Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 86 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign who gave us an idea we tried it out we went for it in New York set sheer a couple hundred people showed up and a lot of people agreed to make phone calls and reach out I have some videos to show you but I'll tell you the bottom line is after all the telling and everything close to 250 people are returning for kadusion that's an amazing number it's okay so let me just show you real quickly um so a lot of people from from the show came to see the sheer and then you know they didn't feel comfortable sticking around there were people here that came over to me during you know I was trying to make phone calls and people come and go I said listen I'm sorry I need to make phone calls I said what about you no I can't make phone calls it try people tried and they brought back a person two people felt so good about themselves so actually people learned how to do it and other congregations cities places could do the same exact thing bring more people back tires so easy and especially if you do the status thing I was supposed to put a QR code today and I forgot to put it on but let me just show you real quickly uh very quickly here we go oh it's on the screen sorry let's do it again [Music] so so now you're rejoining the way it works is you get a piece of paper with four names on it and you fill out it's rejoining his current he didn't pick up here's a little bit of me I'm gonna go through the whole thing out I got five people to Rejoice they drag them into these measures and I told her but if he comes everybody stands he didn't know what to do with himself I spoke him again today he's serious about it so it was a tremendous uh success and now we're just going to improve on it and go back to hopefully other cities do the same this is by mdy Anonymous ndy anonymous2023 gmail.com condition with the diamond ring hey everybody I made this email address I would say Anonymous as you read an email or two for me before and wanted to remain anonymous and ignored him I'm from Toronto and I'll tell you who this guy is because I I asked around and we did a a reverse email thing and I'll tell you his name at that I'm kidding I'm from Toronto and spent six weeks in Israel recently coming to this year all the time who could have been ready I've been doing the dive with you since Subs missing ivanus but did a number of missions with you before I started doing the actual dive in actual day I made a scene on my son's bris eleven and a half months ago yeah just got him in his first shots because why not picture attached here it is you got his first shots my sister yeah okay I was thinking about your current campaign to get people to come back and devices falling off and I thought what a better what's better than donating a timing engagement ring to the cause for condition a diamond engagement ring I have no idea what he means and what he tried was he's trying to do here already been in touch with the other but I think he thought I was joking be in touch with me okay try to make this happen sincerely our I mean anonymous okay what can we do with a diamond ringer voice I don't know anybody ever what I need to get married you do yeah what are you gonna do how's it going to help bring back people to condition maybe I should use it for my little way this is from Jonathan escorts I got this from Akiba Ziegler as well this is from the chat Dynamite I had a blast making those calls and successfully resigned five or six people just to see the smile everybody's face is well worth the effort I usually do not like making Boiler Room calls this was different as I wasn't asking anyone for a dollar donation you guys actually thank me for calling you're not asking you just helping them trying to give them something how many times do you call somebody do you want a freaking Mario one guy signed up and didn't want to freaking Mario the most pleasant evening was had by all uh David the deal but by the way he came in all the way from somewhere next to Muncie and probably like a hour and a half trip and it got 10 people to rejoin the Rebellion it was a real privilege to be involved with the campaign last night we given the opportunity to bring people back to this year I was making the phone calls that our mdy javarian both old and car members it made me think of an idea that would be great way to help retain those that are part of mdy we can create a global mdy buddy program where all members sign up to partner up with another member from this year it's amazing I read this email maybe an hour ago three four hours ago I left a voice message on our chat that I have with uh Nissan Gans and yes yesi Klein and I said you heard this here first let's make a shame room program we have one guy in charge like 10 people it was based on last night also I guess everybody came up with the whole same cop because I heard later on uh rabbit chicken I also said something like that people should check in did you do the dive today like you have a streamer if you you didn't say brick or something else and you ate and you didn't you want to go to show you want to you so you make a shimmer or whatever you didn't dab it you tell somebody you make sure I do it you have a body system that's all I did it check in done did it after today do you do it person is struggling one guy on top of ten one guy on top of those ten you know we have sorry I love I'm sorry man how have I one day once everyone has a partner they can arrange a weekly call to be magazine each other and discuss the dot Etc between those 10 they could have their own little group and whatever I believe in a day along these lines I've been successful already but I wanted to provide my feedback after making the calls last night I sense we have a lot of members out there who really benefit from such a program mirrors Hashem look forward to seeing you again soon best regards David by DL all the way from Manchester moved here uh whatever maybe a year ago two years ago one more good morning Rebel East Side good morning right boys ah Russell Rosenfeld coming to you straight out of Playa del Carmen Mexico um from Woodmere I've been with you since we saw him just want to give you a yashikaya usually on vacation I tend to push off the dot till afterwards and then struggle to catch up but since you always say it's not about the doff it's about the yomi I want to give you Ashoka I got up earlier this morning did the Dove and now I'm up to date thank you for all that you do have a good Shabbos unbelievable beautiful music for everybody what no no we have about 20 000 people in our database that at one point in time were part of this year got a free gamara wrote in the email whatever we have we have a database so we went through we had it took time to make the New York we just took the New York numbers we separated London gets London and so now we have a list of like 400 names or so from Los Angeles we need people in Los Angeles to hop the list and go and uh unfortunately I forgot to call the people in Los Angeles but I hope somebody did Etc or every city has a list now it's broken down it's not it's not complete and we don't know who's on and who's off that's the problem so unfortunately many of the people I called were off yeah because there's no one in Chicago took the initiative the coilover 20 people on the list anyway you could take them all Carlo sponsor my Anonymous from Lakewood because everybody else is in the ship besides to me and honors from Lakewood is being induced for healthy labor and delivery from mother and child they tripped me out because they can't put a lot of words here a lot of letters l d I still know that not doctor thank you for everything that I have kids with healthy baby basil Hashem foreign greenblatt with today is the yard side brain attacked success in all my Endeavors great grandfather's yard side what if I was there yesterday as well and Paris welcome to duty Friedman welcome back to his father remote Duty Iraq my son-in-law is here and he's a big wine guy and he thought that I bought the battle myself I'm not going to tell him otherwise unless he wants to share art of the month for complete reform for Kindle no seriously I'm on a high flew in flew out learned so much I went to eat in this place afterwards like it was already after midnight and I have videos of the Dunham's screaming good morning boys saying the whole restaurant went ah New York it's like in the middle of the day the play had literally 56 sitting evening hamburgers at 12 30 in the morning and then uh this this uh big uh YouTuber guy came and interviewed us oh let's give album okay nothing's open past eight oh there are some places shouldn't say all right boys say here we are enough people all the way by the mishna somehow we got to the mission says the mission [Music] so remember the word means three to exclude what a fourth thing that maybe we could think yeah something was going to discuss why it's Australia there are three gitin that are possible and if she doesn't care and she marries based on that get her kid is not a mama meaning it's a good guy just for abundance that you shouldn't use it what is what are the three so we're going to see the other kitten similar but not quite some of them you have to leave your husband some of them the the vladesh oh by the way the girls who at 3 30 in the morning on his vacation he's filling in Forever he was up the whole night without sharing everything else so she cut off the both of them so here you have the uh you get he wrote it with his own handwriting the husband with his own handwriting and if you look in the bottom where this the Adam sign it's missing it's in red that doesn't garisham and Gary and marabana cash doesn't exist in this get and he divorces with it so Rashi points out like this so first of all it says in the positive Allah especially I love about the husband himself writing again so there's a mile of him writing it versus telling the server to write it now if you recall the famous what is how do you how do you What did they even do according to mayor's name that the Adam that are signed and again they are the ones that create the get so this cannot be ready made so maybe that's good the problem is says Rashi rubles is in the at the end of the mission it says he has his own cheetah so this can be realized either so it's not realized so at this point is neither reminisces of Black Ops because we save the other invent elevator or yes man so this get has Aiden but although in the beginning of the get as picked it over here where the Shabbos is missing and use this get the kids don't know I'm there yes boys what if it has everything but it's missing one of the two ways is gone so once again the mission tells you a number and anytime the mission says a number it comes to exclude a different number these are the three get them that are Apostles have a lot of caution do not use it but if she didn't listen she used to get then her kid is not a moment even if there's no Adam at all because once again mysterious character like you see over here foreign about them is Real Estate that's a collateral alone so we're not even talking about xubo you could say we're talking about but it's going the guy we're going there it depends how you read it but let's say we're talking about just a regular document I think we're going to say that so here you go you have a mountain alive the life is sitting on a piece of property he wants to borrow money from the guy on the left so he's a star he gives him what happens is the property becomes now it's collateral to the Malibu if the lava doesn't pay back the loan then the malva gets to keep the property what happened was the lever goes and sells the property too bad on the buyer because if the lobby doesn't pay back since it's the property goes to the malva and the buyer loses so if you have a document that doesn't have Adam just like we just said that if there's a star if there's a guest it's a good get so if you have a loan document I borrow money from so-and-so and all I have are witnesses that saw the loan but they didn't sign that's enough about them didn't die they didn't witness to get they're dead then the husband comes to because 30 years later and says they never divorced this woman and she doesn't have witnesses they're dead so in order for trouble not to happen thinking of him to fix the world sign in the document and we don't have issues I think marvelous we have other I like when Mark's on I see he's changing it for me you guys don't even have to remind me you see it happening by itself now now you know what I'm talking about when it happens by itself for somebody in their system somewhere else pushes that button when they space out so like uh there's another case of a get that you shouldn't use and if you use it's not a problem that was written and before the husband delivered it he secluded himself he's missing with his wife [Music] you can't put in there because yes it's similar but not the same in our mishnah she must leave her second husband her kids are not Mom Xavier but she must leave second morning that's great it's great terrorists if you say that an hour Mr she has to leave she doesn't have to leave then it's identical to the get yoshin case so how can the ocean case is not in our missional Michael and maymar foreign it's still different now I don't know what happened I feel bad I couldn't find my get curious It's the fan that I said I'm Gonna Save it I don't know what I did with it I said okay whatever you saw it and the whole thing what was the point that I get again we have a coin who was married and we don't want him to divorce his wife because if he divorces his wife he can't get back with her there's no imagination someone just sent me that they asked mevsky how come you don't divorce your wife very married they've been kind of two mitzvahs she said because my wife knows me well and she probably won't get back with me okay so now some some brand was uh who got back 10 people already 10 people he's a big he's a big uh influencer in New York so he um he called me up he did his voice thing and I told him this myself I knew that he didn't watch the series he watches the next day maybe I found the story so those latinik on the phone call he says uh and what if your wife doesn't uh wanna take it back so I said no maybe that maybe it's an added benefit we're all laughing so he says listen um did I say branch on rent so [Music] so uh he asked me afterwards could I post it I said you could post it because they were schmoozing zlatnik doesn't want to put up a stand you know these are the cool guys in Flatbush they put a standard stand and give up the Mars and uh red wants him to go give a gamars like uh so I said you know what if you go into like one of the most popular stores in the mountains and you stand outside and give out the Mars you could post and make fun of me so that's what he did so so far he posted it let's see if he opens up the stat we'll see but you can get curious so you have this get that you you take a piece of paper and you take the get you're right over here or something then you fold it and then you sew it and then the aid signs his name over here and then they fold it again this way and back that way it's a whole mouth anyway you have a fan and it's sewn and it's Adam and depending on how many folds you have that's how many ate them you have so what happens if you have one of the folds without an eight it's called a get key ref this is called the getting a kusher right the fan is again pusher but if the getman kusher has one part of it that doesn't have the signature then it's possible look it has enough Adam it's more than enough it has five eight them in there but it has six folds and you don't have six of them so we say you can't use it so why isn't that not in our mishna says you hear this you have five eight them you're missing one Aid you have more than enough eight the kid is a momzu that's what our mission says the kid is culture not a mom's now if you're saying how's the kid of manager the mayor says that if you change to do and they said that on each fold you have to sign and you only sign five not six the kid is a monster that's Allah it's foreign [Music] she has to leave him over here you don't have to leave the absence that's great according to the one says you don't have to leave but if over here she has to leave her husband and I get Miku sure that's you know you don't oh I'm sorry if over here and over there States say they both have to leave Michael and Neymar says they can marry you know at the end of the day who uses him a question maybe a coin and then the Korean stop using it and now no one uses it it's not even something in in circulation so we're not going to talk about I'm a crucial see right maybe it should be in our mishnah but it's just not that important enough to to bring down so that we had a whole Suge mishna if a person wrote again without giving honor to the to the kingdom he didn't write the he said you know he put the date based on the base I make dodge not based on the current uh government she doesn't we have to leave her husband and Michelle you have to leave your house this is in parenthesis what foreign but so that's that Milana duration how can the mission starts off saying slideshow if you want to see what it looks like this Mission starts official then it says so we have twice that says the word why do I need it says [Music] we just said a bunch of cases right to get yoshan the date these are three kitten that don't don't belong in our mission so that's why the mission says there are three kitten and math four five six the three cases of the gamara broke and the reason why at the end of the mission says to tell us didn't say it yoichi [Music] you have to divorce her and the kid is a mom's there why is the kid mom sir no because [Music] us but I'm gonna forget so you're gonna write me uh this we'll put it in different remains of the opinion right he's the same one he's the one that said um so according to a mayor it's beautiful Vlad moms so it doesn't fit in our mission because our mission says there's only three that have a lot of culture this case of not saying the other day you take it from her take it back she gives it to you and you repeat the action the foreign that was the next the the case in the mishnam it's his own handwriting and we said it says in the possible because of Allah but there's no way to omara says RAV it has to be his handwriting so now what does he say it doesn't say the other so therefore they want to ask right away what is RAV adding to what we don't know the mission says if you wrote it with his own handwriting says RAV it's his own handwriting what is he talking about now there's three cases if he's talking about this case that's on the screen is it on the screen now it is at least was it on before no okay maybe he's talking about the first case it says so Rob had no reason to repeat those words also it's talking about the second case that doesn't have the time it doesn't have the time it has Aiden so what difference does it make if he wrote it didn't write it doesn't add anything if you wrote it Eli safer it's talking about the final case that while this was it has the time but one of the Adam is missing on the base and the only way this get could be kosher is if the husband wrote it and there's one a together with the husband is a good a it's a good get but if the sofa wrote it and there's only one Aid then it's not Kosher sponsored by ndy where we die and our mdy family join us to tell him that.com by the way if anybody is getting older and they need reading glasses I'm gonna let you know if this trick works I heard about it and they saw a lot about it but the doctor said they should do it and today it's working great and that is monovision the one eye is the right prescription and the other eye is half the prescription so that other eye reads and the other eye sees and he says it's not a problem than strained eyes and you can do it so far it's working in public I'll let you know sometimes I share my dieting tips that don't always works and I just share the eyesight whatever sometimes real estate tips I'm not into practice anymore so don't really listen to me it's not true he's if the cipher sign is wrote the document and this one Aid that's enough you have the cipher testifying he didn't he didn't sign his name but he wrote a gift for somebody obviously knows what's going on and there's one a that's enough because we learned kosher oh my Forest if you have a cipher in 1A it's good enough verav it's as well we have we have a contradiction here don't bring me a ride from there mid dummy what do you mean we have we have a contradiction over there it says go ahead and get married look at Hilo with Excel survey over here it's saying the event so if there's a contradiction then that can be the shot so we have to say is that when it says that the cipher and the aid are enough it means that the cipher signed his name The Cypher wrote the whole get and then he signed his name and then another Aid signed his name so how many of them do we have two grade A then what's the problem that's how Rob is going to learn um well I don't know probably not no it's not a contradiction I'll tell you why he says you're right both cases the soifer wrote a gift again this and one person signed but you don't have a signature of the cipher says small I argue so why is it not a contradiction why in one case you get married one case you can say it's very simple oh besides when you have a second we had these as far as before themselves and he knows that you need the husband to ask you to to write inside so so you know that he's doing the right thing and therefore so if you have a surface so then you need his actual signature foreign said to him so rebe is usually a Tana but the problem is the first number say so it has to be the river loss is a number this that it says that this Adam we learned to say no that's the that's the end of the mishnah that's the another case if this woman uses again sometimes RAV said that she should leave her second husband sometimes Raph says you don't need that what's up shot why is there a contradiction okay he said yes if she has children then you don't want to make a rumor and a Shem they go to Yeshiva like that story said yes it's a terrible rumor and it's going to be pretty difficult foreign okay whatever the the first mission of evama says that if you have uh two wives you have a wife and a co-wife a wife and a co-wife that feli evil okay so you have two brothers one dies without children the other the wife of the one that died falsely ibom she has to marry the brother-in-law what if there's two wives the fall then the brother-in-law could pick whoever he wants the problem is one of the two wives that fell even is his own daughter or his own mother or his own whatever so then both women are potted from Evil completely there is no evil so it goes like this let me just show you the chart and we'll make it easier there are two brothers these are the Baldwin brothers from evalness Reuben and shiman brothers the brother shiman has a daughter called RBS she's a typical RBS woman she's a woman that went to a matter of fact school but she became really from later on in life and she now she lives in RBS okay she wears interesting gym shoes with the tail and she bumps into poles and RBS the whole the whole thing you've never seen these women they diving as they walked oh much unbelievable so here she is Sherman's daughter she's in Wisconsin Reuben marries his niece it's a midst of the Marines it is a missile he marries his knees to RBS woman and he marries another woman what happens if Ruben goes bye-bye both of his wives fall to ibom well there's a problem so both of these women Go free no Khalid son zero that is the first mission of evama the thing what happened over here is it gets more interesting Reuben gave a get to the RBS woman but it was missing one of the Aiden but it was missing the date it was it had a problem that our mission to discusses it's a suffocate so what do you do to something guys oh fine so but here's what happened the obvious woman she oh so she went and she married some random guy I just put it they have two children and then Ruben goes bye bye if you say that in the case where she has two children or a child Rob says I'm making a distinction if she doesn't have children then she has to lead the guy with the holding his hat just leave him she has a bad gift she was never divorced not me but okay whatever should we set up the yeah but if if it's a good get and she has two children then it's such a good get shimen will come to marry Rahul why because shiman Shin's daughter is not Rocco's co-wife anymore there's a hundred percent severance if you're telling me there's a difference that if the woman has children then she doesn't even have to leave her husband if she doesn't have to leave her husband so she's not a co-wife to Rahul she's nothing with Rojo that's all history and therefore shin and the brothers Should Be Me ruffle yeah we're holding it's a little complicated the case otherwise married Rocco can't be married as soon as her she was married to ruane and her husband died but she's then she then she has to be Missy Adam to shiman because she doesn't have a call wife she doesn't have a co-wife at the time that her husband passed away she was by herself she's the only wife her wife already married somebody else and had kids and it's a great marriage how do I know because she doesn't have to divorce him but sometimes you do have to divorce and if she had to divorce then she's then she's a co-wife to Rojo and then this shouldn't be evil so what do you do you see it causes a problem says the gemara how can you tell me sometimes she's married and sometimes she's not married sometimes sometimes human would do give him sometimes he won't it doesn't work like that let's see inside I think we should do the case one more time slowly I mean faster but we'll do it again so we see it inside again all 15 arise that had a suffix or esophagus okay we had it and you guys will remember cases I wanted to put the chart in we just had recently where he throws the get he also did a whole animation it was in the box out of the box okay we don't know if the condition fell next to her next step what's the case of Salvation Customs that's our case yesterday that we say that the volatility asking tomorrow the average location to Rosso and if you say I'm sorry if you say if you say that the RBS woman who married another guy and I had two children she doesn't have to leave that husband so Russia is going to be me Rojo now let's see the case one more time real quickly two brothers Reuben and Sherman has a daughter called RBS Ruby marries RBS moving to Uncle Mary's RBS and marries another woman then he goes and gives a get to RBS so RBS goes and marries gain of Tully and they have children and if you tell me she doesn't have to divorce this guy so when moving goes bye-bye because Rojo in RBS have with zero connection Robert is there any marriage she doesn't have to leave her husband Seattle midday midi rice is a great get and she's completely married to naftali and that's why she doesn't have to leave enough though it was only exhibited that she has to leave him okay so let there be you when it's not the end of the world foreign [Music] I'm telling you it's like a freebie over here it's going to be very repetitive the mission of the three kitten that we had she doesn't have to leave her husband if she gets Divorced with one of these three get them even if she doesn't have children remember RAF said a difference if she doesn't have children she has to get divorced but if she has children she doesn't have to get divorced says let me know no matter what no divorce is what your father said you don't have to leave and this giant we'll see in the gemara what it means a giant fly in the wheat and if we sell is you burn it you take the ashes pour it into water take the water and sprinkle the guy that stomach if an animal is going to say in a second [Music] sorry I missed the word my cards is my characters or my bio difficult the baby kaifi here it is my boy says the picture it's a giant fly I couldn't believe it on into the straight out of Google it could grow to two almost three inches long almost four inches of a wingspan a giant fly that's basically Martin says the size of kazias maybe more but I just says the size of a of a grasshopper he calls it a zwov a fly the size of grasshopper huge thank goodness we don't have it here so if you have this difter thing now what's going on here the baby it's in a pile of hay there was a again there was a big uh a farmer in amaret he wanted to show off that his son is he takes us on to the ROV he says son says comets what's on the base this is oh verbs you see what's under the hay because I said what's under the hay of course he says listen if you don't say what's on today I'm going to give you a patch he says all the watches that you stole you you put under the hay okay fine this is the benefit yeah you see what I'm saying it's desperate times so giant fly that hangs out under the hay muscle Revenue so it goes like this when you have this water let's say this is the mechanism water if you have a cow that drinks from the water he's gonna drink and drool back in a little bit so that's considered using the Water by avoida you have a bird that sips from the water a little dribbles down it ruins the mechatos besides a pigeon replacing Etc says it's able to suck the water like a straw nothing goes back down in the Misa but if you're right it should also say this giant fly also is not poisonous and we just said yeah it was just a side thing we're talking about the Lloyd and another the characters and the giant fly doesn't doesn't pass the water just a side got sidetracked for a second particularly I can't put it in the list of a pigeon and a giant fly because it's not a hundred percent if it's a giant fly then it doesn't pass out possible if it's a smaller size then it does pass that camo what's a giant what's a small over here the giant is a pizzazz even though there's no way here this is where it's freebie are and therefore I don't need to identified after stories so this is what it says it says they should sign a document a star a regular document so in May law he says no that Allah has like rebelizer only by getting that to witness it is enough you don't have to sign again but when it comes to regular documents is so why what about this possible it says in the positive concern that says he's just teaching us good practice business practices you should always have somebody sign a document but you don't need it you could you you could use you don't need them to sign says not a good at all it's a terrible get if you don't have vaden's side it doesn't even Schmidt like again it's zero zero zero imagine again it's missing 10 10 out of the 12 lines is it a get no it's not a get so if you don't have the signatures it's not a get foreign [Music] of course I didn't I mean I did like three years before but it's like now it's too late when they were here they were here okay you don't need to representative instead of the name of Rob uh you know I've never seen so many I mean maybe the other places shots I just don't remember just repeats repeats I love them again foreign [Music] okay here's the go wait wait a minute what's your name whoa see okay what's the father everything matches they live in the same city the whole day one-on-one been inside of you and then getting got mixed up noises understanding so somebody wrote me an email this it seems that so many uh getting that the husbands are mean to the wives we're talking about theoretical Halifax what in the worst case scenario happens this that did this ever happened ever but it's a theoretical question we need to know it it applies to other levels as well two exactly then you don't what would you say what's that Allah it doesn't mean it happened what if the whole shots what if any bottle sorry sorry to give both of them to each and the divorce is a way out of it the fee clock and therefore if you can't find one of them and they got mixed up then you can't do anything with it this is a very interesting story it also never happened they wanted to save money on on the ink so five people wrote on one document it's all divorce in a while it's like covert after coven why wait in line remember those lines in China like four blocks long and people are getting divorced they had enough of their wives sitting in the same house for for months so you know just right here fill in the blank like like uh you know for for what do they do for um politics petition but this just signs eyesight and the bottoms are going to signature evolve them so that's exactly what they did something like that it's playing regards playing this this guy's been divorcing this wife ooplini blindness it's a great get nothing you just have to go and deliver it to each and every one so all the top ones are no good and whatever they say them is good seismic will learn these three lines here man Tano who says they could give two giten that are mixed up to two women just give it to one take it from her and give it to the second and they're both divorcedure every laws this doesn't go like a laws are are the ones that see the giving of the get not the ones that are signing they don't know which one it is and that can't be the Shema Philippines not true rubalosa says you need a ride because of because you don't have to give it they just have to see and if even if they don't know what they're seeing one of the two was the get that's good enough have a wonderful day tomorrow here basically at 7 30. you try to be more on time thank you for coming