Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 85 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys good morning first I'd like to thank everybody in the team of course the rabbi himself for helping me to accomplish my most meaningful year ever you hear his most meaningful year ever and then he goes on to say that he wishes that we had a pointer to where we are after I say a story or joke so he knows where to go back in the Gamora we're working on that I don't know what's taking so long side because it's I served semichuva I want to tell you about this new initiative that we started at the seam at bellworks it was a little bit of a weak start and we're hoping to do a little bit better so let me show you this video and I'll explain a little bit more basically it's monthly giving so you give a little bit of zaka now when it says to me chuvo what better time to give this DACA and what better cause than to get other people to learn Tyra so check out this video don't make fun of yasi Klein is give volvica guy he puts his he's he has a big company and he puts more than 50 of his day into mdy to give back check this video out revoice I I'm always asked a question why does mdy need so much money it's only a share online the answer is this past year mdy spent over 1 million dollars and it's all for one thing it's all to spread Torah and give people to be my kind of craving Target Yes you heard it well we have to pay still the mortgage for the best managers we have to pay utilities we have a person that does the charts we have a marketing we have the good movies we have the tablets expenses sometimes we need to pay for props we can get a lot that help out with the sharing coilover and bookkeeping Department the video editor tech department we have people on payroll we need a new CRM system we want to develop a new app we want to redo the whole website this year has changed my life in a tremendous way it's over a million dollars a year for what to bring an other person closer to Toyota your dollar amount will go towards the cost of changing people's life this is the only reason why the world is still standing because of Toyota I personally believe that this is one of the best stuckest person to give his money to how else do you achieve such a great Mitzvah where you're encouraging another kid to learn Tyra and through that it changes his life it becomes a better yid a mortgage smacking a better husband a better businessman Etc you give a guy a gemara and he joins the daf and his life just makes a 180. if everybody could be missed active together come together give even small amounts we can hit another 20 000 people another 20 000 nishamas that we could hit that will experience the beauty of the dot I'm asking you to be a sudaf in this unbelievable Endeavor when I think about ten dollars a month it's not something that I'm giving because I have to it's something that I want to give it's an opportunity for me to give this money to the sheer and as hakara tattoo of Ellie for all that he does give your money give you extra Dam acid and assemble pay you back if liquor fly with all the brothers that says in the Toyota please go to www.mdymounty.com put down a donation there whether it's ten dollars a month thirty six dollars a month 100 a month whatever you can do to help give back to this year to help grow the sheer so thank you for your support and have a wonderful day okay so our boys I what we're gonna do is just follow the thought based on the Avi mandelbam model ever donates money for the next month I will announce their name and share we'll make a whole thing out of it and we have to set a goal I want to do small goal ten thousand dollars a month so if we could be restrictive for those who can afford it yes but collectively as a group ten thousand dollars I don't think I think we could beat it but a modest goal of ten thousand all right so if anybody in the room wants to be mistative I will take the donations now we'll make a big deal out of it no anybody ten dollars the little guy has to say first okay get over here what's your name shui valenski ten dollars why ten thousand why are you giving us what's chat I want to give back he loves empty why he wants to give back wow you sure I'll go though what's this he has four kids a dollar a day 120. now we have to change what a month you're gonna do this every month for the coming year but you know what happens we trick you you get in there with the you're putting your credit card and it goes to the next year you have to cancel through these before if you don't give it again what's your name we met already no should be brought from straight from the airport before the coastal of course I'm not encouraging it has a song but wow you're scared to go though anybody else 26 dollars a month from remote anybody I don't want to take from you ten thousand dollars a month you said no how much fifty thousand ones from Avi kamianski subscribe okay we're ready how much we're already halfway there how much do you want to give a month he wants to think about but you're gonna give okay Mandy 36 dollars a month kids it's the I know what that is the whole rental of the car evolving by the way I want to give this back to you as a Matana and you're supposed to tell me uh that you want to be Michelle I'm paying no I'm sorry I'm paying back my loan I'm paying back my loan and you're supposed to say no Smith but I said but I want you to take it anyway as a gift and they say okay let's try out and now you can give that back to them no it's fine anybody else there in the room that wants them yourself a month one dollar even one dollar a month you're on the video so knew how much a dollar a day that's a lot that's thirty dollars a month you sure this 365 days a year I think unless it's an ember year then it's 300 no I'm just kidding I'll check all day all right beautiful we make a whole thing out of it you're gonna be anybody else you want to do something where would he give you nicer money to give anyway that's right that's right okay fine we're not going to hold up dialogue thank you very much and basically some of the guys online they're gonna jump in here we're gonna gonna update the island we have to get to ten thousand ten thousand people how much do we do today what is this how much is it a month for you can we donate a boat 120 a month 120 plus 50 is 170. a shekel I have no idea plus this is 200. okay not bad how much 000 a month you're taking down names 18 a month raise your hand who's gonna who's gonna take I don't know how to do this okay fine oh Robbie Greenman you wanna Benny all right oh real quickly I thought this is a very cool email that somebody when I said over the story from uhevsky that they want to kick his grandson out of Yeshiva because they made a condition that you can't come to Yeshiva unless unless you promise that you're not going to get engaged at a young age he says so you asked me I think about the Shabbos is it so I said even if it's not advisoria it's possible it's a it's a doable all my mices could be true even if they're not true the author of the book about rebeccanevsky and he's writing the book on romski wrote unto me and he says it is a true mice I heard from crime canevski himself oh my sir this is from ribnathali what's his last name I forgot the Weinberg or something like that I'm an avid listener of yoshir thanks for the schmuck in the daf I've never caught in my steam ready with corrections the story he said last night is 100 true okay the kids sir the the author himself yeah and then we have another guy here that just wrote that thank you saying thank you when you get a loan isakar even that's mutter you just now let us say you're not going to give a brother you know and I'll do things like that but to say thank you as the first time in the famous Miser okay we'll go into the difference the coil expansive the success of my family that we Merit always found Hashem the message is terrible so we need to refuse Lima on May the rest of himself the official mythical motivators the third sponsor of the month by the black Olympic family is Lakewood New Jersey because Toyota is the best hula fourth parents the Hashem should watch over me ensure that I'm completely healthy as may have asked him the first Paris my great grandfather of Holland Heights maybe people on Zoom wanna uh pipe in and say how much they want to give a month Sammy support Joseph in honorable the kid that stumped me in Chicago ab's first-hand office is filmed today and for a forced flame of all of Clyde Israel and for my son Aaron simcha Ben ya put on Zoom it's very late it is 33. put on Zoom for a second you have zoom well boy signing Zoom does anybody want to give to the Daily to the monthly giving and if you do just go to the website mdy we you uh you came middle of the video so you missed okay it's we over a million dollars is our budget so if you could put it my type of annoying but it's over a million dollars that we spent this this year why it's in the beginning of the video next so who's waving every wave like this is twenty dollars how many ways oh that's a hundred dollars that guy okay we have a bunch of guys so maybe give it to Mark Ashkenazi Market will send it to Avi and we'll announce it a little later when we have time here but once you have a lot of stories today we have close to 10 stories in the gamara it happens to be that three of the stories are word for word the same exact story so we have 22 lines of free Beyond on the bass says the gamara four lines from the bottom of paid dollar Norman base there's a person have a massive voice that person died the person that owed the money in he left the boat go out into the river and grab the boat today they do it a lot with airplanes the wealthy people have a private jet they go they have to jet or other types of things boats yachts Ozil tap so maybe to close that window a second it's the only one that's open here by the way I was thinking I told somebody on Rosh Hashanah he opened up the window next to him I said you remind me of the story of the guy that dug a hole in his boat in his room he said no it's only for me yeah but when you open up the window now you have some but the system works on one thing so when you open up the window I know you want a little ear but it ruins the whole system I made him feel really good on Rosh Hashanah tomorrow and then he went and broke that light over there I know what happened that was last night all right fine so the schlier who has no connection to anything he doesn't owe any nobody owes him money nothing he goes and grabs a boat the famous Republic they bump into him um what are you doing you're grabbing you're doing Roofing a favor but by doing Roofing a favor you're ruining it for everybody else so yesterday in the coil they had a beautiful Shiloh I thought it was fascinating I never thought about it you get on a bus I've never been on a bus and never this wrong but you get on a bus get on a bus and you I used to do this grab three seats for your family they're coming on later that's a Shyla of your toy face even if they pay even if they paid for their seat do you have a right who are you to grab a seat for somebody else maybe there might be a minute to Malcolm and something that overrides that but why in the world do you have a right to grab a seat for somebody we take it for granted I'm grabbing from my wife my children they're making it they're coming soon well that guy also paid for a ticket and he wants that seat there's no empty seats no empty seats no empty seats but why how do I have a right to grab something to think about just something to think about in the sugar the guy comes grabs a boat how do you ever read the grab a vote he sent me so what that guy owned five other people money guess what he's one of these guys that borrows a lot of money from people foreign I'm just picturing this these are they grabbing they care about money all of a sudden it's very interesting there's a whole story about it that money that um gave them this thing to do misses to the death to be very careful with it okay they go ahead and they grab the boat they had a they had similar things that I just roll if you buy uh apartments on paper it's a very dangerous thing you have to know what you're doing some companies go belly up before they get an apartment there's a whole story with Hefty about thousands of fire hundreds I don't know what it was a lot of people lost a lot of money so right before there was some people ran to grab their Apartments they took it as is just as a as boat what is it called the shellad how do you say shell it in English and they moved in and the banks couldn't get them out and they were typhus there's such thing as threesome okay rap Papa very interesting but papa took the rose and he started rowing it grabbed the rope and he started pulling it each one wanted to grab the boat for himself to have my rhyme fighting over money interesting I grabbed the whole thing it's mine um bumps into them another um what's wrong with you ravish more damage to surround we learned yesterday when can you be kind of something from from this from the state if it's in the religious Arab I mean nobody has any chance to it but if the boat is on the shore it's tied to the dock who's calling it by voiceai the assignment you have no right to grab it we're grabbing it from the middle of the the river wasn't uh uh it wasn't like a symptom we had the the concept of the center here just to remind everybody the picture when you go it's in versus ramp a little bit to the side you can make a bigger you can make a canyon over there no that's not what happened we grabbed it from the Middle where this with waves currents that's already versus Robin we have the scores to be kind of also commit the Rover here's a picture white swans Michelle you're removing clothing from people if you look in the gilian assassin on the side here he says number Zion they show you a swan in your dream that is so that's why I brought the picture here I think if I tell you guys do not think about this picture don't think about you will think you might dream about it tomorrow so another thing is tacky fibre means that they're older older geese older you look like old men geese are white white Bears that's why I use that lotion that's the simple shot the Belzer khasa told me a beautiful shot I think it's his own shot he said wait a minute rava is their revi so RAV is calling his tamidam kakehiri you're old man and what about him he's older than them so he must be a super super old man that doesn't make sense she says because the Gomorrah and says that whoever lives in a place that has Valley uh mountains and some mountainous area heart trekking uh you become older and have your days so what it says that ravuna he lived in norrish and he says like me I live in naras so Mela oh so basically he says I'm foolish I live there and papa lived with him in our rush and therefore they both became they looked old before their days and that's why he used that lotion if you're old man you don't tell a guy you're old you looked young and you look old even though you are young because you lived in Norwich okay I thought it was interesting if you know shots like that then what I does sorry he hopped it from the heart scroll he doesn't know what the safer is what skin and hold you he's okay I hear give out okay so forget good thing I said it's the bells are not my own Tyra out the window first of all the Arsenal brings it second of all okay fine oh they're like the guy the guy used to take over for me in Chicago on Shabbos when I give this year he was Israeli I told you this so somebody would look in the art school and ask him Akasha he would say if you got the the cash is in the article look in the looking to ask you for the turrets so I'm gonna tell the the developer we have a castle from Russia over here maybe darshan will answer your cash okay Mario you have to grab it when the guy's still alive why do you have to grab it when the guy's still alive because if he's dead then already goes to the ocean they already happened so Milo you have to grab it when you're a lot when he was alive and it's too late now I've even been ready to Revo have a mask he owed money to somebody so he said he's a good guy he's sent to pay back also parino and he pays it off he says to the guy holy story no give me the document Omer lay situ foreign so the guy looks at me says thank you very much for paying up my loan I'm not giving you the bike here's a guy he kept on going over to him do you have money to pay me back no I don't have any money so the guy came up with the trick he's gonna sell him something pretend and when the guy gives him the money have some money okay now you pay my client that's what happened here that's my mom I don't know exactly that Allah speaks about it once it's a try I have your money no too bad I'm not giving it back to you you pay me you wanna you want the bike pay me again and now the the the price just went up by the way to 4 000. on my leg the guy that received the money could say I don't know you you never paid me yeah so now we believe them completely that there was another loan and you just paid off the other loan and of course who's the name here uh Aviator he denies that there's another loan he says there's only one loan that's it now he's out of the money has to pay it up again Ask the gamara no good deed goes unpunished the guy you ask a guy to do your favor you're going to hurt this role yet here take ten thousand dollars or whatever you let it bring on the plane take all this cash and pay up a loan this is no problem it's hard for him this he knows goes looks knocks on the door but because he messed up and because he didn't ask for the document back now the guy that went on the planet he has to pay out of his own pocket ten thousand dollars unbelievable he's doing you a favor I have a picking he was directed to pay up to to get the star first and then pay Michelle and he has to pay out of his own pocket to ten thousand dollars but if he's directed first pay and please after you pay ask you the star I trust the God Lord he doesn't have to pay says like this the guy doing a favor gets punished because the center tells him with takunished I sent you to fix things not to ruin it you took my money and you threw it out in the garbage you should have asked you should have demanded you should have known what you're doing I thought you know what you're doing and you should have known what you're doing melee you have to pay me the ten thousand dollars unbelievable be very careful when you do people favors it's another story look at the story they entrusted with her a bunch of stars there's a guy that said here you're you're a trustworthy woman hold on to my stars also your shim now the guy died and all the stars are left by the woman also your shame so the guy's kids so they come to her and they say listen Our Father you remember he gave you a bunch of stars we want them we want to collect them you know what he owes me money also so I grabbed these Taurus now what good are these Stars they have no value for her they only have value for the Archer what is she going to do with them says that she was just using it as blackmail she told them listen I'm holding them either you pay me what your father owes or I'm gonna burn these Stars I'm never going to give you the Stars you want to collect a million dollars in these Stars you pay me the ten thousand dollars you father owes that's what she was doing over here but she wasn't going to use this this star to go collect the money do you have proof that the guy that was Mafia destroys by you the father who died he came one day knocked on your door and you said no I'm grabbing it no you don't have proof If so oh um you need to prove just because the star was in your possession for 10 years doesn't mean you grabbed it so when did she grab it when the guy died and the ocean came to take it so she grabbed it up until that point it was in her bedroom somewhere in a closet she didn't grab it unless the guy came knocking in the door when he was alive and he said give me the starter and she said no that's a grab but that's not what happened so you have to prove We're not gonna tell her you have to prove that you grabbed it when he was still alive but that's not what happened you grabbed it after he died too late what happens when he dies that moment that he dies he goes to the yardship so you don't have the right to grab it anymore there's a woman so the the restaurant has read speaks about the show is so from Rashi it's a little bit of a problem he says Kiefer you could say that Rashi that's what he meant also there's another type of Rashi over here on the side that says mother makes us fine let's say it's a vitamin make sense although Rashi seems to be saying but he proves the place that really proves that has to be to shoot their rights okay so she's kind of sure because somebody came there said you owe a hundred dollars and said no I don't know 100 I owe 50. but it makes us you have to swear she comes to bed dinner so again is why was the daughter of Christa there her daughter was Robin's wife because we learned in the beginning that what was her name that uh about his wife what was her name right by side she was she she was beautiful and three I'm already married her the katlanas what was her name famous name what thank you Huma came so and then Robert went home so his wife the daughter let me hang out in business I think it's better if I hang out in bed now fine so she's in bed and she says to her husband I know this woman ah she always swears falsely after Robert so she rather went and said that the person that wants the money he should make the sure not the woman who's owed the money because she's going to be miswell and later on we saw that Republic is a comment of rubber he's sitting from the rubber is I know you could trust me the guy already paid off the stack I'm a laser brother said do you have another uh Witness even though we have you the famous rap Papa you are not trusted um says sitting there Villa Republican wait a minute oh you trusted the daughter of of Christa you trusted your wife a woman and you're not going to trust the famous rap Papa says I know her she doesn't lie Marley unbelievable I first learned that I couldn't believe it Rover is talking like that about Republic I did a search on barilad RAF papa's name comes up 1500 times in shots 50. he doesn't trust rap Papa he trusts his wife another Papa until he writes princess kimara and he says even moistura Bain or you can't trust when it comes to Mama's I can't say oh it's much lie no what's going on here is that Robert said I tested her I know she doesn't lie I didn't test Europe Papa sorry you're much greater than my wife but I didn't test you you're not greater than what you have and much he was standing here I wouldn't be able to when it comes to Mama's I can't take out based on what I assume there's no assumption in Mama's but I'm not assuming about my wife I tested her many different ways she never ever lies ever ah that person I can trust no I can't remember oh so it's interesting that you bring that up there's another emotion I think where he talks about that not that I I'm throwing I just happened to come across it today this morning that he talks about a guy went to his daughter who's completely not religious in Russia and he could say I know my daughter 100 percent because I've been with her and I know how she acts that she's not going to feed me Trey very interesting uh thing okay but we're talking about moments taking money out of somebody that's different than trusting a hamster removing I can't go to you and take them to your house and take your sink out of your kitchen because I I think that guy never lies I think he's trustworthy he's a crossover doesn't work like that if I know for a fact that that person doesn't like oh my kimly if uh uh no where am I am I looking at me oh yeah there's such a thing that I know I tested this person like very much explained so beautifully killing Abba Marbury like my son um I know him very well I'll take a star and rip it up I'm not gonna use it now what happens is if he goes to another business and uses it that's another story I myself am not going to use it you can't come to my best then okay this is a woman she owed money foreign people over there know the story what happened in our city she's not going to lie tomorrow so basically what's going on here is she doesn't want to go through the whole process you know how it is to go to court right it takes months and years and you come she finally has abstract them now they're telling her move to another city she doesn't want that so she wants them to write a whole document that everything is good on conditioned that she she makes a schwa everything will be fine but the bottom line is give me a document that everything is okay I just have to make sure another city okay write it all right puppy Mission you come from uh you know of Ali Everybody Dies at the age of 18. so you're talking how does he talk like that the whole time the whole thing here and all these Gamers like he says a person has a lot of uh problems in life he's saying listen I understand you have health struggles you so you made a mistake in learning your head is not 100 there okay but remember we learned and this is a negative even Haley where there's Xavier from they also died at the age of 18. if you'd learn Torah you go to 40 and if you do Toyota you go to 60 you could break Azar din with Tyran has it which was written you know like you have a form they filled it out already before the whole entire happened Sula it's possible why I'm a Mexican sugar because it looks from the document that it's it's a lie you didn't hear what's going on you wrote it beforehand okay so this story also you can't write to the other business that she's she's she's we found that she her money's old to her it looks like a lot foreign I hate when this happens you know you curse somebody out dude I'm a harder to come from who are you and then it turns out that you don't know what you're talking about you know that guy was 100 right okay what happened if you found again what happened yeah yeah a couple that was happily married the the best marriage ever the guy is walking the street all of a sudden he finds a guest he looks at the get it has his name on it and has his wife's name on it as is the city everything he says she's divorce my wife he goes honey here's a get what yeah I found the get in the in the garbage and it had our names it's it's a good what else is a sign that you need you need every word that's because when it comes to money my delay you don't have to write it so Mela it's a good and you don't say Mexican secret that it looks like a lie Joseph don't leave yet just listen to the first story you'll know all three yeah you can leave bye wasn't the story he led money to a guy on Sunday the second day of assertive or whatever today is it says it feels like a Sunday on a Thursday and then that day got paid back on the spot the guy made a quick deal get paid him back and then he uses that same document that same day to lend money again no you can't use it again why every Star has a lien on it has a guarantee on it that guarantee flies out the windows it's only because you ruin the guarantee Mexican doesn't say you shouldn't use the star because it looks like a lie the the lie part is not a problem the problem is the shebot so you see that you're allowed to use another star that you found or in our case you could pre-write the star and give it to the woman to collect money my uncle Ripple for a year filled with and but another person is supposed to continue being able to support Toyota mdy monthly and to finish us with rubelli says the gamara here we go three stories if you know the first one you know all three that's word for word literally somebody lent somebody or he deposited by his friend seven gems the time is Dino my friend shloime Klein my sister can I tell you a guy came to and said why do you make higher of all these loser Jews you have all these mamish nebuch guys why didn't we hire them slimy had a handkerchief like this I was like this myself with seven jewels in them with seven uh gems and he said he opened it up he says which one is the most valuable this guy looks he says I don't know he says Ah you know why you don't know because you're not a maven I'm not a maven in the shamas every neshama has it could be came from a tremendous place I don't know I don't know just because they look like everybody is the type is Dino he may wrap meosha Barbara Yeshua bin lady sorry Bae Revenue they he was mafated by rhy died without living over a will which is a very important thing to leave over is that the family should know what what's going on who gets what what's going where who who owns these seven jewels two two reasons and Tyson says these two reasons are very important first of all I know vibrator we should have been lady Ahmed it's unbelievable in those days it was so poor he couldn't afford seven pearls it's impossible another thing is so it's not his so I know that somebody was marketed by him the guy coming forward he said it's in a handkerchief he knows what's going on so Tyson says you need both just the fact that he's poor doesn't mean anything maybe someone gave him a gift just the fact that he gave his sin it doesn't mean anything maybe he saw he was in the house somewhere you need the two things together then he could collect but I am awesome it's only that the guy that gave the Sim and he's not uh he's not a Ben bias over there he doesn't go in and out of that house he doesn't know what the jewels look like I have a rugby but I have another awesome but if he's used to going in and out maybe somebody else deposited there and he saw it says the gamara the same exact story word for word minus what it was because of the Casper there was a silver car because she says this is the famous that we learned about that he drowned him and over there Reverend said about him drowned the fish probably ate him and then the wife went and got married based on the fact that the fish ate him well they pocket so the Samson brings over here the reason why the Rashi says that he drowned is to explain why he didn't write it Sava usually you have to write something he didn't write who the Becker Zone I know that he's very powerful and the guy gave a semen on the burger it's it's dented over here this tablets and it's only because the guy doesn't go in and out of the house somebody else give the best review from somebody deposited clothing he was lifter without giving over it's only because it's only because the guy never went into the house somebody else the positive you miss a cause now a new story next to the two of your guy says straight out Almighty hassim go to tuvio tuvia is a famous guy in Muncie there's a lot of tourism in Muncie so who did it go to he dies I won the 10 million dollars oh he probably knew about this will so he's a Ben bias over there give it to him we've also have to be a what if he said I'm giving it to two of y'all but then raphtv shows up no he didn't say with with the Rob with the the gospel if he knows him and they're friendly so okay so Mila he gives it to him also we have two two show up from this I thought was fascinating because you wouldn't think this you have a neighbor you're best friends with your neighbor and then yeah who does he want to give the money to call the why so look at rashi rashi says they're beautiful the Miss Thomas what is he thinking about is that thing about money that he's thinking about getting more scorers giving your will you want to give in your will that it's also a great idea you're giving your will there's a lot I know that from the 15 000 people are watching there's gonna be big millionaires putting your will and be why they do it in Chicago the juf they have hundreds of millions of dollars that unfortunately is mostly from the Freya Islam but they give hundreds of jof people just it's about they go after the wills 100 million you give me five million dollars I promise you I'll give every penny towards Toyo every I'll make sure myself okay watch we're gonna get a couple million dollars today you sure is all excited about that you're sure you'll help us fine next so you hear what Rasha says before you die you put a new world to give it to me Lo we're almost finished shocking the color of my we started very late that's why we're going late who's first a neighbor or a relative this is also fascinating you prefer your neighbor who lives closely and you're friendly with then from a distant brother schname what if they're they're equal they're both relatives two two views that are both neighbors whose name is whatever the the dying thinks in his mind that the guy wanted to give he has to make his own Safari he's a little nicer this guy's a little bit more of a Tamil Hoffman Tyson says fascinating all overshots Diner means whoever the dying feels like without any svara I like that guy I'm giving it to that guy no fine we'll start right over here have a wonderful day welcome welcome