Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 33 by R’ Eli Stefansky

oh yeah [Applause] [Music] I am foreign [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] a good Dimension if I forget to give a broadcast and let me just do it now and I still remember it should be a year of gesund knock knocks from our children a year full of Torah not missing a day of learning Shaolin bias hey hey [Applause] sure I have to apologize I received a lot a lot of emails today and I really didn't see all of them unfortunately but there's a few of them here just uh personal thank you it's now just a little over a month since I joined condition of base and feel obligated thank you for the energy excitement and passion you bring to see every single day I'm happy to have already been able to recruit one new listener my workman Rebecca Glock was caught a few days ago in the airport learning to share on his phone and you played the clip the next day pure Naches hoping to meet you Shabbos in Armon element Monroe New York always gives me an extra when they come from Monroe Eric Schwartz wishing your family the wonderful broadcast the New Year I'm hoping resolution to be able to be at a live share soon will there be an added cheer on Sunday night for the Davon Shabbos thank you Eric it's the way it works is we're going to have a share right here in the basement or Sean 3 30 we said was it before minha No 5 30. tell me the latest cheer tomorrow when is that six so five o'clock five o'clock we're gonna have a sheer here at 9 45 followed 9 45 followed by the same sheer that was said Rosh Hashanah to be recorded for everybody else that needs to watch it online now that being said right boy said this is where so many people fall off the bandwagon how do I know if you look on YouTube or all that or whatever it is you look at sukis this is a huge rap hundreds of people don't even come back the numbers are so going into it knowing that this is problematic is always an issue you're diving for hours and sometimes you don't have time to open up with gamara so you prepare properly you learn by yourself you learn a little bit before you learn a little bit after but if God is showing me at all you skip ahead you have to skip ahead can't be a perfectionist now I don't get a lot of these every day but my dinner teaches us that we can't be yoitza from other people we have to try cars that live in person and this is the first time that I haven't missed the day of learning for a whole year through all the daily challenges vacations choking up family events overseas trips every day started with the daf because of the exciting way you already turned to the world one of the known explanations of Roma Vino came with his days meaning he fully utilized his day so Hashem bless them with everything he needed to continue when you stand on and as for another healthy year Hashem has every a very good reason to answer yes based on the inside I heard from is okay I call myself and it gives me a lot of a lot of uh I just happened to have a meeting with Heim leaving he's sitting here and why did I mention his name every day because he's a Sadiq in his 30s who hasn't opened up a safer I don't know he didn't tell me how many years but because since Yeshiva how many years is it 15 years 18 years 18 years no he told me I could say 18 years so that he's here three days in a row Arizona the year goes after the gamire and basil Hashem it's going to be hazaka he's gonna go fighting we're gonna finish shots together he's gonna make delicious food at the hormone Hotel on Maine and on the cruise ship when we go he doesn't know about the cruise ship yet let him know about that a different time rebellious the year comes to close I would like to share this with you when I used to see people learn that I mean reach nine micro sometimes at the same time I thought that it was that yeah I thought it was nice but there's no chance of me joining the ranks I know that what is what is the matter of day learning what is but they were never going to happen and weren't even on my radar both required a long-term Daily Commitment I wasn't even interested in that conversation a few years ago I saw your interview on meaningful people on the side to try to share seven seconds in six months was very tempting the fact that it was online during my own time is game changer for me the plan was to stop by evamus I'm still in the game even though your vomits was a bit rough last level he made a big push for Stein micro and I was looking to take on something new I decided to give it a shot at the method I decided was to line up the days with Aaliyah Sunday the shading Monday to slishy and found it more manageable to learn a couple of minutes a day instead of everything at once as the child learner was told when I can use an English art scroll instead of uncleus maybe case specific everyone should consult with their local Rabbi another shop is by Landing I would read the whole Parish again this year's the first year business that I'm completing a very big issue you and mdy family for creating a team for creating a space where it starts with just the die financially gets people to grow more uh he's the father of the kid that donated his own money like two three days ago okay gotta get together here boys uh beautiful Studio oh sponsors thank you let me say this okay I should say these sponsors before I forget to say them dedicated to my personal hero and inspiration of Ellie shlita families came in right before you connected she discovered this is what happens when you don't go into the website you realize about your great father all of us at mdy oh huge foreign packages they send these people packages foreign families [Music] Lakewood New Jersey because toyer and actors are the best Gula Paris oh no I think the test came back normal they should lived 120 Hashem anonymous what is this landed Eagle records and the DJ common this is what I need okay oh my God okay say it is good it's good it's healthy PJ klmn for the new hit why you put this in no I didn't see a lot of there's a lot of emails that came in what did it say I'm going to give tickets to someone you'll see the email answer it's the covered mdy for the new hit navino Avenue what yeah he sent us a clip no no we don't do advertisers maybe for special people like Milo I don't know all right robot you say oh uh the full Slater for my wife's uncle Stanley kratman schwell Jacob and Bailey's going through a very very difficult surgery today should I ever Force land button what is this like 25 lines in the bottom line based on base we play save a taco they save a taco the tire says here's the apostle replacing what does this mean is he talking about an old person what does Seva mean maybe Zucker means something else it's too Tu Allah talking for an old person you should stand up and you should give hither to azaken what's going on where's that thing foreign my father-in-law taught me I guess it's coming out but he's your nose and throat so when you cry so a lot of times the tears come out of the nose you'll see people soon I'm saying that it drips through they're connected okay so what particularly [Laughter] no okay the boys side oh since you're in a great mood there's a kid on a bus and an old man came onto the bus and the kid stood up for him so the the old man pushed him down to the seat 10 seconds later kid gets up again keeps him pushing down to seat few minutes later the old man says what is your problem don't you're not getting the hint so he said I don't think you get the hint my my stop was two stops ago so what do you do when you get on the bus and this is this old man and and you're sitting there what do you do you have to get up so that was the discussion yesterday what about old man a stick of Russia do you have to get up for him it says which one what do you do there's actually a through a machoikas here so let's just see that real quickly it's uh unfortunately I did it not Yoshi so it's a little uh when do you stand up so I put the save on black and the Zucker in red there's two there's two little shyness here seven zakim so according to Telecom what we're learning right now takama says you need both you need an old man who's a zuckin you need the bowels walks in he's too young you don't have to stand up for him has to be a 70 year old plus you need those two says no it's two separate Allah even a guy that's not a diamond call him says even the old man who's a Russia if he's old he stand up and also Tom was young if you had a guess how do we pass him anybody guess it's a trick question right he's gonna say guess the words what tanakama everybody it's even you though you have to say something you though why because you learned in color yesterday for an hour and a half two hours I saw you huh yesterday yeah that looks like yes if you stand up I don't know what we do exactly every time old Russia or Russia like I gotta where's the capacitor god let's say I'm just kidding like who like a guy like a Russian what does a Russia look like Apple walks in I don't know you have to stand up he's 80 year old yeah I'm looking at you yes he has twin boys identical one where's the key password and then I saw one of them went off the desk last week they both working past you guys no no okay Israel this happens to be here I've always said most points can hold that if a old man walks onto a bus you don't have to give up your seat room that's not a lot is you have to stand up for him you have to give up your seat but it's proper and it's manners it's the right thing to do to give him the seat okay so I heard a woman once saying and I don't know if this truth said I can't believe it today in our days I'm pregnant and nobody gives me the receipt I don't believe it because I remember when I was a kid everybody used to get up right I don't know what it's on about today that's how it is on the buses today they get up it's normal okay so she's making it up okay here's another Shiloh let me ask you something Shiloh if you see a Russia guy yeah a real Russell you see a Russia old man are you allowed to hit him oh you're awesome smack me in the face as he walks by yeah yeah it's going to be a shocker in a second mom's a shocker basically like man ain't joking we realize argues that's the middle she thought no you need to have Hashem can only racist maybe you should stand up from him when he's very very far away Martin chemo I didn't say you should stand up that you see that it's standing up for him what does that mean he realizes if you stand up when he's a mile away that's not it's not for him maybe it's for somebody else when he's within your Dalai Damas it's so it's so obvious he's standing up for him stand up adrenaline maybe you should maybe give him money either you should give him money time will I even talking about diet though they go together my chemo shame kiss es just like when you stand up it doesn't cost you anything it's a nice thing to do so too hither doesn't involve money we're going to go into this each one of these things a little bit another maybe when you're in the basaki say you're in the bath house in the Mikvah maybe you should jump up for him who was it the I think it was completely undressed he's about to go into the Mikvah and the sugar of the city scream out the boys I give cover to the rabbit you see everybody stand up and he said even though he knew that he's the sugar of the city it gave him a stick of covet he says that's how that's how that's how desperate people are for a little a little uh a little confident a little recognition to the city and he wasn't clothed at all it was Mama's bushes a little bit did a little bit Talking Tom talking about that I didn't know foreign and somebody stole my clothes so what did I do I put the towel in my head and I ran home no that's not what happened y'all tomatoes yeah that's what I'm saying we're keeping we're keeping it we're keeping it uh okay now listen to this so we're going to talk about this Allah also your oil you know what let's see places on top we have to see the places because I said before you have to stand up even for an old man who's a Russian countries he's a Russia I'm Orit foreign you see a Russia man or like 80 year old man a Russia walking down the street it's admitted to walk over and punch him in the face now this is one of these misses I don't recommend doing save for somebody else but that's what Tyson says I'm just throwing it out there I like to show you the Shockers like you said we said already yeah where it gets white over there maybe you should close your eyes and pretend you didn't see him alone it's in the heart number knows exactly what's going on in your head don't try to get out of this Mitzvah you're not fooling anybody Hashem knows what's going on in your head like I'm just gonna ask is obvious you need to put that one the guys are he's a Russia for pretending he doesn't see the static and not standing up for him everybody stands up for him he's like a big honor of no no no no and then then or suddenly has to go to the bathroom five times every time he goes in and out Laila was getting up how do you know you should have your shamayim you should be fear of fearful of Hashem don't do for your cupboard says that when he went into I think it was that good convention I remember which one it was he went in with the snare Cutlass into the uh convention remember he said you know let's go back from the back and we'll go backstage and come into the stage everybody says no I want to go from the front door I want everybody to stand up so we're still shocked this is coming from famous for another and he said listen this is the one time that my wife is in the audience and I want her all these years people pester me and they ruin our Shabbos to the end of this and they come they had late hours at night I want to give her something back a little bit something back for her so how do you know I feel safe about it's even you don't even save a taco my field called save up a mashma what so is he says it's it's mashed my every Zucker every zuckin doesn't matter who he is and what he is how much Terry learned because if the person is very young and a huge time you have to stand up for him or not so according to this contributes like really who's young you have to stand up Quentin uncommon you see over here it says so Elio Jacobs in the Carlo turned around to the bells of hosted and asked him very seriously do I have to stand up for you how old is these maybe 30. about Pat and he knows you he's 28 years old 28 years old and he knows tell you like like crazy do I have to stand up for him so he's a big honor of he laughed at him and isn't that but I I would stand up for him and I would stand up for anybody in the coil okay these are guys taking uh 1200 Daft tests now oh no now it's half a chance half shots and sukas it's unbelievable foreign [Music] old man is people should walk into the halls and make people still I saw with my own eyes a guy go I said this before he was a rabbit came with the whole thing he came with the guy bye and they're standing outside and standing and standing I was watching them and the guy goes to the bed and says my rep is coming in could we please play and the guy says no no I only know she's big ones and then he comes back he goes back to the rib and he whispers something the river sends him back for 10 minutes he's standing outside what song they should play for the red and that then never he didn't get his cover that he wanted he walked in without the song now let's just go into it a little bit what we said before just like when you stand up you said before it doesn't cost you anything so heaters also we came out let's focus on kids what are you talking about it could be talking about a guy that has the most profitable job he is he's dealing with pearls he's making the holes in the pearls maybe for the for the necklace whatever it is well-paying job and then the old man walks by she has to stand up stop his work who bought him in Milwaukee hello yeah there was a principal who a parent came to him and said I need to talk to you about all these kids that are going off the dark in your school so he says listen we carry a pail of water from here to there a little bit is going to fall out of the pail that's just the way it is there's always going to be things that fall to the side so he told them listen if it's a pail of water you're right but if it's a pail of marginist of diamonds then when a little falls out you stop and you pick it up says the gemara huh he's gonna he's gonna stop work do you have to stop hello no you don't have to stop this is very interesting it come it's a little bit we're not going to go into the complication even though hidor means there's no you don't have to stop working even though you might have to give money at this point you might be giving money so therefore when you stand up there's no one thing we'll establish here you don't have to stop working uh no because hither has no Biddle hither might mean that you have to pay but there's no bit of malacha but so therefore chemo doesn't have Bittle and once I know that is at the first step we were saying maybe it cost some money but now we do a double heckish and basically we get to a point where it doesn't have to cost you money kind of normal aim value of noise we're showing him huh because that's what theater is PanAm by the moment you have to pay but not bitum Allah yeah says gambarra from here you see ain't Bali monoi is showing him this is in other words when you are a worker you work for somebody else you get paid by the hour are you allowed to stand up or something the famous mice and kindness he was working in a field and I forgot who it was came over to him and said hello to him and he didn't answer him according to my son he literally didn't answer him according to Benigno that depends if you're Ashkenazi he didn't ask the answer at all he he didn't look at him but he answered him point is when you're working for somebody you're a God of if you stop working you have no right he doesn't who says the your your employer allows you to stop and shoes with somebody special for us so when they came to you shalaim with their fruit the first fruit all the people in your line would stand up for them give them coven you saw him Islam environment instruments things so they would stop their work and they would they would give them attention it's different people that come from out of the city with the bigquery stand for them um [Music] we are concerned that if you don't stand up for this foreign we're scared that if people don't stand up and give cover the private coverage the people that bring bikurim they won't do it next year says Rashi but if you see it can bring in bikuru you don't stand up for him because he is going to come next year you talking about that Moritz so how does this connect if you you're reading this gamara how does this connect to Rosh Hashanah how could we connect to our life this idea would be cool I'm standing up I'll tell you how I think for me Rosh Hashanah you're in show there are people that come to show once a year that one day there's somebody in my family one of my children he comes to our shoulder only once here in Rosh Hashanah he tells me he doesn't like the show they don't treat him well I don't know why I can't figure it out but is that person that comes the show once a year and it's what you do that once a year do you leave your tissue on the table do you do you do you play from you go like this and he walks by you don't look at him how are you give him a good feeling it's the once a year it's your one-time opportunity to make an impression on this person that comes to show so one time this is what the gemara is saying is the one time to make an impression on this guy that's bringing bikurim and we could apply it to our life as well it happens to be that people that come here tell me all the time I get emails all the time the the the the way that we have it people that came in here and it makes me feel very good that people come to every guest and we have guests every day they say they need a gemara please sit over here people take care of him it should be in every show like that the soul that they're greater than doubt the two front to say hello to people or or this there's some shows that say do you need a place to eat this madriguez let's not push it but at least be nice to make a nice impression so you're not invited I had your ready once I already know what I'm getting myself into listen to the story about 13 years ago this is my cousin so yeah I want to make as much fun as I want about 13 years ago I was on a bus says Goldberg passing and the bus was almost empty and another passenger and I were sitting in the front row behind the drive in the aisle scene at the base as well wedding halls River Falls together with the regular looking guy boarded the bus both of us sitting in the front automatically stood up and moved to the back row the other guy that boarded it was really sent them when I bought the bus with the receive I also get covered now listen to this River Falls sounded very frustrated doesn't mean to give up your seat all the guy was trying to argue but he kept repeating himself that the myth is not to give up your seat thank you again for everything that you're doing Goldberg and describe my mouth because I've been saying this for the last few weeks that every time I say story of a red but whatever it is I should put the picture it's a picture share so I might as well so you should be being the first one hopefully I remember to do it in the future okay so now that being said we go back here so it can be ready so we have this okay oh my God your father no stories of myself because we're just going back and everything we learned already [Laughter] we're not going to say he wanted to see something about the mick from the river that I said before what he's not supposed to stand up for your rabbit in the base American tear um he says oh so-and-so wrote a beautiful to heal him and maybe says you shouldn't talk like that why was it I don't remember because now he's saying that it's nice and I'm going to talk about him afterwards okay whatever foreign with all the period and everything obviously and he didn't stand up for me but Sue so you should stand up in the base America Bristol back up again same person maybe I taught him two ninths of vayikro Williams maybe maybe he's thinking learning not only thinking learning maybe he's thinking in the learning that you taught him the only terrorist is because he's busy and learning you have to stand up and be some American constantly cash you know happy birthday bro this has three rooms this actual Mickey room is a place where everybody um close and there's a place where everybody is clothed and they recuperate from the Schmitz or whatever it is they sit there so in the inner one where people are not clothed you don't stand up but we're talking about the outer one that's why he was upset okay maybe he's learning Tyra how's he thinking if he's in the basement Americans [Music] but if a person is busy learning and then he walks into this Americans how is he gonna stop learning it's very hard for him to stop that's where the villain going wrote the cramers whatever it's called Theory what I am Assurance you wrote in the bathroom the same thing it goes together says over here foreign he had his highness that's why that's what we're really saying he's thinking learning that's why I didn't notice you but has a lot of things learning it just went into his head you tell a guy don't think about a pink elephant he's gonna think about a pink elephant don't think you learn what are you gonna do I can't control what's in my head y'all yeah it's made up of me Kimmy schillero if you wanna have a minute that your Abby's coming and you're not even going to pay attention we're talking about it Russia hello today's very short like everyone keeper so Mela we could just go late maybe you should close your eyes before your hive let's say he's a block away so he close your eyes when he comes into your distance they have to stand up you're blind you don't see him come alive foreign within the eight feet of a person that he knows you're standing up for him um this is only hereby that's not his rep his what primary review for the primary Melody the donkey's ears I have a picture of it emblem on the car as a coming around the corner to in those days the the car was a donkey so the ear of the donkey but today I put in the left corner I don't know if you can see the Rolls-Royce that emblem goes up down you know you turn on the engine it comes out so it came around the corner the first thing you notice is the emblem I don't want to say the other car from Germany the the Rolls-Royce they also have a coin you would stand up just by seeing the air not by seeing his Ruby revisive right the whole shots helping your voice if remembers Toyo is a big talmud of his brother about foreign and you got two this the the Riverside you also remember they're on the other side says to them and this is not a bad guy this is about Allah what's wrong with you I'll be ready I teach you Toyota how are you not standing up for me um we're busy with Pastor Sean had we noticed you were just written for the rice so we didn't see that you're on the other side of the river how do you know they shouldn't uh walk in and and make people stand up for him if a person goes the other way around comes from the back door he gets a long life I buy a market if I was Mark but not that they shouldn't stand up for him representative in those days that needs to sit on the ground it was very hard for a person to get up off the ground but in our days that we sit on Cheers it's not the end of the world again we have a story of a person not wearing a yamaka seems like he wasn't wearing anything oh my God and uh when I learned the Khan Berlin I learned that for two years after Passaic and uh that a thing that you cannot speak to the Shiva Robert and Chef this is just lifted the other week can't speak them without wearing a hat and jacket you had to come there's no such thing if you came in without he wouldn't you wouldn't look at it certain carpet you have to have in front of a gobble or malays may be so used to abundance so many robotics over here they keep on coming in and out that he thought he thinks he's their friend he used to come to Chicago a lot so he stayed by me and I had a pool table in my basement so he said you know when I was about her back in the day I used to I used to play so I shot pool with them then he said I was a good basketball so he played basketball I had a hoop so like you become buddy buddy but the mice is one of the island today he's like one of his one of the most awesome YouTubers in the united show room anything you're his body you're not his body is called saving management so here it says that every old man you have to stand up I don't know exactly I didn't look it up how we pass can manage like today I don't see this so I don't know it doesn't seem like it right although I would be busy standing up on the bus I don't know how long has he been you though I should have looked it up maybe I can have a quick I may become a savitarian boy so here the Gamora says he would stand up for God oh my come on how many different experiences and Soros and then Rashi says if you look at rash she's beautiful vironisim it's Eric Roshana when a person just concentrates every day it's a good it's a good idea I don't do it but you guys should do it concentrate every day the good dinosaur does to you just yesterday they accepted your son to school just yesterday he told me a message I have to say quickly two people in one day somebody just gave 3 600 to the coil and he said an hour later the biggest deal of his life that was about to fall through it kind of they sent him an hour later after they gave 3600 and Avi said right after yesterday's donation a big city said that he's the official one of the official lawyers of the city he says you give you get back and he said we were just talking about it before he gave the money so he says so Avi says listen to this today this morning everything is in the hands of Hashem besides your mind besides fear of Hashem but you could also look at it as you see Hashem when you look and you see when you pay attention to all the good alcohol does you have to become to see it you have to open up your eyes to see it sometimes obvious here's the email oh you're accepted but sometimes it's not obvious the little things okay you have to get rest your mind that you have to be Hakim and see the the not year of fear but yira as in seeing the other person said I can't say his name so I won't say his name is messenger goes in the whole thing here that he had these officers they used to beat people up if they didn't do that a lot whatever so those guys go go go go help the old man he loves Toyo I can't go help them I have a lot of toys this is the famous river knock when they say even though his father's name is it's below the tire for me to go help the the non-jewish zuckin let me do it okay you should only stand up for the same time twice you say smart twice a day you stand out for a Time o'clock twice a day three would be more common than you give Hashem sponsored and honorable impressment and Greg Haber Rockefellers huh oh this is the last days I have to say it nicely Greek for his family Rebellion everyone doing the dove the next sponsor starts next year Rosh Hashanah baseball which is tomorrow how do you know we just learned how do you know that you shouldn't make people stand up for you man it's not going to be eraser the armor Shockers virus but if you only have to stand up twice it's a big deal it's only two twice a day Cubo obviously means that you have to stand up 20 times warning you stop going to the bathroom so many times stop going to look for safe every time you go to the back everybody's standing up for you this is more like longshaft is valuable bat nope it's twice and even that you need a possible why are you making people stand up for you twice twice is too much who doesn't stand up before is considered Russia yeah and he forgets his learning like the the Shadow and then you are in Middle fairly Kim I need to address this uh the big elephant in the room so you're probably wondering yourself if if Ellie walks into the room and I I didn't stand up for him am I considered a big Russia and the answer is yes you are big Russian however however I was Michael it says no it said we learned yesterday even if I'm asking you not to stand up for me it makes me feel uncomfortable Ebola either way I'm sorry if you stand the ones okay but please don't stand up for me please what's the sphere it's in the same same password you're talking about virus it's standing up remember us rivers and Scholars did I bring it I guess not a Mishka you know the the scale and ribbous so Rashi brings Mishka is a little bit more difficult you have to go to tices to figure that one out but it says by by ribis it says the word so maybe that's what it's doing who told you it's talking about standing up Umar it says if you remember five lines early it says it says it's a fake one but it's good enough so you have two questions if the Sun is a tremendous tremendous should the sun stand up for his own father but he's a bigger Donald Trump than his father his father learned by him he stand up his father yeah but it's his father now what does the father do the father learns by his son son is speaking of Shiva she stand up for a son so we have two shylists here the first question is to the sun stand up maybe they love him for his father if you remember yesterday when one was teaching his father and he was a little bit not nice to his father he said in not such a nice lotion and tomorrow who was it not you sharp one stand up for your father no anyways because it was a big topic so you have to stand up even you this is stood up for him that every son has a stand of her father even even if the son is the rabbi Michael on my Lane here I have a stickle uh thing here it's not the best and also I don't like to depict Hanoi in my Miriam so this is just for um illustrative purposes here you see shmuel on a chair you don't see him hopefully and and Ravi hood is on the floor and here comes the father Ravi Haskell okay I don't like the way he looks it didn't come out great but okay so since shmuel's back is he doesn't see him but rabihood is on the floor should stand up and she was on the chairs and say why are you standing up now who who is it behind me don't worry I give you your shows every time your father Walks Behind Me you stand up don't worry about my coven it doesn't matter all right come on because should I show it again one more time see the cop is going no was walking by like that you shmuel uh review the good stand up here's the question on the father could the Father stand up for him I can't stand up for my son the only reason I stand up for my son is one reason because he married into the nurses family time but if he was my rebby if my son was my rabbit I would say enough for him no okay comma not a good writer I need any language in general a father should never stand off her son even if the Sun is ready maybe that's the chance why because I'm a father and father understand of her son hello the only reason I'm standing up for him have a wonderful day [Music]