Daf Yomi Horayos Daf 13 by R' Eli Stefansky

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One, you pour the oil on the head. You do the whole the and the other one there's no oil. So you just put on the There's no difference. The only difference is the par the par the bowl. There's no parsiah. There's no par. No, no part says like our Mishna cannot be going like at least that part. The second part of the Mishna it doesn't go like why godim here a god who became a god through the god not through the oil maybe par is finished and the story that's that's a contradiction to what we just said he does bring a power what are you telling me there's no difference between the two only the power which the doesn't bring over here says before she does bring by time mayor And what's his reasoning? Who has has oil? How do I know that also that you put on the also is part of the fine? So here in our Mishna are going to say that say don't bring these kindles from the second don't bring any power no mia says yes so our go told me that ourishna goes like do we do a sponsor here or what happened I don't remember what we did >> we never did a sponsor No, no, no. Last night. >> Oh, I did not do right. Turning the D right in the beginning of the year by Adar Global Specialist International Financial Services Anonymous Anonymous Gratitude to Rebellion MD and MDY for promoting Israel and Israel. If you didn't see last night's shar, check it out. It's probably the thumbnail. Even the Hebrew Shar was even better. I called up without telling them I called up a Shiai with the whole thing and he had his white yamaka and then I called up another I said I want to I want to tell you a story and I brought up these two my guests that slept by me and the suda and everything with fishial they had they had their AR-15s or whatever they call them here in >> and uh huh >> M4 >> M4s two of them and they were very and then the shaman comes over to me after she goes you're not going to believe this this is the first time ever that my wife watched the whole she from beginning to end. And the the Mishna coming up says in the Mishna, it says, "If you could save two people, a man and a woman, don't save the woman. Save the man." Not not the No, he says it was a good chair. It was a good chair. She liked it. She enjoyed it. Look. So, >> oh, it's in there. No, not that one. No, no, no, no. That's That's later. But that's also good to have here. That perfect. There's one in the beginning of the of the um the other with the oil. You'll see like a cup of oil that Okay. But the problem is you're telling me that this part of the Mishna goes like that what that a who became a without oil doesn't bring any power. There's no power. No power. So what I do with the next part of the now we're going into something else. We're not talking about the with oil without oil. Now we're talking about stepped in. This guy let's say stepped in to perform for whatever it is a few days until the could come back. So there's no difference between the two of them. The only difference is the carbon of the but that could only go like your mayor. So here I put it in here mayor hold that is exactly like a besides the and the and the whatever I was able to fit on that last line I call it themed calls it the which is themed and the paripur which I didn't have room for but you'll you can figure it out. >> So what's the obvious problem here? The beginning of the mission goes like the end of the mission goes like big problem let's say he had some sort of let's say okay perform the other one has to step in and they appointed another one instead of him the first one comes back to work and the second one is like a a president vice president let's say a president has to whatever they I whenever I just unless he has a surgery. Exactly. Surgery. He's out of commission. He's in the hospital. He's incapacitated is the word. Whatever the word he's got, he doesn't have enough cycle to run the country. So somebody has to step in. You can't have a country without a president. So vice president comes in. So now he's not just a vice president. Now he was actually a president for one or two days for a week. Now what? He doesn't really go down to go vice president. Maybe in America. Yeah. But over here he already has. He already did that. He has everything fits into to the second part of our explains that what that the one that took over a few days is not a she's not that's not our there's a couldn't perform. They didn't allow him to be not. If they take it out, put it in, doesn't matter. We just read it. Why can they be? Because it causes friction. I'm the I'm the top one, not you. Whatever. So there's a little bit of g your choice over here. >> The bottom line is it doesn't matter. They took out words. They put in words. >> It's in parenthesis. >> Yeah, I know. You put it in brackets. You take out parenthesis. >> I read everything just in case. I don't want anybody come to me. But I know. So you cannot be a K because you can't have two top CEOs. Can't have two presidents at the same time. And you can't make him a regular k because you can't put him down to a low level. So you hang somewhere in between asking the question the obvious question raise your va I don't understand how's that possible that you have one part of the Mishna goes like raan that what that the two different right we're talking about the difference between ag with oil and ag without oil here these two khanim this is a bugam he he puts on the bugam bam he's a he's a kud before that the generation before not This one this no this this is the the only difference between the two of them is the power. Okay. So there's a difference and that goes according to Raon say it doesn't bring up power but according to you do bring a power the two of those don't bring up power. So that power cannot be the problem is the second part of the Mishna is only because it says that nothing to do with the two. Now we're talking about the president, the vice president, the kind that took over for a few minutes, for a few days. He's exactly like a kang besides one thing that cannot go like that goes sorry that goes like not like so we have a contradiction here a little bit in the actual Mishna. Yes, sometimes we have that. Okay, I have no I can't get out of it. There's nothing I can do. One is one the one part of the mishab one is it doesn't work so nicely but that's how it is no rebi the author of the rebi it doesn't say any names he decided on his own I want to pass like when it comes to the and I want to pass like when it comes to the in fact [Music] it's not rebi picking picking Rabon and Rebi picking Raor. I wanted to but I was like I was all I need to do here is the editor could do it. Take this thing, copy it, paste and you put on top instead of it says rib instead of rib. In other words, it's not rebi picking two. It's someone by the name of saying these two things. It's a new his name is and he holds these two not a whole Mishna is one person. It's not and it's his name is Shim but it's two different cheetahs. Yeah, Remy, you can do it. Just copy paste and on top instead of you don't even have to erase the race from just put a shin over there and you're good. And the other one says both the tap things say he holds like your mayor in one thing like what that is like a regular but in the ratio of the he argues with him and he holds that what's the difference between a regular and a regular the which is either there's different the bully brings and the carbon that the brings every single day if he has a mace if he has anos he doesn't let his hair grow and he does not rip ka But he could do from the bottom. What does mean that we're going to have to see in a moment means the bottom of the of the garment. You do over here maybe but a regular kind does on top and the the cannot go to touch a dead person even his own parents and has to only marry Absula he's not allowed to marry a widow even if she's not even if she is Absulah A take the person who killed someone and runs away to the earl when the dies that is released when his let's say his father dies before the he could go and be a carbon but he can't eat the carbon he when he he's the first one to there's people online and he goes first and he takes the first first portion and he wears the wears wears if he's doing wears four he must perform all of and if he by mistake here we go this is here there's no there's no it's both Okay. And if he becomes it and all these apply to the other kind who was not anointed with oil but rather just by wearing here. So it says here look does not bring a power. That's here we We're in number two on the left is that all these apply to a that was once a for a day or two or for whatever it was but now he was removed. He just took over for a few days for the original. That's the second part. That's the left part that is exactly like a besides for the carbonid and the Oh, and now we're going to we're talking about there's another kind. He's not a but he has a similar name. His name is Mishu. He is anointed for the war. He's that guy that you all saw in the beginning of October 7th when they went in like when they're going into to Aza into Gaza. Aa they they all all the stood in a circle and this guy gets up and he gives them sukim and he says we're going to get them and we have to do this for the That's is and he gives a whole he's a special he knows how to he's the so what's special about this he's not just a regular he does have five things that apply to him that are from the parish of the so this is interesting he acts like a when it comes to aos he doesn't let his hair And he doesn't rice crea and he doesn't go to the of the closest relatives. Interesting, huh? He's not a he must only marry. He's not allowed to marry a widow. And if he dies, you hear this. He's not a gun. If he dies, all the guys in the go free. That's the sheet of any argue. Check this Arab over there. Says he's only He's only the He's only the guy, not the He's the guy that announces. >> Why are you coming out? Don't you see it's only that Kan Malaf? >> That's fine. I agree with Rabbi. Rabbi your huda >> and I like the how funny. >> It's not with the whole Charlie thing. >> Yeah. Okay. Okay. He did it before. >> This happened before. >> This is already from uh Thursday. I showed it. When did I show it first? When did Charlie Kirk maybe die Thursday? >> Maybe it wasn't before. Okay, nice try said. Okay. Now, we just said our mission was but who told you that this whole is was authored by who's the Tana that says that there's no tuma of of mig. If you walk in, you step on a rat, you don't have to bring a carbon if you're that's so if that's then everything the whole bride is how do we know that this the one that gives the he five things apply to him in the he mentions all three says So here we have this which is the one that gives encouragement to the soldiers. So we have in one possible we have the that that had oil the wore became because he wore the clothing and the not the so these five things apply to all three of them. You can't let your hair grow. You can't do and you shouldn't go to these or you could go maybe from a distance. He can't touch them. He can't become tummy to the to the mix. Maybe all three should also bring a carbon when they're in the but not on the So now that you're saying that all three are not the same, there's a difference between the and the maybe the is not commanded to only marry Absulah. special extra after the said there's a difference between them the added that what not only but also that the word is coming to say something else that if must be removed because he's a balary How do I know that a who has what? Why does he have less? Because if he has a he might not ever come back, he must only he has to marry. So has nothing to do with the asks interesting question. You're all gonna jump. You have a who was anointed with oil but he became a mitz. Now that he's a can he marry a widow. Do we view him as right now he just can't be a or he's completely pushed aside he's not a he's not a he can marry an ali you he didn't know the answer one time once upon a time was asking this question took a stab at it he says I have I have we learned I would only that was removed because he was about carry over. How do I know that he he remains a even though he has a who? Oh, he's still considered a so what are you asking me? Could a who has mar? No, for who? He remains a kangle with a with the he remains says jumps up, kisses him on the head. He says, "I want you to marry my daughter. Thank you for you hear the papa has." Maybe that's the why we say his 10 sons in the not maybe that's why he had those 10 sons. When a person has such a you grow up in a house, the father jumps up, starts kissing people and says, "Take my daughter, Mary." Why? Because you told me one shot in learning one shot. You think you're going to have a son that doesn't love learning? Of course, all your kids are going to be says the cannot do. He does crea from the bottom, not from the top. But a regular cayenne does create from the top before the relative he could be a carbon but he shouldn't eat from it does not doesn't bring a carbon on when he's and certainly oh see what I have here. Okay, this is a shirt. So over here you have a a hem. I don't know if you can see it so well, but right over here maybe I wanted to bring another color, but okay. You see it's like doubled over over here. Oh, you can see. Very nice. Beautiful. So lame. You understand? Lamata is down here on the bottom. That's where he does the ka and the the regular does ka up here like like those who have to do ka tap over here. No no no no no no say it means below this right over below this. So what does that mean here? Try to do this. Oh, like this. So, so this is galdic, huh? It's not a It doesn't look like tub. Looks like there's a little earway over here. That's not a nice crea. >> Yeah. >> As if we Yeah. again. So it's from last night. So this is this is uh this is this is the saf. So now we understand why is allowed to do it over here. It's allowed. That's where you should do it. Don't cut it nicely on top where the the begg splits open. You do it below the safal. >> Huh? Lala a regular coin cuts the suffer >> the neckline >> the neckline here I'll do the suff in a second okay so we'll do this one here I like this we'll keep that here's one I don't want to it's not to get cut a mill she no no no I'm going to do it in a way okay so here this is This is the line. So, I'm going to try to cut this line over here. Here we go. >> Oh. >> Perfect. Mameish. Perfect. Because now I could show the am. >> Oh, that's Korea. Now it's two parts like this. >> V-neck. >> And what is this called? And this is okay. >> But both of those are on the neck. We're both of them are in the top, not on the bottom. That's the first was on the bottom. He takes his frack or whatever he has and he cuts on the bottom. Okay. So that's like says about all the for all the dead if he wants to cut on the top all the way to the top great not but for a father mother he must separate mother do a v-neck oh it says if a person wants to he doesn't have to cut all the way to the top he could be doing this you can be ka so then that means the ka if a regular you don't have to cut all the way cut a little bit so that means it's a ka and the says you're not allowed to do it like that you're not do at all says this according to is zero zero it's not a crea. It might be a crea, but it's not crea. It's tifos. It's nothing. Oh, so holds that this not cutting the top neck, not making a V-neck out of it, not making a a complete crea, it's but the problem is quoting. What does say here? One of these again. that if it's a a crea that doesn't go all the way, doesn't make a V-neck, it's nothing. Ano, it's nothing. Do me a favor, Arammy. Once you're there, it's just making me nervous. I didn't do it well. Where it says, take the push it down to the carrot. Should be on one line. There's enough room there for both. It'll be nicer. So, The problem is the problem is that you're telling me that holds like that what that this kind of crea is not a that's why is allowed to do this but himself doesn't hold that should do this at all zero ohm check it out now it's nice carrot on the bottom not One word here, one word there. But here at all, there's no so what's what's why saying that I hold like says you shouldn't do it at all. Why? Because he says how does it work in the B mikdash when a when a woman is a I'm not going to show you the whole thing. We cut it. I I must have watched this video 30 times. I showed it 30 different places. >> Where was it? You watched it more than 30? I heard somebody saying something about 30. Where was it? Not that. Not that. Oh, here. King of a. Okay. You also watch it 30 times. Not that. Not that. Oh. All right. So, you have the the the person says I'm just for for new people, for you say don't don't seclude yourself with another man. She doesn't listen. She secludes herself with another man. Now, one of the things we're not going to show the whole thing. It's a long process. One of things is bring it to the B mikdash. That's the old BA mdash. You're going to see now that we have you saw what it looks like our new B mikdash. So we have to dress her with ugly clothing, black clothing. Then the kangal goes and rips kao. First of all, he removes any head covering she has. She wearing a off. And then he takes the her clothing and rips it until her heart is revealed. I would think it's not befitting of a kind. What's he ripping a woman's clothes? There's another kind that can take care of it. It's not referring to the himself doing on himself when his father is nif. It's referring to the not not cutting the the begot of of a his own head, his own his own. He doesn't let his hair grow and he doesn't rip his own clothing. So holds that there's zero ka when it comes to here not this one uh this one. So why are you telling me that I hold that this kind of ka that doesn't involve the actual neckline below the neck without the V is a good Korea for he is no Korea at all and there's the other so what's the obvious answer you're right there's for on that on the left side argues he says I hold that there is a crea for walk on the crea I hold like that the crea that doesn't involve the top is not considered a crea all right now we're holding by this is a famous that everybody knows anything that is more common like uh there's different And all sort of things that you said do all the time come before things you don't do >> frequent >> what like what more frequent thank you more >> freent during the week >> huh >> come late on Shabas for sure you have to say of the week before >> because of okay another you say of the weekday and not of shabas by the way there is one of that everybody should say very important the one that it goes by the olive I I forgot how it starts but it says the ones that have in them whatever one of the first ones very good super is very important okay but we're not going into that come time says the [Music] comes before the friend If you have both the bull of the bull of the community first you take care of the how do I know that that something that's more frequent comes first there's everybody's favorite you could help me out Yeah. >> What does that mean? What does it mean? We say it all the time. We have no idea what it means. It means that before we we we're going to deal now with the carbon of first you have to do the carbon tot comes first. But the ask it already says that you brought the carbon by saying the you bring in the morning which is what? So why is the to repeat itself and say the same words in a different way? The Torah is teaching us a very important thing called something that is that you do all the time is frequent comes first. Yeah, but that's that's out of I have another V. I have another V. Not a V. This is important to us. I think that if you have a a something that you do every day such as coming to the DA, so what comes first? Your a bris or the daff? The daff. The daff comes first before you you decide to go on do an appointment. do this that the todd comes first and that happened mish over here many of you witnessed this I was coming up the stairs kipper mishim kipper and we had a guy by the name of and he's coming down the stairs I'm like what are you doing where you going he says I'm going to collect money for a certain organization here in I'm like did you fall off your are you joking you're going to leave a not come to a because you're going to collect money he says yeah It's for theeim. I said, I don't think you're doing the right thing. And I kept on going. Start the shear. All of a sudden, he walks in. So, I made a whole thing out of it. I said, "What's going on?" "What?" He says, "I decided you're right. I have I have a list of where I was going to go." I gave the list to my son. He gave him my car. He said, "You go." Why is he not going to believe this? After it was all over, he told me that his son collected a total of $50. 50 shekele. 50 shekel of all the houses. This one wasn't home. This one was there. 50 shekel. >> He said, "I almost missed out on 50 shekele for this year." But because he came to this year and I made a whole thing of it. So during sheer people donated $5,000 to his organization. >> You were here. You weren't there. >> During shar one guy gave a,000 guy this and that. >> 50 shekele. 5,000. You don't know. You think you do. No, you don't go. You don't miss a year at We at night. We do at 9:00. No, a lot of people don't go to anymore. Seriously, unless it's unless it's their own. We had a guy who went he came right back after if it's a if it's a if it's a brother's If it's a brother's, you go for the you come back for him for 9:00. What kind of business is this? It's not an excuse anymore. them. You're laughing. Laugh all you want. >> Having babies. >> You have to have your priorities straight. Okay. This is a record that 3 minutes before 8:00, we're not even on the daff yet. We all know that. You hear this? Every knows this. Excuse me. He gets the first in the he gets the zeon and he gets I told my I said in our gamarra they wrote the first for zeon I said some people don't know what zeon is why I said no there's an English you got to spell it out zeon the word zeon they wrote and if you going to divide something with him you have to give him the better the better portion says says we have today the power of the the that is um yeah we have two you have the bull and the bull he comes first how do we know we have the over here I think it was over here. Yeah. So already says in what you do and then it repeats itself like like he did for the first one. The word is extra over here to teach us that it's that the bull comes first. You do the bull first before the community's bull everything you have to do for it. So when you go on a plane, one of the things they tell you always one of one of the only because how to put a seat belt on. I I know most of the people know but this one is if there's turbulence and the masks fall out of the ceiling, put the mask on yourself first and then your child because if you try to put on your child and you lose consciousness, it's not a good m. So if the child loses consciousness, you could put you already have it. You put on this is the gamar the same thing with the first make sure that you the you have a kapara what are you asking for when you yourself need a big yeshua first you get it once you have it and you have the oxygen then you could ask for he he's the guy that that's asking the makes a lot of sense that he should be first actually says in the firstap and his family. We're getting ready here for the community bowl comes before. It's interesting if you thought about it, you probably say the reverse. What comes first? Comes first and is so comes before the Why does it say in the comes first? Just to tell me that comes first already said in the before here. Here's the we have in this last word of the from here I learned to the whole comes before a woman who gives birth. What does she bring? She has money. She brings a sheep and one bird for the sheep is a sorry Yeah, the >> the she brings the of a bird and her her sheep is now typically speaking an animal should come before a bird but not in this case. Why? Because the animal is the bird is bird comes first. The bowl of larger comes first before the sawyer of the different one is one is and this is against our rule the comes first. So if you look at this over here the last word over here is missing. So over here it's different. If you look at the here's the three words. It says and it says and says in the middleish I want you to do it like this in this case comes before they both bring male goats but the one of comes before the one of the both the community comes before the individual the the goat of the king comes before the female goat of the individual king comes before individual. Now if two people by mistake and one brings a female goat and one brings a female sheep, the goat comes first. Well, the other place says that a sheep comes first. You see it's a special when an individual does brings a goat. There is a milo in a sheep. I forgot to put the picture in there sent me without the skin. You can see the tail of a sheep. It's like this thick. It's very thick. It's also tasty. And that goes on the on the it has a so the sheep is before the goat. We know on the second day of Pes you bring the carbon so we could eat the new crop. So that comes before the sheep that accompanies it. Why? Because the over here is the barley. It's not the sheep. Here's the two the two. What is going on here? See that that thing I'm talking once you show it. We have to somehow Yeah. the two breads and you saw how he did. It's very nice how he did the on a real sheep back then. It comes before the the sheep. Why the thing that comes for the day like comes before the sheep is only coming for the bread and the bread is coming for the day. So the bread comes first. So like the guy that his wife watched the va shaton guy said you know my wife she watches the okay it's not a you want to watch watch. I don't tell people what to do but this might have a bunch of women drop out of the if two people are drowning a man and a woman you save the man first. Why man has more mitzvah? So there's a famous story with you can look it up. He lived 100 something years ago. He was on a on a boat coming to or something and the boat went down. Oh, I forgot to mention. I'll mention it now so I don't forget. It happened to Noam Fix's uh daughter-in-law um's wife. She was on a boat in the kinerat and the boat went down in the middle of the kinerat and they were treading water there for a very very long time to the point where the father-in-law thought that's it. He couldn't he couldn't and he was holding Aaron's today's wife the chef and he said that's it. It's over and they were getting burned from the gas. Oh my it was a traumatic experience. So here similar story I forgot to say was here in the yesterday I wanted to say and like you okay maybe it's better like that. So he's treading water trying to get to the shore. He sees the shore and he's sleing his kids and he just couldn't. Sometimes you're bad. You just can't. And he tells his daughter he says he tells her this Mishna kind of and he says look I have to he had to make a choice. He couldn't two he can't he can't carry two kids and swim at the same time. He just he was all three of them were going to die. He had to make a very very terrible choice. And he made the choice based on this Mishna. And he let her go and she screamed out to him. She screamed out to him, T. And he, you're the only one that can save me, whatever. So he went back and he got her and he somehow that gave him like extra. And they say, >> huh? >> No, no. His name is >> He's one of the right. The mush the name for us is that when you realize that the only one that could save you is the then you get you say give to the what do you mean you're giving power to no when you realize that it's only then it's a different thing then you dive in a different way only going to help you out >> it's like the last set of people >> yes yes okay something like that when when it's the last when they there's no other bra you're the only one I'm four years I don't know how to swim. You're the only one. But >> I don't know. Here it says, but the point is clothing. Clothing comes first. For a woman, she needs clothing more than a man. And to to redeem, if there's a man and a woman to redeem, you redeem the woman because she could get abused over there. But if both of them are about to be abused, then you then you save the man. Why? Because that's it's not it's it's not natural and it's much it's much worse for the bush is much worse for the man. This is a question you have to ask yourself for a second. A lot of people know the answer. You and your rebi are captured and you can only save one of your one of you. Who do you your rebi or you? Who do you do? you who but you redeem your rebi you do pigeon for your rebi before your own father the says that's dka that doesn't really apply to anybody today it's davka if you don't pay tuition if you pay the rebi if the father pays the rebi tuition then you have to redeem the says this you redeem your father first it depends if it's $35,000 it's one the condemns the mother comes first again because of the abuse comes before a Jewish king because who dies you can never replace even if it's a thousand this particular you don't have but a Jewish king that dies any any uh any Jew could be a A king comes before this you need a poss. So first come and then comes before you think that the regular people. So the brings this and this is perfect for if you're going to say a story over say over the of a person not of the that he does say we know. So here's a whole list that the the anointed with the oil comes before the one anointed. How exactly that happened and but just through clothing is before one that had anointed and now he's gone because of we know that if it's much worse it lasts forever or could last forever. It's worse than a balkcar that's only one day and a who has a is more than the one that gives the muser in a warham and is before the the the the vice the vice is gone but a vice coin is before we never heard of this word. What's an he says everything he does he's like a something like a gizbar like the treasure the one in charge of the money the one in charge of stuff and the gizar is before the head of this 24 mishar of of the families that they divided by weeks that every week was divided within the family they had different parts of the family so it's like a like a like a big corporation there's the CEO the CFO It goes in and the bottom of the line over there is the regular when you have a dead person here who goes the vice the one that if something happens to the so he has to step in should he be himself and he'll be out of commission for seven days and something what are we going to do now? I thought I had something here I needed to show you. Oh, this is not bad. If you're Israeli, you know what this is. This is Gishmak. You have the power and he's trying to bud the line. He shows him the tour. This is a tour in they have this card. Okay. And here this is from Rip Official's video. The concepts run deep. The secrets that is waiting to keep the ultimate lesson. The final slam concerns. >> This is the final fourst. So the that's the one thing that we're going to say is they bumped into it's better that should become why if something happens but we said is before if you are Oh, so the the the MS are things later. Okay, we'll get to the Mishna. If you have two people drowning, who do you who do you who do you save first? The Muham who's more organ is more save him. But if for that you're going to be out of commission for seven days and if something happens to the I need somebody to take over that you leave this should stay ra have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor atmd.com.