Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 18 by R’ Eli Stefansky

mayor rubenstein says i learned your daf with a friend and i love it next by david treiber also known as david cypher if by any chance lights go out multi showers it's time to say shout outs to the story but apparently you are an over lender in origin basketball how does he know that before switzerland the years before that were from i think i just saw this on chavez that laboratory cousin of mine sent me that whole leaflets i read it on shabbos and says bhaskovitz okay basically we're hungarians that's what it says yeah we like to say that we're swiss but yeah we are see this inspired us probably also you want to wait an hour and a half now on a serious note i see that you're are going proud of the launch of the daf tablet my son mata yes without an r schreiber is a real maven despair i've done numerous programs universally used by tag us uk and strolling elsewhere the kits are but i don't have his information so somebody can touch with matra maka schreiber whatever we'll go through the father somehow hirabelli i want to thank you for the amazing share you give every day this week monday is my birthday i'm becoming 25 years old hashem should bless you this is from avi younger from vienna austria the famous ave younger hashem should bless you an mdy team and family with health happiness and money should all learn together to 120. the heinously life should be great oh boy sits right over here sure where is he he's hiding over in the corner get over here for a second look what he did this took a couple tries but we got him you don't have to move over no just you ready here it's on the screen nice and loud he's uh get over here come come tad how you doing sir how long have you been doing this here a month and you're already doing these videos giveaway check this out he has a good our boys [Applause] [Music] well you like that one we'll do it again there you go it starts off nice and slow good morning [Applause] okay hi madler thank you for everything you put in this 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hashem loves them financially number three shraggy kay if it's rl 149 it's closer to my family myself i just wanted to point out something very interesting this week's army magazine there's a present on the cover one day maybe there'll be a magazine on the cover but until that day there is a story here the lunch break myself with mati belski here's mati it's a great great article and basically there's a picture in there i was wondering my wife comes running to me and she says there's a picture of you in there it's okay it says like this what you missed the zoom yeah joseph will do it here you go this is that bell works this is father okay but my point is you have to read the entire article until you see why that picture's in there this is all the way at the last last piece and it's a very long article most people don't get this i'll say it for you but it's unbelievable first of all mati raises uh over a billion he raised over a billion dollars of equity to go into real estate deals he's the number one guy in that kind of in that space so it says like this um [Music] i should have underlined it no oh i have finished many miscellaneous including ivamus with the share he goes okay i've tried to do that so many times but never stuck but now my father but now my father urged me to try her belly share and i've not missed a single day since i finished many cephalus including invomis which as you know is one of the longest and hardest ones i still don't know how long i'll stick out this time but i can tell you that for me this is a bigger accomplishment than all the money i've raised and all the deals i've done and i owe it all to her belly he raises up if you have a real estate deal but you don't have the money to buy it he gives you the money to buy it he finds big corporate uh guys that give that money but it has to be like a million dollars and up whatever okay read the article you'll see the voice side today is daf utress and we are holding on the top of that so we're continuing today's sugiyah with hapesha osara pesha hit here and that is a very simple concept makes a lot of sense logically if we didn't know about something and somebody comes forward and tells us gives us information about a certain thing he says by the way your father used to own this real estate we had no idea about it so he has the right also to explain what happened he has the right to say well i bought it from him so you don't own anything today but if we know we know about it from a different source there's adam or whatever then is that a new guy next to you donnie shove aleichem oh that's yeah why is sitting all the way back there you know we have special seats for guests good so ask the gemara so yesterday we were dealing with why does it say that the case is what's the case a guy comes over to a kid and says you know your father used to own this real estate i bought it from him and he's believed why do you have to say your father the mother says i have a better case you owned it and i bought it from you supermarket goes in that's not good with the safa but nothing more says another thing and a similar answer we had yesterday why do you have to say a complicated case your father used to own it and i bought it say directly to him the listening first line on topic so not real estate money i borrowed money from you and i returned it to you and he's believed why this again this is there again we'll talk about char chakras what does charcoal mean you don't have any kind of claim there's no dead animal in front of you say hey how did how did it get here what's going on who checked this there's nothing it's blank so if i come and i tell you that i borrowed money from you you had no clue right are people like that they don't know who borrows who doesn't borrow they don't keep a hajj when a year passes by i don't know so i'm telling you i borrowed the money from you just happened to my coverages somebody came to him after 12 years and paid him back he says for 12 years he kept on pushing him off i didn't have it finally he remortgaged his house he just paid him back happens hello everybody so the ignore says that's not a good example the reason why we went to real estate from a father mission to kabbalah again the second part of the mission that says what if they are adam so it's not ain't short it's we already know about this story so you're you can't you don't have the right to explain that doesn't fit in in a case of money that only works with real estate the kumar will explain love ami menu in emma what are we going to say but if there are a dim then he's not believed it's not true if there are adam and eve on vacation so the second part of the mission is not going to work we want to say a case of ancient if we know without you we don't know without you over here when it comes to money even if we know the situation without you there are aiden that's testified that he borrowed money that's not enough why because he could claim he paid it back and i don't have to pay it back in front of adam the law is just because adam saw the loan doesn't mean you have to pay it back in front of the item so in mela the fact that adam come forward and tell us about the story you know last year you borrowed money from him it's nothing it's as if they never spoke because they don't count i don't have to return it in front of them therefore we have a better case in our mission we have a case of real estate where we can fit in the adam the aid to make a difference and that's another very big point that the mission wanted to make that if we know about the story and we have a short shakh because adam came forward then the guy is not believed anymore he doesn't have a peshawas and money doesn't work he says the marvel listening best how about another story why i have to go into real estate to say i borrowed money from your father but i paid back half it's like shunamma it's like a murder mixed us it doesn't matter it makes sense he comes forward but there's no short chocolate over here right nobody came with a claim we didn't have hey you owe money to you owe my father money i volunteered that information and therefore i am explaining it and i don't have a muy de bemiktas okay that's for next second the mission doesn't bring that case it says the gemara alibi the man now there's a concept when it comes to hashabas aveda if like that jew going back to that story with the pirates like the jew that returned the wallet and the part said well there's two thousand and thousand does he have to make a shivoha if it happened to a jew if i return a wallet to you and you say hey there's more money in the wallet what's going on here something's does the person that found the wild does he have to make a schwa the answer is because tikkun hailam nobody is going to return anything every time i want to return something i have to be worried that i'm going to end up making a schwa and people don't like making schwas so according to rabon there's no schwa i just want to say real quickly because we were learning in the sugar i wanted to say the story then but we didn't have time so i'll just stick it in here even though it doesn't fit in as well as it did there but rabbi rouhan was on a train a beautiful story i thought he was on a train and one of his gloves flew out the window so without thinking he took his other glove and threw it out the window and he said at least if somebody finds one glove he'll have a pair what good is if i have one glove and that guy has one glove okay beijing veda we have to think quickly huh even though we don't have a short chakra even though we don't have a any any reason for this person to make a shiva there's no taino over here he he volunteered the information i owed money to your father and i paid half him come on in name location sydney australia stephen what's his last name again tao so i'm like why are you out of breath you ran all the way from july you came from australia now straight wow i'm i have a feeling that people come and lay bedafka they want that extra special i i even the guys that were different before lazy freedom and trouble i like him yeah yeah get him a coffee somebody get him a seat first give him a gemara listen to this the guy volunteered information he says i owed your father money but i paid him half we give him a shivoha rabbana and say no schwa because he's amazing vader he volunteered information is like he found a wallet for this kid okay it's half the amount but it's still a wallet revelation says no he has to he has to make a schwa now how does that answer the question this answers the question so so nevertheless bring this case what's the difference he says it's uh this is it's very good because now we're not dealing with short chocolate anymore this is regardless of whether there's a short chocolate in front of you or not i'm going to say you're you're not even saying it doesn't matter if you have a riot don't have a raya whether he's a cotton or a goddess either way you have to make a schwa according to the vladimir and either way you don't make a show according to through a bonan so this kiddush that ruby sure is trying to say in the mishnah that makes a difference whether this is a short shakha if we have any evidence to the claim before you open your mouth it's not it's not part of his we're trying to say he only is believed when he came on his own and over here this has nothing to do with it there's another design so this is very interesting we have to see throughout the what this means exactly these words sometimes a person will make a schwa on his own claim he like we just had a second ago he claims that he borrowed money from the father nobody knew about it only he himself came forward and based on his own claim he has to make a schwa kaitad bhatikumar is going to edit it a little bit kate said monologue i owed your father a hundred but i gave him fifty i raised a nisba so even if the yosem by himself came through he says hey you owe the money according to me spotter you hear this again the yasim comes forward he says hey i have i have information i remember my father talking about the fact that he lent you money i want you to pay it back what is that that's a shark shackhot he's potter he's potter from the shiva kahamsa so again even though you have a short shot he's potter according to the lesbian if you don't have a show because it doesn't fit in our mission i don't understand everybody agrees this idea that with if we're going to make every single person who returns an item make a shivoha nobody's going to return that item even revelation must admit to that idea okay so now we have to start fixing things up here says rav what happened is that the yossim came along and he's the one claiming and he says you owe money but he's a cotton he's seven years old he says hey you owe my money my father money so yeah get out of here who are you you're seven year old so but nevertheless he has to make a schwa he's a nobody or is he's not bar mitzi yet he doesn't know it's flying he's making stuff up can you imagine like a seven eight-year-old comes over to an adult and says you owe me money and that forces an adult to make a shiva it's not it's not even right it shouldn't be it's people are asking a lot of times to pay and not get not making sure so you're going to have a kid a youngster or a kid under by bar mitzvah maybe it's true maybe it didn't hear well maybe that well we don't know suzukimaru might caught and got all so another kind of but it's not really what it means is he's a minor in this story he doesn't have sakura in the story he wasn't privy to he doesn't know the information he's because when it comes to his father's business he doesn't know what's flying he's a cotton sometimes on his own admission he has to breathe he make a shivoha that's not his own admission somebody brought him to court a goddess brought him to court and you're telling me he's not a goddard because he doesn't know enough but still somebody else brought him to court don't say it's axmoy don't call him himself so you know you're right we have to fix it up even more involved who doesn't know much he has the the allah of let's say a cotton when it comes to his father's nihasim he's a goddaughter but he was to him but he admitted himself on that admission every time you go to bed and every time you admit to something it's based on somebody else's taina so why are you calling it your own taino when in fact it's somebody else that that sued you you're not not such a saddik that you came forward and you said you were sued and then you admitted that's not taina satsuma hello the rabbit commit [Music] over here again cotton alert if you see the plastic over here it says in the positive ish of a calendar the whole beautiful i like it gary i like it the whole do it again show the island it was cool do it why not don't do it the whole idea of schwa the torah talks about shiva and this parachute it says ish it has to be an adult when a cotton comes forward and says you owe my father well not you or my father if a cousin comes forward and says you owe me money the tariff says ish we ignore cotton he's not going to make a shivoha but this case is different this is a case of tainasov it is a cotton he's 11 years old but he's coming with his father's power he's saying you owed my father money is that different than a cotton just coming and saying you owe me money yes why now a lot of us anybody that went to heider yeshiva as a youngster most likely learned this as the the first thing he ever learned in gemara this is the first daf and gemmar def gimmel in baba mitsia or masket sometimes we learn yeah so we're very familiar with this gears to the ankles doesn't get any better than this why is it what's the logic behind it when a person admits if he's quite for alcohol if he says i don't know anything get out of here no schwa but if he admits he's a nice guy and he admits to have all of a sudden he has to make a schwa doesn't make any sense it does make sense why because we understand human nature a person doesn't have the audacity to lie to the person that did him a favor says please brings rashi in baba kama another amazing part of it a person that does you a favor you don't have the chutzpah arakasha my famous myso the guy is not watching this year so i don't have to worry about it a guy borrowed my car my sister hoya he borrowed my car and he's he needed it for two days so i said okay i'm conditioned wasn't my car it's my wife's car some condition that you turn it as clean as i gave it to you so literally a year later he returned the car when he was supposed to maybe a few days late but not a big deal and a year later he tells me he has a big time on me he needs to discuss it with me i said no what he said when you lent me the car remember yeah he said i sat up to one two in the morning and i cleaned the car like crazy because you you never said thank you to me ah you know the maze is part of my it's a good thing it doesn't do that he's a great guy actually whatever he's a great guy i'm good friends with him but some people have the little shikasana that's and everything is good next time don't worry i won't let you the car and i'll say thank you don't worry about it the habit cool the body that looks pretty that at the end of the day he he should have been quite for alcohol by the way coverless a person cannot look somebody in the face he did such a favor he lent him money you're gonna look him in the face and lie and say no you don't lie you don't lie to somebody did you a favor so to say why didn't he lie and say he doesn't know anything that he can't do it's impossible it's not human nature at the end of the day the truth is he should have admitted to the entire thing the de leo delay and the reason why he didn't admit to the whole thing [Music] he wanted to buy some time with sovereign heavenly zuzi or paranalay i don't have money now so i'm gonna say the minimum i have to say something i can't lie say it never happened i'll say 50 and when i get the money i'll pay you back concerned that this guy is going to keep on pushing it off like these guys just paid 12 years later there's nothing pushing it swear once you make a shivua you're going to pay it up right now now tyson's right on top of here brings up a beautiful caution what are you concerned you're concerned that this guy is a ghana he's not going to pay back so what do you tell him to do swear she's a gotham so swear falsely if somebody could steal from somebody else he'll also also still he'll also swear falsely fine at the end of the day ty says no that's not his that's not the problem he's not he's not a bad guy like that he has excuses he wants to push it off i said this a few times i heard madoff saying that he's not a bad guy madoff said that the first deal he did he really wanted to return the money on time just he thought that if he takes the money and spins it somewhere else and gambles it or whatever he'll make more money and he'll he'll and he he messed up he lost the money so he said okay let me take from somebody else but he never had intent to steal this guy also never had intent to steal from the guy nice guy he's made off nice guy just things happen you know and by the time he's done he's not going to pay at all huh no it's a monster high school but enemies it's a muslim high school because anybody could fall into that trap nobody said i'm when i saw him speaking i mummish i i believed him he said i'm not a ghana i don't i never took money from anybody up until that point we really got into big big law and he was and he tried to fill it up and every time he tried to fill up it got bigger and bigger and bigger by the time that was it he couldn't tell the emmys anymore okay no no no there are people the killer they're sociopaths and they go and they still that i didn't i didn't think that was the case with him i'm not trying to be master game at all i know there's a lot a lot of good people that lost a lot of money with him but just don't fall into his trap if anybody from people fell into it and that it's it's gambling basically that's what it is you gamble and then all of a sudden it's too late it's one thing to gamble let's say he was really good at it let's just i'm just saying he's really good at he made good money over the years and he figured okay now there's no different let me just and then it doesn't always work he was good enough a guy a guy just came over to me literally i'm just thinking about this now guy came over to me literally two weeks ago this is exactly what happened he's really really good at a certain game really good and people gave him and he finally got into a special crowd it's very hard to get into it and they gave him a lot a lot of money and both he lost it all he said could you help me out whatever it happens fine oh sponsor sponsored by moisture horn in honor of robbie trinidetsky the only rabbit is actually good at basketball and he gave it to me and i forgot i'm definitely forgetting and yeah i could call him official mdy if somebody did you a favor and lent you money you're not going to be dick and and and unbashful in front of the sun either you're going to be you're going to have some sort of booster from amy mayes returning a lost item no if he's if he claims it you're gonna have to admit to it just now we have to understand remember rebels jacob said the words he says sometimes you swear on your own account so over here it's not on his own account over here the cotton came forward and and sued him but since he's a cotton rashi explains it's considered like on your own account so it's a little bit it's in between what we're saying before in the beginning before i was saying mamash came forward by himself nobody sued him came forward he said i owed your father money and he paid him half and he has to make a schwa that's a lot to me now we're saying no a little kid came forward and sued him it was somebody else started it and he has to make sure but it's considered on his own account because it's only a kid it's only a five-year-old 10 year old bonus ivory boy who danny may is no it's not true we have to make a distinction here the guy that lent you money you don't you don't have the chutzpa to lie to him since the son didn't lend him any money what does he care to lie to him uma delay hayes and from the fact that he admitted to the son of adami that is considered 100 and therefore bottom line is at the end of the day this case of me coming to somebody else and saying i borrow money from me father and paid that calf does not fit in our mishnah because it's not with the same rules of our mishna of the funeral and this is a whole different allah and the story but we brought down samalakhas from baba matsuya and now we continue with the next mishna also a pesha hit the peshawas the official mishna is sponsored by maisha cohen for at slaho with limura toyra and parnosa aval anusim so one of the ways to qualify a star the star has two witnesses signed so either you have the witnesses come forward and say this is our handwriting or you have besdon they take another check or whatever from those ate them they compare signatures so they ate in themselves come forward savior denuza we admit that this is our handwriting it's our signature yes we signed avalor nu simo you know [Music] so this is a case of apec we on the one hand we're telling you this is a good start it's our signatures but turkey day deeper you have to immediately you can't you can't wait there's as long as it takes to say rabbi rabbi murray a few seconds you have to explain right away we are the ones that without us the star is worthless we have to we're qualifying our signatures we're also explaining that we were honest the story of a rav who somebody came to him and said listen if you don't give me a hamstring my cheese i'm going to do x y z if he basically he threatened him so the rob [Music] signed and then the guy went to hutzlarz and he showed the the the vendors or the other of in the community says i need a hasher from you so he says okay let me see what you have from the place that you gave him so it said over there there was a letter from the rabbi that was forced and in the letter he wrote a passage from parish's body it says by the by the carbon what do you say something like that it says says when you eat the car in pesach he said you should have the mistake with the belt he should be the pants tied up so he used parches what's going on here so he looked in the targum and it says over there i looked it up today it says saasir means like like like a tide knotted your belt should be tied but it also can mean your cheese is user he got the reference anyways we were honest we were forced done at one point i know under the rest we were youngsters it's our handwriting it's our sinister but we were children they believed why because back to the idea of apes once again so here's the we spoke about this part of the mishnah but if there ate them let's say that it's their handwriting it's their signature so now they don't have a right to qualify and say oh we're on usual there's no aiden but we can compare signatures says we'll see in a second there's a problem of testifying kevin cheged omar rami barcama so now we have two ramekas this is the first lashing now the first the first lotion is it's going on the second part of the mishnah that the adam are not believed the the fact that the mission says that the illuminati believed if they say that they threatened us we're under the rest was the rest they're gonna take away our house they're gonna take away the car so we had a lot new are you allowed to lie in such a case no so what are you if you lied because you're worried they're gonna take away your car you're russia but if that a good reason where they're they don't have to give up their life they threaten their life and you don't have to give up your life to testify falsely lemon okay they're believed omelette rava kolkamine how's that possible kevin those words they ate them have a one-shot deal they're able to testify after that what is it called we can't no there's a better not double like a double jeopardy there's no good lush in here they can't recant they can't they cannot recant their testimony there's no better lotion you should know it's pretty good i know i know that he knows i thought maybe there's a huh the kids are even if they explain it nicely and they say listen we were the the cops uh forced us this that nothing right without cloud did not believe there's a gemaran sanhedrin that says uh unbelievable thing about this the gemara says that adam testified that somebody was hive miso i have to i didn't look it up but something like that that the athen testified that somebody's hired me so so they're about to kill that guy based on their testimony then they started screaming no no we lied they killed the guy even shake it you can't recant once you testified and the guy is kaif misa as sad as it sounds sky misa you don't have the right to go back on your words so email over here how could these aiden go back on their testimony they signed the document and now they're saying oh we used to be gamblers but today we're big tzadiki we're not gamblers anymore we were forced at gunpoint they said oh if you don't sign we're going to kill too bad they sign emilia maybe this idea of this possum look at the pasta if it's verbal then you cannot recant but if it's in a star it's a signature i could re it's not yagi it's not a godda it's a siva so maybe writing is different just after basin separated them and went through the whole process [Music] it's in the star i don't know since it's written in the star they could go back because the whole reason i know that they can't recant is because there's a pasok but the puzzle doesn't say anything about a star star somebody over here if you write you sign in a star that's as if they testified in best it didn't happen yet it's as if it happened in besdon mma law it's a god though that's what the puzzle is talking about you're right they wrote it in the start but it has a lot of god ello kid so here we have just to go through it real quickly we have two ramens the first one says that adam are believed when it comes to be quick a lot of the letters say that you don't have kevin and there they could testify that there was when there was a monetary anus the other realm of mohammed says no you cannot go back on star and they don't have the ability to say about themselves that there's a highness and money that they can't do so eloqui is my register my name the first part of the mishnah we were talking about the second part where they're not believed and did not believe because it was money but if it's now we're saying the opposite or on the other part of the mission the first part of the mission that says if they them qualify and say this is our signature however we were forced they're believed why are they believed because the guy put the gun to their head and said i'll kill you. but if they said that it was only because of a monetary duress enema now just rashi points of beautiful thing here now you cannot say that we were relatives you could say gambling but you can't say this thing about relatives so if they're not believed so what happened so you say this is a good star but we were this and this it says the mishnah it's a good start so now we say this idea this concept asha's concept pagina de bouret we believe fifty percent of what they said we take the sentence and we chop it in half the first it's it's our it's our savior great we are anusim no good we we don't believe that part my timer russia a person cannot make himself a rush with this testimony a person cannot testify about himself he's neglected he can't say about himself that he's a russia i saw interesting shiloh i'm saying it over because i know the person there's a guy that's very friendly with my father big elo his name is strol romnick his father with leo romney was william romney from faraquin i saw this in resolution slavery this morning he said that there's a big shiloh if there's a guy that decided to mess around with his to mess up his wife in other words they were getting divorced he wanted to really get her good so he told her i accept the kidushin on behalf of our six-year-old daughter go figure out who the husband is have a nice day and he left could we trust him or not so rebellion ravnic went to china that ain't no the mace master in russia that was his taino because le soy no it's awesome to be macau kedusham for a youngster until she gets older until she says right sunny all these lovelies say another minute to rush based on this he wanted to say that it's not we don't we don't trust him at all and just this girl can get married whoever she wants should we stop here do two more lines it's really part of the next figure we could just say it anyway so now we have another man though omar did we remember mayor comes and argues on the mishnah he says adam are not believed to testify and say that the star is possible we understand the reasoning yeah they'll say that the star is kosher but also we were forced to whatever el remember why they not believed okay i can understand if the a dim our puzzle we have a hazaka that the guy that brings in eight him is going to make sure that he brings in good idea i don't trust them that they were relatives et cetera to say that there were kids that signed that doesn't make sense either in my time oh why aren't they believed to say that we were forced at gunpoint um if you are told you get shot in the head if you don't lie you heard the move they should get shot in the head and not sign and the man is going to ask obvious question we know that doesn't go based on what we say but for that you'll have to wait for tomorrow have a wonderful day [Music] you