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sorry this one is not going to go on the screen for whatever technical problem mazel tov on the scene when you i'd like to send a huge shout out to the whole london mdy team not mentioning any names i guess if you get one for the beautiful arranged team i've now not only been able to finish your vomits but i have a piece of vomits to cherish this accomplishment in shape of a life-sized dentist dial in my dining room here it is beyond schwartz and talking what just happened yeah beyond schwartz but you know what this dentist after the sem he went over to somebody and he went with the sd client and gave us the client a five thousand dollar check because he's so inspired now for all those who are counting mdy's money they say wow fifty thousand person times two thousand plus ben schwartz just gave five thousand this guy so mdy is down fifty thousand dollars if anybody wants to know on that seam alone my wife wants to auction him further as she always gets shocked of the stranger in our house remember they made that blow up the the cut out of me and i had it and the dog kept like jumping at it okay fine do not put these things in your house i guess she should have also learned your vomiting used and furthermore i would like to thank lior levy for the mdy hand and get togethers on a daily basis learn with cover on the sheer picture and attach here the mama's learning there's a it was last night the picture over here you see the sheer from last night maybe we all finished chance together the best health and well from london aaron meisleg and here do you see this one gary you don't see this one either the quick story is i got started by ellie churns who pushed me to join at possibly the best time ever daftess and yuvumis after listening to a few daff not tsubas skipping the first six minutes i was hooked in up in the first eight happened that i missed something's on one and a half to speed my day goal does not start until i've done the dive in the morning at work many hours before i have been out of learning for many capital many years along with mdy family vomits was my first serum i've made on my own unbelievable i made a scene in brujas for my father's first year chad you have changed my daily routine and now i look forward to each morning waking up to the new meeting my day is even my kids aren't there now here's the story and i'm going to show you a video none of the story but we'll understand it on one friday night by kiddish i got up to sabri i'm just reading his thing here and my two and a half year old gave out a daft daft are you playing around with my computer yeah do it later i dropped most of my cup laughing so hard i had this kiss to make it to thursday in brooklyn and to see you in new jersey i really hope they continue to give the chance to give the whole family many times over thanks again ellie gildan the real guilder with an e so here's the video let's see if we could um hmm what is this does the battle cry ah knuckle mode oh you're able to see it okay fine the chemist elsa says we got our own parking lot here's somewhere in brooklyn mdy parking lot and we found out that i told you guys megan david yeshiva is suing us this might be this is not it but this is another mdy they could sue these guys as well then i'm saying this is a joke this morning after learning the daf i gave my general my gemara it says to fellow member i got to start that field miksubis kind regards hill groover so this is rabbi i forgot his name wait said it in the thing so one rabbi to the other rabbi that's a mama's mysterious knives giving away mars so somebody else should start and then you have to wait patiently until the new one comes in the coil especially sponsored then you also have a story that you made a lot of money once by donating something never as it is you lost a lot of money ever since you gave to this no you're a vine as the supposed children to be college safe healthy and happy and awesome loves them this is the last day michael patricia treated in commemoration of the week of the 10th yard side of ravioli of the miami community who passed away on the third day of tamils at the young age of 42 by shawlee wasserthail in honor of his wife's first yard site night of tamils by aaron meisler here oh that's the guy yeah that's the same uh okay i got it reverse lamborghini neri who desperately needs rakhmi shmaim after the terrible car crash in lakewood what happened lakewood anybody there's a terrible car crash in lakewood and for the mazel tov to rafi stefanski on the new baby girl i wonder which rafi's defensive is i know my first cosmetics defense from lakewood a big tomato all right rabbi sai we're starting from daf yuda aleph that means we're 10 daff into subus i'm loving every minute of it i do want to tell the islam real quickly that our mdy kylo we have 11 guys and they take the test they take every month 30 daf and then they take 120. and they take a cumulative dap daf test every octave every circus and pesa they take from beginning of shas the last test they took was 860 dot so first of all i want to say i'm very very proud one of the guys got a 75. now if you think about it 75 on 860. 860 left i don't think i get a 75 on 30 however two of the guys got in the high 90s high 90s it it's not nor 75 is badness it's it's schleichel 75. think about and think they're from bronchus they ask you questions all over at least 10 questions permissible it's hundreds of whatever it is so it's a tremendous achievement and especially what mandy how many did you do you're not saying okay oh no says the official mishna sponsored by moshikow in franco with illuminator hagiaris a girl who became augiers top i know it's a little shock but usually on sunday we're on the right spot is a regular woman who was captured and the giorious is a woman who decided to become a guidance or not decide we'll see in a second slave do [Music] they talk about this why does it say nif do instead of nisgairu the first one is a guiller so i should say shin is gyro because it's a big mitzvah to be paid which is in other words these are women that have a hazaka that they were nival they were with somebody before captured woman so like shmuel's daughter right captured what happened we know the story would happen that's what the guy we're going to do so this is kazakh that aguirre is also a non-jew mr so this all happened before they were three years old and we learned that the sun come back if they lose the sullivan before three comes back therefore they have a regular they're considered suloise lemtan is pursuing now if they are not basulin so you can have a time against them and that's called what a mechatos and we the whole thing falls apart if the guy the guy just says okay i'm not married to you anymore you don't get a tube at all shall i israel omar abu no garcotto what does it get caught to me says rashi that his mother shows up the best and says please make my son again there's no father involved there because it's the father that's a different story the whole family together is going to see soon gary caught them but villanova al das besden so the best guy gathers they have three people and they say okay we're going to be guy you first of course this is bruce milo lucian garros then the final step is fila le shem garros okay we know the concept that if i want to be kind of a hundred thousand dollar diamond i found for you i could do it because obviously you would want it so if it's a great thing i can be certain for you so over here it's good to be jewish i'm being exactly for you kanino we already learned this what's the big what's the kid zach to acquire something that's beneficial for the person you could do let's say a get which is not good for the woman you can't do it without permission money you could do without permission so tyson goes into the whole thing here not the time to be admired but already to be somebody is from comes from schmiechos it's as if we assume that you appointed you appointed me to lift up this diamond for you well the problem is that a cotton cannot appoint the okay someplace goes into it could okay there's another problem this kid is not jewish and there's no slichos for a non-jew so it's gerusoy [Music] to tell me that i could do skill i could i could make somebody a girl now don't don't worry about this some say that if you even fight we don't look for gary besson discourages garros but if the the kid happened to fall in their hand let's say we found him he's lost he's whatever the reason is we could do such gamers the mother brought him he's adapted we'll see in a second but that's all zuckerland's labour fighter what's the difference if i give a uh this person this human being or give a diamond mouth i would assume that a non-jew enjoys that lifestyle and now you're restricting him alone this we already established that uh evad loves fk rose even though now he if we if we misshocker him we let him go now he could marry a jewish woman no he'd rather be with the with the shivkas [Music] but this child this youngster it's a good thing for him okay we have to somehow get this message i just had this discussion with my kid yesterday like i don't want to go into the details but like you're embarrassed to be you oh yeah what's the problem here like it seems like we're not doing a good enough job some of us to to make it it's it's smack to be what are you what are you trying to to be like like the other guys okay perhaps we can bring it right from our mishnah that's why we brought the sugar to begin with says the mishnah they have these three women that have a kazakh that they were like what happened this this grs that less than three years old look hyra besnem came and then what for whatever reason the mother brought this girl and they would title her with the best so you see that we have the right to do it oh get this guy out of bonneville we're talking about the father came who said doesn't say anywhere in the mishnah who brought the girl it's a story of a guillers who is less than three years old it's possible that it's a typical story that the father came to mess them the whole mushpak is misguided together and over here every kid wants to be together with the father they don't want to live on the street father says i'm becoming a from yid okay i'll also become a frumiyan in the past so rashi he says we're talking about garen kenneth says that it's like this gemara over here akhtar imagilum that the father brought the young kids to besdon all right now just it's very interesting i saw this whole long remission about adopting kids many people adopt kids they adopt non-jewish kids russian kids whatever it's even a problem sometimes to adopt a jewish kid because they might somehow end up with their own siblings so i saw some very interesting lovers i'll share them with you so first of all you have to do a bris miller right away and have in mind that it's for garus and you need to best in president that they're not related you know a brahman you make la mulasar garim it's a very long bracha but you don't make the broccoli vermont [Music] you can't be like that mushroom that put this kid in the the resolument when the kid went bye-bye you can't put a baby in a mikvah what are you gonna do so you have to wait until he's two years old so that means you can't name this this adopted kid until he's two years old well if the parents really insist he talks about everybody she goes through the whole thing parents don't want a baby that doesn't have a name for two years so he says so fine you could do it but you say when he's like two years old he put him in the mikvah and he says you don't say love it's not his father so you say lee because let's say avraham ben you his adopted father you say and then finally and this is very important stamp because i i never knew these about adoption you must tell the kid remind your past can some argue with remission he must tell the kid before he's 13 years old that he's adopted because as we're going to see in a second these kids that become garen when they're babies because the father brought them to bed they could make a maha they could say i don't want to be jewish comes out stamina wow the voice i i could tell you that this man was up at 4 30 that's that's when he was finishing the video editing and everything and he's hearing the spanish now this early wow okay jose billiard [Applause] unbelievable okay i'm saying mdy is there's a lot of people behind the scenes that do tremendous things a lot of people one of them is yosefi okay so it's just very interesting you have a kid a jew who poured wine this he works in the vineyard and then when he becomes 13 it decides i'm going to be a guy so comes that everything retroactive that he touches the inessa azaleas huh yeah whenever he finds out there's a mice and shahid we discussed this a few times and we used to cause this messenger they came to a boy and they said you know we just found out you're not even jewish so the guy goes okay let me think about it for a few days they're still looking for the guy he never came back agreement also said that he had a friend like that that was told and he got up from asia he said he told me just saw him that maybe he did become from i forgot the end of the story but back then that's what he said half of them went off so they asked the shiva and punished he said i understand the guy's staggering away for years and just like that he says yeah but who's tagging he's the non-jew that was tagging so the non-jewish tagging so when i said this back then but i want the oil on to to think about the end of this this they say that the baka from tifra when he found out that he's a non-jew the first thing he did is he took a shower in the nine days and then he became then he became a yin there's a big topic from neighborhood he found that he's not jew what he did was before he became a gayer he went then he drank a cup of coca-cola because he had a bad hamster of land now but i want the oil to think about this one the khasid in yeshiva what happened when he found out that he's not jewish before he became again what did he do he learned superstaff tests i ruined it okay yeah yeah so they said about the repeaters they asked them what would you do if you found out that you were you're going you said i would remarkably carbon on obama and then become a jew all right dr gemara you too e2 aceved they and when they michael now the question is the richard talked about this tyson talks about it what does it mean like how much time does he have it has a millisecond so it goes something like this like if he was acting as a jew like he was he's putting on fill in it's too late like he has that millisecond but if he was acting like a non-jew you saw it's his bar mitzvah he doesn't care about the filling nonetheless so then he could then he has time it's already 8 o'clock what happened okay is based on our mission if this non-jew this this girl who we decided for her to become jewish who made her years but she has the right at the age of 12 to decide that she doesn't want to be jewish so how in the world do we give her suba beforehand it's going to come out perhaps that if she annuls her judaism retroactively then she just ate up her tsuba and she's not even jewish now come on she gets divorced when she's eleven husband has to give her exuba it says in the mishnah she gets 200. but she has the right at 12 to go and revoke her yiddish kite so what happened to the suv that we gave her we're not in it we're not here to benefit the the going with tsubas says you don't give her the super today you give her the super after we know for a fact that she's not going to take it back when she's 12 and in a day 12 and two days and we see that she's still going on being jewish then you could give her exuber but she could still announce that no can't she revoke it any time no even okay if she acted like a jew for one moment and she didn't do a macho that's it too late massive brother a lunarish so if onearo 12 years old had a highness they violated her gets a cannas so this is a huge kiddush take a look at this possum we saw this puzzle yesterday but we didn't see the whole thing the violator has to pay la villa and velocity alicia if she wants he must marry her and he can never divorce her it's not quite the niskar because she wants to marry him if she doesn't want or not but here's the khidus since it says in red velocity deposit is saying that it's a condition he in order to pay the canass he has to marry her if she if she if she agrees but what if it's a mom serious what if he violated her mumsares or nasino people that you can't marry it's also him to marry her so if it's awesome to marry her maybe you shouldn't pay the 50 shekel abolishers valenciano valaccus without shift the question over here is from the kinase okay this is a case of a canas you see that we give a girl that became a guillorious we give her the 50 shekel kanas same question as we had before before we asked it on aksuba how do we give a guillory sexual when she has the right to revoke her judaism later on same question over here how do we give this girl a 50 shekel can ask maybe she's going to revoke her disguise you put it in escrow somewhere by the vessel and you give it to when she becomes older says the same questions she cannot do the rest of her life she has a one just one moment to do it bizarre so we have a question from suba how is it that we give this girl a super we have a question how do we give this girl a canas it's the same exact question same exact answer abaya yamakorova the reason why abaya didn't ask from class like rob mendy's favorite line how can we have a guy that violated girls over here instead he shouldn't pay 50 shekel because maybe she's going to revoke you this time too bad let him revoke this guy let him pay the knoss he can't do enough veyro and say oh he doesn't have to pay the penalty because maybe the punish him give it to the guy who cares he shouldn't be running around violating people how come rava asked the question from he didn't say i'm sorry from kanaz he didn't say from excuse my diamonds like they're calibrated to y'all okay we have different reasons you can't just not pay the extruder we want it we want to make it difficult for him to divorce her the official mission is sponsored by moshe cohen fans local with limura toyota first comes libertarian you see then you have an adult who had relations with aktano who is less than three the cotton who's less than nine in other words these are people kids that are not in the parasha of bia because we already had a number of times but just to describe it's not it's a woman who lost her sulim not to azaha but to some abject so she's not a boola but she doesn't have sulu says it's not a problem at all since this cotton who's his beer is not beer he's nothing it's a joke so she's considered abdusulah a mukha said it's happened from a piece of wood she's absolutely i just want to point out that is going to bring here the mission brings three cases they are one thing only seems like the kind of masculine mayor in the first two mukha said so the rashford learns by the way i don't think rashi agrees to this but the rashford learns that has to do with how much the husband admires loves this wife and based on that he pays rexuba mukha said it has some sort of hassan according to so he doesn't give her a full suva if this al-mana happens to be epsilon we had this yesterday on the mission a new mission this is a new type yesterday was that these women they were basulis even though they had kidushin now we're saying another step they had huppah but the husband never died they did just remain absolute grusha the chaluzzo again she was supposed to be mr abem and instead there was khalitsa subhasana they only get a mono so if they marry somebody else because they have a hazako that they are bullies they get only a mana it happens to be so they get half extreme they get subas as uh an almana vein lahem tinus let's say she advertise herself everybody knows the husson died at the wedding so she's in the shidduch market and the guy thought in his mind he said ah she everybody knows that she she was never with anybody so she's absula and then he finds out she's not absulo it's not a mega toast you can't undo the wedding you can't undo it you can't say oh i don't know you aksuba at all no you owe a hundred why because they have a hazako of bulla even though whatever happened happened not like the first mission we learned today but they became a guillorious let's say after the age of three where the sulu don't come back so mela even though she's very young and i'm still not going to come back again so the the tsuba of these women are a mono because they have never sponsored by moshi horn in honor of robert mdeske the only rebbe that was actually good at basketball i can't wait for this thing to be over sponsored by nissan alarming from miranda kash for introducing me to mdy omar abu damarav rav says what is the difference between a woman who had her psyllum lost from some other object or a woman that added absolute loss from a cotton isn't it the same exact thing what's the difference and we'll see there is a difference according to another mandala rashi brings that we learned in the invalmas that a kind goddale is in fact us in a mukesh eight kangaroos he's also awesome we had also over there in the mukha saints so mimaila this this cotton this uh kongado cannot marry this this woman according to to rav chemistry now the emergency says pay attention that shimon wasn't there by rav they happened to tell shmuel that raf said this not true i hope that since it's a human being a human being can't create a mukeshe he's not in the parachute of bia nothing happened there zero according to small accounting could marry this woman some say it happened like this they were actually fighting there was a live argument rap said shizu says who says no mossaver vishais or shaya has a question around rav you say that a cotton that's less than nine years old has the same aloha as a piece of wood goddess here you see it says you have a cotton that's our case cotton meaning your kid that's less than nine years old scientific mayor and then i pointed it out when we learned it in other words argue on one thing they say that a much hates the tsuba zamana but what about a katana they are going to agree to a mayor that it's nothing it's zero how could you rav say that a cotton ball is like a mukha seize and say it's what is a hundred it doesn't force in the mishnah that everybody agrees to remain there's no argument over there the mayor says a cotton dixuba a cotton with a dialogue the dollar gets 200. it's as if nothing happened zero happened nana because it's not even the wood it's zero you get two hundred haha argue on something else in the mukha saints part but not in the the cottage like it's garnished because 200. it's a muscle to a person that pokes his eye and tears come out nothing happens his eyes is going to recover there's going to be more tears same thing with the sulu if she's less than three it's garnishment she'll come right back no so we have to say we're going to explain the mishna that a cotton that's with the daily she has a lot of sayings and what's a muka say is not its own entity they muku says it's an explanation of the case of a cotton ball remember it gets 200 it's nothing to get 100. and rav is going to say like like rabbit on rabbit fits right into the mishnah remember okay now comes listen to this one because the gemara until basically the end over here is going to argue on ramen we have like us when the husband knew that she's a mukha said a guy marries a woman before he married her she said listen i'm a mukasai just like a woman says listen i was divorced when a woman says i was divorced what happens to aksuba goes down from 200 to 100. so if a woman says i'm a mukha said i don't have sulim so she gets a hundred according to hachem according to hermes she gets two hundred but the majority is when when he knew there may have been ability interesting we learned it perhaps we forgot about it what what happened to yesterday's okay that what a bagueres a girl that's above 12 and a half years old naturally she's going to lose a persum so this comes out interesting thing i have to look into i didn't really look into it but maybe i'm making a big mistake here but all these stories that we had last night rabbi alti villain sassy rabbi baltimore comes out this lahira under the age of 12 and a half because it's 12 and a half she could say she's a bagaris you lose absolute automatic why is he running the best then okay maybe not remember down below guys say that if he knew to begin with that she's a mukha said so it's like a boolean and maybe she only gets a hundred abalone but if says roman bahamut is absolute and now i find out that you don't have sulim you're right you're never with a man it happened from something else but it's a mega toast i don't want to marry somebody like that you don't get exuber at all why i'm asking why assume anything i'm asking do we ass if a bagueres naturally loses sulim so why is this guy assuming anything it's nothing just say there's no pursuing i i'm probably making a mistake but i'm just throwing it out there we have to look into it okay so now that was going to take both sides why does your mayor say that's so positive that it's as if she's an adult and she lost absolutely naturally maybe he should he should say that's similar to bulla why are you comparing it to taboola why is the mukha said just happened system nothing happened say that it happened naturally but yes let's have him i said over here some act happened okay you're right naturally if it happens naturally it's not a big deal and you get a regular super but over here it's similar it reminds the husband let's say according to the rashmo it makes a little i can understand it even more it has to do better okay so something happened there that the roon absorbing doesn't like it asks if the husband didn't know about it you tell me to make a toast and you don't get any suba he remembers mukasey oh so listen to the story she says and the husband didn't know about it now he doesn't have the right he doesn't know what happened but he's saying listen i i'm assuming you're zainab you're that's how you lost it what does the menace mean she's believed that she's a mukha said and he didn't know about it isn't that our case we just said if he didn't know about it she gets zero and over here says he didn't know about it and then menace and she's believed in other words she gets something at least a hundred something hello amarava oh i'm going to argue in rome romero says the whole match like this is what when the husband knew about it but if the husband didn't know that she's a mukesh aides she gets nothing no you see even when the husband didn't know about it it's not a mega toss according to the mayor 200. now i just want to before it's a long piece over here at the end of the day you see the rubber holds that the mukha said gets a hundred let's see it's here voldemort shamrock so uh this i just put in a game so ish now so this has to do with before because you're talking about a guiras and the this i forgot to tell you that in order to get the 50 you have to be absolute fight you're not going to be able to breathe maybe you could but here's the parachute or snail a person gets married and he hates his wife he he puts a bad rumor about her man but i skipped around there the bottom line is they found that he's lying the unchoice in america he has to pay a kanas 100 to give it to the father why because he made up shamrock absolutely [Music] again he has to marry he has to stay married he can never divorce him and then it says impossible remember and if it's true that she didn't absurd him in other words she was misana says the next passage quesadillas shamrock bulla best they involve my planey you he points to the father and says superman if she's in his hannah she gets exuberant whoa you have to kill her so we have to fix the bryce a little bit in other words if she's masano before they ever got engaged then she gets a supermodel you're here she's masano when when she knows before they get engaged and the guy marries her not knowing this and he has to give her aksuba a hundred so you say mary says rav sheishas khan sullivan is a person assumed that his wife is absula and it turns out that she was misana before yesterday you see how long this is we're trying to get to one point the rover took it back to what i know he says tomorrow we're going to learn the mission on the base a person marries a woman and she doesn't absurdly and she says you know when this happened after we got engaged somebody's modest me so it was your bad luck your mecca me something bad happened to me what's your problem your your car the the the dungeon went bad it's your problem not not anybody else's voymer loy hello actually wrestling volume i'm telling you i'm gonna argue i'm gonna say it happened before and you didn't tell me about it so it's a metropolis bless the cloud oh so if you don't know about it you get zero cloud nothing so what are you telling me you're telling me that that if it's a mega toss he didn't know that she was masana she gets a hundred or it says before tomorrow that youth baseball grace says you don't get anything coming up is his line that you see that if a person thought that his wife is absolutely she turns out to be a bullet she gets a hundred vishani might make taos and they explain well but we have a contradiction in the mishnah islam no it's not a casual missionary at the end of the day it means you don't get 200 you get a hundred that's the mechanical talks but you get a hundred even though it doesn't mean no the timer is the less of cloud and you're telling me you don't get anything bomber robo comes with over here here's the riot finally one more of a man the commodities of shabbat commission the one who asked the question from the mission that's a great question why because mega toss the government management when you say the word megatoss it means you don't get anything that's what it means what i'm going to do with this mighty shamrock thing this is this right here once i'm answering let me answer it differently i'll explain it differently if the zayden that she's masano she gets kilo if she's mizanas into micara before they get engaged volatile zero now you see the little dialed over here and then we're done nintes mukha said the dalit means that that is the halacha that's the basketini if a woman was found in mukka in other words the husband didn't know that she doesn't have sulim but the reason she doesn't have sulu is not so bad stop she got a bang from her wood yes look super mana you get it super mana oh so this is rather talking and this is how he passed can you get a super mana if he didn't know that she's a mukher says is the one that said that according to our body you don't get anything you see that robert took it back that you do get a hundred if doesn't find out afterwards let's use the mukka said have a wonderful day you