Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 75 by R’ Eli Stefansky

okay we reached myself thank you for being patient it seems like every single day there's some sort of technical difficulty we'll get over it Blazers and tomorrow I'm not sure if I'm gonna be back here or envisiting day Michigan in Camp matzo we'll see how the internet is over there Etc we'll see we'll play by yourself check your um whatsapps Dear Valley I've been with MD wife a few times somebody's my father-in-law Josh Brody from Boca Raton here's a great story with some real death has got on July 7th last year you're here July 7th last I committed to starting the daf the following day with subas about to start fast forward to three weeks ago exactly one year later on July 7th our baby gilad was born the background my wife and I have been trying for close to a year before about Trevor singing the news she was expecting while it's impossible to know exactly how her decisions impact our future I'm confident that my decision to start the deaf certainly helped in our journey to having a baby and nonetheless a benzokar like the brachi had given the whole Shear message from the incredible impact you have on people both deaf and all the beautiful become stars who participate looking forward to being Gila attending why there's rat Hashem in just under three years for you to take part in this option regards Jack Madison Leah I've always said I don't know if there's going to be volume for this if there is it's not very good good morning yeah boy side okay he also do it it was a big horn good morning everybody it's a boy born May we all be sharing silks together sincerely talents and staff Yuma daf 75 Ezra Layton and I think that's it for today yeah we're going straight into the coilover sponsoring items from Lakewood for reforest Lima for my mother-in-laws bailoff I'm not the anonymous from Lakewood but somebody caution in Lakewood uh donated for the coil it's ten thousand dollars a month it's nice Hashem that I'm able to thank him for everything that I have um my downstairs neighbor's name is and his dedication to the sheer from your kids happy birthday and finally ah and Leia on the birth of a baby boy I don't know who did that I don't know if it's Ezra himself or somebody else because we just read his email and the Art of the month for complete reform for heimt boys so we'd like to go through do you say the suggestions that we learned this week we had a good few deaf I forgot the about you know different uh refus and different things so we don't have that many today on that final if we had them at PM volume peaks of them that uh testimony has to come from the Aiden's mouth and not from writing that I get cannot be held after me so that's part of that we were talking about just until now that you can make a condition that the gets to be held before the person dies when he dies but a get cannot happen after a person dies his reasoning is very solid Ness that's not so person when he gives a get on a certain condition he doesn't anticipate a certain oil so it doesn't it doesn't work it doesn't work is a famous concept of retroactive clarification and we're going to even talk about it today when a person stipulates in his denied he says al-manas what he means is does he mean does he not mean rebe rebe says he means to say it's going to be right now I want this to be a gift you'll figure out how to make the stipulation to work but I wanted to be again right now we said that looks like you're feeling hurts right now we're going to talk about that also today a little bit and Robin was like grab up besides three things that might be it yes okay here we are it's not awesome six lines from the bottom of Base I know him is if you sell a house in Oregon in a city that's warped so you could go all year long for the first year you could go and redeem your house back sell your house the guy who buys it is sitting there shaking the prices in real estate Are Climbing and climbing climbing and he's anticipating this guy to come and give back the money that he received by the purchase and take his house by kick him out of the house it doesn't happen he waits and waits and waits finally the last day comes last day and uh no it's gonna come he's a typical Jew he waits the last moment so you know what he does he hides he hides so once you say this the word hiding you have to say the famous Miser or performance I think if I'm mistakenly let me know I don't know the exact story I forgot some of the details but basically the kids were playing hide and go seek and the belshant of sees his grandson crime this is why he crying he says because I was hiding and I'm waiting and waiting and nobody's looking for me so Hashem started crying himself he said classroll is in goals for 1900 whatever years maybe it was in 1900 then it was 300 years ago and he said is hiding and we're not looking for him so I forgot what the fear is was not crying or like the kids are we have to remember that because hiding we have to go look for him Etc aquaponam here's the picture that Yoshi did here's a guy so and then it goes like this it kind of morphs so we don't need that now so the guy hides I guess it was a minute like during the year okay if a guy comes by and he takes his ass back great but I went through all this and I'm in anticipation that he's gonna come and kick me I didn't kick me out now on the last day what I'm gonna lose on the last day you know what he takes a trip he goes to Mexico he's gone so Hillel didn't like this that should be solid so he ran away his skin he made a special room Bill said the guy all he needs to do the seller takes the money throws it into a room via versus and he goes into his house he gets a locksmith he breaks into the house and he takes over the guy can run away he has the right to to repurchase his house the guy that was in the house and he ran away to Mexico let him come back whenever he comes back he'll take his house back fine so that's the high law NS from this gimara there's a special Takara that Hill made for a guy that ran away on the very last day she says you see that the tiger cares about somebody that runs away on the last day even though he ran away and a person could do truva even the last day of his life in other words even if he was lazy and he kept on pushing it off pushed off trouble pushed off you see from here that we care about the guy even on the on the final day final day of his life you could always do troops never too late foreign gives me a million dollars and I'll give you a gift and she gave it to him if he took it he's okay with it immigrations you see from this the kind of pillow that can't be forceful you can't force somebody to take money why instantly the hello why did he'll have to make it the card on you put it just give it to him give him the money now you're all going to say well what are you giving the money he's not here he's in Mexico so that's what I was going to say but he understood that Hill I had to make it to Connor because what if he says in the last day in other words he doesn't have to run away he just says he say I don't want to accept the money you're trying to buy your house back I don't want to sometimes it goes into a different things see that typically speaking you cannot force somebody to take the 200 zones if you made a stipulation your divorce and condition you give me 200 so she shows up at his house and she tries to get into it he can say no I don't want muscular Papa what are you talking about be saying whatever she doesn't maybe he'll was talking about a case where he literally ran away so I need a I need some sort of takana what do you do if the guy ran away what you do is I make a special box a special room and you put the money in there and it's as if you gave it I'll be fun of but if he's there he's present or maybe it's considered a good giving even though he doesn't want it too bad the tires said I could buy it back here it is is the cash you paid a hundred thousand dollars for the house here's a hundred thousand dollars you don't want it I'm gonna force it into your back yard some says from the fact that Hill said it's only because the guy might be in Mexico so I need a I need a way that he could pay back when the guy's not here it's the same people asking the question same thing but a little bit different the deal might feel the fun of Nami who told him maybe there's a difference that when it's in front when is there you need his dots but you can't force it well Nami digically talking Hillary in this case so Raji says that and he sticks in here that maybe what Hills Massacre was only a case when it came to Mama's it was it the Special the Cardinal went against somebody's house but he was never mistaken something like this similarly to get anything that has to do with the swim with the Getty wasn't a second he was a second where he needed where people ran away and there's a problem with houses but he never made a similar takana when it came to a guy's get that doesn't want to take it it doesn't it's different vehicle like the story that we had in our mishna where the the guy stipulated said I'm gonna get divorce and condition you give me a coat and or my code and the code was lost so he held that you could give even cash instead of a court is like this right right the reason why it's called is because there's two Allah if a person the businesses you have up to 30 days to bring the Uriah your proof that's case number one case number two is that they told them do you have any proof and he said no so Rashi says you just brings the gamara the in the first case that's right the second is called Raya it's the second case of right okay so in that case I love is not like I'm showing them foreign this is your get but I want I want the the paper of the get back so it's not a gift it's good why is it not again what are you say in Utah what do you say why is it not against it oh that's what Rashi says I always think something completely different anybody else have a different reason why huh I was thinking okay Rashi says Rashi says here let's see if we have the puzzle here oh you guys will say because you have to give her I thought it's a little simpler you didn't give right you didn't give her a get it wasn't a get you gave her ear not because of the positive Vanessa you just where's the gas so the rabbit learns like that attacker version I found the Rama anyway it could be once again I want the paper back I was thinking like it could be like like a rabbit he doesn't they're gonna put out a a safer egress high moisture and the first letter in there is this get that he gave his first wife you know he doesn't want it the amazing show you can look it up I remember reading this somewhere that a girl in school was really upset at her teacher every time she came late her teacher gave her a hard time so she wrote a letter to the president United States said can you please tell my teacher like give me some slack you know what do you sure enough the president United States wrote the teacher the letter I said do me a favor this little girl she needs a little slack to give her some slack it's down for the stick so the girl's parents held that it's her letter she as the president to to uh to write the letter he wrote the letter but the teacher said no he addressed it to me so they went through I don't know what happened it was a shy love what happened over there I I mean I don't understand the shadow so it seems like it's the teachers know but the girl the girl Titans is hers okay look at them but over here he says this is your get I want the the paper the paper is mine Adam gracious not not divorced um what if he says a condition now we just we even reviewed this and we had a whole situation with Revenue says Rasheen we're not going like really we're going like the other man though when you say on Manassas it doesn't mean anything it doesn't mean right now okay so again it doesn't mean right now later on the garage can say oh we are going to grabby when you say I'm an ass he means right now but right now we're not we're not holding there yet foreign both cases why at the time of the divorce she didn't have anything okay there's no Vanessa all right so by assuming I'm Leah with the case of the coat doesn't says give me my coat and she can't find this code so she could substitute the code for something else from for cash so we're also he says give me back the the paper you know what I'm not giving you back the paper I want to be divorced I'm holding on to the paper so you did have been awesome okay I'll give you the 10 cents at the paper cost you could substitute some substituting [Music] stipulated give me a code and she can't find the code so instead of a code you give cash he said specifically I want that piece of paper back and she says I here's the paper it's not lost it's right here I'm not going to give it back to you I'm gonna give you 10 cents when it's right in front of you that's wrong when she can't find it she can't come up with anything so how much is the Coco is 100 bucks here's 100 bucks maybe the husband was invited that's part of the night when husband says straight out and he has a good reason he's a red but whatever his reason is he doesn't want it he wants the paper he doesn't want anybody to make fun of him you have to give them the paper you can't say oh I'm going to substitute I love our bio money oh so for this our boy's side check this out we're gonna learn and go over this it's very very simple stuff how does a condition work the condition works based on what the third tells us about tonight being a god of nehruven and have a Chevy they can't do much for available they said we don't want to go into the straw we have a lot a lot of cattle we have a lot of sheep we like it over here everybody are there not an area okay listen if you guys go to war with Clyde Israel then we'll give you your your piece over here on the other side of the the Jordan on the other side of the yard and not another disrupt and then it continues and if you don't go you don't go then you won't get it so there's a few things going on here thing number one is it's Nightcore it was a double language if you go to war you'll get if you don't you know so we're going to go through each one each Terror to the gamar is one of these things so you know what I'm saying Okay the reason the difference is because there's no deny over here he didn't look he says I want the paper back we didn't say and if you don't give me the paper back it's not again so it's not a good night if it's not a good night what happens it's a good gift he gave her a get with the condition and it was a terrible condition he didn't say the right way he didn't say it in the right way so the condition is not a condition and the get becomes a good get is that you need a tonight you need give me the paper back and then he says and then I'll divorce you not I'll divorce you give me the paper back guess is the is it not give it back is it night the mice is to get so you need a tonight before they get if you go over if you go to war that's the tonight that's the condition if you go to war then I'll give you air I'll give you a piece I'll give you a nacho okay the other one is the governor talks about her over here in the in this get that we're talking about I'm divorcing you with this paper give me the paper back it's the same object that says the tonight and the mice are insane object in order to throw a removing there's a war and there's a piece of property you get a piece of property if you go to Wars two separate things over here if you if you give me back this paper then this paper divorces you it's the same thing and then finally does the yes should come before the no you are divorced if you don't not not you don't say the the negative First you say the positive first so let's see inside the tomorrow all these answers so this is what a knockoff looks like if you don't give it back you won't be divorced and if you give it back then you'll then you'll be divorced there should be the positive first okay so but that's not what happened here so since he didn't do this he didn't say it like that that's not what it says in the price of it so therefore it is again you're asking why to get the second part because he said almanas unconditioned and he didn't double up his Lush you know double the blushing it's as if there's no condition if there's no condition what remains I gave a get so it's again mascular Bravo that's wrong what time it only traveled at night but don't forget these four things that have to go well with this with the with the condition so Rob is picking on him you're telling me that there's only one problem problem is like no you didn't double up okay but if he did it then the condition will be a good condition and it's no gift wait a minute question why is it called it's an interesting point why is it called What's missing why not I saw that they explained that Menasha never wanted this Hashem Menasha to go with them to be makhazik then that they shouldn't go after there so to speak they weren't part of it they're not even even if there was no tanai even if they broke it they didn't go to war they would still sorry yeah even if there's even if they didn't be my kind of died they didn't go to war that's I saw my first one say this interesting fact it was really beneath another very very interesting thing that I saw is that result the reason says if you notice Hashem wasn't so upset at them could you imagine they don't want to go in there this role or the war in zionistic and if you're not you should get punished no we don't wanna we have sheep how does that make sense because you have sheep you don't want to go first the resources I've never heard this before the reason says that Hashem didn't want them to go into his shop they were pogum says it's more on this that my roommate is you don't want them in there she came up with a a thing they gave him a lot of a lot of sheep and they on their own they don't want to go in so they're not embarrassed they I shouldn't have to punish them in front of her no you don't go in they went oh you won okay fine but did they fell for the thing that result okay there's something tomorrow so again basically it's it's a fun good Mario because all these questions and answers are just a way for us to learn the different rules in a condition how it has to go robots [Music] the condition go to war is before the myself getting the land I've called tonight and over here it should be the it's not good the mice let's see if we have it who the mice is before the hare at Mugu rashes which is the the action get divorce is the action and the condition is you need it to be the opposite it should be like this should be or if you do that that's how it should be if you're going to follow the rules the reason why the gut doesn't work here and she's the the reason why I'm sorry the condition doesn't work and the divorce is the divorce write the second part of the price it's a divorce why because the condition is no good throw this out of the window she he did it like this Harriet migrations first and it should be I read the second out the window mascular or whatever so now we're just going through all the steps now that we know that there's four conditions so they're organizing each other rava how are you okay what about the third condition the third rule in the condition s oh you're telling me that that's the whole thing you have to have the action before the night so I'm sorry if the tonight is if he did it the right way where he did the condition first then she didn't return the paper so it's not again with the golden Knight match oh there's another rule that we you didn't pay attention to myself here let's see what we have here so this is a tonight and a miser in one thing it's not good you need two separate things you need land I'll give you land and gilag on condition they go to Wars two separate things so Texas points out here that if you if you recall we all do this we a lot of us do it on circus we're going with our friend he has a beautiful letter well it has to be mad so I borrow I give it to me so if you're real from and you know that Allah as well so you say listen that's how they do it by us if I'm giving this to you and if you don't return it then I never gave it to you they do a double ocean the problem is great so you did condition number one but what about this problem it's the same thing it's the same thing it's it's all within the asterisk you are you can use my answering my messages unconditionally give my answering back to me but it's all within the history sometimes it says if you look over here on the top that he says it's only when uh it ruins it [Music] it contradicts the the paper explains more what it means Corner does it if there's no paper then there's no get so they contradict each other by answering I could I could be Makai in the midst of answering but you have to give it back it's not contradictory so um so it doesn't work well again you didn't do one of the rules sure again the reason why if somebody gives a piece of paper to a woman that has to get on it it says this get is yours here you have one why not use it this paper is yours this get is yours on condition that you return it to me well he might be able to there's a Rashi over here that says that you don't even need a night couple maybe in this case that may be the whole night couples only um where was it oh but if you didn't do it like huffle like three or four lines from the bottom looks over there that maybe they would think that you don't even get a Canaan but the truth is you do they would get air skin and they just wouldn't get Gila okay so I'm not gonna say that these tirus them are oh he did do a tank offline the point is that you're missing one of these rules reason why okay so the guy says here here's a get on condition give this back to me well the problem is it's a tonight give it back to me and a miser a divorce all within one paper that doesn't work and and as Place explains they contradict each other myself so therefore it doesn't work and if it doesn't work the condition doesn't work so it's a good get because he handed her again into her hand and he said I'm giving this to you you're divorced unconditioned well the condition you could throw out and the get remains ravashi Omar Omani Rabbi another shot don't forget rebe the famous rabbit Revolution dummy since he uses the Russian I'm an ass you are divorce unconditioned up so stop it's like Pokemon the the divorce is divorce now you have to give back the paper okay but it's a good divorce ment says more like this shmuel was concerned what What's Happening Here a guy doesn't want his wife to fall the e-boom after he dies they didn't have any children together so he gives a divorce right before he dies so small says listen we have we might have a problem why if the guy is a coin and look what happens it's a big problem the guy learning achieve a little bit and he learned that you could give a get on a condition a condition that he dies and up until his death he still married her and right when he dies then retroactive he goes back and she's divorced the problem is if he doesn't say all these rules he doesn't do it with Nike he doesn't do it neither of myself he doesn't do uh what else do we learn foreign he didn't know all these rules they're hard to remember you need at least three four things you're gonna learn another one so so the concern is he gives her a get and what happens boom she's divorced because all his conditions fly out the window they're not real conditions in order to do condition you have to know knock off all you have to do is up he didn't do that so he made it says he says if you're shimra you must write off you have to write it again okay here it is what he writes I don't die then it's not again in Matthew if he dies yeah get okay so it's a double loss the the negative and he says the the positive and it's reverse if not this if he has that so he did a double action and like this it's a good condition and if he's a coin he's not going to be us with his wife because the concern is if it's not a good condition then the get is how right away if it's how right away is it quiet you can't be married to divorcee look at this lotion for a second you have the red the negative on top and the positive the green on the bottom one you say um say the green first it says what's green green is if I die that's a terrible thing to say well you don't want to start like that you have to be careful what you say we know that words carry a lot of a lot of weight and they're very important and how you say things watch a person say if he dies you just first say if he doesn't die here oh Seymour says if you say yamati this is what by the way I was very excited tonight I turned on my computer and I went into my thing and all this was in there and he saved me a lot of time and I was still late tonight oh it should say lawyer get you see the top things um the death is not over here and the mice of the action what's the action the divorce so you need that first you're not gonna write bicycle or mythical name is oh here's a fourth rule my husband alive just like by in the Torah right the positive was before the negative I've called I forget hey so too by us it should be that the the the positive the yes should be before the the no how come the nose before the the yes it's very interesting that the remote brings down that increase the Torah you should always start off with a with a a positive should be a bad puzzle again different things the some server points out that our masecta starts off with a positive rather than the next mission which is which is negative and the error person this is more of a of a path with as positive as it can be within a get it should always start off with with the with the with the positive hello you're right it's a problem very simple check this out in fact there's a no yes no so the whole first sentence you have to erase it's just redundant the lav on top is identical to the lab on the battle but what do we gain from that first of all you gain that he said yes before no but you can't say yes before no because then you're saying imati if I die and if I die it's bad it's part piranhas starting off with no puranos in Lloyd mati if I don't die that's good but you still have to say yes before no when he said no before yes so you ignore the first note so basically it's no yes no huh it's a silent no it's it's enough know that he started off good on the right foot you do the sandwich the famous sandwich in Psychology you calling your employee I hope my employees are not listening call them in you say you're a great guy and and you do you're doing so well yesterday you messed up but you're a great guy a great guy because you didn't sound but over here the the first part of the sandwich is just not to start off with piranhas but then you see if you look at the chart you see there's a yes and a no that's all we care about the essence to come before no that potato so just leave it yes and no no but then you start over piranhas you start off if I die you can't talk like that so really start over the note so it's no yes no it says it says rub inside get that's the no but you have to say yes before no so then you do this IM uh oh Frozen I don't know what that means that's another strong against the watching live okay how you doing ladies stroll it's 11 50 almost ah we're doing okay for chakras over there good 10 more minutes you get the what is foreign before the no um I'm giving you a get a condition that you keep up this guy's been sugar he married a woman and she's doing great she took care of his father but now he doesn't like her he wants to divorce so I'll give you a divorce I can listen you keep on being my father's nurse uh and he insisted in that the girl that he marries should take care of his mother help him take care of the mother so people tell me crazy you're ruining it it's very hard to find the of what girl is going to want to live with a guy or with a guy and his mother in the same house no so they went there said no you're right you should insist on it but he found a girl that agreed to marry him with taking care of the mother so they went back to him he said listen you have to find a place for your mother to put in a nursing home or something Rashida said I should insist he said yeah you have to insist on a girl that will take care because you need a girl that has good middles and agrees to it but if it makes no sense for you to live in the same house with your mother get her out of here immediately okay next case okay listen I don't know where what what marriage you had the son from if it's her though his son so she should probably nurse him anyway but he made a condition with her um he made a condition with her that our son or my son I don't care who it is you have to nurse him ask him yes yes no no no get so if you think about it stop it's it's a nice idea when a family picks themselves up from let's say from Chicago and move San Francisco the little baby never moved the baby doesn't know Chicago Arizona makes zero difference to the baby the mother is holding the baby the mother nurses the baby and that's all the baby cares about goes on a plane goes off the plane was this country in that country it doesn't matter where we are and where we are and where we're not and the biggest Raya is if you think about Shanghai the wood facts and the Laboratories are both there right they were in the middle of nowhere but because they were in Academy's hands and they treated them like like malach and they say I don't know the whole story there but they gave them oranges even though it was couldn't get and they gave me this again that because when you're in a country you go without the whole world over there the people are dying in it we're over here with that shot okay he didn't stipulate how long so the normal is says the station until he's two years old two years 18 months what if the father dies or the little son dies how does it get she tried to do everything she can do he never stipulated how long she asked the nurse he meant to say as long as he needs a nurse now he's no longer in this world so it's a good get stipulates exactly the amount of time I want you to to take care of the father for two years he says you have to nurse myself for three years and there's no more sun to take care of yeah or the father says I had enough of you I don't like you anymore get out of here it's not her fault she's not the one that got angry it's the father even if it's the father another of his world ain't no good it's not again certainly if she's the one that caused the whole thing then then then of course it's not a gift but even if it wasn't her fault she tried to serve him and the father kicked her out of the house and again it's not again why because he stipulated a certain amount of time you have to serve my father for two years it didn't happen the the night didn't happen you are not divorced because they get yes it is a get why clown if she if she's not responsible for the delay over here she's not the one that didn't want to work she wanted to nurse she wanted to take it and another side thing happened it's not involved it is a good good now so that's my fortune the prices all she needs to do is Nurse him one time not even a whole day one time how does it get then is it gonna get um remember the story with the code the husband says I'm divorcing my condition he gave me a coat my coat description says you don't have to get a call give a hundred thousand instead I'm saying you do have to give so may long my sneezing representative [Music] our missions so let's see rash inside real quickly right where it says I can't I can't explain a bit of the rash Rashi does amazing always but especially over here when it comes to code then you don't have the code you lost the code give it money instead this is amazing what Rashi says he's trying to benefit here says Rashi he didn't he just wanted to benefit but it wasn't a stipulation that she had to do 10 jumping jacks he wanted to benefit he wanted to get a free nurse it's not because they want to punish her you want a divorce you have to do XYZ no he just wanted to save ten thousand dollars a month for the nurse his father dies okay so I don't care anymore but it wasn't a stipulation but life David Karma because says he's just trying to benefit he's just he wants he needs to wear a coat wasn't a stipulation to make you crazy so Milo whatever whatever the the baby needs and since there's no baby no so you have to go as long as they're around but according to hamem one time would be enough okay [Music] um it's a nice try if you look at our mission um how can you say that the the end of the mission says the beginning of the mission is hello right [Music] the prices says one day is enough Mr says two years so now we're gonna flip it Brian Leo the makeup with knife when it comes to code he says a thousand says give me a code you don't have to give a code to give money in our missionary he says the baby dies it's so fine the the the father says I don't want you to be my nurse it's a good guy she's Mako Mass Nissan do not make no you have to do a whole two years [Music] look cash he didn't he didn't he didn't specify a certain amount foreign where he didn't specify so you have to go for for as much as the Dominic is the minute is two years so you go two years or a guy specifies and he says one day so it's one day I'm actually on my Coast time is a big problem wait a minute the mission is stabbed he didn't exact amount of time so if you didn't stipulate the exact amount to one day but the mission says it's two years how how are we going to get around that it's two years not one day everything makes sense when it doesn't explain so you have to do the Dominican Malcolm and that's two years or 18 months when he said straight out one day one month whatever so you go by that she is [Music] according to you one in two years you just said one when a person calls Stam it means one day so in the mission he didn't mess it's one day he says yes it always means one day second business is two years you didn't understand the mission doesn't mean that you shouldn't nurse for two years the mission means to say up until two years let's say the guy is 50 years old could he nurse from his mother no it's too late it's up until two years old there's a limit 18 minutes in a few minutes [Music] what if you she can't do the condition because there's no more sun there's no the father's second at it slow back for the eve even in a case where it wasn't her fault the parish at the end in the in the safer the missionaries talking about that they stipulated so my law when he stipulated why do you stipulate why did he say so as she goes into this well maybe you'll see Rashi actually right why do you stipulate to bother her because without stipulating it would be automatic two years so why did it have to be even Farish a el ravashi Meister ratio safe so let's see Rashi over here Rashi deeper masculerevashi see this Rashi four lines now other rational numbers because if a person doesn't stipulate it's automatically one day she says where she didn't nurse him even one time you know what that is that's a thing that never was even for a minute what happens if a person makes a condition and nothing was ever McQueen then there's no condition it says tonight how could it be so we must we're forced to say since nothing will nothing no part of the tonight was McQueen so how come she's divorced so the proud the thing is that the father didn't really want to make her do something the husband didn't want to make her do it tonight we have to say there's in reality there's no tonight let's look at his North Knight what he wanted to do is he wanted to make sure that his son somebody's nursing a song no son okay so you don't have to nurse but not that he wanted the wife to do XYZ 10 jumping jacks as a condition he had a side thing he wanted to make sure that somebody nurses son but it wasn't conditioned so if it wasn't a condition then that came or asked my generation that in both cases there shouldn't be enough Camino there's no condition Casio for that versus I have a wonderful day amazing tomorrow you know