah or anavera in erits Israel it's also consultants in the middle it says lomely what does moisture mean in this case it's true where does it say Shabbos look over here that's possible the following Posse because this is the the positive that we say by Kiddush so since Shabbos is like a young Dev tibai kids we should require that Destin y sanctifies the day when do we know when's him Kipper this year Wednesday this year bezen decides today we have a calendar those days through decided what day everyone so maybe they have to be McCandless Shabbos also it's in the same pirate shop yes it's every seven days but not before Benson decides here this is would you do that this is no what should we say to him you don't need a Kiddush we say we said this uh on Roshana how's it going [Music] no that's mechanics Israel hashabas Israel and the the division that Israel have they take that dusha and they make kaddish first who did Shabbos in Israel and he gave klystro the power to be mechanics Rosh Hashanah without Israel you don't have Rosh Hashanah but Shabbos is right you have to split it is a big part of our share our in-house they sent me a picture of the Khalif this is the fat that's awesome for you to eat and it says in the possible but it's not erit Israel it's all over the world because normally it's something where does it say the sister in middle of the Parish of carbonation you could bring a carbon maybe that's the only time that you could that's like a carbon but in our days there's no carbon line maybe it's not awesome in all generations and then it says you have to eat the carbon pasta with matzo so I would think that they're interconnected when there's a carbon pesach you eat mats at the say there no carbon bases like today unfortunately no matter Maybe it's absolutely in Pennsylvania so you don't forget it it's the idea not everybody knows I'm serious with somebody asking the street what do you do when you have a firstborn Hummer most no they won't know you get five Cellar to the client I don't know what they're gonna tell you you get you take a sheep and you give it to the Korean instead of the Donkey by the way I forgot to say huge huge Mazel Tov throttle sits next to me every day he had twin grandchildren your first grandchildren oh but close it's not your son The Barbers uh your daughter right big acid Tower what okay who else had twins okay oh so it says here you see the the it says that afterwards also one time and then it says we know it's not when you come there to show your Clive and chilling you're climbing feeling all the time so you can do it all Israel and that's what happened that's of course you'll go into this role what is mean everywhere in the world mean when you commentary this role you capture and settle the 14 years of marriage is wrong foreign [Music] and tells us in the Torah that when you come into it's when you come in there this row it's it's in the nothing when you commentary they started eating from the new crap places it's the new crap when the next day after PESA when is that to Zion isn't that interesting it coincides with the day of dimer when do we bring the imer second day of pesach so the the knobby is telling us that they only started eating the new crap the new crap it says on the second day page not on the first day the second day it says when they came in territory the very very first year they couldn't eat anything new any of the new crap until the second day it pays until they brought the imer don't say that's what it says they didn't wait 14 years applied on the very first year when they came into this route Yahoo how you gonna get out of this question is unbelievable way to get out of it so this is just as a side note you could be looking places here on the bottom of La manzanoidal also on the top of them he brings up a very very interesting point that at the end of the day Chrysler had to eat Mata how did he matter the first night of pesach they had a they had they had they had stuff from the old stuff so so then why did they knew okay they wanted to eat from the new crap fine but then place it has an interesting Shiloh that I'm not it just it shocked me this question he says why didn't you say mitsa so it pushes off the Israel okay I don't know how it works exactly I guess it works like that so so like okay I need to eat meat so then I'll leave strafe now because I need to eat meat like yes yeah certain certain situations but the word calling fine calling means new for whatever reason they're eating new no no still what I don't know I understand the castle but says I'm saying I'm just I'm a clot there's something I'm missing something seems like there is acidic license in certain a lot of areas but over here it's like us it's like I'm not talking about the terrorist I'm talking in the castle okay anyway but according to the mandarma that says that they waited 14 years for the issu of khadosh to apply why don't they eat right away the first day they walked in there so why'd I have to wait until the second day they didn't need it that's something much much better than food from the ground the silver nation's Chavez they had demand why would you eat anything if you could have them on Rookie's food you don't go to the bathroom afterwards it tastes like anything you want why would I start messing around with with wheat and then and doing this process to it in that process I'm telling you here Yoshi did a whole a whole thing to show how how the hottest works I'll show it in a second so we have a contradiction in the apostles Chavez it can't mean that they they didn't they they ate the man until they got entities Canal at the border they only ate it up to the border so why the ishaling military you can't say they stopped eating it at the border Sharif they were already inherited straw a little bit of a contradiction okay son how does it work s the seventh day of the other there was no more month that's way before they weren't entirety straw the seventh day is 33 days before we were talking about okay so on the seventh day of Arduino zainab that there's famous yard side is that another mace why did the month stop falling down and Die Another because it only fell because of his horse sometimes we don't even know maybe a certain rabbit is lifter and you know my parents is hurt I don't know how it works exactly but when moisture rabbin was Nifty that's it on the spot everybody realized money was in his house but they had leftover man and they kept on eating the small until the 16th of Nissan so Milo that's the shot the shot in the Posse is yes it stopped falling I'll say by the border when they were standing there and then moisture didn't want to go into Israel and said no that's it you're gonna die today okay that's when it stopped but they were eating it even when they were in energy straw because it's two different things one is when it stopped and another thing in the past is when they continue eating it though we have a problem the price will really eat the amount for 40 years they're missing 30 days these these cakes that they took out from Australian they tasted like it wasn't mud but it tasted like one so we have a complete 40 years there's a very interesting Rashi it's a Rashi plea in you know Rashi says that what did the the fish eat when Yono was in his stomach if he didn't digest Yana so what happened to the fish she says he ate the man there's a 16 days missing of man and that's the money ate and how does the 16 days fit into the sugya it's 30 days it's 33 where did the 16 come from upon him the a lot of people say parisha Salman every single day including on Shabbos for the school of parallels it's a big schooler on Shabbos they don't say the filo for perlasa but it's a thing and so actual thing to say oh I just realized Lauren you told me something from Rabbi malinowitz what did he say it's not the Parish of maybe it doesn't look tires what he's not a school so much yeah if you wear a red band doesn't this will happen this is not it increases you'll be talking so we may love it got it okay [Music] yeah the famous gemara that mushroom was Nifty on the day that was born midnight should be shipping with other maze how do you know he's lifter in that day foreign but the Third never mentions how smart he is all the tire mentioned is his medus me this is the most important thing Yeshiva because kishrin is the big thing me this is what the tire emphasized foreign I did five lines very important that's not true that's when I said um foreign on the 10th of Nissan here just to remind the Elam this wonderful here the arm goes through what's what's going on here now it's a little jaggedy okay remember the stones that they found the rock bed for the stones or the Toyota I just thought it was cool the the pillar of water going straight up into Shema even stopped right over there okay great maybe Joseph will fix it make it work quicker this happens right so we're at 10th of Nissan sorry I go back 33 days that we just counted Nissan 10 days of Nissan so 23 days into Adar right let's say you have 29 days moisture so you get to the seventh day of other from Seven from Zain other until the 10th of a Nissan is 33 days works out fine I am 120 years old today yeah the famous uh joke what do you tell somebody on his 120th birthday have a wonderful day [Laughter] there's a there's a couple that that shared the same birthday my wife and I almost have the same birthday same year same almost by a few days off so this is share the same birthday so the wife Wishes the husband she tells him she lives to be 120. so he looks and he says and you should live to be 119. she's what 100 why 119. he says what I don't deserve one year of peace and quiet all right you don't get you want a joke you get this one you'll get it oh you're a doctor [Laughter] a guy goes to a guy goes to the guy goes to the doctor and says Doctor what should I do to live a long life he says first thing get married she's like what that's his goal to live long he says no then you're not going to want to live a long life yeah I told you I told him like so many of us 120 years old today foreign was born so isn't that part of it like one but from here the more you see it's very special that he was Nifty on that thing it's it's a a lot of huh the whole they got some who says oh because he died no I thought I thought [Music] it came in fact it's a special day it's a day that you see that because says I am feeling I'm filling he had slamos this sad to catch flame was a number I'm gonna make sure that you guys on that day oh I got to say this because we have plenty of time but it's a very very important Meister I said this once before but could I to hear it again he was a Bacher and they had a house they rented a house and he realized there's a lot of comets on the roof and he told his friends they got to take care of the comments so good so you spend many hours um getting rid of hummus I think it was a book maybe so many hours but the whole night gets her and he's very worried that the savior is going to come and he's going to fall asleep and the Seder came and he had rejuvenated and he he went with the Seder and everything and Pinko says and let's say if he says from that moment on when he gave that extra push when everybody couldn't do it and he did it and he on with the risk of ruining to say there from that point on he realized a special Aliyah and rochnius and and everything she would do in his life everything changed from that fast forward many years he was killed in an accident and he was buried on low budiga's comets so a few Dylan that came to be menachemaval told the family that shimshan pinkwoods filled his ears because his point of turn in his life it's not the day you're born but the point in turn in life gimmel that day that you decided to start learning that day that he switched his life that was the day he sniffed around you have the new crap you could get rid of the Issa it doesn't last forever president comes if you don't have the imer you're able to eat it if you have Diamond you bring the armor and you're able to eat it's not the strongest or you're allowed to give this crap the new crap to your animal teeth you're just not allowed to eat it so Rashi says what does it mean yes you just said that any Surah Islam this doesn't last forever so what is what does it mean so what it means is that if you're instead of waiting to the test Zionism I could bring the carbon Oiler and that day it's already motor I could I could get rid of this around that day so it's a very light issue again I could give it to my animal I could get rid of this or I could bring your arm it's motor yet so I gotta show you this real quickly you don't have a lot of time but Yoshi did a whole animation here of what it means to bring your armor so three people they go ahead and they with sickles they they take three bundles of this uh barley they put in three boxes mine is a whole arigas over here and you have to get this ready for the carbon so you go and you uh separate the the kernels from the shaft bring it down okay next then you have to sift it and then you do coloring you have to make a color so you put you take the the kernels and you put it on this thing you put a fire underneath and you what is it called in English you roast it and then you have to do Trina oh it's like that's how it's called cleaner okay you put the the kernels in there and you turn the thingy the stone is not turning so so well but the wood is and then you have to add oil and and the frankincense I don't have to bring it anymore because we have it here it is here it is frankincense what it was sifted you didn't see we did the sifting this is the first crap the old crab from this point on then you bring the eimer you're allowed to eat all this to the right and anything that takes root right over here in touch and pay dalid you now let it eat until the following pays off when you're bringing the carbon armor so yeah okay so Kalyan she soon if I take wheat and I plant it together with the gray I can never benefit from it there's no carbon that I could bring and say oh now I'm a lot of eat it I know check this out this possible please there's no way that could be something today and making multi today and he did so since it's so calmering this you're not gonna be March this should apply even in quotes So what's our law here's a nice little thing that he did for us the first three years of a tree this is also by another the fourth year is called revive and on the fifth year you're allowed to eat it so only two of these things apply why because our law according to rashes because you would look at the at the orange or the apple on this tree and say is this apple ever mutter says Rashi that's not what we're talking about the tree is Mother but today so it's not israelum there's no israelam on this tree yes this apple Isle but the tree rationality doesn't like that what do you mean but the apple is awesome okay so it changes they're saying the same thing it's just what you call it and the bottom line is that this tree is mutter after for three years so so it shares similar things to climb but not all of them so it's interesting until now we actually [Music] on his own father [Music] is points out the word is not literal because all misses were before Christ roll whenever Israel matantara so it says means they were annoying they actually did the Mitzvah any mitsu that was done before they went there this role but if he started doing the Mitzvah only once again there's this row anyone what did they start doing when they came in Terrace Israel and climb so I argue on my father my father said that all these things apply all over the world and I argue in him I say no the only planets as well why because they did they didn't have land in the middle they weren't planting anything in the mid there's no oil to climb and khadas and they let only applies energy stroke these two Mitzvahs like you know the principle that we make on shmita if I lend money to somebody and then the seventh year of Smita comes shmita comes he doesn't have to pay me back and getting rid and the slaves go back on your evil so if a slave even the nirta said I wanted to work for you and we poked his ear he leaves sponsored by for all those in need of her for slimo and in honor of my uncle Rebel Hunter Pressman and as his host for a year filled with for all of mdy family foreign this idea that you have to forgive alone when it comes to me that's on the person so Milo that already applied in the mid bar no that's something that should have happened in the mid Bar says we're talking about two different the one that we're familiar with he can't plan on benefit from the fruits and we're talking about the money thing is they go hand in hand when you can't work the field then you have to forgive alone okay so in a time that there's no shemitah before you go on Thursday maybe it's in a place like energy so maybe this idea of forgiving loans and to me there's only energy maybe it only applies everywhere here's the famous picture for our famous artist of Heaven leaving one day too early it's not even you leave too early you pay I should have said it when Bambi got up if you go crazy it's something that applies to the human being it's not it's not something that grows out of the ground or something has to do with the ground oh stop as I heard I heard a muradical line from rabbi friedlander because he's talking in this chuba almost not related to that story but we're coming back we go back home the evidence going back home it's not only thought about this this line that somebody asked why do we do two every single year isn't that weird same thing same at various same three four various again but you said that you'll last you and you said you're going to do true but you said you're doing true and then three days later you're up there and then next year and then next so what are you doing so he said a guy has a yacht and he's it's tied to the to the side and because of the corrosion of the salt he goes and he buys a new a new rope and then after six months he buys another rope so the guy comes over and says what are you doing you just bought a new robe so what are you buying another robe okay if I don't buy another rope Then There Goes My Yacht yes he sometimes you have to repeat the same thing and as a doctor it's a nice thing yes it does make sense to us by looking from the side but this is something we have to do the Khazana says every time we do this so I'm close talking about for those three days yes it only lasts for three days some people ten days some people three months whatever it lasts but at least it lasts for that in a small amount huh that's the real you that's the that's the Wii U I want no we're not halfway through shots let me test on the base no no it's not a test I believe it's not right here come come here say that say that over here Robin yeah sorry you should call it in the land bar it's in and this only applies no special limo that this applies I've let them go out all over the world so then why does it say inert Israel is Manchester when you're able applies energy is when there's no other marriages hold on a second Thanos um all over the world that's why I'm saying it doesn't doesn't make sense to say the bashemta doesn't hold off the gumar here says look there's a dollar here that means this is how we pass skin in civil level all five grains and this is her applies in the time and not at the time of business in our days this is supplies in our days in America Israel baby whether it's a Jewish flower or guy Elvis immediately that day okay but in our days you have to wait till the next day so the suffix oh and then it brings so I brought this whole thing remember they don't even matter it only applies to something that was uh grabbed root before unless you're coming Amy materials so he brings his father are there any other Rush that you don't have to worry about a suffering we're going to get into Sugi action and suffer but at least you know just just eat whatever you want based on The Bachelor you just know that it's based on an isider eraser and what most recently hold and how the passkins all over the world in America our law again so that when the guy said when I asked for yoshin bread and that guy said he didn't know what he's talking about that's it correct you don't tell somebody that what he's asking for Russian bread it's not a humra it's not a shigas he thought it was a Michigan a brisker asking for for something weird no I'm just asking to to to do what the terrorist tells me to do okay the back is making I'm not belittling in the back he's Mako and you could be suffering the bath but you have to know your stuff all right oh sorry now what does it means what does it mean over here this is something they accepted in all countries no it's literally what it means that's how we pass it um okay so we could stop right over here have a wonderful day foreign