Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 88 by R’ Eli Stefansky

okay let's go good morning boys hi Mark you're on the screen sadik it's the new I like that a little bit of Zoom a little bit of it's great we have Remy the booth over there is a a genius and computers thanks for taking over Mark wyrib says Rapaport from Munson New York a devoted MD wire since sochem and the entire rapper family and the Bruce cringe of the sun are you lay back coin that is bris they're posing him with that Lua mdy first of all I'd like to thank you it says the subject is guidance on making Aliyah first of all I'd like to thank you for everything you do for um [Music] so then he says not to say his name I didn't say his name did I you said his first name yeah okay first of all I'd like to thank you for everything you do for play yourself my name is silicon you really did change my life for the better match I'm always watch over you keep you in your family safe you always to so you can continue bringing more years shout out to nashik Gordon and the meaningful people podcast that's why I got hooked and the interview he said it's not possible a person doesn't have 45 minutes in his day to learn Torah it really got to me most were born in try to coax you nicely to learning basically they basically demand it you were sincere you asked that we give it a shot and I did I'm still running strong from you vomis 76 by the way it was nice meeting you in person at Bell works and the white headphones this summer I also got to meet some of the mdy family members everyone's extremely nice and welcoming they really are the secret to empties wise success like when monthly goes out of town he goes and he shows with people it's it's the mdy success I have a lot more to say but I know you're a busy person just wanted to show my appreciation to you and mdy team so now this is a very touchy subject I don't like to talk a lot a lot about it because people take it the wrong way usually that I'm saying things against Aliana all I say is the two following things first of all when you consider Aliyah you have to consider paranosa because a lot of people just come here and they love I'll work out I'll find a job at a great job in America and that's why many Alias failed the other thing that you need to consider when everybody knows is are the children the age of the children switch to order yes so over here we have an email it's a sad email I think uh just heard you mother Chavez rosh hashanashir remote here and heard you inquire about my whereabouts first of all my name is Natan Kash nude that's the guy I was looking for I'd like to thank you for caring enough to ask about me it's been an extremely hard year my kids were forced to change schools four times this past year oh my kid all my six kids basically learned nothing this past year we met with many schools in RBS and they would not accept our children due to the distance from giving as well as this older seventh and eighth grade boys were too behind for them to be accepted all our kids were stuck at home since pesach after trying every schooling rail possible we decided moving back to Los Angeles I actually left right before Rosh Hashanah the kid sir I should have listened to you I just want to let you as well as everyone and then do I know something personal but if you give someone his look it's worth it okay I'm gonna try to read this with a straight face without crying with my kids being kicked out of multiple schools even now in La we're having problems with behavior and three kids are not in school yet I was forced to rent out my house in Israel after months of working with Israeli contractors to fix all the issues sold my car to loss now I'm living on my in-laws with no AC and basically homeless with six kids and a seven on the way I've fallen deep depression not diving and learning being 30 pounds Xanax no longer helps fell into the internet's evil web going to sleep late and waking up in the afternoon the only thing that keeps me going day in and day out is learning the death of the rebelling I mentioned the Studio's ability back in June but it's true if it wasn't for this year by the way I heard he didn't tell me this I heard that he was an extremely popular DJ back in the day and he became about chuva and uh okay so but it's true if it wasn't for this year I don't even want to say what thoughts I've been having well it's a new year now with new xerus barber shop I'm still alive and healthy Ambassador Hashem things will work out hope to see you again soon okay it really means a lot to me that you had me in mind Los Angeles please reach out to him he's a great guy it's unbelievable what he went through all right we're with you a frying hot vanilla Dr Factor has a job for you so I have his email address if anybody wants to reach out to him maybe lazarian and uh they'll go and give him a big hug all right huh you hope that a lot of the soccer no he's a great guy he came with his sons used to come here two kids I was on a plane from JFK to the West Coast and planned to do the dive Mama choked me up we reached the runway and the pilot said that we have a technical difficulty and made a u-turn to the terminal we sat about a half an hour and finally decided to start the dive I don't know the issue gets resolved and will get moving now more than 15 seconds after they started this year the pilot announced on the ground that the issue is fixed and we're taking off to the doctor for framework anyway the kisser this is a school for everything it's I tried it many times let's say you're worried if the khazan is not gonna you know it's gonna take a while for someone to start or something all you need to do is open up a safer as soon as you open up a gemara boom a nice happens you start whatever it is you're in a line in the bank and you open up a gamara it's the Sahara guarantees you he's not going to let you learn and things are going to happen so true so true robot's eye we have a big list here we're going to do some names because it's kind of late because real country Roberts Carter Roberts we mentioned him 101 shekel Sherman Grouse ten dollars mayor Kovacs 10 shruly Marco is now back to America 10. David kleiman 36 Daniel Green 36 Nathan cash nude thirty six dollars Thomas Letterman 101 Joseph schoenbron 10 Martin hershkovitz 10. Jeff Rosner Sunshine ever first name at 200 a month bark Epstein 36 shmuel shook 10. Alex mermusting from the entire list this is one of the biggest Shockers ever he's a relative of mine I had no idea that he does the sheer I'm very excited to see him here 36 Yehuda Ari the merge 36 we know who he is Yakov Katz 10 brachio sorcerer 10 J Nathanson 10 hi Jay Woodmere cement 101 Miranda cash 200 Jack Grazie he's the one that started this whole thing she had a tremendous Savage my I think I called him garzi the other day okay Jack Grazie 200 a month Gabriel zetlin 10. so we got to learn from this fired him 200 Jack grassy 200 or from the hasidim 1215 ten dollars five dollars but you know what ten dollars is by the way I made a mistake on the number I made a mistake it was 200 and we're about 230 now last night I said 2 45 2 30 and we're very close to 11 000 okay valedict Israel helper in ten Donnie fine where is he 52. Michael Bernstein 36 Michael another Michael Berlin maybe somebody else maybe somebody the same 36. H Bernstein 10 shop C Cohen guy sits right over here he wants to shop is 10. come over here get over here my boy is a big Mazel Tov the man just finished us foreign [Applause] and Edward Clark 36. you hear that you're safe yeah you'll figure it out yourself okay Robert we're holding that pay class today oh yes for the success of our family that we married to always Prana Shem lineage masters of born with Sharon is for my children the second symptom sponsor Jeff risers so yesterday last night we were learning that in order to make a rice as you see on the screen there are two conditions says Rover first of all it has to be a type of a schwa that you swear and because of the you don't pay you don't take money you just you become partner from Pain and the second thing is it cannot be on real estate anything has to do with real estate you can't you can't make it so therefore tsuba which is connected to real estate because the sheep in real estate if you're making a super it's not it can't be a die rice well Mariah Papa the last three words on his Island [Music] if the husband is a smart man he's wise Mighty law he has a trick we could advise him of a trick to flip a schweather into a Raisa now what's the difference over here last night we saw that if it's true they're right so you cannot flip it to the other guy you can't say well I can do it so you do it on you could give it to somebody else that's what Rashi says right on the top over there but over here Ryan she says something completely different and you swear in hashem's name asks today we also do it on I don't understand okay that's why it tastes like serashi's shot from yesterday I can make it a really very Homer dickish voice it's a terrible thing to swear falsely holding on to a safe attire and saying hashem's name what do you do we're going through the the Motions here in the beginning we thought yeah so so what you do is you give her a second tsuba you gave her xuva a month ago she claimed she never got a super so what you do is you bring in a single witness and you give her a Cuba again you have a witness that saw that you paid up the first kusuba plus you have this witness today so you have Reuben and Sherman two witnesses [Music] now it turns out that what you paid her a month ago was actually alone oh so if it's a low now let's go back to what Rover said yesterday so now it's alone so now what is she swearing she's swearing and that that she doesn't have to pay because if you're talking about a loan now we're not talking about she's demanding yuksuba so we're telling her listen you swear that you don't owe your husband money okay so she has to swear that she doesn't know money that's a different type of show that's a really short eraser she's not swearing to take to get a tsuba she's swearing that she doesn't owe her husband money that's condition number one now what was the other problem that she cannot swear when has to do with real estate I think Super is real we're not talking about real estate now we're not talking about exuber we're talking about alone alone is not uh it's not real estate so she could swear on that that's a eraser oh was it the rice is she can hold the safetyro and see hashem's name she's going to be so scared to do that that she's gonna pay back everything's gonna be great mascular of shisha ravidi what you're saying doesn't make so much sense because you're trying to use the aid from last month and one eight from today they don't go together well it stands for whatever reason that they can't combine together you can't use the two-way them they saw different things no the second time around today we give her the second tsuba you do it in front of two Aiden it's better to do it with the if you can find the guy that witnessed the first one better to use him if not use two other items but today you have to Aiden and they are mysterious and therefore you have two of them let's see the second subo being paid up so then the first subah becomes alone and on that you have one Aid and now you're gonna force her to make it right so because it's not anaksuba it's about alone and it's not to receive money is to absolve yourself from paying back a loan so those are the two conditions that you need and it's with their eyes it comes to show their eyes what did you get she if she's smart she'll say what do you mean my husband gave me two subas we got one when we were married a year later he said you know what I see you're worried that I'm gonna divorce here's another suit but don't worry about it so he paid me one last month you're right there's Witnesses on that and he paid me a second one today what's the problem because she can't say that the husband says in front of the Aiden let me tell you something I'm about he takes him into a room and he gives him he warns them he explains to them what he's about to do he says I'm going to give her now a fake Suba because I want to trip her up I want to give her a sword there rights on the first kusuba don't think that this is a second Super this is nothing I'm using you to to get her to making sure that right so once he explains it she can't come and say oh there's two subas because you already explained it today then that's not a real Suba if she is suing for something that the husband sold she's saying this suva's I don't I need money for my Suba and there's no money in that in the in the state everything was sold before or if she goes after the assignment so she has to swear sound awesome if they come and they try to collect alone that their father had they need to swear what are they going to swear they weren't there by the loan so anytime anytime it comes to the assignment they swear that they don't know anything about anything they they didn't find any documentation to show that the Lord was was repaid they don't know they never heard from the father that was repaid they swear that they have no idea all they know is here we found them our father's drawer we found a document that says that you owe Our Father money that's all we know we never heard from him that you paid back we didn't find any document to show that you paid it back so the environment man who are they swearing to Elaine and malaiva they go directly to the liver okay so Elena so if the malva you have a mouth ventilator the Marvel let money to the to the guy in coil the guy dies so now since the malvers taking out of the ocean he's going to collect money from the Cardinal guy's son so he has to swear that's how it works he has to make it now we're talking about that he's also dead there's two dead guys the mouth and the life are there so now we're talking about the Next Generation so the Next Generation has to make a short one to the other asks in this case right over here he has to make a schwa Savage the the the the sorry the guy the liver the malva doesn't have to make it so just because he's dead he has they have to make a schwa the kids of them is this case what happened okay so you know time out uh [Music] hold on I'm gonna do this I have to go in here and then the schwa goes this way oh yeah this guy goes here oh you can see okay anyways you get the idea first time ever once you reach a certain skill levels all right foreign it's a little messed up but okay yeah it was on purpose for what I say just testing you guys out that I wanted to show you my skills now let's see if it um no there's no no no okay fine nothing moves no he doesn't die here right what so if the mother dies the little guy doesn't have to make it doesn't have to oh so hold on so I have to do something else hold on if you're already here you might as well do this we gotta do this hold on okay you know what we don't have to do that I was gonna put an x on it says that if the malva's son goes after the latest son the parallel then you need they need to swear what the henna is because we said that doesn't make sense that the yasum of the malva has to go as the swear because his own father didn't have to swear so if the the the the the yasm of the mouth is going after another yasam then you have to be they have to use the schwa um if the assignments say our father told us Avalon rule if the life as disciples say our father told us yes there was Alva I buy our money but you should know I paid it back says if the lightest kids say like there's never alone it's not going to help that the malva's kid makes a schwa he can't do anything about it they they're denying the whole loan massive there is a don't forget there's a document here there's a star and if there's a star we have a cloud that if the lover says I didn't borrow he's he's admitting that he didn't pay and it is a document here there's a star that says that the life of borrowed money and if and the children of the life our father never borrowed that means they're admitting that he never paid back and that's against the document that says that there was if these homes say our father said that he borrowed money and he paid back then there is then you don't even need a schwa it's so obviously why should the malva's kids making sure when they have a star that says that the life of Byron money and they're admitting that they never paid vaccines me you never paid back so pay without usual of um the woman is trying to collect money not in front of the husband so she needs to make sure interesting name the Sarah Biro myself there's a story that happened we want that women should be able to get paid up under xuba so we make it easy for them to get to Suba so even if the husband is not there she could collect tsuba because if not women won't want to get married and we wanted to get married we want husbands to have wives so we're gonna make it easier for the woman to get her tsuba Ave but if somebody owes money and the guy skips town you can't just go into this house and collect the money foreign you're going to close doors to those who want to borrow money because it's easy to borrow money and you run away to another country now he can't get you but if I make a law that says even if you run away to another country and I can't I can't reach you best is going to go into your property and take money and pay him back like the guy that said he went to borrow money the guy says I don't know you I can't lend you money she says hey that's not fair you're telling me you don't know me and you can't let me money I just went to my friends and they said they know me and they can't lend me money that's Mama's not fair is over here that if you could get to the liver within 30 days today it's like you get all over the world in two days but if you get to the library within 30 days then you must do so try to get them and you could charge him for your travel all your travel fees he has to pay but if you can't get them in 30 days then you could be Global fun of you could collect money even though that's how we pass because you could because with enough you could go after people that are not in town and take your money because as long all the way then as we said Rashi says we're going to explain it over here in think of Mars so here we are we don't exactly understand what we're saying he says a line cause match device if she's claiming Suba then the ocean make her swear if she doesn't try to collect exuber hey what's going on here what is he talking about all right he's talking about this part of the mission been a freshly because if she comes and she collects when he's not there the Suki that we just learned that she's there she's collecting he's not he ran away to another country she needs to swear two out of two things you have there's two things there's two possibilities here either she's trying to collect misliness support or she's trying to collect her let's say he's out of town and he's sent nice guy he said listen I'm never coming back here's your get okay get means subba so now she's collecting zuba or messiness if she's trying to collect tuksuba your shell so in other words he says it's only one out of two that if she's collecting your tsuba then the yard shame have the right to make her swear but if she's only collecting Messina's support Bernard in honor of my Uncle Robert were you filled with her as a source to continue to support Tyra and to finish shafts with rubelli I just want to point out very interesting like the little things in life we always take for granted that we're learning this almond right over here we look to the side we see Rashi everything's great so just you should know that once in a while the they messed up in Villa and Rashi for this is over here so it can get confusing you take for granted imagine every almond we had like go look where Rashi is yeah it was very confusing for me because I I didn't know where to start where to end when does it stop being you know there's a lot a lot you have to go down a bunch of lines okay just thought I'd point it out take the small things for granted I don't know how they did it it's like it just didn't even have computers then and they were able to figure out exactly the ration from this fixed on this that okay he says very interesting had sons and they argue it's not me somebody left the country and his wife comes and says listen we got to sell off some of the real estate I need to eat 100 minutes when she has when she comes to collector Suba then we'll make her swear one time on everything Netflix and they said no the sons of the parents first she makes a schwa for hermositis that she deserves it she didn't take anything she doesn't have anything and then she swears two schwas one in the beginning one of the end for example Johanna darling muscularizations where are the kids here we're talking about a woman whose husband is in another country so there's no yarsham we're not talking about somebody that uh that their husband died how much he wants me say this because her husband left so where do you guys should come into this um so again we're talking about let's not forget what we're trying to explain it we're trying to explain the line that shipment says in the mission if the tuber is a swear not the vaccine she doesn't swear what is it going on according to representation he's going on something else remember yesterday we learned she left the funeral [Music] we're talking about a case where the husband says I'm not gonna ever make you swear and then she leaves the funeral so from that point on the assignment right she went back to either her own house or she went back to the base of via or to her father's house wellness and she didn't become in charge of the assets and they are smash BMR said then there's no swear but if she became in charge of something after the leviah then they can make her swear Allah what Allah on from there on out over that's the mishna that we learned yesterday the word that they can make us swear from the funeral on or whatever it is whatever point that is but after the death says if she comes and she says I want my Suba so she makes a what is she gonna make us that she never received like Suva and that she never took anything from the husband and if you weren't here last night the very interesting says she can't swear that because every woman steals from her husband so what she's gonna swear is that she didn't steal above and beyond what her regular wife steals okay you heard that Jonathan you heard this year last night no okay Ellie did you hear that last night it is the little stuff the little stuff of course why would they it's it's normal that the husbands don't care they know because that's you you they take the credit card or stick a swipe hair there tell the wife no they're not in shop today okay this is depends after the slovaya if she comes and she asks for exuber then the ursham have a right to be must be on and lost lava in the future great but if she even though she's an upper Tropics but she's not collecting your tsuba and what happens if she doesn't collect the zoo but they have to be even Pharisees the whole thing because they commitment why because at the end of the day who made her an happy tropis over here the the husband her the father of the ocean so if the father decides that she's the average rappers she's in charge of the assets she doesn't make it why because we have a much like this in this community this is they both say the opposite of each other this is this way and as far this way who decided that this individual should become an API tropus if it's the father who who appointed him why what's this Vara why is this why is the father going to this guy and asking him to be happy Travis because this guy knows the father he owes the father a ton the father when he was alive did a lie for this guy so he says listen I did so much for you do me a favor take care of the children after I go Allah someone may law he's he owes him a favor she has no problem swearing me no bezden but if best didn't show up and say listen we're looking for a guy to volunteer here we have so I'm gonna start making this guy swear he's bit he's barely doing it he's doing a favor so now you're gonna make him making sure no I have a solid mirror I'm just says it's the opposite me now because if bezen appoints you that gives you a lot of hashivas it gives you a guy that you walk around the street you know who I am I'm the trumpets of these Simon president thought I was Crusher and they made me happy that itself is worth ten thousand dollars of coven and for that I'll even swear just so I get my little covered but if the father decided that the person should be an happy tropus so what does it say over here we're talking about the wife who made the wife happy tropis the father that's why you always it's just interesting to point out Texas says that business cannot appoint the wife why can't business anybody have a reason why can Benson appoint the wife huh no there's a better reason what do you say that's what he was saying no there's a better reason there's a better reason to spices you cannot they never appoint a woman she's not in the she's not in the cards so the only way a woman can be appointed is by the husband himself okay but the bottom line is that when the father appoints somebody even his own wife foreign we had yesterday if he says I'm not gonna make you swear and then it goes on I'm not I'm not literally or shy I'm not gonna have my Yoshi make you swear not my ocean to you and not the people that you're selling your super to hey they can't make her yards foreign then you should know that even if he stipulated and he said you hear what's going on here he stipulated he said I will never make you swear and not only I won't make you swear my children won't make me swear and my children won't make your children swear that all flies out the window if there she's coming to claim riksuba to the arsha we commitments remember last night we had this interesting name and I brought some Slifer who says that if you don't know what the father is you should use the mother's name this interesting name I'm just trying to point out that we learned it even twice yesterday I think about repeated itself twice we had yesterday now when a person stipulates specifically says I will never make you swear yeah there's one little caveat if it's you take it from the US that's different around bottom mascular Papa Jose okay you just explained cause Manchester Massachusetts then from the assignment she has to swear but how do you explain the next line anytime on who is he arguing exactly what does it mean why did he add that but if she doesn't claim the tsuba then there's no who argues on that so if you take a look on the base there's a little mishnah on the top there's too much nice the small one it says if he makes his wife a store keeper or he made her in charge I raise him so he can make her swear whatever you want revelation you can make her swear on a little thread and a little dough on that comes with him and he says I argue on that you cannot make her swear boys I have a wonderful day