Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 6 by R’ Eli Stefansky

this is my final day on a very long trip for me not going to see it was easy five days in chicago we had a day a hidden day in the five towns then new jersey then a couple days in deal then lakewood and now two days in toronto bar hashem is coming to an end but what a way to finish it right here in toronto had a tremendous time here last night was amazing beautiful beautiful see them i don't know what the numbers are you know the 50 250. 250. 250 people showed up to the backyard here by aj shore and uh the organizers mayor plank and are you blue unbelievable jobs [Applause] another big welcome to morty is there what's he doing there i spoke about him last night but he's moving to toronto he missed this flight of course i want to tell you a mice about him flip the phone off he's not morty is a tremendous graphic designer he's an i.t guy he did he did like i said he did the whole thing he did the whole uh tablet what that's fine oh okay whatever they don't need to see well i'll tell you a quick mice about him we had uh rabithy lewis who used to do our graphic art he was lifting her from covert in his 40s so morty took over and he does the art now morty insisted on not getting paid but that we should pay yeti's family so that's what we do mdy so he's a great um artist and then very talented man so you guys i'm serious you guys are gaining a tremendous amount his wife is i heard one of the biggest most popular schools here in toronto they recruited her so she's a tremendous talent and he's a tremendous town so toronto gained talent anyway subscribe for having me um i found out i learned a new thing today i met two normal ishmaki guys in show today it's hard it's hard to find but they were very normal and i was saddened to learn that even though they watched the shirt every single day they weren't here last night this guy had this excuse you went to this line nothing there are people that don't like to socialize they they feel you know it's hard for me to understand but they get uncomfortable and i told them and i'm going to tell you and anyone who's watching it's not to come to one of these things even if you have social anxiety etc because by you showing up give physique to the next guy the next guy says oh here's another normal guy here's another guy wow it's gabaldo you know and this kind of guy sometimes we have a hasidum they feel like a little uncomfortable and now they're starting to come out in in uh in bell works there's hundreds of hacienda literally hundreds i was so excited to see them so basically we're gonna break all these things the social anxiety that this that come out of other people real quickly here we have a few very very good i don't know if i'm going to get to all these emails i've got a lot of good ones learning with my granddaughter bayless that's why a little bit of a problem didn't have a cloud uh my wife attires earlier organized a zoom shield of meeting with rahul rothman while i attended the scene with sixteen fifty others at bellworks begins here basically there'll be many marriages based on this initiative all the sorts of mdy a big spread in my newspaper the queen's jewish link about the 850 attendees in brooklyn a while back her belly keep up the good work jerry isaac when i went to the lassie machas barclay center to navi i didn't feel that i belong i'm just skipping around a little bit so we could get to the other ones as well i thought about learning the daf on november 14th i was talking to uncle phil and a rough from muncie they both said to me why didn't you try to deaf so i started learning tightness i haven't missed a day that since i have to tell you i was sitting the scene thursday night i was gathering the whole night with the speeches singing dancing and the scene it was an emotional evening for me since i said to myself now i belong now i'm accomplishing something meaningful in my life learning involvements wasn't easy and i didn't miss a day you made it easier to understand you have made learning the daf and experience for me personally that no other magazine could provide i know completing chances with journey for me but i'm up to the challenge i'm 68 years old and i hope to have this close to meet you personally one day and after with you about life in muna and how the young me impacts lives throughout the world thank you for you providing me with thousands of people throughout the world by the way i'm sure arthur ash stadium in queens will be available for next semesters jerry isaac jerry joe rogan listen to this what's his name you're laughing good morning rabbi i want to give you a huge even joe rogan does enough look what he's done joe rogan you can see i don't know if you can see you know i i'll come out of it for a second but he has a list here of all the commerce he's finished which is shauna you masuka pizza tennis tough tough and now he's in the middle of doing subscribers i want to give you a huge thank you i start with you by my content i went backwards from there and started watching so no don't say joe rogan doesn't do that start watching the mars on youtube and now i'm doing brachas and hopefully finish saying the mayans running soon and it's all thanks to you i actually can't thank you enough you're with sadik he says static so maybe maybe it is joe i don't know may god bless you with life till 120 bless you to become have all jews in the world with affirmative me again thank you for dedication learning torah may i bless you 100 million times over do we have this one this one is a very very long one how much time do we have here say it anyway i want to thank you for the matter of my heart i'm going to skip around huge email you see it yeah but you don't see the whole thing where's gonna have to come at the epic event uplifting exciting emotional at the same time due to so many crazy mdy family members i mean crazy awesome it was an experience i've never had standing with my son next to me while it's really goldstein what does it mean uh yeah it's really goldstein was shooting at us there's a moment that'll charge forever that's the not talking about the uh he's talking about the photographer rebelli what are you thinking about giving the mighty father-in-law or you're a pilot skydiving scuba diver scared an occasional biker but now i know that you're a masculine new jersey gorilla a professor during surgery as well i always wondered from where the good morning or boy's side because he has a shot it was when the guy came up woke up from surgery he said uh good morning our boys and then he said have a wonderful day ah okay fine if your voice wasn't confusing enough you made charge that made absolutely no sense you really think justin klein would fall for a five-town woman the ballroom brother would fall for a percolating because the nicest charlotte african me not mean anything devout still scratching my head and finding out what hippo hippo chrissy means and never miss the dawn since mcgill okay i occasionally do mr dave but i turned to 23 minutes off thank you you two for the two times speed 23 minute death i'd like to ask you for a favor if i get pulled over for dwd driving while daffing will you babel will you bail me out now he's seriously going on to a whole nother mode here on a serious note i had a very difficult time life growing up i lost my mother right before my bar mitzvah was severely abused when i was a teenager yeshiva when i was 16 and suffered years of ptsd and attempted suicide and survived i'm mentioning in public so others going through similar struggles should know that falling is not a problem it is possible to get back up and have a wonderful life and the and doing the diet for the rebelli is the best therapy i am living proof as a 47 year old as pastorish to give my age so i won't but rebelli i did not open up for savings until i did she went my young age of 16. 16. so 16 minus 47 is 50 years no is that 30 years a few months ago when one of the biggest scandals broke out in the heart of the world i was triggering so hard i felt behind twenty years of progress magical problems that happened upon a problem with the decline of your share and for reason i cannot explain i decided to join the share maybe it was the freaking mara from the first laugh of mcgill i was hooked it slept me out of a very dark place it not only changed my life and of my family but yeshir also gave me a new purpose in life i can't imagine going forward without mdy for me to make a scene on my fourth messerta is my biggest accomplishment wow boy last night the guy 62 years old first museum ever somebody must have fooled him so that i learned to see obama's easy stuff how do you start with the ibamas but if he did it anybody could do it unbelievable health looking forward to many more this many more years with him to my family today thank you thank you thank you yours truly penny taub staten island new york somebody's going to write me why'd you read penny tales you know the guy's uh nah he said i don't know he is seems like a normal guy never went through a hard time all right i think that's an oh there's another one it's burger i'm gonna have to wait until tomorrow for yours also a very very long one he he says that ever since he's put on this uh t-shirt schweinsteid he hasn't missed a shot of basketball and in fact he caught a few balls during the mets game that's commonly messed up tomorrow yesterday i was talking about the um how the ear has you know liquids equilibrium vertigo somebody sent me yesterday it makes a lot of sense that the word eisen is izun in hebrew means balance and that's why it's called eisen but what's very interesting is that just today i found that from somebody else that there's a big scandal going on nerd stroll that anybody that used aksuba from euphainov i'm saying the name because it's important to know they are missing the word izum in the tsuba so the samsung daily say that the sub is completely puzzled and uh obviously you can't live without exuber so there's something going on right now the word eisen is on that whole thing very interesting sponsors yeah i'm not there yet oh yeah we have to get there here we go sponsors what just happened joe rogan it's rogan get on my thing okay this is a good trick for when i'm on the road now the kylo response is these people are spending nine thousand dollars each to sponsor them and we have according to them for that for my children the second sponsor is jeff rasner is sponsor of the month by the lack of families like new jersey because toyota is the best gula my son asked me somebody without my permission put in the sponsorship for the seam in new jersey for ten thousand dollars beat rebellion for ten minutes did anybody fall for it i said yeah too much here's my sugar number one i don't call him sugar he's a great guy he gave a lot of money to mdy but his sugar that he associated with talking to me i was i was not happy about it but frat that it had to be it was the middle of the scene taking away from other people but we did it he's one of them not going to mention another meshuggano mo landi the sponsor of the week this month week unbelievable i don't think anybody ever did a week michael benchette another giver and uh organizer of the miami hybrid in commemoration of the week of the 10th yard side of rabbi yosef ezeel of the miami community who passed away on thursday at tamos at the young age of 42 represents global following it was mine's version started finished yamiche right before he sniffed her and i continued to learn his memory new showmanship having aliyah also partners of the week i didn't notice that okay and her husband is giving donating savitoro for her first hard sight in honor of the one and only mark ashkenazi's birthday wow sorry sorry aj i'm sorry for my new morning got a new one where is he that's fine don't worry about it i was so excited about mario kashinasi's birthday knocked over my water but we have coffee here they can eat it oh he's the guy that just i just read his email for the entire mdy family valde and lillian schmas rossi rose pass mordechai i saw this today says that when you learn they start like i forgot they just skipped the whole beginning but it brings these two sukim that the beginning of each letter if you learn with the right thoughts you'll have covered but if you have other thoughts came through today believe it or not we're holding where we need to be holding the top of that vote says the immortal we're talking about if the first bill could be on chavez or not so we have very rav amri interesting everybody is biased to don't rebbe she's going no no no no thank you say we're learning then don't worry are you unbelievable mamash made me feel at home running to the store five times to get me this fruit that fruit minimize we're minimizing tomorrow not tomorrow the next year is going to be in the mixed manner basically if we all make our flights over there we don't have to minimize it after this it's just it just happens by itself it goes on the screens and everything's great but they rav on me ramshari rav says it's mother to have first beyond the shabbos now no concerns of khaburo of this of that saucer happens to be pascan not only that whoever's says is me and he's making a huge mistake no reason to be mahmeer we don't have to be concerned about the tsar of a woman adherable ernest chavez the whole thing it's not it's not a issue but that's how we pass it sorry okay so they say it's more of a hakama today any generation to be the maikel to come up with the gold just to be a rabbi and say yeah saucer that's not that's not to say to go through and take responsibility and say this is mutter that's the man you should know that in rav the rave is shiva they said rav was mako and shmuel they said ask him rav shaari raf says do shane is muther so here we have the the classic picture that i got permission all my pictures besides the not i'm talking about from the jewish publications like the art scrolls and yoni and i got specific permission to me to use them so i i believe this is a yoni whatever the shabbos they said what it was he's not making i should say his name or not art scroll are very micro when they use their thing i say you have to say the heritage foundation oh there's a whole lot of you have to say anyway not kidding that's what a rabies ladder always told me sometimes i forget i said arsenal and the island understands but this is not our squirrel this is like a yoni well the point is double chinese he's trying to get his bench from point a to point b he has one thought i need to get it from here to there if i was strong enough i would lift it up and bring it i'm going to drag it now by dragging it you are creating a furrow and a fire is awesome to do especially if you need it now listen to this i'm not going to play you the whole voice message that i played uh arie a mayor this morning i thought it was amazing i left a message to our in-house artist his name is yoshi i said yoshi i'm learning that where it says that this is uh i said looking art scroll um number five in english because that's what he has he has english and if he doesn't understand i want you to understand it perfectly i didn't say those words i said it's a barrel get a barrel that's dripping beer and the guy you plug it up with the shimata and maybe perhaps put a potato head underneath those were my words you could ask them so it's a minute long message if you want to do it you don't want to don't do it you don't have time boise this is what he came up with i think it's phenomenal it makes the surgery that muskie morgan schmuck here it is [Music] that great unbelievable so it's our potato head it's an in-house potato head he looks kind of strong it reminds me of something last night we're not gonna go there like during my river his mouth is open you can see the beer actually dripping off the shemata into his mouth mamash gevaldik so it's awesome to take that shimata that's full of beer and put it into the hole why because what's going to happen you're going to squeeze srita the beer right out of that shimata is it is it humanly possible to take a wet cloth and put into a tight hole and not have water come out of it impossible it's physically impossible so mellow that says rav is awesome says maro so so why why is beerus showing any different you're going to make a kabura you'll be mighty damn how could you do that rav is the one that says that this case the barrel is awesome shouldn't be any different between a barrel and a woman says no this is a special case a barrel the viability like to argue throughout shas over here they come together and they're in agreement there's bad news for everybody for if they're both in agreement it's like robin schmule agreeing to something i buy rather green to something everybody agrees that even shimon who says that you're allowed to schlep a bench even though you're creating a furrow but ratio really almost you're going to cut off the head of an animal is he not going to die so by the barrel since we're going to squeeze it it's 100 percent going to have water squeeze out of it so even shipping holds it's ulcer if one thousand percent you're gonna drag a bench and one thousand percent you're gonna make a furrow which shouldn't hold the saucer it's only because maybe you'll make a photo maybe you won't make a photo i have to be concerned but if you know for a fact you're gonna make you're going to dig on chavez and it's awesome but by a woman it's different why is it different now we have to wait a few minutes but the point is that not 100 is going to be damned by a woman not 100 there's ways to do it without them and then may allah shiva would hold that it's mother and child the love is like a buddha that wants review that says double-shaming dragging a bench on shabbos even if you don't have kavanaugh to make a pharaoh it's awesome um so even forget about separation absolution forget about it it's a hundred percent not a hundred percent by the way here you have a perfect example of subus being chas cotton we're going into the series of chavez or shimin then we just move on to another we're tapping into many sugars and even if you've never looked at the shabbos now we're very familiar what double chinese means picture the bench there's different cases sometimes it's 100 something is 80 but review the holes it doesn't matter what the percentage is even if it's only fifty percent you're gonna make a pharaoh it's awesome so iraf says that allah is like to say that you could be with uh with your wife for the very first time on shabbos lorilam rav you the sirily oh so i did truva this morning i again on the road the hours are different the obligations are different i spent a lot of time doing this for the cm etc something i wanted to do yesterday so you can actually take these charts and use it for yesterday just to show you what chart i want to do yesterday here it is it seems complicated but it's not but basically this is what we learned yesterday i don't know if i can make this larger let's see maybe no hmm no sorry guys we'll go the smaller one but i'll explain to you what you're saying here it's not it's not so super important but red means oscar greens means motor the kimono starts off on top with two options is the dam in like a sack born like that ready to be taken out mela you're not creating a wound you're just taking something out and have all the way at the end of today if a person has a boil and there's pus in the boil it's able to take the pasta out on shabbos it's waiting to be taken out smoker you want to take out blood it's in a bag pocahonta comes out it's not part of the body that's on the right on the left we have a a red one no it's a kaburo so the gemara has it's like uh it's intense and light wire if you say we go to the right now we have two two more options and if we pick another option to the left to the underneath that that's also green that's motor there's another two options and then there's another option that's green and we keep on going until we get to green we go green green green okay or we can take the top option and do the same thing we have okay even if it's also i could wiggle my way and make it green i can get to the green at the end or we start out with green and smoother and just make sure it's a maze wherever i go i'm going to go i have to go to the place that's multi so i can start out green and end up green or i could even start out on the left red but somehow make this act motor okay so how did that work is that understood differently than yesterday okay it's just green and red so because what's your name again robbie posner in the soil yeah he's going to come up here and explain the whole shot i'll come i'll come happily not threatening you okay good what is it called the uh took the what's the lesson you take the bluff he called [Music] so now we're going to go on this one that rav holds like review though so we're going to go we're going to start with the green it the blood is in a bag it's separate from the body so to speak i'm just putting in a very layman's service okay don't ask a doctor is it true it's in a bag now luckily speaking is this this damn separate from regular special dump suleim there just for that purpose it might regenerate and make this and i think it's in a bag literally sitting that that drop of blood is there from the time that the the baby is a day old michael it's a but you're gonna ask me okay if it's in a bag does he want the dam or does he want an opening what is he trying to do and if he wants the opening do we go like ruby huda yes we're going like rebuda but is the opening bad or good see those are the options so now we're going to go to red green green red but even though in red we could come out at the end that it's green it's mutter why because even though i like review though that double chain of scavenge is us sir but if i ruin something i created an opening on chavez that's a terrible thing i don't want to open up my wall in chavez and all those guys gonna do uh snatch and grab whatever they're gonna do without a door i need a door so over here the same thing yes the opening can be great because that helps them out in life it'll have children whatever it is but it's also bad we said this is it sad that it's really bad for her she's not absurd anymore so it's considered kyoko rooting on chavez is a kyoku mekakos even review the halls green it's motor so we started and we ended up with a green so you're asking me how in the world can rav say that the first bia is mutant shabbos he always like to be rudolph that even if you don't have kavon on shabbos it's awesome but at the end of the day if you review those there is a case that it's mother if you don't have kavanaugh and you're ruining that combination of not wanting to do an act and coming out with a terrible act ripping your suit without wanting to do it smoother even going to review them okay now beautiful now let's move to the left start out with a no-no we're going to start out that's kabura it's not we're starting not good we're going to end up even though he's starting out that it's an animal shabbos because you're taking blood fish you're you're the teenager so too you cannot scratch your friend and or cause him a nosebleed punch him in the nose because of the nose bleed because that is bloodletting and jabbas and that's the thesis and trauma you're taking a little bit of the person's traumatic javas is it the right so we're going to say the being with his wife and shabbos is a habura it's a wound awesome but we're going to go all the way down and he did it for hannah and it goes according to even if ruby huda that says that it's also but it's a metalcon now we're at green mcconkel review huda admits that it's motur and that'll give you though fine even shimon at the end of the day actually says that he's going to be admitted to that but even review that the big machiavelli is going to be makel because it's ruling a girl who never saw diamond her life she's between the ages of 12 and 12 and a half it's not the time for that age group we're not talking about in america toronto where they eat all these uh hormones in the meat and everything changed tommy in those days up until 12 was not normal to see dumb so with me law we have a situation that she gets married there's a cult let's call it a sect of even religious people in urges world today they marry off their kids at 12 11. big scandal in israel the the cops came in there two years ago arrested a bunch of people and they try to make huppas when the cops are not watching so oh thing fine it's not going to go into it time to think about it this was normal and the the question is there's them doesn't fight the husband finds them what kind of dumb is it well she's not of age yet so we know we're going to assume that this is damp suleim and there's a huge difference damp doesn't make her tummy now today's we're not going to be making her in his tummy but in in terms of their enzo it's not tommy and then the following day again is dumb and again there's them so what is it well maybe it just coincided with the time that her body creates that so that allah is going to give her four nights freebies will associate the damn so any time this dam because of tashmesh we're going to say that's because of the wound didn't heal and it's from the person says mario gives manily royce when he says but if she's of age she's already 12 and a half and she gets married and then she sees them which she never saw down before in her life but she's of the age she's 20 years old she'll have a nice little light region okay well we'll associate that dumb the coincidence is a poo that's what happened no the dam that she sees now is from nothing else we say shabbos are both layla well let's read the words carefully before we turn the page admonte chavez she has a freebie massive shabbos whoa four days wednesday thursday friday night friday night which is shabbos schmutz shops it says i'm foolish over here the beer is china it's friday night it says you have four nights here no it's alarming not going to get into it really just because there are some that say that one should not push off the beer and show you know some say it's not a problem ask local rabbis my life delayed whatever he whatever didn't happen didn't know what he was doing didn't know how weird so he's already two days in this marriage and this is beerus three days in this marriage it says that it has four days and one of them is shabbos so you see you beerushan can be in chavez there's a problem with shmuel shmuel says you can't he says he could feel with javas so we just turned to the base platform horn when i get there to stroll i'll print it and put it back like i always do that's about pet don't send me an email some guy sent me he didn't mean that admin that's he's the best basketball man he's the best jewish bad okay yeah i don't think he's better than your typical high school guy that's okay fine best jewish basketball player which means nothing really it's for our eagles it means something bamas i didn't talk to myself i was where medetsky's gonna laugh was i was 19 years old i used to dunk then also but not during the game and we wanted to play ball like an avenue z i remember we used to go to northern avenue play over there i didn't remember the names anymore there's a bunch of people playing there we couldn't find the court so we started driving around the car we found the court between the projects managing the projects i don't remember where we were a bunch of guys so we started playing there all of a sudden these guys come out like get off the court so they all look at me because that's the most so i'm like i'm not getting off the card do something about it i think we should get off the car i said we're not getting off the car you get off the court kids are they said you know what then then they had they had respect they said we'll play for it i said you'll play me you guys you're all a bunch of whatever i said the name that you guys we're a bunch of jewish guys we don't know we can't play you i'm telling you mice jaya no i didn't use a bad i just said you know we're we're not african-american we're jewish we can't play they didn't take offense to it they they said you know what i said all you guys could dunk in 360 and all that stuff we don't know we don't know it's not fair they said well my zachariah okay that's my friend horowitz he's there and all these other guys you pick any one of us and he's the only one that could score so we picked the youngest guy we said okay him this kid by himself 11 nothing everything was a dunk everything was allie hoop he's a sugar i'm not i'm not joking two and a half minutes later we were in our cars driving away looking at another court okay so this is the best jewish basketball player go play with that guy yeah okay anyway i can tell you mine's from there tomorrow but you don't want to hear next something tomorrow so oh yeah so sponsored in this course ravindetsky was a rebbe in the hitara today who doesn't play really anymore just against his fourth graders because those are the only kids he could beat and he is the best basketball that have lived and in honor of randa kash by nassano who brought him to the duff zone when it says four days it doesn't mean the beaver shining could be on genres what are you talking about it says two things there's four nights one of those four nights is friday night which is shabbos i'll tell you all no he already had relations with his wife on wednesday night thursday night new weekend commercial so you tell me i would think that maybe he's continuing some sort of continuing to do some sort of damage he might let out a little bit more dam on chavez that's the problem a guy let's say he has opening to a cave he's struggling to get into the cave and he crawls and his head hits the top of the thing and he knocks out a piece of dirt on chavez is that a problem he just widened the cave a little bit mutter that's mother i'm talking about a physical cave opening a physical door it's motor even though he just literally without taking a shovel and digging he did with his head it's water because he didn't have intent to do that he's able to fit it without it and he just winded him by mistake with his with his elbow with his head so mello affirmation measures even though some stones just fell out of the wall same exact thing with his wife i think it would be awesome so mella that's even though the main act was done uh two days before i think it's awesome that's not a problem that is that has no idea it's not sick racial medicine more is going to happen and it's not miscaving so therefore it's more or most of yourself the famous sugar if you ever learned brachas many many of you most of you learn broccolis and this is a famous sookie there master of yosef i gotta yell that you said that there's hardly any mayan you're right this maya there's this shabbos and brachas and everything the famous allah that in the time of the gemara akhasan doesn't have to say krishma why because his mind is occupied with another mitzvah and mitzvah there's a lot to be said over here tyson's on the spot over there talks about what about us we wear titties or in those days they were chilling am i saying that's all israel i don't have to do anything i'm not putting it and i have to shake a little love i don't have to give it to daca wearing tits it's just systisis obviously that's not a good enough reason why because i could do both i'm not tired with it over its turret your brain is occupied with it as we're going to see soon it has to do that he started a mitzvah now yashif says that this applies only to the krishna because krishna is a mitzvah they have to have kavanaugh you have to know what you're saying little of maybe you don't need that much kavanaugh i know i'm shaking a little but i know i'm doing it i don't have to be having every word is that that's what the ashes as a side note there's a lot of side notes here when he was sick and this is so you it happens there's a lot we're middle happened to me yesterday middle of learning in the middle of this and all of a sudden they start diving in what do you do now learning is one allah i happen to be preparing for the sheer and his robin and this net and they started and i had to make a decision am i going to jump up in this this year is going to suffer them fine not going to get into that one that's a very complicated aloha not for everybody but a simple one you're in a hospital you're thinking of a sick person you're whaling a sick guy in a wheelchair you have to die most people they'll drop the wheelchair let the guy roll into the street and run was really upset that people left him as he himself was sick and now elderly they left him to go die of a minion and he said take each person take it to your own thing and ask your local rabbi they said davening is the rabona taking care of a sick person is derisa so you have to know you know you're doing this mitzvot do you drop it to do another mitzvah and i say this all the time about learning you're literally tired do you jump up and run out that's all the call or not so again if somebody else could take that solid call no it's like that guy jumped up a middle shear and he ran away to collect stuck on an arabian def each each case individually but the such a muslim is always about the minimum okay um islam in those days is that the hudson doesn't say krishna what about it nowadays our days it's a guy eva to say oh i don't know about him every class is supposed to say creation why because yeah we don't have one anyway so say creation so let me ask you a question thinking about this question is bothering me why is it in those days in our days we don't have kavon anyways we don't have cavanaugh we don't have come on somebody asked gary to lower it tell him it's not mdy here gary scroyer thank you maybe maybe speak to him please tell him to come listen to this year he's not doing any cameras it's true you know a lot of people a lot of people complain to me they go you talk so slow i'm used to i don't want to have speed then when i run into that and then all of a sudden comes yeah hi come come sit down sit down next to me you have to sit there outside you're we're listening to you actually that's what's happening okay so [Laughter] it's my fault fine so anyway people complain that they're so used to doing one half speed i must talk slow they say okay fine so that's why he is going to probably listen like you said on youtube will be done um where was i oh so today we we have very little kavanaugh we're doing a little bit of a mitzvah do the little mitzvah don't pretend that you're mahaven even though you're tired with your mitzvahs do the tiny mitts of krishmasha so let me ask you a question i think this is a good hop here why is it that in the time of the gemara they said don't say krishma say krishna like the americans say like that they're antonio and say in 2022 mitzvah you in the time of verb say krishma mamish on a very low level without carvana like they did they're going to do 2000 years later and nowadays why not no anybody have a good answer let's see if something's happened to me we have a sitter that's not cavanaugh kavanagh is here not blah blah blah people don't know where they're holding you said i said did i say it i don't remember if i said it did i bench did you bench it takes five minutes supposed to talk to you you don't remember if you betcha nobody knows what they're saying [Music] they spend more time looking if the fingers are lazy but i think i don't know look it up i hear you're saying you might you might might be max in the future i think tell me if what you think about this it's possible who judges us based on what we're capable and and it goes to every individual some some individuals they're not very smart they say to me i'm not very smart a lot of people i don't know i don't have the skills in gemara because bronco judges you based on your skills on your skill level on your background if you don't have a religious background and you struggle reading gemara or you have a religion about you struggle with kimono life doesn't doesn't demand that you should be able to say the entire comma on a trip from here to there in the hybrid bathroom that's not your seiko your sandal is 10 so his demand is going to be 10 daf for him 100 for you 10 or for him 10 and use six lines whatever you're capable mela today we're terrible we don't know how to be none of us so says i demand of you to say krishna with that level of kavanaugh that everywhere we start off strong and then by valhaf hashem we already were already in on vacation we're skiing down the slope then we come back for a minute solving but in those days that they were capable of doom kavanagh for them to do no kavanagh or little kavanaugh as a zero better don't say it don't be like the americans 2 000 years later you have to be like katana you have to say because if you don't have to if i'm going to hold you liable for having don't do it at all but for us that's the best we could do is happy with us for us our little covenant that we have was very happy with almost to the level of maybe i'm just saying maybe to the level we see it a lot throughout that kind of idea if you like it let me know you don't like it also let me know where am i oh so i only made this my you get married on a wednesday so that's like the reason and he's potted from krishna all the way four days later to massachusetts if he's still occupied in his thought whatever he's occupied it seems like from the sugiya he's going to do it the right way is it going to be hataya the whole thing so mela he has four days that he's potter from krishna my love determined by limit his occupation that he has to perform a mitzvah even on shabbos trying to figure out could be a richard b on shabbos or not over here it seems like he could because he's potter on shabbos from saying krishna why is he put on chavez not because he was ready with his wife on wednesday because then he wouldn't be put on chavez it's already passed not because he's on thursday because he's he's occupied because he hasn't been with his wife yet and it's shabbos now and he's still occupied so maybe you see that you're allowed to be with your wife on chavez for the first time the torah deloitte boy his tear though is the fact that he didn't he wasn't becoming a minister so again he's saying no it's oscar maybe the shot is it's awesome chavez and that's why he's occupied it's bothering him why wasn't i with my wife on wednesday and thursday the potter a guy that has some tears on his head he has something weighing heavily on his mind that makes him less obligated to the guy's ship goes down his business goes down so it happens all the time people lose money in the stock market in the morning so he's partner that's it because he's depressed he's pot he doesn't have a job he's out of work potter no it's a special allahu akbar brings to mind this toughest financially the famous famous marshall but i want to tie it into the daf of course the marshall is a guy is on a wooden boat with another 200 people and he goes into his room and he takes out a drill and he starts making a hole in the bottom of the boat because he wants to fish and the boat starts sinking and people knock me on his door and he says be quiet mind your own business i'm in my room they're like no we're all going down we're all in this together right the muscle who says i know probably everything's costly so do clyde israel we're all in it together so you can't tell a guy hey don't tell me not to talk control whatever it's none of your business no we're all in this together it's our ship going down so they may always have to do with the daf you have you have the guys that go around and they save our ship they go around and they make sure that nobody's drilling holes in the rooms by bringing them to the duff bringing tyre into their life huh why why do they go around so your business if i learned tire or not yeah we're all in this together we're rave in zelda okay fine you have this other guy by the way i was thinking i was talking to mayor about this this is the givers and the takers of course everybody in this room are givers but anytime you do a function like this there's the guy that always says i want to do what can i do what can i do here take my house the same guy that gave his house also made all the food right he's a giver his givers this is the guy that's a multi-millionaire and he comes and goes you know i really can't afford the twenty dollars the forty thousand yeah after i could you could do for me and give it to me so i i need six pairs of socks too you know just the tokens the takers i'm serious you see i'm not talking about anybody not here in toronto in other places there's always the guys that take and take and take this guy's a give and give a gift does he take him the guy was drowning mom is drowning so the guy goes he runs over to the shore and says give me your hand then he hopped he's from the other guys he says take my hand oh take my hand and grab on [Laughter] all right something more it's no joke you see these people you don't understand not a dime to show not a dime to joel a guy has 47 nursing homes not one dime to show what you manage but it's a it's a mentality it's a sir mentality anybody's ship that goes down anybody has a business problem anybody has a tear though it's not getting along with his wife that day apart from krishna if you're going to say such a thing because is there anybody in the world that's more tar that has something going on in his mind more than a novel his mind is bogged down he just lost the loved one can't [Music] you have the word fill in mash mad and nobody in the world wears tune because children are a pair fine right right here oh now just thinking about now there's a this is the sheet is that say that anybody that goes to a wedding and don't this is the no don't take this literally but this them in a minute so you're always is missing so you don't have to admire put them in a mitzvah i was just thinking about they say about that's such a nice thing they say he said it he said he never went to any hassan in his life the only one to two khasanas he went to sister's classroom because his mama she felt that he was forced and he went to his wife's casino because he felt that he was forced well i like this crowd this is kashmaki crowd they laugh at everything it's good okay elo morovo this idea that you're allowed to marry a woman who never was married before on shabbos first time he'd be in shock if a guy didn't wasn't with his wife on the first day of marriage in other words what day wednesday night potter is his partner from krishna even on thursday bashani he was with his wife on thursday potter after slishi now his potter even on friday night why because friday night he's he's he's tired about friday night in other words friday night his mother otherwise he wouldn't be thought he wouldn't be potter on slishi which is friday night but he potter the wednesday night thursday night potter there's another prize that says the opposite that on friday night it's awesome to be with your wife for the first time says the good morning through the plea no i'm going to tell you i could be looking i can tell you friday night which is travis awesome to be with your wife but i'm still told with this this mitzvah that i did do and that's a tear though it's a tear of the mitzvah there's a difference between losing money in the stack exchange which i'm torrid or bearing a loved one a very loved one think about the the most loved person in your life burying that person it's not a midsole yeah to bury yes but two days later when you're crying and you can't think about business and you can't think of barracks that's not a mitzvah that's your own emotions you're crying because somebody died okay it's human it's human nature but that doesn't give you a tour from philly and from krishna over here this poor guy is thinking about a mitzvah that's different thinking about how to perform a mitzvah whether he's allowed to do it today or whether he's thinking about how he how he messed up and he didn't do yesterday that's irrelevant he's his concern is a mitzvah for that mitzvah i patted you from doing other medicines because a person is only obligated to concentrate on one minute at a time to concentrate on women and this concentration is about a mitzvah it's not about the younger dalma it's not about paranosal it's about a mitzvah so again the fact that i'm wearing tzitzis and i'm wearing to fill in and i'm shaking a little of doesn't pattern me from krishna because i can do both it's not taking up my mind but when amidst what takes in my mind then i'm potter we discussed and this is the shimmer throughout all of shas and there's a few geshmak like should we review them but this is i think the famous one dover cheney miscavign if you schlep a bench on chavez to make a hole your cavanaugh wants to bring it to another place so here we're going to go without going to the whole thing he holds that it's like it's for zona okay you know going back to this this chart thing is yes if i'm going to drag a bench and it's the softest dirt in the world it's going to create a furrow of course it's also even going through shipment because it's 100 i cannot say that i'm going to cut off this animal's head and expect the animal to live i can't say i'm going to drag this bench from point a to point b and expect the dirt to be smooth when i'm done rna like this is what we're talking about before like hello by william shane bikini toyo i i didn't understand this gemara i mean i still i'm missing something here there's some sort of trick that above elim know and we're talking about unmarried guys how do they know they practice they obviously didn't practice they know how to do a trick not like these guys in bubble the ones that wrote the gemara that don't know about the stuff ella yes bikini toyo there are those the rest of the world to know how to perform the act without creating a wound without any dom in other words the basum will remain so i believe it's it's not a full act it's it's a partial it sits it's how raw whatever it is it's considered the heck but the sun will still be there mk and if he's such a he knows the trick turd lama so what is he thinking about why is he so occupied and why can't he say krishma you're right that's the shannon bucky that's the guy that doesn't know the trick says so they should just say aloha okay if a guy knows the trick he's allowed to be with his wife for the very first time in chavez shannon bucky oscar personally i don't know i'm going through this it's to me it's it's uh it's things literally there's no it's like that first person not on a high level i think everybody that's watching listening it's good that's how the bachelor usually learns you that most of them have no idea what to talking about but if they did it's that it's just throwing that musambi cherry block the also so much says red bikini most people know the trick and they made this mutant shot so we're going to have it later on in a few days in a week whatever remark says that in yehuda that interesting minute the constant and the kawa both had representatives and they put down a white cheat maybe that's where these rumors came from i don't know they put down a sheet and they would check afterwards it was the dam soon so that the hussan can't lie and say i she wasn't absolute now if he's a big bucky then why do you need a representative why do you need a map there's not going to be anything anyways this is still sulliva if the guy pulls off the trick then there's no concern but because she's going to say i'm absolutely because that's what she is and he can't deny that what's going to happen is he's not going to perform the trick he's going to destroy the sulim and then he's going to say she was an absula for that we are concerned and that's why each one sends a representative check the sheet master rami we'll just do two more lines and we finish for today also big suggest and i remember learning this in shiva for weeks i don't know weeks days upon days this these lines right here hamapis murasa bashabas if somebody has a boil and the boil is full of paws and he pokes you know some people have to zit put a little needle in it poke the pus out of holy army yeshiva [Music] you can just see the havarusa going yeah lapis move some showers look if i take the needle and i didn't warm it up first it could be an infection but i do i boil it further i go like this if he's just making an opening because he figures he'll poke a hole in it it'll be a nice hole and whatever pause whatever ziti has in there will lose after the next two days that's awesome he's creating a nice opening for he wants is the pus potter oh so the question is if the dam is miff got pocketed like maybe in this case it smells like a zit you have dam that's in some sort of bubble somewhere your ladder remove pus from a bubble so you should be allowed to remove blood from a bubble that's what you're telling me it is it's not part of the blood flow of the body it's something special from pseudomoney so what's the difference why do you tell me that it's awesome to be where ellen chavez says some pocket vodka when you have a boil the the pus or whatever you want to call it what is it called an english plus is okay the pus is 100 separate from the body it's not part of the body ha ha here over here the the dom is part it's connected to the walls it's it's part it's still it's it's separate yet it's attached so since it's attached you you're taking you're taking away from the body a little bit that's the problem boise have a wonderful day we'll see you basil hashem from eric cistrol thank you so much for hosting me thank you and don't forget to bring your friends in with toro have a great day describe gary for coming with me driving with me from baltimore to new york being part of the tech you