Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 37 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Applause] to the guest your name you R from Lakewood New Jersey and you y y i he from New Jersey wow also what a coincidence unbelievable so you finished you ready step in take over sheare right now you are tomorrow tomorrow it's it's not so pous got it okay yeahor is my first day off y from lakwood stepping in what are you laughing hi re stansky I wanted to say thank you for making such a huge difference and impact in our home and in my husband's learning my husband has recently started learning the D with the and since then we have seen a positive change has made in our lives all around bit of back back story my husband lost his mother to cancer bit a bit less than a year and a half ago during the 5 years of our illness as well as the year after passing learning was hard for my husband he was still learning in Kyo but there's something missing he had lost the spark we couldn't put a finger to what was exactly what he needed the sheer has given that back to him I see him excited and dedicated putting his all into it more than I've seen in a long time a long while he's also seeing success in other areas of his learning and F have been giving insight and that direction to the other areas is learning as well in addition there so Wonder able to see the fact that MD has given us so much more in areas that we weren't expecting our two toddlers love to sing to do the da with him and they love to sit with him while he's learning and watch the shear with him the all one especially loves the goat love the goat this is something particularly wonderful that the kids get to see the ab learning what it means to be really dedicated to learning every day with much thanks Mrs M Salam RBS gimmel see here in the share seems famili oh how are you who wrote this email you or your wife no you can't very nice okay so she hasas from you I'm reading B because people don't realize it does a lot in the house and the whole the wife is very proud she might not say it always she might not write these emails but it does gar Rose says Ellie Gman in Ukraine just see the attached picture from a friend leaving um you notice Ellie Goldman catching up on the bus although data scares and extremely uncomfortable buses nothing will stop devoted MD wire saying the words also and the the screen is on at the table but he's blocking it stagging away two hours straight or more I've been your tal since my family I heard about the Shabbat we excited however we saw the prizes we're not sure can make it work we're planning our annual trip to Florida for sukus listen to this he wasn't sure he can make it work and this is coming from a lawyer he's a partner they're planning our annual trip to Florida for sukus to visit family my wife and children had the idea without even thinking twice of not going to Universal Studio Park and not paying for a hotel in Orlando and rather using that money for your program I felt very proud of them to hear that suggestion will therefore remain in the Boke of South Florida are for all of sukus my wife said we should focus on our Rus rather than our gmas another we look forward to seeing rebi in person at the program you're taltz Disney you're sponsoring script to Disney World and you're going to stay here in RBS with that have a lot of sponsors the guy has kids and what about hotels problem that will be Che mark.com that was goody cheer market.com so what are you sp let's see you're sponsoring the the ticket to get inney Universal Studios what what are prices they over 100 bucks no 100 bucks okay that's $1,000 that was your ticket that you could have spent to go to okay you will get it back beautiful beautiful I don't know if you guys were here you were all missing no one was missing yesterday you were missing you were missing and and meni all four of you I was I was very lonely yesterday it was half half a it was very sad so this kid wrote that his his only connection to yish gu he's 15 years old he's a kid from Lakewood his father's like a a and he sent us a picture and the whole thing his only connection is through the da and but he said the most he could put together his $300 how is he going to come he has to come so right away what's your name again my my neighbor from New York that lived right Rob below me Rob he sponsored $200 so every day so now people just GNA send an email so they get sponsored okay very nice Donnie Sherer on a personal deell on a personal I would like to thank you very much for the extra time and effort for that you put in for the old folk like me out there in I started the D with and I'm loving every sh as I no longer work I wanted to know if you thought doing an extra D starting from BR working my way to K is a good idea you think it's overdoing it at the risk of a burnout uh well so my thought is what's that thing called it's a ferris whe thank you is a ferris whe soever you get on you get off no I'm fix just recently did a because he got on at a certain what was it and you finish a you start K you finish K there's no difference start BR or starting in shavas now I do recommend adding a little bit so for instance you could go backwards maybe one or two start from G or if you want to add you could do let's say Su for to finish Suka forus it's a beautiful thing to go all the way back to bras not 100% recommended our people where is he he's not here today he does he's whatever okay Fork gang does bro a lot of people start from Brock he's already maybe an aan okay just rather thought if person puts five fingers and according to pulls out five separate groups of ha while thinking of the Six Million Shas of the Holocaust be over 30 million of various yes exactly well over there maybe he's talking about five yeah yeah P just to prove a point tonight I started at 10 p.m. listen to this our boy say he's older folk he said he started at 10 p.m. and I've just finished with a few coffee breaks and it's now 2:05 a.m. with every minute spent learning toyra I wish I could have done 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days no I'm trying to go low I said no no no you get you got you got what I said you got what I said how much are you sponsoring T not that big talker how much are you sponsoring I understand you're a big H but say how much how much are you on there are you on mdy monthly I'm G to check it out there's going to be a bigum tomorrow if you're not on there you better go on right now call MIT says any mitvah that's dependent in what does mean so here in in Hebrew means it could also mean the land the Earth so any Mitzvah so if you say it's the land and that's what the gamar is going to come up with come out with that the land means any Mitzvah like all the things that dependent in the ground [Music] what if it's not dependent in the land like what like shabas like anything else bris it's not t in it's not t in the ground so we we're moving from that women are women to to mitzah in general there are Mitzvah that are dependent in the land and those mitzah that are dependent in the land are only and the mitz that are not dependent in the land is not dependent in the land you wear because you wear so there's exception to the rule these two things AR the is of you can't have any benefit from the fruit of a tree the first three years and taking two species of vegetables and putting them together that applies also in even though it's dependent on the land we just had a a rule that anything that's dependent in the ground is only no as well even the of so what's Kash here have a beautiful uh picture actually works on it some some of these new pictures are are AI but um a seru of AI it's taking Ai and first of all to get the right primes to get certain things going in AI It's a combination of I I don't know this one particular this one I'm assuming is AI SL his work because it's not like he put in the primes in out picture it takes many hours it goes like this as you're going to see according to most the r and all the this argument but according to applies in our days even in and it's so what is it so basically this is uh okay so any Wheat that took root last yearim when when PES comes the second day of PES CL goes grabs some barley cuts it and brings it as a carbon bring a carbon the second day of PES and that is matter all the wheat that grew beforeand anything that takes root immediately after that day becomes user until the next p so in America because they're so quick with growing the wheat and harvesting it and using it so a lot a lot of their flour is from the new flour they're not using the old flour they're very quick they're able to grow it chop it down process it and make pizza out of it within the 3 four months so what happens is right around sukus time becomes a huge problem in America you're going into the store and you're eating pizza you don't know if you're over is rice or not now according to the B it's not so a lot of the people in America there was on the and it's a it's a it's a big shil why and it goes back to Europe they didn't have flower and they didn't know what to do and certain coolas but what beer the beer is a big problem if you're a big Beer Drinker big problem in America now so one of my pet peeves I had a trauma when I was a kid I walked into one of the famous bakeries in in Brooklyn and I asked them is your bread Yash orash and there's a a certain individual in in line and he made fun of me he said like he's making fun that a like what's your problem you're an idiot for being on it not knowing that it's most likely and that a lot of people took a COA to it but if you're going to take a coola at least know that it's a coola and that it's not the popular belief the most hold that at least know that don't be to make fun of somebody that's mockit on it today it's a lot different today most places are able to be mid onos even in even in America it's very very different now there are whole communities of people that have these books and you go around with the book you see that this date you can buy the the cereals with this date and and everything in the store cuz it all has dates and they know exactly when the the new production is done with the new flower but it's a whole par here it's not such an issue because people are very mock on it and I don't think it's possible even to get over here unless you're buying American Products right so we buying American cereals noodles what they are moit over here okay but more in America without even knowing I think a lot of people are going that way what it's a more Vis right this is the right here even with produce that came from America even with flower that came from America I'm saying right so hear this here the big in America in England is is or not there is a b but the B is arguing that's what you have to understand he's arguing okay fine and again why exactly he was make this whole thing why because of the the Mish they couldn't they they couldn't survive like that but anyway that's a different thing was the one that started being make really why that's what got into trouble with the going maybe seriously he start why what was the reason because they couldn't exist CU they couldn't exist without it's a cool okay saying you have to know the history know the uh why they did it in maybe specific places and does it doesn't apply today in America you could exist without it anyway I don't know anybody after my whole drush about this that okay I'm gonna start I'm a I was never M on this in my life and now today I'm going to start in you I don't think that ever happened but I got to put it out there people should know at least what they're dealing with that deal yeah but one is the dir R and one is not it's like the it's like that battle of of of milk that everybody was stealing from in Yesa and then until he put a sign that's time they stop you got to know differenti between the and the the even what no it's also cool oh I'm going to talk about it the very very important huh I should I really should I promised I prom slimy SL but he said it be he said it as a told him he could eat 10 minutes okay let's go ruin told you that and that's what you eat you're not going to be tomorrow you're not I'm not either unfortunately so what's the simple shot here not oh so I have to show you this thing just real yeah so here came up it comes up and then it goes down and then there's there's the new crap okay the point is that the takes everything up until that point it makes a m and everything past that point I today no no you can't bring a carbon so it goes by the day the second day of PES is matter everything before that from the second day of is a whole new calendar says we went through this when we explained the it says coming into we know is I I M feel bad next time somebody remind me what I should have done is I don't know if would have played ball no yesterday when I was talking about F I should have had everybody put on their look how many are in the table put it on let's see if you're because then somebody came over to me beny came over to me middle shop he say look around half the people here didn't listen to what you said it's still on their forehead right the CH is worse than the right the 100% it's somebody asked me this morning how many emails did you get about your you none Benny had to bring it up says in the like this it's interesting if you have a firstborn donkey you have to redeem it you have to take a sheep and say this sheep is instead of my donkey and give that sheep to the cenne and if you don't have a sheep and if you don't feel like doing it what do you do you take a knife and you chop off its head here is how you chop no not this is the SE they took a sheep look the Reb is holding the sheep in his hand he's going to give it to the Cen and there's a donkey all adorned with beautiful things this is a Mitzvah you could do it says that it has to do with coming into so has nothing to do with you coming to say look everybody wears rash says many so obviously has nothing to do with this is the that we said in the there's a on the like these are things that apply in as well anything that has to do with what are the things says all these things have to do with the ground they only apply in now we said coming up on I heard once so he says there's another mitzah that's in and that is sleeping in theka even though it's to sleep in the and have to sleep in the but for whatever reason is not so so maybe this year because we're so close to suas me included uh we should be a little bit more mocked and sleeping the Suka there a lot of excuses it's m and it's this and it's that and I live next to the park and they there's teenagers there then entire night screaming and yelling not that they do it every night but especially on so so we'll be more a little bit more M and another thing that we discuss a lot but unfortunately you you probably remember I don't remember there was a RAB P told me a few times and I asked I forgot to ask him again walking on a treadmill are you the Mitzvah of walking in DAV what are you say say no way you're in the same exact SP going like this I think he said you're m i I don't remember okay is likeing no Hey listen riding your bike and walking it's two different things I'm not he said it's over here in on a treadmill said by the way if anybody wants there's a place next toia that you could just buy an olive tree from this guy and he'll take care of it and he'll do everything for you and all the MIT go to you the Arla the whatever whatever is n he'll do some climb for you he'll no he won't do clim whatever they'll take care of it for you and the same tree sells to many many people I think no just there's a guy like that find find him he's next to F somewhere says how do you know there's a difference between a person and a look at at this it's unbelievable every word here is another another so what does that mean means things that we don't know it's a you just look at the you don't understand what's you don't see the you don't know behind the scenes doesn't say it in the POs you have to accept it that that's what got from these are the ones these are learning to to learn to we're gonna have a whole Su later on about learning to in order to do in order to be in order to do that you learn the to do so when you learn the you get double says the glass in Black Z this is to do it to shake the to sleep in the you think that the word means look at the end of the on [Music] Earth so there was a guest here yesterday who said that it happens to be that this is a par that he laned one par in his entire life why because I don't know maybe LED what I understood was that he prep somebody said he's going on a vacation in a few months or whatever he prepared an Al I learned a few times it's for me it's extremely difficult took hours upon hours I don't know how they do it the yeah he prepared a little a little alah here one week another one another then he came and he knocked it outgas the guy that does mikra every does a does a one alah another Al Another alah another Parish another Parish at the end of the year he has a whole he does One D at a time 2,000 times in a row 2,700 you have the whole sh versus versus that's the unbelievable power versus the guy who wanted to leave town he collected money I said a similar story but not that collected a lot of money and he goes to the train station he says I need to get out of here what can I do with all this money so I says how much do you have okay if if you use the money for for a business class ticket you can only go two stations if you use it for a regular coach you go to to the big city he says what's what's business he says oh this Everything music the this the recliner giant cheer I want to go on that I never did I want to go kid sir he goes after two stops he gets off and he looks around and there's snow everywhere there's not a single building there's not a single person it was just the in between stop now he's stuck there you go you take the coach you go a little bit one do at a time one at a time at the end of the year you got at the end of the seven years you have a whole how I get to it because no he said he learned this par so we got a contradiction is it all over the world the Torah said it's everywhere the Tor said no it's in only now look at the next says the now this I think is very important look at rash I don't remember this so much we say it every day we're supposed to say it every day in and one of the things what does that mean anybody ever thought about we know what the next POS says you should destroy all it's one of the 13 rules in the because the following POS tells you that you should destroy all even where in America even in so I take that and I bring it to the P before and anything that's to do with me personally not with the ground it's in as Welly it's and if you if you if you rule if it's not going to put you in trouble but that's not get get to the it says the besides what wasar coming to say that is also or is not what what was he saying so at the end of the day we know that but goes through the motions what does that mean he said that's is also that are also even though it shouldn't be because it's part of the ground it should be like doesn't apply it says means after Kush and right there was seven years that Ka just walking wals in there and everybody went up to their apartment and got an apartment Israel they had a fight for seven hard years and after they fought for seven hard years I'm assuming they fought with themselves for seven years no man maybe that's an exaggeration but I get this you get that you should get that maybe this first you have to divide the then you have to divide the family divide this it's a whole AC right seven of of kush of was telling me the the famous thing that they they couldn't conquer a kirat saer so until K promised that whoever ker is going to marry my daughter and he and he conquered it so is whether what does it mean whether he actually physically conquered or he brought back 3,000 that were forgotten he said theot is that every part of is against ConEd part of the to and the only way you could inherit is if you have that TOA if you don't have that to you can't inherited so once he brought back the 3,000 alas so they were able to just run in there and inherit so I told them oh and this is this but for the V it's okay that's why it took them seven years to conquer seven years it's joke don't seem nice on a joke we know that that started 100 years ago literally 100 years ago to the day on that he comes and he says and says that is also in says by the way that if you hold of like the like the ra all the that say that so if you make an out of a pizza pie that was baked in a in in a store that sells pizza you're not it's not because you hold it that it's R to eat so it's not food says [Music] that okay maybe's saying the opposite perhaps the word means everywhere or the exact opposite the opposite everything that we just said just the opposite that because the word means what we said a second ago in now no means after so why is he saying the beginning of the M says that is only in even is only according to so what what did me to say who is it so this we have to see we're going to go a little bit into see and then you're G to bring says I'm just skipping around because we're late so is not important for us but you should just know that many corbas that you bring you bring it together with I think in English like b or whatever it's called forget the English word it's not a good word you bring wine you bring oil together with your carbon maybe people are not familiar with it but it goes together with the animal you bring they used to sell it in the engl they had a special store you could buy wine buy the oil you don't have tole it so he holds I'm going to see exactly he says that the word means after and it doesn't mean everywhere doesn't mean all over the world mean after so basically the argument is whether or not we're going to see in a second whether or not a guy has a little bum in his backyard this like one of my favorite pictures from the dart guy has his own private B does he bring a carbon with on it in the time that you're allow to have a b does he bring the or not we're going to see in a second the famous It also says so [Music] what this is also okay so let's remember this for later he's going to use it again you have a a lighter Mitzvah what's a lighter Mitzvah so in the he brings a whole list of things he says first start it starts with that's how but then on top of that worse than that is and worse than that is and then worse than that is then you have and then you have shabas which is the worst and then on top of that you have people that don't even go into G but if you look at the thing and the worst is shabas explains that person has a fish store it says fish on it and when once he takes off the sign that's it then it's not a fish store anymore says shabas is out a lot of stores in America I know in America I don't know about it says that's how you tell I'm a Jewish don't say or whatever that's your sign once you take that off you're saying I'm not Jewish anymore I have noas to you guys so okay not going to go into the next because that's we're late so certainly shabas that's most should you should be you should be to keep shabas in explains that so it's that's says no is everywhere so we just explained the whole his argument is they have to bring what's going on here if you look back at the it says in the it says two words here maybe because it says those two words that's why he argues but otherwise he doesn't argue maybe you need these two two things be but if just says be it's not enough okay we just turned to B for all those in need of and in honor of my uncle as for year filled with for all the MD family don't forget to go to MD monthly when you go home now mdy monthly.com $100 a day is the recommended amount huh the she is not over but you can leave any place so now thear says like this any place that does say these two things and that includes here you'll see in it also says the words then it's only after you only once you conquer and in other words after the 14 years says if you just established you need two words you need asking it's only one word not a I need two say no he was saying one in addition to that I have another first of all you didn't understand what I said I said you need in order to go to be you need both the word you ask me from that we already said you don't need anything because shabas I could get away with the it's the most of all of all so what is so unfortunately I didn't have Yoshi this morning but just very very Pion when we have a we have a question what does the word mean when you come into you should do this something that you didn't do before yeah obviously it's Mish it's hard to read even once I know what the is then I understand the word means something completely different if you look in the bottom says means when you conquer means everywhere you live how do they get to it because according to means that there was no never brought in theid so is a big when you come to you're going to start doing you're going to start bringing uh you're going to start bringing what but according to Rea there was already there was already in bar so what do they do they started bringing something new what's you have to say something different is going to change but already brought it in the midbar what change what Chang is that if you have a bum in your backyard you also bring it that's what changeed beforeand in the midbar you didn't do that oh so once once you know that then the word what's mean I already means everywhere and according to means when I get then then that's when it starts he learns it from the other from it says the word then I learned one of them means once you conquer and settle so that's typical for the Torah and that's beautiful if the Torah says it one time then I take that one time and I learn from everywhere to everywhere the word b means when I come and I conquer he says no that's not good we had this a bunch of times we had this yesterday we had a few D ago that what this idea that everybody's used to already when the T says the same twice what the t is telling you is don't learn out to anywhere else otherwise all the to needed to do is tell it to you once and I could learn from the whole the whole to from that one place why did repeat itself to tell you da in these two places if the T says it three times it's even worse only these three places so he says listen there's another place a second place [Music] called also [Music] says now how do you get out of that we explained if there's a NE it's necessary for the T to say it in two places why is it necessary cuz each one I wouldn't know without the other one so it's not to tell you only these two places nowhere else then it's these two places and everywhere else so I need a what's makes lot sence logically think about it common sense you have a tree you have produce right now it's giving you produce shouldn't you go say thank you what are you waiting 14 years for so the say no wait 14 years don't do it now it's a big it only said I need a king when do I need a king right now today I'm in War I need a general I need somebody to lead me I'm fighting all these nations all these G over here what are I going to do so I think you should take a king right now don't wait 14 years no no wait 14 years so he doesn't hold this oh you should think right away so say and that's it nevertheless even though the king's D is to conquer nevertheless it has to be after y Yesa and so that's you have to wait 14 years for a king I need him today I need somebody to lead me no wait 14 years certainly if it only said it by a king I would think where everybody knows here's the P I think I think I have it no oh is immediately as soon as you come immedi nobody argues with that so think is like something you give to the both are something give the it should be immediately we can't stop here how we going to stop here oh you know what we have a tomorrow let him deal with it [Music] is different have to wait 14 years have a wonderful day wow