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i'm putting it all together now my daughter said you you met my daughter yesterday ah okay that's what it was my daughter does here and she did four mdy hasanus in this week four like the people come from america hey she's top stock you know whatever she said a guy came with a cap and uh okay unbelievable hi you get what the guy comes in with the whole gear the whole jacket the hat okay i can't even say what you said about it it's your mother oh my wife like that mice what's the mice this his mother comes in and she says oh my son loves your son rebelli are you my son my son watches your father's sheer my son my son it's my sister okay ak construction i'm a die hard rebelli guy but i have to admit that i slip sometimes and here it is here's his screenshot of the ami magazine cover but what is he watching if you look closely i don't know if you can see it some some magazine from lakewood i have your picture of my screen saver but with me in the middle of listening to the shirley board's theme i give a sheer he's a marketer and i always make sure to listen to your daf however we stick to we stick in rips really too sometimes all right please keep my name anonymous i just wanted to thank you for your amazing sharing encouragement joined your share approximately a year ago i started with beethoven eight months ago my wife was in a serious accident she was hospitalized i'm better as barcelona had a baby four months ago who's a preemie and is hospitalized in serious condition at the end of the email he says please down for my daughter ahuva vassiporo but through all this you kept me going strong i did not miss a day to share the night of her accident i sat down from 2am till 3 a.m to do the duff credits you for making sure that they doesn't go by without learning in a major credit union my that my wife knows have a message vomits because she heard me listening to her by your bedside unbelievable his wife knows me cephalus vomits please down for my daughter your talmud over here raboy sai the heaven alaska the dolphin alaska you saw mary cohen alaska guy shalom rebbe here you'll find the pick of me and my dad's workers and my dad on his hebrew birthday doing a scene on your vomits unbelievable around the world one year anniversary tomorrow's the first year anniversary of me learning that you mean i started the beginning of bazo we had a bunch of guys that their one year anniversary was sukkah now it's beethoven since i my whole appreciation and your smack retires changed a different level when i went down the well tried and routed gateshead mirror and kylo during that time i did what i had to do during this man i learned and been as many man ashamed to say i barely opened up the saber after leaving the learning world i soon found the days turning into weeks without me learning when i did try to learn i would be would be humish rashi for five minutes enough for me to say that i had learned that day bar hashem in capital baruch hashem for finding mdy through dove harris's status a voice out you put on your status you can change people's lives i can now say that i learned in afghanimaar every day even on days where i would never have dreamt learning thank you looking forward to being in my basement next week warm regards shimmy reuben london it's going to come next week i have no idea that i even read this email okay you're gonna have to remind me yeah this bucker came up with me yesterday right after that that's the i realized from this mail it was the first time in my life that i learned every single day in venezuela i'm very proud of him a rumi halderslam from muncie every voice i don't know if the volume will work but here it is our one and only nothing seltzer and his son you think who comes every single day [Applause] oh here we go let's see if the let's see the audio first i just uh it works but i like the way he looks at this is unprepared these are pros he looks at his father what do i do now harmony irregular harmony watch this watch this i don't know we'll see he says what do i do now [Music] oh that didn't work well i forgot to say rebecca seltzer was a star soloist in miami voice choir ever doesn't know has a valid voice and we have the privilege of hearing him very often our soul right here right behind us [Music] the further this is your brother-in-law further through your stressing the importance of being emotionally attached to one's wife it's interesting to note that when the turtle describes other muhammad living together the positive says he knew his wife implying in the sham attachment from yatam in the manchester for a year now loving every shish koi yusho katz bernard david the boy said the koilo is sponsored by rabbi anonymous from lakewood disclose of all the new people have joined the second sponsor by having region kamianski in memory of rachel's mother is the gitobas esther rita should be melitta yosher on bathroom of us and our children the third sponsor lorefoss ester bass pedro pertona per tonna bitton meseta and the paris high dish dr alvaro memphis in memory of my professional southern belgian wife mother and grandmother rita gay epstein hernandez scholarship and aliyah second sponsor hoidesh michael bemela monty pearl and our nurse i keep on getting message after message the amount of people and the types of people you'll see klein khasid oh don't worry about that yossi klein went in for monty can you imagine a husset in a more of a yu kind of environment sitting there for for i don't know how long and then miranda cash and all all the guy all the whole he said the father said hani said that anytime somebody comes in he doesn't recognize him he knows right away this is an mdy person and the amount of people that is farim and the ones who publish the swarm seltzer and all of kaiser i'm not making this up it's in here and this is very interesting i i brought the first thing i said was truly bornstein and here's a i remember this guy from three years ago because i got confused then the second sponsor today is shirley bernstein lily nishmas i remember thought wow it's really boring this thing is splashing the literatures are from lake ben mayer hallelujah should have a successful new year or they should both have a successful new school year for da nina ladar tava sluff in his fundraising efforts rabbis here we go daphne zion on the base we're holding by the white line he gives marvel and isu so they have 12 months to get married or 30 days if she's in almana and the time comes and goes and they didn't get married and the husband or the cousin he's a kind oh my ruler devour toro arusa basis if she's only engaged not even married she could eat truma because kenyan caspar he acquires and by by being a kaddish this woman gives her a ring it's a sort of an acquisition he acquired her as a wife right now making caspar so she really may not tell you about the rice and she deserves to eat his so new so then tremor not why don't they eat rumors [Music] says she's gonna have all this trouble food bring it and where she living she's only engaged she doesn't have a house yet she can bring in the food from the cayenne which is truma and they saw the wheated soybeans today so it's going to get mixed up tsunami okay so 12 months came and went and they didn't get married but she's still in her father's house why does she have the right to eat the tremor today because hassan when the time comes and he can't get married at least he sets her aside he rents her a room and says okay go over there so there's not going to be a problem mixing up foods he shouldn't bring a sandwich to work maybe somebody from the straws house is going to see a sandwich in the fridge and eat it and the sandwich is true if you're so concerned that people are going to get mixed up with different people's foods then how could a cayenne who works for easter all eat food in this house says the kimbard hashtag he's a he's a locket he's a sharecropper he works he works hard for his monies he's counting on the israel to give him lunch he doesn't come with his own food he eats from their food rashford here's the picture for simpine a person could have a mum and he doesn't know about it so he gives his colleague truma which me the right she's entitled to and then when they get married he notices that there's a mom that he he can't tolerate so he's gonna know the the engagement retroactively it's going to turn out that she ate truma as the israelis not married takayan and not engaged to a cayenne for a full year and that's isa raiso the word simba means bitto to be my vato to cancel so ashley says when a person has a star and you pay up the star you get a receipt the receipt is called the symphony because it's me vato de star it's mevato there was a king who was very short and blind in one eye and had war scars all over his face so he brought in a bunch of artists to uh to make a nice painting of him so the first artist looked at him and [Music] drew a picture exactly what he looked like he was very upset that's how you wanted to pick me fine second artist heard that so he made him like you know two feet taller got rid of the scars he wasn't blind anymore he says no that's not me out of here the third guy he took and put him on a horse and gave him a bow and arrow and the arrow blocked the eye and he's you know focusing and then closing so his face was all like so you could have noticed that he's short you could have noticed that he's full of scars you couldn't notice these blinds oh that's what that's what i want perfect we all every one of us has women we all have our shortcomings and we all like to focus on our significant other's shortcomings like this like that more or less the trick is to put the arrow by the blind eye and not not see those moments like turn turn a blind eye to the blind eye so to speak okay but this guy he can't turn a blind eye to this put him on a horse that's it it's all in the head zuckermarto so he sees something he's not gonna be able to he can't live with a woman like that so mela perhaps there's a fullness they're completely married it's also not enough he still didn't see a mum says butterclay love her the way it used to work is they would send people that had public bath houses so he would send his his mother to the bath house to make sure that everything's okay so he knows already at that point he knows whether or not he has a mum what if he buy a slave you buy a cayenne slave from israel oh it's kind of buys a slave from israel so now at that point you shouldn't be able to eat truma why maybe the the slave has some mum and if he has a mom you're gonna return him to the original owner what are you what are you telling me a slave with a big mom but until that point until you realize he has a mom he goes to the bath houses with him whatever the mikvah you're not gonna know so for three days he's eating truma and he's not allowed to eat tremor he says mario this idea of simply let go there's no such thing as symptoms why be about that bro if it's a visual it's it's a mum that you could tell right away huckabee so he sees right away when he's buying him he sees he's missing an eye i don't want such a slate be the guy and if it's underneath his clothing limoulaki boy who cares if he has scars on his body he's a good slave he schleps good that's all i need bishop he doesn't care nintendo but what about if he has other moon we talk about a slave now what could go wrong with a slave either he has some exterior mum so you notice it either has something that you can't notice who cares he's there to work or perhaps nimsi ghana of orca vistos maybe he's a kidnapper huh that's not good to have a kidnapper around your kids you bring home a kidnapper hi you deserve it it's okay everything's good why because says rashi stam avid is a kidnapper he's a ghanov so what else could go wrong maiko what's the mizuyun oh this is already next level he's an armed robber says rashford is a guy that really took the king off the king says whoever ever finds him kill him no proud so now you buy a slave he paid a hundred thousand dollars for a slave he's walking down the street to buy some groceries this guy comes over chops his head off and he gets an award there's a fifty thousand dollar bounty on his head who wants a guy like that that's mamash simply it's retroactively if if i bought a slave like that from another jew it's okay i mean fine whatever you want to say this far but the bottom line is he doesn't he shouldn't be eating truma he says come on i don't call it we're not concerned about that because at the end of the day everybody knows that's the guy that has the bounty on his head mirthi baylen maro baylemar so now if we take a look at both of them together we have oola and rashmul whether the reason is that she might mix up the sandwiches in the fridge or pour some true wine to her brother or he might find a mom that he doesn't like either way she can't eat she shouldn't be eating truma maybe night so then what's the difference between the two suarez it could be now you keyboard what if he accepted upon himself any mom anymore so now in terms of senpai and we don't have a problem we're not concerned that maybe he'll find them up because even revise him he said i'm going to take her no matter what but if the problem is she might mix up the food that's a problem whether or not he's in california interesting by roma vino they asked the question says never saw sorrow but how he was behind the whole torah and it says you have to see your wife before you marry her she means her so they say this this thing kibo from videos mikhail myself no matter what but i don't know how i'm thinking now it doesn't really because it helps the behavior he's not going to divorce or fight but it doesn't mean he's going to like her okay he's in kabul that he's going to like her that's what it is fine or mossar if the father we had that whole missionary father gives over his daughter the tana to ashley so at that point there's no concern that she might give food to her brother she's no longer in her bro in her father's domain valhalla or the father went with her the same that mission over there the problem of simbon remains because once the husson sees her he might back out but there's no problem that she might feed her brothers retirement once the 12 months come or the 30 days he starts supporting his kalo and he could give her he's a kind he could give her truma do you think my mother the voice i today is halfway through ksuba's right halfway through supers fine you just reminded me that i have no idea why now so we have a shiloh how much troomer could give her a 100 truma 50 percent treatment 30 trillion how much trauma now the issue is because a woman throughout the month she's gonna have days that she's taught me she can't eat tremors now what no this is after 12 months after 12 months that's what we're saying after 12 months when a girl who grew up in a house of and she knows what truma is she knows that when she's told me she can't eat truma so even if he gives 100 truma she knows what to do with it she's not going to eat it she's going to go sell it and fend for herself avobasis but if she has no experience with truma divria called me the most you could give her is 50 the rest have to give her so she has she knows what to do with it she could eat it when she's engaged we have a macho i guess that if the if like retirement says the huston gives her 100 trauma she doesn't have to sell it she has a father she lives by her father's house her father will sell it have you ever seen a girl go out there and then scream in the street apples for sale whatever it's not it's not something that a that a girl does avanessuo a woman belongs at home she shouldn't be in the streets screaming and selling her merchandise and therefore you are to give her you don't say oh i gave her enough truma let her go and sell no that's not her that's not that's not her thing to do and therefore you have to give her some hulen some food that she could eat on the days of tomah it's talking about ashley brings here that he gives her misua the husband like he has a special place for her he's not he doesn't eat with her every night there's a certain arrangement that they have it's an interesting marriage you stay in that room over there i'll give you your messiahs fine there's a famous story with the divre khayim every hustler knows the story that there was an el mono who came and says i don't have parnasso she says what do you do i sell apples so no nobody wants to buy from me she says let's go and he took her to the marketplace and he started screaming apples for sale after sale of course all the khasid of the every heim came and they bought the apples so i asked the hustler that told me the story was they said but what happened the next day it's no you don't know how it works but hasidim when the when the rabbit screams apples and everybody buys from the red they see this is this is a woman you buy apples from so they come the next day also every day he doesn't have to do it every day one time is enough fine um oh estrix for sale asterisk for sale right over here in queens on what's the boulevard's name over there what what number seven seven one eight nine or seminary girls for sale i mean there's a seminar for sales seven or whatever the nicest role ever caught edit put it on a reel look at nothing wow wow he doesn't know how to do themselves tanya nami retire from oimer nice in law he goes from saying that a girl should not be in the street it's not a place of a woman to be in the streets she should be in her house a second later let's show you the guy's nuts [Laughter] okay so we have the sheet of retirement which you said already how much could you give her truma everything hundred percent only fifty-fifty billion dollars were the same thing where boyce freebie but medford were ambassador now vassi's fellow client but if she's inexperienced she doesn't know how to deal with true mother i call him after holding up this room everybody agrees retirement agrees that you must give her something to live on fifty percent this is abaya by russo this whole thing is when she's still living with her father so a father could take care of and sell for her and make some money i call she doesn't have anybody to sell for her husband is a mean guy puts you in a room somewhere to feed her she doesn't have a father there you have to sustain her give her fifty percent review sarah hey man now we have a new cheetah nice and lush two-thirds and one-third one-third hulen two-thirds truma the interesting i'm sorry for it goes through the cashmere that typically speaking when you take in count i thought it's fascinating thinking account the days of neither but also the days of kerry she becomes tommy from two must carry from being with her husband how many days you have about a third that she's tommy and two-thirds that she's tired and that's why he says two two handfuls two two thirds of truma and for the one third of the month that she's talking she gets along says give her 100 tremor and the she is responsible to sell and do whatever she has to do so what what's going on here is as follows according to your retirement you give her a hundred percent well what happens when you have let's say she eats let's say she eats 10 pounds of food a month she gives her he gives her 10 pounds of truma the problem is when you sell 10 pounds of trauma what do you remain with 8 pounds of druma 8 pounds of coolant it's worth less true is worth less so she doesn't even have enough food to live off every time this is too bad so according to your behudo where you is is arguing with the retirement they're basically saying the same thing reptilian says give her a hundred percent review that says give her a hundred percent but review that says no give her a hundred percent that she remains with a hundred percent of food that she can eat that she remains with 10 pounds of food you start off with 12 so that when she goes to the market and she sells she'll remain with 10. retirement says no if she eats 10 give her 10. i she has to sell and she's going to lose too bad yeah we got another brush sort of kind of questions no i mean maybe it does care let her give it to uh to some guy that takes a cut and she's yeah and then we don't care that's the whole point if she eats x amount i give you that you you figure out how to get the money you'll have to pay fifty percent of somebody who's you have to give her that much so much so that that she that that that she has enough to to buy the coolant so according to bihoudo she's gonna have to go out there and hustle to get to get the food but according to this sheet though she doesn't have to hustle if anybody could sell anything if the price is right within a minute so give her enough that the price is right there's a story i don't know if it's they say it's an emma's story you can look it up a guy bought a car it was like a holiday weekend like right now you know like uh what's what's the happening labor day labor day the guy goes he buys a car hundred thousand dollar car he buys it the next minute he turns around sold it for seventy thousand dollars the next minute so the the the manager over there called the cops something's weird he just paid a hundred thousand and he took he he took a thirty thousand dollar loss on the spot so the cops calling us that basically nobody's around because of the holiday she sat in jail for four days until the end of the weekend so when he came out they he was able to prove that nothing was no monkey business he bought it for hundreds of but he sued the police and he made a crazy amount of money because they incarcerated him for no reason but that was his whole plan so no but something like that i could buy a car for a hundred thousand sell within two minutes or seventy thousand i could buy any any real estate if i say now i wanna who wants to buy my apartment for for for half a million dollars some people come and pay on the spot so that's what you have to do for him i have a man in my heart if her husband dies and and didn't have children the husband didn't have a child so she falls lee bum to her brother but until unto his brother but until that point she cannot eat chuma my time making casper has to be an acquisition has to be he has to acquire and there's only a zika there's only a bond until he gets married this is only she's she's she belonged so to speak back then to the brother but once he marries her look what the puzzle says she becomes a full-fledged wife and then of course she eats truma doesn't even have about says the mishnah if she was married for six months to thousands and then she was she was uh just kooka to the oven for six months actually if they have balanced law everything you have to buy it so what's the double case over there she was first case i get it says in the mishnah that if she was six months with the husband or let's say 12 12 months minus a day with the husband and then one day with the of them it's not enough and then it says and then she's 12 months of the ovum minus a day it's also of course if the if she was married for 11 months oh engaged for almost 12 months so of course and she doesn't get through much she doesn't eat today truma so certainly if she's not engaged she's just scoop it to the oven for 11 plus months she shouldn't get from her sister mario something that we never like to say but we if we're forced to zoo the entire climate zoo because sometimes we build on the kidneys we'll start with the yoga and say listen if he was a zucker that was cooking together for 12 months almost they don't get tremor and even and then you go to the next case and even if she was engaged but you don't start off with the heavy case engage so sometimes you say zoo we you're right we didn't have to say the second case zoom in so in the beginning when the 12 months came she gets 12 months come and go she gets to start eating truman but later on he said no not a good idea my time what happened when they switched their minds so again we're going back to the two reasons why akala you see garishan the two reasons why a cow should not eat rumor one is because of symphony maybe she has a mum what is it called shemitah so they decided you know what at the end of the day maybe i'll find the mum and find some mom even though the 12 months came and went she shouldn't need truma says the gemara commission memes video best fries so according to that makes a lot of sense we started with the reason on the right there's no reason anymore why because we're not concerned that she's going to switch out the food because he gave her a nice room somewhere but we still we we're still concerned says allah even allah agrees we're concerned maybe he'll find the mum and i'll know the whole engagement and i'll turn out the israelis a trump ravish from symphony according to the whole reason is simply the reason why you don't eat the whole 12 months rumors because maybe they'll find the mom and then 12 months came and went and we said she could eat your ma and then we took it back we said no you can't eat rumor you know why because maybe you'll find the mom that was the whole reason to begin with so then what happened what happened in between says the gemara might be night so the first reason was maybe there's a moment second reason is maybe there's a mom in the first 12 months maybe he'll find the mum and i'll cancel the engagement month 13 also maybe i'll find the mom and autism when a mother when a mother goes to the bath house and looks for a mom is that considered a good blick or not myself i think it's called shrimp in other words the guy is going to say ma what you didn't notice what do you what are you doing she said nah it's nothing she's still sitting you can live with that no i can't live with that you could live with that not me so is that considered a dica do you rely you know what i'm saying like oh my mother checked her out but then tomorrow you're going to get married and you're not going to like what your mother checked out and mela that's that's the concern that's what they came up with afterwards we cannot rely on mothers who can't rely on the sisters are you tiny you're putting on the maze okay the imraeme says he takes this this line over here it's a very nice line because there are people that love to fake termidos the stat but the real way to check me this is the wife the only person that really knows a person deep down knows if the person has the meaning this is the wife you can't fool your wife can't follow [Music] and to finish learning shots with rib ellie zak taylor so there are two categories when it comes to mycelium two earnings that a wife has one is the basic so we're gonna discuss the mission later on and that is that a woman she has to produce five slime of needlework everything beyond that is extra and in return for the myceodyme the basic the husband gives her mesinus and in return for the extra everything above the five slide she gets allowance money called the ma she gets extra spending money okay that that's the basic we'll see my click is here there but he loves urbanization he says you know what all the earnings that my wife makes she goes straight to the base of english here's we don't listen to him she continues producing earning and using the money to buy food hamisha but what about the extra everything above the five slime reviews now rashi says in this case of hamoi sir we have to pay attention here because it could be a little tricky hamish or just means says rashi that he never was makadesh the mighty died all he did he said i am magdesh the miser okay very interesting a woman is permitted to tell her husband michael tybus i'm a lawyer i earn 300 000 a year i don't need your 200 worth of food a year i don't need it i'll support myself thank you very much she can she could do such a deal or perhaps she can't do such a deal so it depends who who is this deal for is it for the husband or is for the wife are you trying to protect the wife or trying to protect the husband if we're trying to protect the husband so so what who cares how much money she earns it's not up to her to decide whether or not she wants to stop working but if we're trying to protect her so she has the right to do whatever she wants it's interesting i just saw briefly that they discussed bizman azer if indeed a woman is a lawyer and she earns all this money does her husband actually have a right to say give me your messiahs or not and they say that since women bismuth don't really work jobs that are exclusively for women lawyers this that so husbands don't have a right it's only when they work specific jobs okay iron chumps yeah yeah yeah i do i have a job there's only only a woman could put you in your place [Applause] is for the wife to make sure that she's set that she has something to eat and therefore if it's for her then she could be michael she could say listen i i want a different deal well maisie adel so once once the husband supports her he's to support her okay so this is shyla is the support with the rise to the rabona but if her abunan instituted that he has to give her food so they said listen it's not it's not fair he's giving her food and everything and then she goes and she earns a salary she doesn't even pitch in help out a little bit i'm struggling here so they said okay my dying is for the husband she maybe they shouldn't fight now she has the right because it's to protect her may space let's see if this works it says the opposite the messiness is because she gives myself dying it's not she gets my he gets my sediment because he gets missionaries it's the messiah why does she get food because she has to give the earnings so the opposite of what we said says you're right we have to sort of fix it up a little bit or maybe not fix it up some say it's not to fix but to understand she it starts what's the fir what's step one she deserves food step two is that because she deserves food he gets her earnings not that step one is that she he gets her earnings and because he gets her earnings therefore he has to support her says that if a person a person doesn't have the right on his wife's earnings because he went ahead and he said i'm giving everything she earns to the person and she doesn't have to listen my life been designed this is rashi and this you need rashi just reading this you wouldn't understand says rashi we're talking about a guy that's wealthy and he wants to it's only in his head not that he physically gives her messiahs he wants to support her and nevertheless he doesn't get myself dying says my lab and his diagnosis so again she gets him zionists he wants a supporter lawyer talking about no he doesn't he can't even afford it as he might be chained and designed if you can't afford it might have memorial if a guy is not supporting his wife he can't even support her even if you wanted to so of course she could just say michael tybus let me support myself and i'm going to take my own salary remember continues if you have a slave a slave like an animal are you hired to to feed your cow no you can just milk milk milk until the cow goes bye-bye like the famous mice the guy stopped feeding his horse every day he decided i'm going to train the horse not to eat every day he's like so one day he gave him a half and the next day third kids after 10 days the horse was schwa and finally he didn't give him anything and then the horse rap dead he tells his friends wow two more days i would have had him trained fine i'm going to work you working i'm not going to give you anything what's going to happen die okay so even if you say you could do that with the slave honeymilly beversib is jerusalem he doesn't want to leave his master after six years he doesn't want to go the road but he says from this we learn they have to feed your slave the same state that you eat the same pillow the same thing not your slave ivory but that's to say i'm not gonna feed you that's only eviknani every a jewish slave of course you can say she's not even in the same category of course you have to support her says gemara say if it's to clay myself we're talking about the second part that he didn't say i'm giving the the salary to the base of english i'm getting the extra the over the five slide and everybody sandler now by the way if he didn't ever pay her that the uh what do you call it the allowance money he didn't give her the ma the allowance he didn't give her he still gets her the extra why because he owes her the mom hello with her says argues irish lockish the first line that that a a wife could tell her husband amin isa i don't want your food and i'm not giving you your salary says differently like hey matami there don't say that this moisture heck dish right ramer says that the myself the extra the extra salary above the five slime goes to hekdish he could husband has the right to say that exactly when that happens after she dies before you guys will see tamar but romero says but don't say that there is a lightham and the reason is but it never didn't come to this world yet again he says my wife when she makes her salary next month part of it i have no right to that's the basic but everything above and beyond i want to give to the base i make those why because maybe the chat is mayor holds other magazines i have the right to give dhaka something that never came to this world like her salary but the reason is at the time of the river mayor mitchell he could force her oh so over here you see a sheet of restless holes he could force her i could force you to work nasi ko himalaya you could just shoot you're directly same unbelievable your hands should be accomplished to the one who created your hands taking barcodes it's a beautiful let's say you see that it could force her to my synthetic says she could force going to ravenous what do you mean it's nasa imran it's as if he told her your hand should be college but never spoke about her hands he said your salary when your salary comes and it's not in this world it should be called and you want to say that that's not the chaturanga the shot is he's being magdish her hands her hands that exist i'm not mad there's something in the future a matter of something that exists right now her hands anything any handiwork that she does with those hands that exists she become kaddish but he didn't say that and the mission doesn't say those words he's putting words in his mouth you see this the famous chart american we've been using it a lot but this is in the toilet the tire says that if a person says i am going to give the value of a baby that's three months old to the base i make dash there's a set value it doesn't matter if your baby is a uh i don't know an actor whatever he's worth more every baby is five shekels that's it five but what if a person says i'm giving the value of a two day old baby it's not in the torah the torah says from a month it's hard to see over here but it says the first line and you have to be 30 days old but he didn't say that he said two two days old says remember another might see a person doesn't stand talk to everything a person says has meaning he he had some intent his intent was to give the true value of a two-day old baby i don't know what that is go to the marketplace figure it out it's not a five shekel it's something else it could be 10 checkout it could be even more that's just the tire says a certain amount but you have to give a different amount and that's going like usually you diagonally say oh so over here because what he said doesn't make sense since so why is he saying that what your handiwork should go to barco obviously he's talking about her hands not the salary says the sovereign mayor you know the master of shalom the famous gemara battalion release i want to marry you after i become a jew that never happened yet so in other words that's this guy you become jewish love is your stacker i'm a slave today i'm going to be free you'll be free love huh this is bad but he tells a married woman i'll marry you here's money right now i'm marrying you after your husband dies whatever your sister will die the your young will be are good because in the future something's going to happen so you see remember hold on you don't we're not concerned about things that are not in this world you have the ability to do to make kenyan what the gemara is trying to say don't prove that remainer holds the other magnitude from this you're right the mayor actually he does hold it what the idea was don't prove it from here because we could be talking about there's talking about the hands and not about a future thing have a wonderful day at guten shabbos mucho shabbos 9 30 monthly shabbos 9 30 in muncie shabbos you