Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 82 by R’ Eli Stefansky

hi so I was waiting for this day for a long time like when is it gonna happen so I developed an eye infection viral not viral I went on antibiotics my father was a doctor I'm so sure blah blah blah so I can't wear my lenses I don't have glasses I can't see anybody hi so if somebody comes in let me know who it is whatever um you know it's the daf somebody just recently asked I think it's a guy in town as well they were asking questions he says are you always on like I'm pretty much always in a good mood I'm in a good mood right now but it doesn't mean I want to be here right now but it's enough we got to go right there sometimes it's not that comfortable you just keep on going keep unplugging here's a um video it's not a nice one so much but Facebook Pearl just met another yossi Klein it does look very much like it's climbing the from uh one of the sides another hidden hosted learning with your belly here we go as if you quote I'm doing something terrible he like who says okay I don't think I'm so happy about it but we gotta encourage them all who just walked in I have no idea today I didn't he was like 10 feet away from me it's like yeah who are you I can't see it now I see it okay no I my my lenses are up you say I brought my contact lenses with me uh but I'm driving so stay off the Norway that's why I put my contacts in one apple West hamsters and Shira Axelrod on the marriage this week shown here Glenn Ackerman oh yeah I gotta change it Glenn ackermann Howard Apel Hassan's father Mickey aboff we are we are all not rejoining enough as we're all learning with you for many years and thank you for it we also we'll try to get others to come back and join uh to get a Nuance to join how bad is CM and West Hempstead or if not just the sheer we have over 50 people learning with you already in West Hampstead happy anniversary Glenn Ackerman West Central New York near the five towns and how about you read today's oh yeah it's givaldi I'm just gonna have to go a little closer the coil is sponsored right now is from Lakewood schools my mother-in-law's Esther bass Baylor every day she's making great progress we walked today across the street she walked upstairs it's very slow but but steady that I'm even thinking for everything that I have been online words [Music] in honor of FD of SD settlowitz on occasion of her upcoming move to Florida ah thousands of people are learning Twitter today let's do it again you're a families in honor of SD seployments on occasion of our upcoming move to Florida thousands of you learned her today as a school is for your Mazel brojo or rooting for her all right sometimes Michelle yeah there's a guy I don't know if he likes what I said the guy now share he's uh used to give the instead of me a lot when before before the new cycle and he lived right next door to me and his daughter has um epilepsy and he moved the rough time to move and since he moved not one episode but Lee I in horror and this is going on over three years it's unbelievable it doesn't like when we talk about it because of the ainhara here we go we have a very uh what is that oh that's my uh computer doing stuff okay we have a simpler depth today um but before we do that we have to go through the the neonim that we learned in chass is whether or not yes but when a person makes a condition he says you are divorced on condition x y z is divorce how right now and you just have to do x y z or it's not how until you do xyze Marshall next that we said if you remember it's one of these catch-22s how does she acquire the get if the get is in property that her husband has all the benefit from so she gets to get she gets divorced in that moment that she's divorced she owns the property fully being of course she owns the property fully she acquires the get and she acquires to get to acquire the prayer it all happens together how do we understand it get used to it next if she has a property or anybody has a property you put a piece of metabolism in the property and you buy the property so you're kind of everything in the property including the movable objects the Metallica that's kinyanaga is a certain chance that you can't have something that happens simultaneously it can't be that in the same millisecond two things happen lover is the famous that anything within three is considered it's touching it's next to its whatever it's the same it's good for Ahsoka Shabbos this is the music of Akira if you want to be a person is over on itself or taking taking out a cleave from wondrous to another issues you have to first do Akira you have to lift it up more results and then you have to put it down in the other issue so you pick it up let's say you're interested in your house and you bring it down you put it down it's an offer we need those two things what if you what if a person throws a football from from through the window of somebody's house in order to say okay then it comes out on the other side of just a rabbit do you say that when it passed through yes it was in flight but do we say it was grabbed and made a landing in there for millisecond in order for that person to be either you can pretend you're big time which you are they could run around hey you know included is a person whose husband died and they didn't have children and now she's waiting to see what that guy is going to do her brother-in-law is her brother-in-law gonna marry her do you even or he's gonna perform khalitza but in the meantime she's waiting she just she's just waiting we're going to talk about it a little bit today is when there's a get that smells like again it's not really a get for instance if a Cayenne writes a get for his wife but he never delivered to her she cannot be married to him why because it's a good out there there's a something that smells like again they're more careful it's not a real get never gave it to her but it's wrath I get get me closer is this device right here that we learned yesterday we're going to talk we're going to start the share talking about it basically it's a get that's folded like a fan and over here we have it's it's a it's sewn together and Aid writes his name over here then they write a little bit more over here and the next Aid right signs His Name by the Green Arrow they write a little bit more over here and then the next size is named by the yellow arrow they write a little bit more over here etc etc you could have seven folds seven folds so that's to get my Pusher it's tied down it's it's sewn together and the reason they did this is that the kohanim when they give forget they can no longer stay married to their wives so in order to calm them down if they're ready to get out of anger this will take them a long time to sew it and find them and whatever that's give them a kosher yeah a what why okay yeah but the the wife still has to get the divorce in order for her to get married she can't be married to her husband the replica only causes her not to be able to be married to her husband but doesn't allow her to do to marry anybody she wants she wants to marry any Israel she needs a real yeah you should turn this on get curia is this exact get my kusher that we're talking about over here but it's missing one of the Aiden over here so let's say this one is a get kiraya because next to this green arrow you don't have Adam so it's bald it's missing an eight so if you deliver this get without the eight over here even though you have all these items over here it's puzzle and if she gets married or kids in Mount zerim and all the bad things happen to her what what could you do this is initially you could just use any person off the street including a slave including a relative Cuba says no only a relief with that being said now we can jump into our soya we only have I think nine days left and therefore I'm asking the Islam if you haven't call up your friends I'm telling you all it takes is a short phone call two minutes Zach is somebody in Torah and it's here foreign signed on this fan Apple Trey Lloyd more than one relative is possible Dilma y Aussie liquor you may betrayed Craig one day somebody's gonna make it error on the get doesn't even say I never give a get the wife is going to bring this gift to the person and they're going to look and they can say okay here they're gonna take three now we said again Kushner needs a minimum of three Aiden so they're going to take three Witnesses and two of them happen to be relatives and one of them is not a relative and they're gonna say oh it's a great get look here here's ruvain and Truman weapon to be brothers and here's another guy and they're gonna be mikai mcget based on two relatives and therefore we don't want that um you could also prove this from the bracelets if you look at the Bryce it says if he made seven folds and there's six of them then it says if you made six folds and five made them five folds and foreign it always goes down by one Aid starts of seven six five and it's it's six five four three in other words the the Bryce is not saying that you could have two item in there you could only fill out one bad Aid one Cardiff not more um this karov he could sign his name by the red arrow the Green Arrow the yellow arrow it doesn't matter where he signs we're not telling him where to sign you can sign anywhere he's a regular right foreign so this here let's say you have nine eight them you could pick number one five and nine let's say you could pick any three out of these nine they don't have to be one two three or four five six or seven eight nine they don't have to be a group that you can pick any three you want if that's the case if they have to be together and have a great trick I can use more than one current how if I dictate and I say I love her that the Quran always has to sign his name in a specific location let's say this would be the first of the group like in this start over here you guys see it no now you see it oh so before you didn't see it I was talking to myself okay I was like one today so over here you have nine am one through nine so if I say that the eight always has to be in the red place in other words the first of the three or the second of the three I just I did one case Okay the easy one so then you can use more than one card why because no matter which three you take if only if if the three always has to be in a group so when you go to best then and you're making the star is good you always have to take red green and yellow then you take red green and yellow so you'll always take only three of them but they have to be in the same group so then I use more than one car right because what's the whole concern that you might use two relatives but you could only use the relative always has a sign in the same exact spot so in this case he's signing in spot number one one four and seven that's the only place where a relative could sign so anyway I I cut it I'm always going to use three and I'm only going to have one card there from here you see that you can just grab any item you want you take one five and eight and the concern is you might grab two two relatives by mistake you could have more than one curve says he came through about me who says it's bananas the second line in other words that there was a get like this that was missing a eight somewhere and he looks around there's not even go grab a slave I don't care who'll just fill it out that's right that's bananas because we keep a holes only a relative because you're not a slave obviously any person discussion but in terms of the sulim only occurred not a Slave foreign I'm gonna go back to this you have to remind me if I don't go back or don't show it just scream out something one word is enough so a person divorces his wife and as he's giving her the gift the shots mysterious Israel she tells her your mother to the whole world right that's what again does a gut says you're not married to me you're multiplying a very strange lotion what it should say really the word Ella over here means exactly the same thing as hot you are permitted to anybody in the world besides plenty now the way I understand it it makes a lot of sense to me let's say this husband is concerned that she had a relationship with somebody else so he doesn't want to divorce her and yeah now she's gonna she's gonna go marry that guy no way so I'm gonna punish her and say I'm divorcing her besides that guy oh you say you have nothing to do with him great okay so give out so we're on the same page does it work or not now stars like there's a it reminds me of uh what's the big deal so she can marry uh eight billion people minus one person so what happened there was a an error once knocked on his neighbor's door give this you guys how come you guys are so well what's up no no it's very partial we take metal we turn to Gold how do you do it they take the metal pour a little salt and cook it up with with onions and it's not it turns into gold eventually but it's one condition one condition so you can't think about a pink elephant so oh fine no problem because back to the next day he says oh those sheltered pink elephants well I I'm trying to make my gold I can't I don't know I never thought about an elephant climb my entire life now all I do is think about elephants so here also say incredible it does ruin you think one person no as soon as he says besides that guy that's it he ruined it doesn't matter everybody says this is a good gift you can divorce a woman and say Your mother besides one person Works mushroom they say that's not a get it's going to see it increases you need to sever you can't have any connection whatsoever she has to be much of the entire world so let's say he gave the get and he said he didn't know he said I'm always he said oh besides that guy said what are you doing that doesn't work oh she has a way out of it he takes the get back he actually and he gives it to her again typically you don't have to say anything you just say I raise a guitar or where he has to say specifically you are moved into the whole world because a minute ago he ruined it he said it the wrong way now he has to he has to retract and say your mother to the whole world including that guy hey but if he wrote inside the actual get he wrote you're also to ruven you can't go ahead and erase it very very simple song what is this word Ella so very tall do and it's pretty obvious when you read it that Ella means besides but it could also mean maybe he made a condition if you marry that person your mother to the whole world if you go ahead and marry that person then retroactively they get one the get is only how if you don't marry that person not a a word of Hoots but a tonight you see that in another mission in a completely different type of sugar surrounding when it comes to Saras in the house the mission uses the Russian Ella and Ella means okay that's the whole thing what does the word Ella mean does it mean besides one person or unconditionally you don't marry one person it doesn't mean besides one person and on that it makes a lot of sense they're abundant arguing really as what does Sheila we get he did not give a complete get let's see if we have it over here yeah I mean the most famous we've used as possibilities himself with Galaxy again because of the Civic creases it has to be crystals it has to sever the relationship if there's anything holding on to the relationship or that she's not much of the entire world then it's not a get um it's very interesting it's does outcome is the same but it's how you go about it when a person makes a condition you can't marry so-and-so but right now I divorced you and you moved into the whole world even that person you're multitude if you marry that person then it turns out that there's no condition the condition wasn't met and then the guy won't be hot but you if you want to look at it you can look at it a little differently she's one of them just if she goes out and she marries him then it's gonna ruin everything but at this moment she's mother how do you look at it it's just like a regular condition don't go here or jump over there or deal moment maybe the word Allah means there's a condition going on here and even if it's a condition we have a macalayas but if you use a very strong word I'm divorcing you besides that guy then then even Emilia will agree that it's not again because he did not do a perfect crystals he's an Shire it's not it's not a she's not motivated to the whole world minus one guy and it's not again I'll prove it to you why um means we know a person has a saraz he has an Affliction it looks it's white the same thing applies to the house if there's a house that has Saras so the whole procedure the coin checks it out closes the house sometimes you have to knock down the whole house sometimes you remove a stone I think it doesn't go away suddenly you have to knock down the whole ass but look at the lawsuit all homes you come Tommy when this is a Nega hello so I actually Yoshi did a picture here so if you look closely I can't really see it but you guys can see it there's some like green red stones over there this is a Jewish home so this is not such a Jerusalem and this doesn't apply to this house over here okay happens to be that in Sanhedrin there's a sheet that says in San Andreas that there's no such thing as Vice never happened never happened so if it never happened the mentor says that why does why is it concept because there's a if there's a Nega you you pull out the stone you gotta you bought this home from a non-jew and they once hid Treasures in the house and this will allow you to define the treasure so you see that that there is a so they say according to that shita means that there's never a concept where you had to knock down the entire house okay thank you fine it's not a the point of this whole song is just to see what the word Ella means does it mean it's condition or does it mean besides it makes a lot of sense when we're reading it right we're here in America besides it should make sense all houses become Tommy besides that of a guy how does how could you put the word condition in here all houses are telling me unconditioned that the the guy what makes no sense sounds exactly the thing Martin is saying yeah if the word Ella means besides great if it's a condition that the non-jewish homes don't become Tommy then the Jewish ones do become but if they do become Tommy then the Jewish homes don't become Tommy doesn't make any sense but anyway hotsu in the story says our mission doesn't go like the tunnel because we just established that the word Ella means besides that he said in the get he said you are divorced besides Ruben you can't marry Ruby but there's another thing that says the gemara um foreign but said as he's giving her the gift you can marry anybody besides so-and-so no it's unconditioned if you marry Zozo then it's not a good that's and she marries anybody in the world besides Ruben it's not again my time foreign what's the difference he says this is the organic condition you do 10 jumping jacks this year again a condition you know Mary Rubin how long are we speaking she could marry Reuben because she's divorced divorce means she can marry but as soon as she marries him I even saw Anita what about this nose it doesn't make enough Camino because he said don't marry then say okay fine foreign people besides one guy then you ruined again you left something over and again how could she let me get oh yeah we do have a sponsor thank you let's say the whole lotion there sponsored by mdy Taylor group where we diving for a refuse role and our mdy family join us tell him that eightman.com so remember for tomorrow okay so the immortal um okay but we established that he didn't make a condition he said specifically when he gave her the get which is very severe I'm divorcing young condition you don't marry roommate how could Revelation say that's a good gift says again I'll tell you why he says he's gonna get because he has two sukumicular bro you're right it doesn't make sense but he has a possible foreign it says in singular she leaves his house and she goes and she marries a single man in other words even if the get only allows her to marry one person array Zoom aggression that's an offer again [Music] doesn't mean to one man it means she's modded to every single man in the world it says foreign so this is a slightly tricky not a big deal so it's like this that even if he only divorced her from no one I'm divorcing you I have nothing to do with you you're the worst for me but you can't marry a single person in the world what is that called it shouldn't work at all because again means you can marry anybody in the world or at least some people in the world although he said you can't marry anybody but I'm divorcing you for me you can't be with me you can't be with the whole world it shouldn't be a good at all but in terms of Rea forget it smells like it gets for a client that's enough to pass from Sigmar says see that it's considered a get when you leave over what does it mean so for this let's jump into places we have a little time today what are you proving the fact that this woman is also to her husband is not a right to anything that this is a this is a good get another good gift let me show if she wasn't divorced only from her own husband this case he only divorced from her husband from himself but from nobody shita the Philadelphia obviously this is a zero get it's such a nothing that if somebody gave such a get his wife she would be motor to should be hiding evil you don't even say give her khalita it's not even a Suffolk it's a zero get nothing ever happened there so now what's the right corner it might passion you know oh you're good okay creative are very sensitive so even if it's a fake get so to speak it's really a fake he said that you're divorce for me and you're not wanted to marry anybody in the world it's a zero yet but if you're going you can't you can't be married her but it doesn't mean that it's a get at all foreign as far would be that in out in the other case of the Cayenne it wouldn't even have a smell of it yet so we must say that when you say that this is a good gift and you're also only to one man that it's a great get because otherwise it wouldn't be considered RAF again in the other case of a kite no that's it she can't be married to Russians hmm not natural not in the coin case in the current case she's divorced in the Israel case it's it there's two different stories here by the coin she's completely remember and if you get through the words no true or nothing in the Israel case the same exact thing in the Israel case it's not even a rare it's nothing is gorgeous let's remember the name ribiaba for now remember is the question the same exact case that we said in the get what about a condition a guy goes to to this kala his future Kylie says you're also through the whole world because that's what condition does it makes you us a dollar besides one man that man united or not a good condition again if you say this is your get besides one man in the world you cannot marry that one man it's a good guy it's not a good girl so now the same question applies to kidujin ers [Music] we just brought to sukem that help him out we said ish you can only multi to one as long as you multiply one man it's a good divorce a whole shot is but that's only by getting it doesn't work being on but by kidution you have to do a real Kenyan and and by you saying that you're also to the whole world but your mother to XYZ that's not a good opinion when you're a college a woman it means she's awesome to everybody so the famous oil would I didn't okay I don't know where I put it but we have it on this on this stuff it says seven lines down the ultimate base even if you exclude one person in the world so the condition is a good condition even if you exclude one person in the world Maybe um so they asked the question but they immediately came up with the solution yes there is a hackage between therefore according to realizer that says that if I give a get a condition that you don't marry reuven it's a good get so if I give condition on condition then you're not also to Reuben it's a good condition and according to our abundant if I say and if I give you again thank you you don't marry Reuben it's not a good girl so if I give condition unconditioned that Reuben is not awesome to you then it's not a good condition fine that's that now says about you if that's true again a person says you're also to the whole world but you're allowed to marry ruvane I want you to I want to marry you but you allowed to marry Reuben ium [Music] so check this out for this we need a little bit of a chart we don't need but it'll make it very good she did a phenomenal job there's a concept called the wife of two dead people How could a one woman be married to do to two people how's it possible so oh very good industry miracy of them and what happened how she engaged her brother died yeah but zika doesn't know anything so it's a little bit more than what you're saying oh he gave her kid douche and what is that called very good that's the case you hear what he's saying so here's the case let's see it inside you have three brothers Roofing shimmy Levy are you seeing it also yeah yes okay Reuben goes ahead and marries the five Towner ruvane goes bye-bye so now you have zika the two brothers either one of them can marry her so shouldn't goes along and does something called mimer mimer means he gives her condition now middle rice uh the way to be coina ivama is but what it said that if he gives her a ring like a like a regular person she becomes to exclude lady can't do anything now now they later on said this is how you have to do it okay it's better to do it like that and then Sherman goes bye bye so look what happens now she's so to speak connected to two men because shiman never married her Sherman only gave her a ring her original husband died and so she was she still had cheveston she's coming off a two husbands basically that's what's going on here so what does levy do lady has to give her halito it cannot be me why because this is and the posix says um is in the wrong order and I don't want to mess up the order now okay so that's case number one ABY says but I have a case what about this case this case doesn't work I'll show you a case that doesn't work Three Brothers one of them marries this woman on condition that the whole world is also you see hola sir there's a globe with a line through it the whole world is awesome besides one person my own brother your mother to marry my own brother foreign great so I'm marrying you you're also the world and your mother to my brother Reuben you hear this is she married the two men the answer is no why because she's married exclusively through Ruby ah he left over a little bit but rube is shiman when he married her he didn't do anything he didn't add anything she was always also to the world and she's basically so what did jimin do I set it to the world okay she's already us of the world and your mother she's already married to Reuben so shiman did zero he didn't add anything if he adds something and he says you're awesome to ruven now should be married to two men very simple so in this case if they go both go bye-bye I don't know what it says there yebo you do evil why because she was only married to Ruben nothing to do with children but in the same case almost the same case ruvane marries the five Towner unconditioned that she could still marry his brother shiman there comes shiman and marries her unless she cannot marry Reuben so now we added something yeah is it the roommate so now you could say that she's amazing okay it says mistake it should probably say halito okay more let's see it inside very passionate yeah all right according to the Bible it says that a person could say but you're still motor to marry my brother you still married him marry somebody else so then afterwards here's my calendar besides him and his brother and then brother oh I can marry her great the kids here besides his brother who makes his name and they both died it's a perfect e-born why Mason let me just see if I have the puzzle gear I'm very good that's right here you got the voice of this is what I was looking for before this is the heckage of a violencia and here's the possible um it's only when ibom only implies when one husband dies not two husbands how do you have two husbands in a case of mimer and the Bible says well wait a minute I have another case over here what's up now it's very interesting when I when we learned that over there in the Obama as I said this is my Ram shakes I'll say it again the maram shik says a very interesting thing what's just the the you know way to understand a little bit on a deeper level what's going on here she says and this gives us a little bit of an explanation of what evoom is all about you call the kid on the father's name says that when uh if this couple after ibom has a child then the shama of the father that died goes into this child and the Mela that only works on this one father with this two two husbands so to speak then tuna Summers go in almost like there's a problem of split personality or something you know like something like that okay boys something more explains in the first case was great she's also the whole world I find the case of two Mason of two husbands Brothers added something because now she became also to rub it because that she's also the entire world and all Rubin accomplished was that she made her also on Ruben so then his conclusion is how a little bit so to speak and therefore when they both die she's married to two men two men um voice I have here I did this very proud of myself and I go to my niece and ask her if she has some construction paper okay here we go we have a reuben and Shimon and here's the world so your mother sorry what is it you are motor to the entire world also to these two people and then he repeats and he says afterwards he says your mother what screen okay you can just say it okay yeah oh here [Music] oh do we say that you see these two guys oh maybe what he wanted to do is to say he retracted and he said instead of them being red they are green foreign maybe this the world became red so these guys went from red to green and this guy went from green to red him then what if okay so going back the world is multitude Reuben and shiminarosity and then he says now you have green red green is also green or bad maybe he just mentioned this guy but he meant both because that's how he started and if you mean like this that Reuben is green shimming is red listening out what if they're both red and he says both are green by the government because that's the last one he said is green Reuben is red Mond mouth what if he says the Russian f okay even even both of these guys are good or what he meant is the world is green I'm saying shimen is also even shimming is green but ruvane remains red tomorrow evening at 7 30 right here