Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 29 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys [Music] get laila layla very belly a few nights ago we really [ __ ] zoom after the share one of the things that we brought up was getting with baltimore ever more involved with mdy i've been working with fisher grow i've been working with official gross on his subas commitment incentive program under the auspices of his mitzvah motivators program and right after you came to baltimore we signed up you're not going to believe this 65 people who have never learned that you're to start learning that with your share today there are 45 guys who have not missed the single daffing subus every day they check in that's that's kevalic you have that whatsapp group and you check in there's lively conversations about the daf we'd love if you'd be able to give them a shout out to help them how do you do a group shout out to baltimore let's do a group baltimore good morning baltimore okay that's the shout out nobody else is getting it do not ask for one it's special for baltimore and official wishing your family had a broken heart the baltimore tevra very belly see attached picture of a scene i did with my thirteen-year-old son ira moses last night for finishing your vomits any excuse to have meat during the nine days the picture includes me my son plus donnie leifman man and a son abe who had also been with mdy since mcgill a very proud moment from doing the hydrant in front of family and friends thank you really for showing us the joy and fun you can have whilst learning the deaf regards dusty moses manchester beautiful unbelievable this uh boise big inspiration mendy rosenberg who has als for 15 years he he was featured by the sema shots he finished shots i forgot already a bunch of them maybe once three times i don't remember anymore learning with jack nuzbam f 217 so i think we we had a picture of him once before we had him but he's a big inspiration to a lot of people he still does the daf every day and you should go up to jack for going up there and learning with him cabruso dan cohen been learning with you since september when renata crew came on board remember that time went to ranana whatever happened while many people had planted the seed about learning gemara something i'd never done you were the only one who took it over the top you and the cover had really opened my eyes and importance and relative accessibility of learning talmud and the dot today i took out a huge label in the u.s usually schmooze talk passion social action today we delved into the dot for the first time he has to try because he saw how happy the learning made me how happy the learning made me unfortunately was wrestling with bad experiences with brooklyn hayder rebbies a lifetime ago i was worried i wouldn't i also went to some of those kadar it affects people in different ways so what if you're put into a metal crate that covers the steam and so what if he takes a stick and hits you on your hand three four times because you forgot the point in the gemara not a big deal we go on with life some people laugh at it some people get inspired by it [Music] could a kid be a witness what are you laughing what did what happened to you when you put it let me explain to you in the olden days in new york they had these big heaters this tall it was heat but they didn't want the kids to touch it so they put this um a box with like a a mesh what is it called a grate and if a kid didn't behave very well and he didn't want to get past the rebbe would lift it up put him in there squeeze him between the heater and the grate and he's like for half an hour and then he would take him out unpeel him put him down on the seat and then give him a whack on the hand okay anyways what are you laughing you didn't have any of this when you were a kid and using it as a springer for amazing was amazing i took our learning to a new level i don't know if we'll ever become a deaf guy but helping reopen a talmud something he hadn't done in a generation or two was a huge honor mitzvah thank you the other dan cohen i was reminding reminded of an unbelievable story that my good friend ribby srow mayor but remembers from chicago told me i know i'm going to butcher it i tried to reach him this morning but i couldn't so i'm going to say it butchered but it goes something like this he told me this myself and he gave me the email he met what's going on over here he met a guy that never learned in his life he was an unaffiliated jew and he convinced him to have a harvest for one time let's go to emma's bagels and have a khaburi shop so they went to the bagel shop and i don't remember what safer was let's say it was messily sharing he opens it up and learns with the guy let's call the guy jack he learns to jack for 10 15 minutes the guy says this is torah wow i like it when can we learn again he says what do you want to learn i'll see maybe this tuesday it's like on a sunday let's learn in two three days okay so israel mayor rebbe's roman mayor he's a magician in chicago he sends him an email and he says what time do you want to meet so review with me the email that he received in return it says dear rabbi israel mayor we are sorry to inform you that jack passed away today the man learned one little paragraph in mrs asharam he enjoyed it and that was it it's unbelievable mice so you could write it in your safer we have to get all the details not that i was i was just reminded a guy never opened up a savior and is all live first time maybe you won't open up again [Music] if you were to learn to daff every day it's never too little says ruby friend it's never too late the koilo was sponsored anonymously in schools of all the new people that joined exuberance for my children second sponsor jeff rosner i have a very nice email just came in as i was walking here in schools everybody say oh man of my son but the lack of families like jersey because toyota is the best segulo number two srl 149 is the question for my family myself number 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while by keith wright white plains new york anyways this is a great email robbie beijersham i'll read it tomorrow the day after whatever one of these days i do read every single email i think that i get every single one i just obviously can't read all of them online here by jacob's latest in honor of learners with adhd i guess they think that i give a stuff to the adhd guys why would i stuff myself all just as great as the guy who doesn't space out always here we go we're holding in the middle of sugyo we finished by sutto does anybody know what such is so i got uh an email from every pesach waxman master mathanov who says he didn't appreciate the video it doesn't teach the proper keno hamidos i looked at it again i didn't see exactly what you're saying maybe the kids that were being hooked with the disorder but the kids jumping on the candy i looked at it again carefully it looked like the kids were being careful not to step on each other they were running for candy kids or kids what about kids that go for the offer bags i'm not getting into it i'm not gonna argue with him he knows what he's talking about but we're gonna show it again anyway not all of it just some of it you know because the island missed a big part of it there was a big kid in there that after everybody got up and left because they said they had enough of the candy there's a very large kid that jumped into the middle and just jumped on all the kids and hitachi doesn't have good meters and he heard a lot of people doing it so i'm going to focus on that guy for a second anyways um says the gemara this is your one time so you want to use it now who wha not there are other people named elliot what anybody else that's it you used it up hill okay zuckerberg fine now we're talking like three lines from where it becomes wide what is a cotton permitted to testify on vishal khan based pl bass planeoplania we ate a sata we all know sata is you take a barrel you pop it open fruit comes out you make an announcement what is the announcement we're going to see soon candy comes out something comes out of the barrel bishop so i don't have the picture here today that was yesterday's uh thing we're supposed to do it but the matano's you know the royal high mike you take from every animal even not a carbon you take it no it's not a mclaren we do it you take those methodologies you give it to a cayenne or even to somebody married to a kind so he's testifying i saw a guy get my tunnels and we had hill's question but at the end of the day how is it all right you could give it to israel so he they said something as he's giving the matana it was much that he's a kind and this is all testimony from when he was a cotton today's a godot now he saw by himself he himself gave them he himself not there's nobody there now he's a beautiful kasha we're talking about a beautiful sugiya of a guy that that's testifying from 30 years ago i remember my rebbi and hayder beat me up do we trust him not trust him he was a kid then he doesn't know exactly was he in a in a jail and he was a thing fine but what about a non-jew who converted when he's converted could he testify that when i was a non-jew i saw xyz it's a good child you know because it's he's cutting channel dummy a new body a new every cooler everything stacker he was a slave who became free ain't him on him who became older he's immature now he can't say oh but there's an easy men for so-and-so and they stopped the funerals would stop right on his front lawn and and and say whatever they had to say for the for the hespet so it's more of a public property he's not believed to break him so what does rebirth remember saying is he coming to argue that a kid who matured could take property away from somebody later on rebecca elema nobody's going to argue that an adult cannot testify that when he's five years old he remembers that the easement belonged to the neighbor that's removing real estate and monetary valued it's not you can't do that ella ratio we just said that if a non-jew converted it became a gary's not believed what's the logic behind this much like is what which what okay no hold on what are you saying yeah oh are you saying but obviously there's two cases could also be all the titanium all the dollars he wasn't so involved in in in studying the testimony because he was very since he knows he's going to become a garrison he's in the process then he's believed now mars says mike satsa what's this such a business the torah about on kate said so how if a brother married a woman that he shouldn't have married the name interesting minute they had the whole family would gather and they embarrass him in public public shaming um our brother married a woman he shouldn't have married um we're concerned that we're going to intermarry with his terrible family take something from this and remember this forever how do you remember something forever when fruit candy goes flying in all directions we don't want any mixture here visually this story that a child remembers that some weird guy came into the school and started throwing boxes of candy we trust him that we trust here's the video just one short part of it one more time take a look at the kids you even hear a kid saying harav could i have the candy me this thai vice almost but take a look at this sugar and jumping in the middle [Music] they're being careful they're being nice uh maybe that one not okay oh he didn't get any not so bad i'll be waxman [Music] yes [Music] i only crushed two kids in the process they're fine i didn't have it's not my fault i was holding my guitar so so they got a little crush in the back no no yes i learned in tashbar what do you want from me says daily this is a very this is a world-class pairing famous famous perrick ilonaris the official mishnah sponsored by moshe cohen fatsaloha with limited edition somebody who forced himself without permission he violated this girl who's this girl first of all she's a naira what's an arrow i'll discuss in a second it's only a certain age between 12 and 12 and a half basila big you saw it she must be absolute version these says the mishna luna only a narrow let's see if i have here yes okay over here you see the three stages in a woman's life the zaktano from zero to twelve the zanaro from twelve to twelve and a half if she has seem on him and from twelve and a half the rest of her life she's called a bulgaris the mission tells us that a canas does not apply to any girl that's over 12 and a half years old now who are the girls that get a canas valencino because the gemara is going to explain immediately and positively that obviously a regular girl that doesn't have yuko's issues of course she gets a knack we're talking about even a woman a girl she's 12 years old who's a momser and you cannot be married to a mom sir and it says in the past you can't divorce this woman isn't it one of the conditions you have to divorce them observers you can't be married to her nevertheless she gets a knack valenciano why she called an asino then seen him were given him and they fooled kleisrel they dressed up and they pretended that they came from a far away country they they wore these tattered clothing and they told yeshua we heard they heard that kaiser was running through all the enemies and they were very scared now they came from so they pretended that they were from some far distant land oh we're here to make peace and they fooled yeshua and yeshua swore to them that he's not going to harm them and then immediately everybody realized the whole shtick the scam so but they didn't want to break the schwa made them wood choppers they worked for clyde israel but because it says by it name so we call them nasinim the ala kusis kus is the famous kusim which are big macholicas and shas are kusum gerei ms or gary arrios they became gary and because of the lions that came to kill them and they said okay we'll be jewish now was it sincere or was it fake later we know that later on they went back on a lot of the stuff they weren't really keeping the torah but we're going right now that the gary arrives they're fakers so the ms they shouldn't get a kanas at all they're fake they're not jewish but the mission says they get a canas vale who typically speaking they shouldn't have suleim because they were non-jewish they were slaves which were fruit soys they were captured and as the passage says we saw the passo basula it only applies to absolutely so but these three women that all this occurred to them before they turned three but after three before so before three and the third and we have uh that the sulim come back if they were lost before three years old now there's an amazing xiaomi in the sixth paragraph of nadarum i mentioned it a few times i'd like to mention again because it's a shocker the ishami says what if a girl lost her sulim when she was already three years old she's three years old and a week okay so according to the gemara herpsulum do not come back and then the president went ahead and did a ibra yard they added another month to the calendar says the or sulem are going to come back to you because if we're sacking something the the science is based on what it's mentioned all the time now we're going to another category we're talking about women that are ister chorus israkaris now we have to talk about the concept called commonly with the rabbinate mentioned in another sheer just i'm not going to say which one because you guys weren't here but this idea of comedy ramene used to be my favorite go to i would ask a kid to see if he's holding like you know what commonly with the rabbitman is it's a famous concept in shots and that is that if a person is i don't want to sound redundant here because i am but it'll be in five days doesn't really matter if a person was over two things let's say he kills somebody with a knife he stabs him and in process of doing that he tears his shirt so because he killed the guy he's hive misa he doesn't have to pay for the shirt he could only be hive on one of the two things and we'll give him the worst of the two we'll give him the misa but we can't give him he can't pay and get the death penalty so over here he's getting chorus cars is terrible he's going to lose his life early on but it's not a physical thing it comes from shamai it's very physical but it's not the best and does it so melo he still has to pay the canas it's not like he's getting the death penalty plus he's paying 50. he's getting it by the way does anybody know what 50 shekel is how much is 50 shackle take a guess what's 50 shekel anybody [Music] no not not even close 50 sheckle is 200 zuz it's the subo which is a year salary which is a lot of money minimum minimum fifteen hundred dollars it might be more so emotional financing he 20 000 whatever that's a nice amount don't think so it's 50 shekel it's a serious kanas if somebody has relations he was manus his own sister or his aunt valjima his other aunt from his mother's side from his father's side valerie's toy and his sister-in-law in other words his wife's sister by the way the tour says that even in our days they impose a knowledge we have a president we impose knowledge so that somebody who sins shouldn't benefit he gets a cannot and he has to emphasize the woman he has to ask for merciless many times until she says okay his sister-in-law who's married to his brother it's issa the right to marry her unless his brother dies without children then he performs evil but all these women are isakaris and now that they're sullies how they persuade because they were divorced from the engagement they're still absolu and his father's brother's wife also from davidson valanida over here i spoke about a few times i saw a whole talk about nida why is the why isn't the rashma mention it it seems like the rashford only talks about a married woman who's a nida never talks about a panuya that's a nida why is it not a thing and everybody says no 100 you see from our mishnah that the isakaras should they ask it's such a big issue it's so shouldn't we make bigger should we make bigger darum so nobody goes next to anita uh it doesn't seem like such a big thing yeah is this a cars it's a chorus it should be like geisha city it should be like that okay so they have different reasons why the rascal doesn't bring it but one hundred percent it is a sakaras even though all these women we just mentioned they get caught in order to be potter from the canaanites you have to have misa's best it has to be come lay be the rabbi monet come lay be the rabbi from the greater one so you have to get the death penalty and then you don't have to pay the smaller fine but if you're only getting death minus my inquiries then you still have to pay your canas now i'm gonna ask you a question that's going to maybe bring the whole mission together why is a mother-in-law not brought down in the mission somebody had relations with his mother-in-law she paid us no there's four reasons why not what very good she's not absula what else that's one of the reasons no another reason huh anybody anybody he said absula what else she's not a knight not probably she's not a naira impossible for it to be a naira very good naira what else he's not his reverse oh it's not it's a cars what is it it's a key of miso very good avi and the fourth one is she's your mother-in-law it's not it's not gonna it's not gonna fit in it's not something people do okay hane narrows what hani na is this look nice we might ask the simple question let's just talk shot here it seems like the only women girls who get asked are these in the mission a mobster a sister what do you have to is this looking ask sheriff's lawyer what a regular normal kosher woman doesn't get recognized these ones are possible but of course a kosher girl of course has a cannas nairo inktana loi it seems like and it is like that it's only a nairo where's that sheet here only the center category of a nairo gets a knack but before that doesn't get a good nice montana omer of you don't arrive remain these girls are going to be mayor in our generation we don't understand what's going on and i want to explain because in those days it was so hard to bring up a kid even today you have a people that give up their kids for adoption why they just can't it's impossible for them so think about it in that case rather than it's like an adoption you give your kid over to somebody to family he's responsible for your daughter you get something in return he can marry that girl et cetera this is certain outlaws but it only lasts until she's 12 years old unless he married her but she comes back after 12. so says ruby mayer he holds that in that period of time from katana the green category that's where you could sell your daughter but there's no fine for inus by the way our mission is talking about we'll talk about them in fact they're different but they're very much the same we learned from one another inis means forcefully mefata means willingly um in the center category of nairo yes look you can no longer sell her suraji says the famous kava climber why can't you sell her because if the father sold his daughter and was illegal sale she leaves that master when she turns 12 so certainly once she's 12 she cannot be sold if she's already sold she she that that sale expires so you can't resell you can't sell her to begin with okay there you are mayor so this goes according to the mayor shahid you can't have both if you could sell your daughter in other words when she said then you don't get a cannas if you get a kanas by a naira then you can't sell okay so this tan aratana goes like it says it doesn't say yellow dice so a naira only a naira from the age of 12 to 12 and a half if she has him on him could get a canas otherwise not this is a very very famous rubioness and aphids here when he was 12 years old they asked him to be a purim rebbe so he got up and he said the following here's the passage it says in the megillah lake noises yes why it's purim why would you give all the jews a class why would you penalize them he said because if you give a kanas then you can't sell them and they want to sell them so they asked him but it says nice with a with a with a cough means to gather it doesn't mean knows he said yeah but it goes according to mayor and mayor says himself this megillah that you can read and write the mcgill about pe so since about you don't really you don't know the difference between and he was 12 years old when he said this right and that was the question over here says nice with a cough and he explained that you can't see it great over and they say that there is a canas when she's aktana the the first category the green category even though she's less than 12 she gets [Music] you pay her you pay your father the money you can ask in mexi it seems like what she only gets a canas you can't sell her that's impossible latoya says you could tell your daughter says [Music] in a in a in those years that you could tell your daughter according you also receive a knack if somebody violated her we just turned to fafsa with a sponsor mitch horn in honor of zach the rock rocklin and lenny lerner cpa and yango cohen the official mdy msp and hoodie newman in honor of myself okay we learned in the mishnah that a manzares uh sister there's a canas that's how could you possibly think that you have to give a knife to mam zeres vamay khan villa so again if we go back to the possum okay it's not it's not a highlighter i thought i did that again but anyways it says in the possum that one of the things is you have to give her a knack but if the girl wants you must marry her and you can never divorce her never divorce her so i saw a bunch of things today very interesting things i'll share with you i'm not going to tell you exactly the whole thing but what if this guy this i don't call him a russian maybe bad guy what if he violated this girl and then he said i'm moderate from her i don't have any i know from her to marry or not of course doesn't help what if he saw with his own eyes let's use mizano could he be shaving because a husband could say that my wife is mizzana and she becomes us at him could he also do that another shiloh what if they were married for 10 years and they didn't have children divorcer typically what about this one no he cannot divorce her what if she's a mukesh no he can't divorce her what if she's a catalanas she kills her husbands she killed two of her husbands before in other words not physically but two of her husbands died without her and she's still absolutely let's say they died from harrison and now he's the third one up line yeah all these schmakers he took the risk you gotta do it he didn't know he didn't know he found that afterwards at 12 and one day she got engaged to a guy and he divorced her he hopped what she is she put on a good show on the date the next day three days later she married another guy what's the problem oh you mean how did they die they died so quick during shiva they they said are the cheese danishes holiday soil yeah so by the way i have a [ __ ] for you i heard your husband just died yesterday and everything and and two weeks later that akasha advice if if this is all left the whole shots as if you have to know malaysia alicia is we had you vomits we just came off you thomas what if a guy's father is married to his sister's cousin's aunt and also to the dog and to the desk that well that you didn't ask me any caches how's the chat it's all lifts nope nairo nairo hanairo okay so here's the puzzle we saw the pasta but just to here absolutely we had that's the following posix says so first of all it says naira the first one okay that comes to teacher something but the second possible always have to say lavian nairo a via naira the father we know whose father we're talking about it's the following apostle casa finished so the whole word at night is extra but also the problem is that it has the extra hate it should say la vinairo what's hannah though so we have three limousine here to teach us that a naira has a canas vegas you're asking me a question again what's the question how do you give a can ass to a woman tom mamzer you can't be married to her it says and one of the conditions is you have to marry this woman you can't divorce or i'm serious you can't you can't marry the answer is you're right you should be right but because we have extra words we're going to expand the allah even to women that typically shouldn't get a cannabis because he can't remain married to them which are kaivy lavem amamzaris tamari mamzares is only a love javi christos and also your sister your hive crisis you have to pay her a fine or pay your father a five her all right the same exact thing but i'm going to learn it from a different word again in a different paragraph this is already important fatigued and the following father says so habilis is extra and the hate is extra again the same thing i think i was going to say so everybody should learn from naira or everybody from absolutely what if he had relations with this girl and before they went to besden she died shenemar venosan avianaro la vinairo vallejo he doesn't have to pay the father a fine because she's not alive it says to the father of the narrow she's still alive and how come he doesn't learn from sula i'm a buyer like there is over here designer case if you should come by absolutely does anybody remember this kimura in this maserta shiazek my absolutely absolutely because i'll remind you i did a little bit of a chart i don't know if you remember but in the chart you see the first plastic is talking about a mafata the second parsec is talking about anus one says question it should be silver and the other part it says 50 but they don't share both pieces of information but my father doesn't say how much silver how many pieces 10 20 50. doesn't say by the ionis it doesn't say what kind of kessif it could be shekel it could be a gurad it could be something whatever so you take the two things and you put them together because every itines and fatter are always they share so now we know it's 50 shekel kessif 1500 in our day and age something like that so you need the basil you see you need you need that zero shava to put them to the two together look at that but also needs to learn what if in a case where the girl dies before they got to bed you don't have to pay very popular you need to know that it's fifteen hundred dollars that it's check out that's kesem it's fifty ella shitty croix tv oh so let's take all six sukim here we go three words that say naira three words that say sula so let's look at the top line you need to know that there's aknas for inus and you need to know there's a kinase for mafata okay so that gets rid of two words nairam sul you also need to know that if she dies you don't pay says narrow so that that's the second blue the second read is the xerishava that we just said that it's 50 shekel and finally what we're trying to learn in our sugya now we have two words that are extra naira and absolutely narrow come to teach us that even if the woman is also to be married to she's a mamzerez she's an iserlav you give her a knack and even if the hapsula she's a woman that is your sister or one of the hiv crisis you give her a knack elsie the great tv nara narayanara absolutely goofy you need for the actual halal to tell you that you give a knack now our mishnah that says that you give a kinase to amamzarez you give a knowledge to your sister cannot be going according to the following mandarin i should say velocity she should be his wife what does b mean b b could mean that she has to remain married to you you can't be married to her for a second you have to be it has to be a woman that you could remain married to such as nada mamzeras a mom seriously cannot be remained married to it's big enough come in here because amamzares the conducion is typhus it's hal it's a good conducion just you can't be married to her there are those women your sister if you did a a hassana with your sister nothing happened it's zero it's not even it doesn't grab even for a millisecond so what does cm mean that she has to be able to be married for her second or she has to be remain remain married lazy alicia shimanoi [Music] however the art scroll says that the reason his name is chimney is because he came from timino so it's not himani he's not from tehman he's from timino so it's timoni tim i think yeshivas they used to say no you say timoni also okay it has to be somebody that you could get married to but not somebody that's chriso's ribs it has to be something that you could stay married to to exclude amanzeras okay there's an interesting story it's a little negay here maybe it was a woman who got married to an american soldier during the war in europe and he disappeared disappeared so she went through here much advances said come back tomorrow she came back the next day reminiscent said i don't know the exact details i hope i'm saying the story right your mother so somebody said what took you all day you know why she's like this we said you just every motion have emotions in a menace didn't you think about it all day he said he did research he called the pentagon he called different people he found out that this soldier was actually married to another woman back in america and mamela it's not it was never a marriage to begin with she would have never married him had she known that he had another wife mega toast not married fine now you're thinking what does it have to do with hair i have no idea isha haru uyolo kaimo a woman that you could remain married to this is not a woman in human fight might be knife or zero mamzares so the nafkamina is oh so anyways both of these both of these mandarin though everybody's masking at the end of the day if even a mamzerus which is lighter you could the condition is how you can't remain married there's no gnas so if there's no cannas it doesn't fit into our mission now our vision says doesn't get a kanas according to both of these mandarin even if you say mam zerus the condition grabs but you can't remain married there so you don't get a canasta going to everybody certainly so you don't get a cannas and it's also in the mishnah so these mandarin don't go like aramis okay so the rashi points out the menacio is the only one that the problem was because sriman at timothy says mufourish that kedushin does grab at higher level but the gemara's question is in rebeca if you hold that in laven the conducion doesn't grab at all so what is the difference between a manzares and a javi creases what is the difference between a sister and a mom serious both of them there's no condition even for a second the only enough community would be if the condition grabs but you can't be married to her and that's a monsterous but if you hold them there is the conditionality you grab so that a sister and a series are in the same category then what is the nafkamina says if a kangado violated an almana who was absula going back this is case that she got she her she lost her husband before they had any relations so she's still absula and he violated her now there's a special fitness by almana also a gruesome god kirby this is why so in other words she'll have a cannas this is a case where there will be a nas you shouldn't marry her in order not to make your kids a follow then so why is it special in this case that have a wonderful you