Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 84 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys [Music] um so the CM in London is actually happening in the cinema Manchester is happening there are two more days for the early bird special it's a special pricing if you sign up now many many people have signed up zucked the haliga email Jones Raffi I mentioned this yesterday but I forgot who it was as Romans driving he says funny story I was learning Irvin daf vov Eric Russell so a bunch of emails had to do with people that were learning and I remember we could do Hazard even without him but he's bringing it in it's becoming popular now and I was talking about in Arab and that valve talking about the bus advertisement and my nakaman Avenue with the hair transplant ads amazingly then we're learning today's diving super stuff hey I love the topic of the bus again and he also showed photos on the edited chair now I he's mentioning Joseph I got to mention y'all say if you're safe after she was over at about 11 30 last night he went home and edited to shirim the second cheer was online and uploaded about 435 so I don't think he's gonna be here right now but we have to give him a tremendous subscribe just like the sugiyas in the game I repeat themselves so do the extras Jones and here I think this might be the last email for today it's the guy never had to come up with a new email address and it is him he didn't want me to say his name I guess and this is a person learning the daf on the treadmill which by the way I'm a very very big fan of even if you don't go very quick it's a very very good way to lose weight as long as you get your heartbeat up there put one of those monitors on and you could do kill two birds with one stone oh there's another one I just finished listening to this year my name is David Ariz I grew up in New Zealand yesterday we had North Carolina now we have New Zealand Amira Leon 86 when I was 17. I currently live in Renata although my family belonged to Modern Orthodox show I didn't have it or I did not have a religious upbringing never really had any form of Jewish religious studies especially not in guimar several years ago you know then learning the parish week since the beginning of the cycle of me I've also began to learn daily I started some short and straightforwards you were the more I started the more I want to know a very good friend of mine recently introduced me to you even though many of the concerts are still challenging I thoroughly enjoy the shoe room and the world it has opened to me however the higher level of study with you has highlighted my need to start following Israel with my own gamara I want to know if there is and if so where can I personally gamara set with English commentaries thank you again for your room may you and your family have a hacks a match on the type of sincerely David I'm sure somebody in the NBA Schwab will send you a free shots nah 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hey give me love is bass so we have in the mishna the halacha and the time is that if a husband tells his wife this all these belongings that you have I'm not interested in them and I don't want to inherit them is he inherits them even though he doesn't want to inherit them says in the mission of why because he's he's making a condition on something that exists in the Toyota says according to him that a husband inherits the wife you don't have the right to disinherit yourself just by saying it comes RAV and says I agree to the I agree that he doesn't have the right and then in fact it doesn't hurt but for a different reason not because it's for different reason let's see so then this whole gamar is going to go through where exactly does RAV arguing with shimmingham Leo amarav hello the blue is correct the red is not correct that a husband doesn't he can't say that he's not going to inherit his wife he does forcefully inherit his wife it's true but for a different reason goes through all the steps until we finally find the step s it may see your channel okay the blue is correct that if she dies he inherits her the lab and tame a but the reason is different dealership is what it says in the Torah it doesn't work and wrath disagrees and he holds that it does work so if the tie works so then how come if she dies he inherits her because because he argues on the itself he says it's not true that a husband inherits a wife with their eyes over here you see it says they strengthen their takana more than the Torah happens to be that all the way at the end of the song you're going to say something similar but instead of saying it's Amore sir we're gonna take off the word sir foreign we're very concerned that people are gonna be missiles so they made it even stronger than the rice so that's why he can't undo it just by saying I don't want to inherit okay that I've paid dollar you know what that stands for daf that stuff The Sovereign does wrath actually hold that if a person makes a condition against the Torah it takes effect like she said yesterday we'll say again for instance oh Joseph is here come on come on in what a guest so where's the video camera yeah we could go I wish I had a video of him yeah I'm sorry I was doing like oh you know so yeah so yesterday you're saying what's the what's the classic example for instance if a husband tells his wife even though it says in the toy room that a husband with his wife no I guess the supporter has to give her clothing I'm talking about the two that are momentous monetary things if a husband makes a connection with his wife that he's not going to provide them they're it's okay we're assuming a little hold it's not okay you can't do such at night but it's my but I'll prove to you that he holds it's not okay you walk into the store and the guy wants to charge you more than a sixth or you know it's more than a sixth so that's a posse in the tires off him you know what to take or you know you know I take more than a six you take more than a six what happens the whole thing what's the matter Avi too much hiking we're doing the dive now it's a new year his okay good if you take more than a sixth the met the the mega his bottle if you take exactly six that you have to give back the six you take less than a six there's three stages less than six it's okay more than six the whole makira is no good and exactly is six you just give back the sixth okay but he says what if a guy makes a condition he says I don't care about this Apostle forget the Apostle you want to buy this for me I'm gonna charge you more than a six you might ask him yeah I'm asking [Music] it doesn't work the whole you can't make a condition against the Torah so you see the rap holes that into their eyes so you cannot make a condition against the tires says it doesn't work I found it very interesting that they discussed this again tomorrow when it comes to principle because we just had a principal on error versus Shawna a lot of people made a process what if he didn't make a proposal what if you didn't make it possible so there are some that say like this and this man and others that since most people lend money on condition that shmita is not neshamin they go against the Torah they say yeah shmita is supposed to observe all loans but I'm not going to lend you money if shemit is gonna why would I give you 50 000 loan your street is going to destroy it so I'm giving it to you on condition that Twitter doesn't that's what I think in my mind and is like shmuel that you could be mad because I think that's what they're saying so Mila even if you don't make a principal it's okay that's what they say somebody was upset somebody wrote to me an email I don't know if he's upset I don't know if he's serious that when Avi gave me 50 shekel Ivy gave me 50 shackle right before Roshana so that when shemita comes shmita is going to observe and it's going to become mine and I told him thank yous he says wrote me an email you know how to say thank you I'm alone but I thought it was a gift it's not a lot he's right you know I say thank you it was a loan that I knew that I'm never gonna have to pay back I said Thank you there's no Rivers what's the problem saying thank you no what's the problem no he told me that it's that it's that it's it's due right before shmita but the problem saying thank you is that you you get back the loan I pay you back the loan plus the thank you that's what it was but I knew that I'm not going to pay you back I know I'm gonna steal from you and she was going to come shaman it's still on it's still awesome you're saying it's also say thank you don't say thank you on loans even ones that you don't have to pay back what says tomorrow [Music] hello okay so we're going back again going back to this chart we have the Aloha Lakers that a husband inherits his his wife even if he doesn't want it and Allah says something funny it's interesting I should say is the red now also we flip before we're saying that Allah is that if she dies he inherits her now we're saying no that is that you cannot make a condition against the Torah okay so the red is okay but the blue he argues on the blue now he agrees to the red argues in the blue it doesn't make sense at all you agree to the red which is the time and you're not agreeing to the Allah which is that the husband inherits you're saying the husband doesn't inherit that's not what we're saying we said the opposite we said Raph says the husband doesn't hurt but the reason is different now you're saying the reason is okay I agree to the reason that you cannot be masama but the outcome of that the blue is different that doesn't make sense either hello okay let's go back to how we started that if the wife dies the husband does inherit her and RAV agrees to that and the reason is different the other options normally also about the right battle because representing a little holds that you cannot be masamatica but when it comes to something that's direct balance is Rashid such as mixing log if doesn't says I don't want to have anything to do with your Nifty look this tonight would be kind why would his Knight would be kind because it's the robot on no bottle and Rob holds not only is it tonight of the Eraser bottle but also a neither a bottom bottle asks right away so what's the problem with that why are you saying that he doesn't agree with the swimmingham Leo he agrees to him Leo that uh you know the rise of the tonight's bottle but he adds to absolutely says even in their abundance bottle so why where do you see that he argues or I'm sure rap is only adding when it comes to the rabbana is talking about the racer that you cannot make a condition against the Torah rap agrees with that you can make a condition against the terror but he also says not only can you make a condition against the target you can't make a condition against the rabbana so what's the big deal it's not that doesn't mean that he argues that means he agrees finally here we are finally hello he agrees with the blue that if the wife dies he inherits her even if he's stipulated that he's not going to inherit her that the husband inherits his wife from the Torah like we saw a Roy you get to the Irish in your wife okay that we know so where does REV are you the rap song He argues that the yerusha is not the residents here's where it is different he argues that the the yerusha of a husband is and they made as much as the Torah not more does he really hold that a husband inherits the wife only with the robot in the name of the rice was not um so remember this name this is revealed from broca saying it and Raph is going to explain this this is the at the end of the gamar we just have to remember this name is so this is very interesting it says in apostle on the year of Yeovil I don't know where do we even count yellow do we have you ever I don't know I don't think so but anyway the 50th year seven meters and the 50th year which is everybody gets the real estate back you get your house back so what happened over here is if somebody inherits his wife he must return the real estate to her family that's what we understand in the beginning and he has to give him a really good price we asked the question Microsoft what's going on here if you all that the husband inherits his wife and that's the Eraser I might ask her so why does he have to return it it says it's a yerusha you don't return your Russia and if he didn't inherit with the rights who's paying why should the family pay for it he just gives it right back inshallah Israel oh this is the question right here in these words wrath holds that what the Arusha of a husband is what's the word so why tell me that ref says the use of the husband is the rabbana he says before this is a direiser big Tasha okay basic virus so the answer is we're talking about that he gave his wife a cemetery is his wife what she inherited a basic virus but he got it right um so now he wants to take control of the basic fires and we have a problem that when they want to bury the wife's family over there they're going to have to step over his his Graves his things he has to go over theirs it's a busha for the family so because of this he gives back her family's Halka but this has nothing to do with the oval anymore this is so we're talking about take you take back you you take money back from them and you give it the great they pay him and he gets back to grave that's what we're talking about because if the person sells his own grave my mother is the place where they stopped during the levia they used to stop every few minutes and and uh say sukum or the place where they do the husband by my name is the family could if the guy sold his grave has no right to sell they come they grab the grave back mishom okay and upon him what's the bottom line the bottom line is the Wrath says that's about and we said that according to wrath yorush is about which one is it does wrath hope that a husband inherits his wife with the rice which one is it says so why did he say over here is really he doesn't hold him and he's just explaining the first sheet the review very good foreign they want to grab the money that he left over you have the wife the wife wants the Arusha the the tsuba she wants to get paid from the tsuba somebody that lent money to the guy that died he wants his money back you have the ocean they're all fighting over the money because the guy he had a deposit by somebody or he had a loan he himself loaned money to somebody now what's Allah is that typically speaking if this is about five you can't come and grab from the arsham but over here the ocean don't have any money it's not in their hands where's the money their father's money is where is by some guy that owes the father money so if that's the case he says we retired from time for nightmare you know do you take the money since the yaroshim didn't so to speak they weren't in the money yet because the money that's owed to the father is by roommate somewhere so what do you do with the money you give the money to the weakest link the weakest link who's the weakest link thingama's Gonna Save foreign we as the judges don't have the right to have a harmonics on anybody give it to the weakest link give it to the yardstream and finish why give it to the weakest there's no such thing as weak you know who gives to the weakest and as rahmanas that's it he could be murakam but then we cannot be Mirage will get the money because the the wife they need to swear before they get anything so they didn't swear so whose is it now right now the second if you have three that are trying to grab the money who has the most connection to that money the ocean because the ocean don't have to swear to get it the others have to swear something similar the father left over a bunch of detached fruit pile of wheat the pile of apples can explain if the fruit is not in the possession of the assignment it's not in their Tarka it's a middle of a Russian somewhere middle I don't know what a symptom then whoever grabs it first gets it let's say the woman's soup is 200 zoos she grabbed 300 worth of fruit the father owed 200 to the to the lender he grabbed 300. what do you do with the extra 100 reputation from him you give it to the weakest link the weakest one again he says what do you mean give it to the weak you don't give to the weak you give it who deserves it Allah you know luckily it goes to your shame because the wife and the Baha'i if they need to swear and they don't need that she didn't get it not that she's entitled she didn't get it we don't know maybe she got it maybe paid her up we don't trust her what's this double ocean we understand very nicely if the father owes money somebody has alone against the father that's enough what I have to say be cutting they also he gave a deposit he gave him a nice Becca or something what's the difference the reason why the ocean maybe don't get it is because something like it's missing he didn't he didn't he didn't collect it yet when I give somebody a million dollars it's for him to go spend and do whatever he wants to with it so it's not there anymore the money I gave him is not in this world so therefore it's not so much the origins I can't view it as if it's the artist I've become this way but a deposit I gave him my Kiddush cup that's there so who who has the who's the closest to that condition up the our ship argues because he says it's right here our behalf but in money in my modular retirement that the yardstream don't get it because it's out there somewhere it's not it's not in the ocean what does it mean you give it to the weakest link is you have a woman who has a star the one who has the star that has the closest Date to us in other words the weakest collector two people have a star one says that you owe the money a year ago another one says you owe the money a month ago so who's stronger the one that has a starter that says a year ago because anything that was sold from during the year goes to the guy that has the star from a year the one that has the weaker star is not as well off as the one that has the other stuff so we give it to the weakest one which is a tremendous hiddish the the least secured loan so what do you see from here remember you say you see from here that not every time is the strongest guy going to win over here the weakest person wins so I must say the story I might have said it but I have to say it again if I did huh why which one supposed to get there [Music] he'll take it out of the wife yeah who said once he gets it he gets it I don't I'll go upon him I don't think so but okay I hear there was uh Robert felinsky it was a big tadiq and he went to the Gabby of it'siva and he said listen I'm marrying off my daughter please give me some of the wealthy guys the donors of the Yeshiva so the guy was thinking himself this is not good because you know I need the donors to Yeshiva I can't give him my daughter he's a big topic and everything he needs money I get it but I'm not going to give my donors she gives him the last guy on the list he's a donor God gives High dollars every year suck your hair thank you okay sir Valencia goes to the guy and he says uh I'm here to collect money I'm marrying off a daughter he says how much do you need talking about back in the day he says I need let's say he says I need twenty thousand dollars twenty thousand dollars this is twenty thousand dollars okay resident give them twenty thousand dollars so he goes back to the guy by he says the guy paid off the hall though what because she even nothing and he gave you turns out his fouls this guy that gave him the money he had a daughter that became very sick so he made another Taco he said Hashem if you heal her I'm giving all the money that I've set aside for a wedding I'm giving it to the first cow that comes to me and this guy happened to be the first cow that came to him he wasn't a wealthy guy so what do you see sometimes the weakest link is the strongest link that's here the weakest link is the strongest link you never know you never know in life I'm telling you Mario balances no give it to the wife you know why because as we learned yesterday the day before we're learning that maybe it's two days ago it's all one I think it was maybe that women became old the men couldn't marry anybody nobody wanted to get married why because their super wasn't secured and the women needed to know that they have a stupid to rely on otherwise it doesn't just divorce them so we made a it's over here also you give it to the woman so that the men should be able to marry women because if the woman gets her tsuba she'll be happy she'll marry men so it's not like it's a reverse Hina if the woman gets her Cuba then she feels secure then she'll marry a man so it's good for the men to pay off the woman first you give it to the weakest one that has Araya the the weakest and that's the way to go for hug and losses against his Rashi should give it to the to the woman [Music] if you give over the the the the the husband left over the the guy dies and he leaves over a bunch of fruit that uh detached from the tree service says no you take the pair of solution you give it to the assignment give me my remind sir why is he talking about if somebody grabs the amount that they need but they also took a little bit more you give them more the extra you give it to the assignment the whole pile is the ocean so why is he talking about the extra but I don't remember myself he's just mimicking the lotion of retirement what he doesn't agree to this idea that he could grab stuff and it's yours when the father is still alive then grabbing works and this Rashi says he got a Kabbalah from his revenge will rip typhoon reptaren says you could grab whoever grabs from the pile of apples he wins where are these apples rabbis will never the value of Lucius the middle of a public domain of the simple light but if it's in some sort of this is the best I was able to find in the pictures that we used for aravan here's the robin you see the asphalt in which is Robin and there's a little bit of an indentation in other words you don't have people walking back and forth you don't have cars driving there it's much quieter so if you want to do business you want to talk to your friend you go into that little indentation let's say that that's what a symptom is okay if it's innocent though that's already that's already too private for anybody to grab it that's already the yardsters value I feel like a symptom say no even in a simplest parties to surabin therefore the woman can grab it could grab it says there was a story where came and grabbed the apples from the from the pile of apples and they passed in it's okay you're a lot of grab came and said give back to Apples give every single apple back why because we passing like riba Kiva you can't just grab almost and we passing like cool what are we passing when rebecciva argues with the retirement who should we pass and like so we have a cloud that is if he argues on one person so you just took that cloud this this rule that Allah and you made it like it's uh okay so we passed in we we we went against that rule doesn't mean you should go and take the apples back so he made a mistake if it was though you're right so you go and take the apples back but there's only a rule this is what's going on how government schluck has decided to take the apples back and Rebecca said you don't have to the Marisol of Irish Sluggers holds some environmental Kaiser if you make a mistake like that in a rule it's not a ratchet say it's not a mishnah it's we have a cabal that's how the that lock is like your vikiva if you make such a mistake you have to give back everything so in this case you'd have to give back all the apples yes it's a mistake that looks like Eva but you don't have to take the apples back there's different ways to look at it number of ways three four five ways no maybe perhaps everybody holds that you you have to take it back or Sluggers would also agree they'll fire you should give back the apples but what's the problem with it myself so this rule doesn't apply in this case the rule that the luxury doesn't apply because where did Rubik Cube get all his Torah he got it from his rebbe he can't argon is ready does Ruby knows better than him no retirement if he argues with his Tarvin should win so it's not in that rule that that looks like you well myself no we have a rule it's a cloud in the Toyota no matter what even when he args against Israeli you've always had another way to look at it is even Rebellion homes that that was like rubikiva only when it's not against Israel when against his rebbe that love is not like rabikiva so therefore you shouldn't have to give back to Apples River Tyrone says if you grab you grab well holds the retirement was his Rabbi now we have a machoikis who was his revi is well we know that he taught him he was like a time with hover it was Rebecca was the time of Harvard retirement he learned from him but he was a friend of his and therefore the rule applies that Allah and therefore if he is uh ready then then you don't have to give it back and if he's a friend you give it back everybody agrees retire from friends if that was wasn't his friend but welcome I believe uh this rule what was it in the rule that loves so you can look at it one way that Locker is like every key that's 100 rule well myself no it's not a rule that loves everybody is that we side like rubikiva doesn't it's not a solid rule that he's 100 right you should try to lean towards River Kiva so if I didn't mean like rubikiva so you don't take the apples back that's what we're talking shell the other one says no it's you have to take the apples back says and the relatives are revealing I thought it's interesting that we had in this myself at least three times the relatives I don't know if you remember those are doing Hazara know what I'm talking about few times uh the the relatives complained that the wife is taking too much from sinus so Rebecca had a trick how to get out of it and then he said what I'm like remember he used that lotion I'm like what am I a lawyer for my for my family okay so here also he is a little biased and they come to him they say listen we grabbed a cow a nice zaftig account he was walking around like in South Africa in Middleburg in India we grabbed it it was all to us we grabbed it are you allowed to grab what is Rebecca hold about grabbing so over here on my little shopper to faster no you did a good job as Tice was on his path what do you mean if you look at the right where it becomes wide Shabbat Festival he said we just finished the suyo that we only we lean towards River Kiva not that well right over here it sounds like it's happier sometimes it says interesting he but he says in Allah because over here they already grabbed it when they came to asking the question it already happened so maybe that's like a media okay maybe there is give it back on so they go back to their their their relative I'm alone I thought it was beautiful Rashi says he's just as great as I am that's what Raji says you have any relaxed different people's Shadows well they had to ask another side to explain because they had to ask rishlockish because Rebecca was biased they felt that it's not a good not a good Allah not a good sack but at the end of the day I thought it's amazing here you have who used to be a listen we know the story Robertson said okay come use your your robber you're a great robber you're the best robber come learn Titus not only to come he's just as great a picture this is a bakaro there's a guy that takes care of cattle and the sorry that's not it that's not what I'm talking yeah but color the asthma the topsy toyriminate it's a ray bucker okay I grabbed it when the guy that owed the money your your employer is still alive what's the line and the guy grazing the whatever it's called the shepherdham it's not true he grabbed him afterwards he tells the shepherd you have you have Araya that he he grabbed it I'm like laugh no oh Malay so yes since you could say it was mine I bought it before beforehand I'm just taking mine so therefore you could say we trust him that he could say he grabbed it when he was still alive but huh the guy the the fisa of the the mace because now you now you're fighting against the ocean you're fighting against other things you have other people that are that that are going for it I think beforehand your money so I so done didn't last money you owe me money I'm coming to grab from you so different than you have a wife now that she's she's claiming uh rights to it and you have the assignment you have you have it's three people against one before it's one against one Maybe vomit slokish foreign animals these these smaller animals that run in and out they they just they come in they go out there's no hazaki you can't say hey look you see this this goat it's in my backyard that means it's mine it means nothing a goat got there how did it get there you have a kazaka if a cat goes into your backyard it's your cat that's the no that's what animals do they come in they they leave says anymore yeah that's that's good with small animals The Mysterious but when it comes to larger animals these things cost a thousand two thousand dollars each you give it to the guy and it's by him and if it's by you that's a good ride that it's yours and not the Shepherds foreign I thought this is also very interesting a woman is walking down the street all of a sudden people come pick her up put her in her box and bring her what happened she happens to be a maid of somebody's and they're using her as collateral she's she's in middle of the symptom and the chapter you alsoever the other Republic is we'll stop here anyway he's good have a great day have a wonderful day now what is that you know took him back so anyways have a wonderful day wonderful year we'll see you tomorrow baby [Music]