Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 57 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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of romibo have us i have a riddle rabbi sai you're a rabbi pretend you're a rabbi and a tragedy befalls the community of the rahman's land it's a true story let's say a fire sweeps through the neighborhood and destroys homes one after another what is the first thing on your mind as a road what are you gonna do what's first putting out the fire fire is out already next who said that very good grievan very nice so it happened in jerusalem what happened in ukraine they they chased you out of your house at having your saliva when they chased the jordanians chased the jews out of the old city and they had to go to kataman so the rav rib zev minsberg he said the first thing you guys have to do and everybody's really broken they they came out of there with nothing they are sticking everything first thing you need to do is write exuber you can't live with your wife something there's a guy that's holding and learning you have to be holding like it's not something that happens every day after the roaming bahamas having a sibling of avion she was married about it or got lost in me so what do you do sorry mayor holds that you're living in an alvera don't worry about it what are you concerned that the woman is going to be worried that her husband might divorce her without exuber and therefore the the bia becomes a bias no don't worry about it you have two three years of when there's like zero like this geyser that the b is business can't stay married silk soybla go ahead and write exuber i we learned that even according to a mayor if somebody doesn't have exuba he has to pay for the super 200. remember is the one that says you can't live without exuber or you just say mayor holds that if you live without exuber you have to pay 200 how did that happen says rashi either it's in a city that they don't have tsubas that was their minute or the guy was either okay fine i was walking down coming in here literally just a few minutes ago coming in here and i bumped into rabbi schlaferak who has to run every morning and he said what staff is it today i said non-zion says oh man i remember nonsense from yeshiva wow but there's a classic ration he tells me the rashi unbelievable classic he tells me you're saying yeah the result says yeah it's a classic rash of shakers okay we'll get there oh when you said it's easy you didn't include now i got to tell you i don't know how the other shoe room do without charts but with shards it's a simple sugy it's really a simple idea just a lot of names there's a lot of names there that this one said i named this and that one so maybe that's what gets confusing but the actual the idea is very simple so it goes like this yesterday we had a majoricus if a wife could be michael orksubo could a wife be michael axuba you remember this macholicas does it have to be in writing or could she say it aboutpair or says it doesn't have to be in writing it could be about review that says that's the writing if you write it you you do a pretend receipt he gives her a tuba that says 200 she writes a receipt that i received 100 even though she never received 100 if it's orally then it looks like a scam it's a sham a scam no good if you write it then it's kilo what's the difference let's say he gave her a hundred dollars and she gave him back the hundred dollars that you that's you're okay with that it says in the super 200 zuz he says you know what here's a hundred up front and she's okay i love you here here it is back then you ask him that there's a deal so she wrote it i got it and i gave it back instead of going through the whole thing but to say it not so you have a mclaughlin that's all we're talking about today this little machis could you be my whole exuber just saying words i might call my husband listen he doesn't have a job we got married we're both struggling michael i don't need two hundreds of those do a hundred she said it everybody says that's fine review this says it's not good you need it in writing now at what point in time did this happen that's the much laggers there are three timelines in a marriage there are three periods of time one is right before the marriage even happened right before chopa that's the beginning one is the end what's the end anybody what's then right after bia consummating the marriage that's the end and then there's one smack in the middle right after cuppa right before beer beginning and middle at what point could a woman be michael if you hold chikibi michael balpe throughout all three timelines before the hasanah okay after b she could be michael or maybe if i care after b she could be michael before she can't be which one is it or three maybe that's what's going on here so here's a chart we're we're talking about the black there's a machoke's ruby huddle and rabbi when how do you do merciless when you want to be michael you want to forgive the the tsuba part of the tsum you want to forgive does it have to be in a star or not in a star that's the macholicus in the black ravdimi and raven they're going to argue what part what what timeline it's the beginning then and they're going to quote rebecca universal and rebecchua ben are not arguing there's no mechanics between them the machis is in a later generation between ravdimi and raven what did rebecca and lady say ravdimi says rebecca and shroom a lady war appeared they're saying the same exact thing they spoke about this timeline robin says no they spoke about this timeline which going to that classic rashi one of them is lying a lie meaning i heard and shared that rebbe said this and he says i heard and share let me say that so what are you what are you spacing out and lying it's just straight out lie if i argue in learning with somebody if i have my legs you said this logic they both came from all these logics were discussed in higher c9 but if you're going to sit here and tell me that this is what rebecca said on other aleph bay's other aleph in middle shear and he said this and i said no i was there and he said that one of you is lying okay that's not the point of the tsugi though the green and red are saying the same exact thing the question is what they said radio says this raven says that you understand that's all so good that that's why it gets a little you know the names and the this okay so if we look at redeeming these three timelines right before cuppa began so they're not even married there's no monsoon yet the third timeline in red is really red it's already over done with is after bia consummated the marriage and they have the middle one saifhoppa the end of choppa which is also known as trilas bia right before bia so it's right in between so according to rabdimi the mahalakiti review huda and ribby do you need a star or not need a star you do about is on one and two when it comes to the after beer there's no mcluggies even rubio i see your holes you can do about pet over here he agrees you can't do about pay you need a stock it's already too late it's already after marriage so she has to put it in writing everybody agrees that in step three you needn't write that's redeeming now look at and he's quoting ruby and shubin levy as saying this as agreeing to this we go to robin robin says the macholicus is in two and three not one and two two and three on one which is before the wedding everybody agrees you can do it orally you can do about that forget start now we're not the pet now if you combine the two sheets together i just put i just pulled them out so it looks like this according to ravdimi the macholicus is green and blue one and two i forgot to put the numbers in there sorry and in the last the bottom one so if bia is bistar and according to raven it's two and three much like this and there's no mag like it's in step one it's prepared that's the whole sugar and the story yeah is it better very good okay what's the samara yeah okay could you why can't you be michael i want to be michael i want to be michael but why not he's only according to the other though a corner of dimi only quarter of d me i'm sorry the coordinator of demons and according to yeah no no no you're right no the corner of the demon is no more please start okay that's ravdimi that's what he thought he heard and share let's see it inside ben levy here so he quotes ruby schubert lady it starts off as if maybe there's some sort of difference between should believe don't look at the chart yet it's not important until we get to the we're going to straighten this out a little bit this is before it seems like your biofilm is arguing or i'm sure malaysia and the second we're going to say that he's not argued whether it's before the choppa or after bia whether it's the trilogy whether it's the south the beginning or the end there is like so on my rebel listen no no no no no there's no there's no nothing going on between rebuilding and sluggish they're all in agreement like this chart over here let's go back to this just for a second redeeming the same thing they call period two and three they call different names but they're saying the same thing listen we don't argue on anything here like in this chart so rabdini is quoting rabbi hannon he's not saying that they argue they're they're in agreement originally and might be killed the community should be leaving this period of time timeline that he calls at the beginning it's the beginning of choppa before myself beer at the end but i call it a little differently so he sticks in a new something called the number two over here the right after hopper right before beo it's a new a new timeline but i'm in agreement i never argued with the bishop levy we're all in agreement okay that's ravdimi now comes robin he also robin shimon passion levy mishra oh but before she ever did the suin she's a russo yes a russia yes but there's no nee suen it was right before hope she's not involved yet a hundred percent so she could be michael and once again we're going to think that he's singing but he's not whether it's in the beginning or the end or the same revolt we had a second ago the fascinating comment it comes along and no i heard from rebecca's mouth the end he's talking about the end of the chupa not nothing we said before before he said saif means the end of bia now saying saif means the end of the end in other words the blue box not the red box like we said before that's where this confusion may be in sheer he heard scythe and he thought one thought it meant after beer one thought okay everybody's agreement is clear by the way if you look at these charts the blue box is always a much like according to everybody there's never nobody's in agreement on the blue box there's always about likes in the blue box okay blue and red not green and blue but blue and red two and three not one and two fine that's the end of that now comes with papo let me just tell you about pet what he says very very simple he says oh it's a good thing that above came along and said that there's no maghrib shuman lady because if he didn't come along and say that i would have thought something else completely so you know it's it's it's an interesting saying i think i'm going to discuss that if if i would have bought that building over there in remote gimbal a year ago i would have been a millionaire today okay if but it didn't happen if this and this would have happened then it would have been a very interesting mathematics well it didn't happen we said there is no bachelorette they all oh but if there wasn't much like between sluggish this is how it would look hold on no no no no no it's not supposed here if there was a macholics between schwab and levy a rebellion on if the ribosome would say this macholic is in all three timelines and we've shown levy very interesting you say the first timeline everybody agrees you can do it orally the last timeline everybody agrees that it needs to be in writing the only macholicus is in the middle one and ruby is going to say no there's a bakley but guess what that's not what happened we're sure believing will be open in agreement but if they weren't in agreement that would be the makaelekis okay omar i would think there is a macho guys league but the two americans in the later generation they're not in in the in the argument they're just quoting the rabbi and they're the the rebbies are arguing anyways michael marshmallow what is republica coming to say if but there is no such thing as if hakamashima very so i basically explained this let's see oh it's a lot better if you have a choice says rappapo to say that green and red argue with each other so that's like every mahalik is in chats almost and i say i learned it from here from this possibility you say you learned it from that position i like this logic you like that logic that's tyro that's arguing and learning and after that we say hey kim but if i had a choice and say well maybe it's not the two earlier generations arguing with each other but maybe it's the younger generations rav dimi and raven arguing with each other what the rebbe said that's terrible says rapper that's shecher that's the classic rashi that's one of them is lying it's not it's not comfortable for us to say that that is lying he says a shouting gemara great but to lie to say that that's what he heard from his rebbe not as tysos wait a minute and yeshua ben levy are arguing on the black box on top what would be who the icee said aren't they lying no they're not lying because they're in a future generation they don't know what review what would be who their reality said they're arguing in logic what they said we're arguing learning i think he said this and i think he said that he's not saying i heard it with my own ears if you say you heard something own ears you're a liar you didn't hear one of you is lying how could you both hear some the opposite but we're going to say here let's take review then i see i don't understand the logic says review logically speaking they must be talking about only in case one and two but not in three and he says no logically speaking it's case two and three and i don't want before bia after b uh review the review never said when they're discussing it we're gonna discuss logic fight that's the end of the suggest that's it we're done moving on to the next one was that complicated yes wow says the official mishnah he says we have 10 days freebies this is the last sponsorship for the mishnah and if anybody wants to jump in and sponsor us they are available all the way to the end of the sector says jose and nakamura we should say lorefoo is a very good friend everybody knows him abram and asha ben i have it on my desk somewhere but you could scary stuff scary situation huh i'm kind of broke all right the actual fear base hashem everything is going to go okay but the fear of not knowing the unknown the result should be great says the mishnah noise in those days they would get engaged engaged was a very serious matter it's not just oh let's get married there's a ring hare adam qudeshes or namiko dashes but there's a ring are sin and typically speaking they'll go on their merry way for a year or so now over here we're looking saying when michit when the husband the husband says let's get married from that point on she gets 12 months so it's not like oh there's an engage in 12 months and then they give it there's an engagement for 12 months then at month 11 you can say let's get married and from there you have another year so it was a long period of time until they matured and this and that okay fine the farthest is asthma to get things ready she has to get the apartment ready furniture and and everything what goes on linen you know the whole thing today we have cars we run from store to store it still takes three months and those days took 12 months okay just like the woman needs 12 months to finish that the man also needs 12 months now what happens if the 12 months come and the woman says i don't want to get married i'm not ready yet the wedding dress is not ready right what we're going to do can't get married now what so she is a mouredes she's a rebellious woman what's the punishment of a rebellious woman one dinner per day offering super 17 arm a week so you don't want to take take your time a month it's going to cost you 30 right off your suva what if he doesn't want to get married what is he called a married what's the punishment of a married three dinarim a week she has to add to her super 3d normal week okay i hear these women oh it's not fear take off the woman seven no because women are always late oh you just said the way you're always playing you're ready okay he's right he's right it's a good swara to add is a lot harder to take off she already has a pot now we just take off from the pot he has to add to the pot okay right here says it says she's already been through this once before she has furniture she knows what she's doing she has all the dishes 30 days from the day that he says let's get married 30 days highest so right that was the first gemara in the first daff in the 12 months come on if he happens to be a cayenne and the wife of a kaya needs truma but now she's not his wife yet she's supposed to be the wedding the invitation says today's date and it came and she's not ready so whatever the reason she could start eating truma now why can't she eat each room until that point so we said throughout the mistake a number of times one of the most famous lines in the message maybe even nashem is that we're concerned that the brothers are going to eat if she has truma and she puts it in the refrigerator so a brother comes along the father comes along opens up the fridge and sees good food and he's going to start eating the truma she where does she live she lives by her parents and she she she has her food with everybody else's food it's a problem but once she's supposed to be married she gets to eat the fruit but why the brothers are going to eat it so think about it discusses that retirement she's waiting for for whatever he could feed her pure true much much less expensive right it's only a kind food that only kind eats but the problem is that who could eat rumors somebody who's tar what if she's tame she can't eat it too bad i'm giving it to you do whatever you want to do with it sell it off for nothing by hulen i don't care if you can't eat it when you tum it repetitive no you have to be concerned about her how what is she going to eat when she's stomach 50 50. you have to give her some food that you can eat when she's done it says if you weren't with us for your vomits this might be interesting but this is one-on-one you vomit you have a baldwin brother reuben and a xiaomi lady with a fish coming out of her wagon i don't even remember how schmack this picture was she has a chicken only because when i grew up i remember women who were slime walking with their baskets and like the leg the yellow feet of the chicken sticking out i told the artist he has to put that in there i don't know if anybody ever got that no in this generation everything's nicely cut with the no not in those days so what happens is this guy goes sideways and therefore she falls lee boom two i should have put lay uh dr factor he's here today avi's in america shimon these are the bowman brothers they're all bald she and what we call this is zika she is bonded to this young she's not married to him she's bound now they have to decide kalitsa or yibum am i going to marry you i'm just going to allow you to remove my shoe and we have nothing to do with each other but until they do something they have a bond that bond is not strong enough for her to eat truma even though her late husband was also quiet because they have to be brothers from a father so reuben and shimon are real brothers so if shimon is a cayenne i hope reuben is also a kind and she was eating truma because of reuben but not now that's it we put that on a break there's no truman now uh now there's a lot of extra words here would seem like actual words also she was married to the husband for six months or not married she's engaged for six months now she's waiting in the wings for a decision from the ovum is he gonna marry me not going to marry me six months and even if it's 11 months and 28 days one day less than a year or anyone's gonna have to discuss this what's going on why so many words what's going on we have a year with the album he only uses engage for one day it's not enough just to come up on the day that they decided they have to go into chopa we just turned to nuzeim bay's in honor of yankee baum horn in the case of a year passed in the case of a year passed that we said she starts eating trauma no you don't need truman until biscopa was close being able to support limu natora and to finish learning chats with rebellion emily how do you know about this 12 months we're talking about loving and absurd and eliezer right elizabeth says i want to take rifko for you say love him no she can't go how about uh how about you stay we keep her for for two days oh two days is not good you want to take your now okay how about we keep it for ten days it's interesting because right before that they say you know what happened oh so do you mean to die before that in that case yeah he said uh yeah yeah yeah and they went to sleep the morning right right right right okay in the beginning they said take it right now all of a sudden no what's the shot okay that when they saw the money they were motivated by money take her take it right now and they thought they're going to get all this into gold all of a sudden as he gave all the gold and silv silver to the terrifical and then to them they gave mcdonald's mcdonald's for that you know let's keep her for two days so what's two days says the gimbal it doesn't make any sense to say it's two days we want to keep it for two days ah you're not happy with two days okay let's keep it for ten days it doesn't it doesn't work like that it goes the opposite miami lehman if the words yamim the right days what's the least of days too mr no i don't i don't want two days too much or we're like okay fine not two days i saw you aiming doesn't make sense so in this case you have to say yama means a year the sieve very interesting allah if you sell a house this would work unbelievable here in my bachelors where real estate went up over 50 percent in last year so every single person that would sell a house a map of chemistry and it might be a a city that has a it's a walled city there's a whole needle by purim everybody could buy their house back at the original price you have a whole year to do that so it says the word yum you have how long a year not two days you have a whole year and a gear is called yam it means a month right and then so they told they told eliezer okay give us a month or if not a month give us 10 days now that makes sense they went to a high number um yum mim give us 30. and they say no oh yeah sorry or 10. you don't go from 2 to 10 you go from 30 to 10. you go downwards you're negotiating amri dhoniyam myomestam now if the words day days by itself that means something else then if it says hoidesh yaman khaidish means a month of days so that yeah you're right when it says the word heidis right before the word days that means 30 days but if it says the word yami like by us by itself it could mean two not 30. yeah a year and 10 months right so it's now what does our sorry mean in that 10 days he give us a year and he said no i don't want to give you a year okay so give us 10 months higher yeah and it just makes sense 12 and 10. you go from 12 months to 10 months you don't go from 12 months to give me 10 days that's that's not how you negotiate omer zero tonight a young girl before bass mitzvah she doesn't want to get married she doesn't have to get married her father wants to marry her off she says no i don't want to elo nichola how could he actually interfere it's too late already why could he stop her he couldn't defend his iguod or savage she'll understand what she's getting herself into la maha memarda of venavika of asia even affiliate level there's certain things that rash explains in marriage that are difficult for a young girl so mello she doesn't want it but he also doesn't want to buy because now he's going to have to come up with another wedding package he just paid the husson watch and the shots and the this and i have to do it all over again i don't know i don't want that or about valet ain't poison you don't set a date for tanola when she's like but when she's 11 years old you could decide a date what you get it becomes more mature it says there's a mitzvah not to marry off your daughter when she said she says he says but in our days i don't know 400 years ago nowadays we're so poor and that explains what's going on here why would somebody do that and we we don't understand completely it doesn't make any sense to us in america go to jail for that but they were so poor in this they didn't know what to do with their kids they didn't have they couldn't put you see from this gemara that we're arguing about one or two days between the house and kyle who's going to support the hasan kala the the year came up and now what who's going to feed me take a peanut butter sandwich from your father's refrigerator no i am going to take you to bed then because there's two days between sunday and monday when the business comes into who's going to feed me and who's going to be they didn't have money they pushed in their money says rama so we could be mako and let somebody marry somebody when they're dictators as the remote it's unbelievable we go this we don't have the dunya it goes oh thanks of course she's a dylan so why shouldn't she be able to why can't you discuss wedding dates when she's 11 years old but by the time she gets married she's going to be ignorant so what's the big kiddish because you're talking about wedding so anxiety is going to kick in and it's going to destroy her body she's going to get weak from it commercial no you could don't worry about it [Music] if she turned six months after the neighbors like let's call it 12 and a half years old and she received conducion from davis and says rashi you know not from tv so we have to understand it's not now we're going back a little bit the mr was talking about when the husband says the question says i want to get married oh then the clock starts ticking another 12 months over there from the moment she gets engaged she only has 30 days pelopline prices discusses it oh duchenne disgusted how in the world you have 12 months a naira she gets her clock starts thinking she gets 12 months but if it's six months later and she turns into bagueras she only gets 30 days so where in the world they get 12 months so twice it has to be that a begeres it's when you do it when you become engaged when you're in naira you get 12 months but when you get engaged when you're beggars you lose all that so you have to understand as far as behind it says kamara mason is that true that uh bagueres a 12 and a half only gets 30 days but it says if she became 12 and a half harehi kitva she's like a girl like a naira that was asked to get married what does that mean and and right after aeroson in other words just like a tour when when when a hussein asks his kyle to get married the clock starts sticking or bergeris is as if he asks you to get married and reply or clock starts thinking when immediately right by harrison he doesn't even have to ask her he's like somebody that asked his cow to get married but she doesn't she doesn't have to be asked it's right up there my love gets with absolutely so hard you're talking about just like absolutely gets 12 months salman also gets 12 months so why are you telling me our motto only gets 30 days let's think about this question here huh a baguette what did i say us okay abigaires get why do you tell me obi guys gets 30 days you see over here the bagueres gets 12 months we're not talking about absolutely who only gets three days so beerus also gets only 30 days tashma and of course the gemara always does this we have a bomb question that we're going to say for the last last one but meanwhile let's get rid of the smaller questions could we bring around from these mesovei if a bugaris waited around 12 months so you hear that's the problem you see 12 months not 30 days we know that akala you need if she makes a nether you need the husband and the father to annul the nether over here in this case since he's paying your missinus the husband has full um rights to be made for another so but once again it says 12 12 months not 30 days aima bulgaris there's two cases here this is a case of vigorous and also there's a case of a nairo and the second case is this narrative is 12 months but the 12 months is not talking about the big heiress so you i don't ever ride the big heroes is 12 months is only 30 days okay fine go for it another one hammers absolutely whether one of them doesn't want to get married for whatever reason nice and large names you get 12 months from the time that you you were asked to get married everest and it doesn't start ticking right away from engagement uber and if she became a begerus 12 and f hare ketua kate said how does that work buggery america venezuela if she's 12 and a half in one day and she and then she got engaged nice and low what does it say here noise in la masa or vigorous one day 12 and a half years old in a day who gets engaged gets 12 months now 30 days well she had 12 months when she was a beginner in other words she's 13 already 13 and a half and then she became engaged nice legislation beyond then she only gets 30 days like an amana have a wonderful day [Music] great to have you you