Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 36 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys I welcome to all the guests hi welcome to the guest not in the booth in the booth I don't like him what's your name why is it from where from Glasgow I came all the way from Glasgow to see you Glasgow Glasgow for real you too simulation wow do you watch in Glasgow or of course really are you the only one yeah really yeah so we're all the way oh it's unbelievable we have to do like a map the guy said we have to do a map did I show that email I never showed that one a few difficult guys I actually put it in but I didn't have time he said he does maps for a living and he wants to show where everybody so now we have somebody in Scotland High Valley I love the journalist character used technically we in the media professional Bali lotion Hara but I hope it's always little yellowish you do have a professional report in the shares the next time you use the character in an illustration I'd be tickled pink if you wanted to use my face big fan and looking forward to continue tired of learning from you thank you for all this you're in best Sam Circle Harris Pirates where is he is that here today I mean literally I mean yesterday we had the the guys from Tosh sitting over here we have the Harris reporter it's unbelievable okay hello everybody with reference to what you mentioned last week that we're coming on to the halfway mark and shots I think you got it slightly wrong you said it was but this is off by one Ahmed it's great to have a good Mark is this coming Wednesday on that on the Turning of the page so I hope that you managed to get in on Wednesday and fall even further and further behind each day especially oh special shout out to the sponsor to turning the dove for this amazing Milestone I see these are shots because I ask that you add them to the template you use the reason why I'm reading this is because I realized that last night with all the balagon I forgot to do this shots I know but it's Nitro you have to make it up okay we'll have to do it a different day you often mentioned eight minutes but have you ever heard of the eight minute inserta this was invented by my kids who were scrolling through the media files on WhatsApp looking at your slide when I asked them what they were doing they told me they were looking through all the pictures of the missile they complain that it's hard for them to know where they were in shots because only that appears in the slides but not the micefta see attached guide and how to get the media files on WhatsApp laughing why since kind regards Ezra Abrahams all the way from another remote place Australia as a birthday gift to my wife so no no the reason why I'm reading this one also because I'm not exaggerating if I tell you that we probably got like 200 emails in the last two days but this one because I was just talking last night how if you go with a bio that he says you have to buy your wife jewelry and uh and clothing it's very expensive so I said I personally hold not like a bio but here's a great way I'd give my wife a Daffy Amy I'll give her a sheer I'm sure she'll be very happy with that something she had been asking for for a long time that I joined that fioni it went over pretty well he says I did not have the motivation so I discovered you share I made a kabbola to keep up Lena this year uh uh oh and I think he's maybe having to what we said yes a tough Shin paid dollars the year it doesn't say like that it says thicker tough Shin paid dollar oh I'll take reduction pay download Western hey first off is super super important I don't do SNY micro currently but I decided I'm down to start how can I enjoy the MD the eight minute daf one he wants to do the schneid maker and amen well last year I actually said I timed it it was like practically I think five minutes in Aaliyah and if you're an American and you read really slow it could be eight minutes fine eight minutes is there any chance I may be able to get one of The Shining micros Forum if possible would be super president thank you so much so I don't know I mean Miranda cash that he wants to do it I don't know what's going on with that maybe yes maybe not Izzy bachner another email that's important for today as you know I've been with you since of course I know how would I not know those were my third time through shots and I was struggling Yeshua was recommended by Moshe Alpine and I've been in it since as you probably remember I was in RBS for the share a few times and even brought somebody any clock yeah I remember I also I also made it to Kew Garden Hillshire however this summer in geethan66 I fell off the wagon he remembers the exact off I try to push myself but just couldn't keep up I didn't remember the advice you give and jump back on when you started condition I'm also catching up at that in two days after him keeper because the reason why I'm reading it is because one of the greatest killers of Lafayette museum today like Roshana so many people fall off the bandwagon and the trick they're probably not listening now because they fell off the bandwagon but if you know somebody fell off the bag wagon you gotta skip ahead skip ahead the coil is not sponsored by anybody families Lego New Jersey because Toyota and afters are the best for fourth name is who's waving your father so you see Robbie David is in the center literally the center thing but Robert David wave your hand a second so we can see who you are no oh there you go that's him he's saying hello to his son live he's sitting right over here you're valding your voice join Zoom it's a good valedict experience it's a live kind of things it's even better than the live share why because he could text each other and make fun of them I could cheer middle it's a whole to give out huh Nobody Does it here so that's what I'm saying is so Danny fine Tucker that's what he's saying that's it yeah I know you weren't part of this year right now that's why I had to wake you up we thought we're doing uh sponsors how can you not pay attention every dedicated to my personal hero inspiration Mr Ellie shlito no whatever I'm not going to read everything you wrote in honor of the great fathers chapter and the special sponsor today he had a grandchildient somebody sent me an article that there were 97 babies born in charity and Roshana 97 just in one hospital and this is maybe one of them I don't know yeah one said you saw that also one set of twins okay the art of the month is voice they were holding exactly we're going to be holding though don't fool yourselves it's not going to last long actually today is one of the easiest especially if we start from the mishnah it's literally super super easy the first part is almost a complete khazura of what we had yesterday just in different words the ideas are the same so to me if you were paying attention yesterday this is super super easy all right by Omar so holding the flamingham all the way on the top we're talking about this is Sir to pull out your hair in pain when you're grieving over a dead person it's also to pull your hair out it's called a car it's also a certain flick the wounds to yourself to scratch yourself with the tool or with your hand that's called srita says issy that this to to scratch yourself but to pull your hair out doesn't apply to a woman and there's three you hear about the there's three reasons this is not actually here you just get on your phone this is a sheer laugh all you want there's people that the middle especially in America then like it's normal to go through your emails and stuff I don't know crap exactly but okay I guess when I was there I also used to do it maybe so now it seems so weird because you don't see anybody doing it like in regular shows that you don't really see it but some of these Americans they come in they don't realize that they're like back in America literally going through emails answering back fourth text messages whatsapps watching videos all the things that come in and get value like hello okay huh how's this Oh you mean he's close they're going through uh sending the clips the shorts right multi that's what you're doing I saw what you were watching over there I can tell you what was on your screen also okay don't because bro also sees be careful him so anyways the strip shot them why would this he say that it doesn't apply to a woman one shot is because it says in the Posse Hashem you're my children but it says Bonham you're my sons so Mela the gamma is going to talk about bottom children but it's literally Sons now I buy all my we have two more shut them I'm buying Rover foreign so this is literally similar to what we had yesterday there's something called just today I became curious to find out how many Shoppers are there we know yesterday we had passed they're not that many they're very unique when the words match up and because said these are the words do you have to match up these words so bio he decided on his own sort of that it must Behar teaches this why because Abba has nothing else to learn from it he knew the Kabbalah that this is what do you learn with it has to do something oh so must tell us is that a woman who Yanks her hair out during a funeral during Shiva whatever it is she's not over one is talking about not corroboration past column okay so it's again like I said this is the same exact story as yesterday there's five took him in the beginning of pericofalev but yeah tells us that are coming up maybe a guy understands it's all art not to the daughters of iron to the sons of iron you must deal with her bury her even though your Cayenne become Tommy that Allah also applies to a woman Clan she must bury her sister hey the fifth posok says Corporation so a body says don't rip your hair out is referring to binay Aaron possible hey are together it's one parisha so possible tells us talking about men only men have the sister not women foreign now once I see this by beneiro and by kohanim so I'm going to take it backwards remember we had a different thing is talking about every Jew we're all children of academic or even Israel and it says just like over there is talking about Akai and it doesn't apply to a woman so too by Israel it doesn't apply to women that's Xavier now through four lines though but wait a minute you are by a whole that all five took him the whole thing forget five so even more everything is talking about this uh departure starts off referring to only the sons of iron and then all these alums that happen afterwards are only talking about men if that's the case it's talking about the entire parishion why does it don't have to say anything don't say yes very very simple right if the tire tells me that a a Cayenne woman whose husband has many more misses than regular women's husbands and she's part of this clan of kohanim they're at a different level they have more Mitzvahs and she is allowed to pull her hair out at a lavaya there's noisopher so certainly a simpleton woman a regular Israelis also doesn't have that is Sir so why is why do you need Xavier show for that I buy what am I going to do because it is apply it to the daughters of the Quran name you swallow the culture can certainly Israelis Union so mamish word for word like we had last night plus a gimbal is a problem it starts off saying talking about the sons of Aaron but then possible says that he's supposed to bury a woman who's never married that was never married you have to bury her who has the barrier the brother the sister everybody has a barrier so it's a positive commandment it's a Mrs I say bury her do not do this do not do that it's already not talking about men veneer and possible Aaron and then possible comes and and stops it there's a there's a hard stop so whatever happens after gimmo it has no connection to possible gallops I don't know that it's talking about the sons of iron so so you have Xavier's shovel you don't have a good shovel but say that Pastor Gilmore made a stop is a problem what's his problem he learned in Haider that is and I need to know I need to do something with it so I understood what do you do with it you learn that a woman who rips her hair out out of pain from a mace she's not high no maybe it's something else about you the world foreign a person magically ripped out five different parts of his hair so you think it's one action it's one pull in five different places one carbon hello each and every one if you weren't here last night I said over very interesting statement he says that if a person has cavana while he rips his hair out for the Six Million that died in the Holocaust his high of 6 million are various that's what he says okay I'm from one one action hype six million okay so now by the way what's your name Sadiq from Step nine Bill Schmidt from Staten Island you're not the guy that was out there you don't look familiar there's a guy that remembers the position guy giving out Mars it's not an island I showed a picture it wasn't you okay send regards to the dress you know that would address no okay you get to know a good guy huh yeah at the same are you gonna come to the Sea Master come sit over here what are you doing all the way back there okay it's usually on that side but that side is taking something now look at this possible it says three words over here they shouldn't rip their hair out of their heads since it says you shouldn't scratch yourself cause inflict uh right in the positive one of them Hashem over there it says so think that this is pulling the hair out is only between the eyes look at the parcel it's over there on the bottom bottom of the family says it says between your eyes so think that if you pull your hair out from this side over here you're not over it has to be between the eyes right over here foreign [Music] foreign [Music] is teaching us that a woman is Potter maybe Congress is telling us where is the halach of karma where are you pulling the hero from five times if you put let's say um that stuff I used to use to shave the cream so rather you take five you put on your finger five creams and you go like this and you yank it out so now you have five different crickets five times says if you're gonna shave you should shave with that cream because there's no tire there's no blades no you don't get into any issues of Shaving machines and it's not whatever okay it's not a it's not it has to be like we learned yes it has to be like a tire has to be a piece of metal or something that that you use for shaving and is matchless but cream not if anything but he calls it samap mothers I think he calls it I forgot his lotion and uh maybe he says he shouldn't use either okay maybe I'm mixing it up on the whole head like between the eyes so two you have the highway so too Israel is I need this very shovel to teach us all these Allah and not to tell me that a woman is partnered from her so what is the body doing he says actually has two zero shops the extra hay as you see over here in black and underline that's another Xavier Show versus rashibo to talk about women Nifty shots that teaches us that a woman is Potter from pulling out her hair over a mace we had tanakami yesterday that says it doesn't apply to women it says I hope everybody knows this is Apostle it says between your eyes we learned yesterday a whole extensive about Mississippi as my grandma and where do we learning from to fill in just like fill in it's a Mississippi she's my grandma you don't wear to learn Chavez women are Potters so it may look just like it's villains just like it's villain a woman is popular so too and she does carha when she rips her hair out she's also Potter foreign says this one doesn't learn to hate foreign we're not learning out from villain the opposite we're learning how to fill in from karha where do you put your children where is so the Quran they put it literally between their eyes right over here I saw a person like that literally like this maybe it's a Mars maybe but it was literally right over here but because we learn from that has to be from your here what are you pulling out you're not pulling out your forehead you're pulling out here that grows over here so my male filling has to be where your hair is and if it's a little bit past that foreign [Music] so let me just I I'd like to demonstrate for the Oilers uh public service uh where is it okay this guy for instance absolutely not yet so not yikes at all look at it it's on his forehead not but no no no button you're not yours [Music] stop stop stop it doesn't matter if you lost your hair it's here it doesn't grow over here if a person is bald it's where his hair used to be I'm putting on the thrill right now not for the midst of filling just for demonstration purposes only so I don't have to make a bra so this is like Korean maybe right over here lower like this I don't want to ruin my YouTube like this okay good that's one now is this kosher or not oh so if you get rid of this show for a second I have a very high uh I don't want to tell the island about this but it's all I have to put it all the way up here so for me to be yikeso the the front part has to be where you're here starts if you go like this you have to put your finger like this take your finger and if you feel here before you feel you're feeling you're good unless you're bald but if you feel fill in and then you feel here you should know that even though it's this much past your hairline you're not yaita and the people that go their entire life wearing film like that and they never weren't feeling in their life and every time they make a bracha it's a broccoli vatala so it's good to go to people it's probably better than going like this it's probably better to go like this you know like pull it back I think I'm just going to continue wearing this for the rest of this year it's gonna be what which one the one up here oh yeah I can't make a brother what should race first did everybody get it do you get it now if it's a little bit past the hairline a little bit past you're not yours now just to prove it to you because I looked it up this morning it says like this in in the mishaburo you're not gonna be able to read it but it's in uh if you want to look it up it's good it's good Victoria purposes so this it brings our gemara today the gambino is [Music] I don't know what's going on here where it starts to grow over here and a lot of people fall to this they make a mistake you hear this Elvis foreign foreign every part of it the front part of it has to be where the hair is you'll see literally people's beards and everything fill them down like an image past what's shot so you what they need to do is make the the knot Tighter and and sometimes if they're not it's too loose they have a problem it's a sad thing is don't pay attention to somebody has long hair oh it's mushroom for me a lot I have long here it comes down to half of their forehead you don't put your feeling with your hair is where your trip is from the roots from the roots not where your hair is now listen to this what I don't know how big the children were maybe very small to film but two tones worth now if you put on your foreign he could go his entire life says this is a man who spent so much time going to show every day in the morning so much time putting onto villain and he puts it in the wrong place his entire life he didn't wear it villain you just made a broker if you put in the wrong place as if it's in the actual pouch of the villain not in your head right away you have to put it back and whether or not you have to make another broadcast a different story says tomorrow I could use a good drinks now everybody should have Mama meaningful fast before it becomes so again yesterday we had a dress uh this he says had I know that a woman pulls her hair out she's not haive I like this picture better I hope nobody knows this guy okay I try to do it in a way that you can't tell who he is I just found this on the style I'm picturing the internet if I care this was in a this was in a place on a website that was trying to tell you how to put on film who was trying to be my kazak villain and they put a picture like this I don't have a club okay what no no it wasn't it was telling you put on Phil and it's trying to encourage nine from people to put on children and this is the picture they put up so anyway have completely differently or buyer has another limo we learned from villain right so what do they both do the word Bonham that I'm learning Bonham and not bonus beautiful there's like a I got it though no that's it from here on out the simplest dolphin shots when you act like a child at him Bonham then you are hashem's son if you don't act as a as a son then you're not considered a son and we like your mayor foreign no matter what a Jew does no matter what he does you're always considered a son there's a song about this what really it's a beautiful it's a beautiful line to say yeah you're foolish good light plug just put it away light plug even for the good things my name is Paula maima you're foolish Sons bomb these are sons that have no loyalty the safri says on this possible are people that don't say Amen they don't say Amen you know when a person doesn't say I mean when he talks they're in kaddish I couldn't believe it I was in shock a lot of people say well in my show is like that but Shana on rosh hashan I saw people talking during class I was like wow that's unbelievable come all the way here and spend all this time guys and what I'm serious when you talk during cadized you don't realize what's going on everybody's saying another very important thing is and this time I'm throwing this out there there's some people that did a terrible Avera let's see them house shops or Worse terrible elevator whatever it is everybody in their own Ave Vera we all did terrible Affairs so some people get the scars and get depressed I did such a terrible thing when I'm gonna be from now I'm gonna do the rest of the tire it doesn't make sense I'm such a bad guy you are because children Michael everybody it's there a Miriam the the bad guys the real bad ones reason s this is the worst of the worst the biggest to say I don't believe in you I believe in this piece of wood over here peso they believe in a getchka and akushboo calls them bonim it's a you know if we are children then we're children if we're avoid them if you're a mela so if you're our father we're children if you're male up to them we're Evan so one thing that's for sure that I Lama is at the end of the day every father even a father just take a simple example father as a kid that went off to there yeah no matter what the kid did no matter how many tattoos and how many this and how many of that and how much trade he had in front of you at the end of the day when he does chuva you accept him as if nothing happened but if that kid goes and destroys other kids the other kids in the family he chepes them and it's not that might not have a Michaela that's a problem so if a person is is nice to other yiddin and he and he treats his children all children if you're going to take this whole group of children say oh they're Nazis and they're this and they're that then you're not treating children like children they're all his children that's one uh you have to treat every year like again then if you don't even says okay come back but if you're gonna be the children what what are you saying correct but okay yes he's saying also Hare them our children 100. uh yeah depending on who you what what angle you're looking at exactly they they look this way at us we look this way at them then in between looked that way but there's a lot of period in classroom it's only that this hasidos is is garnished because my rep is the best it's every group to the group okay how about uh instead that I should say to them instead of me saying you are not my nation you are my sons my volume what did he add with this because he's an idiot he does have various because he's okay he's a son but once he he loses his loyalty he goes with another getchka let me gosh okay maybe sorry not just loyalty but don't have a desire Management Group on them this morning when I was learning and I was thinking to myself as a father that has that have I have a son that's struggling so [Music] and when he comes back basically the day comes back everything is muscle everything but not only that I have to myself maybe that's shot in the gamara that says that fellow say they can be more in America according to one cheater right it was because when that son comes back the Hano is that much greater a regularly your son is doing well you have sons are doing well everything's good okay it's great but this guy that you you don't know if you should lose hope not lose hope and then he comes back he's like wow calm it's like he comes to the top you have what I'm saying I hope nobody has what I'm saying okay foreign no even after the Zorro you can do chuva you take it back you become a balchuva and Hashem forgives now these are things that women are not involved in so we have pictures here for everything Smith has when you have a carbon and you're supposed to put your full weight on the carbon or if it's late okay that new voice on the carbon and you make you say some sukum snoofa is this we're we're going to talk about a site that this is a saita but many times you bring a carbon you bring a milk you do a tanufa you go up down right left and it happens to be that we learn it's not that we learn from a little of but we learn Lula from nuva this idea of going like this with the with the carbon that that's what we do you know I see yesterday I said look this is going to be a year that little live unfortunately is their abundant We're not gonna have it there is a little bit because the first day is Shabbos but the first day we're gonna have the rise of simcha and I'm hopping today we are going to have the rice is going to come I'm going to say make those that these pictures work I'm going to ask you a simple question what side of the Miss bayach do you do agosha you take the flower and you touch them as bad anybody remember what side Southwest why because we had this picture and everybody remembers the Southwest the mountains is a short picture but it works no at least for this time o'clock I don't know if anybody else remembered it so gosh as you take the the flower whatever it is where was that oh this one okay so you take the flower they pour the flour into the bowl this is by the soil and they take the from the bowl you pour into another Bowl so first he this is kamitza which we're going to talk about and it goes there did I miss oh I might have missed the ghost of this way hold on maybe it's this one here this is he takes the ball and he brings it all the way to the southwest corner and he touches the misbeth with the bowl I got you but midsize we just saw you're supposed to put your hand in straight not like that illustration but straight in take three fingers worth and that's your committee that's your middle that's your carbonara is something like this where the the client takes the a piece of the animal that the whatever parts of that one puts it onto the um Malika is how you Chef a bird and basically you have to grab the bird in a very special way the wings go here and then you bend the neck over and with one finger and with the thumb you cut the the two Simone so there's no economics only if you do that outside the basement it's this is to receive the blood here's a picture of a coin doing the shrito with a knife it's hard to see but there's a golden vessel if you look by the by the kind who's wearing the bugada the red he's there's a golden vessel on the ground he grabs the blood of the carbon with the vessel that's the sprinkle the blood hairstyle like a dogma of like you take the the your finger you go like this you sprinkle happens to be that after we learned myself this Yuma which was probably my favorite myself though you get such a great understanding so much better than what we had before we understand we're in Keepers when you come to your keeper a lot of people wrote to me Anthony Kipper when we learned that year they literally said they do this they do that if you didn't learn Yuma you know what's flying yeah it stood up now we understand he sprinkles the blood over here and then it goes around over there and so the homosexual it's connected to learn Yuma I'm not talking about not sure but all these things are bad enough women don't do this and if a woman accepted by herself to grow her hair to be coming to zero so Shima nifa is when she brings a carbon she does the hanafa and we're gonna see says Gamora this is super easy women don't do it new voice how do you know that men bring in touch numbers the son of Aaron should do the communities um places are just very interesting places here it brings a good it belongs to the terminal but he says wait a minute what clothing are the women gonna wear let's see let's say they can do it you have to wear the clothing in order for it to be out to tap tices so he says maybe I thought it's very maybe they're wearing the men's clothing or maybe they don't have to wear clothing the the the because they have different they'll bring it without this one of God for all those huh for those in need of a full slamma and in honor of my uncle Hunter Pressman and as this was for you filled with miles for all them the white families for doing another month of sponsorships it's a Sprinkle the blood which blood are we talking about you're talking about the para Duma Allah only a kangala could do it either name so over here in this picture it's really the it's that Zone on the Perez I was looking for a better picture of the product that's fine next time so if it's the the onion Kipper the queen godle he sprinkles so what are you talking about how could it be a woman we're talking about you take the the bird what you do is there's not enough blood in a bird so after he does Malika you take the actual bird and go like this you just toss the bird towards the Miss bayach and that's the foreign however from that moment on from after shrito Kabbalah and this Rica but a bird certainly that the whole what we call srita but it's really Malika is only done through a cayenne and he didn't if a regular carbon he stroll could start it off but yet everything afterwards has to be a kind so certainly where you can't even start off as a coin you have as a Israel as we acquired from the beginning so certainly the hazard the sprinkling of the blood has been done it's referring to the younger one let don't sit down at all I damagedly launched myself until you explain this to me when she brings a site is a woman her husband warned her not to seclude herself with another man and she didn't listen so he brings it she gives it all the water but part of the procedure she has to bring them in her how do you know she has to go up down right left foreign [Music] foreign that there's a sheet that holds that the coyan would put his hands and touch the woman's hands he would help her out like that or there's another sheet the thing was discussing maybe puts it on the side uh have a wonderful day for coming [Music]