Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 72 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign [Applause] wow the voice I we have yeah yeah yeah you just crossed the line it's okay it's good we're all I was messing with him your boy said we have a cousin in the house from California what's your name you'll see lips and you are welcome thank you all from Massachusetts my mother's Allah's hometown you know we show a lot of good morning boys and the oil I'm here you know the the regulars sometimes they Snicker they make fun of it I caught one of the Royce has Snickers teaching other people how to do it behind the scenes here it is my boy so here it is not going to leave it in a very very mahogany restaurant a really good restaurant last night he's teaching non-observant Jews how to do it and they're loving it they push it loved it look at this [Music] okay are you ready [Music] [Applause] and this is it this is it is [Music] oh no it's a different one okay and now after all the training he's standing there for the middle of a restaurant busy restaurant screaming on top of his lungs with sugar but when he comes here he pretends he doesn't like it he doesn't enjoy it then we're gonna have a video about the biggest of the Snickers [Applause] great guys okay this actually gives me a lot of boys say listen to this I thought the password will give you some inspiration a few months ago you read out an email from Aaron marker luplex something like that saying how he took a leaf out of your book he gave up the work well a lot of his work to go learn and start to give sheer online he has like a 1500 people on orisa in Yiddish well he's done a first in Stamford Hill he has started giving his show with a scream unbelievable Rebellion I don't know what you have done but you have a corrupted Stamford Hill looking forward to see you in Stanford Hill look at this and he has his own art it's unbelievable kind regards monthly Girl Scouts I already introduced myself last week I'm a recent transfer time his cycle as the freaking Morrow I must correct okay everybody say a few days ago I read an email from davidstein he's right here Feinberg he claimed that the story that I said was wrong first of all I wasn't a gun it was a knife it wasn't the shadow of the terrible it wasn't a bank it was a disc it wasn't that it was a death here comes mamish austeria to everything he said and mamas upholds my story to the tea okay don't correct my story I must correct your rendition of the recent changes so apparently there were two stories that were coming out the first one had 10 years ago in Passaic I know because it happened to my sister-in-law the second one happened okay that was different anyway my sister-in-law just happened to be in a bank when a man came in and held up a gun it's her head the teller pressed a silent alarm police were the with their own instantly the man held my sister-in-law at gunpoint to escape with a gun pointing at her head SWAT team surrounding them like in the movies at some point my sister only realized that the gun was grabbing her sheetal she dropped down to the floor with the gun on the left pointing his gun at the shato with no head attached and my system was flat on the ground we're by the police shot the guy in his leg and that's the real story you hear the oven so there was a gun he did get chapped you know what you want to correct me correct me in learning don't correct me with mices please they're always them as my stories the police had to keep the shape up for a while as evidence the bank reimbursed my system and eventually she got her old one back you know the real story PBS please have me in Zin meaning in mine for four slave Mafia no the Fantastic word no it's true foreign I was walking down the street and 10 uh whatever guys came over to me and I beat them all and I wasn't ten I was nine it was nine they're running the story yes I was learning to meet the I was ready to meet with Rebecca Black he's getting a lot of uh ah what's going on here the boys like give him his medicine oh somebody wrong it's in the front I told you Doc it's right by the door when you walk in just pop on although I don't ride I do drink water occasionally and wear socks says aberranter he rides a bike in a weird socks I got them the white water bottle and socks please know the team mdy jersey in the background because third is the best view of the best regards I've ever had and here finally we have Harry zubushlag good morning Rebellion every day learning to die with you on the way to work in BH photo Manhattan from Lakewood whatever that means whatever it goes to be his photo and Lake in Manhattan from Lakewood thank you for the good work oh the oh we have to say there's only a few like five more people Shabbos Furman took 25 in Chavez Aria lazovski he's here now he took extra Magilla Arie chicken out subas Steven jakubowski from Lincolnwood Illinois my neighbor's 15 scubas Aaron drowning traveling Chavez oh Robert I want to tell you a story this is an original I know we don't have a lot of time but I got to tell you just it culminated yesterday and it's fresh off the press so I want to tell you it's a beautiful story about brothers as I thought I never really shared it with Islam although I was telling my friends and family recently this myself when we moved our Destro we were in negotiations with a beautiful uh Villa like a nice Standalone home which is very rare here in Arizona it's an exclusive street that has these videos today that have other streets but very few of them and this guy was losing it to the bank and I negotiated him for for quite a while for a few months and we had a deal and one day he calls me up and he says I need to meet with you as I meet with him and there's another guy a big you know real tough Israeli guy he says no you're not giving him enough I want to negotiate more but kids are the deal fell apart and my wife was very bizarre here we had this beautiful house and it ended up going to somebody else and I was thinking to myself recently I said you know had I ever moved to nakayala I wouldn't have met the core guys that started this year you know four years ago and I I would have been doing nothing and because I moved to this neighborhood I met my friends here and we have Gary and Joseph and Avi you know I'm in and Mindy and all the guys that started this year and knock himself sir and then corn Bluth and all these guys they're all from this block right here of course could have done it in but what happened over here was because I moved to this block and we bought an apartment that an apartment in an apartment building it cost me more than that Standalone home what happened was yesterday I met the guy after eight years I met the guy and I said I want to tell you practice of me not buying your house it all worked out I was sad at the time my wife was much more sad she finally had a contact show she has a house he says what are you talking about where were you we wanted to sell you the house I lost it to the bank I never saw to anybody what happened to you like what we have this coming he said no you just walked away from the deal I walked away from the deal he says you could have had the hell and I realized even a bigger brought this like for no reason he claims that he has no idea what I'm talking about so we had that meeting he said that was nothing just trying to push you around a little bit but we want to sell you the house okay anyway so I asked him if he love just in case no it's all good damn anyway just thought I'd share the story with you because I just met him yesterday oh yeah the quiet little sponsor of the success of our family and we married to always find Hashem the second the first himself is sponsored sponsored himself by moland the living is for my children the second sponsors the rest of them official missile motivators of Roman Nation we should all remember to learn our adapting that we took for him Abram and the first Panther of the mouth second span to the month mdy family they're responsible families Lego New Jersey because Torah is the best school of the fourth sponsor refused Mafia sponsor of the day Tamar Shalom happy anniversary Liao the wives are in it and thank you revelli for bringing more tired to our home and by eitan zacharin the force Lemo Eugene Ben Rima something like that Jacob slattis 12 yards latest Yahoo Slater sorry yagos latest 12 years out of my grandmother Beatrice Reuben brindle bus high in Paris here we go we're holding by the mission now we have a very light easy Daft today is stuff foreign wow I just realized I just heard this myself yesterday literally yesterday somebody came over to me said there's somebody in the neighborhood that just got married okay now I just give away the story another 45 people just came back that it's uh people have this like the control people and the abusive uh she got married to an abuser and he asked her to go to this first house that's it they're done they don't talk anymore and I have to go in for a rescue mission foreign he tells his wife I don't like the Mother-in-law I don't like this figure we could say insert all the Stringer jokes here you're not going back to your mother's house now if you will go to the mother's house like we discussed yesterday if you'll go to the mother's house then I'm answering all my belongings to you or I'm mastering relations as we discussed yesterday it has to be negate to something that he's able to or another how my decisions if the father lives over there in the city so if it's a month or less then you could keep them you're always eating tsuba two in other words more than one month that's it he has the provider with a get and give examples if the father lives somewhere else and they it's typical that when parents live out of town the young couple comes for Yemen so it's not a month it's up to the young if one another goes by up to 100 that's okay three yoi so we go from one to three what happened to two if it's for three months three yum then you have to give her a get an extra Hamad decisions a person tells his wife I don't allow you to go anymore I don't let you to go I don't let you go to bimination yeah he's locking the doors happens to me I believe I'm just making this up but maybe rationalism is a world record every word he says in the fire's bigger Matthias we can borrow over and over world record don't write to me that you found another mishnah in Gita that has one more time okay it's right up there with the with the most Big Mario um if he has another reason why he doesn't want her to go to the wedding whatever what's the other reason on our law um Lee uh there will be another going into effect unless you tell people private things what you told me or what I told you um you should fill up and spill it out into the garbage Marvel explain for these things you have to give a gift says in that one line it says if it's for one young Dev you can't go to events for one young if she lives out of town okay but if three of them type in that okay and what happened with two so it's the typical classic question from the races mashma one way from the safest match for the other way if it's for three years you have to divorce her but it's nine but if it's less than three you could keep her you're not because we had yesterday two you have to divorce yes because you saw you have divorce the safest management two yeah yeah because a Cayenne gets extra leeway because there's no backseats once he divorces her can't take her back so we give him some some extra time if his wife is dying to go back to her parents house some women couldn't care less they don't they get married they barely go back to their parents house some need to go back every day something to go back every week depends on the on the on the Kawa if she's very used to going back to her and she she's homesick she has to give her a get not homesick three three of them type him is also okay says the gamarra a little bit of agato also you see but enough then I'll be in his eyes like somebody's looking for perfect he's perfect what does that mean or maybe you're gonna get kala which is what I'm saying about Clydesdale like akalo who's perfect in her father-in-law's house she's dying to go back to her parents and tell her parents what a great cat she she found and she's marrying she married this great guy he's unbelievable she loves it over there and she wants us she wants to tell her parents she's a reduvel she wants it's like similar to what we just said a woman who was dying to go back to her parents not anymore I mean once he makes the Dharma and stuff okay that's a different story but who because today it's not like this but one day it's going to be no Hashem you're going to say Hashem says you're going to call me your husband now I'm not I'm not your husband yet it says Hashem now we're just engaged I'm a Hassan but one day we're gonna be that close you're gonna call me your husband but like take me badly you're not going to call me your master it's interesting in Hebrew a husband is about like a like a master I don't know why exactly Bali well it's a lotion of Master but Hashem says no I'm not going to be your master I'm going to be your husband foreign she loves her husband like akala that lives by your father-in-law in other words newlyweds would like a cow everybody not like a kylo who's only engaged and Still Remains at her father's house she loves her husband much more when she's married her mother's sister okay I could understand uh doesn't allow his wife to go to anyhasanas it's a terrible thing is that a good thing why is that a bad thing why do you get divorced over that says tomorrow unbelievably sight of income the way it works in this world some people the game called karma what goes around comes around no one can show after a levia I could do it in a way that she's gonna die in a place out of town somewhere in the desert nobody's gonna come to a funeral why because she didn't go to other people's funerals look at the Army and called Brio siphon up they're not gonna they're not gonna bury her thank you why did he say it's better to go to to mourner's house than to go to a wedding now I heard that by the Spartan the it's unbelievable by the yeah Michael how is it over there by the way save a lot of food that's not really not in America Tomer anybody it's true yeah it is okay but but the weddings by Spiderman is even more food so I don't know exactly fine ah moment depends how happy the earth is died okay the Elder bought him always say it's much better to go because nobody says foreign that's the end of of everybody the people that are alive should pay attention to this uh [Music] think about that you have to think about Shana if the thing about the end we're not here forever it's interesting to point out that the Savior hasidim and others they take this passing and they use it also for Tyra that some parts of Torah are not as popular yeah you know yeah for instance a lot of people don't want to learn they say it's Sakana or herek mishimesu they talk about you're not supposed to talk it's a little bit of says no so if a casino says if nobody learns and you jump in and you learn it that's Toby left you get tremendous learns the esophage if you give us pay them at people's funerals they will be masked with you the coverage you bury people they'll bury you they die you're sitting there and crying they're gonna cry for you if you're malava the maestai if you carry the dead they'll carry you the kids sir it's me they connected me though and that's why she could say listen if you don't allow me to go to all these things and do these things what's gonna be with me it's not going to be good for me so I demand a divorce interesting like what happens to her after she dies is more important than her marriage right now her husband she wants to get divorced now so she has a good lavaya okay now I'm saying I once read somewhere and you get it's okay if you tell me where it's a famous uh book I think that the guy's book was all about you should live your life how you want people to utilize you legise you that you want people to be messed with you what do you want people to say that your husband that's what that's how you should live your life you want them to say you're a great basketball player you want to say you're a good learner what do you want to say whatever that's what that's how you should live your life you're a nice guy you're this you're that so maybe that's what it is here what does it mean Dover after now I pointed out just a few weeks ago always talks about and it always I was I don't I still don't know shot exactly don't worry sometimes it means sometimes it means sometimes it means both together is this huh and then tomorrow always says the same thing my daughter so just say it like it means 10 different things so the Bowser told me yesterday he thinks that if you say this somebody was saying that if you say sarasi he gets her ass because I want to say the word so it's like dangerous to say it okay for taras for khazer okay they say p-i-g or whatever they like to say they don't even say the word but there's things that okay fine let's see if it's a losing the key over here in Arizona there's a guy that aren't Rosh Hashanah Knight who's almost so sure he shows up you know the people bring out the fish the head of the fish he brings that a head of a pig I think my mother he said it says in the venture that you should bring a head of a fish the main lawyer [Laughter] this is my that's it as I stayed my daughter means he's concerned about lowlifes that Dre around in the weddings weddings the place you drink have a good time he's worried he doesn't want his wife to hang out there that's the so it's a new foreign he tells her the the if you don't you have to say a certain thing something private victim let her just say it no we're talking about something that's embarrassing something private the verbs you've been living now most likely one of the shot them is intimacy so she doesn't want to say it so this is interesting what does it mean she's filling it up and she's gonna spill it out if they have it let her fill up a bucket of water and spill it out all right to Malibu fetus it's in Russian this is what it means is that she gets rid of the Zera and that she doesn't want as we're going to see soon no another shot this is not Allah you don't need a lot he literally says take 10 pails of water and uh pour it out do 10 jumping jacks do something stupid if the shot is Zera okay so either the shot is how could he tell her to board every not a board but not allow a pregnancy that she wants to have children like we said a woman is allowed to say that to you she needs people to bury her when she gets older she's still take care of it when she's older or it's it's hallockingly awesome she doesn't want to do something that's awesome hello but according to the shot in the Bryce that it means literally fill up 10 pails of water and spill them out somewhere might not be Lumina to have it so let it just do it why do you have to get divorced over that um she has the right to say I don't want to look foolish go out and taking I'm filling up good water spilling it on the street going feeling why because my husband said no I don't want to act like that you can't demand something like that for me I want a divorce is I have pictures if you don't know what it is here's a Napo Faro sifters and here's the Requiem I love this picture that says it's my go-to picture now because you actually see how it works spilled the kernels in the center and you just turn the wheel the two stones in it but this is a portable one so what he tells his wife I don't allow you to borrow this from from the neighbor I don't let you lend it to the neighbor I don't let you lend the our oven this is a toner there's a one this is a double one that's called the Quran fight can you say she looks like she's stingy everybody knows she has a nice real time at home she doesn't want to learn the drill get divorced you don't Let Me Lend stuff to the neighbors you don't let me be nice to the neighbors I'm out of here same thing same words and if she the nether came from her she said I'm not going to lend anything I'm not gonna borrow anything like that actually Terry because I'm not going to sow any nice clothing for his children hey why Revelation must see your side shame rabbits came up he looks like a like a bad guy like a stingy guy and he has the right to divorce her the official halogen mission is sponsored by Michigan in harnesso Yota these are those who go out women who don't deserve aksuba whether it's 200 100 what is their sin there is if Martin we're gonna see exactly what that means if she's over he serve the Eraser or men hug him also lazy that's moisture give me an example of something has to do with him let's say she's Mikhail Shabbos there's nothing to do with the husband you don't divorce her on that but if she does is there right it has to do with her for instance she purposely feeds him food without taking Troublesome meister's and he wanted to describe she tells him don't worry it's good mice was taken um she doesn't tell him that she's a need done it's an issacharis she doesn't take off which is also the same thing would be if she feeds him same thing is and she makes a Nether and she doesn't keep in the dark it's again the new dorm that we're talking about these kind of things Daisy that's you this and what does it mean a minute she goes out without a shaytan without a head covering is going to ask right away to go out without your hair covered is so their eyes maybe some people don't know that 100 or maybe they know and they don't care but is it their eyes like any others their eyes so why calling it but that's you this is I found this fascinating because when I came home last night late at night somebody sent me from the bottom here in the neighborhood and this women from our Shear that had a race yesterday in RBS and they're saying and then the robot said how dare you it's not a thing for a woman to do here it says if a woman just needles does some needlework in an open place that that'll load is enough not to give her I'm not going one way or the other I'm just saying in the in the mission huh um how she says so we're going to see in a second now she says right okay but okay I hear what you're saying you're saying it's not it's about sneers um or she just shoots the breeze with other men she doesn't get a Kuba I have a show alone if she curses her his parents in front of him and the game is going to say if she curses his parents in front of his children same thing thank you this is this woman that cursed their husbands says uh I heard I heard a lady saying I curse you that when you get huggable your pants should fall off fine anyways whatever or when you go to the bathroom you should step on Lego and then you get back into bed you forget to turn the lights off the whole thing okay fine but this is how we're talking about we're talking about cursing the parents cursing what no no that's why there's no get only cursing the parents which I also heard by the way oh your parents not my wife you know okay reputation somebody with a loud voice Mr basa when she's in her domain to describe exactly what it is it's more about intimacy embarrassing things what's the story with her giving him food that doesn't have mice eat the other if he knows that it's not Musa he doesn't know how did he know how did he find out and if she told him we can't believe her anyways Russia whatever it is you know so and so did the tourism is one day he's talking to the guy he says oh thank you for taking truth so much he says I don't know what you're talking about I don't even know your wife is you never spoke to me I found out that he's alive she's alive what's the case over there same thing in the other bar if you know she's a needle they're frozen it's his fault why should she not get it if he doesn't know she said she's tired he could be simultaneous um how do you know that a woman has nemanos to count the days she never suffer Allah I have a question for the Islam why is it when a neither count seven days she doesn't do Severus Heimer serious accounting to break the the count you have to start all over you only count when you have a full sphere when you know you're gonna get to the end or that you could get to them without any breaking so at least you don't normally plenty of computers she lies again she says I went to the rabbit the rabbit told me it's okay wasn't sure and he found out that she's lying people who the who's the says if a woman is known to be a neither in other words in those days they used to wear special needed clothing they had white clothing so her neighbors noticed that and they told the husband and they warned him and then if he doesn't listen to the neighbors he gets malcus there's certain things like if somebody is with his own mother you kill him or whatever do you have to get a birth certificate that and prove and then and video witnesses that this is the real mother no people say this is the mother's the mother if the neighbors say she's Anita she's an either you don't need testimonies and this and that it's it's a known thing it becomes some Mela over here also but like a lemon should need us on our case too it's just known it became known afterwards the neighbors came and said you know by the way your wife we saw her with her special clothing and Mela that's how he knows retroactively that and she doesn't deserve AKs this is then how do you find out the neither he took off the Khaled says she currently found out he's he found out she's lying there is the famous thing we had it recently but uh they told me it's not true I searched I couldn't find it the Posse of uh Lo yimsu uh no that's a different person um the concept that children don't die because of the sins of the parents however that doesn't apply to very young children so the the and and the direham also might be a little different but amazing people who swear and they don't keep it then their children die young Cinema let's see if I have it over here yeah I think these people like these but sorry I thought this is a very long passing girl as well talking about the thing I'm looking forward he'll destroy the mighty or die what's amazing will destroy your true your children because of what the politics has already in the beginning because of shove because of a nether of for nothingness I struck your children a person knows that his wife makes them daughter and she doesn't keep them he should go back and make morning how exactly is that going to help hello he should bother her he should shepher her push the right buttons he knows what buttons to push and then she's gonna blurt out her Nether and I'll say okay and I'll go to a private room and say I'm made for the nether so in her mind she can't do x y z he admitted he is Mayfair and therefore he's misogynist because a person cannot live like in this picture can't live with a snake why because you never know when the snake will turn around and bite you so in this case also you think that you got her nadaram tomorrow is going to make another one you don't know about it what's a good muscle for us before Ashana know somebody ain't Autumn door McPherson unfiltered phone this is you know you don't know you think you're okay you're controlling you're drawing all of a sudden boom it gets you bites you when you're not when you're not ready how to stick that in um person knows that his wife doesn't think so you don't know when she's gonna strike one day you're gonna eat her cookies and you're gonna forget to take holla says the one that says it on Hala certainly in the dark because at least khala you see it in the Durham I guess you don't know I have a man the master half what monster yeah it's there all the time there's a lot there's much more of a chance that he's going to be nickel foreign if your wife goes out without covering your hair is roshi so it says uncovers her head so as she says he likes this shot more that it seems like the a woman must cover her here and the Cayenne only in this situation uncovers her here to walk in the street with your head uncovered assistant tomorrow you're right the right saw Counter Shop your dog so it goes like this if you look in today's uh armor cause so Remy Schumer is a beautiful piece on this he goes through this not so much shayto but this thing here this is a picture of a wicker basket that the bottom has actually like a little bit of a if you can see like a yamaka shape that fits over the head and it helps you carry the basket that's pretty much what Rashi says over here that we're talking about now what's the problem with this is it's sort of like this check this out I found the picture like this in other words you could actually the guy's riding his motorcycle with one of these on his head so it's not a hundred percent covering the hair you could see the hair through the holes so with the rice um it's okay since you can see a little bit of the hair they said it's awesome okay that's what's going on here sponsored another Yankee balance in honor my uncle revenge on Christmas even not to go with the wicker basket I say this every time we learn the sugya is that covering here is a very interesting kind of in that uh non-married woman according to mostly China doesn't have to cover here she could be a 20 year old girl and she doesn't have to cover her hair but a married woman who's 97 years old has to cover here so it's not so much about tyvis it's more about you have to cover your hair and in fact I think I think you know you could uncover your hair in your own properties you're going to see here even if strange men are there you don't have to cover your hair in front of other men so but if it was ever ever like we know everybody but I don't know up here the the knees above the knee that it doesn't matter if you're in your house or not in your house you always have to cover that because not to be much of other people so here is a little bit different than than everything else that's how I understand it other people might be more public on that if you wear one of these baskets over your head it's not considered recovery here what exactly happened if she's out in the open that's you Odyssey but there is a meeting not to walk around like that with holy baskets that people can see through well the hunter she's in her own house what so anytime a woman walked in her house without her here on coverage so you divorce her you don't give her Cuba nobody's everybody's does that all right here's a picture so this is from aerovin here is the five Town woman with a basket on her head and check out what happens she goes from her hunter from her green and the middle thing is called the mavoy uh yeah the basket is supposed to be upside down that's how she wears it she wears it over her head I'm not a good artist tonight whatever what huh the wording somehow came backwards I'm not exactly sure why but that's not important it says mobile foolish if you want to know thank you this is not a good uh because I didn't have a good picture of it yeah they don't go it's two parts I know that's why I showed the first picture you have one that goes like this over and you have the other one so here sticks out this way that way holds the whole thing the whole problem okay this is not an accurate picture but the point is she went from her concert tonight passing by somewhat of a private domain you can see the the the highway on the bottom and the top that you didn't do she went through PRI that's the problem over here that's why he's divorcing her we're talking about what's the problem of tea Bishop the marriage were itself any other she's showing when she when she weaves her sleeves go up and she shows her arms to people of his dog mind that's awesome because the way she's sitting Canada is private parts and she brings the the thread down and it brings it brings uh it attracts your eye to that part foreign young man do me a favor bend down get me my uh my needle this is exactly the story of the mishta in base marriage like this we have a woman who is sitting not properly in a public place you're talking about not proper public place and feel yes but when they wear whatever they're wearing in joggings okay I'm not exactly again I'm not going into it my wife herself did the marathon in Miami it actually happened to be one of my proudest moments in my life because she fell down a flight of stairs the day before and she she got injured seriously she heard the alarm I wasn't I wasn't able to draw actually she heard the alarm in the house and she she got scared she thought there's a fire so she ran down in the dark she fell down a flight of stairs and she ripped her muscle and she ran the entire Marathon well not 26 at the half 13 miles very very proud of her then okay I'm not saying it's motor I'm not saying sausage it was before I was a market cheer rubbing all married and I remember that embarrass him colada Mama anyways what was his point this point was look she's she's sitting in properly or she's talking to people she told the buffer to pick it up it's not what we do that's what the mission says you get divorcedure let's just get to the mission I'm so by the way Moto Shabbos even though the sleeves and everything regular time 9 30 doesn't want to go to other Sleepless could go out to the morning we're not gonna do 11 30 like we thought 9 30. Dr Epstein what time is she in Mata Shabbos thank you very much on my show I'm a shoulder Africa because she's cursing the parents the one who gave birth to him in front of his own children you see mother can remember this is we treat the grandchildren like children in other words you go from generation one to generation three that's also considered cursing in front of while I'm around with the Omer Lee Dumber leg naked Ireland Saba how about you going to Safari in a lion eats up the shiver Bobby Bray right in front of my husband I wish my husband Witnesses the whole thing if that reminds us that's what I'm saying like the woman says step on Lego say that's even worse than seeing your father-in will die in front of it okay Michael honest woman talking about private things the message so Rashi points out we're talking about sounds that come from pain not pleasure so if so that should be in the mission that talks about people that have problems mums it means she's just talking schmoozing not in the ACT she's moving about it that she can refuse to say and she gets a and she goes out he has a divorce sir yeah have a wonderful Shabbos