Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 65 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] to all the people that started with us broca's and if not you'll get there soon by shimon sarek i know you get a lot of pictures of people learning the different weddings i do hope for secular couples and learning while it's waiting for things to start isn't just quality time to do the daf it shows people who don't often see a rav or from guy that kiheim and this is how we spend our time i just i just thought of this when i was a caterer somebody sent a picture to my wife because i used to give the daffy amish here then an anonymous picture that meant a lot to my wife she hung it up it was a picture of me learning during the wedding like on the side somebody snapped the picture put it in a frame and said this is how your husband spends his time wisely and it meant a lot to my wife so over here and this is how we spend our time to learn subus to learn exclusive and write a suba add so much to the experience thanks for making the dab so enjoyable oh he's a he's a supermaster here he is with his suba and a kenyan soother thing and his gemara thanks for making that so enjoyable and something to look forward to shimon the my brother and brother-in-law we just had him here lay life there right labor light b liberty live there my brother and brother-in-law both watched a share when convinced me for months to join my initial reaction was why join an online daf i was fine waking up early going to live share then covert hit i finally whatever the word is and saw one share that cheer was misato suma and that day's daf was about chamiza and he spoke about the kangaroo should be having big hands etc and then you gave an example showing a picture of shaquille o'neal holding a water bottle please understand that i do that early in the morning when i saw you pick up that picture i laughed so hard i woke my entire family it was around 5am since seeing that picture i've not missed a day and i brought many others to join mdy just telling them that story and there's a guy here in the sheer i don't want to mention his name because his daughter just got married last night he he's like what are you crazy you're gonna bring such a thing in middle shear how dare you you can't get all muslims so some people have it like that and some people came to the shaver closet you never know you win some you lose some he's not here and i think this guy likely brought many more people this year than that complainer guy additionally this trip [Laughter] i'm here for a wedding listen to this he rented a car just to come to shear i know that he told me and he came every single day when he was here he just left two days ago what was really inspiring was hearing him was flying to israel learning the whole way he got inspired by people learning tired on the way i got upgraded i just so he told me the story he said he told hashem he made a deal if i get upgraded i'm going to learn the whole way so he got upgraded and he learned nine dapha magilla but he fell a sleeper sticker because listen he had business class but he learned nine daf and he promises that he's gonna make us see him on the way back he's gonna finish the rest of his gilla there's a guy that went to uh what's the name of the issue he went to yakov he's an ayako boy or samaya and he's learning oh and what happened was he says he wasn't sure maybe he's not 100 a sign from hashem he gets into business class is allowed and they offer him castell so i said castell you mean yeah yeah the other crystal okay fine sign for hashem that he has to learn the daft the entire i can honestly say that it's not for this year i definitely wouldn't have i would have slept the entire flight or probably watched a movie or three but then that was the opportunity i hope to make a scene of megillah before i land so i know two people on the flight came over to me and noticed me learning every time they passed by and inquired about the share can't say thank you enough your talmud patiently waiting for the next shaq example or others are similar light be like there here's the picture i found that i showed then it just he's holding a two-liter battle and that's what no it's not two liter but you know what i'm saying very belly i know you're a fan of new ideas so here is one listen to this the two of you you're not going to believe this remember i gave you an idea a month and a half ago here's the idea on wednesday i sent my wife i asked you to watch the beginning portion of the show with akiva and bin kalba she thoroughly enjoyed it i know you're busy but what about starting a weekly recorded 20-minute cheer for the women of mdy so they can better relate to what their husbands are doing each day this year can highlight a halacha or a story from the previous unbelievable i had such inspiration i went over to know him and abby and charlie said listen i got the greatest idea we're going to do or share for women because they feel left out they feel like it's not fair we go to chakras and milk what about the women they said it's a great idea but you know what i didn't do my own advice which is do it that minute start this year on travis grab a video cameras in the castle but that inspiration fizzled away and now i'm like okay it's a great idea but wow cavall i didn't start it then what you inspired to start nope not now then i was desperation when i walked away what a great name for the women yeah we need a great name oh w w mdy get out of it i went to the dentist to have a procedure done and that's that's if he minds if i wear my earpods and listen to something i put on your and slowly deaf as i knew i'll get the at least a few minutes entertainment too distract from the drilling lo and behold you went all out of akiva ruffle story which kept me going through the entire procedure pictures dr mark eisenberger from thomas river i have the procedure where i showed him how i made it through 43 minutes of drilling make it a great day joe wall i'd like to thank rebellion for your time it means oh so last night i was on a zoom call just with the manchester however 45 people are on the calls give valgus stuff in beijing we don't have the exact date but it's all the way in the beginning beginning of november we are base of sham going for a seam in london and manchester you tell me you'll see the highest shot is that face you're coming with me you should come how about you guys you're coming to manchester we're looking guys are coming in from new york it's going to be a gevaliga time here's a beautiful picture of yossi sanders who's on the call last night here he is on top of the eiffel tower in front of the hundred people the other tourists that were there this is what we call good morning the first time that somebody was mamish he went all out even though he's here it is [Music] okay he held back a little bit but still it's unbelievable unbelievable [Music] dirty belly i've been in and out of your ship for the past few years i usually use it as a supplement for my local shield have bruce but something about your shirt that really struck a chord with me when you mentioned avi mendelbend's sickness i couldn't help but cry i interacted with him multiple times on the zoom and watched him below the scheifer you share unites classroom besides the value of learning every day unite claudius throws one hashem must be so proud of us now to avi this year needs you let's beat this thing and blow for mdy once again regards if frying sander we have an ass which is late okay i'm just going to say this is a very long one for markley grosskoff he says that who's in who should he give thanks to the mdy should it be avi no i'm gary mentions all the names yo say the editor says no it's the wife's behind the scenes the ruffles that push their husbands to do everything so you should have remotely groskov thank you for all making thank you all for making sure this year happened it has changed my life here we go the kylo is sponsored the entire month by avi rachel coming out asking me rachel's mother raised a guitar bass esther rita should be lisa you share on behalf of us and our children the second spans of the kylo for the success of our family and that we married to always crown hashem the miscella the third sponsor of the musefta for the rest of themse is official mitzvah motivators rufus to make it to omar rosh foreign this year this number two legalization number three the mdy family says ezra power and power supplies number four by the lock and lumbar families like new jersey because toyota is the best gula we have the schools he's not here today is he no okay he was here for two days straight whoa yourself oh here they are he's the guy okay it all comes together in honor of mdy rib le spreading tire let's do a seam at a pow wow okay what is that add a pow out quick to all the english people they take this very very seriously somebody in fact even sponsored today queen elizabeth she was an example of malchus leadership longevity and consistency i i didn't write this somebody in england wrote this reformer not to that guy that wrote it but been sitting in charlotte and shalamus esther should have her foolish lemur okay incredible a thousand days ago we moved into this room a thousand days ago it's a thousand days it's a long time unbelievable and the back isn't even finished we don't even have chairs okay look at those pictures we didn't have lights we had like a projectors dark and oh no windows okay oh my gosh we're holding four lines from the bottom of that dollar on the base your voice i share a monster shabbos i don't want anybody asking on the groups and what's the shop is what time is here i know you're here i know you heard it it's at 9 30. matsushab it's 9 30 okay yeah yeah there's always like possess it says in the mishnah that rip small says only the only rebbi shmall who lived next to adam he would give double the barley than wheat says the gemara um aloe vera in the offensive what only next to adam they eat barley because they don't have chant everywhere else are the barley why do you have to give double the amount to the wife when it comes to barley double then wheat is only if you live in those areas typically around the world you can make barley bread from the same amount of barley as you'd give wheat but not an adam adam you'd have to give double in other words each place you have to look at the quality and you have to give the wife these meals um my travis was asking and and he liked my answers i'll tell it to you he's like it seems from the gemara that a bread is really a meal is from one bread you can make two meals so why is the husband giving the wife three meals per bread you're ripping her off it's like the a real meal is two meals per bread why are you giving her three meals per bread it's very small meals so i told them perhaps those shiram of meals are for men we're larger we eat more and it was like ah because he thought that's more like it's not fair than okay fi so but you see that it has to do with where you are and what kind of quality wheat or barley you have says you have to give a lot of beans a half a cop says connie if you notice in the mishnah he doesn't get provider with any wine you don't give a woman wine because it'll create more of a taivo for relations it says an apostle let me go after my lovers in other words she's a asiash and she has other people she's thinking about who give her nice name me they give me bread who made me they give me water in other words they give her a drink sam ryu pishti they clothed me shamni they give me oil it can't mean water because it already says so the higher means they also give me wine so you see it's normal for people to provide wine to the woman says no perhaps you could say things it's a lotion of uh yearning wanting what does a woman really want my nino tashita she wants jewelry and these people are giving her jewelry doors review how do we know that you don't provide a woman with watching it says it's interesting we're coming up on rosh hashanah and this is in the after rosh hashanah all about khanna and she invented new ways to dive in so if you look at the pasta i just highlighted the words uh it doesn't come out so good on the screen but achala is in pink the rest of the palettes like i did in red not not so clear over here and shasai is in blue because ah is talking about its females she ate shasai is talking about her husband after she ate and he drank so much wants to even die that he drinks a man drinks not hannah she was diving maybe it's not good to drink okay but as i stated it doesn't say that she drank okay so it seems like the husband drank and cheat and drink so you see from here you don't give your wife wine it's not a good idea if he's there so it says in the past only she's allowed to eat if you're going to make such a deal it seems only he eats he's not only she he's not allowed to eat you're going to make such a deal only he drinks and she doesn't drink so only she eats and he doesn't eat so it can't be and now on with the shani crab at the burrito marina no i wasn't making a deok from the word just saw it soccer nanakeva i was saying look we're talking about her about takara why did it flip to him he drinks and she doesn't drink amazing but it says regular if she's used to drinking nice and long then you do give her so you see they do give a woman wife well the turret is mine obey it says the turrets regular if she's used to it okay she's got a regular shiny it's different if that's if she's accustomed to it and it doesn't cause typhus and all sorts of things okay she could drink now here's one of these lines that's like a riddle regular if she's how do you say you're not used to accost him too if she's accustomed to drinking noise in la coyce shane regiela she's not accustomed to drinking wine no it's not steakhouse you give her two well it doesn't make any sense a person who's accustomed gets more than a person's not a cousin michael my what do you say oh my if she is accustomed to drinking wine and her husband is there so what if her husband is there so initially when you read it you think oh husband i'll take care of her or make sure she behaves because the gemara continues to say and rashi points out right away the shot is because if her husband is there and she has a taivo he could fulfill her taiva it's like past masala for her shalom allah goes up but if her husband's not there what is she going to do can i can't increase her typist she only give her one cup however that's if she's accustomed to drinking she's a good drinker energy ball ain't regular before if she's not rugged she's not accustomed so even if her husband is there for a ballot you only give her one and if her husband's not there don't give her anything everybody's saying what's the chat in the riddle that if she's accustomed to drinking give her less than if she's not regular what no doesn't say drunk drunk just you know tipsy increasing taivo if she's accustomed to drinking you give her why not for so in other words rugby over here is not talking about drinking well there's how she cooks so if she's accustomed to cooking with wine you give her wine for cooking not for drinking i once had a message i once had a magnet on my fridge it said i love to cook with wine sometimes i even add it in my food okay so over here the wine is not for drinking the wine is for food don't remember another very very wealthy individual and his his daughter-in-law we said already that you know you have to give the daughter-in-law you have to give your wife based on what you're accustomed to if you're wealthy and you you fly private jets you have to give that to your wife as well so they said okay you know we're going to give her so sayim yain which comes out to approximately an hour days 30 liters of wine per week that's a tremendous amount of wine only for latique day are only for cooking mayor of shabbos letter shabbos once a week she would get a delivery of eight gallons of wine omir lahan it seems like there's a shyly here what exactly was she trying to be nice to trying to be mean most people say that she was being a little mean she gave them a little bit of a curse she was not happy with this for her sweet 16 she got a rolls royce are they going to give her now 30 liters of wine what are you kidding me it's a joke so she says this that's all your daughter should get now the mother says but it was it was a nice curse for them was great our daughter should get 30 liters for her for the snob thoroughly leaves nothing but for the tamil 30 loses every there's only drink a year salgimar says they would have said amen even on that curse because it was a nice amount but since her husband died and that's why she went to bed and to get her missinus and her wine and she said she told besson here what do i deserve how much food and he said you know somebody like you you're so custom the wine will give you 30. so she was really cursing them that their daughter should lose their husbands so they couldn't say oh man one cup of wine is fine it's good relaxes her it's okay schneiderm nivelu but two is already it's not good it's a disgrace she starts acting crazy you give a woman three cups of wine to eva's vape she already demands relations straight out our ball if you give her four cups i feel hammered straight should walk over a donkey donkey in the vehicles and she won't even have any boucha so i didn't realize it's his uh yard attack today but the bernie yellow says an amazing thing check this out i did a chart for it nikeva plus yayan nikkeva is 157. none is a 50 and 100 plus two plus five is 157. ya in a 70. it's 227. what do you have when you put on a cave together with wine rabbi's eye you're not going to believe it you get a zucker she starts acting like a man that's the end benjamin says okay it's exact there's no without you don't have to do with the coilover nothing it's 227 straight out okay yeah exactly the first shot of wmdy rabbi say women don't drink wine because you'll start acting like you're husbands okay kevaldi what a muslim i love that chair zak to gemara on my rava they allah so this is what we were saying before rafa says this is all good when her husband's not there ali we don't care she could get even two cups of wine three listen three is not good three is she's out of control but two yeah you have to stick in here i'm talking about two delivery one and two her husband's there it's fine there's no there's no that's the gemara this is where rashi got it from volcano mojave her husband was there so how come she couldn't drink she didn't drink at all she was a guest and we're a guest it's auster and this is where she takes it from it's awesome to be with your husband and then only then when they got home then they had relations with so you see from this pasta only now when they get home the bottom line is for us that it's it's really us or as a guest however it's because they give they give you a room where the owner of the house doesn't go in so you have the privacy and there's one more condition you have to have your own sheets towel whatever that there's no bush afterwards then it's mutter says the gemara a fascinating story one of the famous ones in shaas huma de visodabaya we had her in ivamus she was a very beautiful woman who was married to three american and all three amirahim died and we had in the sugi of hazaka abaya married her after two already died rajava and rabiitrok and then comes up he wanted to marry her but she already killed two husbands is she kathleenis that is only after three times not after two times and robert said look you see i'll go upon him so she comes as a widow because a boy was just lifter so she needs to get uh zionists what are you gonna do her third husband dies aside look i made the rava she comes to rava or malay cycling new give me some designers from my late husband's estate possible so you gave her the camera i want some wine oh my lord baby is that by his name do they have a i know that he didn't drink wine so you're lying to me that you deserve wine he never gave you wine so there's a wrath that says that abayo we know comes from ailey he was a kind a bio is always hoping that mashiach is going to show up right now and he didn't want to be drunk when there'd be some fish came so he never drank wine rather knew that he wouldn't drink wine and he made the henchmen that if he didn't drink wine his wife also didn't drink wine she says no what are you talking about you're right i buy you never drink wine he's a kind i'm i'm not going to serve anybody something those he treated me well he gave me wine omelet i swear they have emasculated let me show you like this like this big she went like this she stuck at her head like that much wine you'd give me but when she's showing him the size of the goblet eaglet door her arm was exposed came out of the sleeve enough on the horizon it was like like a light her beauty like shined up the room it's uh it's a muscle calm rava olive ran home tava the pastor of christ we know the famous story that the daughter of kristen when she was very young she sat on her father's lap and she pointed said i'm going to marry roman barcama and i'm going to marry rava and rafa says let me be second because he knew that uh if he's first he's going to die and then and she married roman barcoma and now she's married to afghanistan he comes home in the middle of the day robert comes home in the middle of the day which is not his deareth he never came home in the middle of the day and he tells the bachelor of christo let's have relations she comes from this house tell me what's going on who who came to bed today of a says to her you already killed rejova you're coming to kill a fourth one now in kylo yesterday we had a big tomo big tomo because i learned the chat that she's referring to her husband you're coming to kill my husband says look rashi says ish you want to kill people general men says tomer yeah that's how we learned also gibson the whole thing and then and then jacob said like me but bar hashem or yakin went and found in the benya yada and the sagishma i never really argued with tomorrow and learning it comes every morning to the base madrid and i saw it i showed him the the benya yada yada says the noop shot in the suggest and i know tomer is a huge many other fan he learns being any other before he even learns the gemara usually and and once he saw that he was checkmate then he learns different shots he learns that rava didn't want this woman to show up again and and and uh and try to convince him so what did he do he he tried to fool his own wife brother knew i'm not going to be able to take care of this woman let my wife take care of her she's good she came out she says no and and then what happened and then she went she chased her his plan worked beautifully okay but copadam you see and the minion says that bastard chris was talking about rava i don't want you to be marshall my husband okay the visitor ravioli de rover the wife of revision the son of brother i want my food my husband died he gave her the camera i want wine so this is a sugar does a wife get wine doesn't get wine pasta some places you get wine oh my lord robin but i remember years ago my wife drank we were at a place she drank bartenura asti it's like three percent four percent she's drinking like a half a cup she was rolling on the floor she and my sister-in-law i'm serious today she out she just drinks castell because that's for her i drink a little so it has to do with if you're used to it and i used to it okay over the years the beast of the ravioli is again it comes to another adversary designing i i need i need i need food plastic gloves like the camera give me wine possible gave her slightly chew right now i want clothing um what do you need clothing for amulet what do you mean i don't want to i don't want to be degraded in front of you and your friends i have something to uphold i have to look decent it says that one of the things the husband's going to give his wife is a mat a harder man a softer man says so look at this picture for a second if she's sleeping on this very comfortable leather bed you take leather and you stretch it out from side to side why in the world does she need a mat is that going to help her or a papa daniela de mother no it's one of these beds check this out you have a bed like this this is all from the art squad in caleb beautiful pictures in the mishnahs over there you can't sleep on this you might flip it you might just fall between the the the stream whatever it's just not comfortable and you go back and forth darling okay but she needs a mat okay makes sense you do have to give her a pillow on blake and hickey citizen or at least he himself he likes blankets and pillows but it's not her it's not her there kane he's a nice guy you know what you're living your own little house over there because the whole mission is talking about that she she has this is shliya she's not living with him he has a few wives this one lives in this house so he sends her food he said you know what when i come to visit you i'll bring you a pillow and a blanket well you want to be like me on that day that i'm there you'll be like me interesting what if you come here of shabbos right after you're not going to be schlepping and washing pillows and blankets which is awesome the most is my salute you can't bring it to me and you're gonna steal mine a nice guy this guy is unbelievable i'm not buying you a plank and pillow sleep without a pillow and a blanket i can't imagine sleeping like that but not only that if you have your own i'm going to come and hop it away from you and regardlessly i'll arrow and you'll throw me on the floor says gimmara surveilla he holds when rezonals you have to buy her a blanket and a pillow you're talking about that neil's okay we can't get into it again they were so poor then shisha muscat also had six tommy them and use one little blanket and we we don't know what it is we have no idea what was going on then vinos and lokipa and he has to buy her some sort of uh beggar to cover the head obviously you're a popular bite sponsored in honor of yankee balm and moisture and broccoli and second sponsors being able to support living without torah or maine should continue making a lot of money and to finish learning shaz with rebelli haitano artilloi virome mesani interesting saying that they had in bubble says the guy is running around naked but he has his shoes on don't try to picture it why is the titan so busy giving your shoes three pairs of shoes that she needs and no no once a year clothing and three pairs of shoes i don't want to like mess up the joke but i i i couldn't look into it last week i one server of last year say that there was a a taxi driver kept looking through this backseat kept looking back back oh so the guy in the backseat says i i don't understand well you never saw a naked guy in your taxi before he says no i was just curious how you're going to pay me fine deserve lasting not me overlay now three guys from gates has just left this year omelette we're talking about in mountains and they need a lot of shoes in the mountains she needs at least three pairs of shoes if you're already going to buy your wife's shoes buy them on yantev interesting that the b allah brings he says that if a person is so poor he can't afford a gift for his wife for yantef which is the midst mitsubishi rice to buy your wife a gift you should buy a pair of shoes that's what he says so just to point out today is exactly 30 days that it's just as important to buy your wife a gift for yantef as it is to buy an asterisk they both die rices this is almond yeah yeah yeah what on an unbelievable asterisk and he says rob how does this look he says wow this is beautiful how much do you how much you're paying for this he says 110 he says 110 dollars and how much are you spending on your wife's gift yeah he says go give that back take a asweet that's that's kosher i know no i'm hurt to business to hear these kind of things no no you know what you should do have gifts for women say yeah yes we care yeah you're thinking about gifts here w-m-y yes-week store unbelievable buy your wife's gifts for boise and start planning now gevalde okay and one year and there's another story i don't know who the rub was he says listen this year esther examined the rabbana this comes out on chavez but the mitzvah buying your wife a gift is the right so that stays forever so buy her that gift the caleb there's a there's a picture of the stipler running aerovyantev when all the jewelry stores were closed he bought her like an iron board or something something weird like yeah yeah i did you see this the scar right over here [Music] okay so just learn one divider it's like these guys learning for four for four months twenty-five percent you just go one divided has the answer right here it's one-eighth of what you thought it is oksuba is eight times the amount that we're not talking about the zers of tsuri which is a lot of money it's you take that zuz and one eighth of that and 25 of that okay fine now it makes sense somebody do the math let's say i didn't do it let's say soup is 1500 what's an eighth of fifteen hundred dollars how much one okay 190 and 25 of that is 50 bucks 45 dollars okay so it's not you're buying your shoes before now it makes more sense okay fine no you're buying clothing for 45 dollars not not 4 500 and not for not 450 dollars okay fine it's from shite by the way bonnie should be israel because it says he's this whole thing is talking about somebody's very poor album like we saw that uh they gave her an activity gave her so much wine it's luffy his wealth if it's the tsuri the expensive stuff where can he afford 500 stuff clothing for his wife we're talking about 45 dollars not the end of the world for him you don't give her brand new clothes in the summer it's too heavy turn her butt on labelle if she has leftover food you give her this tiny portion of bread three per per loaf of bread three meals per loave of bread and she even has leftovers she's on a diet goes to the husband my supplies but the extra clothing that she has left over lisa she remains by her music why does she need that extra oh it is that we don't want the husband to say oh you're wearing the same clothing that you wore when she's tar she's going to become a goon on him because she's wearing the same clothing in those days they actually used to walk around with white clothing and like some people want to prove him here that when it comes to boucha when it comes to um her caucus so you don't say oh it's embarrassing the cobra brillo is i i could pass something to my wife because people are going to know i'm anita is in public i'm embarrassed from here you see that you don't have that turret because they she specific clothing that said hey you tell me oh my bye naktina moisture boyz almana lee archer so this is interesting before we said if she has leftover clothing he goes to herself however if she's being supported by the yoshim they get it why hossam who is gonna pay if she's married we say okay she gets the extra for herself so she has two set of clothing so then she doesn't come repulsive to him ha ha this guy just got it listen she's not married she's what she's going to be repulsive to the artisan they don't care says in the mall questions that she gets to eat a meal with him now we're talking about again she doesn't live with him she has a house over here comes to visit she gets to eat with him on lil shabbas says what does it mean yeah friday night meal talk about relations now look at isis the tap tap twice is one line i want everybody to look at it for a second do a laning on tises what is bothering places here anybody vaccinations i feel common even a person who travels and is away from home for 30 days or six months a sailor sapon okay so this is being bothered by the following question we already learned the halacha savannah there's a whole mission that says if you're a sailor once every six months if you're atomically every shabbos love shabbos so we already discussed little shabbos to the chavez so why in the world does the mission bring it again shabbos you're just repeating yourself if doesn't mean literally a meal you're talking blush and nokia you want to say it hidden you already said it two days ago and the other mishna says taiswas no i didn't say that two days ago i'm telling you that even if you're a sailor but if you don't live in her house you're shulish the last word in texas you have somebody taking care of her you send food with the third person third party you make clear every single week now you don't have your head there of once every six months now you're here there as you became every single week of beautiful tysons just have to see what's bothering him why he says this one line what what's going on and if you if you feel bad that you didn't get the chad and tyson's this morning i asked somebody from the kylo how he learned and he didn't know whatever a real thomas a big one a guy that did uh over a thousand dollar test and got over 90. whatever you had a little then he said yeah yeah you're right that's the job okay fine because the commission what [Laughter] basically we'll come to the coil when we move here okay i get it where are we no no we're holding no okay but now let's get to them just to the end of the parrot if you're talking about literally she eats a meal with him it makes sense okay she eats with him attachments relationships why such a lotion listen it's a nice way of saying it we're talking about she ate and she washed her mouth it's not talking about her mouth talking about something else and she said i didn't do anything wrong so you see you you try to use the shanaki lately she eats two meals friday night in chopish tonight it makes a lot of sense this friday night meal and there's a shabbos morning meal first of all it's awesome in but if it's dark then it's like night and it's motor the question that we're trying to ask okay it's mother but why tell me she has to beautiful shot says the ritual because we're talking about a guy that's muhuev twice a week he's a laborer he's five twice a week one after another back to back friday night in chiba's morning then and if she's a nursing mother doris raviolo rabbi pisco de benecio he said this draw show by the doorstep of the nussie abijah rain autumn's on his bonneville tanam yes we had also you're a very bad guy if you don't support your children but you're not we can't force you monetarily we can't put you in jail and force you to do it however we could force you the really young ones you are at what's a really young one actually still a six-year-old you hear this you could like tell arya to go on his own here's a picture if you have a house and we have a we're starting to get divorced over here and his little machole so the father takes his khalas and he puts a 2000 i'm away from the house and he says i'm going to the left the mother and the little child she makes her own aru so which earth does the kid use he could only use the mother's error because he's dependent on the mother it says in our mission though that if she's a nursing mother she doesn't have to earn as much as she's turned and received in law amazing he has to add a little bit of food mai tai mama mishum the boilermak what does it mean he adds a little food he has a little food because he has to add for the little kid dilma no mission maybe the shot is she needs more food because she's a nursing mother as we know nursing mothers need more but it's not about the kid you have no right that has to support the kid mk and listening likes to highlight so then why doesn't say straight out if she's sick why does it say that she's nursing my muscle nico so it's talking about that he has to support the kid no we didn't walk imagine along this time nikos nino listen do they have to fascination i'm telling you if she's a minigo she's a it's another if she's a nursing mother she's considered a sick person it's matter where you show up in levy and this comes to country think of everything we learned until now give her more wine because it's for the child it's for her nursing purpose not for the mother for the child have a wonderful day i'm good in shabbos 9 30 multi shabbos you