Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 14 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Applause] Glory baby [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] thank you [Music] good morning [Music] what is my brother's house in Muncie learning the dive with his two sons-in-law my two new condition recruits Ellie crowd and Tully Reinhold their wives can't stop thanking me the whole Shabbos how to change their lives in these short two weeks here we go revoice [Music] don't be distracted by all that silver in the background noise okay this picture was taken last night I just want to show you what goes behind the scenes a little bit all those buttons everything I'm showing it today because Gary takes off on Sunday we have a remicon in the house and also it's a great opportunity for me to thank Dave sharpen sitting right over there who could also he learned all the controls all those buttons all the uh joysticks and oh give me this he put this together for us our own special images and now through all those years where Gary couldn't take a day off now he's able to take off Sundays so Hashem here we go another one Manchester Mississippi year eight class on the end of the year trip eight members of the class are proud mdy members learning the daily that I don't think I showed this yet Lilo here's the red oh it says and slowly turning their own rebbe into an empty wire oh God [Music] okay before I forget show my latest I'm all the way from London what's your name you sent in some email at once yeah quite a few good her belly respect my father did I ever read it yeah I read a fish or I really reverse I read every email just I don't oh yeah not every time do I read him around him respecting my father you'll know is from a please keep it Anonymous it's red I respect it I do hope you let everyone know the power of learning adapt to make a very long story short my father has been battling infections for several reasons because he was resting he took about himself to do that for in terms of Ellie's death the short part of the story was yesterday my father was admitted to the hospital for emergency surgery and of course we're all nervous with the news the surgeon gave us we looked at each other and we said no what's going to be his father said take out your phone and sponsor tomorrow sheer I said no problem I'll get to it he said no no right now sponsored to Marshall I stopped what I was doing put all the surgeon doctors aside only you would have the hutzpah and log into the sponsors Friday's that Friday morning kids are a nice niggler happened nine minutes later the surgery was pushed off and told me straw Hashem could continue to give you and your family the support and strength to continue the sheer over and over again I'm an 80 year old BT I was the one who started with you vomits and dropped out after two months I rejoined for condition I have a problem with all the Hebrew terms that are spoken for example both the eight minute dive and the full death start off a number of words that could that could be Greek to me listen to the beginning and see what I mean I feared that if the Contin if this continues I'll be dropping out again too many Hebrew terms no English explanations Thornhill Ontario Canada wow okay listen I wanna everybody say it's also I have to tell you that for me it's very difficult to stick in English words I'm used to much more Yeshiva she kind of style this is also because it so to go even more than that Benji myself joined to listen in the office while working just one proud supposed to be working but but it was supposed to be working but your was far too interesting for this the kids said we might need to change to a boring sheer just want to ask not complaining is it appropriate to learn the sugideaf he brings the dot fair I'm not going to mention because then we'll get a thousand clicks on it with kids in bathroom there be blessed love you all to bits kind regards David Pollock so again I just want to reiterate Maya scruffing a lot of our scoffer over here is that we learn everything and everything is for it doesn't doesn't share children I know hasidim are a lot of hasidium are Macbeth and sometimes I give a an advanced warning but sometimes it's just goes under the radar so we don't have to make a whole Asic out of it but sponsor may we remarried to Crown Hashem the lack of living families like New Jersey because toyre and Actos are the best segula is foreign missed half the sponsors great it's better for us he wanted me to say that there's an unedited chair if you want if you're early on before the show comes down edited takes a few hours good few hours so it's now available on all daf if you can't wait for the edit you can still learn to die without without the need for YouTube he says it's on all I have any showing you right over here that okay my voiceai we're holding all in the bottom of his gimbal on the base and believe it or not just like that we finished entire sugya about a woman getting married and now we're moving on to other things remember you're speaking today about ivama and about it's actually a very easy today it's simple simple dresses how do you know this from this how do you know that from that it's on the simple side I have a Shiloh for the oil think about it for a second and if you learn the sugyo please don't answer but think about we know the concept of versia if a slave wants to stay longer than the six years then you puncture his ear is there a slave that's okay is there a slave that you cannot do it to is there an Evidence every that cannot have rootsio they don't have ears [Laughter] very nice okay good so you said no if they had it ready why not why can't you do it it's good no I don't think that's the answer there's another answer anybody anybody and if you did this again you want to answer yes negative is here okay you're talking about technical I'm talking about the evid himself and he's also technical the evidence self is not right for retail very good who said that I've been got Gears up in the house what a shame what a shame what a shame that you sleep you know tomahawking like you should be up and learning yeah so the answer is so we'll see it's like us but there's a difference I just want to tell you right now there's a difference between somebody that says himself or if he's forced by business sells them because he stole the only way to acquire Imam is not through question star but with have you noticed issue comes his wife through what says it says so maybe she should be like a regular wife and a regular wife you could also be cleaner because of which star says no no way decide I would think that a testimony also works hmm so oh so first of all let's just show this real quickly why not I'm going to show a little bit more this is in addition to this but here you have two brothers and we call them the Baldwin brothers Avi factor is one of the Baldwin brothers the other the fourth one is actually here in mapachemesh my son uh if you wanna okay not everybody was here but during Chris the Torah Remini and because of that so you smiled from ear to ear and then every single Aliyah from then so every single Aliyah like the next six Thousand Seven Alias every single person gave the fourth Baldwin brother uh Amisha great so here are only two of them Reuben and shiman and one of the brothers married the five Towner and then he went bye bye so shiman has the option to do two things either it could be me or you can perform Khalid so we're going to be talking a lot about khalidza soon so since it says in the apostle hello sorry let's go back did I just there let me do this for a second here this one so there's a double lotion here is only one way to acquire is through Bia and we explained we said number of times that if a oven performs kessef the king castle that's only with he he acquires her to the point where his other brothers can acquire but it's just that the red button thing but there is the only Bill in fact we learned from this word it's not the EMA we learn from here that you a yoga doesn't have to ask the Ivana permission forcefully Mario right MK lame the word extra hey we had this earlier as well we're gonna have it again today that's where hey is the Russian is an extra limo tired you learn from here force and also that's the only way to be to acquire three evils oh so for this everybody said we have to see the new brand new this is new we'll go through it real quickly this we said it ready two brothers are married and one of them uh two brothers not married two brothers one of them is married to a five Towner and he goes bye bye so now shiman goes in front of a business and performs khalito so just let me just show you also here I haven't shown this in it's a week what happened was when we're learning evalness I really wanted to get a real khalisa shoe and the Tomer went all over to all about the dinam those who have it would not lend it out it cost them over two thousand dollars to make one of these I don't know why exactly but that's it there's a a peasant somewhere I forgot which one maybe I'll tell you has every size because we're gonna learn it has to fit perfectly it can be too large can be too small so it's very expensive and they they were concerned that we're not going to return it so I reached out to Jacob ayal who's a big part of our share he's in charge of all the merch he designs the cufflinks and this and that the sacks he and he's very talented he made this from scratch it's made out of leather pretty much and you see it has a lot of stuff that uh the real shoe has the the holes in the back here because he's supposed to put these ritsuas through the holes there's a whole way to tie it we learned through we went through the whole city so this is the shoe now go back to this chart they're selling an AliExpress you tell me I wanna you know what get me one from AliExpress I'll pay you double yeah somebody sent me actually the it was this joke he's one of these memes like I'm sugaring a shoe with a lot of buckles he said the the you know designer designed a special shoe like this 500 shoe of Khalifa great actually it's much cheaper than the real one so that you're going from the best and check this out oh oh hold on hold on I don't know if you noticed avi's uh foot is rolled up over this pants already rolled up you ready to go this is all new you see what's going on there he's wearing the shoe okay now she's already facing him this five Towner what was she wearing now now she's wearing a snood okay she says now if you notice there's a lot of people in the background that's supposed to be in front of a whole seaboard and he says I don't want to take her and then she bends down she undoes the shoe and she takes it off she throws it Maps throws it across the thing now he's Barefoot Abby he's still holding his gamara though man it's a real true Ventura uh right over here she's gonna spit oh here the spit you saw the spit boom and you have to see it and if the diet misses you do it again it's a hole it's a bush over there and there they all say now okay that is the the uh you like it not bad okay it's yeah so much of this where boysai is in uh in our Parish that we just read yesterday so many episodes if I forget to say it just you'll know nah look on the side it's all dwarmovies explains perhaps she has to do halito it says but where does it say that she's allowed to marry somebody maybe it's one of the things she has to do and that's it she goes home and she can't marry anybody the Civic licorice might be Israel base once she removes the shoe Israel okay Israel also I mean is different than even the die in as long as his mother is a Jew he's a Jew right A Mother's Jew we know but when it comes to yibon the father and the mother have to be Jewish Khalid so what did I just say this one you write the other one I checked no I didn't no I didn't check beams number wrong says you're right but it's because of this two times it says you stroll here they are examples twice we have actually installed that what that she becomes motor to Israel through halitza wait a minute I need to be sure for something else um who what do we say that the zebum and the bezel at least once a month it's crazy there is no evil anymore Khalid so why because these older couples a lot of times older couple gets married and then it's either very young couple or very old usually older people vulnerable you have to say it out loud now if the album dies she's she's permitted to marry wherever she wants how do you know maybe she can't marry anybody like we discussed last night about a regular woman how do you know that she's about how do you know that uh you've almost kind of herself foreign dies it's matter so agencies is very Hummer and the death of her husband is she beloved here's the love this button oh no foreign she can't marry anybody but it's a love she has zika to the of them she's not Asian her husband is dead she's in the wings waiting for her but he's not so meanwhile she goes to marry somebody else what is she either alive so since it's much lighter than his servations is certainly should be mad to her with the death of the other culture my relationship no you know what a regulation has a cooler I'm gonna get rid of you why because he's starting from the wrong place Asia says you're right she's Asian she gets kind of but something very easy about her you all you need to do is write 12 lines and she's she's multiple she wants you know you can't write a get tomorrow you're right you can't write again but she has something very easy all she needs to do is spit at his shoe and do a little bit of a thing and then she's motor okay so therefore what we have a kind of hoimer our Heimer is intact right now we try to knock off The Gather home and say that uh oh uh is light because she goes out again well I'm gonna counter that with uh yvon is also light because she goes the kids are in therefore we remain with the copper climber hello but maybe I have another malicious is shekin oyster material when Asia says who who answers who makes the the woman also her husband now her husband is no longer with us so maybe she becomes mutter but over here says didn't cause her Issa the oven what do you have them do the oven didn't perform anything the young didn't give her kiddushin why if the oven dies would you become more to the world when a husband dies the husband was a mcavister gave her a ring he made her also to the whole world he's no longer with us he went up to shemaim so that is Sir went away but over here she falls to the oven automatically when her husband dies she falls to the oven the oven to perform Khalid say they didn't form Eva he's just there if he dies she should be moved into the world Omar ravashi matero you have a moisturize if the other wasn't in existence she demoted the whole world so why is she Usher to the world because the album is alive so that means the of him does create an issue here and therefore if the of them dies it makes sense that she should be mother and therefore what I have a kava claimer roommates okay so we're still with the cover climber the river Asian fish goes out with the death of the the harassment so certainly Obama should should uh and the government's only love if the of them dies he should be more to the world says more rotations so now another thing I have a question why is it that a regular woman you can't just do the whole shoe ceremony and let her go out just like you could do it nothing you write a little uh document and she goes out so certainly a shoe should work on my cross if your Christmas those of us who just finished kitten are very familiar with this the document is what creates the get and nothing else it's a it's a meal it's a limitation to the get haha because here it is an apostle vintage takes off the shoes this is how it's done I shall leave this office who doesn't want to rebuild his brother's house so is the Eco of how do you say in English competitive restriction no restriction no it's the equal it has to be exactly like this it's a notary more than a requirement like a strong requirement uh you know what sometimes constraint S no not a constraint what sometimes the Hebrew word is the only word that there is right it's equal I'm sorry the 80 year old it's the ego somebody's drop no no we want it what do you mean if the tire says it has to be specifically like this it's it's constraint means that it's limited no this is you have to do it like this it's a prerequisite okay I like that better than constraints it's a prerequisite but it's more than that it has to must it's a must equal s a must okay 30 days from now oh he's right but 30 days before you keep we're going to talk about your keeper today the voice I have to show you this when we're learning Yuma the the owner of Colorado yes essential I like that essential it's very essential to the thing now even though it's essential good essential words essential that English English please here's from the the college from book which we have we're supposed to use I'll mention this again the owner of Colorado Sean he has you know millions of hours of shurum on his website it's like it's like uh Torah any time in America and he puts together these books it costs hundreds of thousands of dollars and refuses to take a single donation you can't do anything has to be from his own pocket he does it himself the book on uh which one was it that he told me on airvan cost him 750 000 750 000 it's uh you'll see it's like 3D art it's very it's very cool so over here you just see I mean keeper you bring two goats that are exactly the same size they look the same everything's the same and you have to do a raffle to see which one is the hottest goes on them is back and which one do you throw off a cliff last zuzzle so here are the uh the raffle things you put it in and now the Congo takes it out and the one in the right hand he does like this he puts it on the goat control my Israel it must be like that now if a woman buys or even a man or whatever sometimes you you have to purchase two birds so how do you establish which one is what you say this one is this one is Isla with your mouth you say it so nothing more says but even Kipper what happens if you just if the client says instead of me doing a raffle I want to decide with my mouth how to be verbally I say this one is like we usually do the hookah so here it says in the apostle Vanoss you make a gairo then later on I said hike they're trying to explain I think it's the uh the ramban interesting that it's like darshan time of the girl kind of thing why do you have to have a girl just the point should say this one is this this one is that this is because what what they're doing is they're taking this uh this goat they're almost giving it like to the Citra throwing it off the cliff so it looks like avidizara it looks like you're giving a gift to the Citra so you say you know what Hashem you do it you decide which one it is it wasn't me the kind that did it so this is a ramban this is not a like an acronym saying uh [Music] you can't just say verbally it has to come through the girls oh so this is the right here is the gamora's question you saw it says it's a hike like a party that's it and the story it's essential hopefully it doesn't really make so it doesn't fit in it's a constraint but yet now the camera's asking what do you mean you're asking how does the travel climber fit in there if the tire says the tire says you have to do it like that why would I think that a cover claimer should undo what the tire says oh um where you cannot do a gyro where anytime you bring two birds you can't do girl the woman has to say this one is also where you could use a girl anything she calls Hashem so I have a good medicine that you thought that's essential it's not Essentials what's this oh no this I'm just showing that if a person if a person doesn't have money it's a carbon oil of a year red so you could bring two birds he decides which one it is no this is something else okay well I'm on to the beginning okay what a coincidence it's only once every 12 months mommy's feeling okay I'm saying that's why I'm not so excited it is a little exciting that all these sukum are in person has 73 Mitzvahs I think or whatever the most misses in how many 74. okay so to have put the Mitzvah but still it's still nice is this is a double ocean says it twice fine but here's the question the time of thematic crop it's only because you have a fetal solution of a sojados and the and that is Italian just because it says doesn't doesn't help us you still have a carbohydrate you're right okay so let me go away from that Avenue okay so we want to know that uh ivama should be able to go out beget no it says La only a woman goes out and not even and these are all questions not these are not like Emma again this is stuff that we learned in that a get must be it says because I've lost savior cruises here I just I'm jumping it but you can see because of Allah that you have to have in mind who are you writing to get you can't stand right again put it in your drawer and you use it for a different wife and whatever you feel like it has to be for this for this wife is because so I already use the word Allah CV if you look over here because I have a lot so we have 2D mode you cannot use one get for two different wives guys uh too many wives just 10 wives decide to save some money starts upgrading this one out this one out okay put two three wives in one show me you can't do that each one gets their own get so I used up two laws okay we're going to new dresser and now uh a shoe now the only way for a your vomit to get out of it is through a shoe the shoe process not a get asking us how do you know there's only four minutes left there okay we started late how do you know that you could use anybody's shoe you can go to the bezel and take a shoe from their their pile you don't have to bring your own shoe so I'm gonna let me now now Reba so we don't have actual word now um you can't use a shoe that's too large too small the shoe that doesn't have a soul they say about the the Regina in in Europe he he had all this uh fancy clothes you know the the big the the fur and the this and then he had golden shoes so people like saying it says Fasteners to Rebel golden shoes and then they noticed once by slovana that there was blood in the snow and they realized that his golden shoes didn't have a soul so we don't have extra word now yeah again the hey that's right that's been Authority that the only way your mama gets out of it is through the shoe process not through get we also learned that now there could be anybody's shoe it has to fit him etc etc we just turned you down on the base Phantom in honorable Pressman by his nephew as his horse for a year filled with masobrojo pronounce his family Rebellion all md1 everyone doing the daf oh man I I just want to show you real quickly here's the two Nows great all about evidence a Jewish slave you can purchase him with money and a star you're going to ask somebody how does he get out of it you buy him for how long for six years so if the six years come he goes out whatever is first that's how he goes out every 50 years the Schmidt is every seven years seven on seven 49th and the 50th year he goes out I believe he goes out actually in Kipper talking about Jim Kipper huh what do you mean how do you have the 50 yeah oh that's the whole thing with the review with reviews and everything gets her is part of it is not part of it we'll be growing cancer we'll be growing together with the scars if a person purchases a sleigh for 600 so six years for 600 every year is 100 he worked for three years he gives back 300 and goes out you say real love on me real and a a woman slave Jewish woman slave she has one more thing that uh man doesn't have kindness when she becomes a narrow and she has him on him that's how she becomes a naira that's how she goes free hanirsa nickname oh we might as well show it even though it's not the right way I gotta tell him to to change it a little bit zombie Factor grabbing by the left ear which is supposed to be the right ear boom makes a hole in it he's supposed to scream no oh the thing's off okay see ya so the you how do you become a nerd cell you could go for more years through poking the hole in the air why do you poke a hole in there oh is this somebody else you didn't hear it then you deserve to get a puncture in your ear the coin is atsumoy this nirta guy how could he acquire himself credits asked me be oval and the oil what does that mean that a regular slave a Jewish slave doesn't leave once his master dies he stays with the children [Music] anybody wants to leave at eight o'clock get up and leave right now and that's it you have a 10 second number first that's when you have to go at eight o'clock ah it's cool so you just you see Sarah Boyce you see what just happened he showed that when when he could he stays it's not the time he goes at eight so all the times they win an eight it's a marriage because it was a haircut it's much unbelievable all right something about it every Nickelback how do you know that if you're a Jewish slave you can person with money all my crawl and this is talking about there's different types of slaves this one is sold to a guy sorry you pay back the the master the the you prorate how much you worked and how much you owe them and you give them so it seems like he was purchased with money says that's because he sold to a guy helicopter you know because if how does a guy make a Kenyan with money nuclear but a Jew doesn't make King on it with money how does the Jew make a Killian with meshika the amount of things understands that it's a metabolism she also has a hefta she could go out be growing castev prorated because a woman this condition on her with money so you can purchase it with money and we said it has to do because this yield with armor of Ria so it's in the Parish of kadushan they saw a man you can person with money but there's another type of slave there's a slave that's all because he's stole and he doesn't have money to pay back so bison forced him to be sold since he's forced to be sold my husband so so therefore you can person with money hold on but if a guy decides on his own to be a Slave how do you know that money Works says y'all live soccer here check this out just for a second it says in one person commission is and that's talking about the business selling him and then it says when he says himself see I have the two red words because of a soccer and that is a heckish sorry between the the name character from bezel which we said you could use money and a guy that sells himself which we don't know yet and we say here's yourself we're going to say soon who this guy is who that guy who's the man the Omar who says that you don't learn how's he going to know that a person that sells himself could be sold for money is next to the guy that sells himself to the guy and by going we said a guy if you saw yourself the guy it's with money a guy but that's how he buys with money so since it says and it's a continuation so now it's a continuation of that parachute the guy just like by guy he purchased the money so too a guy that sells himself as a slave also is purchased money and the story now just as a side note of Montana who's a standard that doesn't agree with this so this is amazing Allah if you sell yourself you could sell yourself even for more than six years you make a deal with the owner said listen you wanted to pay me 600 for six years pay me a thousand for 10 years you could do that says Rashi but Benson don't ever write to sell for more than six years even if he owes a million dollars he stole a lot of money six years of the limit you hear it so that's that's the answer to the question again according to this Tana there's no retail when you sell yourself you sell yourself you don't get any gifts you don't have to get a gift you don't have to give him a tip when he leaves but if best and sold him there's a Mitzvah to give him a lot of gifts when he leaves how much I had somebody wrapping my solution for Canadas if the master has a non-jewish slave he could give that non-jew slave to the to the to the Jewish slave that was sold by the best then but not one that sold himself that the master should have vlades from her it's away from the master to benefit and have loved us from his non-jewslip is argues and says they're all the same you're selling yourself sold by bezen there's a limit of six years and both of them you give us shifting an items soccer you learn the guy from the the Jewish slave sold himself to two oh sorry two is it on the screen no the best then the micro asthma and what are they have the same exact lockers only six you can do it see it to both etc etc um Everybody agrees that there's a there's auxiliary shop between the two and you have to compare the two but there's another possible it's only by uh that's said by the bezen it's a limit of six years for six years was to tell you to you and not to somebody that inherits you now we must see rash here why because we said that if you if you're a Jewish slave you do work for the for the Irish that's what he said in the mishnah so the Rashi says five lines from the bottom oh what kind of yours are we talking about a daughter or brother they're mainly bed of course a Jewish slave goes down beerusa to the Sun and um where do we stop here okay hold on let's just we don't have to stop in Middleville and start the middle of a word tomorrow which we'll have to do anyway okay so what does he do actually so there's a possible over here to make the the master feel good don't look at this possible it should be hard for you to send them away yes you got used to him he worked here six years have a wonderful hey thank you