Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 62 by R’ Eli Stefansky

it's always a tremendous kazook when a hassan comes to um [Music] foreign [Music] [Applause] [Music] another castle we have over here a little thing from jonathan stefanski's casano you got some volume these are three yeshiva guys that became that for paranoid all three of them are married they have children two of them are my cavus's brothers the kramer brothers if you notice they're all wearing scissors on the outside the two guys on the right and the left they have guns on their belts they are construction workers now and they have something to tell the islam and both two guys do the daf every single day the guy in the middle and the guy on the right donny and othniel here we go you ready yoshiva guys [Applause] okay you see he's holding his gun yeah why so we have with us a very very special guest he came yesterday very very interesting story he's sitting up front maybe come over here get over here [Applause] i've talked about something else how you doing this is elvis elliot right yes all the way from lithuania grew up in lithuania didn't know he's a jew until he was how old 14 14 years old got a brisbane he came with thomas learns the daf every day with us and now he moved to her mapping i welcome him welcome welcome who else do we have here yeah a new what's his name again um ladylike the right who else is he with your father-in-law who slept too you schlepped your father who got you into the dive he got you into that you got him to do that fifth psycho wow wow wow unbelievable what is okay a bunch of shy people who's your brother-in-law which one that guy okay he gave me the don't even go there okay oh i said these are the two uh i don't know how to call them but the two stars each one has like 300 recruits under his belt you have rafale barber all the way to the right he's the barber of the barbershop who by the way he needs a shidduch if anybody knows he's an unbelievable person shut up the guy to the right the guy all the way on the left is for skyrim levin famous another 300 guy recruiting no picture why no picture oh cause gary's not listening to this okay here we go the guy other than the right is before the barber pairs time levine on the left and of course the sign and you have your niskowitz the guy in the center i do want to point out that the third volume of subas is now shipping that means that if you go to growthisher.com you just bring one more person you don't have to bring 300 plus people like rafaela barbara one person and get a free gemara and that person who you bring gets a freaking mara so i know it sounds old and you guys heard about it but spreading terror or bodyside there's nothing like subus how gishmak is [Applause] by the way spent the whole drive back to muncie after the bell works see i'm reliving the night's events and played it on youtube i'm also sending you a picture of our mr boy finishing guimar to make his first see him in honor of the bar mitzvah he wants to start from the beginning of broadcast with the shirem and continue to make more cumin hopefully the mdy tablet will be available soon instead of youtube by the way one will have to be available symbols by all multi wine rib and family here is the bar mitzvah balker himself making a cms stomach and at bell works that picture about you know the background is not real that's in new york it looks like this here but it's an unbelievable thing yoshi okay [Music] i know i'm not from cats unbelievable thank you thank you we schmoozed yesterday and here he is in live rabbi said the coil is sponsored by abby and rachel kamianski in memory of rachel's mother guitar esther rito should be melissa yoshi on behalf of us and our children the second sponsor of the coil for the month for the success of our family and that we merit to always crown hashem the massachusetts after sponsored by mauland the leadership support and leadership of [Music] okay we'll take two amines michael by melomatic pearl and iron hurst would be something to make do my russia this year and the piranhas the mdy family lily nicholas ezra powell i forgot to say when his father tani said yesterday in the message that he has to make up 10 daf i forgot to say the classic line you don't make up tanda if you jumped today's death i hope he knows about that hashem he'll make up the tanda in honor of my daughter's third birthday may should be to be sanua toyo values mary bentoro and atomic falcon and it does say atomic okay i think it's on purpose dave gelberman then the shamans of my parents you show up in david and my mother siviya bat shmuel and by schmulicas should be a scores for shidduch and a great resolution from moshi islam levin listen to this one my boy said in honor of the hassan of nachman seltzer's daughter two fill in the first name brad man what's his first name naftali brahman the son of the shiva who i know from chicago huh bishop one of the classics of shas many many stories and great lessons to be learned from these gemara's bays we're holding all the way in the bottom some of them and base the last last lie natalie a talmud who's learning torah doesn't have to ask his wife for permission she could go for 30 days to learn torah says the gemara and virtus kama let's see ask permission how long could he go for he says good morning how long common debate because she says six years ago for six years 22 years ago for 22 years says if he doesn't want us yes he got permission from his wife but there's a there's an average there he's doing it on the kejman of somebody else it's not good to meet us to do it so if he doesn't want to get into trouble and not have a head how long omarav it's okay if you go for a month but you have to be home for a month twices points out big question revokiva went for 24 years says tysonviz she convinced him the opposite it's not that he want when a wife convinces it but if you convince your wife even if she says yes you know how it goes sometimes happened to me like i i convinced my wife my sister i convinced my wife to sell our house and finally she said okay and then she was upset at me she still does that so so convincing your wife doesn't mean that she's really masking inside uh that's true story rav how do we know look how very long possible it says when they sold inspired it's talking about there were 12 groups of 24 000 people per group that were working for the king david and it says i love him so you see that it was the sore i love him there were people on top in charge of others vampires you can't just have twenty four thousand people go you need people in charge of twenty four thousand and then it says so the guard is directing those two words what's above iotist coming and going so we're going to learn like this that yes there are 24 000 per group but what what happened was there's so many people if you have 12 groups of 24 000 and only 24 000 worked per month that means each group only worked for one month a year we're trying to prove that you go for a month and come back for a month go from back where do you see it in the past because of these extra words above iotas and it's referring not to the 24 000 that's all the way at the end of the apostle rather it's referring to the beginning of the policy of the sheiter the ones in charge of everybody else they actually went for a month it was a month on a month off work a month off a month and from them for from those people we're learning not from the 24 thousand so you see the idea that you work for a month come back home for a month so to attack them go to base measurement month spend the month with your wife no you have to spend double the amount of time at home one month in base madrid that's already talking about miller he sent out thirty thousand to work in levanine lebanon maybe and it was ten thousand at a time so in other words ten thousand worked for a month but they were home for two months okay they went to work to gather for the besan english says gomorrah of rav that you're supposed to be home for two months when it's possible to to stay home for two months because so many jews wanted to work for the same but tara nobody can learn for you you have to do it yourself so you have to learn from a month come home for a month go back for a month and say stay home for a month why does he say you have to stay home for two months when you work for the king you have a tremendous amount of profit now the idol people adi said they go out they work for months at a time if you're a sheikh for instance you live in arizona pronounce it's tough here so they leave home they go like to europe for four or five months at a time they could earn thirty thousand dollars a month for so it's tremendous some of them earn fifty thousand dollars a month so you have that you tell your wife listen i can make fifty thousand if i'm uh the top of the shelter i do ridiculous whatever it goes like the minimum is thirty thousand a month that's crazy money for over three hundred thousand dollars a year but you can't see your family for four months at a time do you do it or not if you're making 30 000 a month you can fly your wife in yeah you could fly her in and all your kids in the middle of haiti and all of this yeah if you're doing it for that you don't fly anybody in you keep all the money i don't think you're 30 000. yeah yeah okay listen but there's such a thing called harvard if you have so much money you're making that much okay you leave that's why the wife you the wife will tell you yeah go go go for six months just bring back that dough mango of kitsune omarov now another macholicus between rav and bergen there's nothing really to do but interesting thing if you ever notice sometimes in the middle of shir this particular guy i'm not going to say his name he works the cameras every day also let out like oh okay do that again do the uh how do you do it it's not a good idea i'm not gonna stray very scatty goofy shalom remember when he does it especially if you're hearing what's in shabbos it's the standard what's the shabbos so it breaks half of your body you should just know garrison it breaks half of your body muslim is the loins which are positioned halfway in your body do it out of bitterness of them will break your entire body i guess if you do it all the time like we do ah it doesn't do anything in those days whatever it was chanema is talking about the herbes amigos melt your heart every heart viral and all hands will be weak okay the entire body even your your your your knees will will will what turn to water so it's your whole body verb it says halfway through your body it only it breaks half your body mass it starts from your midsection and it goes upwards and downwards destroys your whole body it destroys your whole body what is the only happen to when you hear about the visa mikdash that's a terrible terrible uh hurban the the and that destroys the whole body napoleon said once he saw the jews sitting on tisha above crying he said any nation that could cry fifteen hundred years later guaranteed to come back to you shall i ahu israel says the gemara story there was a jew two of them were walking so he had a trick he remembered her hearing was about the jews and the khurban that they care so much so he threw out hey by the way well what's with your basement mcdoch nugget vietnam he groaned and he sighed the kitzer baffy so his strict work he thought it's going to break his body like the ammar says breaks his body that's if it's a brand new news you tell me that the baseline is just destroyed yesterday yeah oh the shonenbo and this explains also why when we grow and we sigh but if you do it over and over every year we have a tish above and all every day we remember this is a very sad saying a woman la leff in hebrew means to train like you train a dolphin a dog if a person is trained loyaleno a woman who loses a lot of children let's say tay sacks whatever it is the gemara says she's used to it it doesn't hurt her as much as as a woman who loses a child levasso she's not shocked when she when she when she loses another child so too i'm not shocked when you remind me the baseline mcdosh [Music] it's unbelievable it reminds me of american culture which i was part of i remember getting up six o'clock in the morning to minion in that minion that we used to do chris had torah before davening because it's still too early to dive in my sister still i think was it probably that i mean in chicago chris had tired before davening so we could run to work you know hop that subway at seven o'clock to to the city and and and then start your day get valid like seven o'clock come home zong then you get back on the computer and you do your emails and it's joy ma valaila it's like a rat race you're in this uh what is that thing called the wheel listen what the gemara says shove you eat the bread of sorrow why do you have to work the gemara says there's no need for it you could it's almost like the shari chuva you could you could earn the same amount of money the posix says and have the same with less tsar learn torah there's nothing wrong learn that you're not gonna you're not gonna you're not gonna gain anything by going by doing that that that somaliation what's your name michael man michael mann from formerly toronto and now five towns okay give up you know him also hi lauren spiegelman knows every single guy that comes in there lauren's feeling do you also know late toronto all over okay we're holding the basement give his as you did his beloved sleep ryan golinski takes this pausing and he says imagine everybody imagined their ebba let's say for me the villain bresliv whatever it is any if he wrote you a letter he said to my beloved you take that letter and hang it up and show everybody you want to be buried with it hagashbaku calls every single one of us every one of his children but what does it mean he says that in um he says that a person from this possible he says a person should give his himself shayna you should sleep well when you don't sleep well then you don't learn well the the sansa rebel told one of his uh tambien so big mas he said how many hours do you sleep at night he says four he says four mama's butter tower satan says what do you mean how many he says if you're already sleeping four that means that your head is not clear during the day so you might as well also just sleep two and and then be you'll have the same stop the head the whole day anyway see it's bitter tired to sleep only for to sleep so much four elements you're supposed to sleep eight hours last night i'm not doing the tiredness i'm trying to prepare share whatever it takes says gamora you can tell from my mood the snappiness the snappiness the stuff to go i don't give a i gotta get a share out my friend actually a guy came over to us yesterday told her this because he learned it the guy from baltimore i don't even know his name he said he wants to share he says mara says you're going to get a lot of sky by the way okay she said yeah i'm waiting for it i'm waiting for it basically i don't think she got what you were saying i'm waiting for it okay what do you mean okay anyway so the the woman you think okay she what is she no she's a partner with her husband when he doesn't doesn't sleep and he learns a lot of torah she gets this listen with him she shares this question says that says says what she's also yeah she's been out of the chain she's waiting she's waiting for her husband she waits there in other words she says we're talking about he's in the city he's in town where is he already i mean i prepared dinner for him it's already nine o'clock it's already 10 o'clock where is he she keeps on waiting she gets scared for that says good morning so remember the question that's abaya you're talking about tamiya who don't come home at night their wives are waiting away and they come on later than everybody else and you tell me he has enough time for oh you know every day ella marbella it's not the shot like you thought says rashi if you remember we had him here in our musefta was the one i'll remind you in the sugiya that says he should stuff your child like an ox with torah and only punish him when he's 12 so that's he got he got a an eighth from rav don't take the young kids he was a rebbe it was a rebbe you know it reminded me again when i looked it up today it reminded me of what i said yesterday that you stooped the kid when he's younger like uh judith pagrid whatever name is when you fi today the system is different you know let him go whenever he wants to come to show when he's 16 years old he shows up in seoul you know only love love but stop him with torah terror i'll be coming um today and he sleeps well in the in the in the uh shade of his of his mansion about he the he the the king thinks he's a rabbi and haters he doesn't even sharpen him doesn't even ask for for taxes so he has a good life and he's supposed to have a good life because he's a rebbe for children you can't starve you can't say oh i'm fasting i'm attacked today i'm going to fast a couple days you have to be well fed you have to be prepared you have to have good sleep oh somebody like that that's relaxed and he's home at night he's hive every day he also robin omar he goes like those spoiled ones of eric's stroll they eat well they drink well so they're kind of every day riverboat babe have a says he had two slaves that were holding him up if his baby meant to say the uh the he's in the bath house the way it worked those days not rashy doesn't say it here like that rash it says the the water from the bath used to roll over the they had this uh what is it called the pool the um infinity pool and it would come over underneath but i i remember learning that there was like a fire underneath that's how they used to heat it up okay whatever it is but it was hollow underneath the bath and it was on these beams and the whole thing collapsed and he has two slaves holding him holding him up it turns out that he is holding them he grabs them with one arm he grabs two guys with one arm and starts climbing the beam with the other arm that's how strong he was is he got this beam soleil he's going down the stairs have a sample layer of ambi vervassi the to the famous rebounding university holding onto him one from each side he passed the dargo to say the stair collapses solid vasquino he was able to grab both of them and bring them up or save them if you could carry two people like that why do you need two people to hold you i'm hello mk maniac no what am i gonna do for when i'm older this is a little bit different than what we hold today like you're supposed to do a lot of exercise work out so that you have strength when you're older the difference the random says he's supposed to work out when you're younger so you have strength exactly what the shot is not 100 times flying whatever it is vaporized if you're labored your oina is twice a week what do we do tomorrow that says only once a week if you work out of town it's once a week if you're in town twice a week hanging out with shabbos what are you talking about when it's in their city if they live somewhere else after the shop is only once a week ha ha mario makes me shabbos if you're a donkey driver you're a truck driver once a week only rabbit barrage okay so in the mishna you see we have the hammer the gamo the sap on the taiyalim we have all these people a guy that works on a ship once every six months a guy that's on a camel once every 30 days again so but you start off the mishnah the basil says that if a husband makes a nether against his wife and he says i'm gonna not be with you for a week that's it he has to divorce her but a guy that works on a ship once a week a week is nothing so he made a nether for a week he's away from here for six months so obviously the michelle is not talking about a a guy that works on a ship and a guy that's on a camel and a donkey a donkey also a week so because he's one day late that's why he has to get divorced igbo meantime you only talk about two out of the five cases tremendously sad rabbi akulu if a person makes a nether that he's not going to be with his wife for a week even though typically he's away for six months at a time he has to get divorced personally i don't need to eat all day long usually if somebody doesn't remind me to eat i don't eat until dinner you get the morning all of a sudden i'm starving come to show wow i don't know how i'm gonna make it through the day it's pasta salad mom is like that during a fast if you think that you don't have what to eat you get hungry this woman is going to be better if her husband makes a nether against her for a week ah it's usually six months no divorce sponsored in honor of yankee baum and moisha horn and oh sorry yesterday david feinberg said that we skipped 11 lines i said it's impossible it's impossible and you just saw it here's a right i did it it's time to check it out it was on youtube probably there's a skip on youtube yeah you should come live yeah much better what if a guy is away from home usually for a week and he decides hey you can make 30 000 uh a month if you become agamo i want to become a gamble or malay she said could he does he ever choose to do it he writes to isha bakav a woman prefers a small amount of money vertiflos and relations with her husband ma sarah cabin for a lot of money 10 times the salary you're preaching not being with him so no you don't have your shoes a shipmate has what is he of changes only once every six months obviously if you want if he's able to be more that's up to him but it's here what is like a person has to shake a little of a person has he of once every six months now this is very interesting to pay attention there and put if you have a pencil write it in your gemara because the gemara starts off saying as if we're talking about that but we're not talking about that we're talking about tamiya they have the right to go for 30 days without permission and on that digi mario says allah not on has upon him okay just pointing it out yeah but what we're talking about right now is this um here i know from this time for two to three years you think it's a lot it's nothing compared to what the um is going to say in a second that was a minute bush library shows but where's my husband i don't know he left for how long i have no clue he let he doesn't have to ask for sure at least for three years okay retirement because he's late how's that in she loses him entirely what again he has to divorce her if he's late on the nether by day yeah how's that then she loses him completely so how's that well yeah she'll marry somebody else they'll be more attentive they took this halacha of ravadava they leave for two three years without permission says rashi they risked their own lives they risked their nephesh some of them died because of that as the gemara goes on to say [Music] remember used to learn by rava have arrogant story he used to come home once a year on air vm kipper okay so it's the year the year is up his wife is waiting oh finally every year he comes in you keep oh she gets the kids is coming home well he got very involved in learning have a message and his wife was misappas as rashi she was waiting for him she's by the window hashtag is he coming hashtag is he coming also he didn't show up college daito she got depressed sad one tear she shed from her eye says the gemara we have to learn from this have a yosemite girl he was up on the second floor that moment that she shed a tear me to say i'm sorry that moment that you shed it here the the no i have thank you the the ceiling fell in and he died on this diaphragm i said we have some of the most famous mule evidences of all time the most famous one which is the most famous one it's time for hair what's the most famous of claims will have its line of all time or peace one on one is not two exactly 12 plus 12 is not no circumstance a thousand percent 12 plus 12 is not 20. we'll get to that but anyways everybody stole it it's from levitz but let me send it he said a different one he asked the question and it's basically what lauren was asking before but over it's even better the wife who's waiting so much for her husband she's the she lost the most her husband's never coming back now so why did hashem kill the husband to not be nice to your friend is playing with fire if you put your hand in the fire you're going to get burnt what happened to somebody else oh but if i get burned he's going to suffer you're putting your hand in the fire he made a person suffer he got burned he got killed ah the wife is going to suffer even more that's playing with fire he says and it's not ours it doesn't matter we've seen the gemara it's fire yeah yeah yeah when you go into the fire by mistake you know what happens you get punished by that that's exactly the one it's not a pun it's not a dim he says it's it's fire it's fire you you it's a fact it's a fact you you walked into a fire burning house by mistake you didn't hop you're still going to get burned there was a there's a story in the game i forgot who it was there's a story in the game that somebody had a split lip and then the the ton of thought he thought he was smiling at him was that and he killed him he thought he's making fun of him insulting somebody by mistake i shouldn't say this because then it's going to come back to me okay when is his heel reviewed from all the famous gamora mayor of shabazzle special mitzvah on friday night says rashi over here mayor of shabbos it's a time for enjoyment us visa and you take relax i saw i think in the marshall i forgot it was that says on friday night you can't use a candle you can't learn by a candle so tell me the hum have less learning to do they can't learn as much as they typically learn on a on a regular night so that's the visa everybody has the same thing as everybody has a little shabbos for thai nugent that's his that's the only time he's muhly because the rest of the week he's very busy learning it says it says in the past of a tree will give its fruit in its time allah who has relations from friday night to friday night he'll have the children who will give him the yuda the son of had two sons we had it who were his two sons we had yehuda and kriskiya they were twins remember they weren't born on the same day in fact they weren't born in the same month they were born three months apart from each other so yehuda the brave beret the rebecca he was the son-in-law he was learning every friday night every friday evening have also basically come on once once a week you were able to see a flame in front of him he was learning again like before he got involved in his learning and there's a big deal i said this a few times the big illusion berlin who who today has yeshiva i don't want to say his name because it's a little bit embarrassing story he was dominating next to me i don't even know if this has so much to do with this he's not even trying to be next to me in middle school and astray i saw him turn around walked to the bookcase and pulled out a safer and started and then i i don't know if he went back to this one essentially i just remember milton he was so involved in his learning he's a real e-look anyway so he's so involved in his learning forgot that he has to go home they're looking out the window they're looking for the flame no flame no no no sign of that the father says here's a picture in the time of the gemara this is what you had to do by available you take the bed and you flip it upside down you we have to sit shiver for him if he will was alive he has a key of the raisa to be with my daughter and he's not here there's nothing that could stop him from being kind of mitzvah obviously he's dead he says he just said those words you shouldn't speak in vain when you say things like that bad things could happen in fact that that's what killed them we had in our messerta the same exact thing with the daughters of shmuel when shmuel said to his father why should he watch these captured women they're already captured so who cares now and his daughters got captured people saying things that cause people to die right all the time interesting story review with the son of rebecca hi mother i'm sorry for his son to the daughter of river kimoto the myth of tsuba they came mamas to tackle us the cow died on my rebbe so rebbe realized maybe the reason why she died is because it's not a good shadow they don't it's not a good match you see they started looking into the genealogy they figured out review he comes he's a descendant avital is the wife of the male he comes directly from the room which is he comes from the brothers so it doesn't go together malcols and not maples don't go together that's why she was nifty asleep with the break this son this daughter of yours said okay i want to marry him but i want my husband to go learn for 12 years first let's say he's 18 years old from today until he's 30 years old 12 years he just left many once said told me a joke they said uh hasid was very depressed in yeshiva so the receiver asked him why so depressed he said what do you mean why are you still depressed all my friends are getting engaged one after another. you're also engaged you've been engaged for a year and a half already that's how it went back then says camaro 12 years they're going to be engaged for 12 years not get married yet not that they get married and go to you stay like this engaged for 12 years so this is this is not a great idea they brought the kala right in front of the cousin who picks up his eyes he says oh okay oh hello you know what forget the 12 years never yeah i'll go for six years so they say oh six years if one time goes you just chopped six years let's pass her by a second time ah so they passed her by in front of him a second time oh you know what hmm let's just get married today and then i'll go to yeshiva have a commercial he's very embarrassed of what he did from his father on my leg this is also you can learn from every line in the gemara the father instead of yelling at it no you did the right thing you you're acting like hashem me except tv a movie every single day in aussie usher you'll come to your sister i'll tell you hey i'll bring their vista email plant nathia and then you'll you'll plant you'll make a base and make this for me first come terrorist israel but what happened hashem already made it amigos in the midburg clycerol at mountain toyota they're like uh like a husband and a wife right who made a stark super marshall says over here he he they got engaged and hashem said okay let's wait a little bit we'll wait i'll make we'll i'll build the house and i'll just roll then we'll get married and then all of a sudden she says no no let's do it now let's do it in the mishkan so my son don't worry about hashem did the same thing but however after you got married joseph taught us he sat and learned torah for 12 years says a terrible story what yeah yeah yeah of course i'm saying you know i see you here you are you pass in front of me let's get married now so unfortunately because of the the length of time that they were away from each other says rashi if a woman is not with her husband for 10 years she becomes a nakara she became an akara it's 12 years which is i had a shiloh over because we once learned that if but i i saw the marshall actually the because he sticks in a word and it answers my question the we learned that if a woman has her daughter and her husband she has a husband she's thinking about him she doesn't become a nakara so the marshall actually says absol i think that's what he meant that he he says that she was masters from him she like kind of gave up on him and that's what caused him to be of course maybe that's what he says i don't know i ain't shocked oh my rebbe says rebbie has a dilemma here she can't she's and of course she can't have children anymore oh my rebbe i have a problem it's really not nice she waited for my son for 12 years hey hinata what are you doing the garcia you can't divorce or you're mania zulu shimra this poor woman she she waited so long for nothing min really what but it hasn't been kind of miserable what should my son do marry another woman a beautiful thing i think there's a hazard for anybody that doesn't have children there's no issue to be with a wife who can't have children you want to be with a wife who's old and or even an island is it's not there's no issue the banyan says that every single relation that a husband has with a wife even if they don't have a child from it it brings in a shaman to this world that's what he says comes down there's a there's a there's a human being and one day you're going to meet these children that's what he says every single mice that you have brings a child to the world in a way you don't know today you don't know who they are where they are but one day you will meet that's what he says iron jump erase stop well barbara jimmy's quiet for most of this year anybody that made it this far to this year you could let him let her whatever okay so what do you do your resolutions and she was healed she was able to have children says remember these names the son of kakinoi also an amazing amazing classic story in chance gets married you have chevy brachas he says adios i'm not waiting for chevy brock's i got to go back to learn torah begs i want to go back with you imagine if you had uh one gemara one zayard wrote it would sell for uh you know 100 million dollars he's begging just wait for me um chevy broncos i'll be done i'll leave my wife and i'll come back no lawyer actively he didn't wait for a second also you also have trade situation a [Music] it brings this gemara that when you have uh an inspiration you jump on it immediately you go learn entirely that day you don't wait for anybody seven days i don't care if you're tripping i don't care if somebody is going to talk to you in learning the entire way this is actually a mattress that says worked many many years to make up those days to catch up to anyway we have and bring that's where hamstring levels bring that famous story that i said a bunch of times that there was somebody in valajian who did he was the top guy yeshiva and they asked him something and he didn't know he didn't realize it's before tyson's he left the middle of the meal without benching and he learned for seven years so they asked from khan village and did he do the right thing he said no you don't leave before benching however had he waited for benching he wouldn't have had that inspiration the inspiration would have flown away you have the inspiration you leave right now says the gamora not not the sheer who's getting up now says gamora ozao joseph traceration he sat to learn 12 years and showed us points out so what's another seven days on top of 12 years he's going for 12 years so wait your trip will start seven days later vive ravi learn for 12 years he comes back to the city doesn't remember a thing if anybody was a nurse for 12 years you have by the way i drove to your salon yesterday so if anybody didn't drive to your slime in the last week you don't know how to get to your slime brand new tunnel that takes your slime what is going on i'm in the tunnel for five minutes straight so anyways on the one just changed this week anyway so it's called the 16. one turns into the 16. if you haven't been in this area for 12 years you don't even know that there's a one all these things didn't exist 12 years ago he comes to the city he doesn't know how to go also his wife is sitting there sifting the the flower she lifts her eyes up you ever see these things like these people that come home after being in afghanistan for a year they show up the savvy liba para she was so shocked she died on the spot on the phone of rebel shalom this poor woman waited for me for 12 years this is what she gets amazing says joseph tracy schneider you see people used to learn for 12 years without they didn't have pictures of their wives they didn't have phones they didn't have facebook facetime nothing he also omar ben when he came back and said i don't want to scare my wife and kill her aya yasip so he went sat a little bit more in the basement shuffle they say and he sent out that he's here also visaya beret his own son rebel ishaya was a great time with hakam even greater than him sat down next to him and he didn't know that it's his own song have i called so he starts asking him questions his son asked the father comes he saw this guy's a victim he became weak omar he said you have a haka how is that i wish i would have had a son like him he's talking about his own son he didn't realize his own son is a tremendous alive she goes to this house obre his son riverside shows up komkame this is the thomas asked me all these questions in the basement he stood up for his own son who saw our limitations he thought he's coming to ask more questions or like the visuals his own wife says she's already given muslims she just met him now after 12 years why are you standing up in front of your son this is your son because she told him in a nice way that this is the big time of holiness said about this three generations it's the it's a it's a rope that's made out of three ply rope zero vishali benoit srivakram and barbissa barbie but pisa is the grandfather rabbit is the father that marshall points out here hather of shia becomes such a dumb talking because he alert with his grandfather bisa because ben benoit is like a son raboisei tomorrow my favorite story the story that caused me to cry every time i read it have a wonderful day [Music] you