Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 22 by R’ Eli Stefansky

I was thinking after you mentioned the cheers that people should buy cheers from him how about a database on the mdy website where members of mdy can post their business and other members will buy from them be a big myth in today's environment we've been speaking about it many many times all the best because right now um yeah I think on this shabbatron they're thinking about doing like like boots or whatever so people could display their merchandise their ideas their businesses Etc will see if that uh but yeah we I think it's gonna be on the website yeah Homer says yes it's going to be on the website business to business Thomas Devore is going to have a booth there come check it out okay hi everybody first I would like to think if you share it gives me loads of and I do the dive daily with you you said by myself here that you saw while you were a kid at Salah or even as doing CPR with a big device it was that solo you didn't know the name of it just for the info this machine is called the Lucas auto pause here let's see if I can show it no how come that's not working that screen is not working that's as in the America's Got viewing me mdy huh [Music] he says mdy results these people that's the particular okay how do we get that we can't get it today we're working on it Gary's not here today just for the info every Attila has it nowadays and it really saves lives by never gonna do proper chest compressions see attached image of the machine is some more video the machine and action while I'm trained no I I didn't see that one Santa gross hat solo convey England or boys I this is not such great news one of our good good part of this year wrote in many emails a very young person by the name of Reb minache mendelbron cousin of Mendy very close cousin was nifter in the tragic simple accident on a paddle boat it's unbelievable so his insurance he's going to be sorely missed the whole thing unbelievable the kylo because we started late we're just going to skip right to the sponsorships the coil of the month maybe we married the crown Hashem Lincoln New Jersey because Toyota and Actos are the best segula from Alberta and Gabriel Benny aminov Paris and all the empty wires by Peter murker in memory my grandfather Yeshua biakovi on his 52nd yard set I just remembered my daughter wrote to me she said what was his name Dr Lightman she's like she went to his office and she said you know your father messed up my name I don't know if you said like that but basically it's my grandchildren's doctor and I didn't know so now I know Dr light mean for taking care of my grandchildren doctor yes the mdy headquarter Coffee corner and beverage for the week by by vladislav zakarov reportsana here we go I have a Shiloh huh [Music] foreign are you familiar with they could be kind of metallic with anybody how many can you on him are you familiar with so start saying them anybody want to say something that's not bad so he said through land agave there's one more and I thought maybe Thailand wouldn't no because it doesn't because it doesn't work Michelle said we said one more one more one more since today's gamara okay it's a tricky one ding ding ding Judas right hop up no you're wrong why would you think copper thank you my groups did I tell you or should we wait for the tomorrow masiro huh anybody ever hear that no okay that's what we're learning today tells us excuse me you do a quick Hazara here the Hawaii faster I still don't see it on the screen over here 's seven it's very very easy and each one is learned from the possum we'll just review it and we'll see it again tomorrow and then maybe it'll stick better is only when you see her in the Muhammad you can't take her as a slave and five days later decide you want to marry her it applies even if she's completely married to somebody else she says this you'll add a taker even if she's not attractive looking even though the Taurus is he fast it's also to take two of them only one it's also to take one for your son it has to be for yourself and she becomes a complete wife even though she didn't accept upon herself gero said you can't be Mika there's a guy she becomes a gears against her will and she becomes your wife and it's also to be boiled you have to take her home those are the seven alongside our bottom two lines from the bottom of Base Vero ISO bye so the Gambar is going to Direction every word over the Posse is at the time of the capture ashes are the word you fast it's telling us that the Torah is trying to counter act the eight Sahara it's Sahara tells you one thing you do another thing now another shot could be here yeah it's working sometimes when there's a header that takes away from the table it's like my moving Taco so once it I said you know it's mothers okay now I think about it again so tired says there's something that an animal that's about to die even though Allah you can go grab a knife real quickly and check it and it's mutter but it's most it's disgusting it's it's meat that we try to stay away from if you ate it nobody's gonna give you malkus but it's disgusting it's about to die it's on its last second you're gonna shut them says it's better to do it like that an animal that's about to die rather than let it die and even available that's for sure also that's the eraser so here also the whole idea is not a good idea we're talking about the greatest people in college so that went to war the whole thing is what's going on here but at the end of the day the player says listen if he can't control himself and he can't be I mean in a second I'm gonna let you at least be besides musise it's like but you haven't been the evidence but at least he's not going to be over it is it's better to eat a chocolate than a novella even though it is dying next word it depends on your friendship but she doesn't have to be beautiful you think you're fast means oh no not even the next word teaches us they can't take two homes it really works so again even though and Rashi holds that the gerus happens it's interesting the Rama margues the ramam says you have a whole year to try to convince her to become yours if she says no it's your loss she has to go back home but Rashi holds no you take her and you're forced her integeros so I would think since you forced her maybe it's not a it's not a real condition no it works as a regular condition you'd have to give her a get the whole thing is you don't have the right to take two sorry this is a different so you shouldn't take one for yourself and one for your father don't be a nice guy oh oh there's a perfect for my son ah this uh Christmas you know what yeah moms looks super fast it's not for your son that is a double lotion so we could go through this also this is more of them actually it's your loss in other words if you miss that the opportunities are going to say it has to be one one moment at least before the final pruto and during the final pruta so if you don't if you don't say during the final pruta let's say just for argument's sake we try to figure it out here in the coil for I would say in general it's about 20 minutes let's say just to throw out what the the average sale of evidence and how many minutes are in a day and then in six years let's say approved this 20 minutes time for the for the argument's sake except those 20 minutes if you don't say it in those 20 minutes you said it 21 minutes before the end of his office doesn't work that's to be within those 20 minutes and right before the 20 minutes that both he and his master have to have a wife and children he has to have children and they have to love each other there can't be any fighting between them in other words if he loves his master but his master doesn't like him that much it doesn't work they both have to be healthy if his master is sick and he's healthy it doesn't work foreign he has to say it twice one in the beginning one at the end the gamar's gonna explain when oh my God understands at the beginning that has to say once in the beginning once at the end ain't no idea said there's no recession he has to say it at the end of these you know what let me just show because there's a lot of them later so just to show this for a second all because I told Yoshi this idea I had in my head if you ever work in construction and if you ever try like a very very powerful drill it's very dangerous sometimes it takes you for a ride like you could it's so powerful that if you hold on strong and the the bit is not turning the machine turns and it turns you so I told him I think and I was a little disappointed when I saw it at the end so you did it for me so this you can enjoy with me this is what it was supposed to look like okay fine we'll see a side view of him soon there's more of that to come okay yeah nobody understands what's flying here we have a friend we have a friend that was in the show they said that the Evan looks like him okay if you say so actually um where are we obviously yeah he has to say it again did I skip anything foreign exactly huh so the Royal says because it says you have to say it twice and the reversion was scared will say it a second time she said you said it once stop here because if you say it again I'm gonna have to give you that ability to be Avid oil foreign it's not his wife it's the wife that was given to him when he became a slave I like my wife and my children he doesn't have children yet he doesn't have a wife yet obviously we're talking about all the way at the end so why do you need a puzzle for it says you have to say these words all the way at the end and not at the beginning in the near to why he has to be a slave change live ever do you have to say in the beginning why because he has to be Avid at the end he's also evid as long as there's a five minutes left is Abdus he's still in heaven why can't I fit into those words therefore it says we're just talking about it doesn't mean the beginning and the end it just means he must say it all the way at the end the mamish the last moment what's the last moment within the last pruta so let's just for argument's sake say that's the last 20 minutes and he has to also say it once before the last a moment before the last minute so at 21 minutes he could say it and at 19 minutes he can tell you and then he's like he doesn't have to say it in the beginning of the sixth at the end of the sixth it just means within the last prutha and right before the last person that's it no we're talking about one proof the left if a person was bought for a million putas so you divide six years in a million produce and if the million putas is five minutes so in the last five minutes if he's bought for a half a million dollars so it's 10 minutes whatever it is you know what I'm saying it's last minute no no the last last minute no you divided by money not by hours right value of money puta how much how much is approved though you have to be a big genius need a calculator foreign when he's set free why don't you set free I don't know any set free you forget when he said free I'll tell you when the prude goes that's a different album he's asking a different he's asking a different child does the evidence works or does it ever work to the end of the day toshia I don't think so he thought about it here during this but it's a different China sorry about him another Allah it almost seems like like uh like uh Ben sir Meyer there's like 20 halachas that you have to keep they have to be the same height the same voice the same this you know it's not so easy to be a near town if he himself has a wife and children his master's single this is I love your house your household in other words your wife and children if only his master has and he doesn't have children it doesn't work she never have this by the way this is like compensation sort of for yesterday's so good it's nice easy it rolls some people they dropped out already see they won't even hear this yesterday wow and on a Sunday morning it was like on a Tuesday where we had a full 24 hours to draw and do things great this should have been on Sunday morning this staff right here we could have flipped it actually next time we made right after flip a baseball five we'll think about it you have to have this idea of I love my master my children I'll say a joke here because it's actually it's it's a l Dicker joke even though it starts off a little not there's there's three people about to be sentenced for 10 years there's an American there's a Greek and whatever one of our cousins over there so they they said what do you want for the 10 years so the Americans said I want to I want internet connection with the laptop okay the the Greek guy says I want my wife to come with me okay our cousin says I wanted cigarettes for the whole 10 years so after 10 years they open up the door the American comes out all happy smiling says you know I made Millions on Wall Street it was unbelievable you know online account stock market development you killed them the Greek the open up the door he comes out with 10 kids everything is the cousin comes out has a cigarette in his mouth he says does anybody have fire anybody [Laughter] so the next they do this sometimes we have to take this joke and make it we live our whole life and on the last days like uh what happened maybe Chicago Ryan um give me a Gambar quick the best you could do in our mountains that we have now anyways he said I have this Adonis is I have a children I just thought about it because of the children I have all these children and I got here the whole it's born I got some whoever this Rabbi rabbit what if what if I threw that in if he has a master and the master doesn't like him if it's the opposite his master loves him how's he gonna find somebody like him whenever his rabbi nirza he likes the situation he just doesn't like his master so much is telling us that if you want to be by somebody forever you have to make sure that he's about me this he goes into this whole thing that if the master who typically doesn't like the slave and the slave typically doesn't like the master because he worked him hard and mistreated him if there's a love between them so then NATO says okay you know what a situation like that with this good meat that's going on here will let you stay there longer that's what he said this is interesting you wouldn't have thought of this they have to be in the same situation if if the slave is sick and the Master's not sick and then there's uh they have to be the same they're together but what if they're in the same situation just a bad situation they're in the same situation it's great has to be a good situation being about like uh [Music] we had this already you have to give him the same [Music] caviar the same the same keyboard you give him the clean bread like you either not the keyboard you have to give him the same bed the same mattress the same pillow color evidence the Torah is telling us how to treat another human being don't mistreat him you shouldn't you shouldn't work them hard that's my first okay in the food give them the pillow and as we said yesterday dushami says if you only have one pillow he gets it foreign oh here it's in the wrong place great [Music] check this out it says in the possible if his master gives him a wife in other words it gives him some non-jewish slave ho is what does it say in the past look that he doesn't go home with his wife and children the wife and children stay by the master so now let's see this it says another person he should leave he leads with his children what's going on everybody said what's the answer oh he had Jewish children he had a Jewish wife before he became a slave and they leave with him what does that tell us they were there with him had a a room over there with his God and how do they how do they have food foreign to support your your slaves wife and children so it comes out if we are a voting keeper uh if we're slaves tacos barjob supports us and our children foreign the the sons they they don't they don't know how to make food she's capable on her own let her make her own food yes it's not the barrier for her to go collecting the British crisis on this camera that in the imribina he says that there was a young child who's collecting money at a door so the guy says how long are you doing this for so the kid says I'm doing this for 13 years he's his third thing you're not even by minutes I have 13. he says no no my mother used to collect money when I was in her stomach she's already collecting that so it's live live Duke live duration but the children that it is the Dara to go collecting maybe I would say he doesn't have to support them how about the the famous Meister the xiaomi who's dying on his deathbed he called the Sons over he said listen you you get the building on 42nd Street and also the one next to it you you get the building on Fifth Avenue and that so the kid said Tata our whole life we live in such poverty and now it's now you're telling us about these buildings he said no no no you get the routes [Laughter] um yesterday [Music] ask you everything to say there actually come here a second actually get over here come on get over it yeah actually people don't know why she is sometimes we hear him I want to share with alum a letter you wrote here on a piece of paper towel and beautiful handwriting I'm not joking I'm gonna read it good morning my boys are you still doing the daff daily if so give aldik if not he wrote this to me if not now's the perfect time to jump in don't let the AIDS to convince you otherwise if you feel you don't have time for the full cheer then we have great news the eight minute daf is back recollution that's right so now more than ever is the right time to get back on but on board everyone has eight minutes invest eight minutes and get back on you get back an alternative benefits have a wonderful day I see wow I see works really really hard in Yeshiva right yes and now she comes every single day does it have nothing that's fine so is he liking the jokes today yes good joke yes what about the last one with the rest that was very good I just sometimes I'm I don't always laugh but I do get the jokes I was worried about it I'm working on my sense of humor actually I did hear you saying ah like you made like this it wasn't a laugh it was more like um okay fine thanks for this letter okay no no not a letter it's like it's a it was a draft to call people and to drive people to the left how many people do you give also you're an artist no yes and by the way a lot of people in Borough Park know him because he used to do embroidery how many years 17 years of your prerequisitions and Barbara he probably did it okay now we gotta go learn some play rashing yeah yeah two kids the whole sound it's against them where are we oh no name is let's go back here too here the stoop soup maybe you don't have to poke his ear you should take his ear put it by the door and you make a hole in the door only in the door the same height level of the of the earth what do you mean it says in a different puzzle here this one it says eternalizing my bright perhaps you should poke a hole in the ear away from the door then put it on the door and then you poke a hole on the other side of the door now this might be slightly confusing to the island what just happened don't worry we have animation for this here we go so this is oh I think I just missed it here this is having factored all so now he's gonna poke a hole through his ear not by the door that's you're saying okay then he puts him by the door check this out boy's eye and if you if you you might miss it if you space out look all the way to the left also at the same time while you're looking in the center all the way to the left here we go look what's happening all the way to the left oh gets up to the ear from the other side of the door this is the inside of the house yeah I think you poke a hole through his ear somewhere else by the what is it called the people that do the holes in the ears by the the jewel the the piercer very good the ear piercing and then you bring him to the house and you come you put them on the outside of the door this is the inside of the house you copper boys is the inside of the house you make a hole my dream you could argue with my dream my dream is that every dab should have one of these pieces even on a higher level and I'm not exactly sure how to get there but bazersham we're working on it we're getting we're getting there every day it's a new it gets better okay you poke the hole through the ear we said according to come on top of the ear until we get to the door that last reminder how do you know the door has to be in the house standing up maybe it's you buy it at Home Depot laying flat on the floor just like the mezuzah is standing up the the master if the how do you say it in English door frame yourself great don't change my house so she said let's go to the rabbits you know what you're such a good husband you're letting you do all this why are you why do you make it Shara a compromise just put it on the right side of the door so the guy was masking and nine months later whatever and then if two years later he becomes foreign [Laughter] [Music] over here it says this is the ear that heard me saying the social level are my slaves you have no right and with Direction you shouldn't be an avid to another event what are you being your evidence the first six years you had no choice you stole whatever but now to be a slave another 50 years that's why your ear deserves to be piercedure also used to that takes place by the door because do it on the on the dining room table or Michael Jordan who doesn't show you Adam they were witness to what happened in Missouri if the famous Passover Allah that's when I passed over the hidden and I said you are my slaves will I have others and he went and the same thing you should do the retail in front of them says the halogen missionary foreign now so in order to be an Evidence you you your purchase the commission is going to describe how and you get a bris your title and you become a Jew like that lockers of a woman get the misses of a woman eviction money you write a document a sale document is going to explain a bunch of ways he has to do something for you so how does he acquire himself he doesn't go out after six years he doesn't go out but you're evil so how does he the coin attacks me because so this is uh you should really do this one first there's a concept called the famous content of shots maybe not everybody's familiar with 90. whatever Master whatever A Slave acquires let's say he walks in the street finds a diamond ring it becomes the Masters so therefore if I give him a hundred dollars to free himself it automatically becomes the Masters now there's something called that only applies to Epic evidence and I thought about it afterwards I realized we actually had a sugier where if the girl finds a metsia becomes she has to pay for the time that she wasted for her master and as uh she pointed out it might be a fraction a second it might be 20 minutes whatever but it says you don't own the evidence you own but there's a way to get out of it it's called I'm a national sport here's a hundred dollars on condition that your master doesn't ever show us the town of says that doesn't work over here because it must be that a stranger somebody that's not an event comes to the master and says take 100 bucks on conditions that you release that slave there's no tricks of giving it to the slave on condition that the master doesn't get it but when he gives a star of the release star then the the the evict could take it himself even though mashikona evid Conor Rabbi that moment that it gets but we said get to the other one it works simultaneously mayor and if the rabbi gives him a diamond let's go right back to the rabbit I'm not sure it works because as long as you saying boys I don't care that Evan himself has the money they say not only that another stranger could acquire the star to release the habit but going back to the castle it needs to be other people's money can't be the slaves money because the slave has no money how do you know all these three interesting just yesterday we're talking about this so now we're more familiar with it if a person has a field that can be Arusha all the way from Yeshua benon that is but in the positive it says the word the same word so we can learn from it that you take a slave and he doesn't go free when the master dies rather he goes to the children it's yerusha laresis we know as we learned yesterday let's show it here we go Village but if you just compared anevit to a field so that would you go back to the owner very interesting yesterday we learned means for evidence means until yovel and now we're saying Loyola means forever because if then the third shouldn't say anything then just go we learn everything from and just like you could be called and it goes back in your evil so to an event goes back in Iowa but from the fact that the Torah adds and says turns away from your level into forever Tana in addition to purchasing a slave because I give you this handkerchief and you give me back uh I go to the master that owns the slave I give the master mayamaka and he gives me the slave Don so how come it's not an hour of course you could purchase a Slave like you purchase any other foreign yeah today we used to go to store you buy potato chips with money but that's not one of the canyon that we buy with to acquire Allah ugly as to be the machine typically let's say so the mission is telling us only things that work on on on on karka and Metatron doesn't work and khaliban doesn't work Omar um so let's just see this for a second so these are the the king yanem that work on on metabolism you're doing exchange I give you this Messier means I'm giving it over the conversion explain how lifting up these things work by Avid the what you pulled them and the slave came to him that's considered a king by its like but if he called him and he came that's like you know it doesn't work Tony our mission we're not talking about things that work by Metallica The Lesson methodology but if it's not by um so it says that it works also in halipin he talks about how come doesn't talk about foreign you call him just a verbal command doesn't work asking Mario why not a verbal command works by an animal [Music] you hear this this is the idea huh Kate said yeah so I'm just saying this is a canyon called King in Missouri it's a trick now now people know there's a king and quote in the syrup he grabbed itself you grab the main of a of a horse book of Charlotte on the side you grab the saddle in other words anything attached to the animal he he gave it over he says here this this horse is yours and you grab the saddle kind of you have a giant baggage on top of the the donkey you grab the the Box foreign I did a search I knew that we did once a prumbia I couldn't believe it but it's I'm showing it to you to show where we came where we used to be Shabbos where our art was before Yoshi when I used to do it and today right boys say ladies and gentlemen here you go that's prumbia I did a little the you can't even see the it's the that's thick it's gray it goes in the mouth of the of the horse okay the bit ubazoo and the bell that's on its neck here another Kenyan called they could call an animal and it comes with a stick and it starts moving up once it lifted up its hand I'm not going to tell you the message with Remy medicine I said already just recently when I hit the horse and got into the bunk and okay five different time massive ambulance it has to walk it's whatever let's say a horse is 10 feet long so it walks 10 feet I mean so what's this so what do we do having me can be quite an animal uh a human being by calling him Army behemo addicted tomorrow Oslo when you give it a verbal command you say whatever its name is and it starts moving that's because the the master says it doesn't goes by himself I don't know if you have the pictures of having the Masjid yes to tell us so why did you go over here so my friend told me to go foreign a minor who doesn't have Das and he he walks because the Master's on the walk so that's different let's keep on going two minutes we have a picture no not this one he this is fresh for today he took the shoes and he walked them all the way to the bath house if she thought he undressed him he bathed him he smeared the oil on him like they used to do shampoo gerardoi he gave him a good scratch so I looked it up it's really this it's called stridgel something like that and they had the Romans had a like a like a device they used to they used to scrape their skin after bathing so that's one of the things he did Gary though he'll be shy he clothed him he need like put on his shoes he lifted him up the slave lifted off the master kanoi that's all Kenyan um shouldn't be greater than lifting what's going on here Michael Myers so the tanakama holds that if the slave picks up the master like this if the slave picks up the master then he's calling him he could be a rabbi lie like night if the master picks up the slave he's not calling him on that I don't remember but it's not true that word that by lifting by the master lifting up the slave it's just like him lifting up an animal lifting up a potato you look at some potato becomes yours he lift up the slave it becomes yours says now that you say that if the slave picks up the master he's kind of an element when Bia where she supports him so she didn't about to him then she he should be coming to her through that says the mark economies and then start it has to be a mice of of avdos they're both benefiting from it even though it's very late so that when it comes to avdos when we're slaves so not always this is time during the death sometimes doing the daf is painful it's hard that's being an avocado because when it's not painful when you have enough from the Mitzvah it's not after this is over here you want to be in a massive average you're saying that's what it means even even when it's not so comfortable it says maybe she he should be kind of her through the river noise even if it's not enough then we have apostle that says that they work the same way or maybe the shot is that there is another involved because the terrorist Market have a wonderful day