Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 66 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Applause] every night [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] Mordechai [Music] so first picture my name is eligino I just turned 11 years old my father asked me what kind of cake I wanted since I did the dive every day I told him I want an empty white cake I want to wish you on my birthday and thank you for your continued inspiration 11 year old Ellie you know [Laughter] I always say this is with all the barber I thought it's amazing here listen to this email I received two boxes of art scroll subus volume 3. it's a reminder to everybody to do your best and if you have excuses what what are you saying Gary what's going on over there huh yeah but I hope I hope they're not related to the sheer so true what's the problem follow the barber here we go I received two boxes of art schools what are we finishing here tonight huh no no our 60 boxes are super service volume three on Friday midday that means we're almost in the art scroll volume three how many days we have left I don't know I put them in the car so I can drop them off by default against the referral and then went into the wine store to buy a bottle of wine basharvis when I got back to the car my wife told me that she saw her fall running into the pizza store with a handful of you Mars the next minute I saw him out of the pizza store and started to cross the street against traffic to catch a guy by the red light here's the picture here he is or so he's running from car to car and understand that he's a barber and his busiest day of the week is Friday he doesn't care it has to hop another guy to to join Cairo it's unbelievable what about you guys yeah everybody has to take some husbands here but only he only he could be crazy so Gary chill out a little bit we hear everything my wife said to me that he's going to get hurt running to the street in the middle of travel you have to shut down again I said to her that you don't understand this is every day for him sure enough a few minutes later fall sends me a picture of a brand new member of him do I signed up on their Shabbos at a red light in Flatbush all this on a Friday afternoon the Barber's busy stay he told me that he desperately wants to go to Israel to sign up all the khayelim I'm tired sahali wants to sign up in one shot so let me ask him for Muncie you mentioned the other day how over 150 people dropped that I said over a thousand but okay 150 people dropped out of this year by evamus oh 150 that told me personally that's true yeah but more than that dropped out I actually joined mdy family at Yvonne miss that base I was introduced by a co-worker after completing this is a great email I like them uh introduce my co-worker after complaining to him how concerned that was learning environments myself and immediately showed me a share and injured in the circle where I introduced all the characters I was hooked I never looked back since though I do miss the thrilling side of the characters and wish you could somehow incorporate them incorporate them into the other stuff into the other inceptions as well tonight we have them a little bit PS unfortunately the guy who introduced me to MD why and and ended up being a evama's casualty so he's trying to make me feel good that he joined my environments but by the way he knows if another person that fell off I've been trying to recruit him ever since and was wondering if I end up being successful can I claim a free gamara being that he's not a new member yes yes bring those guys back you get a free gamara I pass him the Sono might not like it too bad we have a bunch of guests here one of them is first of all we have Benny goodelson from Manchester unbelievable finally he wrote in a bunch of emails I recognize him from the pictures it's a full circle now for me because you know I started as a caterer and one of my famous hasanas the product of this house you know is sitting right here doing the daff what's your name again shalom shalom okay from Chicago in the does the duff it's unbelievable but you never come to this year last year over there yeah so listen for such a hush of a thing that's my previous life I can't believe I bet you this people that actually had kids that got married already but look it brings my whole life it's like a full circle I started over there as a caterer and now I'm sitting here and now this kid is learning to death every day since my pattern I got something for you this is not this is one of a kind this is a special gift for me to you all right Dalton leave them in by the first name I'm stefansky dude what's up man no what's your first name leave him in huh Isaac the liverman and you it's like yasu okay from you said okay come more often and we have no he's not a guest he comes up okay great who else so Melissa what are you guys what's your name you actually yeah yeah and you from oh sounds very familiar seinfelders otherwise yeah all right the coil sponsored by average Rachel's mother ready on behalf of us and our children second sponsor the coilover for the success of our family and that we Merit always Crown Hashem somebody just sent me a message or shops that got a monster showers and he wanted suspense to something really nice for the coil as a bonus for yantus so very nice a lot of uh of course I talked to that person is for my children by Jeff Rosner and scores of my son is the rest of the recepta sponsored by official mental motivators the refuel I've never seen a guy who's so upbeat I spoke to him on Arab Shabbos is unbelievable his attitude towards this is unbelievable stage four and they're saying ah we're fighting and we're getting and he's watching us now I shouldn't say anything okay you are going to be it's very very high um what's the word success rate or whatever very high in that that particular one and the part is last day my boy said please die for them it's not everybody Michael bemella multi-purl and Ironhorse want to make it to Oman last last message we had here what's his name uh gold ring he left right after this year last month of Shabbos to make it for um yeah he's there he's there so he making Shawna this year and the third person the two-year-old and fourth planet families like New Jersey because Torah is the best Gula today the parent is for father Lewis tulchin moisha lay Ben yitzvah and by who the shock thanks Yosef you mentioned ah okay Mazel Tov yeah okay we have a very smart here stick around we have a very interesting video I want to show everybody plus I have unbelievable shot towards real towards the end the beautiful Shadow change your life says the Mr brand new peric if you're starting tonight it's unbelievable brand of Eric if a woman finds an object so this is the same same kind of content that we had before we have the concept of Ava if the husband gives so much to the wife then he'll be really upset at her I feed you I give you so much and you find something you keep it for yourself so he gets to keep it um and this we had already I see you dying go to the husband I'm just curious did anybody ever find something really good schmuck like walking the street and find like a thousand dollars anybody a diamond ring no what'd you find 200 shekel 800 800 to check on Ultra not bad okay oh the person you're not supposed to you're not supposed to really return money okay it's whatever we'll learn it we'll learn now because usually call Shaw so money don't really return doesn't have a SIM usually the husband gets to eat the payroll is again because he has the Redeemer if she's captured so here's the chart there are five things that happen if somebody damages somebody else somebody let's say punches somebody in the face you have to pay five different things so the medical bills and that stuff the husband pays out of his pocket he gets paid what about boiseous embarrassment now who's embarrassed here the woman is embarrassed she's walking around with a big swollen lip whatever and the fact that she's devalued her values less so who gets it says the mishnah shalah she gets it it's her her own body she gets to keep it reveal him say it argues you can say oh maybe his Manchester say Sir if no one can see it so the embarrassment is hers she gets two two-thirds and the husband gets a third when people could see it's on her hands on her face on her neck now he has to walk around with a beat up woman it's more embarrassing for him according to review them Sarah so she he gets two parts she gets one part is going to talk about it like she suffers the embarrassment and he gets paid for it and his two-thirds gets right away and whatever she deserves buy some real estate and he gets to eat the produce says what's the mission of telling us we already learned we learned all these Allah if you're going to compare a father to husband it's going to tell us that a husband has one up on the father that what a father when he's mcadish's young daughter Lesson 12 he gets the kid we already explained what all these things mean in terms of how this money he could decide to marry or for money to um he gets if she finds 800 if she has a job and is able to annul her vows in the dark macabo's Gita again if she's uh an arusa she's right because once she gets married we learned that it's already she leaves his domain but if she's a Naruto she's like Tana arusa he receives her yet now he doesn't get uh you to eat the produce her produce and he says one she gets married yes the husband has everything that the father has every one of those things in other words the husband has it says and he has more than that you can see the fruit so new you see my fortunate mission that if a husband gets to eat he gets the mycena time and if she finds an object he gets to keep it so why do you have to tell it to me again says the gemara you're right I don't need it her embarrassment and her devaluation goes to the husband that's uh I'm sorry that's August right we saw in the then the missionary says two-thirds one-third foreign or a person who read in front of Rob and not a Tana so much because Robo was a number but seriously when a woman finds something she gets to keep it and Rebecca seems to be saying like our mission that goes to the husband or my lady so rova asks this person reading the the price now we all know what our Dolphins right hadab is when a woman Works churns more than her basic earning which she's supposed to make five shekel a day can give to her husband she earns more so don't see what's going on how you doing I missed you better come every day too bad we all have to go to school staff comes first tell you ready okay those days I don't see those days you skip school I'm over here okay so adolfah is anything above the five shekel is called the hadoff and extra and that's considered myself it's her own salary her earnings says that anything about five shekel she gets the key mitziasa like culture so this is not even my seal dying goes to the husband anything above might see a diamond five shadow goes to her Sonu if she finds 800 check on the street that's also above her Mighty dime certainly to go to her it's not and how do I know this it says these are things we learned already she makes a net there she makes a vow that anything I earn doesn't go to you what is that a big fat joke why because everything she earns goes to her husband she has no right to talk like that and it's our law fair so somebody says stupidity you know you ignore it you know he doesn't have to another nether remember your offer and we learned keep it says he does have to take it into consideration why what if she goes above and beyond the five shekel and it's gonna be it's gonna be hers uh so here you see the makiva holds it's hers it's hers and by mistake after she made the net there the husband might use take a little bit out of the bank account which is really hers and there's another against it you better know the nether says what do you see that everything above five goes to the woman so everything about five goes to the woman certainly if she finds extra 800 check on the street it should go to the wife you have to flip the the names around the sheet does the macquarius is there the names are messed up this is not the one that says that it goes to the husband says it goes 2000 like our mishna says that if she finds something goes to herself just like every anything above the might seem goes to herself when it comes to hadova anything extra before I looked in Rashi in fact means that she's it was hard for her I don't know I don't know how do you how do you tie chops like that care this is what Rashi says there's a woman with a lot of energy he says that's what he says and there's a woman with low energy so a woman with a ladder energy and she's a shift and she knows how to do things quickly foreign a woman who has low energy yeah so when did she earn the extra she earned the extra after hours she doesn't know how to do it she doesn't know she doesn't know how to make more than usual regular woman makes five shekel a day this woman knows how to do she's very good with her hand she makes 10 Chuckles a day so that's the husband gets it keep please when you go to the right side she has a low energy she doesn't produce and the only time she produces more than five Shadows because she works after hours you're working at night says Rashi that's where we have a Mac like is over the battle Canada says it goes to the husband keep it sober latimo so rip Akiva holds that when it's then comes with given says she deserves it you know what she worked so hard she worked after hours she so she gets to keep it but what if it's not like that very easy comes easy easy come easy go goes to her husband what about him it's here how hard did she work to find the head under jackal nothing just walking down the street she's in the in the ultra rad she looked down and she's like she lifted it up it was cameras so that even Rebecca would agree that what she doesn't get it that's considered July when a woman has a lot of energy and she produces a lot that goes to the husband when a woman walks in the street and she finds him and see her not says the gamaro omra papa no I'm talking about a woman who had to work really hard for me for instance first of all to find the case to find it she went ah some election guys I didn't even notice you guys I guess by the way it was unbelievable they should start selling he works in a place that had they do beef jerky and he brought for Chavez he brought a bunch of beef jerky like six different types unbelievable stuff damn it I'm not joking I'm not trying to push the the product out of the wine I also got a bottle of wine I got both yeah yeah no not for the same guys anyways what you have these guys for Shabbos what's your last name Weinberger he's in the sonogans's cousin and you what's your name again remind me Ivan Friedman from Flatbush both learn in your rebbies uh Yeshiva I think I can sting no different what's your what's your receivers accidentally yeah what's his name okay fine anyways what's the name of that beef jerk I gotta give my car as a type what butcher's cut it's unbelievable they should sell here machamish good stuff the uh the sweet one was it the maple whatever Maple srirachas I'm not joking I'm not such a big beef jerky guy that was good come again for Shabbos please I didn't notice these guys where are they hiding out so many people hiding out here that guy's also some left a nice New Guy what's your name car Garnett foreign let's go back there we've got good stuff coming on and he's gonna shut down all systems in about 22 minutes right give me a little extra time please I beg you I beg you it's not my fault you're gonna love the chat says again tomorrow um oh so we're middle of this Messiah so she went she sees a bunch of fish that got thrown out of the the river overflow to fish whatever so she has to lift up all these heavy fish she has to go catch a deer that that that's lame it's not caution it's not like she just bends down pixel bed under Shadow so it's considered it's considered something that she worked hard for after hours in that case for keeper says it goes to her Papa I called up Yoshi just for this case I thought it'd be a phenomenal picture but he let me down no he's very very Shabbos he couldn't do it but imagine if we had an artist that could do this we'll check this out the first case is something but the second case huh I started doing myself it just didn't come out good boy she did two jobs at once now you know every woman's on the phone and the microwave and this good fight but this one the voice is unbelievable if she did four jobs at once how do you do four jobs at one says Rashi and this is a picture just I imagine this picture I thought if he could depict this would be unbelievable I wanted I'm changing a little bit from Rashi says she's warming up eggs in her lap I wanted a woman sitting on a bunch of eggs at the same time she's watching a cucumber field teaching how to sing and also knitting weaving okay those are the four things it says Rashi imagine the pictures be unbelievable classic so is that considered Dave o'clock because at the end of the day yeah she's doing a whole bunch of stuff but it's happening in one shot okay nothing more doesn't understand how is it possible I am embarrassed in public something terrible happened to me and my husband is going to get the money for that it doesn't make sense poor woman she has Boucher and the the payment goes to the husband what if I embarrass the horse takes it to another step do you understand that if it's the busha happened to other another individual like a horse the owner should get Boucher for it you can't even embarrass all of us okay fine Ella what I meant to say is let's say let's refine the question a little bit hello what if I spat on the clothing and it's been in his face I spat on his clothing does that do I get voices for that so my wife is like my clothing it's not on me it's not the booster didn't happen to me I'm in my clothing yeah maybe you have to pay for that if somebody spit on somebody else and the spittle hit him up and he removed somebody's shato in middle of the street this is a riot that you're not aware okay fine I'm just I didn't see anybody talking about it but it says oh maybe not okay so there's a tickle fine there was a a true story here in our show a film woman was held hostage you guys remember the story from a woman's health hostage and the guy was holding her holding with the gun the whole thing and then like he decided okay he's gonna grab her by her hair and like do something and grab it right here and she made a run for it she left her hair in his hand and as soon as she ran they shot the guy and they killed him yeah check it up not making this up he deserves to die okay fine you have to pay 400 zoos but we're talking about the spit case even foreign oh so says the gamara so why is it that if somebody speaks on my wife I get paid says if you somebody spent on my clothing no it doesn't do anything to me it belittles him he gets insulted he's hurt by the fact that he's better than what uh but that you heard his wife what if he took a poor person that comes from a good family this losing now they're all embarrassed how's it possible again the question the bottom line is they're asking how's it possible I embarrassed Reuben and have to pay shiman so if I embarrass somebody's family by embarrassing one of the members have to pay the whole family now I think tysis is it says over here yeah only been told him he says very interesting why is it Marseille a poor person if I embarrass a wealthy person his whole family should get paid no because a poor person interesting is sight I don't understand it completely but they have to take care of this since he's poor the whole family takes care of him and because they let him down now they have they should get paid so here's the difference awesome interesting we know is so when you insult my wife you're insulting me I was just thinking like at the same time you're stealing away her the things she found on the floor give it to me wait a minute it's not me it's we're we're one I thought I thought we're just like you know give it to me your salary goes to me everything goes to me what up and guess what else goes to me when you get embarrassed it goes to me because you're like me but it doesn't go that way it only goes this way fine a guy just wrote me a email maybe I should read it he said um I should read it anonymously because he fell asleep doing whatever daf and when he wakes up his wife says oh I just heard the whole daff and you have to buy me jewelry wrote your thing and he says please don't mention my name in case my wife listens to that chair that you read the email I'll just read it tomorrow get another laugh foreign a guy a large a sphere who wants to be large the son-in-law he says listen you marry my daughter is a million dollars and the Husson dies here I have I have a thing oh you see the the the guy from Muncie makes a lot of sense he's promising cash to Roofing now what happens is because Ruben is not here about the Shabbos it's not a problem Ruben goes bye-bye so uh Simon Simon who's sitting next to the k doesn't get any of that cash why because if you go back here the husted from from uh Muncie he only was giving cash to Ruby I Shivan is a much better guy he's more in staling yeah no I like Ruben I don't like shitmon I decide to give so what if my daughter now Falls the ibom to you you don't deserve the money no it's a personal preference I like Ruben I don't like shimming oh now it's very interesting we're gonna go through the same case over and over four times in the middle this is that case the wife says I'm bringing in a thousand dollars in cash one thousand who poisoned connected and he must write in his super how much how much is he responsible for she brings in a thousand guess how much she's responsible for fifteen hundred SpongeBob 1500s okay let's see if we have a picture here a thing so first of all here's dinner again I I'm sorry shops you asked me to do it in Hebrew but you know what people that don't know dollars and quarters doesn't make any sense to them anyways they people from other countries struggle with this this is just for Americans basically do you know about this stuff quarters and dimes okay so she said she's bringing a thousand dinners okay one Mana is a hundred dinners 15 mono is 1500 dinner now it just goes like this just to explain what I what I I said the other day I said it 100 times before it's a little bit of a hard concept to understand so here's a little bit of a graph if she brings in a thousand it's 500 plus 500 equals a thousand so he has to give her fifteen hundred now if you're just looking at 500 plus 500 so how much does he have to add fifty percent he has to add 500 which is 50 of a thousand but if you're looking at the total after he adds the 500 you have 1500 on the bottom now 500 equals 33 of the total so in gamara language we always go with the bottom one we go Miller bar so it's 500 500 the total so you take off they call it 33 they call it a schlich which in fact in America in England and in in our days we call it 50 not a scholarship it means the same exact thing just how you view it they're viewing the total and you start from the end once you have 1500 how much is 500 or 1500 33 so they call it a schliss he should add a schlich meaning once you're done with it at this list and we call it 50 but it's the same exact thing okay just wanted to show you that now the mission now gives us four cases that are literally identical and I think it might be a good idea to do to say the gemara to explain a little bit of the gemara with the gamara answers inside instead of going back to here because when we see the gamar it's going to be it's going to be a little difficult to come back so let's just do it together if I could find it here oh first of all we're gonna see the first case that we just said now which is not part of the four cases is a bunch of cash if she brings in cash into the marriage he has to pay her back 50 more why because now he has a lot of liquid to do business with there was a guy in Chicago I was doing a lot of Renovations back in the early 2000s like 2005 2000 whatever six seven eight and there was a guy that kept on bringing dumpsters to these houses I was doing the the renovations so every time he would see me and say yo Ellie how do you tell me the trick what's how do you make so much money like every day you're in a different house so I used to ignore it he used to bother me every single time so finally I told him this and I I think there's a lot of Ms to it I said the trick is you have to save money save money I got to see like these guys what happens is they make a little money and then they buy a nice car they make a lot of money they buy a a big screen TV a flat screen whatever it is or if they have money then they buy nice rims on the car you gotta save money if you have a little cash then you can make money you could buy a house and you buy a house you can buy another house you have to save money it's just these one wow so that's what it is I said that's what it is you start saving money you're gonna be you're gonna be wealthy okay thank you so much uh never ask me again fine cash is King you have liquid you do business you can buy a house on paper and just roll you don't even need the full amount you get a little money you buy a house and the rest is mortgage you need money to make money okay it's as simple you cite but it's I think is maybe some people don't even think about it the young guys so true so true the young guys know let's immediately buy a new car let's immediately go on a vacation listen no sit back save okay and you know once in a while throw out the real estate tricks mostly Shabbos now the next thing is there are things that she brings into the marriage that are clay bias I call them these are things that are for the house a piano a bed a couch the husband's not taking them and selling them these are for the house now what you do with that is that loses value a bet is going to lose value of piano if she bought it for a thousand dollars he's not gonna give her a inner super that is going to pay her a piano that's worth a thousand dollars because immediately it goes down in value cash goes up in value you give me cash I can make money with it what I'm gonna do with the piano it's gonna get nicked it's going to get dinged and then you have Caitlyn Lasik now why I put that picture there because of the famous story that a guy went over to another person he said I have unbelievable deal I could sell you a whole container of tuna fish for two cents a can he says two cents a can he makes a cousin a tuna cost two dollars a can whatever it costs today two cents again okay I'll buy it so the guy buys it and then he goes ahead and he goes his friend he says I have a whole container of tuna for four cents a can it's 40 four cents a can it's a bit Sia he buys and this is how it goes the container of tuna keeps on going from person to person is 20 cents 25 cents finally becomes like a dollar a can so guys this is it's a great deal but you know what let me let me open up a can so he opens up the can spoiled tuna so what are you doing he says if this is not for eating this is for business okay so that's why it's kind of tuna tuna she brings in a bunch of tuna into the marriage this is stuff that you sell you you give off you do you do business with a lot of tune a lot of spoil a lot of China whatever it is Caitlin Lasik also goes down in value huh it's the fans I didn't want to do that again yeah because then they come and sue me almost okay no no name no name fine no there's this stuff never spoils by the way so it's a known thing if I could say I wasn't so happy with the tuna here in Israel and then I had dag him tuna I proud I'm Batman who's on a whole different level because I think what they sell here is like different doors it's not it's not the white the Albert I don't know what it's a different that if you could get your hands on dag him trust me okay now they're gonna say uh before their favorite the whole thing was that you know we went from tuna to Tyra and he says the fancy said you should buy a dog okay whatever let's take it out of this year Joseph just knock it out I play Sigma is today I'm like on a roll what is it called butcher cut what what butcher's cut the battery jerking the world okay okay now we're holding like this he's gonna shut the chair down he's going home just let it go let it let it say no but I need the video oh no he's trying to get down no but the question seriously I need the video now case number one now I want to show you this case inside so we get together you see green okay so we just said this case but we just finished talking about how she brings in a thousand dinner which is a ton of money and he has to give her 1500 dinner and immediately afterwards it says when they come and they used to evaluate at a wedding they would say here look she's bringing a bunch of stuff whether it's the piano or the tuna whatever it is they used to add they used to exaggerate and they would add 25 Okay so when does shum who plays he takes off 20 percent okay they had 20 he takes off 20 now I'm just pointing out here this is the Hassan doing the Sham you see that's why this is and there's a lot of money here on the bottom the fourth case is also the Hassan but very little money the two middle cases is the kala doing the assessment it's a lot it's a it's a mana mana is very little and then the second case is our family is it's a lot so we have the Hassan and the kala each one has a lot and a little and that's why we have four cases that's the shot in the mission okay so as we're going along it'll be easier to see it inside just a simple thing now this is not one of the four cases this is a little bit uh to throw us off of course what if she comes to the wedding nobody exaggerated nobody wants to make her look wealthy in there look Hassan she's bringing so much tuna this it happens to be she said it's worth a hundred it's actually worth a hundred so you only has to pay a Mana he doesn't have to add the exaggeration or take off the exaggeration in this Suba however now we're going back to the case she comes in this is the second case she comes in at the wedding everybody's saying wow it's the piano is those it's an antique it's worth ten thousand dollars you know there's a little bit of exaggeration there as we said before yes take off twenty percent he understands they came and they said it's worth a hundred so what do you do let me see if I can find it real quickly over here oh 25 25 you have a hundred so he has to write in the super 125. uh uh sorry we gotta do this one hold on okay it's worth here's the case you see it's worth a total of a thousand or rashes is like a thousand he only gives her 800 he takes off a piece why because they're exaggerating okay next yeah you have 200 200 too you have five times 200 which equals all the way at the end worth a thousand but that's with their exaggerations all their friends say oh the piano's worth a thousand so next will be writes the real value which is 800. okay next case so we already had this case twice that's the second one here 31 times 4 we said each cell has four dinner 31 times 4 is 124 plus sella the explosion is 31 times 4 is 124. the dinner and one dinner which is 125 now third case she says it came out of value of 400. she she says she gave she's giving 500 he takes a rise of 400. next case the fourth case which is identical much okay so it's the same thing over and over and over just like this case over here how much does it take off one box is a fifth twenty percent okay it's four times the same thing we're going to address that turn around buttons If in the case we're talking about Reuben and jimin and the schwer the khasid gives a nice Dunya to his son-in-law it's only to that specific son-in-law dies it doesn't go to the son-in-law's brother says even if the second is you think that it's better for the father-in-law to have this and he should also give him the money yeah I don't want to talk to you I don't need you access we have the same exact case in the first mission that we learned from the mission today in the paragraph the first mission of the parag foreign look at the uh case um no not here no not that case dinner that case says Gamora we have two cases Ellen dinner is a lot of money let me see over here [Music] okay sorry so here we have possible we have all these cases the four that we just spoke about they're all redundant all four cases are the same exact so what's going on it says so what we have here is one case with a lot of money in one case with a little money it's two cases times two because two of them are the husband and two of them are the color so the first one is a lot of money because it comes right after the case of like the number brings it plus glasses of dinner it's talking about a thousand dinner so it's a lot of money so connected this room is a lot of money then all the way in the bottom of the list is Masha Hasek is a little money but both of them are the casa and each one has five you think it only because when the husband does the Shuma not the color no you think only goes by the calendar the official mishnah sponsored oh first of all we turned in honor of Yankee Baum and militia horn this was being able to support the minator and to finish learning Shadows of the valley this is just me it's their kitchen okay and the official mission is sponsored by moshikong foreign uh-huh okay I ain't some but they do discuss it says she's bringing in money we have a picture here here's again here's a seller how much is seller worth for dinner so if we add 50 in English it's 50 in gamara language is the third so it ends up being sixth dinner if you end up at the end with six dinner so you added a third if you're looking at the four fifty percent of four is two yeah two so you have six because the bottom line is if she brings in Cash God's gonna have to sign off that he's gonna pay her back eventually even if they get divorced tomorrow but usually they don't he says he's going to be using this for big business and he doesn't have to save up now because she saved for him he has to pay her 50 more minutes so this is very interesting it it's very very difficult lotion but basically what the mission is saying here is if the crossing gets a box of perfume he has to pay his wife ten percent what's going on 10 when every day every month every year more asks everything is based on the minute of the place says what what is the mission now saying possible oh this case you see this case is this any different than the case that we had over here where is that one this one not this one this one what's the difference she said I'm bringing you four dinners he has to give her six over here she said I'm giving you uh no it's a different game because you know what I'm talking about it's the same thing as the the original mishna that we had in the middle of the mission of she says a thousand years to give her 1500. here in this case yeah this case thousand years to give her 1500 and if he gives her if she says four he has to give her six it's the same exact case um we're talking about a big business deal and a small business since he's making a lot of profit so that's why he has to give him fifty percent he has one pair of socks you can't you can't sell pair of socks you're gonna start doing business one with one little thing so you don't have to pay ribbons on that you think no and we lied to you know the expenses are very low the overhead if you have very little stuff that she's bringing the overhead is not that much what if she brings in tractor trailers worth of stuff nice to do stores that's the people so maybe you shouldn't pay so much oh this could happen obviously you know I'm alive great her husband what is going on here my Koopa so yeah has to pay 10 of whatever she brings in of this box what's in the box Summit you know in those days showers didn't come so easy yeah they used to just pour on like in France they do today pour a bunch of deodorant you're good to go foreign [Music] that's okay if you ever been on a bus you know what I'm talking about boy Revolution my face I just there's two things we just sat here if you look at this chart there's um or maybe this one let's do this one oh it popped out for some reason why okay like that you have the actual value and here we said it's 800 that's the actual value if you go to an appraiser he's going to say he's going to say 800. but the people in the khasana they're exaggerating for the cow and they say it's worth a thousand so now when the husband has to give 10 is it 10 let's say of the Thousand over here so in other words he has to give her a hundred or he has to give her 80 because it's of the actual value this is the tomorrow no let's be serious over here it's only worth 800 so it has to give her 80. yo I'm Risha and I call you let's give her on the first day of the marriage deity or every single day has to give her 80. now Tyson says it seems from Russia every day after giving says tices where's he gonna come up with the money it's only worth 800 within a few days he's not gonna have any money left what for the rest of his life he has to give her 80 it's the best investment ever she comes in with a hundred bucks and for every day of her life he has to give her 80. all right or whatever it is 800 every day has to give her 80. it's not fair so that's why a lot of you trying to learn differently and they say it means the total the 80 do you give the whole 80 in one day or you break it up over a few days because at the end of the day you see from tices that if you look at Tyson well we'll see later that Tyson says that you only give whatever she needs so she doesn't really need all lady in one day okay now infants and Shabbos is it every week that you have to give every day or only one week the only during several Shoppers the Shabbos you have to give every week every day is it only for the first month or every month it is I heard that some hasidim that take this name out of the gemara and I just made that up on the spot seriously I didn't even rethink that I'm anti I'm going to start again today I don't mean that fine he was one of the wealthiest people we had the other day and also in the same generation very very wealthy we're gonna see how wealthy he was now his daughter became an armada so the said give her 400 of him now Tyson's the remastered possible didn't resolve how much is a thousand times a thousand a million she and her super got a million in result which is tremendous amount of money so based on that earlier they should have given her much more perfume with his husband 10 times 10 for every 100 she should get 10. some kisses she should get I don't know what hundreds down no you're right she deserves more but she doesn't need more they didn't say okay next says the gambarro um the same curse that we had on Friday that came from nigerian's daughter-in-law this is the daughter and the daughter cursed them or maybe it's a brother but she said you know what I deserve much more than that this is what you should say for your daughters the story that we had yesterday they didn't say on me because she was a yovama but this woman wasn't in your mama she's already she's married she had children so and everybody dies at the end of the day everybody dies so she said it wasn't such a curse to say that our daughter should be like you because the husbands die the husbands to say that you should be like the story on Friday where she was the Obama died without children that's a claw but the amount of money was very significant how a value our daughter should have so much money let's get such an ID we have I got that now we have got to tomorrow myself get that video ready we're about to show a video now is he saw a young girl Gathering barley from the dung of animals here the boys have a video with girl she could show it I'd very much appreciate it foreign girl was doing exactly this this is where she found her food this is elephant dog which has a lot of gishmaker whole fruits and nuts very good stuff [Music] okay good foreign she either she covered her hair or she took her hair and she covered her face I thought it meant that she covered her hair but my commercial thought that a man she covered her face and then I saw people discuss it okay armor light rebi parnasseni look at me look at my matzo I'm eating dung here could he give me some paranosa um who are you um I'm the daughter of Bill Gates I'm the daughter of the wealthiest guy in your life oh my Lord what happened to his money um don't they say this muscle or closer that's all three words if you want to preserve your money you know what you do you give Dhaka make sure you don't have money then you'll have money you'll have money in other words my father wasn't giving to Dhaka so I want to tell you unbelievable Zach uh of Art and this is a life-changing part first of all it's in the tire everybody knows the possible now Shem says about one Mitzvah one Mitzvah only try me test me out I'll prove to you that you should do this and that is the Mitzvah of Miser test Hashem in anything but um test me and I will show you meaning so the dominant magnet says unbelievable just very simple but it brings out the point looking like it says a guy went uh went a store and he saw a bunch of rope you know different bundles of rope so you asked the guy how many feet are in each bundle he said oh each one has a hundred feet 100 feet you're short yeah he looks around in the box and he takes the smallest one and he opens it up and he measures it and he sees oh it's 100 feet 100 feet the guy didn't lie and then he knew that everything else was 100 feet because if the smallest one is 100 says test me on the most illogical Mitzvah there is and that is Miser how is it that if you take 10 of what you have or 20 of what you have you give it to somebody else you're gonna have more money it's it's the reverse of common sense it doesn't make any sense you give away from your what you have you can have less not more test me if I'm right on this one then you have to believe me on everything test them you give me my sir you're not going to lose you're going to gain you're only going to gain and that's what it says here if you want to preserve your assets your money you have to give you have to take away from what you have if you have take away from what you have then you get more this billionaire didn't give it says the gamara um okay so you ask yourself what about the spares those are pretty wealthy guy listen to this one my money that I got for my khasana was all in one bank account my father's trade for money was mixed in with my schwer's good money with my with my father's good money sorry my swear it's good money my swear gave me good money my father didn't do enough to talk because it's bad money you see from your biggest sign you can't just take money some yeshivas don't take money from you know magaly shops with her ass or whatever because you don't want to mix good money bad money it has a it has an effect on the other money she said I have nothing oh my Lord Rabbi sorry next is you remember you were at mahasana and you signed the tsuba so some people say I saw brought down over here you see that the one that reads the super should be a hush of a person it's a it's a big keyboard um I remember and I read the Suba elf I love him one million degrees of golden coins where a gold coin today costs water a thousand dollar whatever it costs a lot of money a million golden coins who knows besides what you got from her father-in-law I don't know I was just thinking when I learned that maybe he was very well because you see he asked him but if not then reminds me the story of there was a raccoon I don't remember who was the wealthy guy here Rothschild so guy said oh if I was raw child I would be much wealthier than him because I'm also a rebbing Haider so okay but over here also like you have the the million golden coins that her father gave her plus you have the 200 zoos that's in the Suba the the base of via the the the base coming fine they get they get taken over by uh disgusting Nations not even a nation they have to eat the soya so martial says oh very beautiful he says Israel doesn't have a Mazel what what does Israel have they have so when they're doing great takes them he can't get better than that but when they're doing terrible then who leaves them and when he leaves them they don't have a Mazel where all the nations have a Mazel they're at least protected somewhat we're not protected at all we go to the bottom of the bottom what are you talking about every day when he walked the show or to the to learn clay May last they would take these clothing and remember in the time of the gemara clothing was extremely expensive all handmade to take from his house I don't know what two blocks long just clothing clothing and he would walk on it a big hush of a rich guy and would bite my name and all the poor people grabbed clothing as he walked kept on walking knew that's tremendous DACA some say no it's not counted you know why because you did it for his own honor he's about he wanted to walk the Seoul on clothing your body say amen and this is unbelievable why why do we have such a tiny name because he's a billionaire a billionaire is not supposed to give 10 a billionaire should get 50 60 guys supposed to get 50. each person and what he could give he can't say oh he's such a Bob's doctor he gave mamas thousands of dollars but he's a gazillionaire he makes 100 million dollars a year so so a few thousand dollars that you call him about is DACA we don't go about tomorrow says he lost everything the stronger camel is that's how much you can carry the wealthier person is that so much dog he has to give Tanya and then we're going to be finished over here because Gershon has to go thank you Allah so over here you have to he's the mother says it inaki it doesn't say he said the word lie we take out the word blood because it's not nice we don't talk like that so they want to takes it out but we understand what he meant I'm gonna see the rebuilding of the base amazing I saw with my own eyes it's like a schwa I promised that I saw this if not the best I mean it shouldn't be fine I saw her literally like the video going through the the the the the stool of a horse foreign you know what's going to happen then you're gonna have to be a shepherd there's no need to work that hard if you learn hashems but you don't want ah okay so go work you'll be a Shepherd because you'll Shepherd the goat says don't say goats Allah you yourself are gonna have to go and and uh earn all that and work like that and has to Shalom have to come to the what she came to the boys I have a wonderful week ago thanks for coming [Music]