Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 8 by R’ Eli Stefansky

welcome to the guest what's your name from marine park marine park and from gateshead i like this email this has a lot of different things in it i flew into new jersey from miami for 15 hours for the mega seal i'm so grateful i did my ride back to newark from the scene fell through at the scene my phone died and i got nervous i'd be stuck even if my phone died i wouldn't be able to call an uber because there's no service that bell works so i had a result to snaring i waited at the exit asking for ride to new work one of the first people i asked was get schmack hosted from muncie without hesitation he said sure i told him i'm not from the tri-state areas i have no idea if new work is on the way or not to munzee told me tom maybe you should check first before he says yes and he calmly casually said it's not a problem that smile took me to work so me a kid that grew up going to salomon shakhtar and skokie in non-religious school meeting a cluster for monty and having a great conversation connecting over gemara was something very special and what mdy is all about his name was shimmy greenwald i found out that he sells life insurance gets it this email's made up i think it's a life insurance guy that wrote an email about himself josh whistling i'm just kidding it's a tremendous cassette and that's what it's all about welcome back you just got back when you get back last night wow how was vacation gevalvik joshua raboissai here's ravi ho making the seal in the london ceiling over here also you see all different you're not in there norm but i see avi kamiyansky peeking through dr factor you weren't here yesterday but you're scared for doing the seom here in rbs and all different types of youth in here a boy side check this one out here's another school from england i believe i forgot the name but here they are at yeshiva lublin volume nice and loud [Music] spotted match blouse team learning the daf at valley village community colo if you look closely has a special stand for this it's unbelievable the scene where bellworks was spectacular considering the ratio of qasidine that were there you should be known as the rebel rebellion something less literate than just her belly wow i just loved it is it leg la raj to take pictures playing basketball was that only for skiing it's a good child he wants to know if i get insulted by seeing people that play basketball because i can't play anymore how about if it was if i was sporting an mdy t-shirt attached to the picture playing multi-shops last night in my new swag super comfy by the way once i put it on i couldn't miss my sister speaking of a t-shirt this afternoon when i was at a mets game at citi field i saw something running down says wearing the shirt so i picked up my ndy bag and i packed some goodies in and pointed to the shirt we shared a fist bump he ran to the seat and proceeded to catch a foul ball a few seconds later okay sir if you wear the shirt there's a lot of ghouls that could happen i took an awful picture but here it is then the knight fell the nice fella behind me comments his friend the guy with the daf yummy shirt just caught the ball small world anyway i've been with the chase since the beginning of brothers slipped a few times since but keep jumping back on get volley that's what that vietnam is about very rarely do you find the guy that went from bronchus through vamos without falling a couple of times you fall you get back up previously i made numerous attempts of doing the by the way we have robbie rosner here who just turned 70. he was here yesterday at cheer and he told me after cheer i'll see you probably matsushab is sunday because of biden in your life he travels from shalom every day he stayed overnight so that he could come to the chair today the boys said there's still some chairs available here bizarre and gobble this guy stays overnight and your friends are still slipping at home even though i may only add another feeling guys in the share meeting people have seen whose names i've heard over the years and seeing faces that have been what seen while watching this felt like i was having a reunion even though no how come you didn't come to the scene what a well what you got to come to the next one it's not shy kids are for those who are newer to the sheer and scratch your head and wonder when in wonderment fun of each word how can one person have so many stories happen to him well if the testimony of ravi brazil and ellie schwer are not enough i have a good friend that goes way way back with the rabbit avikay when i asked him his response was you think it doesn't make sense but every single time we're together something happens to him sorry for the long email and thanks for all you do i hope to stop by anyway next time you can get this as well going in for what appears to be a fake rebound there's no ball there he's going in for he's copping here okay we have to start okay maybe here's a guy says i shouldn't say his name he was in yeshiva he's one of the best bachman shiva after he got married he was never satisfied with the shirim he looked at cabrous but you know what happens to him russo versus sick and that doesn't really happen he's at the other end of town he needed to learn every rashi otherwise it didn't mean anything until i found myself eleven years after my wedding and never finished him i joined mdy family versus shauna then titus and got lost again then came in vamos and i was lost til her belly came to flatbush my friends left me got in track got inspired a shout out to my friends hilly milo the claim that i inspired him to start the shooting i've been there ever since i work in a famous cultural supermarket where we work six days a week in honor of but since i started with mdy family i found my work gets done way quicker sorry for my lung drusha i try to keep it short please forgive my english since it's not my first language grew up in williamsburg could someone teach your belly the low part of animan do i not know it how's it sticking off okay let's sing it right now well that's the deck wishing it was successful keep inspiring us all please don't mention my name all right um in toronto i set over from who was it ah mayor planco mayor planka drove very far i forgot how many daffy did but i said that even though he turned mama's callers when i was talking about him i said it gives kizuk and i actually got an email i have to find it somewhere that somebody because of what i said about mayor planker he also did a ton of dap him on his ride and here's another one nothing to do with mayor i don't think hope as well maybe this is the one i was thinking about it's very nice to meet you by sheer live stream in lakewood um i'm with you since tightness i'm currently about 10 hours into my drive to south florida just the 10th consecutive daff of tinus so i complete that as well thank you for keeping me company during this drive shout out to my wife cancer support best wishes of roomie gober kids it became a thing of the entire is families like new jersey because toyota is the best gula if anybody got insulted that i called him i'm sure i said two people two should go aim i call them they spent ten thousand dollars to speak to me for ten minutes it's a lotion of endearment no it's not uh don't take it seriously as this cause for our children to be college safe healthy happy and no hashem loves them at the young age of 42 it is trump should have an aliyah pirates of shiva number two shawlee wasserthiel in honor of his wife's first yard site the night of tamils furman in honor of dr david black for bringing me to mdy one year ago today yes 365 dive under his belt and we're almost finished ass bells is honor of birth new baby uh the bells of hossett is honoring the brother new baby my son's birthday bishop red pink here's a very interesting thing that if we just come up with this halacha today maybe it could die that yo you're going for coming back how about i have nothing to do with me the we have a share of breakfast and you have nine people to share breakfast what what do you do typically you go to the next door neighbor say do me a favor come here as a 14 year old boy schlep him in good or not good anybody anybody have a problem with that is that a good partner yes no whoever learned to daf knows it's not a good pan of hadas next we don't know it yet but everybody thinks it's good so we just learned that we'll find out in 10 seconds so you say chevrolet brachus for the seven days it's not called cherry blocks because in seven days it's seven brachas that it happens to be you're saying it for seven days you must have panim says the bottom tison it needs to be a person that increases simcha your next-door neighbor who's 14 years old does not increase simha it actually ruins the simcha so mella he's not a part of kadashas is a good friend of yours who you wanted to come to the class and he could come to there's other people not so much don't tell them that this year started let's stay at home so anyways it's it seems like those in the know not to be marketed on this thing it's that can't be stop a guy from the street now says taiswas we continue with isis fine that's that now what is considered particularly let's say you went to the casino you weren't there for the copa let's do that you wanted the sheriff are you asking us to be somebody that didn't eat in a previous meal the famous rama ramos says that saying over the retirement i'm laughing because i think it's funny saying over the because mom is a simcha i've never been to a place where a guy said over the years so it depends i mean that's just me personally it's usually a guns fine attar for if he's saying that victoria for him it's upon us maybe but ramosa sternberg says that he could be even tired of that if you say it russia about the hassan oh that and that gives the hassan his covet you say good words about the constant in the kawa together with your neighbor who you hate and you invite it as a panchayatis those two things he says are mitstar because the neighbor alone according to that is not so good the drasha nunu but you put the two together you have enough of uh of apartheid what do you say here we go what it mean why has that helped you it has to be somebody new why somebody knew what i needed let's think again we always say what does it mean it means somebody that adds simcha to your to your meal doesn't mean a new face why new face all right we're starting with the brachus now let me just show you real quickly on the how this works before anything when you go to a wedding you're going to say goffin hagophen and then they're going to have a beer cass aerusin so we have this claw usually the message edition says this one and you can see in red there's the beginning of the bracha there's the end of the hashem and we end off we're not discussing this brock at all today i threw it in there just to show you the the seidadvaram at a typical today this is how we start off now because and it's important to see this bracha because typically we say we don't end up with another boro but this is the end is a whole this is the one bracha we start and we end with barca hashem okay now we're continuing on what we're going to see right now are two brachas that have nothing to do with the khasana shacklebar somebody wrote me an email that his brother's supposed to get a bracha under the hope he was only 13 years old he almost said shakuni and then the quran he says no you're not the brother of my eyes no fine but we're saying we're going to see in the second rashi beautiful rashi what it means that those two have nothing to do with the huss and kyle really and then we start the next four brachas are have to do with casa de nicala so those two small ones we don't we don't end off we don't we don't say it's like a shackle nebula you just you start with this i'm just giving a dummy here that brock is the beginning of the process of shaving brachas that have to do with the khasana therefore it starts and ends with barca shemiotir adam once we get one of these massive brachas in the rest don't need it but then we end off with one of these why we'll see when we get there so again the biggest errors in we're not even discussing it's a whole different parasha nothing to do with the cherry broccoli this is schweiner brachas this is the eighth one it's aeroson in those days they would do it they'd do a brick of sarasota they would have take a break for a year and then come and do the the biggest ensuin but today because everything is in one shot so they stick this in okay now what is this shahako bara says rashi for this rash everybody should look inside it's avalikarash you're not going to find it so quickly it's 16 lines down okay give you 10 seconds to find it it's not part of a wedding we're talking about all the guests it's a broken to the guest thank you guests for coming and enhancing the simcha unbelievable right we wouldn't know this if you didn't go to the field you didn't learn the death you went to a hundred classes you don't know what's flying it's the commemorative himself what does a father like most what's most enjoyable her father when his kid does exactly like him he's a doctor his kid is a doctor he takes pride he's a shiva kid meaning it doesn't do what the father appreciates and likes it gives the father a lot of time when a human being is mistaken so that's a beautiful thing father is very happy getting together by a wedding gives kavita bro so that's why we make this bravo um you're supposed to you could say right away by the house but since you gathered under the hopper and now you take out a cup of white white wine rabbi say because otherwise the stains the cow's dress the whole thing is cool yeah i don't know if you know this but as a caterer has to be that the blue stuff doesn't have to but it's kadai even though it's better to always do a brock on red wine anyways when you make half dollar you say baja bro priya geffen and then the other brothers come in so there also he said you see the first block on the top is gavin it's not part of the chevy broncos s i mean it is the six brokers plus that so melo we s we wait until you have a cup with wine and then you make shakal [Music] so now we know so kobar is about to guess imitating great next one the yoitser adam what's yoiter adam who created adam harishan okay so we're going to see in a second why bashir yatsara saw them with salmon now we go to the next brother here it goes this already has to do with the wedding because gujarato created man with his most like [Music] me signs i got you tell everybody to sell a rib so it's every we know we learned to write a narrative and it's not a rib it's a mistake cellar doesn't mean a rib so it means a tail either a tail or his face but not a rib nobody says rib says over there when we learned it the gemara actually says that that a woman is built like a izar it's wide and white on the on the bottom now on the top to hold the baby it's built like a building fine basically opinion [Laughter] he said don't tell your wife sweetie you built like a building created a woman from you now you're getting married to her soy sauces his children to it okay so we commemorate i have a video i'm going to show you soon of a guy doing a terrible job on it i had a few videos that was the best one i was able to find samar now if you look it says soy sauces double ocean which is of simcha sama what is the difference between simcha and sauce so soy sauces is a rochni simcha and that applies usually where samartha has a gash me synchro which is applies to hassan and akala i think the village says that the different things simcha simcha we say later on is one is the inner simcha and one is the outer simcha so a guy that could dance on top of his car with speakers and this and that doesn't mean he bets him inside the simcha means he's showing off outer simcha which is also very important because sometimes you go in the street it happens over all the time i try to say like good morning to the guy and he goes hmm you know like the daffodil like to smile at somebody there's an indian to be nice to the outer appearance that doesn't mean the guy's not depressed side so to have inner sim that's sausage that's referring to the chassis they are friends loving friends should be happy so over here if we notice it doesn't say has an impala it's a individual bracha that each one the chassis should have slack in his life the color should have a slug in her life it's not a bracha that together they should be simple that's the bracha later on but together they should have a symmetrical life over here it's each one should have a great life says [Music] now by samar so that's a concept in shalom bayes a concept of a concept in life that i hear this all the time and everybody i know is guilty of this in order to be successful in simcha in the house and simcoe with the kids the kid has to feel like that the wife has to feel like that it's not how you say oh i love my kid i love my wife if they don't feel a hoove you could be oh you have it doesn't help yeah masculinity i'll hooven they have to know it they have to feel it all right okay i think we have to do this together but i'm not in the mood foreign [Music] oh and now we're just going to have 10 la shoiners of simcha different ways joy and gladness khasa mekala according to summer showing kyle is another like a song my daughter's name is reno reno ditso the light pleasure oh [Laughter] it's my fault mero asheville [Music] oh another magazine is laughing yourself all right okay hassan together with the kala at my son's hasanah and the sheriff as i said and everybody knows this but i had to say it that maybe they don't know it shows us by that special symphony that has it's it's a once-in-a-lifetime situation for most people there's a special love that doesn't really repeat itself people chase that kind of feeling but it's a special language board who gave a husband in kala yeah we we give him a bracha that should continue forever but why did you do it i personally believe that it's akushbob was showing us like he shows us with everything else with the fact that we have children the fact that we get married all these things are ways so we could identify with that because what shows us how deep our love could really be like we look at the cousin they they look at each other they see each other they don't see anybody else in the room they're their eyes are locked for it lasts about two days whatever that period is but it's possible it's doable that's the love that we have to have for our coach i believe it's a certain mashallah who gives us says wait a minute hold on it's not going to be like that for everybody you should know it's that deep and then we have a child and we see the relationship between a father and child before we have the child we have no idea that's the again you can't tell a kid shalom like like a father loves his kid he could understand like a kid loves his father we'll never get to understand that until he actually has that gives us that period in our life that we could understand that kind of love and therefore we could yearn for that love so why is it if we look over here this brother we just did the the next the next three so estasis ends with miss ends like intro monastery why schweinsteiger starts with bogota's shem and then the following bronchus slach revolution refaenu they don't start with baroque but they end with baroque because they're all part of the brahms that we're saying if so why is the last one asked rashi a bracha that opens and closes with the baroque as you see in red it should end with why does it start with bhagavad-gita it says rashi because it's a bracha that many times is said all by itself if you don't have the the panem khadashas or whatever it is you say that bracha of a shabbar simcha melo is instituted as a bracha by itself as they saw trash okay there's a lot of lofts that we're learning here hard to remember all of them but at least we're touching upon the next thing you go to you might be a little bit more familiar with what's going on try to pay attention start off with the borrow and with the borrow the middle ones don't start at an end but i should borrow as it's broken by itself the first one has to start and then abram also that's the first broker and then that's also an example of one bracha that starts and ends with a borrow huh not if you don't have broccolis but if you don't have you don't have the right amount i think it is that's where i'm i'm not a hundred percent sure rashi says they don't have pancreatis but i think they pass skin if you have a you need a pan dashes but not ten if you don't have tens of that so that's how you say kids are something to that effect says the gemara levy ikla bay rebbie lulay derby rib shim and the son of rabbi got married and lady habit didn't be there barack hamish he said only five out of the six which one did he take out yo terra adam the second one shackabal they have to thank all the people why did he take out yo toronto ravasi little baby ravaged did it create just adam and from that he created java or did he create i don't have attached to each other back to back they had the same face they were they were back to back so remember if he created it was two different creations so you say one units are adam and then you say the broken right afterwards talking about who's separated this can let me men opinion also saw them in salmon two broccolis or other first they said adam says because there's two creations so if you all there was one yet zero you take out your autumn you just do you start from asia i saw them in and then he takes it back there's no before and after because it's all one what exactly happened and mashallah explains a little bit that to start this doesn't explain that indian but he says that wanted to create human beings like all animals two elephants two cows but then akushboku realized that humans fight so he wanted him to be too zachary kevin just in a different way so he didn't create them two he created one and separated so they should get back together and fight less we don't really see that it helped that much but whatever okay okay i can't imagine would have been without that had he gotten the other way around him the question is you go with martial and marshall wants to create two and therefore you make two bronchos marsala bus somebody says lean on but at the end of the day created one and therefore you make one broken kyoto ravioli the roaming sieve he had a contradiction absolutely eloise kim and saw them with salmoy in singular zohone cave abram in plural created two okay with here you see this in the rabboissai this is where you maybe i messed up okay he says it again yeah it's in there somewhere i don't know didn't come out here okay mishivo of achloishim so here i said the other day that akhasana is like a veilos there's a lot of similarities here it is available the seven days of this 30 days of schloshen by avaelos there's 30 days by hassan also there's something special about the 30 and then the shauna roshana and there's a year of availos so over here you see the shiva actually from seven days until 30 may not receive so if from then on if you still have simcha you say but i just want to show you this video i thought it was interesting here's a guy that says hariat mugusha he couldn't say the word hare the raw was very mocking on him this wrote something else he finally says that rey but he says and he's like let let him go here i'll play this for a second it's a whole matzah here and this is real it's not even fake and then i was thinking when i was reading this it says tobacco is shiny your tongue will get stuck to your palate this is what happened to this guy mama foreign this is the guy i was talking about don't give this guy a broker at the kasana yeah okay fine by the way you should never give up on the bronco that's another thing you don't give a question abroad everybody says that fine next somebody said a martial why do you why would somehow because the marshall king told his um this guy build a bridge build a bridge the bridge fell down build it again the king he said listen build a bridge but i want you to build your house on the bridge you're gonna have to live on the bridge like that i'll make sure that klaus and kyle is the same thing as rockford said don't just build the house build the house you have to live in it it's a little scary so your motto now before the hassan when the father says let's do some sort of meal the cover the casano putting the barley and making beer according to one shannon rashi amy vera poppy acid lava marburi uber chassis anderson rappapo went all the way back to when they got engaged by the way if you're talking about beer raw puppy used to make beer and he's very wealthy so you didn't have to worry about making beer so it went all the way before that he would have to make the bracha ravini has a little bray ravino had made a shirt between his son beirav to the daughter of have a barak misha seriously made it right away oh my why killing me good value the lord hajibal they're not gonna take back the shidduch he says good morning that's not what happened they stayed in milso at the end of the day they broke the of bahadur it's a big thing if i was just thinking when i learned it got engaged and later on found out that maybe it wasn't the greatest in the world and he didn't break it he refused to break the off because breaking was a very severe thing there's a lot of stories about it okay they say miser broke and he never had a kid he had one daughter and that thought he was lifted and he held that i was dictated of that woman who was actually never michael him by igloo so he took the first two right the yoitsar adam one this guy the yoyos are all them chocobo they're very small bronchus made them longer and added at the end another hashem whatever he he he fixed it up the lace hook is going to say we don't passing like that right nobody says it but there are those who say the person would say you should say it it's a the only reason why we don't say bye brothers but that's what i'm saying they treated this literally you know because of the tire of the baby but otherwise you should say it's amazing the question is one of the the people of the show brothers vein availability of is not part of the thing i mean it says oval is part of me my sister almost like he asked me a question on rav from a bryce rav tano pollock rav was the first amira the last tana so he has the right to argue on a bryce says that he says rebirth says he's not and then we say bryce it is so why don't we say rebecca is a tan and public but we are going to arrive in the same generation reference the god outdoor energy he was younger than rav so those few years separated him rebecca was not a thon as his tyson and tyson says something amazing how come we don't say that ryokan heard it from rav himself and that's why rav rav is a tana rav has the right to argue in a bryce how come we don't say that he heard from rap says tyson's he himself is not a tana and he's arguing on rav an entire shot so in other words he held that rav is not a tana and i could argue and rav so he argues in this idea the rough time so we have a contradiction sponsor horn and honor robert t midetsky the only rebbe that was actually good in basketball sponsored by nisana gashimi according including benching and being simon so he's one of the three it can't be one of the ten people that stand in line like we do today after lava you stand in a line that you need ten people the oval you need ten in in addition to the other reviews if we're talking about the shura you don't say abraham over there you just say hello in those days after the leviathan go out to the city center and everybody would give them the first meal and they would eat a middle of the street it says all seven days they don't need a meal in the middle of the street all seven days it's a one-time deal after the valley is and in order to get there we have to go through a very long agata marilla master berate their slogan is the story happened with through shlokash's rebbe that taught us his son tragedy the rebbe's kid died she went to be menachem of the rebbe but not on the first day i don't know if you see from here something people told me that it's not the minute to go the first day that's when there's a lot of tsar you don't really go you may not come over on the first day you see something like that in the gemara la mohr david used to say over the year loudly like a loudspeaker but you see he knew how to learn well um he was upset about the and therefore the children die when they're young terrible thing to say at a funeral at a at a shiva house it's like i just mentioned like my neighbor the guy asked him did your son eat a lot of breakfast maybe that's why he wasn't if they're breakfast is very unhealthy so you know why because what was very upset at you that's why maybe maybe you maybe you heard hashem's feelings that's why he killed your kid no he wasn't a child he's actually a teenager on the young ones they're hypocrites um i'm going to see a little bit of agadoma to the sugar nafta and the first words on that test the gemara here is hinting i think every sherbach knows this kimara everybody knows that what the reason why a cow gets married ella eloquently i'm an avocative but if somebody speaks it out oh my loving the volunteering is talk different of allah i feel like it's a terrible thing a person had a great life of 70 years of hassa than tyra the taiwanese so check this out this pasta right over here that we just said the possum it says in the past the word if you take off the nakudas it's that your whole life that what is the worst is what is it means not in addition but hashem is going to punish the person forever for being justified me says just two more minutes say something great can't even people died forever from the beginning of time notice of who she's made racist rabbi shastu many drink from this the water of death rather each too many the people who died in the past you could say raven is don't talk about the future a person should never speak not nicely and talk about his death la marshall are you allowed to buy a grave is that satan believe it or not they are those who say this says he shouldn't but most people argue on him the shaykh side and the rest the marshal says a person should not go like this on his own throat pretending he's shackling himself when parents are alive unless you get richers from your parents etc these are all things that going out of shoal on your skirt so you don't show the kilo of the parents on ifter you got to be careful how we use our language have a wonderful day you