Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 16 by R’ Eli Stefansky

want to start off with a big hizzle here higher belly i was at the seam in belt works and love the and camaraderie and was inspired to arrange a weekly get together for the guys montreal tonight was the first one of many d13 you can see the radio on the table why is this because these are guys who are getting together to learn torah to get to know each other to take it out of the screen it's not just a sheer online cheer it's camaraderie it's mishpochah and maybe they learned something from this one right over here oh they this was uh yeah okay the picture i ruined it somehow but you get the idea this is a muncie there's like 13 people here it also started with five guys and this is uh mo landy we were talking about mo land yesterday after chakras um a guy the davin's here with us he took a picture of him saw him in kennedy learning and it turns out that he learned the whole magilla or tinus on the flight and me just saying over that story inspired many other people and here again another thing from olandy he did this thing this thursday night get together other people that's why you may fire some of these things for torah it says on the bottom over here the boys in camp arrives on plano texas texas start off each day in the same as thousands of london across the world connecting to the worldwide movement of ely stefanski this is mky status check this out [Music] texas [Music] okay and now here it goes another camp by eddie schwartz here are some videos to enjoy one of the day after the season of bellworks my son wore the ndy gear and said good shot this red boy say ah the other video is the video of one of my morning classes in camp you beat him saying good morning rabbi said let the alum enjoy this amazing video this is what chav is looking forward to bring on live tonight hashem whatever that means he's also going to do something live here we go now they can't be deepened [Music] it takes practice thanks brad this was amazing it took me twice to read this and yesterday he spoke about being careful with kosher meat the story of the seriousness of our great grandfather yankee stevenski came to mind so he sent me this whole booklet about my great grandfather i didn't have a chance to read it because i got it this morning but maybe he's talking about i don't know there's a story i'll say real quickly my grandfather became stevenski from switzerland my great grandfather he was a masjid in in the butcher shop so he came in one day and he saw that he saw something he didn't like about the meat so he told the guy you can't sell it the guy says i'm gonna sell it so he stood by the door and every client that walked in he says dao fa kaufman drive over here they sell traffic and everybody just turned away so the owner of the store the butcher took out a giant knife and came running out at him and he said listen you're going to go otherwise i'll kill you so what does stevensky do he pulled out a knife he says if you hush it on trey if you hosh it i'm prepared let's go and he kept on standing there but i don't know if that's the story but listen how he he closes the story off thank you for the outstanding shoe room especially obama said help me understand how i'm your cousin from your laboratory cousin barcelon shui you hear this i have a baby cousin so i know about this mishpochah i think if i'm not mistaking his father or somebody there's a tremendous tremendous time [Music] so here we go i'm meeting up with my cousin finally i would like to thank you an entire andy waikihilo for the warm welcome during my pilot trip last week most people only get to see the back of the heads of the ndy hebrew but it's really nice to get to meet the supporting cast in person there are some colorful characters there that definitely deserve more air time a special thank you to tabi kamianski for taking the week off so i had a front row seat i truly hope to make aliyah become a regular member bakari thanks for that's david stern and finally high rebelli in recovery room after surgery keeping him going please beam spout for me stroll thanks guchavez schlammy miller because should give you a full slam and this is the mithri mike lads something like that learning oh that's his son dmitry's son oh and finally i have been spending time in the usa but trying to keep up with the dove this is by david black from rbs in the picture i'm attending the world games in birmingham alabama learning toyota in birmingham alabama here i am waiting for my daughter's muay thai championship fight so in the meantime i'm learning the daf while other fights are going on by the way my daughter came away with silver metal go team israel yeah what's unbelievable yeah that's right get out pay attention to every word here the mercedes the sponsor do you remember subject matter every day is a grand slam every day unbelievable it's like cotton or something it's like one to the next as it's closed by the lack of family it's like new jersey because tyra is the best gula as the school's for our children because they're safe healthy happy and no hashem loves them it's third one shraggy kevitz rl 149 it's supposed for my family then myself to beat saddiquim oh no sorry and myself and for the salikim of aria and tremendous success in my new business because toyota is the best segulo rabboissai here we go brand new parrik we finished a parrot king subbus from sad go on design today starting from the vishnu the official mission is sponsored by moishiko in fat sloka with limerick so we were talking about nemonis of the husband the wife as they get married the first night the second day now we're moving on to the next stage also questions of the amanus who do you believe we don't believe but now we're at the at the end of the marriage armello in his garcho here in mary's osani she got divorced she's 90 years old she's trying to remind her husband by the way when we got married 70 years ago i was never married before voymer you don't remember stickel it's been a while but you were divorced should i refresh your memory so she's asking for 200 he's saying i only owe you 200 100 now it also talks about somebody that died obviously he's not talking from the grave the children are representing him they're fighting with their own mother no dad doesn't owe you 200 it's 100 great now rashi points out and it's very important that there's no suba here if she had a super she had a document that says i'm absolute like every woman that gets married has either it says she's absula in 200 or almond 100 you should say she doesn't have it [Music] so what do we do if there are aden that she is wearing this hinuma the kimora's going to describe what it was and her hair is uncovered and reaches her shoulder bosom there's a minute i don't know let me know if you know about this minute i heard that there's this friday minute that they take the column one of these cars and they beat the horn everywhere kyle's getting married today yeah anybody no the spiders are shaking their heads no okay whatever louis to the such a minute it's not a minute of preachers it's a meaning of the opposite of prejudices to notify people this woman is going to be coming stay away but they were minhogen that they had four women who are getting married for the first time it's a very interesting thing it's a sad thing a little bit a woman who is getting married for the first time gets a soup of 200. what about if this woman was violated when she was younger does she get a suba of 200 or 100 anybody she's not absula so if a girl gets violated 15 16 years old does she have to start covering her hair from the mission it seems like she does because it says that any woman who i could testify and say that she had her hair uncovered when she got married is it right that she deserves 200 but here you have a girl that doesn't get 200 she gets a hundred so it would seem that she has to cover her hair she's a boola she has to cover here that's that's what's interesting about covering here i think people might not realize that covering here is not as much of a problem of a riots that it's it causes hirumara it's just that a woman who is married abullah has to cover a woman that's not married it doesn't cover here it's not about uh covering something that's pros or not pros so they're also so it's just the interesting shout out that they talk about could you prove them here or not she's not married she's not married she's a boolo it's nothing to do with marriage that's to do with abula a woman who was married for one night and got divorced has to cover her here it's allah of being abula not a not married or not married that's what i'm trying to say it's so if she was a boolo against her will she was violated she's still a baboola and she has to cover her hair according to those and it seems from the mishnah that they're right because if she doesn't have to cover her hair then here you have a situation of a girl who deserves a suba of only a hundred and she's bringing her right look when i got married i had my hair uncovered and i deserve 200. she's going to mess up her husband that she was a man maybe only on motherhood no i'm it's all in one category says it says they used to throw dried wheat they still have the minute now sometimes they they throw wheat there's a story with shmuel saland a guy comes to us and says i want to get divorced i married into this family a bunch of kayfram i ate their piece of knight and in the soup there was the sweet so the salad asked him when did you get married he said a month ago he says give me your strava takes his trial and goes like this and a bunch of wheat came out because they have a minute to throw wheat and when he bent down into the soup it fell into the soup it's not a joke it's sad ok nothing to do with what we're talking about or maybe he does have to do it is going to talk about this where does this come into the mishnah yeshua says by the way i admit to who do i admit to myself do i admit he comes to the children i was thinking about this if ahmed my children probably don't know of half the stuff that i own so if ben c freeman comes and says listen by the way your father owns this it's a pesho asapeter and by the way he gave it to me as a gift that's it you know that's what it says here if they don't know on their own that somebody that their father owned it and somebody comes along and says by the way your father owned it but let me qualify what i just said he owned it yes but he sold it to me the mouth that introduced us to the whole idea to begin what is the peshawas or you could also explain what happened it is amigo it's the same thing that's what it is [Music] okay so now we're talking about another muslim but if he's not the one that introduced the idea because there's aiden before end after zion claims i took it from him okay how long was he max again i will see says that she went out with hinuma and her hair was uncovered oh that's great but luck aiden there's no aiden bowman then the husband's believed that he married a divorcee in almata and he only owes her a hundred says i don't know if you remember what no because this girl has we learned the girl has a hazakos a girl is born absula so she got married absolutely rebecca lee always says last period that in the case i'll just throw it out here hold on what oh why bow mama yeah so we discussed and the the the case is going to be i'm going to spoil it for everybody the famous case of mercer is studying the nasty he says i don't i didn't find sulu and she says you're right but it i was violated after we were engaged so it's your field that was ruined ringgold says she's believed review says she's not believed who do you pass can like that sounds like room gamaliel we said her love is like leo she's always believed if she she could say regular says you could say about her pregnancy who is the father she could say everything she's always believed now over here it seems like she's not believed why because it's only the when there ate them she's believed without anything she's not believed says the gemara the most obvious answer the case of mr estonian nasty he has no idea the husband when this happened he's throwing out a claim i say it happened before he got engaged mecca talks she says no i could tell you i know for 100 i'm certain that happened after we got engaged i know who it is i know when it happened everything he can't say he knows so what is he's a shama he's a uncertain and he and she's certain so bari vishama bariatif she's always believed against hashema bari bari omar over here in our case she's saying i was not divorced and he's saying you are 100 divorced i know i know i'm married and she says i know i what i was gonna do both barries so therefore he's believed not her she's only believed when there's adam they could prove that was a wedding for absolutely not for abdullah says the gemara who did but what was your have amino what were you thinking when you asked the question more beautiful uh obviously our mission is a completely different case than michelle stanley and nasty where the husband doesn't have a right to to claim he's going to claim it but he has no proof to his claim that that she was nana's beforehand says mario but over here kevin derived from this if you do most women who get married obviously every woman every woman who gets married a second time was married the first time so all the women that got married were once married first so most women in the world who are getting married are getting married for the very first time not everybody gets divorced and gets married a second time so most women are absolutely well it's more more than that sula's so most jewish women getting married absulates so now she has a much stronger taino now she's saying my time is stronger than yours i'm saying i wasn't divorced you're saying i was divorced okay so it's 50 50. but guess what now i have arrived that adds to my taina that i wasn't divorced most women who get married are sulois so now i'm much stronger than you i'm not just a bari nabari i'm a super bury and you're a weak bari you turn my time is so strong now that your certain taina is like an uncertain taina it's like a shama says um admits right so now let's just see this for a second oh hold on check this out let's just say this about pep raymond leo argues are you sure you are showing the case of mishra standing in nasty in in the red the top part is nasty it's a case of barry vashema remington says she's believed and rabishow says she's not believed so they argue remember are you comes ripping them in our mishnah if that's the shot if our mission is written became leo in the game you wanted to say it's not ringing um leo and it's it's a problem because we passing okay let's see how our missions are going wheel comes from leon and kind of admits to be sure something he says in a case of barry and barry when they're both certain what a mother-in-law sati and she says no i was a in that case mr yeshua she's not believed unless she has either but she's not believed comes ruby sure and says okay thank you for admitting to me i'm going to admit something to you it flows well ringo layla always argues with yeshua in the first paragraph subas now in the first mishna of the second paragraph he says well there's something i want to admit to you comes with yeshua and says you know what i'm going to admit something to you as i'm learning this i'm thinking that has to do with real estate a little bit one of the yeah real estate is all about negotiations and many times at least i use this tactic you sit there in a heavy negotiation session and if you show a soft side to you you're not like this is really like you take take a you give in a little bit then all of a sudden they soften up also it's sort of it's a it's a known tactic not that that's what they're doing but look you admit to me i'm going to admit to you stop to remember it's like for zikarin purposes okay so it makes sense it flows right leo says i argued heavily with you in the first parrot now i'm going to give you something that i admit to you in a case of bharabari clumsy assurances and i'll admit to you that when somebody shows up and and says hey this field was owned by your father but i bought it from him he has a miguel miguel okay but if this is not rhythmically ill who's the mishna ruby yeshua admits himself who's he talking to it doesn't flow well it seems like the mishna starts off talking about room game leo and now everything goes well inside then it makes sense if he shows admitting something back during them um i will admit to you hello though but if it's not even leo the beginning of the mission is ruby sure like we wanted to say maybe surely okay says well so now if you just look at the chart for a second all the more is doing is rebechua on the bottom left corner is going to admit during gamaliel in the top right corner in other words not so swear i'm going to admit i the beginning of the mission is me ruby schwab and am i i'm admitting to something we discussed in the previous peric that's it it goes like this here review admits in the case of a field that there's amigo the whole other paragraph said no remember mr estonian nasty the guy comes and says hello you don't have suleim so what does she say oh you're right but i was violated she could have said a much better thing what could have she said much eights no because he came up with it he asked it much eights i remember when he asked her okay why is she saying that michelle is standing at us she could have said a much better taino it happened through an instrument there's no nothing there's and i get a bigger suba so we have to believe her she has amigo and revisho says no no me gui but in this case of a field he admits there is amigo you see it it's good it puts on the other parrick that's the end of the gemara misha restaurant in the nasty but like the gemara typically does the style of the gemara and there's good reason the gemara is going to give us now let's just say the words you think of in the second part of the mission he says i'm i agree i'm not agreeing to this mission that we're talking to now i'm agreeing amigo vape i'm talking about the migoi in the first pair of subus so if you learned the first peric i was actually on the phone with this guy ezra from new york yesterday trying to convince him somebody coming up convince him he wants he wants you to call him if you call so i called him so today might be his first day say maybe he doesn't know it's flying but for all of us who learned the first pair of superstiguar is going to do a beautiful hazara 30 line of hazard now we all know the suggests inside out so we can move through it the end of the story is it's the case that we're talking about the whole time now michelle is stannin and nasty but igor says perhaps it's a different case but why is gemara just a little nikuda here to point out the gemara it's the style of the gemara to go through everything until you get to the real one it also makes more sense that he's arguing on the closest mishna to this mission i'm going to be invited to the last mishna oh not that one let's go to the one right before that not that one and finally we get to the one on youtube based on the base which is the furthest one away but it makes the most sense because when i learned it mission is nasty jumped into my head immediately it was before anything so okay umar goes through the whole um exercise the famous mishna they see that she's pregnant and they say who's the father and she says i'm telling you he has he's a coyote she's believed we don't trust her so the murder says i need a case that there's amigo that rebechua argues and says i don't trust amigo but in our mission by a field he does trust in me that there's no migrant in that case why harry crazy when she now she's so obviously pregnant that she can't say well i'm not pregnant she's stuck ella aha okay another one room so this is if you notice it's beautiful dapcha because muberus is in the same mission as this but mubarak is closer to our mission it's the end of the mishnah and this is the beginning of the mission room that bears she says them talking and we said talking to another man is nothing it means something it might be it's a la shanaki of either mamas bia they saw it they witnessed it or they saw echoed but it doesn't mean nothing happened there you saw me go into a room but nothing happened because the fact that she's admitting that the the something happened that's amigos she could have said nothing happened and therefore don't remember this again there's aiden that saw beer my migraine what could you say it didn't happen there's ayden that saw it happen she can't deny it so again we don't have a case where we sure says there's a miguel and i i don't trust the migo but in this case it's amiga and i do trust me in a case that she says that i lost my soul in from wood boy that's not what happened i don't trust her hustle amigo what's if the argument is about the husband says i'm not going to give you anything and she demands only a hundred because she's a mukase and she gets a hundred according to that g though but she so she has amigos because it said yes it's wood wow is engaged visceral messiah and therefore she gets 200 and now she's putting herself in a bad position of a hundred so let's believe her that she gets the hundred because she if she's already lying like that guy that returned the wallet to the to the pirates if i'm stealing i could take more if i'm lying it could take more regard regardless even in that case we have a problem according to our beyond it doesn't flow well dominating amanda the whole argument between the husband and the wife is whether she gets 200 like a regular absula and the husband says no you're a you're like a booleah because you're a mukase you only get a mana my migo what could have she tied in better she's already saying i want 200. what could she do better finally here we have it over here the two mishnais the mukase one is you gimmel and the one that we're finally at is based off ago almost uh he didn't find suleiman she claims that it happened under your watch we were already engaged with staffordshire it's like somebody who buys a field and it flooded afterwards boy maliki that's not what happened hello actually rasta again he doesn't know for sure he's just throwing it out there maybe he'll uh catch a fish or something he's saying no it happened before we got engaged so over there she has amigos she could say why does she have to admit that she's abula from a match you could have said it happened from something else what's the difference because now that she admits that she was violated now she's oscar to cayenne but if she said it happened from eight where i tell the kids by the way your father owned 17 nursing homes you don't even know about them and oh but i bought them awesome but over there by mr stanley nasty i argue that's not a good meeting that you could have said oh it happened from eight what says it okay so explain to me why not what is the difference they both they're both i could say she could have said a great taina he caught her she's a bulla so she's uh you know what happened moka says it's the best way out of it she doesn't come puzzle she she she doesn't ruin the reputation everything's great and over here also he has a miguel you see love it you call them me the high migo and over over here you don't have a dead ox there's nothing for the kids to go on that there's no reason to think the fathers the father own nursing homes who's letting them know about the nursing homes this guy okay so now we have to believe him for everything but there's no reason for them to start searching if somebody mentioned something and they say then that they own nursing homes you're right but he comes in and says by the way really yeah really but i'm sorry to tell you that he sold him to me for for a dollar okay so who do we believe him over there by the mission standing nasty he's coming with a taino he's telling her hey what happened to your psyllium so she comes up with an excuse i lost them after we got engaged ah she could have said a better taina i lost them from mukka said maybe she didn't think about it she was under pressure he asked her a question she didn't have time to think about the answer quick what happened so she could have said maybe she didn't think about it she wasn't smart enough but over here there's no shark there's no time or nothing the only way you know about the real estate that he owned is from this guy so melees is 100 believe but over here the way we know about it is from the husband claiming and she answered that's not a good miguel says since we have arrived arrive again so it says in the past so we always go by the majority 51 percent is enough for us we should believe this woman 100 percent that she was absula and therefore what take money out of her husband with the rove so yes this is ashita says points out that's rav remember he's raving small ravels i could take money out of somebody through it right shmuel argues no life is good to eat food that you think is strafe right not to take money out of somebody else okay what's going on here is like this we have arrived the majority of women who get married are s yeah in our community most women who get married for the first time are absurd and in our community also everybody knows call look you have to look at this word every single unmarried girl who gets married the whole world knows about it they know about the khasana 300 people came dance hall of fa 300 700 whatever it is they came they dance everybody knows about the wedding it goes it's a whole spiel the whole everybody knows everything what's it called the zoo it's online and the internet and the invitations and the vard and the and the chevy brothers and the off-road and everybody knows that you got married not so much by a second marriage sometimes people get married saying marriage really got married yeah last week but you just got divorced the week and a half ago what what happened in our community right here right i think i got divorced boom uh two weeks later i mean okay whatever this is what i have angler called ichaela aruba so this woman who doesn't have the coil something really serious happened over here it ruins the fact because every girl that gets married is a cult and she doesn't have a college she's not part of everything so i ruined her own derive that says that all women or most women who get married are baseless says the gemara e call if you're going to be media in the word call and tell me every single girl that gets married is a call hannes absolutely he also ate the mojave then how could adam fight against this rule there's a rule every 100 not 99 percent 100 of girls who get married when the absolute everybody knows about it so how could two of them fight against such a rule we know she what you're fighting into rule that's this call says don't don't take it literally it's not everyone it's a roy with 51 percent the 60 70 percent ruba kukul or whatever hannah sanchez but you have to take the word call and switch it that's what we meant we weren't being serious about the call right it means right right yeah even today if somebody got married let's say during covet maybe we didn't hear about it there's only 15 people at the wedding and it's possible a wedding happened we don't even know about it so it's not every single pursuit that got married most the zoo joyou of le call it raleigh rubo okay so that's we just took back we just went from what that's why you need adam that's why he didn't work over here because aiden cannot work against a solid rule of cold aiden could work against the rove you tell me most girls who get married are sulois well i have eight and say that she's not have anything to guess in me and shay them she also be numa okay so real quick there's a macholic is above a bathroom sponsored by mr horn is the others the third sponsor for real i didn't put it in sorry uh in honor of sv medetsky the only rebbe that was actually good at basketball and yanko cohen the official mdy msp in honor of rebellio the real greatest jewish basketball player ever lived okay that's like the rush fine this is my flag is very interesting my flag is what happens if i somebody lends money to somebody else ruvain lends the i lend to you money and you come to payback and you say well i'll give you the ten thousand dollars back but you have to give me back the star i need i need evidence that i pay and what am i going to do when i have to start i'll tear it up i'll burn it and then you won't be able to come back to me and say i owe you ten thousand dollars it makes sense you come to me and i say you know what i'm sorry i lost the star so there's a mandala that says too bad you lost the shadow you can't do anything about it but i'll write your receipt no he doesn't want to receive because then he has to hold on to the receipt for a hundred years you'll his assignment will find a star somewhere in a drawer and say huh the guy always send that they go to the other guy 55 years later and they don't they they can't produce a receipt and you're going to take money out of them no you come up with the star he pays you you give him a star you don't give him a star you don't get paid in the story there's such a cheetah others say no he lost the star rahman he'll write you a receipt like everybody else does okay can we prove something from our mishna because we said in our mishla she doesn't have aksuba she doesn't have exuber that's a star now she's coming and she's saying hello you owe me 200. so you could say too bad producing suba you don't have a soup i'm not paying you she'll say well give me i'll i'll give you a receipt well i don't want a receipt then you're going to come back in five years and say pay me again i don't want to receive i want it i want to suba but over here you see from our missionary she doesn't need like super receipt is good enough let's do it right man [Music] maybe not maybe i paid it i paid it i'm not giving you a dime what do you mean and the guy that comes to ten thousand dollars a guy that comes for ten thousand dollars go back again it comes to ten thousand dollars five thousand dollars in my mother shop it's a it's it's it's a it's alvaro i owe you money i owe you money producer produce documents i don't see i don't see them you know routine norm is saying that because she's a hundred percent at least so give her a hundred but he could say i paid already yesterday and i gave you a receipt i don't want a receipt i don't i don't think you're right valder mapulo oh somebody sent me by the way i have to somebody sent me the biscuit troupe that i was looking for there is a piece of chuva with the buster was very remember yesterday basically trooper says that if you find a piece of meat on the street and and you want to be a big machmer you're like happy cars or something you sent it to me found it in a different place okay oh sorry if she doesn't have a subaru so she's going to come with to aid into this best thing while the map could look super behind beside them she'll go to another city and say he has to pay me the gave ball and she's the same idiom again or a vapor samaras clayson schweiber you see that her seat doesn't work she he can't push her off and say i'm not giving you suba until you give me the actual subaru says no there's there are places they don't write exuber at all and therefore if she doesn't have aksuba she won't be able to demand payment twice so it's obvious question but how is she demanding payment now she has either she'll do the same okay we'll address it now just pay attention here on our mishnah that the mission says that she could demand aksuba with adhim says rappapo it's a place that there's there's no adam now that kumar says well maybe this wasn't even said about the mission what's that about something else something similar i think kumar is going to say well it's a big enough camino because just because we're papa said it on the bryce oh then okay he'll say it all's on the mission but just because he said on the mission doesn't mean he said it on the bride so okay what's the difference in the bryson uh so we have three things in the surprise one two and three it looks like i lost my super hit to me no superstar she hit it somewhere miserable it got burnt completely big difference one is that it's in the world i don't know where in the world it is the other one is it's burnt it's out of this world rock dude if she could produce adam that they danced in front of her like they danced for a sula saw gula foreign is going to explain some sort of wine that proves that she's absula or a map suleim or a sheet the psyllium sheet in the beginning i thought that's the minute today that i don't know if you ever had a wedding the guy goes with like a sheep and the other guy goes like a bull you ever see the stick yeah i saw a better picture check out this picture that i thought maybe this is where this minute comes from this might be the the mafiashop suleim thing no it's a record now people ask me somebody sent me an email today what's going on here with this what i know i get it oh really i don't even know this is right this is where we learned in the kylo that's his father harry fluency's father wow wow found it online that's not robbie oh that's right with flintstones uh wow interesting you thought i used that but okay enough of this picture but somebody just sent me an email today like we said there's a whole suleiman and this and like how is it possible like we're so making how we talk and uh even have 70 years of this but you see from the suggest they were very international very into promoting the idea of sulim and that the the the this woman was not niksha when she was uh there was a thing the whole the this is the whole sugya okay so it says like this that she there was a dancing in the this subasim she gets 200. this is the same sugar that we said a second ago but this is on the bryce let's be concerned that these atheism are going to help her and and take money from the husband in different cities because there's no there's no there's no receding well i'm not going to supervise them we gotta be bothered with this embarrassment from here you see the idea that she could demand that i will give you a receipt even though i don't have exuber machine questioning on this from papa said the same thing that we said a second ago we're talking about a city that doesn't they don't ride aksuba just real quickly points out here then why are we talking about a city that they're radical hold on um we have to tell you the next word it says the super got lost what are you telling me that this is a it's in a city that they don't write exuber she had a super how did you have exuberance they didn't write one the concept of you you're right it's in the city they don't right but he wrote one for her so it says a beautiful point here that so just say it's in a city that everybody writes what's the difference in a city that they don't write but he wrote or it's in a city that they do write isn't that the same thing says places no in a city that they do write aksuba then you cannot live with your wife without xuba so now we have to be concerned that perhaps he wrote another tube of her and she has a second one hiding somewhere but not in this case okay so problem number one is it says that in in this chart ibd in green she lost her super that means the rhodic super okay fine he wrote it for her on the side so if sorry but if he if she lost it it happened to me here in arizona i had something that i didn't really want to use so i got a chair and i put it on the top shelf in my my closet and when i put it there i felt something so it was like four thousand dollars that i put there like three years before i just forgot i like kind of hit it threw it up there happened to my uncle he was trying to fix his sewer in his house he opened up the the cap you know in the shower and also he found a bag of money that he himself put there 10 years earlier whatever you know devalued scholar happens so she lost her exuberance 10 years later she's going like this on the top shelf and she finds her super now she's going to use it against her husband uh where am i thinking oh here i need this thing it must mean that it got lost in a fire but how could number one mean that i got lost in fire so what's number three three means also lost in a fire you had an israel void hits me now my equipment but what about number two over here she she she hit it ibd means it got lost the tomino means she hit it which which one it that one she'll she will produce it didn't get burned versus it's pushing the envelope here we're going to say that one and two is actually one thing that if it got lost to the if it got lost it's like she hit it and what's that if she hit it in parentheses she cannot get a suba if it's in this world she doesn't get suba now we're saying another an israel doesn't say anywhere in the price of that they're different it says we're saying such now if it got burned and it's out of this world the price of the midst now she could get a sub of 200 because when you have no concern she's going to come and be governor if it's out of this world if so man if you're telling me that rapper said this shot on the braiser colts gay namaste now in the bryce where it says mufourish that she has a tsuba it says it was exuberable great the mission doesn't talk about that at all so certainly we would say his shot in the mission because it doesn't it doesn't go well this is such a big track that we we're not going to say this shot in the bryce what is it called how does it work okay we're talking about in the city that they don't write exuber if this is adam that she she got married and says she's absula she does get exuber but now the same concern she'll use the same maiden somewhere else and be going again vatican sweden and shaver of course if there's no suband the only way she's going to demand it suba and by the way why is she going to demand this tool because the con is best then you don't need aksuva ham said everybody gets married gets 200. i don't care if you write a document don't but at least if you're going to come and demand payment for that everybody agrees that there's a receipt let's just do a little bit more a little bit more here the final question sorry my question sawyer what is this cup that we're talking about that proves that she's absolutely insulted here's the chart of truma the first thing that you ever take from your pro this is about two percent then you give to the queen so they take some of the wine that you give to the kind and you to say it's like a a simmon she could have got married to a cayenne and she could have eaten because she's absolutely masculine the only almana that can't marry a kind is a kangado but every almana can marry a cayenne a divorce he can't marry a kind but a mother could so what kind of proof is that papa's racist kid rumor racist this is the first the first thing you take you see the list first you take two percent gives you the kind then you take ten percent you give to the lady then the lady takes this and then they take ten percent for yourself this is the first hold on one more line they used to put a barrel right in front of her omar valeri [Music] they give a barrel that's closed then she has a pesach so that guy is going to ask how does the desire say that they used to make such a pseudo here how did they they put such a barrel that's what they used to do i never coming over comment below never clown what did i have to do just do one bear why do you have to embarrass the woman that was married before and say look she has a pencil here the barrel is open don't put a barrel at all that'll be your simmon one hassan has a barrel one dozen says the gambar is in the tufts of asylum very interesting she'll grab out of the state her whole suba now you have to prove that she took wrongly says rashi there was shaker at the wedding they forgot to bring a barrel so mamaela every wedding gets a barrel one is open when it's closed have a wonderful day a wonderful shabbos sherman shabbos 10 45 sharp very sharp you