Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 59 by R’ Eli Stefansky

today is the last day that yaakov rasner is going to be traveling from to the sheer which he does every single day so i want to say it says you should come back isn't the hate how long for half a year he's not leaving our just role he got a job out of retirement hey come come get over here for a second [Music] we're going to miss your vacco we're going to miss you she's going for coming what a it's unbelievable every single day to get on a bus two buses to get here so yeah a lot of people derebelli i'm starting a new job for half a year although i'll miss immensely coming every day to mdy i'll still be able to watch and zoom i'll always have what i'm going to skip all the schwakem okay i'll always have what to look forward to each morning before i go to work he's going to do the zoom share before we're killing the good work showing that only turn off is the way to go as hard as we all work let's think about all the hard work the other hevr and the sheer do to prepare the deaf and everyone behind the scenes to keep the dive going i kept myself out they all deserve a big round of applause subscribe to all so we're going to miss you wow what a picture of boys i recently got a friend started mdy i know he's hooked because he's just admitted for surgery emergencies back surgery and sent me this picture for understanding the surgery seems to have gone well you'll not want his name advertised but please dive for four slam officers dla piper canada all i right know this is probably the first time i'm showing toes and shear good morning this somebody sent me tonight it was a comment on youtube good morning tomorrow marks a year since i joined this year after not learning for 40 years i joined because of my brother who was a big daft guy and was nifter from covid while i have not become rich lol i've enjoyed your share tremendously i i disagree he has become rich he just doesn't cop rich different types of rich enjoy this tremendously i want to thank you lenny you brooklyn new york here we have some kids saying good morning let's see if we can get the volume to work today it's my computer's messed up a little bit [Music] never gets old never get sold okay i write these words as i sit in my car outside what would seem to be an ordering nice from home with a nice firm family kosher kitchen walls of family pictures bookings full of sparkly nice from home like yours mine or anyone else is reading and listening to this letter the only difference is that moments ago i was inside this ordinary home in fairlawn new jersey it was packed with many special people some mdy people one phone ring to the tune of good morning rabbi sai that i've come to dive in this ordinary family i said this email already what is he screaming over there guys that has just lost the young boy that you posted a picture of yesterday we've always been taught not to question hashem and ask why but i wonder if we are all ordinary nights from people does hashem discriminate how does 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bergensville oh brigham field yeah okay i got it so robbie sussman is a very very good friend of mine he lives right across from the base of madrid he's the one that's responsible of me getting a dog for tv but that passes over i guess the same day opened as yeshiva the dog went it was like one of those so he opened up yeshiva that's for very very good guys you see these guys normal looking acting normal yoshimoki guys start off on the right foot with like 25 guys it's like a competition to tc and america as well as you shoot is unbelievable so welcome all right who else charlotte ellie from ellie goldstein burgerfield new jersey three blocks away but not related not related who's next to you what's no not you i know who you are okay any other guests huh victor levinson from manchester scotland and manchester manchester there's a lot of matches guys also unbelievable said should come to manchester united yeah i should just go to london and have you mention some guys drive in it's not this okay we gotta come to matches there it's we started from manchester the first kabura was manchester the first offline kabura yeah okay the only jew left there moved to manchester okay fine the boys we're holding on with base like ten lines from the bottom two four six eight ten lines from the bottom okay so there are two things going on if you look at this chair for a second stop the review a little bit there's something called maisiodime that a woman earns money with her handiwork and there's something called mysar anything in addition to the mice adayam is moiser the extra maisie dying a woman must produce five salim a week worth of needlework okay that's what she has to produce anything above that is weiser she produces six so the six seller is miso instead of maisie die because the husband gets her maisi dying whatever she earns goes to the husband so he has to provide her with mizonas we're going to see there's a opposing shita and because he gets the extra he also has to provide her with allowance money called the ma kasif okay those are the two things maisie a daim and moysar for one he gets he has to provide mazinus for the other since he gets two things he gets the red and the green he receives from the wife he receives her salary and receives the extra money in addition to the five seller so he has to give her two things he has to give her mozilla's has to feed her and he has to and he also has to provide her with some spending money more questions says the gemaras we learned in the mission if a husband says that the extra seller whatever it is anything above and beyond the mighty dime becomes hectic should go to the baseline so if he says it under my seat i am nothing and it's talking about a case of any uh any uh what's the lotion ain't in his owner's many i saw he has the ability to support her but he doesn't feel like it okay went through that so good yesterday but now a second case rashi in the mission says it's a different case nothing to do with the maison he just says forget the mice you're dying for now he says i want to take whatever extra money it is that she earns above the five cell i want to take that and give it to the basement the mayor says it's why because ramirez a person could take something that doesn't exist in this world and make it hagdish even though it's something in the future yeah just not a funny joke i don't want to it's actually not a good joke but just to las saber size and to understand i said this once before and nobody left i'm going to say it again always going to don't laugh it's not because it's not funny but there was a father said to his children he's going to buy a car so the children started fighting who's going to sit next to the window and the window this guy said the window that guy said no father you know what both of you out of the car in other words it's not even here the car isn't here what are you fighting about just like it's not here i can't throw you out of the car and you can't fight about the car both are not but over here i'm going to take something that doesn't exist your handiwork your salary that you didn't even work for yet i'm going to be making sure the base of mcdonald's you're going through mayor works now the water says kadesh when when does it happen what is it so the both of the opinion that the extra is only once she dies why because it's not his to give away it's not his you thought by the way i'm serious i'm not joking i was go and the way here i was going to say if i see you here i'm going to say why did you come so early what was wrong with you hashem you didn't you missed you missed cut just a couple of lines so if it only works it's like to stuck me he we used to play basketball together so what does he do tonight he goes plays basketball then he comes to this year mamas leg la rush unbelievable [Music] so [Music] rav and small both say and very few times they agree with each other but when they do agree it's not his to give away so we have to wait until she dies if she dies then it becomes his but right today it's not his or these the sexual money mikhail khan is to give away so it happens today you don't have to wait for it to die and today it's college what is the case um if you can see this chart right over here both the missionaries on both the marquez have he paid up he gives her food he gives her allowance everything is good so everything is his then he should get the mighty dime he should also get the moisture so if so we have to understand my type of demand then why is it that he doesn't own it then we have to wait until she dies it should be his today he he paid up what he needs to pay so if he paid up what he needs to pay he gave him somebody so immediately that her salary and everything else should be his the ella chaim allen is but if you go to the next chart there's two x's he didn't give him his zionist and he didn't give her allowance nothing so then he has no stress on it it's not his if it's not his now we have to understand the others [Music] so then we have to understand why should it be his that it's his immediately now today says another case the messiness he's good about he gives her food he wants to make sure she doesn't starve from starvation doesn't die from starvation she gives her residues allowance has a different story it doesn't give her allowance mm-hmm what so the mice are now we have a shiloh what's the story with the bison he he he pays he does half of his obligation so ravishmal savory [Music] just like this chart the messiah nice is because he receives her salary the five the five seller he receives and therefore he gives him a zionist umak sf takas meisser mama is like this child right over here or you could go to the next one if you want raven small hold messiness is four maison mall casif is for the moisture the kevin du lac law mark hessef since he didn't pay her the ma he didn't give her the allowance myself makes a lot of sense he only did his obligation on his zyna so he gets the salary the extra money above the salary the six six seven eight any seller above five that he doesn't deserve why because he didn't fill his second obligation was just the giver spending money the market however about about a server now take a look at the chart right boys if you're new to the share don't guess it's unbelievable technology check this out oh the messiness is for the micer the ma is for the maisie dime this is switcheroo oh and what is it talking about that he gave her messiah nice but he didn't give him i see a dying ah so he deserves what does he deserve in this case since he gave him a zionist he deserves the extra it says today and if it says today he makes it hectic that she becomes texas right now rav and schmuel say he doesn't deserve it because he didn't give her ma kassef so if he makes it like this today it's nothing he has to wait until she dies simple answer now the question is if you were to think about it what do you think a husband deserves for giving his wife hundreds of dollars of food a week should he get her salary the main salary or she should he get the extra the moisture above her salary so that's actually the machis here what makes more sense so what's the sparta this word that way rather than um voice of the day having since he paid her the mosiness and from his zionists he gets the extra that's what it says and it's today but my camera i believe what's the the logic here what's the sorrow matters of our media we have this for a number of times what's very common very common is that people eat food that's very common every day all the time and what's also common that people have a normal salary so you take something that's normal messiness and for giving for getting the mice diamond gives him a zionist what's a little bit rare to have extra above the salary that's mice are and what's even more rare to give a woman credit card spending money go do whatever you want so those two things that are not so common they go together and the common goes together that's one smart microsoft immediately guides me to the kites and the other availability is no messianes i don't know something that's here let's go back to rav aadhaa here messiah nice goes instead of the miser ma kesev goes instead of myself because something that's that's the same amount this is the amount the mice adayam and the malcasif i get mazinus i don't know how much a woman eats every woman is differently depends if she if she's hungry not hungry whatever it is the type of person type of jean she has ma kesev is a mod cast of every every week i have to give this amount one more in addition and what do i get i get him i see a die my diamond is five seller five sell a week so it's always the same amount five seller and he gives one more so it's there's a constant there's a cayetz here this would be a question on this chart right over here what is it what does rava say mesonis is for moisture what is saying this bryce and before is the opposite mesoides is instead of myceodione not moisture so we have to fix it a little bit emo tacos moisture there doesn't mean moisture it means the the addition to the micellar diet okay a little bit of a fix toshima you may know you know he said if he doesn't provide her with the spending money literacy of their shallow what does it say over here like this chart right over here if he doesn't provide her the mark hessef then he doesn't deserve the mice you die then it goes to her in other words maisy him is instead of the mahakasa liker of adam and not like raven shmuel emma shalom they made a whatever is in addition to the mice dying that goes to her this is my nice try it's it's sometimes when you have a track you stick in another word but over here it doesn't make sense to say that we're talking about the extra in addition to the mice you die why well look honey right there it says isolate how much does she earn it doesn't talk about the moysar the additional salary it's all about the basic the base salary which is mishka from islam the chassis right hold on oy i don't want to ruin this one here okay so here's a guy that's doing arrigo so the chassis and his ayrev there's here you can see this chart a little bit better you'll see chassis is the stationary threads that don't move the aeriv is the one that goes back and forth through the stationary that's a thicker thread so chassis is thinner and it stays stationary so you go back to this picture the red and green long strings that go from pole to pole that's just chassis they don't move they go up and down a little bit but they don't move he takes this uh the who shuttle thank you yeah okay the shuttle whatever and he he puts it back and forth on the seat great oh my wow you don't have to leave for that joseph he's making majora great now mice is there come and have it okay you see that we're not talking about the mice we're talking about the base the hummus slime huh that's exactly what we're going to answer hungry how do you calculate the moisture yeah we are talking about the moisture but you just said but we're trying to say the base yeah we have to know what the base is in order to get to the mice are what is above the base how you got them i see they'll come and have it delayed word for word what you just said okay because it's double the amount of money and go okay fight so you need double but it's not really double it's just double the amount so that you get the the same value in dollars okay until now we're talking about cheetah's ribbon ribby mayor holds other machine learning great that if somebody's mocked this to myself the extra salary above the five sella or the tencella in dollar it doesn't work why lloyd baloilo it's not in the world and says we pass an assembler that you don't have the right to donate something that doesn't exist yet [Music] she says i'm making another kind of it's like the lotion of carbon making a net there you cannot benefit from anything i do says the mishnah and it's a joke the tiny comment says i'm not concerned i did it the wrong way but okay here we have three sheathers here yeah i want to see these three sheathers yeah three sheathers tanakama says no concern if the woman says on top um from anything i do i don't have to make avatars in the door of afar why she has no right it's not hers who who owns her her handiwork who owns her salary the husband so she can't say on something that's not hers great next we don't want the cheetah ruby kevo amer it's a good idea that he should annul her nether shema tadif allah of yes what is that called hadafa it's on the blue rubber says you should do afar darim for the hadafa why yes you own the five seller what if she earns more money what if she's a lawyer whatever it is anything above five sella you don't really deserve and mellow she has the right to make another on it and say i'm not letting you touch my stuff so you should make a tarzan right away should be made for another omar yoffer he also agrees to rekiva you should do afaro even on the five seller forget about the extra even on the base chevy garciano with a sewer lobster what if he divorces her and then her nether comes into effect why does it come into effect because he's no longer in charge of her salary and then he won't be able to marry her ever again why can't he marry her because you can't marry a woman who can't cook for you and can't clean for you and can do anything for you says ration every basic thing is going to be also to you so you might as well be made for the nether right now inshallah israel but isn't that something in the future that's something in the future nevertheless we just said holds that a person cannot be marked as something in the future says that is right because of something in the future says this is one of the strangest answers in chats maybe it makes no sense at all rashi says it makes them not me rashi points out it makes no sense haddafa anything above the salary is also dalai balalam yet the gemara has better questions than that it's almost like uh the gemara was throwing something out there let's let's see why this is so bad first of all hadafa look at this chart what does rebecca say in the center you have to do afar because of hadafa he already said it so what is saying allah is like red because of blue it makes no sense digimon asks just say straight out that looks like you're writing when it comes to adapha that's question number one enamel it's much it's right there in the gemara the the rev says he even says the words shmuel explains he's also talking about adafa it's a lot okay i'm not going to claim that i understand this a thousand percent i'll do the best i can i'm not sure that the spars are there some want to say that they are equal these fars but okay here it goes let's just see this one here we go okay reuven we're only going to be talking about reuven from the perspective of ruvik reuven could say that shimon who's on top reuben on the bottom bottom right rouvain has the right to say whatever shiman owns i'm answering myself okay there's something called kainan something called hagdish hagdish is a general rule if i take my animal i say this is hagdish i want to make it a carbon for hashem so the entire world is also on this carbon of comes and says i have the right to make one thing awesome i could take shimon's fruit and make it awesome myself nobody in the world is awesome do it besides myself i have the right because it's me i myself to say i'm not going to eat shimon's apple okay i think mars says because i have that right so my melo i also have the right to be magdesh davish which we have to understand how what's the connection exactly even though in other words mars is saying like this even though those fruit are not mine i have nothing to do with that fruit i don't own that fruit yet i have the ability to say that the fruit is also on me you can make something else are you if you own it you don't even own it okay i'm saying reuben is saying i don't i'm not going to go to shipments house i need this food but you don't own chimes food how could you make an in something that's not yours it's if you think about it so i'm i could take something i don't own and say it's us around me so manmela we gotta schlep it a little bit and say oh even if it doesn't exist in the world i can make it awesome okay uh somebody tells us rebbe mamish it doesn't make sense bish lama adam oyster perez caverio love i can understand that i have the right and the ability to take something i don't own and make it also myself why chicane adam is here look at this this is the same thing but in reverse if i reuvet has the right to say my fruit which i do own you should not benefit from so therefore i could stretch that and say your fruit that i don't own should be also on me if i can take my fruit that i do own and make it also on you so i'm going to take your fruit that i don't own and make it also myself it's the reverse reverse okay i can see if one thing works i'll do it in the reverse also says abaya but what you're saying is not the reverse what you're saying is a whole different story what you're saying is two steps removed there's two steps here we're talking about a woman who's talking about her salary so first of all her salary is not hers whose who owns her salary her husband so it's not even her it's like in this case shimon it's not reuven's pay raise it's shipment's pears and another problem is it's not even now it's not even we didn't even get there yet it's tomorrow first of all it's not hers and second of all we're not there it's in the future so that's similar says abaya to reuven saying that levy the husset from muncie is not allowed to eat shimon's payrolls he has no connection here first of all it's not his second of all he has no right it's not it's not his fruit and it's not the person it's just like our case over here you want to say that she could ask her something that she doesn't own and in the future that's two steps removed that's two no-no's two bads over here it's also in this case shimon and levy are two things that are going wrong here hello brother yeshua okay so that's a difficult part go back and learn more all right so we have to say something that we already said before we're talking about a case where she's talking about the present right now her hands are available her hands are right there i'm making my hands coddlish they should become hagdish her hands are hers it's his back and it's her body who said it's on her her handiwork is not hers but her hands are hers nobody owns her hands besides her what comes out of the hands oh but maybe the marble has something her hands are here it's not the future it's not her a future salary she is making her hands call this even though she didn't say but that's what she meant says how does she have the right to do that homie shabdali you're right the hands are hers but how does she have the right to say that her hand should be hegdesh when her hands the handiwork that comes out of her hands are kaddish for instance if i own a slave and i give you my slave as collateral could i go ahead and say that that slave is hagnish do i have a right to do that now i'm going to ruin it your collateral's gone do i have the right the answer is yes we'll make immediately like cottage like i make another question is there something no sorry government i jumped talking about she says when you're right i'm not going to make them my hands call this right now this minute i'm going to make my hands kadaish when we get divorced in other words right now she doesn't have the right to make her hand scottish why because they're already obligated they're already mistreated to her husband any handiwork that comes out of it is her husband so today it's her body she'll do whatever she wants but she can't do whatever she wants because she said that anything that she she made a deal with her husband that all her salary anything she does with her hand she's going to make wool she can make clothing and all that goes to us and she doesn't have the right to to get rid of her hands umik immediately is this such a thing that right now today she doesn't have the right to be marked as your hands but tomorrow when she gets divorced she does have the right and therefore she'll do it today there is such a thing as if a person says this friend here's a field i am going to sell it to you but right now it's mine and when i repurchase it i buy it back from you you know what's going on here there's two steps here first right now it's today it's three steps today it's mine i am going to sell it to you tomorrow and as i sell to you i'm going to buy from you back and then i'm going to make it egg dish me like kacho it works so well the gemara asked the obvious question master will already hear me dummy there's no connection awesome beyond like the show today right before he sells it magdish so therefore when he says i'm going to be mocked this after i sell to you when i buy it back from you he has the right to do that today because right now he could be magnificently avoiding all those steps how can be under the guard but this woman doesn't have the right to divorce herself i'll tell you what it's similar to the field that i already sold to you not the one i'm going to sell to you the one i'm going to i sold already so it's not it's similar to this case but it doesn't work muscular rep over there when he sold the field what happened the everything is owned by the purchaser but over here her hands are belong to her holy damn yo similar to a different case [Music] by the way just the heads up we're going into some very geshmakagatas tomorrow the after it's good stuff don't get too depressed here this field i gave you as a masculine what's a masculine interesting it's not so popular today but i give you a field let's say you lend me a thousand dollars i give you a field i say you use every single month you use 100 worth of fruit from my field eventually after 10 months you ate a thousand dollars worth of fruit then you give me back the field and there's no more alone so i gave you a mushroom that you could use so this mashken is interesting who who owns the masjid the owner still owned the guy that borrowed the money still owns the field but the guy that lent the money he's using the field for paris right now so he tells him when i redeem it from you then it's going to be kadosh dikacho again what's the connection he could redeem it at any given time again reuben gives shimon a field in return shipment gives him a thousand dollars but it's not shimon's field it's there until he pays it off but says the kumari could pay it off at any moment how can be other guys this woman can't divorce herself any any moment she wants holy damian it's similar ella merlot again we're going through this exercise let's see what it's most similar to went through a bunch of cases finally also not a good example why because over here it's 10 years it's for 10 years and after 10 years when i get when i when i redeem it then it's going to become cuddage and it works the gotcha masarashi midami also is not similar hustlers astronomy will be able to daisa he has ten years he could redeem it how can we be other than garcias a woman can never divorce herself ten years in the ten years after they oh rabashi he asked me a question on a koinon on somebody making a net there again something shiny canopus okay this is this glitches mama caught them going through a lot of different things today huh yeah guys are the sponsors hold on let's just finish this this is that goof means there's two type i have two sheep one sheep i give to the basement as a carbon that's a goof thing the entire animal is inherently cottage there's nothing you can do about it you can't give a hundred dollars a piece i made those and take the sheep back but sometimes i get dude this is dumb i say this shape should be for the better combines of the basement not for a car but not for the misbehave but just that the base of mikdash they should have money i don't have cash so i give the base something this is sheep anybody could come along and give the base something this cash and take the sheep home and eat the sheep when i say kainam it's a goof my hands become there's nothing to do you can't redeem it there's nothing it becomes one part with the vasa meghdosh now ukudirava so finally kumar says so strong when i say that my hands are kaddus when i say anything is cottage there's nothing to do about it it's a goner so let's say a person gave somebody something as uh collateral then he makes it hagdish that's it it's so the collateral is gone i the collaterals of my house and he promised me that doesn't matter the owner said that that animal should become magnus and the story same thing with redeeming a slave i give you my slave i guess i said this is a collateral i owe a thousand this guy's worth at least a thousand dollars and then i go i'm a tricky guy i go and i i set him free your collateral went down the window yeah you can't say oh he's not free anymore he's free you get nothing comments also if i give a guy a guy lends me a thousand dollars i say this pile of hummus right here is it in a particular you could come and collect from this comet and then pesach comes and goes so it's common travel of pesa god gets nothing what if i give the guy the whole pile of comments that's different that's a mishna that says it works but over here we're talking about he didn't give him the pile he just said he'd come collect from here and now it's worthless the guy can't say well there's no such thing as pesach the thing is it's too late what [Music] you so if that's the case she made her hands egg dish so let them be hot right now right now did it in a way that she can't make it act it still remains the husbands but as soon as she she's gone then he's gone then it becomes rabbana decided how to what point it should work and what point it shouldn't work and this story okay branu sugiya the official mission sponsor oh i didn't do the okay definitely sponsored in honor of yankee bam and moishe horn and to finish learning chats with the rebellion the official mishnah sponsored by michigan for limitless this are things tonight mums tonight after abdullah i called up one of the guys on coil yuck i said uh you got any good stuff on today's daf anything you know i'm sorry i'm busy speed up uh he needs to go gary has to go home where do you have to go gary you tell me yes i have okay don't don't save your adam okay fine so he tells me bizarre lawson i'm not joking is he really playing basketball nice to show you say you lied to me no he said i'm i'm busy i'm cleaning the house i said you're ever on the mishna so he says oh now you have something to say great so i'm saying it these are the things that a wife is to do for her husband seven things she grinds the flower it's not a simple thing you have to grind the fifa she has to bake um habessas and she also does the laundry milva chalice and she cooks royce i want to give you for my personal i'm very good at challenge and everything so i learned very quickly do not criticize your wife's food but what i do is my own personal trick is so i'll say listen i like the burnt part of your food a lot more than the frozen part that sometimes that goes over very well [Music] now my wife is unbelievable cook unfortunately for me so i gain weight like crazy me vachellas she has to cook um this is interesting it's her own kid but that's her kiev to you sometimes you can force her to to nurse the baby i'm gonna have a whole suggest about nursing and how it works and everything else mataras she makes his bed voice about simmer you know i told you this that uh we had this ushami uh family they lost their mother so i had the family over for schwoes and my wife made crazy food you know four types of meat three types of fish the whole thing so after the meal i went over to these kids i saw they were like they've never seen anything like it and the whole the corn the flowers my wife goes to the sugar so i asked the kids i said what was your favorite part of the meal they said the cartoflex it's the potatoes they like the potatoes all the meat all the fish garnish the potatoes anyways i asked my son my 12 year old i said what do you like about the sapphire what was your what was the highlight of the trip i thought he's going to say you know the lion eating the zebra he says oh i went to the hotel at night they they put a hot water bottle underneath the blanket that was cops that's why he came back from the safari that was his thing no it's like that they make the bed nicely they put a hot water well you know it's a little chilly at night so you're nice and warm okay the voice of a temer second best thing second best thing he tells me in the bathroom they had this massive heater which he he heated up i said we also have one here and there's australia no really yeah you just push that button and nobody ever used it but yeah like ah okay every bathroom in israel has that no those heaters that do whatever that'd be quiet says yeah it's not a joke you buy a kid a present like your two-year-old kid a present and then he plays with the box instead of the toy that's the should have left that kid at home why is it sammer and she has to make the wall it gets a lot of jobs she provides him with one servant she doesn't have to do loiterines she gets to get rid of three of her jobs stay him she brings in two slaves amy barcelos banal she doesn't even have to nurse the kid let the slave do it she doesn't have to cook charlotte if she brings in three servants ain't matassa if there's three she doesn't even have to make a bed and she doesn't have to make the temer however because it says if she brings in four then but until four sh we already got rid of all the jobs says rashi but you'd still have to go fetch some stuff for her husband he brings in all the dough so she once in a while goes get something for him arba yo cheves vicaderio picadero she could sit on a like a rocking chair and go to sleep now my boys are going back to the safari i didn't know what this means until i was in south africa nice to show you i was in leon welch's house about to give a share on friday afternoon right before shabbos setting everything up so i came with lights this time i came with lighting because it wasn't so good the last time so i go to plug it in goes no no no no like what avi guy comes flying out of the kitchen takes the i'm not joking takes the thing plugs it in i'm like we'll just i what you know how to plug things in no no that's he plugs things in that's i'm not joking anybody been in south africa am i exaggerating stickel uh that's leon is going to kill me i'm serious it's a true story he did not let me plug it in you actually look at that that's what it means sitting twiddling your thumbs you can't even plug something into the outlet that somebody else does that's the fourth check okay even if a person brings in a hundred koi philosophies with semmer she must do something why shabbat allah mavio de zima it causes terrible things when a person is bored and not doing anything if a person tells his wife i don't allow you to do anything tv thinks of divorce boredom says rashi border means she going person comes crazy you could i didn't do the research i should have didn't have time but people that are retired they usually don't last very long when you don't do anything with your life you sit around and you do shaman what are you looking at father-in-law for [Music] he's busy he doesn't dab he's studying this he's missing the whole thing he's staring at you go back to the video tape see if he didn't look at him okay you go off here you need everybody needs to do something work daf whatever it is learn the language right learn a language i don't know what but be busy with something says rashi look at this here's the picture not this where am i not this slow not that going forwards i'm oh this is so if this is how you grind wheat you put the weed on the thing that the little circle inside the water comes down it spins the thing so what is she doing she's not she's not grinding she's overseeing the whole thing oh you're right it's not it's not a water mill it's a hand mill here you take the two stones you see them all over this row you pick one up you put the the grain in there and you do it by hand so yeah it is physical says don't tell this stuff to your wife this is not good for women to hear a woman you don't want to work have your wife work hard because you have to make sure that she remains beautiful no hard work any shadow of the ivy it says here tyson points out that's most of the stuff they're cleaning and then washing and this and that she shouldn't do there's a whole need then i'm not joking here that the person i saw a whole thing today person has to be try to get his kids beautiful wives they shouldn't be initial on any surum and you have to make sure that they stay beautiful but sameer says taiswas that she could still do it's not going to be makrish lebanon she has another job to bring children to the world another issue this is terrible this for sure don't tell your wives be busy buying your wife jewelry again so that it has to do with the beauty the person should be into his wife right if he wants that to brighten up his wife he'll be shannon clay pistol and he should give her a good nice linen clothing all right since yalvin is bitto if he wants his daughter should be a little uh whiter or whatever she is little chicks if you have and give her milk some of the pirikova before she becomes 12. fine um this is this is a common thing actually women right have to give birth they have a hard time a lot of them have a hard time nursing they could throw out a schwa i'm never going to nurse this baby neither i'm not going to nurse this baby so besides she could stop nursing him hillary for me they still hold she has no right to say those words just like she doesn't have a right to say uh you don't get my salary uh my salary is called that she doesn't have a right to say i'm not going to nurse my kid it's not up to her it's her husband it's part of the mishna si si the beshamai argue with our mishna which i'm going to hold she does have the right so then it's not one of the things she's included to her husband now this guy show inaudible once the divorce the husband can't force her to nurse the baby now you have to understand we keep on saying this but in the time of the command there's no formula so if a kid didn't nurse chances are he's not going to survive there's ways to do it eggs and stuff but it's not not very geshmak the way to do it is to get another woman the surrogate the whole thing okay what is it called witness whoa close call but good [Laughter] if the baby recognizes the mother now it's all over i know of babies that recognize the mother like young kids like even three month olds that recognize the mother they won't take a battle they won't nurse from another person nothing zero it's like you heard they'll scream murder so once they they recognize it's all over the noise and lois herrera of the coyote mini costa you have to pay her and then you can force her to nurse nurse because so i'll upon him our mission doesn't go according why because bishop might say that it's up to her if she decides not to nurse she doesn't have the nurse and our mission says it's one of the things to do could a woman say i don't want to cook no it's one of the few of them that's her deal she gets missionaries she cooks she made the nether but the husband instead of ignoring it or instead of being made for it he said okay it's a good nether because irish am i who knows and we had this for the you know i don't know when a week ago two weeks ago who knows about china he's it's like hurt him taking her finger and making her bite it so in other words it's his fault well they still savory he knows about me now it's her fault and the story but that's the child who's he started she started whose fault is it says if that's the case then why are we arguing about nursing benefits just say stam she made a nether against her husband you can't benefit from me why why are we talking about a case where she said that uh i'm not going to nurse the baby it has to do with the iker suba not nothing to do with the nether she has the right to decide i'm not going to nurse hello i said therefore we have to establish that our mission has not been shamanized becillo but boys have a wonderful week a wonderful day shout out to all the guests welcome you