Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 32 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] it's it's unbelievable it's one of the most i don't say emotional but that so many people came out 15-20 minutes after the fest is over i don't know who who ate what and if you got a coffee and you didn't uh the plan is as soon as the share is over there's my whole family is waiting already inside the van i just get in um shower is a different week um i hope somebody packed my stuff you hit the shoe we have to we have to move on here it's going to be a quicker shear hopefully [Laughter] a picture of hankwortzman q 82 learning the doff in camp marshall ah mahrez brings back memories michael lisa i i'm just reading this and that's it i write this for a belly it's long doesn't have that if her belly reads it himself dayenu my name is matilizer otherwise known as anatsala f53 l53 sw53 i'm lady freeman's uncle he's a big fan i've been doing that for many years but i'm even before archer remote was published i've tried various urum and currently used my ipad for the death recently i had major surgery so i'm stuck at home working remotely but so far no that's all it calls having extra time i tried out rebellious die for some of your vomits but didn't go through at all i started supers got hooked it's the most enjoyable meaningful dive i've ever done i hope everything to continue and even after recovery it's made a big impact on my life even at this age you should be able to continue with that for many many years even when tisha b'av is janta vimhiri ramen i have two quick issues one is the stefanski tuna guys as you refer to them they may be tuna guys but the totally torah guys as well one of them is my son-in-law an incredible target family bar hashem nobody said they're not trying to think of people jonathan's the fancy says you have to pick a side nobody ever called him just tuna the point is that jonathan and i and many thousands of stefanski's what happens is as you go on the street oh what's your name it's the fancy oh are you related to the doghum tuna now they're not saying the tired dickadogging tuna they just say daggum tuna so the point is get rid of that from now on now other people hate me are you related if you have any guy okay fine second i disagree about hatsallah versus the death unless i misunderstood you yes you misunderstood me it seems to me that you thought staying in the shears more important than running out on a call you can continue this year later but you can't save a patient's a patient cardiac risk from later in fact you have less than four minutes i'll be of course i never said that i said if there are other people going on the call then you shouldn't go you should learn tired if nobody's going on the call then you go that's what i said of course comes before toyota if you middle learning tire you drop and you do pick up an average but if there's 23 other people going out on a call there's no point of you dropping the tire have an easy meaningful fast let's see my shirt come right now martializer okay sponsors 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breisenbach was lifter he battled the mahla he was a man that i knew very well he had a tremendous smile on his face always always smiled always gave zakat everywhere his son is is my brother-in-law's partner his other son radio zaverenbach is the big rush kylo in chicago and um i want to tell you a personal thing that he told me one-on-one once unbelievable you saw that he told me i was walking with him yerushalayim once he showed me his uh beethoven what's the name of the place that he owns and um he told me ellie i want to tell you something when i was in kylo i looked at my partner i i'm pretty sure i know he told me the name of his partner but i don't want to mix it up so i'm not going to say the name of his partner i think it was his brother but anyway he says i told my whatever that if we are able to make five hundred dollars a month as we're in kylo we would stay in kyle for the rest of our lives that's what he told me and then obviously that didn't work out and he went to work and he was making like 500 a minute but the musa with people if i would make 500 a month a month i would stay in color for the rest of my life he was telling me look how it is obviously that's not going to work 500 okay because the shaman should have an aliyah should be military for all kinds from chicago so we learned through the mission four lines down from that daflamid isla from base i'm in a little bit of a rush because i have to catch a flight we learned in the mishnah that the yeah i see the bottom over there okay what are you gonna do it's interesting if a person had relations with here we see over in the past let's just do a little hazard because we might be lost there's a concept of class if a person is manus or woman mafat is another parasha he's a man is a woman he has to pay the father 50 kasith and he can never divorce her says the mishna the first mission in the hell in ours it includes us his own sister now ask the gemara we have a contradiction virimino it says this marcus it doesn't say anything about a kanas you don't pay 50 it says you get malcus it's in the same exact order as our mishnah and his own sister and his fathers sisters and from his father and his mother's sister in other words his aunt through his mother valerie and his sister-in-law and his i'm sorry his his oh yes sister from in other words his own wife's sister valeshus his brother's wife doesn't suffer and the his father has a brother and uncle kids are his uncle's wife his aunt but it's through his uncle not his aunt aunt she's only related through the father's brother valanido these people get malcus type of llamad base on the left leave we have a problem it says in this positive volume called the phone of kiday rishi osai rishasa is plural or singular boisei [Music] is singular in other words he gets punished one punishment only so now that he has two punishments he has malcus because the mission in marcus tells us that he gets malcus the mission of bios tells us that he gets a konasana 50. which one should it be london right now we're going to see mccloykes but you cannot get malcus mpe on maola casio so we have one turret so we have a few but here's the first one kanban roy sinai we have two mishnahs our mission is talking about there's a canas why because she's an arrow so if we look at this uh graph again the zektano up until the age of 12 from 12 to 12 and a half if provided she has simone that's an arrow everything past 12 and a half is considered a bagerus there is no kunas so if there's no cannas what is there yes malcus but if there is a cannas nairo gets a kanas and our mishnah and our recep is there's a cnas so there's no malcus if you're gonna have to choose one or the other she's supposed to get both aknass and malcus the guy who's madness his own sister has to pay knacks and get malcus which one should he get irish it tells us he pays and he doesn't get malchez kambach that says that you get malcus and you don't pay he's talking about that she's already right so bagaris doesn't get a canal so when maybe she's left he's left with the malcolm's astor gemara ahoy soybea now take a look at this chart very very simple if you're in yeshiva you know this stop that there's five payments that you have to pay if you've damaged somebody nazek tsar report chevy's business you're right you don't have to pay the fine but there's still boise who got she has embarrassment embarrassment it depends on the hashidis of her family the daughter of a rebel shiva gets more money than a common folk person et cetera et cetera there's also there's a devaluation depreciation how much is she worth the rashi goes into the whole thing when we talk about a slave if a master wants to get his slave that he really likes a lot a perfect woman so the woman who has suleim is worth more money on the marketplace how much is it literally how much is the loss of sulu worth okay so if you have to pay number four number five on the list or number one or number five on the list so then you shouldn't get malcus you can't get both you don't have to pay and get malchez says swamp shot is in addition to the fact that she's a bagueres she's also shaitan and shayta doesn't have embarrassment so you can't be invaluable there's nothing worse than being a shytis the biggest embarrassment in the world so there's no bujo and there's also no gum she doesn't have any value on the on the slave market so mela 1 and 5 doesn't apply to her and therefore the man is left with oh sorry i'm come on i'm trying to skip a little bit why do you guys have to do this to me i have a flight to catch oh what about number two on the list tsar says the women that that know they understand that a woman who agree who's agreeable there's no tsar there's no physical attack says okay hashtag now that you're telling me these these answers so you don't have to say one is a naira one is a bugaris over there marcus could also be a naira biggest futo we're talking about that so therefore her father doesn't get the kanas who gets the kanas she herself but she was michael everything so in a case where she's my clothed entire list she's a mafuta meaning okay a boyfriend girlfriend kind of situation so she's messing with everything she said she can't come to oh you owe me chevys you owe me boys she's messing with everything so now you're left with one option only and that is malcus and that's why the mission in the market says she gets malcus but in our case where this guy could get both ancient get he could get malcolm's on the one hand gets payment on the other hand what do we say he has to pay he has to pay and not get malcus why no my name is so that's a shiloh what is what do human beings prefer i would ask you everybody could think about it for themselves if you had an option to get banged up real good get out get on a table and the dying whips you with a whip 39 times or pay 20 000 which one would you prefer question huh so i thought it depends on how much money you have so i went around the base measures i started asking people one after another people that were very poor they were saying no they rather pay they ride again to judges people are very wealthy they said no they rather get the mark is not paid it didn't matter there was some say this way something that way i couldn't come up with a with a cl i personally would pay okay i don't wanna we're talking about 39 markets that that people die from you could die and they have a doctor there and sometimes you have to stop in the middle and send the guy home and then and have him come back three weeks later and keep on going it's not it's not like that it leaves it leaves real marks on your body for the rest of your life what [Music] everybody so you're on my team but a lot of people said everybody nobody with a little less twenty thousand dollars oh oh that's that's also yeah yeah no we discussed it depends sometimes okay there's actually twice that's coming up well we'll see places that sort of mentions maybe by you there was a guy goes to a dentist no time for jokes but guy goes to dentist he asked the dentist uh i need i need my tooth pulled what can you do so the guy says okay it's 600 bucks 600 bucks why he says oh i have to put you under and there's that he says okay could you do a little cheaper he says uh for 400 without anesthesia he's okay good good now we're getting there what else what else he says for 200 i'll have my secretary do it oh great so the dentist says at the end he says but well it's very very painful sugar why are you doing this he says it's not for me it's for my wife so no some sometimes people are i'm asking him to get to to have some pain especially it's not for themselves fine says no more jokes okay manele so at the bottom line is when you have a situation that the guy could pay a fine or get malcus we're deciding that he pays and we're understanding at this point that we can go back and forth we can decide different ways we we're on we're understanding that paying money is more painful for a human being than to get malcus let's say that's the vart let's say says [Music] where where does he know this from maybe it's the opposite maybe you should get canada snape says he learns it from a guy that hits his friend so here what what happened i bought him uh oh it's 1101 only not but and then it says in the sukim so first of all he gets malcus loyola is a panoyasif and remember this for a boy's side please remember this there's a isser the erysa the head another jew it doesn't matter if he's not in the same uh yeshiva as you and he's not saying shiva the same rep as you it doesn't matter what the situation to hit another jew is yeah that's it whatever oh you didn't have the same law the then it says in the past we have a situation where somebody hit somebody else and the possibility says rat shifted for a rap he has to pay the money for him to be healthy okay fight so you see they have a situation where the guy should be getting malcus arabic if he gets marcus and on the other hand he pays his way out of it he doesn't get he doesn't get malchest so nevertheless he pays money and he doesn't get the markets sold to the rest of the turret anytime you have that choice you pay and you don't give up so yeah going back to the to the list the behavior he's very hummer on the one hand he has a homura he has to pay a lot of stuff he has to pay the whole list now this is a little tricky rabbi sign on the flip side you might tell me the mama luculo now you might say that no it's much worse to get malcus than to pay so the reason why he's paying she can't hurt her mcclellan this guy this this concept of hitting somebody is we see already that it's a little bit of a cooler it's a it's a lighter kind of available why because you see that best then sometimes beats people up where do they beat people up malcus so huda mcclalla you know what was bothering me when i read this i was going crazy for hours so that means that killing somebody is a lighter thing because bezing kills people besides kills people also asked nothing nothing nothing doing the mice uh searched and searched and searched found the um who says and he says no bezen only kills people after they have a gemardin and upset that they deserve to die so it's gavrik t lakota they're already dead this is so they never kill somebody so they don't have that that that cool in it okay if somebody has a different errors let me know says the gemara ella gomer made them zombie meme okay some amount of shock are you going to tell me that that it's a very very severe thing why so because they have a lot they pay a lot and that's why they pay money and don't get markets well on the flip side you could also say that's a very cooler thicker thing because even better beats people up now we're gonna have the same exact thing on the next piece elegantly made them zombies the famous case of eight and zero two eighteen comments say that so-and-so owes money there come another two eight and say it's impossible imano isem you're with us in africa and a safari it's impossible that you saw that so whatever the two first who ate them wanted to be they wanted to have a hundred dollars now those two of them have to pay a hundred dollars also have a um giving away they also have a issue of lying and being a shocker it's in the service of libras no what's the thing uh what is it no no no there's the option of giving somebody a penalty or giving a malcolm lucky so you'll say male 1 there's something light about dating you don't typically you have to warn people so now if i care it's a it's a hormone on them they are so severe that they don't even need mal the astra and they still have to pay vima maybe you'll say no if i care that paying instead of getting malcus is the easy way out like a lot of people said like jose said no everybody would want to pay so i'll tell you why the reason is she can't like also their whole aveda was done with their mouth they didn't do a miso perhaps when you beat somebody up or or let's say by us in our case somebody there's a mice or maybe you get malcus and not pay here so i did a little chart in case you don't know what a side of the shove is it makes it easier you have two things fuevel and zombie mim we already said that however has one thing that's very very strong about it you have to pay five things there's also something very easy about it in green that best and the best and gets to beat people up the same thing with zombies i'm also they pay don't do malcus both of them on top but there's a strong thing that you don't have to do as raw you even you could kill adam zain without astra they have to pay money without astral but on the other side there's a green thing that says they never did a mice so if you take the two things together and you come out with one idea what do they have in common southern shot would have a comment they both arrived two things money and malcus and we only give them where the arrow is we only give them moment so two everything else in the world that has the option of money and monkeys you give money and not markets but you know what valenzuela have a red thing to the they have something from or kamishit varum in astra the mumbai no kulo and if you're going to tell me no to pay and not to give malcos is you see what's going on here in the camaro the command is not sure what's worse to pay or malcus i'm telling you go ask your friends you'll see that some people are going to say i rather get malcus i rather get 39 maybe they don't know what it is exactly i'd rather get 39 i was going to pay 40 000 depends so up up the parlor up it a little bit fifty thousand dollars yell safe will you take 39 miles 50 000. you could die from a lot of things no no you're not going to die i guarantee you're not going to die i have a good bed they're not going to let you die but it's going to hurt for three weeks and it's going to hurt for three weeks okay fine okay if you're going to tell me on the flip side that the reason why they're paying money is less than malcus okay so i'll tell you why because there's two green things over there each one is a is a very easy thing in a way zion they only spoke with their mouth joivo who the club one of the words is completely extra it's called mufana and therefore it's one of the exercises everybody knows you don't pay an eye for a night there's no such thing as an eye for an eye my name i just turned we just turned to the limit based on bays sponsored by moishihorn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner of cpa and yanko cohen the official mdy msp and hoodie newman in honor rebellio the real okay okay gonna try now try it again now i just want to show you real quickly the this film again very very famous vlog and i like to say it all time every time you say the villain says it's much from the positive that it's money why because it says the i under an eye what's under an iron a pain a iron is under a pay a yud is under a huff and a nun is under sama so it's the iron is under the kessa pay hof the iron is under it's not a real eye and it's underneath those letters that's what the village says okay fine huh because the iron is under the pay it's under the iron is under aint it's under okay whatever you can do it any way you want cash is later no it doesn't say that this isn't the puzzle okay whatever well i think last night that way this time it's not like it's fine now we have a we have we have a contradiction in the mishnahs and our mission says if somebody is madness his own sister and other relatives he pays the canals in marcus it says he gets marcus so what's the chat rebecca norma afido both talking about another conscious boy consciously history boy if they gave him astronomy he said if you were man is his sister you're going to get malcus so he gets malcus if there's no asteroid then he's stuck with only paying a canas the exact opposite and he's high of money and marcus and what does he end up getting in malcus and marcus he gets malcus so you see that when you have the option you get marcus and that money the opposite of what we said until now for mulo and how does he know it oh my god oh what did you guys say before that was the word but what does it say right next to it when you have the option of paying money and getting malcus are you bought me account you should get malcolus momentum this case that we already had on omar somebody beats up his friend this is this both money and malki's my name is lucky over there it's not like you're beautiful you don't get mal [Music] hiko akashi like if and this was fascinating to me by the way tamara shearer lament gimmel you'll see is still in the basement it's magic whatever i might have spoken about that on the flying gimbal in the future i might be speaking about it that it really bothered me this thing if a guy let's say does something so insignificant he flicks his friend like this i don't know nothing happened and he's not even a prude how much is the proof that nowadays i don't know a shackle two seconds 25 cents something nothing insignificant if you're not higher than 25 cents so you get the 39 markers so the best thing is to go over to your friends smack him across the face again like messiah said it's even more so now you don't have to get mob kissing just pay him three and a half dollars that you're masking you'll save for five dollars he for sure won't want to get marcus that's no shiloh if you do something it's so insignificant then you get malcus it's crazy you go like shiva shall we put the like nothing more say hit on me what's the case either yes i might like it if the zero astero why should it be any malcus you don't you never get punished unless you hate zombies there's only one exception but you know you usually you never get punished in the tiger unless this asteroid you have to be warned so of course he was warned and the reason is because this is less than a prudence but if there's a full proof then he pays and he doesn't get malchus right the case of malcus is when he's less than a prudent but if there is a full bruta then he doesn't get malcus he pays says you're right you should really get malchus but this is a special wording in the target that tells you that if you have the option in these cases special you pay and okay where does it say typical case own two made him come and say we saw with our own eyes we're in yerushalayim that guy borrowed a hundred dollars from that guy so now 200 zoos he owes 200 veninsu turns out that these two adam were liars they're in a different country completely at the time so what's that like in um they have to get malcus and pay this is with mayor sheloya shame hamilton first they did this where was that they lied and then there's another problem and then you have a problem since they pay money they don't get markets where did they get it from okay fine could they rush also you only get one punishment you don't get two but why did they pick the money over oh i gotta say this twice is very very important tells you i forgot to say that i wonder what else i forgot to say here but isis says a beautiful thing he says it's very possible that money is less calmer than malcus so if it's less as this a guy's man is somebody then he gets the lesser of the two what says twice is beautiful because we don't want the girl to lose out under 50 shekel when does somebody else involved then we'll give him we'll we'll be okay that's some something like that what you were saying yeah i don't know i remember you said something something to that effect there's so it depends who's getting it not getting it okay fine i know what you're saying you're saying on a different sphere that also we're talking about it like would you rather if somebody did something bad to you would you rather him get beat up or i don't know what if whatever you know the kids are sometimes in the comma you want that guy to suffer i don't care don't pay me don't anything just him you should suffer tremendously okay fight where are we oh it's gonna take me now three minutes to find the spot oh yeah okay mythic oh mary will love the face troops of toyota that's where we're holding yeah we're coming oh how do we know which way to go maybe you should get monkeys and not pay who says to pay not malcus i'm going to be live if your favorite ship is the third this is where he said it and because he said it over here we're also going to learn it for hours they have to pay hey where is [Music] normally if it's exactly what they intended to do so you have to give me all the examples in the world we understand already from one example and then the following position it says so the shiloh is why does it say my mind is a special policy that tells us that if you have malcus and my mind you pay and you don't get marcus have a wonderful day raboisei please stick with it beer with it there might be some problems with the internet who knows i'll see you basically hashem in 10 days have a wonderful day you