Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 86 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] my boy said today it's today not a month ago today 1 000 daf into shot according to most calculations a thousand die from brochus I don't think it's coincidence that yesterday we started this uh push and we had a tremendous tremendous I know everybody wants to know how many people do you think joined the monthly giving I couldn't believe it 147 people which is tremendous I set a goal yesterday I said ten thousand dollars per month we reached eight thousand and sixty dollars that's very nice for day one so first of all I want to give a tremendous subscribe to Rabbi grazie you know you guys know I missed the guy that was on the video yesterday together Jesse Klein was his push his idea so he scrapped him I want to give it to our first donor ever when I said I want to build the space measures gave me a thousand dollars he was number one donor and yesterday also he jumped in and said 36 dollars Ava kamianski fifty dollars a month after he just gave ten thousand dollars last month and he also donated this whole thing but that's a different story so today recovered the 1000 daf put together this thing I did not see it yet so I don't think any advice I'm watching it together with you it's a one minute clip from boysai Garrison get ready or don't here we go some volume also Gershon I'm sure maybe I should take this off here we go foreign it's emotional for me what should I say people in the 40s making a scene for the very first time good morning Rob boysai good morning good morning my boys good morning Rob boys size [Applause] it is awesome to be back good morning boys [Music] boys it's overwhelming it's unbelievable all right [Applause] some people that's all they got out of the duff they got what [Music] so thank you Okay so real quickly I'm not sure if anyone noticed but according to my account tomorrow is that pay bub will be a thousand enough since breakfast why I didn't start with these Brokers I've since caught up and I've listened to every one of these a thousand students I thought that's amazing you didn't start with us but he went back and he listened to every single one of the thousands Europe via YouTube or podcast and continue to listen daily thank you for all you do tell me my voice I I do want to read off I promise I'm not going to read all 147 names today but we'll we'll get to every single name based on Doctor Who Levitan or Louis then 100 shekel a big default 108. we're starting with Israelis Israelis by the way you could there's a must you get a what is it called kabbalat Mass if you do that and also guys in England they have issue with their thing there's ways to do it Mordechai halts 50 shekel a big default 108. are you Simmons 136 shekel hello Abrahams 200 shekel iron camps 36 dollars it's uh by alphabetical order here and so we're going to get to everybody this is with the old days Abraham sure 36 Adam Elkins 10. Alan Gruen 101 Alan Barack 36 Alan Zach 36. Ariana Simmons 36 Avi mandelbam ten dollars I have a video of him I'm debating whether the breast style or not viceville ten dollars heimtotter oh I have to mention yesterday the guy the tag that sat next to me shimmy Braun 121 he said a dollar per day for every kid that he has he has four children Haro and three of his daughters wrote me a letter uh maybe I'll read a different time to thank me for giving there and that the we want to start by saying how much our attacking Joys listening and learning to your daily Shure and we can sometimes find him sitting on the couch and gross in the daf it's amazing we laugh every time we get into the car either on the way to the country or somewhere far the youngest Suri asked my father to turn on an interesting daf at night after show tati comes into our room and tells us a joke about the day's death maybe in the daily eight-minute handwritten letter beautiful Square so 121 from shimmy where am I Daniel every book 10 the Neil gordon36 now listen to her voice I I think more important than the money is the item getting together and doing this 147 people I think we need a new goal a thousand dollar gemara that we learned a thousand people what do you say it's not even 10 of the people that watch but don't be embarrassed okay ten dollars one dollar doesn't matter be part of this be part of this yes Dr Epstein 36 is that the math 1818 beautiful thank you that's the way to do it started off another thing I gotta point out Joseph from Chicago wrote to me says I already signed up by bellworks I gave ten dollars a month but when valensky the kid valenski where's he he's not even here today jumped up and said ten dollar he says how could I give ten thousand figures ten dollars I'm upping the 36. okay so you should go have valenski what's his name Yeshua 36 Daniel Spector 36 Dan rubinoff 52 did I say Daniel Gordon 36 yes David Posner 10 etan Sullivan 36 a 100 Gilman 36 Elise Abram was 36. Evan Weinstein 101. there's something about I don't know why in the website they go 101 not 100 huh foreign you guys know him right 101 Jim Levine 10 Joel Friedman 36 Joel zupnik 36 Joshua Layton 36 Joshua koshki 10. tell me when to stop okay let's stop here we'll have to do the rest we have the list goes on and on and on okay we're holding by Josh Joshua Osborne 36 that's what we're holding so maybe the next one is Lester black for ten and after that comes lady photo for ten fine that's what we're holding your voice I let's jump into it that pay hey almost base it's unbelievable no thousand people it's a large goal because that went too low yesterday ten thousand dollars too low we already hit over eight thousand unbelievable okay no be one of these things you want to give we're a real real we're all in us together and you should know your money's going to coil guys loving guys that are taking uh a test on the 1200 daf in a week something like that a week two weeks twelve hundred dollars the we're getting an artist the full-time artist six salaries that's gonna be seven salaries because we learned Tyra 100 of your dollar goes towards this DACA says Robin it's where the it gets wide on peihei I'm a baseball in the bottom like five lines before then let me tell you something beautiful I'd say that also it's already 7 30. the coil responsible success of our family that we Merit always cranish him we're going to lose sponsors people are going to stop sponsoring because it's doing this monthly thing it doesn't matter as long as we're on one big mission is for my children the second sponsor is Jeff harassment by the way Jeff with all the stuff that he's doing and his son in the hospital he also signed up yesterday Jeff Rosen is closing my son is Ashkenazi one of the first people to sign up but his name is Mark M he's 180 a month he did it there were four slamma Jeff rosner's son a bunch of people dealing with foolish slim and Jeff rezner arrested himself the official 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what does he look like you have whose face that is that's Doctor Factor's face just with a beard so you have a roshiva who borrowed money and you see as you lent money he has a star he lent money to Avi to shiman and comes along the plumber you'll see Klein from Muncie and he buys off the star he buys the star from the malva so so what happens here so you would think okay it's plain simple he takes the doctor he goes to the live up the problem is that the liver he promised the money to the Malibu he has nothing to do with the plumber with with the guy with the strible but so the shebud the shebud yet he bought the star so what happens over here it's not as simple as we would think it to be [Music] he says you know since I don't have the star anyways in my possession so you think he's not doing anything no he did a very terrible thing here there is no more loan check this out let's say he has a son little Avi having inherited the Shia bud he doesn't even have the star in his hand the star went to another guy in Muncie but he has the ability to be Michael shiman or we call him Avi who's the liver management now a woman who has who's holding on to a document that says that somebody owes her money so Chanel she becomes she's she has a union a new a new partner here in life a husband she goes ahead and says you know I decided I'm giving me my whole the borrower it doesn't work why she's not the only one in the picture now now the husband's also involved the husband has to be wonderful he was a Marvel so therefore it's still a hive says huh the the departures here well the only thing we had is that it's my flight is whether his hand is stronger than her hand there's a Shiloh maybe they're equal 50 50. maybe his hand is stronger but she's certainly in the picture of our story created we're not going to add a very poor relative who to make a couple of bucks you know sometimes women when they're desperate they'll sell their ring they'll say so she came up with an idea she took a tsuba she tells a guy listen if my husband dies I'm going to inherit this 200 Souls so buy for me now right now how much do you want for how much do you want it's not worth that much why is it not worth that much because first of all you have to wait until somebody dies and if somebody dies she might die before him there might not be a suit at all it's like these people that buy the insurance policies it's not the same thing insurance policy that guy's gonna die one day 100 So eventually he's gonna get his money it's a question how long he has to wait over here he might not get anything he might get zero why because if the woman dies first the zero so now what happened was so she sold it that's why the Russian for peanuts perhaps a little bit of Honor igorzo the husband divorces her what happens when he divorces her now he becomes welcome back how long was the trip back same amount of hours 15 hours back 22 hours 22 hours and 45 minutes getting there but every minute was going to ravenu and the way back is like okay now I have to go home to my wife that's a different story okay all right wow 20 hours on the bus the dedication okay huh welcome back I saw you the two of you did that video yeah welcome back and what before he also forces probably yeah you forced him yeah we don't have time for jokes now he got our show so the husband divorces her so what happens when he divorces her he becomes and then she dies and what happens when she dies the tsuba that she that her husband also goes now to her to the one that inherits her who inherits her her daughter so the daughter now comes the people came to the daughter and they said listen you inherited aksuba now we want the money from the tsuba from you is a relative here she devised the plan he says out loud so people could hear look at the Elizabeth can't anybody give this girl a good idea here Tazo with the highlights of the email the guy since she's the one that inherited the tsuba let her be Michael it's her own father for goodness sakes who's gonna give her the tsuba her father has to give her mother her mother is dead now she's gonna go and knock on her father's door and take money you know anyway at the end of the day when the father dies if he died didn't die but when he dies this daughter is going to inherit all the father's money so why should you go collect money from your father and then the valley are going to take it from you just be Michael your father it's going to be in his bank account and then when he dies he'll take the money yeah it's like those kids that tell their parents what are you doing why are you buying this car you using my my inheritance money my usual what's wrong with you they actually say these things not my kids but I heard it from a few neighbors so that she hears she hears the idea she likes the idea she did the plan she was Michael her father she says you don't have to pay mom dexuba why are we helping other people why are we being like lawyers other than stop I don't have a right and it's it's it's brought down Allah brought down and there's a big problem with people that are telling the yanis the attorney Dion you know to be a professional lawyer in a business is harmonically very very problematic to tell somebody what to do and how to how to use a loophole certainly to lie and to do what a typical lawyer does that's awesome but even in this case where there's no Issa you just show them nothing showed her a loophole but that loophole changed the facts that we have now he told her as is as standing right now she would get a super she would have to give the tsuba over to the to the to the people that that the mother owes money to so he showed her Lupo how to be modified that's awesome so so to give person advice says to give a guy advice and say listen if you say this and this they won't know and they were there Arthur okay so how well Tony they only does it exactly I'm not sure a lot of times it's just telling you real halachas and they're they're being misadder that didn't okay that's okay but huh two wrongs make a right okay we say in the evening now these days so we take chat should treat us like a lawyer a lawyer knows that the client is a liar the client is a murderer he takes on the clients anyway he has to defend the clients even though you know we're bad treat us like a lawyer treats a client and then be Michaels foreign and use it even in the case of an unknown relative where that's awesome with a relative okay there's a Hector I'm helping my I'm getting I'm finding a loophole for my relative but now you can't do it for a style person if somebody sells alone to his friend and then after he sold it he turns around and he's Michael like this case right over here um if the buyer yossi climbed the plumber from from Muncie he's because you give a few pennies to the borrower so take it again this is the cleaner he bought the star from the malva the malva has the right to forgive the loan and then yasi gets zero but what you could do is a trick you go to the live and say listen you owe him money anyway write me another document on top of the document that already exists and say that this Shibu now goes to me so now I saved the Sheba I have the document to collect with and I have a shebook because he rewrites it why would he do it because why in the world would he think how many times has it happened since creation that the mouth doesn't happen really and we're going to see soon that he might still be liable so that he has no problem the level right the kind of a new document and then it'll be high after to to the level already back into the China not to the malva and then it'll be higher of the loan to the kind of Omar um like according to Rashi romulization a grandma if I cause a loss to somebody I take I take somebody's tire and I burn it what did I do I caused a one dollar loss because the star cost maximum a dollar but by doing so his million dollar loan went up in Flames so what what I can't pinpoint I didn't do a physical damage the physical damage was was the piece of paper that I burned so could I could I collect damages or not mcclike is so even though the mouth goes ahead in this case and he's Michael very good but the cleaner could go back and grab the money from the life it doesn't have to pay Vino has to pay the malva how much does the mouth have to pay here's Michael but he has to pay how much does he have to pay according to rashes to pay the entire loan according it's not just Rashi the rambam they all say he has to pay the whole loan according to tices and others he only pays what he paid for so if the coiner bought a million dollar loan for half a million dollars then the mouth is liable for a half a million it's very interesting he's only liable for how much he's able to get from the lever in other words if the life is a tough man he's the head of the mafia so how much money would he be able to to get from the loyva zero zeros in the mouth has to pay zero let's say the lawyer is extremely poor we know he has no money zero to zero so it's all dependent it's very interesting a lot depending on how much the lawyer has what kind of person he is if you don't hold that you have to pay for a cause of loss all he has to pay is the value of the paper maybe in those days there's a couple bucks because it's made out of leather today it's a few cents at most ofashi there's a story marriage like ourselgia where right from Force rev Ashi to the halacha not in this he he convinced him of the Allah they took the entire life is oh I did another okay I forgot to show you this one but basically Gershon hi what's up Sir tired so yeah we went through the woman and the star okay it's the same thing basically and she has a kid and the kid was okay forgot to show you this one she died okay yeah and I forgot to show you this one okay well a little fresh Loaf in there the kind of okay this is a beam sometimes you buy a beam and you're very very Market on the beam I looked into this this does not have a desire this is the Indian totem pole so I was like maybe they did it but it's not so when you do a design like this you do art you buy the nicest Bean pile if it's in your house you don't care what it looks like you throw it in the attic and it holds up your house but if it's for art you're gonna be very metallic on every every can age in this thing it should be very straight and very perfect so that's how they're going to die care and they took out they they made him pay the entire the entire load a person owes two people he owes his wife the tsuba and he owes alone The Isley Arab isuze he has cash and he has real estate who gets what is with cash why it makes only sense it makes sense because he gave me cash he pay him back cash God gives me ten thousand dollars I'm gonna give him a piece of real estate now I have to go sell it and what I'm gonna do with it explains a woman gets real say why haikidine lent you money give back money the woman she had her mind set on the property that's what gave her the security in the marriage give her property and if there's only one piece of real estate and only one could get her to either she gets to him it's only worth 200 either she gets it or but you know say when it comes to a woman she wants to get married so it's not going to prevent other women from not getting married because they find out that this woman didn't get a real super went to the bachelor but when it comes to to alone that's a big problem it's very it's very difficult to lend money when you know that you're gonna have SARS afterwards it it closes the door Noel does if they love him if you make the rules difficult to collect then other people are not going to lend money you want to make it easy for people to lend money people should take that out and I'm thinking now because I have a hard time lending money because I got burned many many times so people that don't pay back and play games with people that loan money they should know they're ruining it for other people not only are they being very soon but they're also making it harder for other people to get loans is it true that you said Arrow if somebody owes money and he has a piece of real estate and then the guy shows up and says pay me back from Malaysia School marrow so what does he say listen I don't have any cash take my real estate no I'm really have like go you go through the trouble sell it come up with the cash and give back to cash all my late life I never said such a thing so what did happen there's rumors that you said something like that there's in in that family something happened there's a guy a bad guy who the the buyer the lender came and said Pay up so he said listen I don't have any money you see the money it's not mine it's the guys oh you're lying and you're saying it's the guys who else is like a high again foreign um just real quickly Rabino time says three categories La malva liniza soccer a bar A lender somebody that had Damage Done to him and also an employee if you have cash you cannot give the lender real estate account I mean like you say now now he adds to our suit giving if you ram somebody's car you could give him no problem you don't have to give him cash give him some real estate this is very important to us when it comes to an employee this would make a lot of sense he only has real estate you cannot pay your employer your employee real estate you at that point have to sell your real estate come up with cash and give him it's something that we would probably figure out ourselves but Tyson before us says yeah the famous joke we're not even going to say it because we said so many times it's a minute you're gonna have to pay back but if it's a Mitzvah to pay back a loan which it is I don't like Mrs this means I don't want to do so somebody said Somebody's asking I I think it's brought down that but if it's a mystery to pay back then you shouldn't pay back more than a 20 for almost you know I spent more than 20 percent okay so the answer is simple because even if you pay back only 20 20 you'd still be high of the 80 okay fine it's a joke you see it says over here so because we we have plenty of time this is what they sent me from Thomas and his brothers got me this from South Africa but I have another one that Avi gave me I'm gonna do a test here every time you say Marcus from now on believe that there you never really pictured what Marcus is look at this you think this is about move back move back Robbie stoneberg you especially I want to show you what this is this is Mom's not not a joke you ready watch out you almost got whacked but listen there's nothing this is a joke now watch this this is what they sell in the streets in South Africa I don't know why you ready that on your back you heard that 39 times break the table what happened over there is Danny Mark it's unbelievable huh this is the real this looks scarier and I did this at home and this also like it even has a little thing at the end like stem like to be mean all the way at the end this thing turns around and gets you but this is garnished okay from now on we're using however you scrap but I'm using the other one what country did you buy it in the roads he bought in roads for me and then I think in South Africa they know how to do it better the guy's walking around the street selling these things for what you get 39 of those it's any diamond no it's the first time in my life I heard that on the table and that that sound is on your back that's why you bring your doctor to see if the guy's gonna pass out or not yeah the guy almost dies from you know your 20s almost dead you send them home comes back two weeks later keep on going and he has these marks on his back it's show me unbelievable that's Marcus so if a guy eats Kashi that's what we do Ava but mitzis I say when it comes to Mitzvah could go enjoy I see uh she doesn't want to buy an Instagram [Music] and there's a screws where you feel nice it has this whole second sponsor being able to support Toyo and to finish shots with rebellious if the mids are still available and it refuses to be mikhayama Mitzvah you hit him that that was just from the sound that spilled like why did it spill over there so you know by us a guy owes money we take the money out of him we force them to pay by minute so if a person says to his wife this is your get and become divorced in 30 days tices points out yeah we have to say let's just stick in the word it's very important this word it starts right now it ends in 30 days so very interesting because he said that she will be divorced in 30 days provided that she has access to her get that she's holding on to the guests she put it on the sides of surround here so I did a little thing I took yesterday's picture that indentation is called the symptom is right up against the wall now yep today when we drive our cars we're not driving one inch away from the wall we go to the center so right up against the wall is different than in middle of the surround unless people travel there now very interesting she put her her get there and it happened to be there for 30 days what was supposed to Rob him in the world he put something down he come back 30 days is there just so yesterday that in Dubai if you drop a diamond most likely somebody gonna pick it up and bring it to the police station there are a few countries like that that they're extremely careful and the zero crime and that he said it's about Dubai I don't know how true it is that there's a lot of tourists there maybe though what I don't know how accurate that's what somebody said but maybe it's not as possible but okay there's some people some places that you could put a get down and come back 30 days later nobody even touched it I don't know what it is okay I'm saying anything you put put a wrapper in the street it's not gonna stay there for 30 days fine huh I did I did sponsors yeah what were you doing you're like looking and shining places you manage a different world it's a long sponsor too we learned yesterday that in order to be kind of something you it has to be gathered in military surroundment otherwise what happens Donald so the the size of says but we could prove it also a case that we had you tell your friend I'm selling you this cow but I'm only in 30 days the the person is able to because he points out as we already said it's talking about and even if it's not in your possession it's in middle of the AGA in the middle of the swamp the middle which is around the sides lie so over here we're saying a little different now we're saying we're this we're distinguishing between the middle of them nobody owns it and anybody can have but in the side it's different says the mission is so this is a very sad mission for me very hard to understand but a person has his wife work for him which is never a good idea it's always a problem Tom Bice as Tyson points out their shining point this whole mishna is a Sean based disaster or he tells his wife ah sponsored Maisha is foreign anytime he wants says I know you're my wife I don't trust you you have to make it and Tyson says I'll I'll read the lotion soon not a good recipe for Sean bites even on a little dough on Mama's not on a little thread yarn he can give her schwa says maybe let's uh are you the Google Comer oi look at helicomer by the way I just want to point out something very interesting hey I'm on the base yeah so yeah they fly there a guy in Kyle came over to me and said that pay hey on base the last two lines from Crypt of the Riven Hoffman until pave Volvo manav three lines down over one month in Yeshiva overall this isn't I still don't know shot if you have shot let me know for every day that they learned that we've spent one second on it okay fine just pointing it out foreign so even if he didn't make her in charge of the house he could just all of a sudden walk over his wife I don't trust anymore I think he might have taken a little bit more though than necessary I just all these things always bother me I'll just say this again I think I might have said it previously but again just understand we live in a generation of such shepher and such everybody some people have one car two cars this uh one house two houses chefa representation Pinko says that his father said that he only the first time in his life that he saw a heavy poor person was when he came to America in Europe they were like sticks and then you know all for the boss right she says over there that she was in somebody's house in Europe and she said why do you have bread on top of your cabin on top she says oh I'm waiting for the bread to go stale then I can feed it to my kids and then they won't eat a lot of bread because if it's fresh they'll eat too much the poverty to understand just the the we personally don't understand it we're not obviously we have poverty today there's people that are not making it it's not but it's on a whole different level to say I'm going to save the bread to be stale because that's the only thing I'm feeding my kids but I can't afford to give them fresh because they might eat another slice it's on a whole different level so you're talking about it's a couple this friction you ate another slice I didn't give you what I don't think we could we can't understand this it's just something we can't understand the whole thing we can't understand if you look at Isis Tyson says it says you xiaomi my time at the Republican if you say that he that she's gonna swear how do they argue that ain't show them you'll never have peace in this house shove her calim if she breaks a dish what are you gonna do about it what is she she's a sheimer on your dishes that's shame Iraq what's going on there is no peace of guys taking his wife to court every day it's a real quick story there was a woman who's uh she just got married she's washing dishes and every every time she washed dishes she broke at least one dish so her new husband says what's going on here every day gonna break a dish she says you know what why don't you do the dishes let's see if you could get away without breaking dishes so he washes the dishes one day two nothing he didn't break he says ha you see so a week later she takes over again now that she feels really stupid because he doesn't bring in dishes she starts washing dishes and uh she broke a dish so she decides she's gonna sneak out she sneaks out right real quickly she goes to the store which they both delicious she goes to the guy she says listen I need this one dish that looks like he says that's so weird there's a guy that came here every day no Tyson said sharper Caleb sharper Calum okay Mario don't really keeping the Deckers but sorry color hi she tells him this is what she says I can't live with you so you got to see Rashi here since you saw me die again every little thing I do says you don't love me um you don't trust me you don't trust me you don't love me I'm out of here I can't live with you tomorrow um I'm just gonna get to the mission base or something uh uh what I didn't know foreign I skipped the whole thing here you can't live with the snake he's a snake he keeps on forcing me to do shoes so we want to know is this a Gilgo or is it only she's already impersonating We'll add another one or no every minute he could take her to Benson yeah it makes sense he's a snake because he's making her douche to begin with yeah what does she care she's already invested she has to worry about something else so she'll add a little bit why is that a snake [Music] now the person could tell his wife you know what I'm not going to be a jerk I'm going to be a good husband I'm never taking you to business to swear for me so but what if he didn't he didn't say shall I apologize and he made her in charge of his store stuff her resume so you can take it the best and make her swear anytime you want well yes what if she wasn't even working for him she doesn't have to swear you don't have to work for him so you take your wife and make her swear no matter what the wife is always going to take charge of something and therefore you make her do ashua um rely one more line FIFA the bottom line is you see from here that is only there wasn't a gilgal it wasn't that she's coming to bed anyway the guy is a snake what kind of guy takes his wife it makes her swear so you see that he meant pleasure holds you can take your wife to business have a wonderful day mother Chavez 9 30. next week 9 15.