Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 67 by R’ Eli Stefansky

the that screen is not on over there my voice i checked out this email by mark ashkenazi hirabelli this picture is from thursday night on a flight to phoenix arizona for shabbos here's the picture what you see there is a bowl of chunks on the flight on the way to the airport i grabbed some hot chocolate from a takeout counter and put in a small insulated back to keep it warm in the picture while catching up on some missed open i gotta enjoy some thursday night toyota mail on a more serious note during the abomaseum i recently made up my office i had an idea that to be productive during the heavy amount of traveling i'm doing i'm going to be doing i'll set out to learn the dapping from the beginning of broccolis through where i started except the shabbos it's going from beginning of shasta shabbos so i'm fully synced with the cloud in the past few weeks a few days in the past few days i decided i'll dedicate that endeavor to be reformed slammer for abby mandelbaum what a beautiful ice jacket turned out to be that after downloading all of brachus and the five dappenbox subas that i need to do i realized that the total is sixty dot him which is the gematria of kaiyem kitzer it's like a ghost town here in phoenix so i wanna say one point that uh mark ashkenazi besides doing all the success that he does with everybody he does cuss with his own family he moved to phoenix arizona so that his daughter could go to good school there and he travels back and forth to phoenix arizona just to be with his daughter and she she should do well in school she's doing amazing thanks for inspiring me your talent marcus so when i read this this morning i was thinking to myself you know mo landy he learned a messerta on the plane and that started this whole movement where dozens and dozens of people we had the other the other day labe what's his last name lithium light lifter he says light be light libya life lively life they learned the homosexual hopefully he finished that he said he's going to finish it and many others and raboisa i think this is a great opportunity for us as a clown as a seabird one of us is sitting in the hospital with a very advanced stage of vienna a young guy that every one of us knows from zoom for the last two years and here comes mark ashkenazi and he says he's going to learn 68 daphne of gemara so i say you know rosh hashanah is in 15 days what if we together we come as a seaboard and we say we're going to learn a thousand daf gemara for avi thousand afghani for avi so i want to be the first one to start off here i want to learn from beginning of subus until here i know it's a it's a big endeavor five daff a day but you got to do something extra to do something easy it's not you got to talk to barco i'm going all out for avi i'm doing 67 daf for avi let's do a thousand anybody 30 daft we got over here anybody else how many extra till so that's 15. who else no the entire air event oh my god thank you i hear avi saying thank you you're not supposed to be watching this how many daffos in aravind you're gonna do an entire average until rosh hashanah in 14 days you got time my kill ventures unbelievable we should make like a page of something the guys in zoom you guys also could be styled and everybody that's watching this year later on write in how many daffy want to do i'll read it tomorrow how many dove have you got at least 15 from anybody else you guys a bunch of oh levy extra daffodil from lady friedmann we're getting there we're almost out of town we're going to do more than a thousand i'll do the same extra different day wow oliver is huge i see ellie dyches raising his hand he's going like this on the top of the screen he wants to do a whole how many deaths do you want to do ellie i don't want to put you on the spot but how many do you want to do he's throwing a 20 def 30 35 he doesn't he's not going for the 15. 15 is no 15 is easy all right so you guys on zoom you'll get together you'll figure it out i want to read it all mark you take some numbers over there it's all your inspiration who else anybody else that's it no how many do you want the rest of supers you're going forward but that's cheating because then you know what i'm going to say in dav then you're going to go to sleep on me whatever okay i'm not going to sleep okay i said this email but we gotta say it again for all those who weren't here last night hello rebelli last night i inadvertently fell asleep while listening to the daf what was more unfortunate was that my wife didn't fall asleep in the morning she told me what she had heard now i'm on the hook for a lot of jewelry before yonte it's a shame she wasn't paying attention a few blood ago what her wife is muhave to do for her husband thanks anonymous just in case my wife is listening philip sander you're not anonymous kain kessler khannon of zoys if you haven't already seen the beryl solomon video in hashem we test in god we test it's on youtube kessler baltimore a few people told me to watch it i watched it it's amazing ishikaya barrel solomon video in god we test it's about giving zdaka giving and testing hashem you did yo dear my reign over habeno ravage lito thank you for an amazing dap every day as our staff of ezra youth group finished the year we couldn't think of any more appropriate present to give the miracult but an mdy sweatshirt today we have an amazing deaf very a gathered kind of deaf but in a lot of words if you turn to them with basil see so we gotta really move the coilo is sponsored and this is the last last day so you should have your ten thousand dollar donation avi rachel kaminsky memory rachel's mother reza gitoba says the reader should be melissa yoshir on behalf of us and our children the second sponsor of the kylo for the success of our family that we married to always crown hashem the koilo is sponsored for the day you can do that also lili nishmas is sponsored by official mitzvah motivators leima of our great friend avi avro menachev and hannah you know what if this will be amazing we will turn over shamayim if a bunch of hasidim jump in and they say they're going to do a bunch of daf gemara for the tilumi maresha you know what that's going to do seriously all of us together we're one mishpacha we've got to learn there's nothing like learning turtles asked that his tehillim should be as khashoggi's learning torah the gemara doesn't say hashem answered him or not learning torah is the top that's the best you could do for avi copyright and do some diving you'll do for yourself you're going to learn extra time for yourself before hashanah lili nishmas the month of sponsored and the month is sponsored by the mdy family it's third sponsor but the lock and lobby families lakewood new jersey because toyota is the best segula v3 bikes go check them out i love that merch i need another one of those battles another two of those battles where do you get them i couldn't he said it's on amazon i checked my sons want one this one wants great stuff i'm not okay it's ready to sound like smell yesterday spans i i spoke about the beef jerky that was amazing then i got almost killed by the other beef jerky from town where's the either he's not he's not showing up this year anymore he's starting to lose in the morning state voice let me have tesco finale for me all right here we go we are we did we we we did a little bit more than we usually do just so that we could have a head start on today's dab which is a very very long one omar shaman like ten lines down two four six eight it's always ten lines any uh even if it's eleven it's ten today's actually ten ten lines down um in the name so let me just show you real quickly like sort of the end of the sogio i'm not going to say the the sheath is so much but take a look at this chart there's three types of gold there's a bar of gold a piece of salad gold that thing is going to tell us or a cleave that's made out of gold that doesn't go down in value even if you use it a bar is a bar you weigh it it weighs a a pound that's going to weigh a pound when the marriage is over so if she brings in a bar of gold he doesn't have to write anything with super he's going to give her one and a half bars like when it comes to cash well it goes to madbayazov so typically speaking if it's a a golden coin which is easily redeemable and people use it and it's so that's like cash and we said yesterday cash if she brings in a million dollars cash he has to pay back one and a half mil where was it this one over here why is it going so slow here she brings in a thousand he has to give her fifteen hundred either you could call it fifty percent more that's what we call it here in america or in their swell in english or in the gemara lotion is thirty three percent more because you go to the end you take the fifteen hundred and how much did he add one part of that which is 33 millibar and miligave but anyway what if you can't redeem it easily one of these golden coins somewhat like today i don't think you just go into a store and start nobody's gonna really take it you have to go to a special place so that will see a uh a machine gummer now very small pieces of gold are like like anything else that gets ruined when you touch it and that's not like a buyer gold and therefore you take off twenty percent that we had in the mission that if she brings in caleb into the into the marriage you take off 20 because people exaggerate their value etc says so that's basically the suggy don't get confused and then we're going to get to the agata omer if she brings in gold homer that i said already but you want me to say again fight over not more not less yesterday we're learning about adding 50 percent taking off 20 does not no you don't take off you don't you don't add may survey but i have a question it says caleb gold is like vessels my love shall case f de pakis so here we had yesterday different things that a person brings into marriage kessaf cash then you have caleb that belong in a house like a bed a piano different things and that you take off from the value we just said that gold is like those caleb lahayer no like regular vessels and made out of silver whatever it is the packaging that they go down in value caleb when it says caleb was talking about golden vessels ask the gemara question that the gemara doesn't have an answer for gemara is going to say at the end that this question remains a good passion it's not going to ruin everything it's a cash and added to yufta that what i'm cain love me barley the lushen is a little off it should say like golden vessels it just says caleb general word caleb why i say caleb be more specific like it's not like caleb it's only like golden caleb it should be more specific okay good passion void but i have another question and we're going to get rid of this one tanya is a very caleb now it says gold is like vessels there is of haren quixote so you see on the chart you have gold and you have golden coins two different things yeah it's made out of the same material but they act differently so it says when it comes to zohov golden bars it's like a cle resolve so to make it easier for everybody i did one of these the zeration is safe so you don't get confused it might help a little bit in the sugar it's very simple you can just look back to this line it's just one line the ratio gold is like vessels safer golden coins is like money money we said you have to add 50 percent the husband when he gets divorced he must give his wife 50 more than what she came into the marriage came with a thousand dollars gives her 1500. so golden coins is like cash it's liquid golden bars are not liquid and they don't go down in value gonna ask what is he talking about is he talking about the blue or the red he's talking about the erasure of the safa which part of this is he talking about says in a place where the minute is not to redeem it it's very hard like here in room up in chemistry new york go to the pizza shop give him a golden coin they'll think you're nuts you know it's not something that we do you go to special i don't know dealer or gold dealer but you don't so the minute is not to redeem it xiaomi maison varying bishop you just see okay how much is a golden coin five thousand dollars that's it you give her five thousand dollars and get divorced 25 years later it's asking me absolutely what is he talking about is it the ratio of the sephora element it's not such a big duration of safa it's three words kicks off him i put in three words because it didn't fit over there what does he say if you have golden coins that the minute in that place is not to redeem it like in our days and that richmond gamaliel says you just give one for one not more not less how's it possible the tanaka argues on that it's something that you don't redeem it's not redeemable holy napkin nobody uses it ellos you must say laveration so if she was talking about the ratio the what golden bars are like vessels what it says in the in the in the ratio is that gold is like regular vessels of no it's not like a vessel it's like liquid cash it's very very different if you compare gold to vessels to a piano what happens to piano goes down in value you bring in a thousand dollar piano to the marriage you get 800 when you leave no roshino says no you don't get 800 you get 1500 it's liquid cash he could go and do business with it it's great for him so if it's good for him he has to pay for it oh sorry welcome myself every calendar my calendar guess who's going to learn mario kart subscribe you don't so it has a lot of of cash he has the nags so what's that in that case i think you don't add sorry you don't add but you don't take off right shallow because it's not liquid cash it was liquid you would have to add over here it's shinagu le farta okay since dominic is not to use it it's not liquid cash you don't add anything so it stays one for one have a lot of liquid and the question is but why would the tanaka i'm arguing that so the answer is the argument here is because you're talking about it's not so liquid it's liquid it's not it's hard you have to find something you have to you have to slap until you find the right person since at the end of the day you could find somebody that will take it from you so you have to add your 50 percent um but the other ones the tank says no it's very difficult to find somebody that'll take it you don't have to add fifty percent if i say my cooler name lily no ratio and safe is one person but you have to add a couple words to make it work gold is like vessels in other words it goes down in value you don't have to pay her the full amount the result i regret kicks off him but golden coins you have to add fifty percent we met him says i'm only in a place where it's easy then you give one for one you don't go down you don't go up you give exactly what it's worth but what about the question we asked in the beginning it should say that the gold is like its own vessels not like others cassio okay fine that remains a shiloh ibrahimo so nadimar introduces this thing right over here which is gold flakes or something so you have flakes you have literally dust but the point of both of them is that this is not like a golden bar this goes down in value you touch it you you try to you leave part of it on the table you know you started scooping it up [Music] i was going straight manly it's not even me [Music] oh mariana no you've got to come once a shot it's a whole different story here yeah it wasn't even me it was it was him he was like in a whole different world that's why you don't come um so i'm just gonna have a number of things that have the very easy to do business with the spices of antoinia high ranks of him it has a lot of liquid cash and what i love about liquid question a woman brings in liquid cash into the marriage the husband has to pay her back fifty percent more so to be summoned also these very important camels ishigova paranam ahem she takes uh fifty percent cut on top of everything on these camels papi hannah toysvey the shirt these these clothing shirts ishiguro panama okay again something that you could just give and take in those days they would trade barter or whatever vomit poppy hana sake the rudio the sex the ashley the kimcheoni on the road from kimroy and should go to parliament easy to do business with it's like liquid cash 50 more omarova rishabh amino in the beginning i used to think honey ironically so if a husband had a whole bag full of cash ishigueva pardon me then this is a little different it's a little tricky it's not the same pattern that we just mentioned five times in a row this is a different paranoid this means that the woman could collect her ksuba from the wallet this bag of cash my timer because i thought says rava asan das on this bag and that was her guarantee the bag of cash given the when i noticed that when she takes the cash what is the first thing she does she has a lot of cash in rent she buys real estate so why go to the cash the real estate amina on the real estate that she's going to purchase with the cash it's not the cash mella suba comes out of real estate not out of cash says toyota a person who marries off his daughter islam it's of the father to give his daughter something when she goes into a marriage should give her at least 50 zod so she could buy some cool decent clothing if he decided not to give her anything so the husband shouldn't say when she becomes mine completely when i marry her we have nissuan then i'll i'll give her clothing no your starts today he wants to be a jerk and i'll give her you take care of your color ella he should provide for her even though she's still living at her father's house if you marry off an orphan give her at least 50 50 zoos but you're from dhaka you have to go collect for her make sure that she has at least 50. and if you look in the pushka and there's more money we're going to see a little bit more of that that each person what they're used to so you give her more um i'm talking about eighth of the value of that super by the way twice is over here i found says straight out then aksuba if you look like seven lines down from the bottom of thai the last isis he says that uh uh super is obvious that we were talking about it but i just saw it in the footage sometimes that exuberance says 200 it means series the the really valuable stuff okay and we're talking about over here at eighth of that how do i know that that's the case that we're not talking about suri the expensive stuff yes but it's not expensive the more valuable uh denomination is it was 25 of a person's salary in miyazawa kiss a yearly salary kamiya vinolo how much should you give this cow already only give her 50. there's a whole needle and this is a this is a child not so much for us but people go around collecting money a lot of time they take the money what do they do with it they buy an apartment and this is shyla nakrenim do they have a right to do that and let's say even if the minute is that an hour a day everybody buys an apartment let's see the united star but who says you need an apartment in the usually you bet chemist go find the place up north and you get an apartment there how many places you're allowed to take money from people and buy apartments the rivas talks about it obviously it's not so much bark hashem for most of us but people are going collecting they have to think about it okay so to give money first to the girl and then the boy. because it's the man if worse comes to worse the boy will go from door to door venison darker lobster it's not so common for a woman to go knocking in doors for money wow we're doing okay 20 minutes for some example on the base it's large but we can do it in honor of yankee baum and maisha horn anderson being able to support lima and to finish learning with rebelli oh i'll read this now for all those who skipped 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because it goes towards giving mars we gave out almost a million dollars this year to different things but specifically giving gimaras to people that are not into learning or are into learning they have two-shots and but they want a free gemara it doesn't matter but it gets them to start learning and taking learning seriously for 30 bucks to change a guy's life unbelievable it's dhaka tara yasam shabal lisa so him here here's the sugya it says in the gemara and they bring this gemara here it says you rent the house for a yosem you don't buy him a house you're at the house okay so they say well maybe even if you want to say that hour day is different i skip two lines uh yes uh orphan two orphans a girl and a boy they came to get married she has more embarrassment not being married merrier off first and over here you'll insert make sure that the girls have and the parents have etc who comes we give him we provide him with a house living living space a bed everything he needs pots pans cokes today we have a different minute you get married and then you find a house and stuff okay you have to get ready make sure you have everything you need and then find the wife here's the here's the apostles you should open up your hand you should open up to him your hand and give him vahavet and lend him money tavitano len lend him whatever person needs ashayaksa so the guard is going to die in these words even the javed is going to be darshan you need a table you can't tell them okay eat on your lap give them a table you must give him bed loy what do you do with the word like zuisha the heinous similar will have that's allah is connected okay sort of like xero shaving not really but they maxi what does it mean you should give a honey what he's missing ata matsuba oliver you have a hero of everybody as a hero to be my fairness honey vietnam and suva all of the asteroids but you don't have to make him wealthy again this is part of what refusal is talking about you don't have to make a wealth you have to give him a two million dollar home and be challenged ashay now here's a shocker even if he's missing what is he missing a filo this is unbelievable now it's talking about a person who was used to a certain comfort in life he had slaves running in front of him and he had a car so you got to fill in what he's missing dey mcsary he's missing so fill in that thing now question i understand a guy who needs a car it's hard for him to walk miles upon miles you get him a car but why in the world does he need a slave what good does it do for him so you see from here an amazing decide that even a person's mesh and guyva is also dhaka to give him and fill in that now there is a sheet though the shita kubesis brings ashita that it's only referring to if nobody knows yet that he's poor so to save face and that people should know that he says honey you do it but if he already people know that he's poor you know but that's not the common shita okay but it's an unbelievable thing to give somebody something that's a pure mesh doesn't serve a purpose at all you have a slave running in front of him what does it do for him nothing it's in his head guy guy is also a necessity for certain people unbelievable i am okay right if if he's used to it if he already got used to it before not no but he's demanding himself you're talking about it we'll we'll see there is enough camino within the sugiya if somebody got himself used to it or he was already doing this for years different things if it's part of his community right that's what they're tightening part of the community is to get our apartment but you're saying in the part of it it's in your saliva okay it's part of their culture so we're lighted down from yeah okay robbie you saw berkowitz fact said that those who go to breslif and they need money because they go what they do is a lot of them they go to the airport and they don't they come without a ticket they go to the airport hashem will provide so are you together or not if that's what he needs you could call him so it's the best thing in the world but for him that's his that's his uh that's his culture so he says he passing that it's a mitzvah mckay misses talking to give him money they're gonna take it okay interesting very interesting i'll tell you this i i i was i thought this was a beautiful rebellion there's a rebel who came from america you came from america are you here you never miss the oh a rabbit came from america and he was they were they were collecting money for him to make a tish he didn't have money for a tish no so what do you guys think he wanted it's nice for rabbit to have a tish but he didn't have money for it who collect money for his tish it's his culture reliance said an amazing thing and that this whole government's working with he said that when a person has everything he needs he has he got territorial he had a flight to get here he has a house he has food on the table he just doesn't have enough money for a tish that it's when a person is a honey he doesn't have bread to put on the table so you give him bread and then you give him also a horse and a slave but a millionaire a guy's a multi-millionaire but he can't afford his mission you don't go ahead and give him extra first of all no but i'm saying this breast of a guy that went to the airport could he afford food on the table or not if he could afford food on the table then there's no extra mitzvah to give him that's what he's saying a guy that said wealthy society no it's not a specific that's what every blaster is saying it's not a specific need you don't say he needs a tish who is he is he poor or not poor that's how you look at it if he's not poor then you don't give him a need i also have a need i need a private plane can you please give me a private plane but if i'm not poor don't miss it to give me a private plane but uh in my culture all my boys in chicago have private planes i need a plane there's no mrs duggar to give me a plane so if you are not poor and you want to go to uman you don't get you don't get a mention of it that's what he's saying two different things no if you don't mind oh fine we we we did that overall of al hillary incredible story hillary's talking the famous onoff right he's the big honor there was a wealthy person who became poor and he ran in front and then he gave him a horse and a slave to run in front of him and he couldn't find a slave to run in front of this poor person virus of the father of slaves himself ran approximately two miles two miles in front of him so they asked right away but it's awesome for the nazi to be inviting himself it was before he's an aussie or different or some want to say his guy eva was so strong in this person if he doesn't get his slave he'll drop dead there's a guy that went he lost all his money in the stock market they bought him a liter of meat every single day says the gemara literary boss of my rebus is a big deal okay so it's less than a pound no so they bought them a pound of meat every day that's the big hindrance now literally buster mitchell life is very expensive it's duck you buy my belly bus or mamas no they gave they bought a pound of money worth of meat not the meat was a pound the money that they bought it with ten thousand dollars worth of me whatever it was so i wanted to prove that from here you don't like it so much that if a specific person has a need then it's not baltachus they would shut an entire cow to feed this guy every day and there's nobody else to eat it over there it's in a small village so the animal went to waste i'm sorry you see from here that you could waste food if there's a there's a target for it you don't have to eat every drop and put it in the refrigerator and make your kids eat the rest of the cereal with the soggy milk and all of that thing does it sorry you eat and then you go back there he didn't like it so much what are you used to eating yesterday what do you eat on malay the pasta shaman i'm easter steaks and aged wine recipe listen i can't afford that to give to you but i can afford something else you want to roll with me in in ibis in lentils i don't have i don't have more gilgally maybe so he said okay listen you don't have you don't have let me eat some arabic vomits he died out of being him a funny he was so used to eating basar and then you tell him you have to go to become a vegetarian he died omar so he said nakami said this is what i was talking about he it's his fault he killed himself because he got himself used to something you shouldn't got used to who told him to eat meat every single day i offered him a decent meal of lentils you shouldn't have died from it it's his fault rob asked him what are you used to eating i got a gazoonta good chicken uh fattened chicken and aged wine omelet coming to me and asking for fat and chickens eat like a mens eat normal thing why do you need a 2006 castel drink regular water what do you what it's it's the zebra's money but it's yours it's your money i'm eating from you i'm eating hashem's money it's none of your business i heard a guy tell this to my share your xiaomi guy make sure i gave him like a nice check he says it's not your money to give me i want more who who are you you start yelling at him okay it depends how you do it at the end i sure grabbed the check from him i think okay this guy was a huge bobby talking serious bubble topping and he told robert you serious what no no no a guy like that yes no yeah for the principle it's how you say it it's how you approach the person usually it's not well they say it's it's who you give to it's not uh it's not the the the cause it's more of the person and the person acts in a certain way is like you feel terrible we had a guppy zucker once we used to run around seoul hey i'm like what hashem should break everybody's eyes so i said i went on and i said so now he screams yes whatever sure is over now okay there goes the video means we have hope we all hoped hashem give us some give us some food sustenance and hashem returns and gives food to everybody in the right time beat and emma not in their time provides for every single person what he needs in the right time this is a famous journey song i think i didn't listen to it in a long time but if it's not it's not that song then it's the famous story with rip zija zisha used to say everyday hashem give me give me something to eat and agave said hashem with hashem it's me so he decided one day not the famous song he decided one day not to give him food jesus says hashem give me food so the god is sitting at noon where's the chef i'm giving you food turns out that she was thrown into a pool of water by a certain guy he decided to knock a guy over and he laughed whatever and then he told his friends about i said how did he look like he said like this like i said you're crazy he knocked the over into the water he says oh i got to do chuva so let me make him a smacker breakfast and that morning he came in with the mama's the story comes [Music] he didn't see his sister 13 years mama's like the story of the villain the only going sister showed up after like i don't know 20 years he walked out he said how are you i'm sorry but i we're old and we have to do something for shamayim i'll see you later adios so you didn't see a sister for 13 years and what does she schlep in the isolated tumor via the exact two items that this bobby talking told rather that he eats that's what she brought in after 13 years of not seniors so obviously this is that's it you see that this guy is right it's right here in front of us [Music] a person is very poor and he's embarrassed to take money and you see from this gemara you see oh all these kimonos we take the heart so many lessons you see how you treat any noise what you do is you trick him you say here let me lend you some money and i'm thinking to myself well a lot of poor people do the deaf and they know the trick you know what even if they know the trick it feels good oh don't know you want to loan nah he's probably not doing me he's not doing the trick enough some of that on base because i'm a schmucky guy i'm gonna pay back that up and then you just don't you don't collect them isolated you give him a gift and then you say it's alone what [Music] but if you say he's a type of guy that has pride in his not taking gifts from people um say you know what i want to give you a gift but at the end of the day if it doesn't work then you give him a loan and you move after yesterday vayner right to the spines this is a big finish a guy has plenty of money but he's so stingy such a miser like when i was a kid i knew uh guinness world's record is about pet inside out that was like basically the only book we had at home and there was a famous story there of a woman who's such a miser she's the record of the miser she's a multi-gazillionaire but she didn't want to take her son who had an infection to the doctor she went to save the two dollars so they had to amputate his hand and then in the home ice in the end of the thing in the chapter it says that when she died her son went and bought a golden toilet like la jacques's mother that's how much money she had but he suffered and she used to eat cold oatmeal she didn't want to warm it up to save on the coals oh my god so you have people yeah i see a person has enough money doesn't want to give to anybody so what do you do [Music] noises you trick him you give him money you say it's a gift oh gift will take a gift because you're in front of a man and then you go and you collect from him he says the trick will work once but it's not going to work next week all right you ring up a big bill you just keep on giving matanez but this is our care for people he's a nebuchadness he's messed up he doesn't know how to spend what is he saving his money for so that essentially buy a golden toilet so we're going to spend for him and then charge the state after he dies says yes if a person has money but he doesn't want to spend on his family or himself and his life that's his problem don't deal with him ain't live interested in his parents says to gemara if he doesn't have money and he's he's he's a great guy he doesn't have money doesn't want to take it from dhaka listen to this bring something from your house now what's going to happen is he's going to say i don't have anything to give you he passion doesn't have anything so i say okay so don't bring but when you tell him bring him ashka and he thinks that you're being serious he thinks that you're loaning your money then he'll be he'll be he'll what's the word will be agreeable to take money from you it's a trick you're not really going to take a mask so we have to go out of our way to make the honey feel good and take money from us talk about them have it you should lend money he doesn't have money and he doesn't want to take from stockholm then you lend the money because it's one of the biggest madregas of dhaka davitanu what's the second lesson have a tavitano this is talking about a guy that has a lot of money but he doesn't want to spend it you give him a gift because his parents if he has him doesn't want to use it and it's falcon lawyer you don't care about him there might have been kind of having 10 so what did i do with that word divided it's a double lash and that's how people speak it's not it's not just learned russian from says the governor incredible incredible stories rabbi said [Music] all these stories are for us to take and learn from them there's a very poor person in his neighborhood check out this picture this again is from the art scroll mishnais caleb this is this is the way the the hinges were in those days there was a hinge on top hinge in the bottom so if he moved the door a little bit on the bottom there's a hole in the ground he would put money in that hole in the ground like we have today a mailbox but in those days they didn't have it hid the money over there every single day he'd go by there and throw in four zoos a piv the yeah the pivot but the no the pivot is the the hinge what about the hole okay says the guy i need to find out who's who's this person giving me money everything says was it late he missed his time limit for the baby draw she came late to the base manager so but it was night and he didn't want to walk by himself i said the visual about this he brought his wife with him given the kazoo the commercial so the guy sees that the door is starting to move he's starting to move the door so he has room to throw the money in there another side jumps out ah who is it rose mckamey they started running for their life husband and wife my rook for his wife the famous story they found a oven they have a group of neuro group of means like you see in this picture this is how we did shabbos i'm thinking to myself it was unbelievable pictures but from seven shadows we could upgrade a little bit you take out the coals that's called gruffa no calls anymore but pretty hot have it call me kyle and carried in my rookville he jumps in and he says oops this is not good my feet are baking oh my divisou listen to this his wife in such a high madrigal she wasn't burning so she tells him don't feel bad like it would be me and my wife i'll say hi you see i'm better than you i'm not burning your burning without that's not how it works here she says you know what put your feet on mine so he realized that she's not burning college daity got very weak like what's going on here or malay she made him feel good two things first of all the poor people come to me all the time you don't have the opportunity you're in base measures they come to me all the time second of all um because you are i give food i give ready-made food i give bread you give cash what do you do with cash you have to go and buy wheat i just want to point out here i know it's late but i have to say that when my mother sean was sick in muncie there was a person by the name of ramosh mosbacher liv still in muncie on carlton lane if anybody wants to know he made by himself thousands of meals that i'm talking about literally i'm not exaggerating thousands of meals with his own hands wouldn't let people help him in his backyard he had a commercial oven but five of them had crazy amount of freezers make food and food delicious from soup fish chicken meat desserts to come the simcha would give us boxes we didn't nobody's cooking nobody had anything and my parents didn't have money but that was a different story drop off boxes like that for pesach thousands of meals i think it's like 10 000 meals or something some your sugar people that give this difference of giving money and giving a box of food that's ready to go ready to eat anyway i'm just saying this if you want to drop off a check by his house and i'm sure he could use it then he could he'll do more with it but whatever i didn't speak to maybe he's a gazillionaire today i don't know i'll go upon him aloha [Music] could have saved her life she was about to be thrown into the fire because they said she was mazana she could have said no she could have said the truth it's yehuda but she didn't want to embarrass him even though it was yuda even though it was yehuda that set the throw into the fire you think about it he's throwing me into the fire let me just tell the world the truth is she gonna save their life no it's a poisonous sight that if you're based on top texas he says it is not a minute or a nice thing it's mamish killing somebody so why is it now he says so then why is it not a big are both hamburgers should we have a dessert he says you're right it should be just it's not my fortune the torah but it's right up there but if you're just thinking about it for a second this individual it's his fault he decided to chase my rookville nevertheless maruqua felt that if he turns around and he sees the girl out there there he thought he's going to catch some guy in the neighborhood who's going to find that it's maruqua that's really going to hurt him and he's going to be embarrassed for that he threw himself in the fire we're not talking about a guy embarrassing somebody else in public it was not none of his business to chase him down the street no you chase him and if he sees me i'm going into the fire unbelievable mr haskell have a wonderful day you