Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 78 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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daughter had epilepsy and a lot he used to come late and used to not late he used to be very tired during Shiro and asked him he says I was up the whole night with her another episode not terrible like a really bad ever he moved not a single time he came over to me after she said it was 100 good that I said it and he said it was myself he says you know that family that you said that moved from out from this block from now I'm Jewish line because what time said two weeks after they moved the first daughter got engaged the second daughter is still looking for sure though and a few people told me this they came over to me at the chair it's a known thing this guy you got to move here first and then okay run boy side here we go don't need the chart yet we're starting a brand new peric on the top the official mission that we have a new sponsor for the next time is sponsored by mdy to Healing group join at the hill in that eightmindaf.com but that's not how you say it hi and hey somebody said it's ah but okay I'm saying if it was they say ah okay but it's ah so why are these things next time we have a very interesting Mission here I have charts makes it literally a piece of cake [Music] choirs real estate or property or whatever it is before she gets engaged and she sells it after she gets engaged before she gets engaged she sells it if she acquires it before sells it before we're not even gonna talk about that it's a no-brainer of course it's a good sale she has the right to buy and sell property what we're going to discussing is property that's brought in by the woman into a marriage or into an engagement she acquires property somehow and she brings it in now because she's married her husband shears the property with her he has privileges in the property what are his privileges he gets she controls the principle of the property the principle and he gets to control the payrolls the produce of the property so if she has a field she has income producing property she owns the property the actual carca the field and the husband gets to enjoy all the wheat and the and the apples and art you get to enjoy the fruit next time a look looks like it's embarrassing we're not really talking about that's if there's a guarantee that he basically becomes his but he promises to give her back whatever it cost whatever the value was in the when she came into the marriage that's what she's gonna get when she comes out of the marriage 25 years later that's something about not talking about something about Nixie Malone all we're going to be discussing now today is what happens when she acquires she gets let's see yerusha something falls down we call it a nephila it falls down to her I think in English also falls down the fall probably fall fall to you not so much I'm gonna feel she gets a property when she's engaged and then she sells it when she's married does anything change or if she gets it when she's engaged and she sells it when she's engaged if she gets the property when she's married let's say she inherits private and she's married and sells it when she's married no matter like he's gonna have a chart for that but no my colleague that's in the mission also so you have the two extremes she acquires a property when she's not engaged and sells it when she's not engaged one thousand percent she can do that right no I'm not even shot you have on the fire extreme she acquires a property when she's married already and she sells it when she's married no McLeod is over there her husband could go and grab the property back from whoever she's holding she has no right selling it what happens in the middle okay so let's look before we even go into the mission I'll just show you the charts show you how simple it is here's chart number one we have three periods of time you have period number one is before the engagement period number two is between the engagement and marriage and period number three is after marriage so here's naflu you see the the property fell it fell before a real Sin it was hers again you weren't paying attention okay wow it's taking time to adjust it's so small okay here's the property it falls to her before she got engaged but she sells it I didn't have a woman there she sells it after she got engaged okay so that's what we're talking about acquiring it not flu and selling it so over here you have a case where she acquired it before the engagement and she sold it after she got engaged what's the halacha in green according to everybody she's only engaged now now engagement is important don't think that's it oh it's just an engagement no an engagement erosion means it's a beginning of a marriage it's step one in marriage so you think that the husband has some sort of power over here this gamar is going to wonder why doesn't they have power why can't he say no you can't sell it if you do sell I'm going to stop the sale because really you're hurting him he's not going to be today he doesn't have Paris you're right but tomorrow he does and they're somewhat married let's call it 50 married so why can they stop thinking about it discusses that case number two again we're talking about the Arizona over here the property fell after Arizona but again it was sold after Arizona before nisswin so everything happened the same period of time in the second period between Arizona over here we have say you could go ahead and sell it and they still say no if she sold it after the fact we'll let the sales stand but you're not supposed to sell it that's case number two case number three in the Michelob again we have Aries and assume the property fell to her after she got married what's the halacha not a good sale according to everybody if the property filter after she got married and she sold it after she got married the husband goes ahead and grabs it from the locales yes by the way there is that's basically what happens when we say that it's not sold it is sort of we'll see a little bit of that Aloha it is kind of sold but we say it's not so that he gets the pay raise but it will be theirs let's say he dies so you're right in a way you're right no if she dies then what happens who gets it the husband gets it and what happens what happens to the money the guy the guy the guy the guy bought it never he fell he fell he should have known that she's married she can't sell he bought it he spent a million dollars on these buildings in middle of Brooklyn and then it turns out that the husband comes and says give me back the buildings what happens to the money that the guy bought the buildings with huh anybody what happens to the money doesn't take the buildings back he has to give it back no no doesn't give it back unless she has a stack of money I'm talking straight out of this she has a stack of money then and they find money in her drawer after she dies he goes and gives it back but otherwise no I thought it's a big kid now no you have to know that she's married here let's start again Harrison is soon we have the two things this is the fourth case fourth and final case if the she acquired this after her engagement and sold them after she's married over here we have a three-way Macho like is representing the wheel says only after the fact that worked the Bryson says should go in and sell it and say the extreme will forget if she sells it the husband come along and take it away from him okay so those are the four cases now that we know these cases let's go back to the beginning and let's do it inside in the mishna says okay foreign a woman the official mission I said already sponsored by official officials a woman fell into property now I like the story I don't know if it's true I thought it I was I laugh every time I hear the story somebody because it's just the person I don't know if it might be the longest I'll leave in the tire I don't know somebody tell me it's like at least 60 sukum shishi the clawless so what is the for sure the longest it's definitely longer than this week's pirate show the whole power should put together and that's okay so somebody asked me says should I take Dalia shishi to close so Hannah says no don't take it I know I know a guy in Carlota took it he had the worst club in the world his uncle in America died and left him eight million dollars and became a businessman and left kylo no no no no okay it's not always good to come into money is so here's here's the case the Hassan fell to her before she got engaged she's permitted to to deal with it and and sell it after the engagement according to everybody it's a good sale naflula second case not flu law if the property fell to her after the engagement and she sold it when after the engagement say in the first place you go ahead and sell it she doesn't have to ask the husband any questions she goes ahead and she says it's only been the event if she sells it then it's okay but she shouldn't go ahead and sell in the first place she sold it of course agreed that she could sell in the first place but even be still to say that if she went ahead and she sold it in this position where she acquired it after Arizona and sold it before it is soon it's okay I heard now this is actually a question what exactly as we're going to see in this Mission alone review this says I heard or I understand when a guy gets engaged the woman he kind of acquires her what does it mean he acquires her certain things she's an arusa for certain things he acquired her so shouldn't he have control on on his parents okay look it's not like today we just get engaged in trauma Israel's engagement which is something in those days it's an engagement it's actually we're engaged it's a real thing so whatever the husband has in her property he should have supposedly it's not a forget the word acquire it's a it's a strong word it doesn't really fit in in our society quiet but you know what I mean in terms of the certain things she's made from the Darwin he's made for her this kind of whatever that certain certain small nuances that are his okay you know what I mean in our Russo there's a semi-married so this is here so it should also you should also have a say and what the property is where the property goes um wow means properties that fell to her after she got married says I never understood what was going on here I don't I still to this day don't understand says would say that the husband has the right to veto who she sells the property to it's her property she got a property from her uncle in America he he left their inheritance she could go ahead and sell whatever she wants of course she's married to this guy he could stop her I never understood that he says if I don't understand that and that's when she's married I don't understand so certainly when she's engaged how does the you want me to give this husband not a husband a Hassan powers on property that I don't even understand how a husband has powers over makes no sense [Music] I'm embarrassed meaning I I don't get it if I was there I wouldn't allow it to happen how could you laugh such a thing to happen and you want to add salt to the wound so to speak you want to add another Allah that even when they're not married even when they're just engaged should have control no way next new case again we have Aries in the sun this case everything happens afternoon says the property felt her after she got married this is the extreme of extremes the opposite of the first case where everything happened before Aries and then of course you could sell them by over here it's afternoon everybody agrees the husband has full control actually and he says when he says okay so now the fourth case goes a little bit back but we get it if the Hassan fell after aerosene actually Vinnie says and then the makira happened after the sewing right so we had one case where both happened between Arizona we have one case where both happened afternoon and now we have a case one-on-one she acquired a afternoon soon and she saw that after Everson and she sold it afternoon very good is it hard I don't think it's hard at all what he says about that why because you learned it yesterday you have to tell the island doesn't know you come here everything's simple he learned it okay straight away don't get married okay the biggest problem is Gambler okay I hear stick a problem but I won't talk okay might be listening we don't want to talk about that actually I need some nieces okay actually and he says the property she acquired before she got married in other words after Everson then he says and then she sold it after she got married um so here we have the three-way machlikas the top one is IM you see the word him what does m mean if I don't want her to sell it if she went ahead and she sold it after the fact that means be the heaven it's okay that's cheetah number one on the top over there so now he argues before rebutus said it was on the case of Arison this is no not good he's singing on the case of they fell by Harrison and she sold by by here that's what they were talking during Leo the what since he acquires the wives so certainly he becomes married they get married this afternoon so he has full he has full control on the property so to speak he's getting all the pairs he gets all the apples how in the world does he'll say that she's allowed to sell it it's his apples she's selling he has no apples anymore what happened to his apples [Music] I don't understand why you should have control so how are you going to tell me in this case where she acquired the property before the soon after Harrison why should he have control I don't agree with you um says the mission another beautiful thing not not related I mean in other words whether it's this case case number four where it fell she got the the property after Harrison and she sold that afternoon soon or whether in this case case number three both of these cases says the mishnah lake differentiates he distinguishes between it depends what kind of we're talking about over here if it's something that the husband knows about it's known to him then she's not allowed to sell if he knows about it because listen to this he is depending on it he's only marrying her he wasn't no I hear she has good means but what what are they giving how many deers are they giving so he's the he's only getting married to her because he he knows that she's she's gonna get this awesome she has an uncle that's about to die he's in Hospice about to die over there she's going to leave her a nice uh nice house that's why it matters so if he knows then she has no right there's a guy I don't know if it's a mice and she came out toy or not a guy comes on a date and uh the girl is about to date opens up the door and she says here here's the keys it's on the second floor down the block on the hovers bam 22 check it out he's like what are you talking about so I heard that your mom is looking into the apartment over he asked this person that person what apartment getting you did you barely asked about me take a look at the apartment okay yes all right the Motorola bottle no it was like I'm not interested in you it was a fake key if he knows about it and she sells it it's not a good material so if he doesn't know about it she in the first place you shouldn't sell what if she did sell it's okay the number is going to talk about it so I thought you could vote here but related to Rosh Hashanah if I have the time here this is quick I thought it was a beautiful vard and somewhat related here we say every day it's some people's most favorite sukum one thing I want to dwell on hashem's house my entire life the famous question is but it's not one thing we says three things at least what's going on here I'm only asking one thing and then he says three things so the measures asked the question he says you you did the same thing I learned from you so much it keeps on going and going what he only one little thing and then beautiful he said if you're going to go into a marriage that uh you you have to mix him a look and I get the the apples and then you sell the oranges and then yeah you owe me this and are you that terrible if you go into the marriage you talk is broken because you want to tell us let's let's be let's have a good marriage everything We're Not Gonna not take for Tad you're gonna take this I'm gonna take that we're all we're in a real marriage the marriages have uh this that you know there's different things in the matter but it's you're there's one thing oh I'm only asking for one thing a good marriage that's what I shifting I want a good marriage at coach Barco it entails different things but not We're Not Gonna We're not gonna be be ointment on All the Small Things and then if you did this to me I'm gonna do that to you if you took that so I'm gonna you bought that so now I can buy this doesn't work like that in marriage yeah okay please so if we go back case where is it case one and two this is two see if we are this is case one that according to everybody if she sells the property over here it's 100 good in the first place but they're engaged why doesn't the engagement hinder the sale that's the gamara Shiloh because if she acquires the property after the engagement and she sells it after the engagement before the marriage you say the because they're engaged it hinders stuff they're engaged they're not even married so why if she acquired the property before the engagement is it any different they're engaged she shouldn't be able to sell a property if you're going to tell me that it's about marriage okay but within here in this case right over here you see that they still say that it's only been the evidence you shouldn't sell it why why is it when she acquired it before Anderson even they still agree that she could sell it says in the ratio she's in her own domain right she's not engaged she's in her own domain so came to her and the husband had zero control over the property then oh if he had no control over the property when she acquired it says maybe she go ahead and sell it even though they're engaged now but safer business when they were ready in this case right over here they're already engaged so she's sort of in his domain already so Amelia she cannot sell it I heard a geographic story I think a lot of people know the story I think it's beautiful I love it this monthly shop isn't been a rock the bus comes to yours live the 400th shows up full jam packed nobody can get in next box next bus people are going crazy it happens in Arizona finally a Bus shows up it says so a guy jumps on me says listen listen there's 400 people are on the nobody's on the bus look it's empty take us to your shlines I can't do it what do you mean egg it do it please and people start begging him he says you know what I'll do it don't say anything to egg it let's go jump on the bus you take some serious online the last guy on the last stop he says I don't understand something this is GPS today you can't just take a bus instead of going to your Hub and go to your slide how do you do it he says listen they sent me to take you guys to your salon but I know if I come late to the bus stop you guys gonna kill me so I put aside and now everybody owes me a favor everybody says I'm a nice guy so and I thought it's a beautiful thing you think that uh I'm the one that convinced the bus driver here I I stood there man I told them look there's so many people women with children it's one o'clock in the morning and he fell for and he went for it no it's not in your schools it's not in her schools oil okay imagine the race is because of him if it's all about him he's in charge now he's the big shot she's in her domain so then why does it work look back at this chart over here according to Mei it's a hundred percent in the first place according to basilo it works did they have it but why how could you sell flu when they fell to her when she was engaged before she was engaged it's 100 in her domain safer amen I don't know I'm a super in other words why because yes they're they're gonna get married but they might not get married what if they don't get married so so if they're not married if they don't end up getting married then nothing then he has no control here at all it's only because maybe they'll get married there's a chance they won't get married so because of that Suffolk I don't know what to do mamela I just say don't sell it but if you sell it it's okay so now the gamara said oh if we here let's just go back to this one right here okay it says in the mishnah I'll review the flavoring what does that mean here look at this case right here when she acquired the custom after everything and she sold it before the sun in other words she got them and she sold them before after everything what do we have here may say she could sell it in the first place they still say only after the fact so when you argue on that you're taking it down one level whatever you're going to argue on you're going to take it down one step so let's take bishan shami says she could sell in the first place comes say no he can't tell in the first place you could only sell it be the Evan after the fact or no what they're arguing in is so be still say you could sell it after the fact and they're coming to argument and say no one step below that you can't sell that at all anything you say they're gonna take one step below that so if they're arguing what's one step of one step below that is what's what step below with the event nothing yes so that's the Kumar's question is he saying he can't tell at all or is he saying he could only celebrate we just turned down presidential about myself review though whether you're engaged or married she's considered you look at the gamer calls it a wife this one the the real wife after her marriage if she sells it it's bottled completely this one should be completely uh over here you see the answer to the question the question was that should be zero in other words he's arguing on base Hill basil say that it's after the fact it's a good sale comes with you and says No it should be nothing she shouldn't be able to sell it why because she's just like after marriage before marriage is like after I don't even understand how a husband could could uh take back a sale yeah you shot him and you want to even make the before the actual marriage you want to ruin it the evidence that he's arguing under Allah and saying that I don't know how it's the evidence even you can't do it at all yeah episode he's arguing with the other they said but they have it it's a good sale I'm saying you can't sell at all questions yeah coach game if I'm set no based on May say you could sell it in the first place basically it says and this and he's saying nothing zero here yeah he says even be so long yeah it's culture it's because the argument was different a completely different it's a Bryson says you say that a woman was married okay a woman is married look the husband has some control here she came battle with Zach also this is we learned if she finds an item in the street he picks it up he takes it there and her salary he gets who by fars she makes a nether that's full control he knows another we said right in the darn that have to do with him okay they affect him by Russo but an Engaged woman she ain't about exactly why how far is the Durham he is a little bit involved but you need the father also you need a it's a combo it's a one-two Punch Yeah that's easy if she's okay yeah overlay ready mockerella actually and he says okay so you answer me great when she sold the property when she was engaged before she got married but what about nieces if she sells it after she got married listen to this lotion the what does the mission say in Makara if what does this lesson says hello in the first place you go ahead and sell no problem when he says a beautiful material wait a minute if he acquired the woman in a way what he gets them in Sia the first Etc shouldn't they have some power um when she acquired the property after marriage I don't know what to do with that I don't know I can't explain how the husband has the right to stop her sale hello you want to even ruin it before that okay okay now that you more just asked the question but what about our mishnah it doesn't fit well with the mishna actually niece says it says the mission of Venice says the word IM it means it's after the fact you just told me that she could sell it in the first place but over here the mission says you're right you have to change the lotion and our mission doesn't say him take out the word him and what it means to say is she can do it so there's no problem no my friends the one that says that the evidence okay this is what the more I always asks this question who do we passing we always passing in like if you're still so it doesn't it doesn't sit well to say that is in the first place says no he's not passing like a bishop he's passing like bishami and be civil because he holds there's no much like this at all period okay if there's no if he holds it's not like us and he went like Basham he's also saying like Brazil or he's saying like we still like Michelle this is no difference here we have another case that we didn't speak about what's another case that we didn't speak about Revolution listen to this here's the case very very simple what if she acquired the property before she got engaged we never spoke about that and she sold it after she got married we're always talking about she acquired her after engagement and she sold it either after engagement before marriage or after marriage but we never spoke about what if she gets the property before Anderson no mccoike is over here diameter of value both agree benches and she got married the husband could come around and take it out as the gemara command the local government according to review the you could sell it with the Evan according to say that the husband could just grab it away from everybody where's that cheetah either she could sell it Nunu she barely sells it or she managed to sell at 100 percent but nobody said that she can't sell it at all and the husband comes and grabs it you know the answer I'll be saying no no there's a new Rabbi you say no not brought down that we didn't talk about that I know Rabbi saying came later on and they gathered and they took a vote and they decided so it doesn't matter when she acquires him whether she got it before engagement I think venices and she gets married foreign when she gets married and she sells she acquires and she sells the husband can 100 take it out of the the local voice check out this chart for a second see if I have it here oh here's the hormone by smack in the middle the shopping still lived let's say 100 years before the hormone takanas Usha was after the korbon so you're telling me that Usha are only repeating something that Bishop said 200 years before 150 years before whatever usually was right after the horrible it doesn't make sense is a new thing they came after okay this and this we should do this you're telling me all they're saying is the repeating and mishna that we're having Superstars you're just repeating over what we already said tomorrow [Music] talking about is when she's still alive and we're just talking about the fruit the the parents the product the produce we're talking about the actual principle of the karaka and we're talking about after she died or not uh what does it mean he knows about it doesn't know about it all right are you doing McCarthy it's real estate everybody knows she owns this building shows this apartment that's good but Metallica how much cash he has in the bank and everybody knows no people know they legendary so what does it mean people don't know foreign in a different country on that and that's what's interesting he's not going for that he's not getting married or thinking he's gonna acquire this field one day it's over there he doesn't know about it everything you're doing and now we have a right to what we just said yum that is considered something he doesn't know about and that if she sells but the Avid after the fact the sale is a good sale have a wonderful day wow check out the clock eight zero zero