Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 107 by R’ Eli Stefansky

listen to this unbelievable mice I love this myself by the name of Aaron meislick asked on one of the chat groups for a vart that ties in the therah he anticipated purchasing the cost and tires he asked for shops in Cohen game of art I'm gonna read the vote Chelsea Cohen goes until we started the show the show bought him his entire because they realized how dedicated it is to the daf so he had a fart ready so here's the vote we learned in souvis after Rabbi was nifter immediately they went back to learn and they weren't doing any Hospital we're not more than emotional that says which is the less entire reads besides being a hug from shamaim when the death coincides of the Yeomans Rebellion regularly says it's also an appropriate lesson for the last day of the holiday period so as might have temporarily dropped out of our fixed learning schedule says the gemara right after the 30-day period is over don't waste another day get back right get right back onto the bandwagon and learn the dove you see an additional lessons of Australia as soon as the Husson Tire finishes the Torah someone may think it's time for a break right away the Hassan breaker gets up and makes a fresh start foreign with hashem's help and miracles we are blessed with the baby girl Tuesday night and my father-in-law's yard site there are no coincidences what better time to catch up on the dive than hanging in the NICU with love from Surfside Florida the bensons unbelievable it used to be somebody has a kid and they lick you you hang out in the NICU you look at the ceiling you talk to the doctors over here we're learning tired of what better way to help the baby than to learn until you're unbelievable I'm a Torah anytime listener I don't do it yo me but I binge listen occasionally I'm one and a half speed in the background when I'm busy with something else that doesn't require a lot of thought like driving I saw this post some time ago in the foot you might appreciate ah what he's doing doesn't require a lot of thought like driving yeah good I like that yeah so he brings here from a professor one of my college professors used to say anything worth doing is worth doing poorly I I didn't understand that for years because I didn't do anything poorly I couldn't do anything poorly I had to do everything perfectly but brushing your teeth for 30 seconds is better than not brushing them at all when the two minute seems exhausting doing 10 minutes of yoga is better than 10 minutes of sitting when 30 minutes of cardio stands impossible change my clothes is good when the shower is impossible standing on the porch for a few minutes is worth it after being in the house for three straight days because I don't have the energy to go anywhere anything worth doing is worth doing poorly because doing it poorly is better than not doing it at all occasionally binging the dove is better than zero learning Vlad very good Hashem that will get him into it doing it doing important doing it poorly you're doing a lot of people in here do it poorly and business Chef we're going to do it better this year has she apps b h mdy member wearing swag and learning on the LI RR the Long Island Railroad just signed up for the Manchester team looking forward to meeting you in the clever with regards to Stein micro robosai very very interesting news I heard this morning that the group the first group of Schneider Mickey roads already full that means over 515 people signed up what's also very very interesting now one of the big of mdy somebody who supported me why I don't know if he wants his name yet he said that anybody that signs up the schneid mikra and commit to shine America is going to get some sort of gift he has to speak to our school what safer of some sort something interesting to any single person nothing to do with the death he's a big deaf guy but he wants people to do sniper also now if anybody has a good directorial and wants me to say it tend to have zero right now and I don't anticipate even looking into the hummus yet until five o'clock I need to give two Sheeran today yeah I need advert tire please on gracious weekly no let's start one week at a time by the way the Shira Mata is Hashem it has to be a slightly earlier because I need to catch a flight 8 30. and don't bring a writer just because I was able to do it this week I don't even know if I'm able to 8 30 sharp taxi waiting outside okay what do you got I have to read the entire thing for what oh Sunday not not this Sunday next Sunday I don't like the price we have to do something about the price yeah we are changing it the CM for RBS is in Cafe Ramon in the big fashion mall we got the whole back room over there it's a hundred shekel a person even though it cost us 130 or 140. so it's going to be subsidized from mdy those who can't afford the hundred please speak to no um who's not going to be here for the next week so if you can't reach him he's in Kenya yeah but I don't know if I want to talk about that in front of Dove Harris okay I hope he's not listening to that part I did it on purpose I split the part listen to this with the garage time I finish it every week with Rashi guys guys this is not we're not doing the dolphin I'm doing emails it has to be complete quiet I finish it every week with Rashi well what what what's going on what's the what's the chatter here what the hawk okay listen I can't I can't think I need to castrate on the email with regards to trying to make sure I finish it every week with Rashi the way I do it my might help others this is why we have the group ideas like this could go a very long way I split the parachute without Tire gum into six so every day I read from reaching to review then revealed to shishi then shishi to the end of the third on the to the end on the third day the kids are in three days he finishes the whole Parish of home and she knows what the pirate's talking about start again so the mikra has been completed by the end of the week the tire gum I do on Shabbos gets you has his own way no I I for me it works a lot better for me personally it's not like the Mr Brewer I do the whole patch in one shot in one day and then I do the that Aaliyah with the tire going I can do two aliens and tiger if someone finds it hard to complete all of rash you to contempt to do until Shaney and then next year Shane and shlishi oh with regards to rash I use the rashikipedia and divide the pages he counts the pages every PowerShot and he divides those pages into amount of days to do the amount of pages per day very interesting now if somebody has a hard time doing Rashi he says you can go until Shany and next you do shlishi thanks for the amazing cheer zebritville Manchester hold off okay looking forward to meeting here we have in New York City there's a there's a seal on Wednesday October 26th I go to Cicero based in Yemen Avenue L the cost is 36 dollars similar to here in our control sponsorship welcome that's why I see him okay let's jump into the sponsors the coilovers Joseph the message the second sponsored himself as Jeff Rosner I just heard bad news that his son's back in the hospital difficulty breathing it's close to my son is official Minister motivators last day is foreign all right I did have a list I wanted to say some names of the people that donated over a hundred dollars monthly like Mark Ashkenazi and Leonard what's his name Abe Reynard whatever okay so we had in the first mishnah of schneideronixxerus we're talking about the two day on him out of hundreds he said there's hundreds that they are in your life two of them were able to make theirs first of all before we start showing all the guests what's your name what's your last name [Music] maximum those people related to you Ryan father someone like him and oh nice to meet me from here Queens in Tel Aviv beautiful who else do we have here new new guess new Alonso Rabbi Bornstein you stroll it is what's your name Spiro your spear as a son wow bork Spiro Is My My First boss I guess I learned how to he's an electrician I learned electric bike for two years back in the 90s wow okay you're in London what a nephew very nice okay schmuck some regards you're not are you the guy that that uh that I called your mother to say you gave a good shot that's your brother you remember that story no but it's not you know it's not you No I gave a share what happened was I was giving sheer in that Das and one of the spirit boys I don't know who maybe you say it's a brother came over and and asked me a cash on this so your middle share he just was standing walking around and asked me so so I called up your mother and I I gave her a Nachos report but she didn't pick up the phone and she it was on um what is it called one of those answering machine in those days so she somebody told me like a few weeks later that she was going around and showing people the recording she was telling look he said that my son said a great shot and then I used it a few times and share like you just give one compliment and you just make a phone call it's 10 seconds that's all it was and how much I know she had okay fine that was years ago I don't do that anymore we don't have time for that subscribe Jonathan always can count on you so stay there we have two Diana who make xeros and we're going through them admin and khanan and the different things things that are not related so much sometimes too subas so we had all in the first mishnah the Quran says if somebody went on a trip went out of the country went on a safari somewhere and his wife demands Missouri says that for xuba she has to swear but for Messina she doesn't have to swear that's where we're holding that of course Zionist today last last words on government base so we have a machoikis here we're going to be dealing with this entire day today until we get to the missionaries basically get to the mission and we're basically going to be dealing with shmuel shita we're gonna attack schwul over and over and over not so much that we're not gonna be that successful but at the end of the day we're gonna pass in like Ralph what's my focus scheme ish a woman who's married she comes she says her husband left her without anything Raph says we give her we so give her support we give her substance give her something to live on no we don't trust her we don't know let's see what this virus are but basically this sheet though and we have to remember the shita because that's the one we're going to be attacking over and over we're going to bring rice that you do give me Zionist to somebody who's married who says claims her husband went away never came back we do take some of the assets of the husband and sell them off in order to give him resigners famous this is a normal human being doesn't leave his wife without anything he thinks he's going on a trip for three months he's gonna leave her enough Mercedes for three months this woman comes a week later after he leaves and says oh my husband left me and he didn't give me any money I need to sell his property we don't trust her a normal person doesn't act like that foreign if we hear that the guy died then everybody agrees that it's time to sell asses and give him his eyes because he didn't anticipate why so we're gonna see soon we have two spars over here no straight away because now there's no there's no hashash that maybe he gave her money why because she gets a tsuba she gets aksuba and she has to swear that she doesn't have anything so if he did indeed give her money when he left she she has to she has to give it up she has to talk about it she's gonna have to swear we're also going to see a sparrow of a team I see you die from his other side it's too smart that maybe the guy gave her a bag of money before he left and she's hiding it and also maybe he made a deal with her he said listen up until now I was getting your salary and I was supporting you now take your own salary support yourself but over here we're talking about that he's dead already he's dead so there's no mice here dying there's no deal like that so therefore she gets right away we we have Ethan that came and said he's dead okay what about the assignment what about this time maybe the assignment could say teammates they say listen we don't want to support you support yourself could you saw me do that the answer is then no one could do that even a husband can't tell a wife go support yourself well let's make a deal I keep my money for myself I don't support you you have a good job your lawyer support yourself a husband can't do that unless she agrees so if these some don't agree then I mean she doesn't agree to the assignment then there's no there's no there's no question at all you can't can't think maybe they said something like that too bad if they said it they don't agree to her she doesn't agree to them says lingamora Michelle whether or not a woman could demand designers it's after three months and we don't know if he's alive or dead he just didn't show up on my police rap says we start selling off assets and we give him a zonus why because this is she but he owes it there my time we have to be concerned that this guy gave her a bundle of cash and she's hiding it and she wants more When papa America we're concerned that he made a deal with her and she accepted the deal says Rashi because she has to accept the deal you earn your own money and I'm not going to give you any messiness now that he's gone she has to come to bed and say we didn't make a deal and he owes me Messiahs where do we see a practical difference between the two as far as if she's an adult and she doesn't earn enough money for her homozyness so if she doesn't earn enough she doesn't earn enough she she needs resignus but if the child is so if she's an adult we have to be concerned that maybe he gave her a bundle of cash he's not gonna lose it inami or Northern Africa the opposite so as if she's a Tana there's no way in the world her husband gave her a bag of cash you know what happens to a bag of cash if you give it to a child so nobody in the right mind is going to give a lot of cash to the little kid but it's possible that she's a lawyer she's a 10 year old doctor I don't know what in those days didn't have these rules she sharing the good living someone may love maybe made a deal with her she might see that I'm saying Messiah so there's a concern that he doesn't know where resign is he made a deal with her what yeah yeah but you also have to you have to this is a guy goes on a trip God goes on a trip what happened there you as a diet yeah but this normal human this normal human behavior that something's changed I think the guy's assets and start to sell them in order to produce the money to feed this girl that's also my teacher [Music] look in the bottom over there take a minute it's not okay so now what does that have to do with us as usual we're gonna prove it from our mission first thing is somebody went out of the country and his wife demand from his ears right away says that she makes a schwa for soif always means the Messiah and they're argue with him she has to make a foreign foreign [Music] because they heard that he died got to say the story even though I just said it a few weeks ago there was a woman in the nursing home they called up her son they said listen your mother died so they went they made a little value the whole thing Shiva and then all of a sudden after the Shiva the son gets a phone call it's his mother on the phone where are you I'm waiting for you it's already what's going on you used to come every every week if you says what my you're alive yeah so it turns out that they buried the wrong woman [Laughter] very good you miss you love it you set it up if you didn't hear they they buried the right person they told the wrong person something like that so they he said it better he said it better how did you say it you better the right woman they told the wrong person so he calls up the other family and he says listen there was a mistake we buried your mother and we thought it was our mother so the woman on the other line says wow Ma you beat us you won they had a whole machlaikus if she should be cremated or buried she wanted to be buried like a Jew and the daughter said no cremating him she said I have nothing to do with you Jewish burial because of that mistake sesame means and his wife demands each other okay part of the same thing like we had in our mission everybody agrees that this is over here question is good morning yo so if you're gonna love this mic drop you don't even know how long it is okay somebody buy some food for yourself do some sponges for him I gotta give another share soon I don't know when like 10 o'clock you ready 10 o'clock okay okay fine I was supposed to give a share last night at nine o'clock then I pushed it off to ten then to 11. once it was already pushed off to 12 I said forget it's like what I'm gonna come over at one o'clock and Gary we'll do tomorrow it's always good to push things off like that okay remember that for the flight yeah yeah no as long as we don't push it off and there's a fire we're good okay says thing about um so no but why doesn't ask from a Bryce it's the same exact word for word that we just said from the mishna the answer is this line right over here if the guy gets up the husband comes back well my prospector let him join us what are you talking about I gave her I gave her enough lemon you see over you see against Noah like ravensteiner that she's the mighty why is he never okay so we're going to answer the same thing as we answered on the same words that we said before and the same answer talking about that there's a rumor that he died there's anything that said he died and if he died even admits she gets me sinus but the problem is typically speaking dead people have a hard time walking it says that the dead person walked in he walked in and he said I'm here and I paid Messina so what do you mean he's dead you heard that he's dead He's Alive okay so we have to say that's why Demar brought the question from here because they have this added problem there was a rumor that even came what we heard he's dead and now he shows up foreign this guy died he's The Miser of the town the Compton never gave a dime to anybody anything I want to tell you a story about this person a few stories his first story he said was that a guy left town and before he left he told his wife don't worry about it you're taken care of I spoke to The Miser he didn't call him the money the Compton I spoke to reply over there he's going to give you three Ruble every week you have nothing to worry about like never that's what he just thought he off the election so he could get out of town quickly without her so she went to the guy knocks in the door says my husband said you made the arrangement he said yeah yeah what was the arrangement three rules okay no bro he's a three Ruble every week he gave it three Rubble doesn't comes back from his long trip months later he walks into the house he can't believe it everything's just wow they're eating meat spaghetti the whole thing what's going on he says vacuum tuna dog the guy what do you mean the guy that you said the three Rubble gave me three rule the husband is in shock so he goes he knocks on the guy's door he says what's going on he says I have what's going on she's okay I want to pay you back she said no I'm not taking what I did because I said I'm not taking money from you a big fight and they went through a bit late I really passing that he doesn't have to take the money from him it's his Mitzvah you can't take this he says you think that he's this guy and I was scared to say the story because a lot of people say yeah that's why I don't give any money to me why and I don't give to the show because I'm that guy no no you're not that guy it's that guy that guy was Nifty ready whatever fine it was yesterday wow I did not know I did not know and the staff saver because I'm safer next time tell us on the yard side no bamus I didn't know yesterday was the same sorry for the outside and the delicious lady all right something tomorrow so her husband goes to Medina she comes and she demands Messina's the three Ruble above all my teammates he died if the guy says the this deal you don't you don't give me I don't give you Russia but if bezen went ahead beforehand and they gave her mashupasco Pasco he cannot go back and undo a business it's too weak of a taina that he has because you see over here that you could go best and go and they take him designers they give him a zionus right again what's the whole question of the whole death if a woman's husband is not here and she demands food is there a cheer over there if it is where you guys from come come sorry if you're already coming all the way here might as well give a handshake what's your name get them in yeah have a seat from both of you from Los Angeles I'm from New Jersey New Jersey you're from you're from the uh what's it called the um the missioner thing Thursday night you ever heard of that then you don't know one guy from Los Angeles no I know Harry Shalom what I'm talking about I know a bunch of guys okay yeah thank you you guys in Yeshiva Torah levator okay very nice we're gonna have the same answer we're talking about that there was a rumor that he died and this rumor that doesn't died even schmuel admits that this Messiah is tashma limited somebody goes bezen can go into his property sell off the essence I everything over here I mean something's like really left field and then once again when we use the the word what does it mean okay a father is unlike uh you know standard law today Father's number to support his own children if they're above six years old let them fend for themselves so you see over here that you go ahead and you give her messiners not like shmuel olmstation the guy had a solution he had somebody over there and he disappeared on them whatever he did over there but you see that first of all he didn't give her money he didn't give her a sarara he didn't give her a bag of cash before he left because he put somebody in charge and there's no team I see that comes inside there's no there's no way that he said fend for yourself use your own salary I'm not giving you his honest because he gave her an apropus there was a third person involved third party if he's such a nice guy and he's putting people in charge so he's a caring person so don't you think he cared about his own sons and daughters he said specifically I don't want to support my sons talking about a miser I don't have enough money for my kids only for my wife my Pasco my tasted to learn it like that they love my papa can show my voice the whole rumor was only a one Aid and that we had extensive sugiers that with one Aid a woman is allowed to get married right if a woman hears that her husband die with one Aid she's letting it married daikum means about the whole sugier we punish her with like 16 different punishments if she's wrong she's going to be very very careful in order that she shouldn't be in aguna we allow one ape now if she could get married does she get a tsuba yeah we allow her to get married that means we're also allowed to get a soup if she wants to get married with one age you can get married law so therefore we could give him aside it's based on the fact that we trust her that her husband died you can't go into somebody's property start taking yerusha based on one Aid because and therefore we don't give them designers now just to figure out finish off that so yeah my daughter what does it mean when you say is they used to wear here I have even picture they used to wear like a necklace with uh they used to meet perfume like sort of a you know in France today you don't want to take a shower for six months you just spray a lot of deodorant and go right there that's what they did so we don't support her for for action why not so if you look I don't know if everybody has it I have a liquidity Rashi here on the side sure a lot of Gamers have the new ones and it says oh almost towards the end like six lines from the end it's a Rashi in a different place he says where's this brings it here fine I'll read it for you the Nicholas discussion dakishu Allah this Avila the whole perfume is that he should have a type of her he's not there so he doesn't care why should she smell good so Mayla he doesn't give it to her it's not it's not it's not part of the deal that we don't if somebody is we don't take from his assets that we don't sell off his assets so that he could have he could give him maybe give his Duncan maybe he's getting duck where he's at over there he's in another country he's giving stuck over there we don't have to worry about his daughter certainly we're not going to support people he doesn't even know he's not even supporting his own wife so certainly he's not going to support other people take care of it sponsored as a Scrolls to continue being able to support Toyo and to finish shots with the rebellious not saying it twice we'll say it one day later and the motherland says that you don't take money out of his assets to get stuck okay that makes sense don't give take money but for the wife you do have to provide whatever it is she needs attach it she needs the perfume she give it to her that is Safari because at the end of the day even though he's not there unlike what Rashi was saying wants that but all that's that is at the end of the day it's his wife he doesn't want her to be maneuver to walk around disgustingly tashma huh this guy is already dead make it taste sources yeah we don't know for sure um yeah but not without 100 okay no no you play some regular stuff he's not not as something special right so is it included in his regular designers and stuff yeah he has does he have to give her clothing yeah that's a zombie fantasy Zone and my virus is two things it's sinus and clothing is this included in the uh yeah are you here somebody's husband dies now she falls the e-bomb she either has to marry your brother-in-law or her brother-in-law has to give her Khalifa now we know that the first three months after a person loses a husband or gets divorced she can't get married why because maybe she's pregnant and we have to differentiate between the first husband and second husband we have to know who the kid is whose kid it is so male the first three months she can't get married to anybody so she's still under the first husband she still gets missions now since she's a connection to the you of them but the other didn't marry her so she's at the end of the day she's not in her husband's ruchus she's more in the office of shows but the oven didn't decide yet so she doesn't get me settings at all all right say decides that he's going to marry her but then he runs away got cold feet runs Nissan then that's it we've been realizing listen what are you running away you said you're going to marry us to marry either give her a Khali you don't want to give her Khalid so you can't just run away you can she can't remain in Laguna forever so you have to give messiness so at the end of the day you see just like over here nissonis she gets me zionus the so if she gets me Zionist from yum certainly she should get messiah's from her husband that's that ran away okay but over here by the oven we don't have the same as far as that we had on the modeling by a husband that runs away he's in a Jose we're concerned maybe he gave her a lot of cash before he left no we're not concerned that you often gave a lot of cash if there's no concern they gave a lot of cash pay off give him designers why didn't he give her cash let me grab it I think of it look at both he doesn't know her he's not he's not closer why would he give her a lot of cash even I see Adele and what about the fact that maybe he doesn't have to give him science because maybe he did a deal with her you work support yourself let me stop and look she's to give her even if she gets Messina's from him he doesn't she doesn't have to give him her might see a diet she went on a trip with her husband and she comes back and she says my husband died someone connected to the parisha this is not my advantage me is good the ramban says something very interesting they're already connected great marriage their mom is connected he says no not a good recipe for for good marriage to be connected all the time like in Corona the people were in the same house they got a lot of people got divorced for carrot you have to be separated and come back once in a while they want to stick a vacation they were too close together they got divorced died whatever you say um inspiration let's get schmucked say this already see what happens I'm not going to be here on Sunday so I don't care by the time I get back from this about you I'll be healed what foreign died so if she wants either she could get support but once she gets her super she can also get it too when she gets her super she doesn't get anything oh my husband divorced me too much vacations so she doesn't get a tsuba she's misspearness until she reaches the 200 zoos let's say supers 200 does so she gets a she eats food until she gets to 200. and Russia says something very interesting why can't you just give her the Super One Shot why do we give her a little piecemeal because she knows that well he says it more on on the mace but at that day she's playing a game here she knows that he might be alive so she thinks that if she gets like super one shot and he comes back she's gonna lose she's not gonna get anything all she's gonna get is her super maybe but that's it if the divorced but what she wants to do is and then when he shows up then she's going to get the Suba because once she gets the subas it's all over interesting shot because she's saying that he's dead she's saying he's a divorce she's anticipated coming back okay we have to understand same answers we had over and over and over they heard that he's dead and therefore even small admits that she gets me sinus um maybe I jumped Rashi too early imagine at the end of the day he's dead and if he's dead she should get messiness forever there's no limit to how much he gets to eat why only the amount of the 200. this is the most obvious answer the she claims that she's divorced so based on her claim she's admitting that she doesn't deserve more than 200. you can't force it to get more than 200 she says I don't want more than 200 because I'm divorced so that's all she gets is 200. says we have to go we have to go all the way to Mission but I'm sorry sorry I can't do a long shirts in what case do we say Midas in limousine is we have a little girl whose mother married her off because her father died she doesn't have messiness but of course she has if she's married so what is the case where she doesn't have a Zionist yeah she's married of course she gets me silence her husband went away she borrowed money and she ate she's married but then choose my mind what happens when she's my man retroactively she wasn't married so all the money she borrowed and she was hoping that her husband's gonna pay back it's not even her husband so he doesn't have to pay back it's only because she retroactively annoyed the whole marriage it seems like you do give her the whole time it's only cash in schmuck sure says you don't give a married woman what is the problem here if you concern that he gave her a package of money Charlie mattress he would never give her she's too young and then if you think that they made a deal but there are Cloud a little girl is not going to make more money than Hermos on his cost might have a lot the end of the day because anybody remember where Robbie lived whether we just had a whole song whenever he's lifted where do you live foreign there's a story with the hsis claims my husband ran away he's not here I need designers well possibly Zionist he said like RAV she deserves messiness remember zones everybody admits that this is explain the mishnah that's talking about where there was a rumor that that the husband died and if this woman hasn't died then he started eating well um what you really that's how you can explain the mishnah now we got a freebie here word for word what we just said but instead of saying that Reby's the one that says she gets Messina's it's just the sheets are the opposite he has a robin Omar Robin said it the opposite might as well have any review the same thing as before he passing like wrath everybody holds that she does get masonas talking about he died what you're gonna yeah that's how you you learn the mishnah says the gamara bottom line says I need to be supported we give her who poison is we're trying to help her and we only give him her salary just that there shouldn't be Ava in a fight so therefore she says I don't want to be supported I'm a lawyer I want to take my own money we listen to her and one more Allah in vessels check this out I have here the three vessels earthenware that is glazed with lead very very healthy stuff if it's black the whole what's the concern earthenware if something goes into the Earth whether it's the inese Comets whatever it is it never comes out but if it's glazed it can protect the vessel if it's green glaze it doesn't protect the vessel that's what the gamara says here but I have a beautiful word here from statement takes this gemara before you jump up white and black sure you could capture it or did the kosher you're okay if it's green it's only because they don't have any cracks hold on a second that us human beings we're like we say on on Rosh Hashanah so if we have a protection we have a layer of glaze that is black and white gamara black and white is black and white then it gives us a protection but if we're into Dollars the green and that and if we have cracks in other words we have cracks in our moon or whatever then it doesn't work have a wonderful Shabbos share muscle Shamus at 8 30 Sharp