Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 34 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign [Music] how did I think about that one it's unbelievable so we're sitting here on Rosh Hashanah they're not recording this no but seriously this is the second cheer on matsonantov we just finished that flaming hey everybody left the bismarckers and we have a few people and I just want to repeat a few things that it was a tremendous tremendous Hashem yesterday here in the space Madrid where 80 people showed up at five o'clock on a Russian afternoon just to show the dedication for Tyra and what it means which it also happened to be the first 100 years ago to the day on Rosh Hashanah that's when dafyami started 100 years ago where mayor Shapiro came up with this unbelievable idea and one of the things he said was one of his big Ideas was the Actos that the death is going to create that when you learn here you learn there and I don't think he thought about what we have here he thought that okay they're going to learn maybe in over there see this over there in that literal over there and then he said he says he uses the lotion in Baltimore I was in Baltimore and rep Schwartz learns the daf and I was in I remember where else in Europe but just tonight tonight right over here there's hasidim from Tosh and right next to them people with to have that kind of thing I don't think ever imagine you're gonna have a horse that's sitting next to the guy with the capacity on the same table learning to death that's like unimaginable but that 80 people showed up and uh it's a big school to be part of this and um we do have some spans we're not going to read any emails because of the late hour what happened it's good for sticking around we have a guest here again from your slime he's going to be back at home at two in the morning so the coil is not sponsored by anyone the Missouri family is Lakewood New Jersey because Toyota and actors are the best holidays that our family should be blessed with health for 120. thank you to Hashem for all the good he has given us and can you give us the second one just in every dedicated to my personal hero inspiration I gotta I gotta re-change this a little bit maybe from tomorrow rebelliously done family by the way I only said like that every day you'll make this whole big yeah dark of the month Joyce has been highest sorrow for this housing that come from supporting so if you want to see what my chart looks like that's the next year hey compared to Yoshi's chart I'm not going to show it again I go about him we're holding by the white lines base Hashem we're catching up today this year we're going to catch up to where I need to be how do we view a guy in a dog how do we view a guy in a car he's sitting in a chair he's sitting in the chair of the car a comfortable couch driving down the road is he standing or sitting it's very important to know because when a rabbi Arab is standing you have to stand up for him but if he's sitting you don't have to stand up for him seems like and people were wow what so if a Rob walks into the room in a wheelchair you don't have to stand up for him seems like you don't have to he has to be standing up so if a Rob is on top of a donkey the donkey we hear the Shiloh donkey standing Are you standing because the donkey's standing but you're sitting your mom is comfortable on the donkey so you're sitting or standing what are you do we go after the guy holding you or after the donkey what would everybody say here what seems uh more logical you're sitting you want to say that no you're standing that's what you think but it's standing or sitting yeah Tommy so it goes like this where boys I could just take a look at these charts here Amit saira is somebody that has an Affliction of Terrace on his skin like the reporter he's holding the microphone the posix says I'm going to show you the positive that's a few charts later so I don't want to skip ad you know what we'll just do it why not let's jump to that it makes more sense here it says that he emits his Tuma to everything that's in the room everything that's in the room is called Thomas oil we have something Tommy in a room it could be in that corner everything in the room becomes Tommy because there's a roof on top of him so the Tomah goes in the whole room and spreads through the roof only if the Missouri is sitting because it says my shovel he has to be sitting so now let's go back to that chart over there so here he is sitting so everything's good he's doing what the tire says to do to sit so now the branches are above him it's like a roof like in this room so the guy standing over there that's not Tommy what's his Allah what comes them what happens to them he becomes Tommy because the matsara is sitting so here you see how it goes the tumor goes up onto the tree comes down becomes Tommy hi me missing out over here but if the reporters standing up it's not my shovel so what happens his tumma goes up to the tree and what happens to the guy nothing the guys Star because you guys tell me okay that simple to this point Tommy because the guy who the mature is sitting so anybody under the tree is coming now don't pay attention so much to what the guy that start if he's standing sitting it doesn't make a difference it's just giving you like uh trying to show a different case the tire could be standing sitting that is that negative what's important is whether or not the military city is standing everybody under the tree is tall and if he sat himself down you have a stone in the house that has an Affliction the whole the walls of the house have tarapsed so the guy takes out the stone he's holding the stone has Tomo so it goes like this if the guy holding the stone is sitting then everything is coming because the stone is sitting if the guy holding the stone is standing then everything under the tree is tar so what do you see that the stone oh the stone is in his hand so you guys were saying that's like he's sitting no it's like he's standing if it goes by the person holding the stone so goes by the donkey holding the human being no so you're thinking it makes sense now the guy holding the stone he's standing we go by him not by where the stone is the stone is very comfortable in a seat he's in the palm of the guy's hand yeah like like over here it's a terrible picture but that's what came out he's holding up is this Stone sitting or standing stone is standing why because the human being is standing as soon as a human being sits down it's sitting so too the donkey when it's walking it's standing okay as a side note very cool that the Republic's grandson became a Hassan was very sad about it you know back in the day when all the Dylan came out against casitos and they put it it was a small group and the quebe was like what my grand so he he asked him a Shiloh he said why don't we blow shoifer on Shabbos don't blow shoving Shabbos because maybe the the guy is going to take the chauffeur so how often does that happen but here's the bigger problem since the rookie Vega according to mandoma that says that it's similar to this this is a person who's walking there's one cheater that says that he's standing still why because at any given time his foot is on the ground unless you're running then you both feet are up in the air sometimes but when you're walking you have one foot placed on the ground solid so that millisecond that you're on the ground you're not moving you're not moving I could go like this shake back and forth my body and one foot going this way that way as long as one foot is down so so this is my number says you're never walking and you're subscribing you can't you can't be overnight suck on this mother itself how you over carrying rushes around the answer is only if you jump only if you jump four ammas so that's Rubik's Vegas his grandchild tell me is that does that make sense client Israel doesn't blow a chauffeur millions of people aren't blowing Schaefer because maybe one guy is going to jump eight feet how many people even know how to jump eight feet an Olympic jumper Jew who doesn't know how to blow shoifer he's gonna jump over the puddle to get this ready and that's why we don't blow schreifer so so you know what the Hassan said he said ah when the guy wants a little shoifer he's so excited that he's running to the midst and he jumps it makes sense [Music] you can't that you're not over until he says you run to the different okay fine tomorrow oh so so that a walking animal it's as if you're mahalaki walking standing in the middle of um everybody knows the answer to this if a safety comes into the room do you stand up or not of course you do if a person who learns the Torah you stand up be ponella Skin So from the tire itself of course you should stand up so the remote surviving says that there's only people that learn very shitrias if they try to mimic what it says in the Torah so the tire is even more caution than them the tire has all these words and a human being just took the words like put in his computer so if you stand up for the human being certainly should stand up for the source but says very much what if the human being tastes Torah and learns it very deep and comes with him so now he's he improved the Torah so now you don't have the the cold skin anymore two and I think I'm tonight it was sitting some shimra walked by and he jumped up he stood up for him so he told them so after we had all these stories of Amira him upset at their Tami Community offered me on all of a sudden you have here another story so you see the word upset as as guys obviously I'm trying to teach my tummy why don't you stand up for me I didn't pay attention one one said but now he's saying listen you shouldn't stand up for me why because you're greater than me I'm just a hover it's a lower level another reason the time doesn't stand up for though you're learning Tire now you shouldn't be standing up for another person and in other words they are the Torah because they're learning Tyra I'm just so the third itself shouldn't stand up I'm you're learning I'm not which I found fascinating that a Tana Moira wouldn't be learning as he's walking we know that the diamond hour generation they learn while they're walking so how do you have a person that's not thinking and learning I don't know material is not permitted to stand up while he's learning entire yeah shouldn't stand up I was very upset at that it's not true if you see you're ready walking by you and you're learning so you should stand up but that's how we help so that says it was a terrible thing like it says over there in other words this is a private thing the guy doesn't want to tell us what it is what do they do wrong so it actually says there's a Madras that says they made fun of moisture Albedo's weight you imagine moisture albino he was instrumental for 40 days give us the Torah greatest Jew that ever lived to make fun they said oh look at his thighs he has thick thighs that's what she says and what and he got thick from us we made him fat that's it we gave him the food and it's off of our things it's unbelievable so it's like you think that it's a Hassan in our generation that we make fun of Buddhism oh this is there he's not that smart and this one is not this it goes all the way back this is a macro that we have since the beginning they were able to make fun of even moisturizer so that's the terrible thing but some say no it's a stratified sure what happened because we have three categories comes in front of you that's a regular time so you don't stand up until he comes eight feet into your has to be eight feet away from you our bombers and why couldn't you sit down so we have also different categories when he walks four arms away from you about eight feet away from you you can sit down then next category is avbezen the head of the business it's not four feet uh four hours anymore it's as far as your eye can see is but then sitting down is like when he walks away for Amazon but what about the head of the generation of then you stand up when you as far as your eye can see you don't sit down until he sits down so that's a Schwab that they waited until they went to this tent and then they went they sat down called Mrs assassins it's over here if you're in the first year so pretend I didn't talk about this but if you listen to this for the first time so I recommend it's it's a it's a nice um exercise thank you it's a nice exercise to ask your wife or your daughters what are the Mysteries my grandma that their Potter and one of them it says and I found the fascinating and immediately the girls that I had in my house for the meal the six Seminary girls they already said oh we're Hive in shoifer even though it's Miss sensation as my Grandma comes once a year hi I and they were shocked to learn and then I went and I asked other people my wife married women that they came for the pseudos and this and that nobody knew and what's the message I say that's my grandma that you archive they didn't know it's matzo one woman came up with Sim Club is that you know two women South Africa they forgot they skipped over matzo one woman seriously she was very depressed I'm not joking one of our my guests today today she's like matzo and that's the one Mitzvah I don't like and I have my own theorem I do my own Pizzazz I have a a woman's kissing she tells me I have to start being marketed on it didn't teach her in seminar okay and the best was where boys I pretend is the funniest pretend you didn't hear this before the best is that one of the girls said Miss I said is my grandma caparus yeah it's good oh this one I didn't tell you this is another one Simone Rosh Hashanah maybe that is I'm not making this up Ms Ms msms huh that's what she didn't say okay fine fine bottom line on the Lamborghini base AZ Mississippi and Grandma oh I should really show this so on Rosh Hashanah what I had everybody do is close their gamara and there was a film that didn't and I forced them to finally did and I said okay let's go through all the things what's the message as my grower and people came up with some very interesting things what about parts of zachar we know women run the show in Paris is my grandma is that are they either that's a whole it doesn't seem like they're high but even if they are it might not be a musician it's my grandma it could be it's my grandma because he could do all year round every day okay different things that came up kid dish had local scenarios which is the robot on different things is my grandma suko Lulu [Music] mom is two weeks from now and here's the kicker Schaefer we're all Rosh Hashanah we're managed learning this on our Sona Schaefer it's a kiss from Hashem but what's beautiful is that I I didn't tell today I'm telling them to you now that when you learn something it's as if you were mikaim it then we couldn't be mikaiman on Chavez yesterday was Chavez who didn't have Cypher but we're learning about Cypher learning about drivers like it's interesting do women make a broken as my grandma the Potter deposit from malula does your wife make a Bronco before she takes the Lord does your daughter make a brother is she supposed to spider them don't you know that spider them down right they don't and I heard that Sans they don't they don't even let their women I think I heard that they don't let their women even listen to Schaefer and there's one woman that married in tatan she's that was the hard part okay this is the whole thing is it is but let's assume titsis you don't wear this at night oh it's feeling and Philip so why is it still in the mid Sensations my grandma because shouldn't be wearing it at night and if he could wear a knight should be wearing Shabbos and we're gonna see tomorrow or the Flaming hey there those who are you gonna say to films my grandma what a mitzvah Mr says in it every single day mezuzah tell you real quickly because when they say mezuzah this is the Shocker I couldn't believe this coming out of replying's mouth so I had somebody a person go ask him again I said here take this I'm paying you to go ask him I don't believe that he said it the prime said yes I did say it that a person gave somebody a hundred thousand dollars to watch he said put in your safe so the guy put in a safe middle of the night none of them came none of him whatever I don't know him came took her money out of the safe it turns out there's no missus on the door that the guys that paid a hundred thousand dollars because they didn't have Mrs on the door it's impossible it never said something nope I mean I said it because by not doing the smear the guy thought this is going to be a certain shmir there you say it makes sense I don't understand it anyway is chasing you away the mother bird um and real quickly as a public service announcement because there's a lot of birds in this neighborhood a lot of people are behind the mitzvah for certain things you have to know first of all you want to be kind of the midsole has to be the mother bird and the mother bird usually when it comes to pigeons sits on the eggs at night not during the day so if you're trying to do it during the day it's probably not yet the other thing is if you take your ladder and you like put it against the wall next to the bird and the bird flies away like you have to do it really quick another thing is like in my house when they lay their eggs on my porch unfortunately you have to master your porch it can't be your porch so it's another thing people don't know they go and they do the thing fine and then there was a nice Zoya real quickly because we have plenty of times tonight we thought we always thought that by you chasing it with a board you're showing rahmanas that the Virgin and see you taking away it's the the chicks or the eggs but the desire says the opposite no the bird is very bizarre the bird goes and cries and that because hears those cries because one remembers they're wearing colors that's what the desire says okay another point is not nothing though now we're going to go to the Sergio that Tyson says wait a minute you're telling me that these things uh Maca they say Maca I didn't I don't even know if I said it Micah you have to put a uh offense like up there you see up there we're over every day when so the fence we have I don't know who knows Aveda Aveda who used to have a kid remember that kid was his name Akiva used to put a dingle his feet they're like yeah get back over there okay the next day is back they he's a great kid where's that kid he's here somewhere so Aveda a woman is when she finds a lost item any day of the week I have to give it back so thesis asks these Anonymous cessation is my grandma all these misses that you just mentioned have a list essay does it is Sir if she doesn't so he says no this case is where there's only in that same list I say such as when she picks up that faith and she says I will return this so now she's not over on the list I said because she had a mind to return and then she she was just she forgot okay next is this a Str so now if you look at the chart you'll understand you're telling me the whole column on the right it's filling and we're gonna stick in a little regulator around wait a minute there's a few exceptions to the rule look at the column on the left matako the exception and then when you talk about Mrs essential as my grandma that every day they're Hive there's a column the right that the Potter and there's a calm on the left the kids are there's a big mix up here there's things that the hive things so what do we do that's the one that a lot of women forget I'm sure they know deep down like once in your mind oh yeah you have to be happy the hardest myths in the tourism now what's interesting is if you think about it this year we are not going to be ultimate with the racer but simcha is the Raisa this year so just remember that be happy whatever that means according to the street they have to buy your wife's things so you have to do that but of course you yourself have to be somebody I have to drink wine and eat good meat and just be happy happy happy can't be mad at the kids to be happy and Dave you'll be happy stay awake of once every seven years you go to miss women men children everybody goes and the claim the the the who is it reads the the parishes I say huh I have the but is it the congola's gun The King The King The King you're right these are all things that are time dependent only once every seven years or only on YouTube you have to be happy only on Facebook matter and women are high if by the way Hanukkah miguela these are all things that is my grandma and I don't know but I don't know if they're Hive like that okay [Music] oh what about what about The Innkeeper I'm thinking about that one okay we have to think about it we'll be that bad about what about South Motors oh it says my grandma okay right right so the Hanukkah and then Miguel is awesome wait a minute these are misses that you have every single day once the kid goes past 30 days so now here is every single day of his life and a woman is Potter so this is annoying kind of because he says no just because you have a clown doesn't mean anything in a cloud there's an exception to the rule and even if it's a very very strong Cloud it says the word no you're not you don't you don't have to stick to the club it's not like so go to our chart here especially if you're new to this year this is how it was in the olden days they had houses that dumped into a front yard it's called the hot stuff now you can't carry from one house to the other you can't carry in the lawn the green part you can't carry you also can't carry in the Marvel the Marvel is that street that goes in the in the center the The Gray Street The Gray Street also dumps into the very big street the original so they said it's also for you to carry in that the gray area the mobile because you might come to carry outside into the black so what you do is you make an arrow you make an area of Hatteras between the houses according to Rashi we're not talking about an area of Torment and you also make a shitu film advice all the houses together they own that middle Alleyway together what do you use any food besides two Foods water you don't make a shahako and water unless you're whatever very thirsty but doesn't meloff doesn't give you sustenance but wait a minute there's more than two Foods you have truffles one of the world's most expensive foods and mushrooms also they're not considered food for foreign interesting to point out that she from San says that potatoes I guess because of Europe also potatoes it's called cartoflox so cartofloch is like truffles like uh like uh so he held that potatoes is like a mushroom and he's supposed to make a shackle on a on a potato so it's throwing out a cheetah there you don't like it it's good that's why I'm like I'm trying to push your button here you say from stuff a lot of time stuff yeah yeah yeah I know somebody that married into town that's why I know a lot of stuff from town yeah what that's what he said you're not paying attention um okay so you have a you have a general rule water and salt but it also includes other stuff how do you know time dependent or women are probably from all them government feeling we have a moment scene just like we find that a woman is Potter from Phil and so too any midst of this like villain that's time dependent she's Potter imagine tourists have common Sensations so we learned feeling from Toyota and we learned all messages from Thailand the kids are women are probably from misses at a time depending like so this is why are you learning oh so for this let me see where it is oh right over here so here's the sukum it says right we're saying we're all very familiar with villain pause it before that says learn Tyra after that says of things that a woman is high of Isuzu so wait a minute you should learn to fill in from Azusa just like a woman Isuzu she should be hibernate villain why are you learning position has the test who told you which direction to go yeah in three words but now it's explained that you see the Mars cases now look at the bottom part of this chart in the next Parish in Shema that we say every day it says and then immediately afterwards it says so over here it's villain is close to Tyra and very far from away from so in other words fill in the red is close to Torah in two two parts of Shema and what I don't know why that's a that's how it is that's how we say it every day but the fact is it is different and because it's different we learned fill in from Torah and not feeling from Zozo it's a good child I don't know why Hashem wrote it like that that's how you did it all right says okay on the bottom parts of cloth on the bottom you should compare it to possibly tests and what do we say position women are not included so women shouldn't have to put a missus on their house should tell us that women don't have to put them into something else because it's right next to the Torah entire the Potter from so the the belzarov says the reason why women like to sing so much is because of this game I write over here why because if you don't learn the gamar with the niggan then it's very bad for women it goes like this [Music] they don't need to live that's if you say without a but if you do with the good morning it goes like this it's how you read it so since you put a a question mark here what women don't need to live it says on your door you're gonna read you get life women don't need life they need life just as much as a man says my grandma wait a minute so because only once a year it's my grandma seven days a year so let's go back to this chart stop why not okay let's look on the on the right side one of the things that a woman has partner is Soko now why does the time have to tell me she's spotted from Ahsoka it's obviously why it's a Mississippi as my grandma and all Mrs decisions my grandma a woman's partner including a Strife including Ahsoka why is it different than everything else in the list why does it ever have to go and go out of its way and tell you by the way a woman is passing from Ahsoka where's the story say that it says time because otherwise but why is my grandma and they're all Potter from that oh my God the famous that you have to sit in your soccer like you live in your house there's people that bring in the couch air conditioner do whatever they can do that should be mommy's like their house but more importantly with the people that you're familiar with every day your wife is with you so your wife should be with you in the circle made so the famous Rama right here that says on the men who don't sleep in the soccer why don't men sleep in circle what's going on now you feel a Babbage it's awesome that's a whole different story I never really understood it they tried to explain to me huh no no I know one of the not the rabbit today the one of the free rabbits and not not about time you know I don't think it's about Italian well he said you can't sit in the Soca because they're right the the Tomah that they the human beings and they felt that they showed it okay I don't understand it because it's a possible you have to fine I'll go upon him Dharma says but why is it that people that believe they should sleep in the circle they don't sleep in the circle he said maybe perhaps they have a cooler because the whole attention came to Duru and their wife is at home oh Milo they go in the house so the girl the girl and the market of room they argue with that they say it's not a it's not a reason no way and besides the sugar rings that if you're able to build your own little sukkah for you and your wife then you have to do that and you have no reason no there's no excuse in the world not to sleep in Ahsoka wait but isn't there a whole thing is China there are people that are Michael and Son Of China but it doesn't apply to themselves China they they pass cannot like that the sun don't sleep in the city of China because it came to Duru and whatever but I don't think we're passing like that there's some maybe some people do that I don't know fine I grew up my father always used to make a little private tsuka especially when we had another floor there's a little circle off the bedroom kind of thing that's how so gronicks there's it's very it's very accepted that the woman sleeps in the circle without the rest of the film of course yeah that's where holding is uh let's find that one here we go so we have the word Hamish also when it talks about a matter we have someone talks about a sukkah so maybe this is okay the sponsored for those in need of refused and whatever in honor of my uncle Juana Pressman and this is my family a very realization is my grandma his real this is an impossible if you're in your slime you know what we're talking about over here even not your slime offline struggles up the whole show goes up to the castle thousand that's the famous uh you know especially if you're a tourist the the biggest kahanim but even like there's thousands of thousand people that go she was knife to the castle but just as a zaker to this Mitzvah the tremendous midst of Ria of going up to miss Amigos three times a year the myth says is my grandma all the time and now take a look it says but why it's a mysterization as my grandma it's time dependent only three times a year so automatically a woman should be Potter why do I need a special password also says here's the sukumayako the vocal Israel and then it says although in the bottom you should be higher because you do a comparison you only have to be happy on the social regard or the field you don't have to you have to be happy every day but the video to be happy with is on the social security so what is that called my grandma a woman should be high all right here let's look at it says a daughter foreign now wait a minute this isn't Apostle almana obviously how's she an on Mana how's she a widow she doesn't have a husband but it says you the husband should make your hat she doesn't have a husband is talking about she herself has to make herself happy then the rest of the person is also about her to yourself so what's going on tremendous if a person takes upon himself to take care of an almana okay take a it's a tremendous thing where you have to buy your jewelry and clothing unless you're not gonna cheer no I'm serious like a guy said okay I'm gonna be a big box I said I'm gonna think about myself in that model all of a sudden they give him a bill wait a minute what about the necklace and what about all the clothing it's unbelievable so you should know that this is a thing the Sharia is like take care you take care of other stuff tomorrow why are you learning from fill in I have another one on the list let's go back to the list a second if we can any list here let's take this list whatever what do you see on the on the side of Mississippi as my grandma the women archive so we spoke about simcha and now I think more what about mahako hakko she's kind so learn all the Torah from there this is Boom hey look at this my boy said wow wow look at this look at this oh you see that happening no come on I'll do it again replay no some guys just facing out there's a box yes so now since we have two so cannot say the same exact thing what's going to talk about the Sook is that once we finish with the sugar we won't be scared anymore about this business it's like posture so now I have two sock and one that says and one that says Mata is you cannot oh there's only 40 seconds left this year oh boy this Amy London you have two sukim that say the same thing and once they say the same thing the idea is the why would Hashem repeat himself say it once by Hackle and I learned from the rest attire I'm saying it by saying by matzo to tell us it's only these two places that a woman is Hive even though it's the rest of tell you nothing oops don't check that one out check this one out maybe here look at this box it's filling and Alia Regal is also to sukim on the right column now in the left column should teach you and you can now learn out from this villain how do you know that a woman is my grandma it's not I'm sorry it's Potter from villain but you cannot learn out from this villain because it's feeling a little irregular two things foreign once I tell you that each possum is necessary so it's not considered two because each one has a tree because I would think that you learn really go from hako that they should be Hive so therefore it says Rio that she's Potter because we saw the person before the last name is Zohar because it's still on if it wouldn't say it's villain I would say that you should learn film from Azusa that a woman is crying feeling it's not considered snakes foreign so now a second ago we said that we have Matson hakil right so let me make it through Russo the guitar like doesn't even know what the zoo is going to be let's try let's go here let's let's we'll start number three let's say just said Hackle in that matter I mean you say that you should be a woman should be partner from Mata just like a woman is Potter from Asuka so therefore I needed uh that's why I need matzo hello and I would say if a little kid a seven-year-old kid has to go to the basement to hear the king said certainly a woman who has many more misses than a kid a kid has zero mitzvahs foreign the fact that we know that um that's not time dependent like what Mrs macavedo all these things you know this is just like a woman has to fear her parents even though it's every single day of the year so too anything that's every single day of the year and now I guess we could stop right over here because that's how we started have a wonderful yes