Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 46 by R’ Eli Stefansky

on friday i really appreciated my earliest memories from my own option and i'm sure my son will remember his too people asked why i wanted to bring my son time to wife his upshirt for the past two and a half years almost every single day at 7 15 in the morning my children would find me sitting by the table with a computer watching the sheer i would try to always have it on speaker so my children can hear it too but hashem the deaf has become not only a part of my life but also part of my family's life i work but if i if you would ask my children what i do they would answer that i learned torah because that is what they see every morning i remember the first time i heard my children jumping out of the bed screaming every morning when the show would start and zoom as you would say good morning my boys my one-year-old daughter says ah when my children think by the way today is going to be a record of good morning rabbi size from all over the world as many guests as we had last night that's how many good morning our boy size well actually we have a lot of guests this morning charlie what's your name zwecker zeshan you're here with your brothers yeah yeah and you really shameless where you from woodmere so you brought you slept them around yeah you the three grandchildren they live what they live in bet who do you live you let your kids live and bed it's the whole every time people ask me when i go to america where do you live i say but over there no no it's different where you live in olive okay fine it's okay huh you used to live in ireland yeah yeah yeah the seats over here a boy's side there's a lot of stuff going on here so over here this whole table this whole thing yes okay where am i there [Music] how can i do option very well rabboy said he has karate that the kid didn't say nothing the the the the baker ha up sharon himself didn't say good morning boys here's the video of him saying it he says it all the time but not under pressure here you go [Music] he says that yesterday out of shiloh well he didn't he's not even talking about the show i was just saying i brought it up yesterday do you say uh avi wrote the lotion melissa is his mother-in-law zachary should be a male it's yogurt i thought it's not private saying melissa you sure i said he says what we say in the uh text of the funeral you say it's both it's uh i got the melitsas right but not the you sure okay she should be a malicious shirt by the way islam the the island of gift used to say that the yeshiva bokkhum used to say you're on i'm an artist in two languages yiddish and english i'm ours in three languages so you can't you can't have any shia list i'm not good at the dick duke beautiful picture where's your menachem forgot what's his share his name again doctor he came up with him yesterday he says you know look what we gave up we came from south africa i'm so bad with nice carriers out there look what we gave up and here taka you see this guy picture from south africa thank you for coming to south africa and having schools there you share in person i joined your share of the meaningful people podcast start with the plan to do hazards i've been doing the dive ever since the biggest physique you've given me is that it's not about the job it's about the yoyo even on vacation one needs to make time to learn this picture is taken in the drakensberg mountains truly experiencing the beauty of hashem's world with the beauty of his torah may have continued blessing your family and all endeavors johannesburg south africa over here with the sheer look how beautiful it is in the background unbelievable my name is mati spiegel this is gabaldic multispeaker did a great job i wanted to do something similar when i was in africa but he outdid me i have some great videos for you from panama thank you mother spiegel here we go good morning [Music] yeah yeah okay [Music] okay you got it and this is mine of course but this i showed the first day back i don't think a lot of you saw it so we'll have to because there's a share on this one it's a good [Music] and of course the guy that comes at the end of i love that guy [Music] okay and i took this picture myself the ms look at those eyes staring right at me where are they i also think this picture this is a zebra that was almost got killed by a lion you could see two of the lions claws went right through his body those are mamish knives that he has dead all right the carlo is sponsored anonymously for all the new people that joined including robert schoenberg's son so laser sham is going to join us even after venezuelan the second sponsor is having a region member racist mother raise a guitar reader should be amalitsa on behalf of us and all our children the partners of the messer [Music] israel but don't worry there's no pardon today so you can relax benjamin as the israel and family in the memory of isaiah the motion of three cousins menorah three causing sarcalline ricky and menorah 12 yard side if you're new they were moshe menorah had a plane in chicago and he took his kids on a little trip during the nine days and the plane didn't take off well like it tried to take off and it crashed on takeoff and three grandchildren were killed together with him then shaman should have analia dr avraham epstein in memory of my precious southern belle wife mother and grandmother rita gay epstein and parents of age number five michael bemela mutty pearl and i i didn't i didn't read it well until i read the um what's it called the uh are mercaz and then i realized that all three of them are sponsoring i thought it's michael bemello was sponsoring for iron earth but it's all three vikings here we go after sheer last night i got home maybe 11 30 ish and i didn't look at the sugar yet and today we have i don't know 15 16 charts very very easy sugiyo i did look at this again i shouldn't say i didn't i looked at it during shabbos very briefly i guess the it's a very this is ms easy suggest russia's and you know but simple things we go from thing to thing not you don't have to hold cup so we're holding on daf i'm an aleph honorable two four six eight lines down yeah what time did you go to sleep you didn't go to sleep what time did the share come out let's see when did you send the shirt out it's still going to come at 3 30. wow unbelievable all right turn around it wasn't that hard because oh i put you to sleep because i said it's easy so okay whatever sorry about him so we're talking about a mercy shamrock somebody that tells his his wife that she was mazana he has adam von schwarzer we find out that he's a liar he's a mercy shamrock on choice two things he gets two penalties first of all you he has to pay a big nas and also malcolm the israel and another pastor malcolm schlemmer choose a moment how do i know vancho means here it is chart one not that we need a positive but this isn't the haiti shamrock bunch of ways it says mayor kesef you have to give money right so it's not even a shiloh you have to give money to who to the father so vanchu is a monetary oinish elev is through zamalcus minalon and how do we know these so i told you yesterday although at the end this year we had very interesting i think it's interesting because typically you don't see this in chats usually it's one word another word and yesterday did the same thing today it's even more um is true here here's the here's the chart it says israel by moisty shamrock and we learn muay the shamrock from the word the same word by ben sawyer meyer and it says the word ben by ben sarumeir and it also says the word ben or bin by malchus so it's a four four step limu yes means ben if a person is a ben hakois russia if he's a a product or he's liable he's a son of malcus in other words he deserves malcus great so that's one more next suggest and but any time came azir in this that you there's no you don't get a penalty unless the torah warns you where's the warning so this is the famous possum about los angeles you shouldn't be a how do you say rahul in english a peddler yeah peddler nope so he takes the word dover and he says dover is not a thing dover is a debor you should be careful from all bad deburim okay arashi points out that cause it says vince marto anytime it says hisham or pen the al is the lois assay this is israel to talk to make up a story to be mercy shamrock and because you did so the pastor continues and says you get malcus venus roy so you get malcolm's so the hazara the warning is in this passage that alone won't give you malcus if you talk about shinhari you don't get malcos but that's the warning don't talk to shanar don't say don't be like the shamrock then we have another parish of mighty shimmer over there it says the word v is true and because we already have azar you get marcus lazar who learns from my timeline how come he doesn't learn from a smart we call dover we call what's the following talking about kerry so he says they're connected say i'm pointing at the prosecutor don't think that just stop me threw it out there no because they're connected in the circuit a person should be careful during the day it shouldn't be mahara so that he doesn't come to tomah balayla do you show them very interesting why doesn't why can't he learn out moisty shimmer from venus martin mccall davaro because he uses it for this huh it's already used up he has no place to learn emojishara in other words the usharim are saying that this is a director it's a this is the right to be maharaja because it's not stamina okay it's a nice limo it's a nice russia no it's so strong this lemur that it it doesn't let you learn anything else out from the paso in other words it's direction the learning that the hero during the day is there iso very nasa on that he says we learn now from vinish martin my time doesn't learn out from allah's apostles what's wrong with taylor no is a warning if in case you want to see it in the chart we said you split the word rocco don't be soft to one of the uh what's the word litigants okay litigants because that don't don't show favoritism to one of the litigants nexu brandon so means that it comes to present with aidan if you look over here impossible it says this he brought the ali meaning he himself brought the adam what if he didn't bring the idea he's not making the possible they show up on their own and they come and they testify on themselves now i'm thinking about it so unless maybe not he maybe he was he started it he's he's claiming it but he didn't ask him to come and they came by themselves okay so it's not nymer rosso he is kilo same cash that we had yesterday how's it possible that the adam and her get killed either they ate them are saying the truth and she gets killed and they go out free that would be terrible if every time adam come to testify in bed no matter what they say you kill them obviously only kill them when they zombie men when they're lying and if they're lying then she doesn't get killed so how's it possible to kill all three of them what if he told them to come and testify it doesn't say in the gemara he has to rent them he has to pay them he just has to talk to them pick up the phone and say hey please come and testify and that's enough it's not enough to call them up and beg them to come testify you have to actually pay them make a payment give them 25 cents give them a dollar then you become hype my time of day one limo here normally mo it's again but this time he went easy on us two words [Music] you shouldn't put on an interest you know i take interest you're not take ribbons victoria talks about when it comes to interest what's the answer to take interest on money and also on food metallica and food what is there no history to take interest on property tonight from [Music] if the mercy shamrock said to the adam i'll give you a building in manhattan if you come and testify against my wife is that considered that he paid them why because the whole limit is from and ribbus it says money and it's only money so perhaps mercy shimmer is only money interesting just to point out revere mia many times in shas i don't remember a lie just remember sometimes like in bum and see the famous one what's hats mao says what i'm saying this is he has a style that he asks these kind of interesting questions what if it's not mommy like this he takes the idea and he chops it up a little bit yeah you remember okay if you're gonna go to ribbons he learning from ribbus to take interest you have to have a shove of protest so what if he gave them less than they gave you to eighteen by monkey shaman listen to brutal schneider mao what if he gave a prudence but it was a half a brutal to this eight i have it but the other okay no answer to those questions boy of ashi hoitsi shamral in a sunnah i'm showing him out interesting a guy marries a woman the next day he divorces her then the day after that he's making the mitzvah of marzugusa or the famous joke that he said oh why are you marrying you again because for cheney she's good enough okay so he's behind that and then he decides that he's going to be mighty shamrock uh i didn't find suleim you your masana went last week by the irishman of the first marriage today he's married a second time could he is he over is he in the parasha of moisty shamrock he's doing everything he's supposed to do to be mercy sharma he's lying and everything but it's about the the first engagement not the second one does he have the right or could he be in the power show when he says his sister-in-law fell to him we're not going to go into evil now we all came out of your vomits by the way how many people shamalikum what's your name from abe sinners also sinners ah you don't even know so i'm alive from woodmas and yesterday somebody sat right over there also from cedar airs okay great and i just what's your name climb min from lakewood just yesterday we had a guy sitting right there for like one we had two lake winners okay and we also last night we had guys from birth chambers you're not going to believe it this guy showed up from the challenge the whole place was full of guests after all the next time remind me somebody remind me if we have so many guests pleaser we should just bring them all here we have to make like a picture okay instead of going around takes 10 minutes to ben fine so a person died without children his wife falls leave him to his brother now the brother right he's me he says hey you were masana when my brother got engaged to you you're masada during the engagement [Music] one of these two questions i could answer not the question if he got married to her twice but the question about a brother a father says i gave my daughter to you then the pirate ship monkey server says i gave it to you obvious to you and not to your brother so you cannot have a taina on a brother's engagement you mind your own business that the mercy chairman is your thing now if it was the second marriage first marriage that we don't have an answer for next next tokyo yesterday we mentioned the machines were abundantly as they're in the passage of shamrock takes it literally i looked for sulim i couldn't find sulaim he brings the similar brings a sheet the best that mamish literal rabbi and say no it's not literal myra bono maybe what's the machine if he could prove it with adam which he has to you just look super mono she gets exuberant franking in mario i mean she's insane what do you mean you have to pay her she's uh so you know she gets killed she gets killed there's no subaru since but if she's a mazada before they get engaged you should look super mono if you thought that your wife was absula and you find out that she was masana before you got engaged she doesn't get anything okay so over here it says that you get a mana ninja the guy that made up the story the husband we find out that he's a liar any shamrock he's he's lying who'd like him he gets punished two things he gets malcus and he has to pay a hundred again i'm going to point this out if a guy is honest a girl he physically does something wrong he has to pay 50. this guy and oh where's he father yowie is not here today but your father said okay because he's he was attempted murder but he didn't do anything with his mouth los angeles could be worse than a physical thing over here he pays double double fine two-year salary not one year salary plus he gets 39 malcols it's unbelievable okay uh yeah maybe she can know the warning wasn't enough some people if if it works try it out on your children see let me know yes that's fine now it says like this doesn't matter whether he went through with the marriage if there was a b or not it doesn't matter he gets malcus no the torah says that there's a bia here this would be a why i don't know why that's what the torah says now the marshal says where does it say in the torah and what do we do with these words it says what does it mean that was beer vegetable also a lotion of beer el or a bun on they have to explain it they say it's not literal so what does it mean he comes to her with accusations vector very loud he got close to her doesn't mean bia he got close he started schmoozing with her all of a sudden he realized in the conversation wait a minute there's something here something sounds fishy she's starting to admit to him that she's misana and then he looks into it deeper and he finds they didn't mean the whole thing so the aircraft doesn't mean literally back over that means that there was a schmooze if it's not literal so what do you mean i didn't find sulu he wasn't even with her how could he know if this is two things could happen there there's anything that come along and say that shus masano i don't have adam to say the opposite i don't know if you don't have adam bukitzer we're talking about finding aden but not physical riots he brings we learned in the ibamas in those days people are very concerned maybe she's lying that she's not absurd that she's absula so she brings her own sheet that has dam on it to pretend that she's absolutely he brings a sheet that doesn't have dime on it so they used to bring aiden they had adam over there to check out the sheets it's a big thing zeros a hundred zoz okay whatever the shot is but according to river elizabeth it says what does it mean absolutely how do you bring a sheet you bring a physical physical evidence ella about my veil absolutely these are the aiden that are going to make my daughter kosher i'm proving that she was never missed out how could i prove that the that she was not masano because these two of them are going to say that those two of them that you brought our liars they were in a different country at that day again you brought the simla the dress the the the sheet well right on my personal sim law what does it mean how can you explain it here again the word simla is broken up to some law by the time they're done it's like a brand new garment okay they bring your sip taisus has the bomb cash here it could be mayan entices and different china what good does it do if there's a similar if i have aiden to choose mizana you could jump on your head and bring as many sheets as you want she's mizana i have two weight in the susana if she if i have two and she wasn't misana so you could also bring your sheet with without with blood it doesn't matter what's the difference what does this similar do okay says that it doesn't matter if it's be okay dark or dark or natural unnatural obesity in other words and it's very important i once heard a guy told me mephora she says be ashleigh darko with anita is not a problem wrong wish like a darko is a raiso it's a chorus with a needle with any arise in the world it's mamish like regular beer however when it comes to mighty shamrock he says he's an afghan for now it doesn't necessarily mean shloka darko it means even if the husband got married and he was with his wife his relations worship it's also enough to say that she was misana kidarko what was saying here is it could be even should like darker when the husband was with her the torah says that he was with her mother no it could even be like a darko but this knows again the whole torah a person if he's with his sister shalikidarka it's the same exact thing she'll like it again there's no difference at all when it comes to moisture shamrock he must say that it was kidarka srilaki that doesn't work he has to accuse her of a kadarka not a shalaka dark he could be with her shelly kadarka he himself the husband was lying could be or not lying you could be sure like but it's taina is only one tiny different than the whole torah style can only be let's choose mizana kidarko why because that's what the tire says says doesn't make any sense what are you saying come on is not literal there's no b at all nacho loki dark and nakadarica zero even if he's never with her at all there's just a choppa so they're there's no suin through but there's no physical relation that's also enough to accuse her curious literal literal and i don't know what that look is i'm just assuming that it looks like miako because it's always like him kavanaki i don't know but it's against the the rabbit fine and he says it says in the past it has to be kedarka so what are you telling me it's shallow kedah even shall i kill it it's natural like a dagger unfortunately in the past it has to be not in the bhagavad-gita we just turned him involved in bay sponsored machine horn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner's epa and los being able to support luminatoria and to finish learning shots with the rebellion hello is different than the rest of the torah the rest of the torah there's no difference between qatar and sri lanka there's one exception to the rule by multi shamrock it has to be kedarka on both on both sides the husband has to be kidarko because it says and he has the accuser of kedarka says daily commission official mission you're probably very familiar with this mishna with the whole ahmad because this is a famous sogi and kidushin and many of us learn kidus in yeshiva especially the suggested you have the the three stages of a girl's life until she's 12 from 12 with simone to 12 and a half is an arrow and after that is a baguette so when she's a katana and the father marries her off bikini shell because bishtar ube these are the three ways you marry off a person gets married so what's interesting is if you pay attention here mckessif three things happen here first of all the father gains a monetary gain okay he made money whatever talking about the safari in africa when we left our lodge the guy says listen be careful of cows huh yeah there's cows everywhere he wasn't lying you drive down the highway there all of a sudden a cow starts walking across the street what's going on huh he wasn't lying okay okay the island thinks that you're from england fine it wasn't lying it was the lion picture anyway um what's going on over there in africa is it follows not that it's so into cows but it's a dowry every guy that gets married there has to give the father of the bride a cow two cows 20 cows it's all depending on the kashivas of this this woman how many golden teeth whatever and whatever the massive is so that's why there's a lot of cows everywhere they don't even eat it it's to give to the to the schwere okay so the father when it comes to kessler he gets the cows he gets the monetary value he also receives the conducion and he decides who he's marrying her off to is there's three things going on here when it comes to star you only have two things he doesn't get any monetary value but he receives the star in his hand he gets it he gets in his hand and he decides okay she can marry him so it's two things it comes to bia it's only the third thing so it's one two and three again keseth he makes a monetary gain he receives it in his hand and he decides to who bia he only decides to who only the cast of star would be uh no cows zak ibm see also a father as igamar is going to say top of memphis first words he gets any findings she finds something he gets to keep it because of ava animosity if she has a salary he gets her salary oh by far the real if she makes a net there she says she's going to do 100 somersaults he's he has the ability to know it well mccabell is gita so this is very interesting we have to pay attention over here if she got married she's out of his russos he has nothing to do with her so how could he take her get how can you receive a gift for okay because it's talking about from ireland and she's still what you still have to say she's a katana before i mean it's before bagueras okay it could be a naira also by far isn't it guitar again if he divorced her from irisin we're talking about in those days when you get engaged you got engaged there's a real engagement it was with a ring with the whole thing it's a half of marriage so you have to divorce with the real get he can receive it again how in the world does she have fields because she she inherited it from her mother's side so the father doesn't have the ability to eat any of the fruit although when she dies he gets it from her gets the whole urushi from her nieces but once she gets married yasser lavabao the fat the husband has one up or two up on the father he does get to eat the fruit that we had already if this remember the suggest of nursing homes she comes in with the same log he gets the he gets the the benefit from the nifty look the high beam is in a cell and he has to feed her uber perkina and he has to redeem her big hit the share you need a mission to tell me that if your wife gets captured by the bad guys i would think you just go to sleep and just get married again to somebody else no it's part of the soup it's not a joke it's part of the the deal she remem you know why you get by the way yeah that's why you get them i see a dying it's a deal i get your my sediment because if you get captured which is very frequent in those days i have to redeem you big money furosa i can't just take my wife i'm not my wife he just can't take his wife and throw her body on the sidewalk somewhere he's to bury her review a filo only should be stroll by the way a big big news i i i don't want to forget to tell you robbie kornbluth today is mando's last day in energy's role yeah he's leaving the famous dog bark hashem borshe patrani i brought my son from los angeles territorial and it's his dog and he raised hashem now i could be a magician without a dog nobody's gonna have time this has all those guys that don't watch the share because the guy has a dog now he's gone okay thank you let's wait until it happens i'll let you know tomorrow i just remember because i saw my wife crying what's going on like he understands mr carmel is almost crying he used to take care of him so bamas bring your family over today last time um that interesting and hugging those days in uh by levaya um where is it here this i found the picture that i did these people at funerals they use the flutes it's a it's an emotional instrument whatever you have to bring two people with flutes at the funeral um no matter what if you're very poor you have to hire the fluters and a fake person to go no you're such a great woman they'd have no idea what this woman is they cry and they make everybody else cry so it says anymore this conducion because of manila and how do i know that the kedushin goes to the father interesting thing yeah the girl gets a ring the father says give it to me he takes the ring somebody stroll she gets nothing i don't know omar have you done my crow the yachts i really hope my daughter-in-law doesn't i just had a whole conversation with her about and then this and the new society this doesn't fit into any anything the americanis if you look at the pasta here it says you're talking about a father again things that we don't understand a father sells off his daughter as america so i explained it a few days ago explain again if you haven't heard in those days people were extremely poor we had a whole suggestion about between tuesday and wednesday who's high enough to be fired as the wife if best thing was on this day it was such a thing people were dying like flies without without food a person couldn't afford it at the msa you have people can't afford their children they give them up for adoption it's sort of like an adoption you give up your kid to a better place somebody has money you be the um okay but it lasts until nairos once she has simone she goes free he has the ability to marry her mario after if he doesn't do any of the things that the taurus says the yatsukhi nam aing kosov the question is what is that to say in kosovo means for free vyatsuki nam she goes out finished so the extra words in kosovo are completely extra let's just like i just said the extra words are completely textured yeah so the extra salad so this guy the the master of this of this alma doesn't get any money but viesh kasib the father who's another master in our society the children are the masters we listen to them they tell us they dictate that there's no there's no kind of no concept of of of of covered for the elders it's a whole different generation we're not talking about that we're talking about it back then master umano avio that's the marvelous okay you you arriya that is money it says incasive he doesn't have money the master doesn't have money but there is money in another situation but how do you know who gets the money maybe she gets the money hashtag if the father from our surgery of mighty shaman says in the apostles he comes to bed and he says i gave my wife to this jerk who's lying about my daughter my my daughter to this jerk so he has the ability to give his daughter to whoever he wants e chocolate casper she's going to take the money no way way my enemy leaked maybe the puzzle is talking about but nairo could do things she has kenyan maybe she could be mcconaughey herself she doesn't need her father's permission and she should take the money or my crow benurail bay salvia as you see in this apostle it's talking about nadarum possibly says and then all the way at the end of the the the parishes is being of libito basically the father and his daughter any gain that she has goes to her father says gamar if that's true if i can learn from any game that kedushin goes to the father then why do i need apostate by other things veloho dhammavanam ravinaya and chemist basilovio how do i know that the salary goes to the father so what should the answer be binurah besovia koshnurim just like the master gets all her salary salary and guess what else i can't learn out of it so i'm back to square one how do i know that the father gets killed from the two different kinds of things one is the isser of another and one is money milky day you should learn from the semefato who gets the 50 shekel tarzan of course the father gets it so to kidushin the father should get the conduction but might because and again it's two different types of money one is a canaanite it's a fine it's a big radish and one is money maybe but in addition we had all sugiyah that the father also gets the humiliation not humility yeah that's what i'm saying no you couldn't scream at the at the camera not humility humiliation okay whatever humiliation and the appreciation i ain't shown what that means we go to the market and see how much she's worth etc so you see that the father does get something that's not a cannas he gets real money real damages shawnee bushes of gambian as we had a few times the father has the ability to make money off of her by giving her as a wife to the to the terrible mukesh him guy which we have to understand the big problem here we're trying to learn kedushin and we're saying we're learning it from kedushin of mukesh it's something something's off here a little bit fine we have to understand it we asked bottom line we asked maybe the question it says an apostle that n kesef yasuki no mean kasif so means for kidus but maybe it means it goes to her says okay if there was a guerrilla in kesarashi explains it has to be similar to amma she's working as a slave as amma and it should be that if let's say he paid a million dollars for her and now she has c monum we should figure out and uh what's the word when you um uh she came out a few days early you have to make it up how was it called terrible word no uh no avenue prorate you have the pro rate thank you i have to prorate it but there's no proration she goes out free but when it comes to the father so now it's going to be similar to the to the to the other the adain one master you don't prorate the other master the father gets the money he doesn't get it he does so they're similar mela don't say that she gets the money because it doesn't fit in it doesn't it's not symmetrical says the gemara but at the end of the day but the two different leaving and when she leaves the master not kilometers of the government she leaves and completely never has anything to do with it but at the end of the day she's still somewhat under his bylaws under his uh authority when it comes to yerusha might see a dime this is there's one thing that she kind of leaves almost completely and that's neder morozzo of ilubalo mephirim la nidorel you see that he loses the control because now has to share control with the husband so there is something that that he she leaves and may look similar to the odd one rabbi sai welcome to all the guests have a wonderful day come again you