Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 40 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning boys here in south africa in black rhino the kosher safari tours unbelievable donnie and beautiful here here i am on the deck right over here is a water hole occasionally animals come by now i thought it was like a reverse mifas that in the other place in madigue there were animals all day long 20 elephants here 10 elephants then buffalo and rhino and occasional cats lions give the sheer nothing zero and then i realized perhaps they are intimidated by my voice because i was here earlier and there's some animals and as soon as they saw me they ran off so who knows rabbi sai we're going to try to do it as quick as possible yesterday we had a longer share and it took eight hours to upload with a lot of agmasnefish try to do it a little quicker one email and we'll jump into it and it's in hebrew from katrio country ravitz i'm just going to translate the subject is i just want to tell you that i love you rebelli it's already more than a year that i'm learning the daf with you besides the records that i achieved learning eight messages the first one of those eight you gave me to do the same at the same in front of the whole tibor i came to a new record the first time in my life i had a true tsar that i couldn't learn torah on tish above if there's no animals at least we hear some beautiful birds and this tire is also in your house so i think for every day that you have the strength to get up and teach us and i thank your family that enables the yeshvadas to give yourself over to the shear this is that you said this is in my opinion the entire torah on one foot if we will erase all these ideas of different categories and different a dot how do you say that in english different groups of people and we'll stop the cat cattle uh catalogue them there's no sparting ashkenazim hasidim and will learn to love everybody so then therefore next year bazel hashem there won't be a dish above we're going to jump right into it but before we do that we have to realize that it's only i believe two days until the next volume of art scroll so our boys say please bring your friends tell them and describe to them the beauty of this sub is how gishmak every day is it's a beautiful in addition rip official from official catering told me a while ago and i keep on pushing it off he told me and i hope i got this clear i know he said this but i hope we could do this he said that every single person who received a free gemara and learned every single day for that kimura he's giving them a new free gemara volume two messages volume two so please let us know who you are please bring your friend every year look whoever brought katrio cantor of it changed his life eight missed this later you could do the same thing you know you have a friend out there that's not learning as much as he needs to learn give him that push and base hashem you'll see tremendous things the partners of the kylo is best all the new people have joined the second partners of kylo is avi and rachel kaminsky memory of rachel's mother esther rita should be shara on on our behalf in our children's behalf i heard that because the the um the hebrew goes backwards over here i forgot what the guy said he said on the screen it looks different i don't know and shall not abandon allah for my family myself and for this question number three maybe that's what they said number four benji and st israel and family member of our zadie motion and three cousins sarah klein riki and raheli menorah on the twelve years that the instruments should have all have an alien parasite number five dr abram epstein in memory i'm not gonna i'm not gonna choke up now and maybe my precious southern belle wife i gotta move this away sorry angry at mother rita gay epstein parisi number six michael bemela monty pearl and iron hirsch iron hurst the famous iron nurse from lakewood to berserker to make it to umar rosh hashanah this year and the last day of today's turning of the deaf young cohen the official mdy msp will get their razor share when we turn to def mem today's deaf mem we're all the way on the bottom of the lab test from bay's last line hoyness choice about we have to start moving here the mishnah described the difference between a holiness and a father anus drinks out of his own bowl his own dirty water he made a mess he was a woman he has to marry her but my father is not much to marry her omarov let's see i forgot to turn this on but we'll do it right now and it's probably not going to work anyways but we'll do it for yo safes to say that's the gamora mr mcmahon so now for this we go to chart number one here we go and we have this chart a number of times there we know there's a famous gizer shava between us and me over here mahadi we have exercise we learned that it says by one case of ishkal we know it's checkable we don't know how many by the indus it says commission casa but you know if it's shekel so we take we combine the two commission so since we learn one from the other missionary league so too we should learn the concept that you must marry your voice maybe we have a chart yeah chart number two velocity shakhiv to marry the woman you violated so too you have a cave to marry the woman you seduce me no there's a special mute that he has the ability to decide whether or not he should marry her lawyer with his will kate said what does this mean exactly here it is chart number two in front of you what you have see alicia the man must marry the woman it's an essay it's a positive commandment on the flip side it says it says in the mishnah that if she's a mom serious he does not marry her why not s says always it pushes off essa if you have one against the other like on the chart you have the loys of marrying or any other one of the isurum to marry that i say you should the positive you should marry her should push off the fact that she's in mamzeres oh my lee so he answered me when i said over ref kindness is when i said this over this video told me hey where's the classic example could go in mila pizzeras if a person if a kid if a baby has uh a saras and you're not allowed to cut off a taras and the tsuras is on his mila is that the mitzvah of mila pushes off the license of cutting the tsuras or a similar case to that the [Music] but over here since she could say i don't want to marry him me is icloud the whole essay goes away so according to rashi we teach her to say i don't want to marry you and therefore the essay of marrying doesn't push off the license of moms and what if she doesn't want what if she really likes the guy so according to rashi he would marry him serious but other returns say no the whole concept falls apart since it's so weak since she could deny it it's like the baby saying i don't want to have a bris mila and he doesn't have to have a brisk mila so it's a very weak mitzvah bersamila obviously the baby can't say that so it's a very strong mitzvah but over here since she could say and deny the fact that she wants to be married to this guy so it's a very weak marriage it's a very weak mitzvah so therefore even if she wants to marry him he cannot marry her because it's a weak mitzvah and that kind of mitzvah doesn't say that's how other retreat him learn says the official mishnah sponsored by moishiko in fatslacho with limited torah and paranosa please excuse me i'm drinking directly from the battle and i already made a bracha he's so emotional venezuela so she says we're going to say in the gemara that this is actually two different cases are you saying in other words her father doesn't have control over her anymore she is the same old she gets the cannots typically who gets the knives the father but over here she gets the kinase so she can say no she has the full power over it and since she agreed to marry this guy so the grow on the side says over here that this is a continuation of the other mission that says these are the differences between oinus and mephata so here you have another example since she was nisratsa she agreed to it and it goes to her so she doesn't get a canas potter here's the difference between us foreign is this is very important to remember says who's rebelling rebecca so he's going in the sheet and we said the sheet earlier that nairo if you have a naira girl who's 12 and she has shimano and she got engaged the gemara type of engagement with the ring the whole thing she became asian sish and she broke that engagement with the get so yes says yes it says in the past that she is loya russo but what changes is that she herself gets the knives not the father [Music] yes that you're right she gets the kanas but the other payments of bushes and begum [Music] that the father gets to keep says mario i'm in my how do we know how do we learn this military you saw him you're talking about an orphan you saw him if she's a true orphan she doesn't have a father then of course there's no canaas she agreed to be with this guy why should why should he have to pay her el camacho the narration of cyrus and we're not talking about a really soy amount what we're talking about is she has a father but she got engaged and she got divorced so now she's like an orphan in her father's lifetime and nevertheless her father's around still there's no kunas the nitrogen is either in small just like the soil herself gets the cannots for herself afners in the southerners of this guy she was 12 years old and she got engaged and she got divorced mother class goes to herself and not to her father omar barashila omar nusabo omarov omarav they all said this in a big train in the name of rav halakhan kurubi lazar that looks like her lozer that even she has a father she got divorced she gets the keep she does not know at all because she makes decisions not her father corey ravalay the rebels rav said about this rebel lozer toy ono [Music] you are let's see rashi tobiano i thought meant the best of but it's praiseworthy says rashi let's see inside like the word ashrae with argument the ashrae in other words he was one of the five talmud we know the terrible tragedy twenty fourth thousand tell me them we can't even fathom it died during sphere and the world was desolate so came and he gave over the torah verb it's says now we see i hope my phone is i forgot to turn my phone off i hope nobody calls in the middle if they do we're gonna have to stop and go okay it's not live so it's not the end of the world okay it says rav that rebel azer took what rebecca said and he gave the shot to it he explained what the shot is he didn't just say they were trying so you see here you saw that when you say allah you don't just say mutter also he explained why he explained the reasoning behind it and therefore you see that the torah hashem says gave it over to the five to meet them but we see that we're going to have a torah it's going to continue ashrae praiseworthy it's give valdec it's going to continue says the mishnah the official mission now we're going to go into the other things as well and we discuss it we already know what it is but it based on this mishna and it's our what exactly are we giving for humility what is the humility and how do we do it i call it it's all dependent on the one inflicting the humility and the one receiving the humility says rashi an amazing amazing thing this is rashi that we're talking about an in-between person a banana because if he's a real low kind of guy then first if she's very low she doesn't have that much bouchon if he's very low ah guys schneider in the street it's a loser that gave us that no but rashi over here said that i i would never understand by myself when it's a great great person it's also nothing imagine rebel value yourself slaps you in the face like he used to do i'm not saying that was a bush a better example uh i was by raphael kennedywski and a person that i was with and i said this mice a few times i was making a guy about truva and and he had a ring on his finger and he asked me if you could take pictures of me says i don't want pictures from a woman and his grandson said what do you mean why not made a whole joke out of his no no pictures from a woman so the guy is very insulted he understood he said he asked me and i explained to him i shouldn't have explained and basically because he has a ring he called him a woman so he's movish because kamkanievsky perhaps the bush is not that great over here you see it it's it's no hadith a little bit the rashi says the the greater the person is the less is okay at the end of the day if we're going to talk about abram kanewski if somebody does give you boucha then it's the greatest thing in the world then you take that boost shot and you say it's filo with it reprimand tremendous things you don't answer the person back you take it you say that i'm not answering i should have had this and this hashem all the time anytime i make a mistake in the gemara the biggest in the world but as i mentioned yesterday uh tremendous parishes by that shimon and levi when they took revenge and they took all the money from he took all the rush that was because they held that the bush that deena had was so great because of who she was and and her status in society and who her father was that all that money didn't even equal to the boucha that they caused the gam what does it mean depreciation like a slave on the slave market kama is how much is she worth before she was violated how much after the gemara is going to explain kanas and finally what is it everybody has to pay 50 regardless of the status the kits any time there's a limit like eric with the torah says 20 and five and this or we're going to have soon the 30 of the aved the five of uh ben any time there's a kitsava there's a certain amount of bachelor we can't say oh this baby he's the son of a rebbe so the the the cayenne will you pay the you have to give a hundred checkup no every kid is five shekel by the way uh stomach riddle what davening is answered on the spot every time you dive in for it you get the answer on the spot the answer is for hazard gets up there and says she and there was stories like that the people did that mistake and it's a tremendous push on the spot and the twila is answered right away says who told you that in addition to the 50 that this girl gets she's also entitled to boys what if a person violated the daughter of a king it's 50 he violated the daughter of the farmer hamish should be the same amount impossible who was killed by a shark the the amount is 30 shekel so you're going to say avid nike magalias a slave who uh makes holes in pearls uh margalis is a pearl not not so much a diamond but a pearl if he makes he he makes 30 shekel a day this guy he's making crazy amount of money so you kill that guy you're going to only pay 30 shekel and a simple slave that's worthless all he does is he's a tailor so they're gonna have the same amount obviously not so you see it doesn't go by your logic the tire says 30 is 30 for everybody so two over here says moro avedo [Music] if two people violated this one poor woman so the the language is reversed over here if first tyson says it doesn't matter that first somebody violated her unnaturally unnatural way but unnatural ways she remains absula so the second guy that violates her he's she's still considered absolute the interesting thing the usami says that in such a case the two people violate her one kid darko wants you like a darker because if both of them are kadarka the second guy doesn't have to marry her velocity alicia doesn't apply to him but if xiaomi says in this case velocity alicia applies them to both they both have to marry her so who marries her the one that she decides obviously if a guy violated a woman who's never with anybody it's 50. so what th this guy who ca who was boiling her after somebody else's brother she's already damaged good so to speak he has to pay the same commission so obviously see that it's him and in addition to that you have to pay the budge say the same samara a slave what he's a disgusting looking guy he says this is 30. [Music] why do you pay the 50 because he violated her honey the 50 that that you pay is takas those 50 are for the violation of gamma has nothing to do with being violated voices of gom you pay even if you punch somebody in the face nothing to do with the violation this woman was violated that's why you pay your 50. so the 50 is on one side the becomes nothing to do it's for something else robot [Music] it's for the the hannah the enjoyment that this guy had the fifties for the hanoi but in addition to that they could butcher them you also have to pay for the depreciation and the humility but where in the torah does it say that the buddhism god goes to the father maybe the canas goes to the father like the third says but the persian gum goes to her a microbino besovia this is a famous gimbal of every kind of benefit that this young girl has it goes directly to the father how do you know that when a young girl works the salary goes to the father father has the ability to sell his daughter as a shepherd and therefore you see from this puzzle that just like if he has the right to sell her as a shift as a amma and the alma she's a jewish slave everything she does and makes goes to her master so if the father has the ability to sell her off to somebody else so certainly he has the ability to take him for himself hello says so but why don't i need this russia i just did the joshua before benue basil everything goes to the father. so you have to say rebe sylvia is talking about that if the the girl made a ned there she said i'm not gonna benefit from this i'm not gonna do that then the father has the ability to annul the nether [Music] if the father has the ability to be made for ned there the father should take boises there's two different things you can't do opinion of you can't say i'm going to learn this from this one is nidarim that's israel and one is monetary issues monetary you don't learn just like the father gets the 50 shekel knives so you should also get the bosh's the depreciation and the humility again the same idea you don't learn monetary halachas from knockouts why do we say that the budget goes to the father [Music] the father could marry her take money conducion and allow this minoval um this terrible looking person to be kinder her says rashi bibia he could uh trade his daughter's be off for money to maneuver depreciate her humiliat humiliate her for money he has that he has that ability so if he has that ability so certainly when somebody else humiliates her and appreciates her it should go to the father says how much does a person is he willing to pay if he goes to the marketplace there's two women one is abula one is a basula how much is he willing to pay a difference says if she's just a maid doing housework might have kilomena what does he care if she's a boolea or a basula because he wants to marry you off to his slave says tyson's by the way he says stop you don't take a jewish daughter of arusha shiva and say that whatever a slave in the marketplace a slave is cost a thousand dollars and if she's absolutely she costs eleven hundred dollars so the hundred dollar difference that's what she's that's what you have to give this no she's the daughter of shiva what's the connection to the slave she says you just see this idea that there's a way to shut up and evaluate a woman says the gemara so what do we do here he has a slave but why are you buying a for your slave because you want them to have more slaves and you'll become wealthier so then what's the difference if she's a boolean or absolute there's no difference to you says sometimes a master wants to he appreciates his slave he's not doing it to have offspring and more slaves he's doing it to give his slave a gift and the slave will appreciate more when that gift is absula rather than abula and therefore there's a difference in the marketplace so first of all i just want to say real quickly we are also slaves we are a vadim tacos so you see over here there's such a concept that the master sometimes wants to gift the slave if we give him aquarius ruach if we give akash then it's only natural faculty broker to give back to us you see this in the gemara over here but we have to give him chris we have to give him knackers another thing mccabusa pointed out to me he said that he knows a man who his one of his employees worked really really well for him and he gifted him a brand new almost a million dollar home and he's talking about me it's true i want one time this guy did tremendous stuff for me and i was very appreciative and i i just built a brand new home to uh to sell and i said you know what let me just give him the home and the guy lives there at the mazette and there's such a thing i'm not saying he's not a uh a slave kaiser and he's very very far from that very good friend of mine but there's such a thing that a master gives matana to to or a boss could give him a ton of to employee or to uh to to whatever okay says the mishna again we are doing the official mishnah sponsored by maisha korean fatsaloka with lima terra and paranosa oh look what's behind me a rhinoceros unreal a robocy or an acerous wow i don't want to scare him because he's going to run away he's staring at me now unreal let's go see say some alien to the rhinoceros this is completely in the wild a boy's eye in the wild in africa a rhinoceros from all animals showed up here okay he's single they have very poor eyesight and this particular rhinoceros the horn is cut off that horn that's cut off i think is worth somewhere in the vicinity of a million dollars and they don't want the poachers to come in here they come in with helicopters and uh they they just cut they they shoot the rhinoceros and kill it and take the horn so the park decided on its own to cut off the horn and i'm gonna walk away from it so that it could drink maybe we'll be able to see a drink here we go wow so on the final day maybe the final day something clutch of like a rhinoceros came and uh wow what a kashiva's that is khashov it was all worth it better than than all the other animals that i've seen here okay unreal okay thank you hashem no this is part of torah marabou hashem this uh unbelievable creature it uh it defends itself it's massive it's all it eats is vegetation and it's weighs tons unbelievable okay let's continue learning here while you guys enjoy the relaxers in the background i'm going to do this for safe okay thank you oh i'm i'm uh i'm very grateful to borrow i thought like the mom is scared area is drinking away where are we [Music] fight the evid you see we're just talking about ev sent a little tap on the shoulder ellie i'm happy that you're learning the safari let me send you a little gift thank you hashem thank you says the mishnah we had this already also any time that a father could sell off his daughter there's no qunas we know and we have this chart many times there's three stages in a girl's life kitano nara and bagueras a father could sell off his daughter as uh as amma when she is three to twelve but no longer by bulgaria's so let's see but when she is in the red stage she's between 12. and 12 and a half he cannot sell her but there is a cnas if somebody violates her habit guerra is born she's 12 and a half ain't no lawyer like nazis neither [Music] becomes older yes look now yes i mean it says in the torah let's go back to the chart it should be the llama what do you mean we're only talking to your mayor they're saying you're saying there's no nice we're saying there is a canas but of course he could sell her or not because of my time they were mayor what's the the logic here [Music] oh my crew overlays [Music] that she decides when she decides oh my crow [Music] so we're going to have to explain now if you look at the positive possibilities it says this is chart five la vie narrow now look how it's written without a hey at the end so why over here is spelled without a hay says says the gemara rashak says because it's telling us it's even less than a naira a narrow typically is 12 and on but since it's missing the the hay it's it's even less than that that's how i understand it summer the lighting is very bad here so if i'm not reading it correctly so you could correct me i just i'm not saying 100 well you learned it over here i don't know we learned the same exact thing but somewhere else if he says about his wife who's a katana that she's misanna when she when they're engaged potter he doesn't have to pay this uh the unchoice of mayor casa this may cast he doesn't have to pay it's only when she has a hay when she's 12 years old because [Music] you kill this nairo you kill her now how in the world can you kill aktano obviously is a good illah so then why does it start to say you're right latoya's saying over here she's already 12 she's already with the hay nairo spelled with hey she's already 12. hocomogo and chanema nairo but any other place in the toilet says narrow without a like in chart number five la villanaro what is he doing exactly i don't know just very he's listening to the daft he's not even drinking anymore okay and we're going to go check him out in a second that's how they learned that's evening tano her voice i have a wonderful day and now another minute of rhinoceros in the wild by uh mamash as the sheer finished he decided to move on with his life you guys see y'all come the rhinoceros he's leaving he's not holding on for you he's going to eat a little bit he had a stickled drink my boys have a wonderful day the manure on the flame you