Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 19 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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so everybody's holding on that field has some of the base a little bit of a middle of a soya [Music] vladis love zacharov there's no hot coffee have catch and chocolate says Dr Avi Factor you have to send them back some money or you have to give him another day next week Dr Avi factor is sponsoring the hot cocoa for the month twelve hundred dollars yay yeah we have a Shiloh where do you get a bike from back to back no bikes bikes B3 bikes it doesn't pay [Laughter] does yield create Harrison or nassoon that was a Shiloh we had yesterday person sells his daughter as an almost real the owner the master has the right to marry her yield or to give her over to the Sun what do you think about this shot huh think about this chat for a second don't don't uh go crazy on it right away I Know No One's Gonna Love It what's chatting you maybe perhaps you know the same time of the girl what's proud of Youth why would the third say sell it for Alma and you get to marry her what's shykers selling for Ahmed selling for ammo maybe maybe the guy needs his money why is he selling his daughter he's in he fell into some hard times he needs some money so tired is telling us you have options here you could sell it for a lot of money sell it to that family sell it for less money to this family but that family they have some bad things going on there they have some kids that have a sugar they have a father that's a stick all this house over there and what's going to encourage you because you should know that your daughter might end up with that guy and that guy's gonna be your son-in-law do you want that guy to be your son-in-law the guy driving around in the the convertible Ferrari whatever the machine the hot shot or do you want the upset you'll take less money but that guy maybe you like it I know you're gonna like it okay put it in the safer huh exactly protected in ruthless all right so how do we know what what do we do is yield Nissan said a very interesting thing and we covered the Mendy we made a chart for the gamara says there's a case where father sells his daughter who's in our mono sells he sells his daughter as a ameria even though she's a widow so proves that yield is errison how she goes like this here's the Mercury that's the case now if she was married before and she lost her husband that's impossible that's an X impossible why because once she gets married the father has zero 's over he can't do anything can't he can't marry her off he can't sell or he can't marry that's it once he's married Venezuela let's say who's only ever since she got engaged well we learned issues so even if she only got engaged you can't you can't sell her you can't yeah that was yesterday the big day you can't sell her after there's shiftless now what what we're gonna do soon is we're gonna change this the harrisoned you could sell her it goes according to the amount number you could sell it but according to the Amanda Omar that you can't sell her after Everson so it can't be that we're talking about a case where father sells his daughter as a widow to somebody because even though if she's only in stage one you still can't sell her so how's the password that the father sold his daughter who's a Harmona the only eight sir abaisa is after yield he sold his daughter as an armor and the guy the Border said Harem you ever sleep because and then he dropped it he dies so the father went ahead and sold her again she's an almana from yield and he sold her now wait a minute what stops what are we talking about what does you do if yield creates a fullness soon a full fledges soon how could the Father sell her she's a full-fledged married woman the husband yarshin sir made from the door him everything so it's impossible hello Ma you must be talking about yield and you'd only create a Harrison and that's the case of a father selling his daughter as a widow that's the whole guy now let's see inside we'll start like somewhere in the middle here bummer of Ameren we're talking about the third option oh sorry you're right I should tell people 10 it's always ten lines even if it's 11 it's 10 lines from the bottom two four six eight ten eleven lines so you see it says in the Box in the yield box the what we're going to see sooner mclokus we could we could we can show it over here also why not this is Shyla when the Father the guy on the right is selling his daughter in the middle to the guy on the left when he receive the money is that the money towards the kiddushan the eventual that might happen or not or the condition takes place at the time that he wants to marry her so she's working for him for five years and then without giving her money he gets engaged to her or marries her but it wasn't with the money that he purchased her rather since this girl has to work another year she tells her listen I'm going to be Michael you you don't have to work for me for another year and with that I know you get married so it's showing it's a lovely conditional we're going to go according to the mandalama we're going to talk about a little bit more today it goes according to this is the father never received condition he's not involved so if he's not involved therefore he could sell her again he never he was never mcadisher the fact that she married that Master has nothing to do with the father that was her own thing be honest however it must be that you would only create errors in stage one not stage two and soon because if it creates stage two Cuban Chinese that's posture that if she gets married she's married and finished the father can sell her again so what's the case of her selling her to come you tell me no that it's Harrison that's what we want to prove we want to prove that you creates everything this oven and everybody agrees down the comment below as everybody holds from micro soft wait a minute everybody agrees that after everything you could sell but a person cannot sell his daughter to as a shift after he shows even Harrison Elementary so you got to say no when it comes to yield it's different than what we learned that a father cannot sell his daughter even if if she got engaged that's it he's cut off he can't sell her anymore but maybe the Arizona yield is different when the father had nothing to do with it she got engaged on her own and she's a fatana it's different and when she got engaged by herself and then her husband dies then the father could sell her again [Music] but even if you say the yield creates a full-fledged marriage say the same exact spiral you just said oh we could differentiate between Arizona that happened through the father and everything that she did so say the same thing let's differentiate between that happened on her own and soon that happened from her father perhaps even if she got married to this master the father could go ahead and sell her what did you tell me that one she's completely married the father has no no control over her maybe it's not true maybe if she got married on her own then the father does everything says no that's not good hi my business medicine shining and assuming soon to be shining in other words the word saying it's impossible to say that once she's married she's a full-fledged wife what do I care how she got there she's 100 a wife he arches her he's mitometer he's made foreign so yes she did it on her own it's different than when he married her off so what but she's a football but area of sin is different ever so nothing happened she accepted everything and maybe it's different when she accepts to when the father accepts fine so that's one shot that's uh we're trying with maybe that's the shot over here that the case of um a father selling his widow daughter is a case that she was sold as a Alma Once Upon a Time and her master decided to marry her only Everson and then he died and she's considered a widow and then the father went ahead and sold her however the reviews but if you hold that when the father here this is Meister shawna's Lively condition no but he holds that the father was involved the condition it do the the father when he receives the money in the beginning for her slavery her servitude whatever you want to call it what are you cleaning latiness a what yeah whatever so you'll say that the money was for condition and if it was for conducion and the father's involved if the father is involved then you can't make a hillock oh this is an erosion that happened by by her and this is everything that happened by him and everything that happened by her he has resource to continue selling her no it wasn't her it was him and it was him it's it's it's right let's go back to this thing for a second show here if this is we said it's yield and if it's interested in the center one it's impossible why because once he is mechanism he can't sell her as a shifra oh but yield he didn't he wasn't a cabbageur she did it herself but according to this my daughter he was my God this year so now you're back to square one you're back to erosion this mom's like Harrison so what do you gain here what is the case that a father sold his widow daughter uh now check this out we have to go to this look what happens to Iris and now wow oh yeah it's beautiful Harrison there's a check mark now it works why moving the only time you can't do something is when you're trying to sell your daughter as another Amma after she left her first job she worked for six years let's say from the age of three to nine and then you try to sell her again that you can't do issues but if she was just engaged matsumizabin law what's the again ignorance question was what's the case of a father selling his daughter as an almana oh he got he engaged her it doesn't matter he accepted kidushin and and later on and then her husband died and he sold her but now we don't have a Riya about yield with the whole the whole point of this whole city was does he would make Arizona we're not even talking about you during my regular errors in them today today right today is is there a problem does he have to start on breakfast that bass look random sugar as if you don't need to know anything from before just what does you mean by your sluggish the tire says that a father the master is me either and live he could also give her over to his own son but how old does the Sun have to be does it have to be a godo or not now it means any any age mad who God all just like the Masters the god um so it goes like this a cotton who's nine years old over however a cotton doesn't have the ability to acquire anything he can't make kenyana a cotton even if he finds something in the street it's not even his only the Roboto we make it his chicken oil or whatever but a cutting can't go to the store and acquire something right so he cannot acquire a wife it's not not something you do so it says like this ish proudly caught them here's the possible she's a married woman is they both die but it says the ish that the person the naive has to be an adult so if you have a nine-year-old kid who's a notif he's he goes with the hsish you don't kill him now why would you think you kill him he's nine years old he's not Hive him it says when do you part since when do we punish a minor we don't even punish sometimes miso is 20 years old like why would I think they have to punish the Beer Works but he doesn't have that he's a little kid you're gonna and the bill works of a one month old let's say it worked in a month you kill a one month old he doesn't have that says that I would think that he's like a behemo that a behemoth that was near that a woman you killed the Bahama why the shouldn't the people shouldn't shouldn't be Brazilian and look this animal so I would have a Hava Mina they'd kill this kid because if the color came out through this kid what's up as a side note okay as the universe is this but the continuation is actually enough as ish Prattville is just caught them what happens if a minor is married to Abu Dola and somebody had relations with that Dola okay she was over on Isis her husband is nine years old is she at what what's the problem oh that's also here that's also you your cash is so good but before we get to your question you want to know how did a nine-year-old marry her he can't he's looking at him very good that's the whole point and the answer is going to be yield [Music] where it doesn't have to his father married him off so but let's just stop here for a second I just want to make a very important point there again you have a couple she's 25 years old the husband is nine years old and she was mizana she's not having me so I can says she has to be the wife of the ish of a gobble I have a question let's say you have a regular married couple the Bob Dylan and she was mizano with a nine-year-old what happens to her she gets killed why does she get killed very good so they're all saying here that she gets killed because it's very important to know just the other way around if she's married to a nine-year-old then it's not considered a marriage because he's nine years old so she's not Asia's ish but if she's a real full-fledges is and she has relations with a nine-year-old since his B is a beer I just want to point that out so we understand what's going on here yeah okay can a father take his nine-year-old son and marry him off how long it is she's very good in the kitchen let's marry them off so be honest wait a minute if if you could do yield the father can marry off midday right so because the tire is saying it works in the Horizon so what are you telling me there's no Oasis ish who's married to a 9 year old there is Asian American my enemy eyes you can say no there's no I might come in my Lacross if there's no suches of a cut married so then why should I have to eliminate it from here this is no I have a great case to answer judah's question as a password on so here's the case I just did it's not it's not it's not great because I don't know how to do animation never learned so how to take an animated piece and and flip out avignonski for the for the for the nine-year-old but the point is there's two brothers here one is a goggle one is uh akata and the the girl that got married and then bye bye so now this cotton who has zika we call it zika there's a bond between the cotton and his sister-in-law the Torah makes a bond they're not married but they have a band the band is that she can't go and marry whoever she wants he has to decide whether he wants to do so now the only option that he really has is beer so after Bill he becomes a full-fledged husband even though he's only nine years old other than it's different than any other case because the Kenya wasn't done through him the King was done automatically with their eyes the tire made that Canyon through that Bond age since the Torah put them together and it's been considered eyeballs that's the case that the third is trying to eliminate you would think that if somebody has relations with the zivama he's over and he says ish and they get at the end of the day could that answers the question and then continues you can't be a cotton you have to have Das that's I need to say the same thing twice you just said yes father can force the Sun that she needs to be notified what's going on here or you need to at least ask her for permission that's how you can learn now but that's the dog you have to notify her of course you have to notify excuse me we're talking about what my law uh says it and explains it because no there's no doubts of the father typically if if the father accepted condition although in the beginning when he sold his daughter so you don't need any notification the father did everything he needed to do a God that was involved there but since the moisturation isn't it no the father was in a valve so now I need to notify this this girl hey you're getting married tomorrow even if you say that the first money was given liquidation the father was involved the father did it it says that you have to tell her okay my reviews review that now we mentioned him a few times but what what's his uh foreign you have to make sure that there's enough time in the day that you could prorate parade her and get her out like that you kind of reverse review though I mean it shows you have to be able to do a full brutal and if you can't do a pruta again she worked for six years it's a half hour before her release and that half hour is not worth the proof though so if you cannot if she could say hey I have half hour left I'm giving you a proof to let me out a half hour early then you could do yield but if you can't do Padilla then you can't do you you yes what do you see from here why do you need money at the end why do you need that there should be a proof to left the father receives six years ago a whole bag of money that that's enough huh yeah that's what I said you run against the proration this is not for me what I'm about to say this is more for Avi kamianski and people like him um above and beyond this but there was a guy who's a lawyer no remind me about me he's like not me lawyer his son comes to him says how much you earn an hour just let me get out of here how much you earn many Michelle sugar finally the guy says 200 now okay kid comes back like half an hour later with a whole bag he says ta here's a hundred dollars please spend a half hour with me no of course that's not again to me I just like to say this mice is over yeah does it what why you do you ever try that your father spends a lot of time with you okay good evolving is so you see over here every hour is worth money every how much is it worth but at the end of the day we should spend more time not me we should spend more time with our kids it's very very no I spent time I mean I see them from where I learn you guys are out working somewhere in Romania the national lawyer so if you look over here the the have that goes together with the other says the gamara it's right there it's word after word so the yield has to do with the opinion that you have to be able to do the deal you have to be able to do giron kassef nothing to do with the fact that it's condition is I still have to be able to do Behavior why because it puts them together you ought to have them that we can learn from from from these from these words says Robin the name of his rabbit you could tell your daughter worry about you go go go do your own thing without the father involved which is a huge huge finish how in the world could a katana who doesn't have a yard can be king on him how could it work okay it's a different pirushim how exactly he gave her his kayak with the reviews from what we just learned live on my recent review the moisture Islamic condition it knew at the end of the day the father wasn't involved there why because when he sold her he didn't accept any condition but at the end the Masters mikadish one-on-one with her he made a deal with her not with the father so that's very simple so you see that the father can just say go ahead go be a slave and if you decide to get engaged him get it it has nothing to do with me now if you read it like this it needs a lot of explanation but Isis does us a big favor here and explains it beautifully it's a lot different than what you're thinking means if the master if a husband owes a woman money she's a banker she lent him a million dollars I'm sorry he lent turned million dollars and he says I'm going to be this because we said already [Music] with the Hana that you have right now that you don't have to pay me back without you because but it says over here there's a mashcon what's the cashier so places says the mashkin is a detriment it ruins it that even though there's a masculine that he didn't return then even so Miku dashes okay that's the that's the year okay it's a little confusing but the bottom line is the cash removal if he says how do I not live on my face if you read the money solution isn't it no the beginning when he says when he buys the armor it has nothing to do with the condition and what this that she has to work for him it's like a loan she owes him money she owes him work she has to work for six years and her body her she herself is collateral and when he says you don't have to work for a whole Pluto's worth um and he says whatever the Russian is have a condition when a person is she's my college herself to him I said the opposite it's a hundred percent the machine is just a detriment forget to imagine now the national is just to trip you up it's not that's what Tyson says the match is bad not good in honor of my uncle Rebel corner bressman and has his host for a year filled with Mazel broccoli and by Greg Haber Brock Barnes and slogo Brio's for his family rebelie all mdy and everyone doing the daf taraban Kata Mrs yield how does it work oyment restlessly you're saying from the two-way them you are makotas you don't have to give her any money either we hold them he already gave her money to the father or he's being Michael now to work even after six years I will attend the six years not at the end end but Taylor even though it's like two minutes before then you don't say do the dishes you say please could you do the dishes oh you want me to do it okay fine fine whatever however works foreign from here you could learn militia is similar to our case that he the father she's get she's becoming an armor and it starts today and ends at the end of six years in other words at the end of six years he decides I want to marry her same thing when a person tells a regular woman in the street I want you I want to marry you may actually from now I'll decide in 30 days it's retroactive from now a Muslim man well where did you get this from very very simple just a lot of words here Muslim man it can't be that saying this is that it's not me action it's not retroactive it works whenever he decides to marry her it works from that moment and further he's taking the last Pluto and he's been casual with that that she doesn't have to work that even though there's nothing left there's no puta but you go with the money retroactive it's my actual it goes the condition goes retroactively with the money that he purchases her all the way in the beginning six years before so Melo when a person says I'm I'm from today it could work all the way at the end you can decide in six years or not to marry her based on the words that he said six years before and if somebody comes in the middle it's not a good conditions in yield he never said the words me ashov so maybe I would think that in condition even without the words but you're the worst right yield Works how does it work me actually every year it works the same way you don't have to say the word to me actually it's the money that the guy gave although in the beginning Works retroactive so I think my condition also you don't have to say the words it works it works retroactively even without saying the actions it doesn't work without it but you it works without saying because that's what the third told us to do but not in regular solution this guy is managed busy making money first he sells her then a minute later he accepts a ring for her he played a game with the with the guy that he sold her he tricked him um she's makush the second person that's according to everybody why so think about it basically this is the one that says that she doesn't go work it doesn't work retroactive it works whenever you decide to marry the master decides to marry her that's when it works so if anybody jumps in beforehand is to that person because I don't care how many people jumped in the middle he had first dibs his me eyed me either I'm afraid it works from the day that he bought her muscle for me he could learn Lord militia ran a regular case of condition if somebody says without the word reaction he says you are my coolest to me in 30 days that's similar tower case over here no that he said you were close to me after 30 days in other words according to who Rabbi this will be nice to review that says it works at the end not like rebutton that say that it works retroactive we didn't say after 30 days but in condition that he did say in a case of condition where he says it's a little tricky in condition where he does say la in the case where he says maybe it's as if he said it's as if he said it should it shouldn't work in condition retroactively doesn't foreign I don't want you to marry my daughter you're a terrible guy you could be a master I don't want you to marry her o um that's because like the famous myself and said listen when I went to Yeshiva Toshiba said we have a ruler you cannot get engaged and this and this sheer up until this age I want to get engaged to get married when you're 18. so the Russia didn't have it right to tell you when to get engaged out again even though you're a couple of yourself this is not at night it's not a bottle that's the famous uh thing they all get get married when they're 18 what no it's grandsons always did that but this was a story that he made it tonight it says you know you can't have a smartphone you can't get married when you're 16. the whole thing is if you signed off on it if a person gets married regular marriage and he tells his wife I'm not giving you what it says in the Torah I'm not giving you support I'm not giving clothing I'm not giving you relations Horizon it doesn't it we disregard what he says it's a good condition bottle they're a mayor see Siri mayor says Italian review says that it works in other words part of it works part of it doesn't what the the the part that's muminous sharing Source support and clothing that you can be Michael but you can be Michael oh you know yeah I know you I don't know I don't even know if I had this recipe it just seems like I heard this 25 times like physics that you can't do okay oh little more it deserve a special lotion in Minecraft why does Ramirez say that you could make it tonight against the Torah because not at night against the tire it says no tire that you could sell her just as armor and not as a wife even though you can't be me eyed the Apostle momzer and the and the nothing you could you could sell Valley dinner you could be the Cabbage yeah why because even though it's also to marry a manager it's awesome you gotta insert it loud you don't get me suffered so since does the Israel have the condition grabs it's a good condition images certainly you should be able to seller to apostle and that the tire says no you can't that's sorry so much says we have to make a distinction here well a person could be mikadish's daughter he has a lot of power in the college's daughter even though she's 12 and and she has seen money she's a naira you could still be my kind of shirt s that we already had this portion if a if a girl goes out of slavery of of oma or whatever you want to call it servitude if she's a Amma and she goes out when she's a naira so how can you sell when she's an IRA she's already out if she's working for somebody and she turns into a naira she goes free so if she's already a nighter how could her father even sell her she'd Go free on that first second so in May law you see that he's weak when it comes to selling he's very strong when it comes to being kadish's daughter because he's becoming an accomplish his daughter when she's in there but he can't tell her she's an Irish you could sell her to somebody that's possible uh uh should we finish here okay we'll finish over here rap boys I have a wonderful day 10 o'clock ten o'clock foreign