Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 3 by R’ Eli Stefansky

what's your name you kill what okay I believe you from where also from London I got to tell you listen the ilum in London did an unbelievable job starting from Dove Harris shimmy leifman uh shlomi Lightner Gershwin we had yesterday against you they brought in over 190 new people from the South institution it's unbelievable so it's like they didn't wait for the ads that mdy came out with they did their own ads they went to their own they did their own thing and they were very very much so a tremendous tremendous you just reminded me because both of you who else do we have what's your name oh okay from Ilan [Music] you know what's your name Amir Larry from oh you're here also okay welcome welcome who are missing some guys so like okay welcome welcome let's read a couple of emails here uh I hope you're still on after one day if you're new my stuff and you see mashas I was at the live stream this morning we didn't get a chance to speak to you so thought to write instead this is from godalia Waldman now I want to point out the SEMA shots I I was a little emotional yesterday when I showed the video the point of the the seam yesterday it's actually my second time I finished shots as a marketeer in Chicago but my point was more that people fall off the bandwagon it doesn't matter at what age and it's always it's always an opportunity to start again and another thing I think he might be mentioning it but I speak about this a lot Shas is a ferris wheel wherever you get on that's where you get off it doesn't necessarily have to be broadcast if you get on in kadushin then you finish you get on in uh so that's you start again you start again in condition welcome Mendy who just got off the plane literally 60 minutes ago yeah so yeah let's let's see what he says here as someone who started with sukadaf Bayes you being inside mid cycle is the real inspiration to continue to commit because as you said it's like a ferris wheel doesn't matter when you get on you just go from there now a lot of people they feel that they have to make it up it's nice to make a Broca's shop it's Irvin where is he so he's already holding an air of him but you don't have to you could feel comfortable you started kadushan even same shots and conditions you just gotta this should be an experience with all those who join today with condition daf base also thank you for coming back to Israel my last day here I run a few weeks ago quoting the Tas by reading Matthew from homage I'm glad I managed to the live share London he's from London thank you for continuing to be inspiration to me and thousands around the world regards gidalia Waldman PS as compensation for not having a chance to speak to you I was finally able to speak to Robbie Schoenberg in person and tell him how much I enjoy his incredible articles each week in our Americas thank you Robbie Schoenberg for stepping in you often get confused yeah that just fun hi everybody hanging out last night with in riviasi Klein's office making calls getting guys to rejoin mdy unbelievable see the attached photo of ribiase explaining the script to his son with rubioisi kitai in the back I got through with some special either they told me that that was about to change their lives your battery G signed up in Barbara Park him and forget it the things change big time he says Yankee B is still going strong since my cotton another note this is a great idea we should print a book one day we did print it in the book we're giving it out it's tonight to see him the see him on get in where's the CM next door in the uh the beautiful Shiva Hall is going to be uh please join us it's going to be a valid thing I think that uh Yoshi the artist will be there maybe will schmoozle with him because a lot of people I know that we've not been interviewed him we gotta people don't know what he looks like even another note this is should be in the book right you're in the book The Homer yes okay do a video clearly explaining I thought this is interesting could I do a video clearly explaining tumataharo animation process so we have that and I want to do that but it's interesting because we covered my cousin Jonathan stefanski I'm gonna show trumos and meister's again today from the beginning and any other mazutov hi rebelli I'm so excited for the start of the seventh condition I don't know when I joined a couple of years enjoyed our relation to you that was in a stroke for foreign and are planning to have a wedding take place in a to stroll I'm basic husband I wanted to invite the Rob if the schedule permits and also be Mohammed rebelling with a broken now listen first of all Southern or the last the last not gonna happen so I wasn't even going to read his email but La Misa let me show you something you tell me check this out this is his car with a car like this are you able to show it Gary's too big thank you this is his car so maybe the car that has two stickers that's his thing now I don't know if this is schtick or just happens to be a crazy coincidence but the same day that this Hassan sent in a picture of his car I got this email Jeffrey Waldman I don't know if you know about this car but I was very impressed how this individual chose to promote mdy it's the exact same car just the Hassan took a little Anova took out the BMW and all the X whatever and this guy is showing it I don't know to me it's too much that it's this too much of a coincidence but it could be it is attach our pictures listen to this Toronto cumin are epic and we have to learn from them hello virus should be like that another epic to run to see him Aaron Simon with Charlie zolti on the left and join on the right Charlie hosted the first Toronto University from Shabbos three years ago and cannot even get a million together listen to this they couldn't get a million together three years ago Toronto now we have over 300 people in Toronto doing that with mdy doesn't mean that all 300 came to the seal this is the picture of the serum 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that's why in our mishna foreign second shot we had was rip shipment that Derek means the way of the way what's the way of condition the typical way is that the man seeks out a wife so that's why it says there's a mice with a stapler it doesn't fit in 100 in English I'll try to explain a little bit when you in Hebrew there's two words there's an Aveda you lose something and there's a material you find something also means to find a mitzia you know you found a good deal a bargain so somebody came to this title and said we didn't find our Aveda referring to gimoro we haven't found our video yet so he told them he said I think you did find your Aveda you passed it up because you want to find the mitzia so sometimes people do find it they're there and they think they don't want to compromise they don't want this they miss the opportunity all right so we're holding here foreign So based on this idea that Derek means it's a way of we learned in the mishnah two lines from the bottom asteroid Chavez so let's go to the Chart here 's an Essex tree an essay tree is very unique first of all we learned that a essric tree you take the strugging they can live on the tree for over a year two years three years before I start I have to say Mazel Tov Tavi Factor very big part of the sheer I I realize it's like it's a little quiet here last night and he was here yesterday so tremendous to him and his family and he's making in America and he's donating it not MD white that's why I didn't go to this Castle no so you have asthmic tree desert tree is different than all trees in that you have to water the acid tree you have to water it constantly you have to give it a lot of irrigation so therefore as a tree is similar to other trees in certain things and is similar to vegetables in one thing so it goes like this when it comes to fruit trees and I put here with Africa grapes because of the key of Miser we're going to talk about Meister in a second true is a meisterous media rice is only on grapes grain and olives that's it so I didn't want to put a apple tree or whatever but it's the same thing so an apple tree grapes for everything basically when it blooms how do you view a tree you have a three-year-old tree how do you know when is its birthday when you plant it when you when you pick the fruit when when do you decide a year how do you base a year so these trees are based on when they bloom the other option is like vegetables the vegetables we base everything on when you pick it so it doesn't matter when it blooms when it starts it's when you pick this is very important because let's say we have a seven year cycle here you have lakita you have scissor and you see the blooming on the bottom of the tree we have a seven year cycle on shmito one two three four five six seven years three and six are different we're going to show it why they're special years that are only special when it comes to Meister Shaney and Meister Ani with switches ten percent of whatever's left over we're gonna go through it ten percent of your produce goes either to yourself or to a poor person to yourself in years one two four five to the poor person you take the same ten percent instead of eating to yourself instead of eating it yourself you give it to a poor person but how do you know what's year three and six year three and six when it comes to a tomato a vegetable is based on when you cut it off the ground so if you chopped it off the the the the bush in year three so it's a year three you took it off in year two year two we don't care when it bloomed it could bloom in year two and you take it off at year three it's a year three fruit so you have to give that fruit to who to a poor person if you cut it off vegetables I'm talking about vegetables now when it comes to fruit when you it doesn't have anything to do with when you take it off the tree and that's rig could stay on the street for four years when did it Bloom let's look when it bloomed if it bloomed in the second year you eat the s-rig even though you took it off the tree three years later if it bloomed in the third year you give it to the poor person if a balloon in the sixth year you give it to the poor person let's keep on going so here's the blooming second year third year so when it comes to miser an essric tree is like vegetables so we just discussed meister and we'll show it in a second but when it comes to shemitah fruit you have different when it comes to shemitah you have to get rid of them so when you base it what year is it from so fruit goes by blooming Arlo you can eat fruit for three years the first three years you can't eat it when do you count the year based on its blooming so an S rig we're gonna base it out when it blooms not when you pick it off the tree when it blooms that's when you start the three years revive very interesting revise the fourth year revise very easy to remember it's exactly the same thing basically as Meister Shaney Meister Shaney is you take the fruit and you eat it yourself in yerushalayim and if it's too much food you don't want to bring all that fruit up to your slime you redeem it for for money for cash you can bring the cash up to your slime and then you go to a restaurant to eat a nice steak you buy wine you do whatever you want same thing with the Revive on the fourth year so now our boys say let's just do truma this is for the new guys if you get us if you're sick and tired of this um animation it's a great sign that means you know the stuff you it's nothing for you but many many people they see trumas and maistras and they get a little nervous so bakashan most of us here in the room are kind of sick of it we're gonna show it anyway we will for you that's why I said Jonathan for you we're showing it so if a person has a pile of 100 fruit it's awesome with the Horizon to eat it until he separates Truman Meister it's called tevel so let's say as a hundred he could give even a half an apple to the coin is yo it's right so but a good person gives two percent if he's even better use three percent give whatever he wants so he takes the two apples and he gives it to the coin that's called truma we're not even discussing that today but why not when you have 89 and a half apples left you give ten percent of that to the lady so he gives nine apples to the lady that's called Miser a tenth so first comes truma then comes Miser now once the lady has the Maison malachim I missed you welcome back don't turn around to be my vision he was a big part of this year for many many myself here he is back for illusion wonderful now yeah 10 percent the lady has 10 apples now in his in his city has nine apples I don't know I put 10 okay whatever he has if he has 10 apples 10 apples he has nine apples now it's easier whatever he has he takes ten percent of what he has and he gives truma to the coin you already gave you with the gun you get you gave two percent the lady has to give ten percent that's called true must Meister that's the one that's confusing and easy to remember now this is okay he goes he gives his ten percent of the gun great now we're talking about my Shaney am I certainly that's important to our studio we're going to go through very briefly but once we're here we're here 's one two four five you take ten percent and you eat it yourself you bring it to your shalayim and you eat you eat it if it's too much for you then you can redeem it what do you do here you take money the money turns into I think I skipped something but whatever let's see if it goes by itself no okay here we go he goes he he takes the money he changes the fruit for money the money becomes Kurdish with myself he takes that money up to your shalim here shalimi purchases food does whatever he wants that's my sushini it goes to himself whatever is left over he leaves your slime for the people in your life but in years three and six the same thing but now he doesn't get to eat it now he has to give it to poor people he takes the ten percent and he gives it to a poor person and that's why it's important to know when do how do we figure what the sister is is it from the third year is it from the second year is it like a fruit or is it like a vegetable okay so oh we're going to see in a second here we go vote is not at six Chevrolet is [Music] now we could go back to the slides for a second so these buttons are not working today slides please thank you so you have an S rig asterig is similar to a tree in three ways so when it comes to miser it goes like a vegetable but when it goes to these three things it's like a tree answering but according to what you just told me that Derek means the way of it doesn't the word doesn't fit in here the asterig is the way of an asterig is like a tree it's not the way of an Ezra is like a tree in three ways it's not the way of you want to tell me that a woman the the way of a man is to go seek out a wife but how does that word fit in the esri esic Chevrolet listening the volume I was thinking as I'm learning this in about a month we're going to go and look for Australian there's a point in time in my life that I spent many hours looking for striking my father used to take me to the east side and when I was older I went we went to Muncie and we used to open up boxes upon boxes for hours go look for that aspirin think to myself and again I might be wrong I'm Gonna Get You know those emails but who cares when we just learned this word shovel Elon room a thousand times the Mitzvah of buying that srig that's how tamatera is just saying the word asterig is more hush of than the midst of a vesser not belittling it and I'm not saying you shouldn't go out and buy that so you can spend the time you should from now on in the Queens but just and if you're not part of the deaf you're not learning Torah today it's a huge huge loss because you could be makaiyan tenfold just here Aztec shovel the lead legislation drop I'm listening says the reason why I say drop him is because I have to say the end that says over there hard because it's like a vegetable in one way well the guitar is going to ask immediately you didn't gain anything I saw interesting Shiloh here in Arizona one of the three ways that Esther is like a tree is shmita so it's a beautiful thing here we have here in Maple challenge we have esri um Paradise how do you say part of this in English Orchard and because it people just come in with their scissors and basically they destroy the trees over there it's it's very very sad and the guy the owners they they run they get their people to come and help you and so one guy had he said anybody could take any Ester you want but the icats the the branch part of the tree that cost a hundred dollars that I don't let you take you can take the whole fruit if you want but not not the branch so that would mean that the person would pass it and rip off the street without the branch and it's awesome no good so nobody nobody would take it a nursery no what are you saying does that work a mafia I'm being kind of in the midst of the third take I can't I can't stop even thinking but you cannot take the branch that doesn't say in the third Tire says you can take the fruit don't say cut my tree down so resolution said that because the s-rig is going to spoil right away it's going to be in stomach so it's considered part of the fruit because he gave the guy a hard time didn't let him do it okay says gamara say finale so but you didn't gain anything just because in the safety one right there so write Dover what do you get says no it does fit in the dark is Ricky Eric there is you could use the word Derek as a way the way of an asteroid is like a vegetables just like an asterig here you have this is like just the we used this uh recently so use it again basically irrigation those days they used to take from the from the rivers irrigate the fields asterisk needs a lot of water like a vegetable that needs a lot of water and therefore when it comes to miser we go like in that like a vegetable and the vegetable you base it on when you pick it not when it blooms a faster lego.com so therefore which requires not only rain water but also irrigation therefore when it comes to miser it's like a vegetable now a very basic question that actually points out right away as you pointed out before meister's only on grapes uh olives and grain so how could you compare vegetable and make a a heckish and a how does it work so it actually says and potatoes brings it also it's like we we saw you're right it's either a bottom to take Miser from a vegetables durabanan but they learned certain things from the tire and it has to match what the tire says my um now this word is very very upsetting for me because Yeshiva is always always and some people had koi but now with the art of scroll it's koi and it really it's really frustrating very I don't know what to do with it it's like Simi barashi we said we've seen me the whole time Yeshiva shimmy I don't know it's too much so quickly I can't do it yes we draw himself again let me show you here's uh here's a koi akoi is a mixture this is my clock is its own independent animal some people say it's a buffalo whatever some people say no it's actually a combination it's a a product of the mother was a deer and the father was a male goat yeah so it has things that it's similar to Kayo things are similar to Bahama it's a suffix it happens to be that my own parents were also very confused when it came to this sometimes they called me and sometimes they call me yeah I like it I hear yeah yeah it's very personal no this is one of the main seriously one of the main reasons why I say before she says because when my mother's Nifty I was only like 22 or something she never saw I don't think she saw much Knockouts for me all those years and to me it's sad that she didn't see me as a muggage here I say I hope that you know tell her hey your son just said he's saying some cheer somewhere okay Mario yes boy you're welcome so it has ways now let me show you here in the chart you can see it very simple when it comes to an animal you don't have to cover its blood a behemoth a cow a goat a sheep you don't have to cover its blood and it's Caleb the fats the certain fats that are awesome with their eyes it's the opposite you're allowed to eat it's fats but you must cover its blood so you have the red which is awesome the green that's mother the koi since we don't know what it is so we got the camera you say you have to cover its blood like and you can't eat a trail of like a Bahama so it's similar to high on one way in another way because you have to shift it just like you do for a high Mavis so it's similar to both you can't put together uh a kite with another animal says tysvis wait a minute according to the Madonna says that akoy isma so of course you can take a a goat and the deer and put them together what's the big hit the chair she says no we're talking about the Manama that says that it's not a British in fact it's a creation from a deer and a goat and if you say and we have a suffix do we have to be concerned about for the goat that's why we're telling you you're not allowed to be marbia you're not going to put it together with a goat this is the way but you're talking about things that uh similar to the Bahama this is the way it doesn't the word this is the way the sentence this is why it doesn't fit in there the Sue Z here the famous we just came off from I saw them right again I saw them sign the get when you bring a get from Hustler Terrace Israel in certain situations so when you free your slave you also have to do the same thing there's a similarity between a get of a woman and the Redemption the uh Disney's so I come over there it says it's not the way says you're right these questions are bomb questions foreign show how things are different from each other let's say a woman is we're going to see soon so it's coming to this it's a distinction these three yes not this um by zov you check him seven ways he jumps if he eats too much drinks too much but what about if he sneezes too much that's not one of the ways um and and by us also if I get right she says person says give this gift to my wife and then he has karata when it comes to get you could have harata when it comes to the mechanic you remember why because forget it's always uh to to be to to give a get to her to your slave it says but it's the opposite by a woman but whenever there's no distinction I use the word Varun dikem and I'll prove it to you if Tony is safer what does it say in the Savior bless since there's no distinction in realizer he says essric is similar to a tree in everything it says anytime the mishna tells you a number we know how to count bar Hashem certainly to three into two a woman is acquired in three ways yeah all the mission United States is because why count why give me a number in fact the first mission of vomis which is very complicated probably the most complicated it says 15 and then says why did it say 15. I would think hey 15 because you're starting to do it yourself and then you realize you're only the 14 you got to come up with the fifth no anytime says a number beyond the ratio that says that uh in three ways in other words if I if I do Harrison if I do heroism which is step one with a hope that doesn't work first I have to do everything I have to give her a ring I have to give her shovel Castle then step two is to do hopa but hope it's not gonna work very soon later who says that hope it does work for everyone so what does it come to exclude khaliban here's another uh music means as you see here this Hassan right over here is actually holding we do that a piece of cloth that says around it you make a Kenyan by lifting up this thing and Caleb sure Magna but he goes like this he's kind of and that's how he makes a canyon so the three ways you can acquire a wife is what the mission says it says but that's only to be kind of whatever it says over there in the star but not to be the what the sky was not not to acquire marshmallon it doesn't work maybe it could be kinda your wife with khaliban says it could be something that's worth less than a proton the Issa is not give herself to hidushan and Yoshi did a nice little thing here so first of all this is a real proof that this is what a proof it looks like so I drew uh I like this guy a lot this guy is a guy that learned in brisk if you look good you learn them Bruce he's a serious guy he's not a brisket but he learned in brisk so he wanted to be mechanics this woman with an exact Fruita but it happens to me it wasn't a proof that was a little less than a proof though so he uh uh he decided to give it to her and she just threw it right back in his face all right so oh hold on so Rashi says why is a woman not playing herself the less than a Pluto it's it's it belittles her it's not it's not covered foreign was asking the question the gemara understood that the the southern the khalipen let's say it's a yamaka it's worth more than the prutha we're using something that's more than brutal Sigma says no but from the fact that you could use something that's less than a fruit uh it proves that it doesn't operate as money because money is only a pruda so the fact that you could use a sudder that proves to me that we're not working with cassav it's a completely different type of Kenyan called khaliban that's why it doesn't work here all right foreign sponsor I happen not to be a big Maven in this thing but I figured you know if on tube of they asked me to to give Aegis for she do him and you know Yad lachim and I I gave him a hard time and the only I've ever made they're already divorced so who am I to give it's but I heard I heard from somebody and I want to stick it in here that they told me and it says here before that you could be kind of Isha be puta and I'm thinking about Europe Mandy you don't always have to buy a diamond tennis bracelet to be kind of your wife all you need is a puta you need a good word you need a nice letter a compliment a dozen roses it doesn't have to be a ten thousand dollar thing it could be a prutha but a possible if it's like a garnish that not but to be kind of wife to to together to be to be happy and be summer you could do that I don't know for sure sponsored by mdy tilling group where we dive in for a fools you sure she do him for Clyde Israel and our mdy family join us tell him that itbindav.com she acquires herself she's commanding anybody she wants in two ways why do you need the word too you cannot give your wife khalitza she can't remove your shoes I was going to bring the khalisa shoe again but I got an email a guy goes what you didn't wash your hands after you touched the shoe no I never wore it and then I read the back there he says I think that Allah is even if you don't wear it okay but I just produced it for this year to show it's not a real shoe so for that guy I'm not bringing the Khalid I'm gonna have to look into it further I don't know what it is oh we got to show this why not oh we don't have that much time you have two Baldwin brothers States he's still in America we miss him the Baldwin brothers and one of them rueve marries the five Towner and he goes bye-bye so the brother shimin and he doesn't have children the brother could either do yibon or khalitza but get doesn't work you need Khalifa she actually the woman that you could get rid of her easier with a cat and he didn't certainly the shoes should work shoot doesn't work maybe Shu should work on my crawl save in Crystal save a car sub into car so we had this you have to do a complete Severance you have to break everything and the way to do it is with a safer with a get and not with a shoe because so Rashi points out right away we just said but if I ask you how do you know that you can be accomplish a woman with money what would everybody say well there's more we learned from other people or another possible because we know them the suit and there's another big question that the gumar is going to emphasize there is when a father marries off his young daughter and we have here there's octano up to age 12. by age 12 if she has seen on him she becomes a Niro and that only lasts for six months Max from that point on 12 and a half and on she's a big ears so no matter the red and the blue the father could receive the question he receives the star bibia he could force her according to Rashi to get married babia your xiaomi says that he could sell her bibia in other words he could take money for this to be kinder bibia because how do you know that the father gets to keep the money she's working for somebody as a shifha when she turns when she comes to naira she goes out for free so then why is the third continue in Casa free means with nothing for nothing so encessif is is incursive as an extra two words so the more directions in this situation she goes out free she works up until she's 12. and you don't have to pay the master anything but in another situation you do have to pay the master whom I knew who's the master of now by the way selling your daughter we spoke about it many times in those days you have to understand the poverty and people couldn't they they just couldn't afford a kid so they figured here there's a wealthy person in the neighborhood let her at least have a good life by me she's gonna starve nevertheless stick Mario says if you sell your daughter even because you're very very poor you don't see any semen brother from that money at all it's a terrible thing I'll go upon him who told you that the money goes to the father maybe goes to her the third doesn't say loy he doesn't get a case of alloy it says in case there's no money you're right there is money when it comes to condition but it goes to the daughter who told you who to goes to you could be you could direction that there's money but it doesn't say which direction the money goes to and that's the bomb question which the government is going to answer when we get to that oh okay well wait a minute let's maybe Common Sense oh vehicle the father he decides we marries says rashing what good is it if he has the right to decide who she gets married to if he doesn't gain the monetary benefit from it that doesn't make sense so maybe it's only referring to the katana up to the age of 12. the Leslie you have the cover condition because she has no doubts right okay they can't decide things so therefore she can't decide who to marry so the father he decides who she marries plus he gets the money of an arrow but when she's 12 with him on him this law yeah she's a complete dialogue she's mature she gets on she does an Avera she could sell by macrame so she could accept her condition herself additional Cosmo so Rashi um Rashi brings is already a narrow what do you mean you're talking about octano says Rashi that we're talking about that he married off when she's a Tana today she's an arrow you're right he married over and she's a Time fine or Governor real base of VR so we have another puzzle the real base of VR when she's a narrow she's in the house of her father and this is talking about how far is the door so a lot of you are going to say well we know this and we went through nadaram but there are people that are new hafara means the idea that a father a husband could be mayford they couldn't know another if a woman takes a vow if it's the father and she's young he could just say it's nothing like like like this this is our hafara demolition service knocks out just gets rid of the hafara of the nether completely so the posix say has been real when she's a narrow still pesothea she's still the father has the right to another so we learn from that any benefit any game that she has monetarily goes to her father if so huh oh hold on maybe this is how do you know that a father has the right to take the girls his daughter's salary because it says that he could sell her as a as um just like when he sells her everything she does she earns money goes to her master half past Nami message you said you just said nervous it means everything that she earns goes to the father hello my first adorable so forget this possible this person is talking about that he has the right hand on the dark okay okay so learn kidushin from afraid if the father has the right again we're trying to figure out how do we know that the father is the right to his daughter's condition she's 10 years old and somebody gives her a diamond ring that's worth ten thousand dollars he takes the ring how do we know yeah okay when she's a naira learn from that a father has the right to be made for the nether of a naira and so too you should take the money you taught uh who said let me see and because [Music] I don't think you're right we'll discuss later yes just because when it comes to Issa when it comes to the Durham a father can do something you don't learn Mormon and monetary uh things from it and my boy's eye you could say here like uh not a vet but uh are you sorry uh I don't know if it's East Side you say mama today people are very much they won't eat in certain places they won't Mish and they want to abrupts and they won't eat in this Hall and that all and if the queen was three years touched something cold and this and that whole thing when it comes to let's say I'm in real estate so I'll give you emotional real estate uh you buy a property from a from guy and you ask him what's the occupancy how many people live there he says oh it's 90 yeah yeah and then you buy it and you find that it was never 90 since the day it was good it was only 80 so what is that called it's called Never stealing but it's okay in business sometimes they people think but that same guy if he was over you know some half of your Bronx Israel like the famous mice in Yeshiva with the guy kept on stealing stealing from this and he wrote on the thing called style and then nobody here from it stealing is okay yes or not why because you don't learn Geneva and moment so what I'm trying to say is if a person is he should be very marketed on mumminess of his friend huh [Laughter] some things we repeat sometimes we don't don't send email how come you repeat it just means it's just awesome don't worry about it maybe you should learn from the idea that the father if his daughter was violated he gets 50 shekel yeah so learn from there he gets the money should get the condition also why says it's not something that you know on your own you want to make it up of 50 shekel maybe it's 22 shekelo that the father God the fact that the Violator he has to pay two things he embarrassed her he was polygamer he has to pay it and that's considered money that's not a knas guy he he says Rashi very interesting the father is the right to marry her off to mukushkin terrible looking guy and that's a boy she's going to become and now he ruined the shedook him for her people that won't want her because they know that she was violated and so you ruined that so the Mela Chinese he's able to to marry off and to tell me he's in the departure goes back you said and you said you asked me the question who says it goes to the white to the father and maybe goes to the daughter you'd see the cover saw him in my head the moreover is Moises when I don't go out of this other this audience that she goes out of yes when she goes out of the father in other words before when she goes out of this master the zero money but there is money to the to that Master when she goes out of that Mass says two more lines two and a half volume but how could you compare going out of the master and leaving the father Hassan she leaves him completely he still needs to put it in the hopper and if there's no Hoopa he gets to keep all her mind it's all he's still in the pirate ship yeah but when it comes to nadaram she left him completely again when she's only engaged she's still in the father's house but only for my student but when it comes to the dorm she completely left yeah right that's more says it's not and I am Russell the Obama Darrell you still have to come on to the new guy raboysai have a wonderful day [Music]