Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 95 by R’ Eli Stefansky

ah [Music] maybe this is Mordechai welcome to all the guests are we goodbye from La yes what's your name thank you [Music] from Zurich you know stefanskies are a little bit from what does people in Switzerland do the Duff more than one I think yeah who else do we have I saw a guy there you guys are hiding out what's your names over there Schwartz Birds which wasn't from Spotify all right everybody so if you look at the screen you'll see our in-house pilot he even has his wings on hold on Dr Epstein what's going on here like that you're not behaving okay but I wanted to ask you how many flights did you do for custom when you're in America you know 13 or 14 Castle flights wow your own plane your own flight wow I used to I don't know if I told them I used to own a little plane so I'll play my properties used to be in Indianapolis nearly also no no no but this part so I made an unbelievable husband it takes three hours to drive from Chicago to Indianapolis if I buy a plane I could cut it down to 40 minutes so I bought the plane became a pile of the whole thing so then we have to drive to the airport that takes 30 minutes you have to park the car they have to do the walk around after you have to do the whole pre-flight the whole thing it's another half hour the other than the Gap then you fly there and then you don't have a car you have to wait for the guy to come pick you up sometimes they give you a car they rent they give you a car for free kids are instead of three hours it's four and a half hours but you could say that you flew with Indianapolis yeah unbelievable yeah yeah hey Monty uh this this is going around but I gotta say this is right after uh Yom Kippur to get red but was once asked by a hosted there are so many things in the map so we don't say why don't we just print the new maps or that only includes what we say he responded and take away the simply has when he gets to skip a page of diving and this is our one and only four gang yeah a lot of volume here you got some volume good he's waking up all the kids for chakras all done about to wake up all the kids in the deers [Music] mdy cap [Music] I was thinking if you want those kids to never do that yeah I mean that's how you wake them up and here's a stick a bumper a magnet zakos harnov and also the minute off the voice that because last night we didn't say any names so we're gonna say today we're gonna have to do a double why is dolinski in here twice again so no I know but then we say his name did I not say your name the first day but not a fish okay Dave Diane 18 Canadian dollars Aaron meislick if you're Canadian and you give Canadian dollars or Israeli and shekel you come to the beginning of the list it's just a little trick David they asked 18 Aaron might is like 36 US Dollars 52 Sheldon right 18 Jeffrey slatus 36 Rollin Friedman 36 Ariel initially 18. Glazer 18 mayor gestetner 18. you see you got rid of that 10. schmuck Gila brahmov 101 Harold Schofield 36 Marvin Handler 18 iron cop 18 small sugar 300. it's a real 300 okay no because sometimes it comes in as it's a one-time thing it's split over the year 300 that's what this top that's the top guy so far small sugar or one of the top Geoffrey Rosenberg 18. Evan collar oh that's that's who we had yesterday he wants to be I don't know if this is s-w-i-a-t-y you know how to pronounce these names you throw schlafrock s-w-i-a-t-y-c-k-i um [Laughter] Goldring 18 Richard dweck 52 Yakov shama 18 oh this is one of my favorite Simon Leibowitz one dollar great I am no Batman great you could do one dollar you do whatever you want let's give out it's better than nothing no it's to be part of the clever small Sugar 101 pesachana 36 feige medesky 36 Joseph Berry 10 moisha s wise 10. Elio dolinski one dollar no it says 15 but I know he wants to go down to one so I'm putting one for him not twice unbelievable I don't know why Ian Aaron 120 Mark falconstein 52 I'm going backwards mental learner 180. mental learner is the owner of the rally hotel and he invited the alarm he says there's nothing like a shop there's a bunch of casinos that's what he said but I have to read his email where's his email I don't know Marcus schenazi we said already 180. Ari Blau 18. Ari blush Alex Gildan bomb bauman36 catriel Silva 10 Warren Kimmel 36 and Joseph cough 10. hakopha Olive money or people we can't discuss it thousands involving no it's a lot of money is adding up it's a drop in the button to what we're spending we're spending a million dollars We're not gonna get there maybe one day one day it's a lot Hashem it adds up sponsors um somebody need to step up to the plate I know it's been his mind but they still get paid for my children love you don't worry you'll get paid Universal responses on May the rest of them SEPTA official missile motivators are from menashiv and Hannah bracha refused name of sponsor of the month last day of Paris Ohio should watch over me and sure that I'm completely healthy at may vestream or may Alan Reese before slavery Brian love rhino rhino reports and listen to this one by more in honor of my dear beloved brother-in-law who's here today hi you know he's sponsoring I did this to him got it you can do it when nobody comes also okay I just yesterday was Jonas I had a whole new shot in the soya and I did this whole chart and then I had a change in the middle Shear it turns out that what I changed it to is the exact chart that we had the day before that we didn't open shot here it is the day before and that's how the gimmel it was the 1500s I had to change the 100 the 175 to 100 kids or whatever but the shot we got shot yesterday okay who am I say holding my brand new mishna sponsored by emotions and I think that's his last mishnah okay so today we're going in circles so you see this chart right over here that's uh the theme of today's daf we have a bunch of circles says the mission person is married to two women um you and he took the field that was designated for the tsubas right every field that he owns is actually meshiba has a lien on it for the wife's shoes but he saw the customer is says the wife to the buyer don't worry about it I'm not going to sue you Hashem now the husband dies [Music] so the second wife goes and she's able to remove the field the real estate from the buyer the purchaser very so it goes like this I just moved it here we go this guy buys the field buys the house woman number one she's married first she says I'm never gonna come sue you she tells the dentist from the five towns but the second woman the second wife number two she's number two over here the usami lady she never said anything so she has the right since that house was already obligated to her during the marriage she has the right to take it away from the dentist she goes and she takes away from the dentist no the first wife said to the dentist I have nothing to do with you I'm not going to sue you she never said anything to the second wife and she never gave up her lean to the house and she's first in line she was married to the guy before dear family she's one so she goes ahead and she grabs the real estate from one now he goes and takes it away from her because she said and it goes in a big circle over and over and over okay so just keep singing in a circle then the second one comes and grabs it from the from the dentist the first one grabs it from the second one then describes from the first one and goes in a circle and just goes around until they come up with some sort of compromise I have to say this because obvious here and I missed him so it was whatever the there's a lawyer he's a lawyer who's very very proud of a son who graduated law school and he's finally making it into the firm so it comes to the firm and he wants to impress his father so after like a week he says Dad you see you've been working on this for for 20 years I figured out a solution I made up Shara I resolved it all the parties everybody's happy it's all good if I says shy to survival what an idiot we're making paranos on this for 20 years and you're coming you're ruin it for us so Sarah it's not that funny topic that's all I have today yeah so they made up they have to make him Shara as long as one wife makes a shower with the other wife then he's out of the picture or if she any two that make the Shara then the third one is out of the picture but they could all all three of them can make up hopefully we get there today it's we have to get there because it's the last lines basically before the new Paragon we want to start a new pair tomorrow and it's gonna go it's gonna look something like this not that happily they have a lot of charts to explain it's very simple actually but that's that's the case okay it's a story of to two two two people that that bought two fields from the husband that are valued at the same price as the tsuba and the wife said to one of them only dinner we're gonna see that we're gonna see this case this is an another sugu we already had this is Hazara for us when you say words like this you say dinner foreign that's not the proper luster what's the proper lotion I'm giving you as a gift right we had the sogio but also the zoo I removed myself from this field mainly yeah you think Bob I'm not going to deal with it man on my hand is removed from it like oh my Clum you need the proper lotion Matana whatever the Latin is says I'm familiar with this as well if in addition to the wording there's also khalifind you know you you like we do at ahasana you raise you raise a garment those two things together combined then it does work to say didn't okay as the Marvel economy other might have we have another issue here A woman has the right to say I wanted to please my husband I lied I don't want to give it I don't want to sell it I don't want it to sell but he looked at me he said I'm selling this and she said okay and I think I mentioned this I'm thinking about it maybe I shouldn't even say this but I did that to my wife once I sold the house in Chicago how she really liked a lot I felt I needed to sell it and she didn't want to and then she said okay and then after I saw this she says she's really upset I think I was there she won't drive by that block nice to show you hertzer at the Amazon well it was the right thing to do that's why we're not just roll now okay fine no but now I'm saying I know but the do you have all of the women sometimes under pressure under the rest they want to they want to please their husband she wasn't strong enough to say no we're not telling you she said it once twice she said it's not going to go okay fine sell it my stripe there's such a thing about it it's interesting to me I don't understand it completely how could that undo a Kenyan it's like there's different issues but there is such a thing that the wife now what are we talking about not a regular a husband has the right to sell his belongings so Rashi says we're talking about one of three cases either so in barzo where she's the real boss over there she has a lot of bylaws or he set aside a field and he said this is this is your field for liksuba even though all the fields Rashi says that if you want to see him there's three types of fields he said specifically Tsubasa this is it he said he wrote it in the tsuba okay this is so a guy goes and buys a property from the man and then just to make sure he goes and gets consent and he he signs off the wife for the same whatever he bought a house and he sees the wife is not so happy she said you know what you sign over on the dotted line that you're selling it again we're talking about one of these special cases of he already designated to the super specifically this house this field you see this idea okay the woman has the right to say I was almost mentally forced to sign there just to please my husband I didn't really mean to sell it um coerced oh my zero owner of Christ the sign because of the original a case where it's an interesting case do we say I try to please my husband where she's proven that she doesn't care about her husband that much she's not so scared of him because he sold two properties on the first one she didn't sign off and on the second one she did sign off now could she say well I was trying to please my husband well you're trying to please your husband how come you didn't do it yesterday when he sold the first property if you really liked it and she didn't want it okay yeah I hear the same property I don't think they were talking about Fields not so much real time just throwing in real estate because that's what we understand about the fails there this uh this two acres and that's two acres well yesterday you didn't care when you came to he said let's sell the field he said okay fine yeah which one is she signed on the second one mayor she loses the tsuba completely why because she can't go to the first guy because when the first guy bought his field there's a second field available she can't go to the second field because she signed off on it so she has zero you remade [Music] so you see review the halls of this idea of nothing I tried to please my husband what do you want from me so most learned that this is a question there's a question mark in this coming line although some say that maybe it's not it's just a statement but I think it's more of a question that's how the simple reading here is that goes like ramayan over there now and contradict himself umrah papa big Russia over the vehicle obviously a divorce woman not only does she want she doesn't most divorced women don't care about their husbands their exes they want to harm their exes maybe they don't want to please their exes so there's no sorrow over here of pleasing reverse your mind we're not talking about a divorced woman says you can be Michael come here when you talk about two people why the different attitude why for one do you want to please your husband and the first client the first buyer you didn't want to please your husband what happened there obviously so you don't care about your husband you don't want to please him when it comes to one client uh so even mayor admits that is in now in our mishnah the cause of Leila you asked me a question why can't she come and claim nah that was the most first question how do we trust her when she says yeah go ahead take it I don't care about it you can't trust a woman maybe deep down she didn't want to sell it the answer is because our mission is talking about a case that he already tried it once and she was okay with it so she already lost her sister the mission is not talking about it we're not concerned about what the case is not you asked me a side question about not because nothing without a mission really I'm just telling you we're talking about our mission is a case where there is no not badly why because she's already we have experience with this woman there's other cases where she didn't care about her husband she wasn't trying to do nothing's wrong okay am I sneezing the customer it's all right this is the second time around so we already know she's not trying to do nothing's wrong by law but there is a concept in general there's a concept of if this is her first time and she claims that she only did it because she wanted to please her husband then we trust her but in our mishna this is the second time not awesome once you're talking about themselves getting and we brought that Bryson so let's go into it a little bit the malva can I come a guy who lends money so you can't come and grab them if the the the liver sold off property and the malva wants to Collective if the lover has a field now we're talking about did this he has a house in Jerusalem as a house in Brooklyn he has a house in Iowa he sold the house in your slime in Brooklyn he has he still has a house in Iowa so the guy the malva can't go and say well I want the house insurance 1000 Years live no it's already so yeah but typically if you sell something and you owe money the the model can go after it only in a case where he has nothing else but since he has a house available yes it's in Iowa you have to go to Iowa that feeling the Brewers even if the house is a terrible house terrible field what if that house or that field that ruins could he has a ruined field versus a beautiful place in Russia is he forced to go to the room field tashma foreign if in a case where the husband sold two properties to the first guy she didn't please the husband she didn't want to sign off on it for the second guy she went ahead and she signed off the mayor she doesn't have a tube again why because from the first guy the first guy she he has the the second property the second property she already signed off on oh fun she doesn't have a second but kids so she doesn't have anything the roommate and if you're gonna tell me that when it gets ruined you could come and grab from something that's already mishubad I the ibni yes she lost the super from the second Marisha Mia to be now this is a political thing to me at least and this is what the good morning's gonna say later I don't understand the having it so well she herself said I'm not going to come after you so let's see me let her go and collect from the first one um what does it mean the lotion even though she lost no she didn't lose completely she just can't go to the second guy um okay first of all I don't like what you're saying since since the word means she lost she completely lost that not half from one person I am a guy buyer money and then the guy that borrowed the money sold his property because of and the malva says to the guy I have I'm not going to come after you eloi he can't come after him let's see what we have here no that's later okay leave that on you can take it off the screen until we get there again a guy borrowed money and then he went and he sold two of his properties off to two people any and then the malva says the malva the lender says I'm not going to come after the first guy that bought a property so hey you could go to the second guy so by us also by the woman too says over there when he says he says so he lost it himself he himself said I have nothing to do with it I don't want I'm not I'm never gonna come after you so if he never if he said that himself so you can't say uh it's it's a case where the the field got ruined he ruined it for himself he said I don't want I don't want you to come after me I'm not gonna come after you only have the emulator version this might we don't do spots in the middle of a line from here on out yeah you usually okay whatever yeah your son is here today by the way it's a big big scores he's out for evamus comes in the middle of the subas don't have to tell again you know why he's here because I met him last night and I said no you gotta come back to the death he said I'll be there tomorrow that's what he told me and he's here today unbelievable everybody say seriously you should tell tell your friends and if you're watching this sukis is the time that people fall off the daf like every youngter because especially if you're in America you have two days you're not gonna be watching cheer so first of all try to learn yourself second of all if you don't what do you do mati you jump ahead thank you very good that's great you should watch it says Young there's stories every day that y'all I'm saying that if the you're cold yeah you want mine I actually forgot about them you know because he said that I'm not doing them the dying says that when the the field gets ruined they go after a field that's my Schubert you go after the house and use your life the field is ruined we go have the sponsor in honor of my own Glory before impressment as close a year filled with second sponsor as a scores to continue being able to support Toyota and to finish shots with the Rebellion why prove it through that God reminds her voice is a miser where was it that we had great mices I think it was like Irvin my saw the guy lived next to the other guy and he didn't put an air of that was the end of the story it's like oh finally the story the guy over the Michigan there's a person who owed money she says you know what here take my Vineyard and you'll eat the produce you'll eat the grapes for 10 years once you're done eating for 10 years I don't owe you anything after five years I looked it up it says that Vineyards they last for like 30 years they have they have expiration they only produce good grapes for 10 years or whatever it is it's not like they last forever it's not some there's the one that that's 40 years old but the Dark Cloud lasts for 30 years foreign okay I don't understand these things but it seems like there's a expiration here that after five years he was getting grapes grapes grapes five years then it all stopped it went downhill come out so this is a case of istatfo that it got it ruined the vineyard something happened to it got ruined and said take from a shoe bottom go get get the guy's house ah he has here a bad field I don't want the bad field I want to go after the mission [Music] the guy made the laws himself the guy that bought from the liver field the housing slime somewhere that guy he should have known that there's a there's a Vineyard somewhere that that's the the winter bakri and that eventually it's going to expire and they're gonna come after his house so when he bought it he should have known better and therefore he himself lost of himself bought it is what you have what you're about to go after the field you're about to go after is ruined you can go after sold Fields houses real estate the guy already sold even though he has an available field but it's a ruined field go after the good real estate Omar foreign a guy says I'm going to give you he taught he's talking to an unmarried woman here like an uncle I want you to benefit from me I have all these um take take all this real estate however Pliny we're going to be calling this guy after your mayaves room I want whatever I'm giving you to go to another person now the question really is what kind of ownership does she have does she only own the produce or she owns the whole thing if she owns the whole thing perhaps he could go sell it to somebody even though there's a stipulation that after she dies it should go to somebody else so and she gets married says the gemara you saw it a husband and all her belongings is like a purchaser he bought this yerusha that she got from this guy she bought it from him the mocking ball Club since the husband bought it she has the right to sell it and if she has the right to sell it she sold it to her own husband and therefore it doesn't go after she dies to the second guy says more come on because this is here it is says first they'll go to you and afterwards they'll go to another person if the first one sells the second one could take it away from the buyer why because he holds that what he's he only had this out this woman only had Paris she didn't own the actual thing they're ready shine the second guy gets zero because the first person has the right to sell it says the gamara um how could that be you tell me a body says this is that says talks about a cycle blowing up a whole thing and then you see you start seeing that her veins start turning colors her face you gotta get her out of there quickly so there's no dead body in them and then it says in the bottom of the mission over there it says who's a conniving Russia the Maci it's a foreign there's a person who gives advice holds that there's a guy has died he wants a certain thing to happen to his costume he wants the first to go to this woman and after she dies he wants to go to another nephew so what's the eighth of the receiving the wheel says well if she sees that she's about to die she can go ahead and sell it she takes all the money and the other nephew gets zero well that's a really not nice thing to do it works a lot quickly but that's not what the dead guy wanted the guy that's dying wanted his other nephew to also benefit from it he didn't want it to just stay in her family so if you do that you're a terrible person you follow the world of the world of the world so but this is a bias saying it Abaya says he's a terrible human being so if everybody says he's a terrible human being how's the possible advice says that it works but him by by announcing it Yeshiva and says this this is that this is worked he's basically telling everybody to do it it's a great idea if you're the woman go ahead and sell it that's isn't that what's happening huh he said yes yeah [Music] um says that it works in other words it works but if it worked it got up and said it works if he says that it works that means this this is Russia you just gave now I'm giving to the woman and after the one I'm giving to my nephew says but if she goes ahead and she sells it then the nephew gets nothing so in other words he's encouraging it have you encourage something that you're a big Russia if you do tomorrow say he didn't say she should do it Mrs Kamar by her getting married the husband is a buyer this is a great idea but he didn't encourage you to get married he said after the fact if she get married it goes to the husband it wasn't encouraging foreign so here's the case finally get to this chart I'm giving you the the field after the field after you goes to Mr acharya so on this chart is the guy in the in the Hat you can barely see the Hat because it's in Black the guy it says he's by The Black Arrow so it starts from the top yeah I have a couple first the uncle the the wealthy Uncle from America gives them gives her a field she goes she's married so her husband takes it husbands like then she goes and sells it to some guy comes the husband in the orange and he says or the orange orange he says what are you talking about I'm here before you I'm also like Kev I'm also a purchaser I bought it from my wife when I got married or when I was with my wife I'm the purchaser so I'm taking away from you I'm purchasing number one guy because in the stipulation when the the wealthy uncle gave the woman the five town or the field or the house he said but after you goes Mr akrai so the acharya is is better is in a better position than the husband so that takes it away from the husband then comes the purchaser and takes it away from because we sold them in this case the bow doesn't take it anymore oh why we're back a guy stipulates here's the here's the house here's real estate and I want it after you die I wanted to go to my nephew to another guy Mr acharya the guy with the beard um but she sold it to the plumber Vanessa and then she died the husband who's the first purchaser because being married to a woman you actually buy everything off her it's like as if you bought it from her so he's the first person he goes and takes it away from the plumber foreign takes it away from the husband and then the purchaser takes it away from why because he bought it off the the wife and she has the right to sell um and then it stops top of the the top left the plumber gets it finally at the end of the day the plumber gets it now as the Gamora motion models now because this is Holy law why is it different than our mishna where it goes around the circle let the husband look if you look at the chart after the plumber buys it the husband takes it away from the plumber so now in the purple where the plumber has it let the husband take it from the plumber and then let the right take it away from the husband and she go in a big circle why did it stop at the plumber um awesome actually I subscriber name they have to do it they have to make a deal between themselves in the mishnah when you have two women each one deserves a super so there's a loss if the if one of the woman doesn't get it also the the KF the guy that purchased it bought it he paid money he also wants it so there's a there's a loss over here oh over here the husband didn't buy anything he doesn't really deserve he's not having he's not incurring loss and the Mr also doesn't have a loss because he didn't pay for it the only person in this case in all these arrows that has a loss is the plumber he actually paid for it he stands to lose money here foreign but since we have to say another stick here but since in the picture once auria takes it that's it it's over auria has the right to take it from the husband and once he intervenes he stops the circle that's what Rashi says there's like two things going on here first of all he incurs the loss incurs the laws cuts off the husband foreign [Music] on my leg no there's a difference the first case was when she wasn't married yet so when she gets married there's a purchaser over here our case you see they're already married when she got the field so she already got the the field when she was married so then the guy giving it the uncle giving it knows that she's married and he said even though you're married I wanted to go to acharya that means he doesn't care about the husband he doesn't want it to go to the husband he said specifically he shouldn't go my karma but boy so we have to do this there's a bunch of charts here but let's just do it quickly it's 801 we'll do it in two three minutes what's going on in the mission the story of a circle in the mishnah um don't get up yet I gotta show you the story it's an interesting story here goes there were two people a mouth and Alive they're not related let's say so you want to see this Arabic agreement the shimen borrowed a hundred dollars from Reuben okay step one step two is shiman had two houses two Fields each one was worth half of the loan and he sold them off to the plumber and the dentist I just wrote on the side what it is okay we call him one and two Mr one and two now ruvane the malva who's owed the money tells number two the plumber then we recall that from the mishnah that's why the mishna then says another case so basically the malva is never going to go after the plumber but you know it could go after the plumber one because one was owed money before two he's one he's in the first position two is in the second position so check out what happens again the life owes ruvane a hundred dollars now ruvane top right corner wants his money back he's gonna go after a house he can't go after the Plumber's house because he said I'm not going to go after you who could he go after the dentist so he takes his house now the dentist doesn't have a house who does the dentist go after shiman he takes his house now the malva could take the dentist's house again because the mouth could go after the dentist he's owed a hundred not 50. he got one house that's worth 50. he goes after the dentist now he has two houses but what happens is he said to the to to what he called the the plumber was told by the mouth I'm not going to go after you and the plumbers lost his house so he grabs the house from Reuben the malva and guess what the dentist lost his house so now the dentist takes it away from the plumber and just goes around in a big circle and now you have to make him sure that's what that's what the mission is saying yeah again and then we have one more case it's the same exact case rabbi'sai just a woman and the husband instead of a living a malva we have a husband that owes a hundred to the wife and then the husband sold the two houses and the wife said to the plumber dude have a wonderful day right over here