Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 48 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign they sit over here so that's why this table is kind of empty but look the map is enjoying it I don't know if it's posed or not but the the laughing at something over there look at these places they have these simmers unbelievable and this is Mordechai kamianski avi's kid he's a 12 year old that sits over here they're also on vacation here they is real quickly if you snooze you lose [Music] it's a little cold in there this is an interesting story basically Uncle Phil says that these two boys their father lost his glasses in Hershey Park I guess this Jeff has a truck a kosher food truck that's the truck behind him he sells kosher food at Hershey Park however their father and mother getting food he gave food to these kids because they're hungry the father I guess he got lost or something looking for his glasses so he gave them food I guess Jeff is the guy in the right that's what I'm assuming here oh that's Jeff Roosevelt okay but the father it was on condition that he would get food on condition that he'd start to death so here it is there's a few of them this one was the funniest one I think good morning okay he's stuck in his little Aura there then okay my name is striking cats I'm a red bean monster already I was supposed to teach him sift the boys and they give King about them although I don't learn the daf often I watch his it's how you explain complex guitar is a simple enjoyable manner put tremendous effort presentations your charts diagrams unusual props clarify them you're one of da da da I was wondering if you have a file in these two receptus he wants to get the charge 100 if we have it it's there should be on the app where else is it somewhere it's on the app for now we'll update those later I would assume clever for something of course everybody can use whatever they want try your cat's already there's a long one from Shaya tyberg in Lakewood Baltimore basically he didn't want to give it a shot um no that's maybe a different guy I haven't missed a day however I do not know I I do know it's not about the times but the enemy when did I ever learn Bishop of Knight or you can keep her during the break thanks for that if you have this lovely consistency I'm forever grateful until you vomits I listen to various oh here it is someone better than others haven't you were but was always hesitant to start mdy I saw the cute clips and got some laughs but I always thought it was baby-ish for a lack of a better word you've almost came in my covers along with the rest of the world scared me just went into evamas the kids have trust me it's impossible I decided I needed to find a perfect sheer Rebellion saved my life you hear this Jonathan write that down [Music] as expected it was hard I started off base with charge clarity was literally addictive you vomis was actually awesome thank you needless to say this seems epic it was a true honor and pleasure getting to meet you and sit in the biggest stuff you always here in history I brought over 10 people to the seal and signed up my family into tsubas 11 people he signed up for boys 11 people shy tyberg wow thank you Hashem most of them are all keeping up and love to share I can't thank you enough I look forward each and every day to learning the commitment and the hard work by the way our boys side I just noticed uh you also brought to my attention 14 000 subscribers yesterday on YouTube we hit 14 000 a day it was not long ago maybe three years ago we were struggling to get to a thousand so we could go live you can't go live on YouTube unless you have a thousand what outside of a supermarket in Chicago get the last 50. that's how you signed up Jonathan yeah [Applause] Jonathan savanski signed up because he saw a sign in the bus stop please why was it say he's like we knew he has to go live wow look at that you did a little custard and uh look at you and now you have one of the most popular shoe room Jonathan stefanski's what just wait for the next one you have some good stuff this this one is out of control works guy works a whole year I I have one day to prepare share you have 365 days to preparation language New Jersey this person says you feel kazir says that good morning my boy says Richard Davis gimoro the reason why he's saying that is because he only started in might cotton Thompson we many people who wrote that in but you strive for realizing it good morning real boy say ah is gmra gamara gross master of your grandmother Madame Beverly gross s lemus now you might be wondering why he gets such a long um sponsorship it's because he donated over a hundred thousand dollars to tsubas the baby's name for his big grandmother grandfather Chuck snow a pill of Detroit Jewish Community where he was known for his signature white Stetson he had a white Stetson and often repeated comment amazing how many black hats came out of one white hat officials miss a motivating students connection officially got them to laugh official the Kayla response anonymously from our hush of a friend from Lakewood from all the new people that joined coil sponsored by Rachel tamianski he just saw Mordecai kamianski in memory of Rachel's mother razigital masses the reader should be Melissa on behalf of us and our children Dr Epson keep that dog away from my kids I'm warning you keep that dog away my kid said yesterday I want that dog no not gonna happen but you you have a responsibility you keep that dog away from my kid I'm warning you they're so cute and they're this big and then they they don't stay that big you know what I'm saying families like New Jersey because we gotta go we're very late Benji and S the Israel family member representative minora three cousin sorry Clyde Ricky and rakayla minora on the 12th yard Dr avrom Epstein remember my precious southern belle wife mother and grandmother Rita gay Epstein apparents number four Michael Pamela mother Pearl and iron herbs resorted to make it through my Rosh Hashanah this year foreign [Music] my dad Jerry bergson on occasion of his 86th birthday Mazel Tov Jimmy Brawn in honor of Mendy Lerner from the rally hotel for recruiting Dobby greenbound to the mdy family meant to learn it was here when was he just here like two months ago maybe the owner of the rally Hotel he recruited Dolby Greenbaum yusuke everybody's here we go we are on that memes Tony review ER interesting word for relationship says when I was above her um I was probably like 19 years old walking Manhattan and a random non-jew came over to me and asked me if could ask me a personal question I said sure and he asked me this question and I wish I would have known the guitar now and since then a few people have asked me this a lot of rumors about Jews in general from Jews some from Jews have this rumor about hasidim and over here was a very interesting thing [Music] it's awesome to wear clothing during relations in fact desire says very very interesting thing a very powerful thing he says that we know the famous the most famous vart that's used in every shower Brothers says desire that it's literal is literally between the ish and the Isha and if there's any sort of garment clothing between them that's awesome so if you think that one is uh being more sneeze more no it's awesome you're looking at me right there's such rumors they say things like that okay I know I can be looking there I see you I know what you're doing Laura Avenue says if the man says I want to wear clothing and she should wear clothing divorces her and gives her tsuba okay so we're going into a small sugya again very easy we're easy till I impress by the irons I'm going to stop saying this cotton so a woman who's used to certain a certain lifestyle the husband has to give her that lifestyle if the husband has a certain lifestyle he has to give her that lifestyle so basically she wins from both directions the Marshall let's say a woman's family they don't nurse the children they bring aminecas they bring what is it called nurse made I guess that was a a wet nurse okay whatever you want to call it it was caution in those days today we know it's better to whatever I don't know maybe it's better to they didn't have formula but so he was he comes from such a hush of a family they have so much money they're able to afford these wet nurses whatever you want to call them she doesn't have that in her family that wasn't the minute they didn't have the money so she gets married to him she could demand the wet nurse You're that's your minute that's what I want okay that's the end of the sugar that I'm telling you the end of the song if you die I feel the only should be strong even a very poor person if his wife dies he has to provide her with remember this picture the flutes at a the funeral this is but that's what they used to do interesting stuff at at funerals something with the elevator I don't know because like I'm a sovereign good that's the only thing he remembers from the sugar island people yeah I remember that so yeah that's the time that the the donkey okay but what did the tsuki say I don't know exactly I remember they you did a funny song okay the clock I never watched the Kaiser song you hear it everywhere it was it was 25 years ago yeah exactly McLeod is kind of common suffer how do you like no he showed me that in the um when we said that in that daf I said I heard an elevator said like the elevator opens up and you see me in the elevator okay stick foreign and if it's not her way my time in the review though it's his minute he has in his family she doesn't have this Medic in her family but yet her body she's not around anymore they're demanding that they should do it for a funeral here [Music] interesting shall show it to you why not so Rashi says you go upwards it's Aliyah buula is a lotion of going upwards brings the gemara in other words a woman who gets married to someone in a higher status does you know goes into different vacations private planes all things so then you have to provide those private planes for ah she's not I only have any redness in mind tanakama says you could go up in status you don't go down status so she's used to flying in private planes I'm just throwing that not obviously not but just as a marshall the Cyber is always she flies private planes you can't even afford a car you have to give her a private place as always but she's dead now now she's not your wife anymore yeah it's kind of interesting okay says no she's still your wife you stole it you get buried next to each other the whole thing still whatever minute you had while you're married you continue that minute later okay so you can be comfortable that law is like review though she's still your wife after death just recently I told my wife don't worry about it the less time we spent together here the more that was spent together up there you stop hacking me this I got to learn you spend time up there together if you're in the right place you hope you're not like frying together somewhere else right so you gotta say uh liyakum wrote in the uh RMR cars I think a few of he said that this guy he was had a flat tire changing his tire and he took off all the bolts and they all rolled into the sewer he's like looking like what is he gonna do now so the the sugar from the basement screams out the window he says what's the problem take one bolt off every wheel and like that you make it the guy goes wow this genius what are you doing in the basement he said I might be crazy but I'm not stupid all right fine so you have mission to start though a guy was married everything's going fine all of a sudden he became the sugar so what do you do and he's supporting his wife and supporting his children everything is great now what business they give him they give food um and they give her clothing is his wife his children they just continue doing what he was doing beforehand I did a search for Dover acher I got I came up with nothing because it's 300 and something Dover actors you know in the in the Gambar but all I remember offhand is that sometimes lover after means Hazard sometimes means we just had the other day two weeks ago means money sometimes it means very good thank you royal guy by the way smacks is that the rose coil of our cause but you're an hour kylo and you remember to ask I don't know why the gamara doesn't have no idea and then every time it's the same story what's Dora after what does it mean oh it means Pig oh it means to rest fine this is [Music] but why is this different than it says our case guy became a sugar they put in the basement comes in takes over his property starts being refinance to everybody what about this guys not Miss Sugar he went on a trip and never came back now she needs to eat she's starving he said he's gonna come back a week it's already six months and he's not back study only the wife gets masonas and clothing's not let them go knock on doors so um so Raji explains there's a difference distinction if a guy becomes more sugar here he didn't do it on purpose he just flipped the switch went off so now whatever he was doing beforehand look higher he wants to continue but this guy that went on a trip and he didn't leave any instructions so he knows what he's doing he said heck with them I have to work hard I'm going with let them deal with themselves that's the difference my daughter no so what's this it's not Pig s touch it yeah I don't know if this is it but again cyber saw Eisen they used to wear something like this they call it attached like jewelry but really it's perfume it's deodorant what we have today deodorant it's very if anybody ever went to France you know exactly what I'm talking about people there are annoying not to shower but wow ever and they put in a lot a lot of deodorant see it's like a mixture of I hope the French guys are not watching not the fruit guys that's a song I'm talking about the the night from Amazon I'm not making this up you can't it's not everyone goes on there it's a minute so they it's like they they didn't have the the resources that we had they know that they are they used to wear like summon and it gave a kind of um mess the the other smells okay great so that's called tashit it means summon but I'm saying taxi that we have it's it's more of a jewelry I just did a jewelry because it fits into the word action and this holds the summit okay fighter oh the voice of Omar what's document very interesting if the guy Rashi has two children are we talking about the guy that wentzler is the guy that got became sugar but let's say it's talking about the guy that's some sugar he has property okay it's nursing homes hotels whatever he has he has stuff I'm gonna start selling things off so that he could give us DACA you give the taco so first of all a couple of things some Cipher asks on this we have this that says that if you're going to show and you don't have to fill in you know you see guys Spirits fell on the table you allowed to use it you don't have children you're allowed to use it provided that you folded up nicely this that what about a safer you're not supposed to because you might tear it okay most people today are not so much but you're not supposed what about if I see you have a a wallet full of money take it out give to that name start giving no that look high or not right so says I'm sorry for what's going on there how could I take money out of a guy okay he's in basement he's not available right now he checked out to do a Mitzvah with the thrilling fine but how could I take money and it's not coming back it's not like I'm borrowing it I'm using it says I'm sorry for an amazing amazing thing I think it has a lot to do with this week's power shop expansion he says this Doc is different than anything else you're talking about a guy some sugar he needs a refua there's nothing like this DACA because Dhaka Tatsu my mother says looks I'm sorry if it's literal it's gonna say we don't know the the din on a certain person and that's DACA could actually save his life we're saving him we're not doing a Mitzvah fill in here we're not using his gemara to learn a little bit we're we're doing him a favor by taking this this doctor that the gamara says I want to tell you a beautiful thing from Sherman Scott because of acid passer the famous gamara if you give maiser you become an usher I said Sasha that people were given different talents in this world different towns some people have money some people have some people did something about that he says imagine if a person has an employee his best salesman he has a bunch of best sales top guy most arrogant jerk you've ever seen in your life you're a terrible individual nobody gets along with him does the does the boss care not really he says just keep on going and he gives him bonuses and this is top salesman ah he's not a good guy he doesn't care right now I don't care you just keep on going keep on selling for me you're making me money here's another bonus here's another thing he says the same thing when it comes to DACA and many other things he says everything because gives you money and you give it to this DACA so you're doing his job you're doing the job for him you're doing the right job ah you're a bad guy you did you have a little problem with Chavez a little this with that then whatever your issues are you're available but at the end of the day you're doing a great job with Docker so he's going to continue giving you money in this dog he's going to pump you up with DACA he says the same thing with anything else if you have any Talent you're good with you're good with uh Torah whatever it is you have to take that talent and use it for the for the benefit of other people will pump you in that area even though don't look down on yourself say oh but I'm bad in these other ears in that area you're good keep on using that area all right foreign says I have to give this woman her perfume coach game so it depends how you learn Rashi if I say not so certainly it's looking at because duck is for other people okay but this is hard to say that touched I don't want her to be repulsive to other people so I give a perfume but not to give money to other people or of him [Music] a person left and his wife died there's nobody to bury her he's gone so best and go into his in his bank account they pull money out in order to bury her based on the funeral he would make for himself I just I had to show you this picture if you've never been to New York or I don't know where they do this I grew up in New York I used to see this you get some I guess in the rest of America also you guys recognize this Italians especially Italians the rent is hearse that has no back and fill it up with flowers that was their minute I don't know what that cost it's not cheap to go in front of the mace anybody see that ever you say from New York New York I'm assuming it's a New York Jersey I don't know the place I couldn't make it out I I blew up the play I couldn't it looks a stickle New York issue but anyways fine saying I don't know the monogam that people had in those days we just learned about flutes you ever thought about flutes and somebody's What funeral this flute there's a person that that pretends they're crying a professional maspid and flowers I don't know whatever the thief there's different funerals different things whatever it is okay in fact it is this is what's going on with the the real estate in bechamesh is the highest proud United's role is the the basic fires also I don't know it's getting there okay it's not cheap much fair could have bought the whole basic for us everybody's Fair could have you know a mystery could have bought the the White Sox for five million dollars I remember it was negotiating with this basic price for a million dollars I think it was something like that it was back in the 90s anyway fine with me foreign now we learned yesterday why does a husband why is he obligated to bury his wife because he gets subba in other words he was obligated whatever he had in a Dunya there whatever the shot is he has benefit when she dies he doesn't have to pay back Suba what if there's no payback in tsuba what if he dies first is he still trying to bury or not saying so he tells his I mean we have to say that famous line that the guy guys on his deathbed mom and Schmidt is before his death he he smells like a schmucket smell coming out of the kitchen she tells his uh he tells his kid what is what's going on he says it's potato Coke he says go get me some potato kid goes that's the mother for potatoes no no don't be touching potato it's for after the Lovato okay so some people some people the last what does this guy have to say his last words oh I was there I'm having shared his last words he said she might no no this guy's different come here come here let me tell you something don't bury mommy don't just leave her in the street okay some people I'm sugar now it's not Mommy it's his wife fight me no sorry it may selective he's now talking like in a nice lotion don't bear him from his property but his property means my property his own property shermanly why because the those who inherit the Suba they're obligated to bury her not his property he had to pay up the tsuba so let the music super to Barry says again when he says me Nami what's the difference if he said it at the end of the day there's no there's no everything went to the to the kids that inherited him there's no money left over then I'm a cliff to bury his wife it's not their mother foreign the belongings everything belongs to the assignment there's no money left to bury her hello says no it's a different story completely all right this guy is really stingy he tell he plots with his kids he says listen don't bury me hire manukas is sixty thousand dollars you crazy don't leave me over there in the in the in some guy or whatever it is deal with it and You Take the Money and Run ain't driving like you don't listen to them it's not his business to make his sons wealthy the Appalachian latible why should the why should the community foot the bill let his kids that's what we're talking about says the mishna the official mission is sponsored by Monica with limitation we have to remember this word lilam forever I think I was going to discuss it a girl the column actually the colors there shows how badlyness this color is Always Forever in her father's domain until she gets completely married in other words she doesn't eat truma we actually started the masecta the first mission we're talking about this idea when does a girl start eating truma because they used to get engaged and then they they wouldn't get married for a year she's getting she got engaged to Akai and her father's Israel if she's married to the country eats true love she's engaged to the Quran we're going to talk about it soon before until she gets she's there in the father's domain and that's what we're going to discuss sponsored by motion horn and honors Zach The Rock Rocklin and Lenny Lerner CPA this was being able to support liminal and to finish learning shots with the Rebellion now he doesn't want to sometimes you go on a flight you see this you take a like a 12 year old kid and uh you know one of the stewardesses comes off and they take the kid you give the kid over and they transport the kid to the next to the other destination they get there so there's a messenger there's a there's a there's a schlier the slea is like the person so if you there's a messenger from the husband and you give the daughter over to the messenger so it's like you gave her and she's already married at that point she becomes married she's liking the the husband's domain if the messenger comes from the father's side says the father so it's the same Allah if the father gives over his daughter to the messenger is about then she could start eating truma the whole thing about but what if he accompanies the schlier or what if one messenger method let your people speak to my people you know these questions guys the helicopters they fly in and then my people will take your people to and the daughter fine okay there's no giving over yet with a complete risk to complete resource which is because the father's hanging around there monsters looking out I was looking about once the schlichem of the Father which represent the father give it over to the representative I like that word better give it over the representatives of the husband then she became doesn't matter it doesn't have to be the father they gave her over his Representatives also could give her over my loyal law what is this word the first word of the mission foreign not necessarily the first mission in subas which it is it is the First Missionary service because that's the first gemara that we spoke about but it's another mission later on this is remember as we said they used to have a Very Long Engagement but they were semi-married what if the year comes up it's already 12 months 365 days and what and the husband's not ready he's sick he has covet whatever it is he can't get married today he gives my abilities OH Close mission of course we have to show the truma charge for all the new people Gary doesn't want to show it don't show it okay if coyan he can receive two percent or even more depending it's a minimum the minimum is one grain but if you have produce you have to give the client approximately two percent of your produce so if the year comes and she's getting married to a Korean she could start eating truma and he has to supporter and we said the whole fight is about one or two days then because the best then convenes on a Wednesday and we're talking about a Sunday so like Sunday to Wednesday who who supports her doesn't as a supporter so in that mission it says she eats truma commercial no loyalum she's still she does not that mission is off she does not eat truma until she reaches his domain his house his schlia she does any trouble okay um these are the two things that what just happened there there's two reasons we're gonna see this soon so maybe we'll um talk about it in a second these are the the four sheets that we have now very simple stuff by giving over the kala the girl to the shliach there's four shitas you have the green and you have the red as in every Mahal you have the extremes green means she's completely her husband's wife for everything everything means yerusha maisia whatever it is truma says zero nothing she's not she's not a wife at all however if that guy dies and she gets married to another person her xuva is only 100 instead of 200. she gets no benefit being married to this guy she only loses because now it's as if she was married even though there's no b or nothing she was married to somebody that's it she's losing soup and they have Rob that says I greet her avasi and everything besides shrumah she he he gets her salary and then but not truma and small says something similar to Sluggers that's why I put small also in red I did two Reds different colors but says she's not married if you give her over you give a Kyle over to the messenger there's only one thing that that she's married for that he gets the inheritor says again are inside when you give over the girl to the meth to the representative Lac call every aloha so I put ravasi first just because for me it was a little bit better this the two extremes revising the type of slugs on the bottom barav says everything besides truma there the Rashi points out I just want to say that Rashi says that by giving her over to the schlier it's like giving her into it you have to understand this it's not stem that's the end according to according to Rav according to rasi sorry she becomes a complete wife it's Hoppa that's how you get married yorusha for everything foreign yeah what um so I just I'm going back to advance uh RAV RAV says why because there's two reasons of the problem of Naruto Roost is really married so she should be eating treatment this is one problem called Symphony that is that if he never met her he doesn't really know who she is going to see her and he says wait a minute I didn't know you have this Mom it's terrible so it's uh the whole Everest in his bottle of my friend retroactive they weren't even engaged so all the truth she ate the whole year is no good is it the rice it's awesome the other problem is she might come to to feed her brother truma now if she's on the way she's already with with this that's such a problem but the first problem of maybe he's going to see a government doesn't help he might when he meets her he's going to see that she's no good for him and she ate truma for no reason so that's why he says everything he's she's married for everything for yerusha banana [Music] so this sticking up for the father for the rebbe and they're going to ask a question on ravasi Loi it says she's always in the father's domain until she comes into the Hope in other words she's also to eat truma so why does ravasi say that she could eat truma ravasi says you could eat truma over here it says she's not in the husband's domain until RAV tells his talmud says Rashi and his son or his son one or the other who I told you telling him off don't ask questions from something that you could flip it over I could answer you easily you're right you can eat Truman until someone you came back welcome back you can't eat truma until hope but guess what giving your daughter to the representative That's The Choppa and then therefore she could eat rumor so don't ask questions like you just throw out an answer like that flip it around and now going back to this chart says no the only thing they're married for when you give over your daughter two representative is your Russo results that if she dies he gets the super high that's exactly what she says no it means to say that she's so much married only to the point that she's considered married once and she's not considered absula when it comes to marrying another man and that guy the second guy that marries her only has to give her Cuba of a hundred not 200. obviously she's still a absula but in Suba she's considered abullah that's the first ether beautiful and says exactly where revas he says giving your over to the messenger is a complete marriage way there's a castle from Bright so hello the father was still involved in the picture he didn't really give her over yet she had some property on the way she went in with her future they're getting married tomorrow they're on the way to the hassano they did uh something is probably not a very good thing that they did they went into the same house to rest so the gumar is going to tell us that it depends depends whose house it is and depends if there's any words exchanged if they decide we're going to go into the house and use it as a room if they didn't say anything zero that's the that's the that's what the gamar is going to say going into her house means nothing going into his house is a completeness soon without saying any words even though the Netanya all these the the you know the father-in-law gave a desk and a watch and everything and it's still and it's in the husband's house Mesa and she dies Avia yarosha the husband doesn't get the watch he doesn't get anything because they weren't married because going into her house is nothing about if the father gave her over to the husband's messenger representative or one representative gave up to the other representative but it ended up in the husband's possession she ended up in the husband's domain or he had some sort of house and she he went into there and said this is how you could roam we're getting married even though the belongings are in the father-in-law's house Mesa balaja that's a fullness that's only for eurusha who says that on this whole list that the only thing you gain by the shmuel others say no it's a complete marriage giving over to the representatives it's complete that's revising complete uh true mom that but smallism is Extreme all year foreign because it's exactly what shmuel says small says that he does inherit her everybody else says no it's a complete marriage just giving overtime to representatives of marriage even he truma or you don't need truma but it's for uh no oh there you see nothing happens until after as you read it you see the obvious question is if they went into rest time in the London what if they just went into schmooze that that's like it's marriage amen safer what about it seems like a contradiction from the safe little saying it says that they went in death but if they went in without intent to get married then the question is what is Stam if there's no words exchanged what is that Allah did they go in for marriage did they go in just to rest over stomach tunnel it says two things here without explaining why they went in without saying straight out words if they go into her house it's to rest today but if they go into his house Luna swim because ultimately that's where you bring your wife that's what marriage is you bring your wife into your house so if you brought your your collar into your house at that point on the trip that's it that's considered this one Connor muscle relaxers [Music] so one last chart here we have this three words in the Torah it says an entire listeners it says in atario basula and it says we had the Absolut Naruto here's a new one the word directions three things from it these are three cases of a naira typically a naira who gets a naira a muraso whose mizana getsquila we have three exceptions to the rule first one is if they gave her over to the representative and that we know from the words listens by Sevilla she doesn't get skila like in Iron Rosa she gets hanik like every other Asian dish and if she's a buula and then the Soul she's married in ebullah also there's no inside and then we have chakras because we have the receiver waiting here not immediately okay that's one limo I was talking about once she goes into the representatives the husband there's no more Skillets maybe it's coming to exclude the case the last one over there Hoopa and she's still absula now we have another Russia so maybe the dress that we have now of losing space Sevilla is coming to exclude masrulluslia what's the what's the draw show s so when it says that she's engaged and she's not married that she had relations with him that's already excluded from the word Sula she had relations and also she's excluded from skilo she gets cunning in that case have a wonderful day