Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 73 by R’ Eli Stefansky

go good morning wrap boys we talk about this all the time it's not about the daf it's about the yomi and every time I mention it I talk about tonight keeper those are the two big ones you have the fact that it's 11 15 at night after a fast and people come out to learn Tyra everybody has their excuse the migraine and the nausea and everything else you come out and you learn Tyra there's nothing better there's nothing bigger that consistency is what makes that fiami so powerful and you should for being here tonight um I just wrote myself over here that I wanted to read this email on Sunday the bigger oil mutually on Sunday probably a very small island tonight nevertheless it was a very powerful email so I want to read it they wraps the fancy we met at Tannersville being there was one of the highlights of my life I can't really express it but it was we talked about how I didn't learn guitar for over 50 years until I was introduced to yeshir I went to Highline for Rockwood now highlight is very close to me because my mother Sean was a teacher there so was my aunt I think my aunt was even maybe more than a teacher but she was in highlight and this individual was in highlighting if Iraq oil and from my first day in high school there I caught gemara to play basketball I continued playing for over 20 years until my aquilas gave out after all these years you've changed my life and opened up a new meaning to Tyra thank you for making my life Fuller and more meaningful you're truly amazing fulfillment to many other Yiddish Souls Charlie seed said how do you pronounce s-e-i-d-e Charlie very very about 50 years 50 years boys I want to show you also this gives a tremendous physique I don't know if they are live right now it's possible I know they wanted to go live now but this is what it looks like in Rama on an average day this was taken two days ago check this out foreign [Music] it's unbelievable I counted 30 people in the group over here this individual came yesterday he flew in from uh somewhere next to Orlando just for the sheer and he flew right back iron shulum felderbaum told me I don't say his name well February he's a person that really is he works on himself a lot and uh he felt that if this above he has to come here and he came he came a little bag of food and then he went right back is unbelievable for coming I heard that someone from the sheer listen to this web always say this is unbelievable from this is I think because anybody that writes sheer s-h-e-e-r to music is English I heard that someone from the sheer is looking for a kidney if I'm a match I'm willing to give my kidney decision my blood type is B plus you can contact me at 718-259 and then I erase the rest please keep my name anonymous look and uh Grossman is a very very special bachar from Pittsburgh his whole family they lost their father and the sheer they the mother plays the sheer in the house for I don't know three four years already every single day she plays it loud and here I think about she Grossman is becoming tonight multitish above in Lakewood in the memory of his of the third yard side of his beloved raise the ghetto bass Zev foreign uh boys side here we go again we're having uh I appreciate everybody's uh patience I know we're supposed to start a time we hired a guy actually to set everything up and he did let me just get this going so we know I noticed that the shoe room since I'm in Chicago are longer than usual uh I don't know it's because the more relaxed here they don't have the chakras pushing you know and we actually do need more time uh I feel bad for the guys over there and uh remember the challenge to like ah okay where's the remote here uh we had here that if a person doesn't a person who's a get gives a get on condition that he's going to leave this world because of this disease that he has and he had another disease but he never got up from the first disease it was continuous one disease led into another he was always in bed he's always in the hospital so it's green it's a good get the get that it gave on condition is a good get foreign we had on the flip side all the way in the bottom what's not again is if a person gave a get on condition that he will die from this disease and he completely recovered and then he had another disease but he completely recovered so his condition is not a condition and therefore it's not a gift and then we said but what if it's somewhere in between he got up from his disease but he's still in a wheelchair he's still with a walker on a machine she's not really so you have to go to the doctor you have to check it out it says um we're like three lines from the top of my gimla without him [Music] same kind of case but not again but rather a gift and he went from one disease to another he said hey here here's all my stuff I don't know he feels like he's gonna pass so he gives his stuff and then he gets another disease you can learn that this the gift is a gift even though he went to another disease but he didn't get out from the disease that that's clear unless of course he's somewhat of a he got out of it and then the doctor said that it's not from the first disease but if if one goes into the other it's a good Matana the um you only get one question so decide right now if that's what you want okay great what's your question yeah yeah well he doesn't have to say it when it comes to schumera it's we we know we know what's going on we see that he's in the hospital they tell him he's in Hospice it's like his last days and he gave it yeah so he doesn't even have to make a Kenyan you know then he flipped he died from another thing then he dies from a pneumonia so you can't you can't give questions no I heard that Roman King it was good I want you to ask the question now what in the mishnah Rashid just points out in the mishnah the guy says so when a guy says dying from this disease then you need to come and then take a doctor and see is it this disease not this disease but my by this matane it didn't really say that so therefore even it goes into another disease we don't really need to check him out Robin without any condition and then he wakes up he recovers according to get his bottle now obviously everybody hold that if he's made a condition this is the condition according to everybody's butthole the big question is what if he didn't make a condition we understand that this is what he wants we understand that there's some condition here so everyone says it's bottle by itself without him making a good dish so they argue on [Music] the remote why so they say like this they say but it's right you don't have to make a condition the guys dying and we understand why he gave a get and if he recovers then obviously it's not a get he never intended to give a get one if he recovers right just we rather say we have a different problem so check this out the other guy that's dying in the hospital but if he dies it's a get if he wakes up and recovers it's not a gift so people are gonna start saying wait a minute if he recovers is not a good that means the get didn't happen until he dies when he dies all of a sudden it's again oh the reason why it's again is because there's a get after he dies they don't reason they don't realize that that's not the truth the truth is to get his beforehand just if he recovers it's not again but people are gonna get confused zero zero that if he doesn't make a condition they're not going to happen kind of thing that's a retroactive kind of get and therefore they said again like that is not again is well it is again sorry it's again ravuna says and we have this a number of times a very very famous gamara mamish word for word um it's not again it's bottle everyone is right if you get then he recovers it's not again everybody understands that again says it's not again wait a minute so they're saying that it's not it should not be a get and she is married to this guy but we're gonna be geyser that she's not married to the shimra and she goes ahead and she marries anybody she wants in the world it's just knows the answer here what do you say hey yes uh marriage that happened years ago when do we say that we are macadasai Israel so I'm being encouraged my wife like the right 30 years later to go into my marriage retroactively and I know it completely so I was never married to that woman she is not always [Music] this is the continuation of every time brings this because that's great when it comes to monetary stuff but how could they undo a condition that happened would be um they have the right even in the bill to go ahead and decide what the bee was it wasn't a beer for kadushan and therefore it was a BF and she was never married to you therefore she goes and she married somebody else foreign seeing you unconditioned that he dies from this Mahalo and he didn't end up dying from this makla he ended up being on Seaside over the Surfside and the building collapsed on it and he died [Music] and what is this called this is called uh whoa spongy crooked let's do that again maybe we can make it straight again he didn't anticipate this he thought he's going to die from this disease and then all of a sudden comes and you know uh Los Angeles was based on the on on the Los Angeles has no Hana when he when he bites and I said this there's a maybe uh when I get when I get his tickets and I remember his name completely I'll say the money so but Mark Ashkenazi told me was a very powerful thing for him so I'll say it over again I'll come a little person wants to talk lotion and he stops talking to another but he says to himself I am not saying the solution horror for you Hashem it's a whole different McGregor this is a guy that stops talking it's unbelievable but when you say it straight out you make a deal with Hashem Hashem listen I really want to say this but I'm not going to say it because I love you and I'm doing this for you a whole nother madrego um you see what's going on here it seems like a contradiction this is your get if I die from this disease and then that house falls on him or he gets hit by a snake and again it's not again then we see another case if I don't recover from this disease it is again it almost seems like the same case with complete opposite outcomes Vice Generations what's the difference no Muzzle hey divorce his wife unconditioned that he dies from a certain disease and he walks out of the hospital mom is right after the chemo treatments and a lion ate him myself a lion ate this guy so is that part of his condition or not part of this is a very very interesting question he says he's going to die from and then a lion came and made him up he he managed thought he's not going to make it he thought that the doctor said three weeks it's over and he ended up dying but from something completely different so they said and there's Israel and why it's not and therefore his gut is not a good he thought he's dying from from immacula not from it from a light it has to be the Tyson says something so simple like it's surprising that our Gamora doesn't talk about it but he says this tremendous difference between the two cases because if you look at the words what he says I won't get up very good I'm down towards he says I won't get up he didn't get out from the disease so what if a lion killed him so what if he got hit by a car he did not get so the the Knight was Kyle the first thing he was if I die from this disease did he die from this disease no he died from a lion so that's why it's not a god but the second case it is again because he didn't get up from the disease Texas loves that answer we for some reason don't have that answer oh God bro yeah I got it though no I'm kidding oh God it sounds like that song there was a person who so who bought land from his friend the who this is a little confusing Rasha says twice in both cases that we're gonna have the seller accepted upon himself the king came and said take the river and go through here go through this field destroying everything is that considered what is that called based on what we're learning the whole time it's the oiliness nobody anticipated that a king is going to come and say put the river right through over here also gonna be the river normally so Ravena said you gotta settle but Carlos you the seller accepted upon yourself any owners every onus every onus that's normal maybe a heavy rain whatever though this is not that a king is going to decide one day I mean the domain and go right through my field and destroy the government [Music] he's wrong if I don't get up from this disease and then he had honestly a snake bit him to death I raise again it is a good guess great you're asking me from a Bryce or one part of the Bryson is against me but guess what uh the first part of the price is like me why you asking me a question from what we just said there's a contradiction in the Brazil it's almost the same case forget the Irish Army says beautiful yeah but badly doesn't hold it is holds that the two cases are the same and we don't stand the difference two cases a guy gave a get that has to do with this disease and that then he got killed by something completely different like a lion like a snake like a house so you asked me from from part of the The Bryson that says it's a get and it's a casual oh you see is good so it says Robert yeah but the other part of the Bible says it's not a get or is it it's not good um you know well I don't understand you what you're saying rather but it's still there's a price against you or Malay in Davies since there's some sort of contradiction between the original safe and we don't we can't figure it out so you should know this is a price that's not even learned in Yeshiva um it's a messed up Bryce uh so if you don't have a price so you have to use your own Common Sense what's common sense nobody thinks about the guy never anticipate getting eaten by a lion and when he said I'm gonna give his wife a get he's gonna give his wife again on condition that he dies from his own disease and not from a lion the same kind of story wrap up everybody they bought a bunch of Sesame I even have a picture if you don't know what it looks like they bought a bunch of Sesame very heavy amount of sesame where they buy it on the banks of Najar Malco Auguste labrinos they hired Sailors to take it over the river the seller said hey I I realize that you're traveling now with all the Sesame I the seller I'm accepting it by myself all onions that are gonna happen to you in other words while the somebody's gonna steal from you on the way it's gonna spoil all the regular oints him the soap is stacker in the higher Malco there's a dam in the river and they couldn't go anymore I'm relay sort of Papa and rapuno said a guru hamaria alone you are responsible to get our Sesame from here to there now the cheaper way is to go by boat you can't go by boat you're gonna have to take a camel and go all the way around whatever you have to do will take you six days I don't care you promised talking about that columns himself you said any ideas you're stealing the garments of people your your Russian and you pull a fast one on them this is not common so let me show you but first of all so the first time ever I did this this is my picture then the second time uh Yoshi Drew this from scratch and I saw this at um them I asked I showed him this picture I said what is this what song is this and they said Captain we are white geese and it's an expression of your two old men you two white beards white you know white yeah the white guys tiger shiver and then for today he did this above it's not Mama's geese okay fine empty white ducks the Seder ER says so actually we have we have the this case that we spoke about a lot yesterday if a person gives a get me from now if he dies he's trying to save his wife from Evil he doesn't want to get the vote he can divorce right now he doesn't want to divorce her right now he's going to visit in the hospital you know he has children in with her he's a divorce she's a perfect wife all he wants to do is no he doesn't have children with her because then he wouldn't want to say he has no children sorry erase but she's a good wife why should he divorce her he's only doing her a favor the moment he dies he wants to be hell the moment he dies so here's your gift today and when he dies then they get his child retracted the Shiloh is what happens in between could they live together could they be together there's a lot of shine it's not Allah because when he does die a year later retroactively they were divorced the year before so now he's with a divorced woman the whole time it's a big crowd says the mission they're not allowed to be together hello before they ate them unless there's people there Africa so you don't have to have the biggest stadium in the world just so that there's no relations because the concern is either that the relations that they have after you give the get he's gonna have carvana to be my kardasher so yeah it's a get but after you give a get he got married again so now she needs another gift or there's another prop the problem is they're not allowed to be with a plan she's unmarried she could be unmarried because at the moment that he dies to get is how retroactive and it is how retroactive then she's not married she's a blue and now he's having relations with also problematic foreign from her own servant she'll do anything in front of her and therefore she's not a good streamer is my boys are young what is she considered in those days and review is I just wanna that's why I have on this chart right over here so we could get familiar with it the more rolling the bottom of the summer is going to say that we're not talking about the classic case that we're talking about that to get is called today right now if he dies later retroactive back Ella says we're talking about a similar case but very different where they get is how one minute before he dies let's give out like so they are he thought he's givaldik he thought he's doing a like a tremendous trick that they could be married the whole entire time until 59 seconds before he dies so they could have relations and everything's good but no on that review that says you cannot because every given moment might be the moment before he dies yeah we say all the time I'll tell you the chef actually today what today is it could be the last day of your life you always have to live today's your last day of your life maybe that's not I didn't mean you know what I'm saying right now you have to live that who knows it could be the last moment so we're gonna see more a little bit nicer than what I just explained you can always gonna explain even better talk about it bro should this afternoon oh time out uh oh there's no sponsors no sponsors so let's pay attention to this Bryce over here we're going to be discussing this price until the end of The Omelette case number one they saw this divorcee we're talking about not the case of the mission a divorcee ruvane was married for 10 years he divorces his wife 100 she's gone a month later people see something funny they see the X knocking on the door and he opens up the door door closes no everybody starts tumbling what's going on what happened they saw it was at night more than you who didn't see it's a very interesting lotion I I can't explain it I don't know what exactly this means they saw that they're under the bed but one thing that came to mind the Dublin imagine says the famous Marshall he says was could I to say over and over he says that there was a peasant a poor peasant you really wanted to make it to the city go to the city you need a train so he saved money and saving and saving finally the day comes he goes to the train station goes to the booth and he says I want to go to the city so the guy says how do you want to go first class second class third class is I don't know I don't know what is that I don't know whatever whatever I give him the pile of money whatever I could afford yeah I looked at the pile of money he says oh first class first class using the tickets The Peasant goes to the platform and he looks around and he sees a bunch of people with Hats scarves you know those days with the the long coats with the Velvet that's not me that's not my type she keeps on walking he sees you know the dress is pretty nice not me she goes a little bit further he sees a guy with a goat a guy with a Dover Acker with a pig one guy with two cows just tickle mud ah Mars This Is My People so he gets on with them all of a sudden the middle of the of the ride the door between the trains opens and everybody makes a dash and this guy runs on the hair and this guy hides in the bathroom so yeah it's under the under the bench lies in the bench but his leg was sticking out a little bit the conductor comes by grabs him by the leg Yanks him out forcefully and says let me see your ticket right now pulls out a ticket the guy he looks at he says just my sugar they have a ticket for the first class and you're hiding under the bench in a third class what is wrong with you you paid for this ticket and this is what you're doing says Claudia stroll paid the biggest price we paid with the hormone abayas we lost we lost millions of people during this and from that moment on we lost tens of millions of nashamas one sorry after another one there after another zero there is and we just lost six million and six million six million miles now when I was born was only like 30 years before I was born that's how close right we paid the ultimate ultimate ultimate price and what do we do we hide under the bed we hide under the bench you should go out there and use our ticket why are we here why are we hidden were you then so we could serve a question instead we hide a little less Netflix a little less YouTube a little less this because that's where we are we're wasting our time don't know why I came in there but that's what it says the hiding under the bed foreign so listen if you just read it it needs a lot of explanation what's going on if you caught them so you don't have to be concerned that maybe use mechado will see exactly what it could mean if that means Okay so basically it means that we're not concerned that she needs another get he gave her a get and then they had some relation but it was and he didn't have any cavanity again so she doesn't need another Gap no you have to be concerned that they had good intent over here and he's reading the conditioner and so she needs another gift my karma what's going on here we're gonna have three attempts here if you remember I just mentioned yesterday or van or I don't remember two days ago renoffman was the talmud of Robert of RAV just to remember just to as we go through shots hopefully we get to remember more names okay foreign [Music] if he gave her money it doesn't even mention anything about money oh if you no so don't stop that's good actually points out because it's nuts she doesn't need to get it he gave her a get then there was Anna so you don't need to get it your toilet didn't know it's not a shop means I have to be concerned and therefore you need another get no if I care because it's nose you don't need a kid okay no Gap I said it's just stack of the other lotion fine the amino on this it was money firstness the AIM you don't have to get because when I considered we're not concerned that he was mechanically out of my doing college so again if they saw that the zihood then we're not we don't think anything happened there's no beer no beer but if they saw their own eyes that this beer then then we have to be conscious Ness and uh so forget it so it goes like this if you saw beer then if you saw money in other words okay foreign [Music] but even when he gives her money he says even when there's a money about maybe it's not just because so now the guitar is going to say three times on all three children we have to understand this this memorable when this when a person goes again Arabic situation person is good and they end up in a hotel so according to be shamai she doesn't need a second guy according to be still they need a second get what in other words so we have to figure out basil really because so let's see um is fits into what we just said he said that the that those Witnesses the relations but if there's nobody witnessed it and what this time that's nothing there's nothing there's not nothing happened that fits in great the problem is it doesn't fit the whole terracism finishes about it you're sticking in a whole story that it's not brought down on the browser you're saying that they saw a transaction of money where does it say anything about money and the price it says but don't talk about money foreign [Music] foreign what does the word aft mean if the tanakama says there is condition s in another case but they say the telegram says anything he says Ah you should just say what's the word even doesn't fit in here okay so again we're bringing the same revelation we said before we need to finish this shadow of a body again let's start from beginning says that if they saw there was bigger then we don't care we don't think this is nuts he doesn't like the fact that there's money in that money there's no this has nothing to do with the money it's when they saw that it was Bia it's not and therefore there's no get and review this says that we saw we saw before Michelle that the couple ex couple the ex-wife went into the hotel with her ex-husband so according to base hello you need another get is foreign only according to uh I don't like the word f over here but Europe shot doesn't make so much sense why it's a very nice shot but the the wording doesn't fit it according to the tanakama you don't need to get because it says you do need again because illusion so what's f even what he's simply says I say yes what is even even a case so for that Robert says over here not only in a case where they saw beer but even now it makes sense means even in another case where they didn't see anything zero remember before we had a whole sort of you didn't see anything nothing happened no it really says if you didn't see anything happen just a knock on the door she walked in so not only if they saw her questions so Rashi says over here because since they used to be married then libom gas and Rashi says a tremendous thing oh in other words when a couple is so used to each other because they used to be married to each other then if they get into a room by themselves that's it then I know what happened I don't need anybody else to tell me if it's another couple if it's not too strangers I don't have that kind of ethos but because this is the story of reviews foreign [Music] but my head went there he brought um I think of it yeah with remote was it yeah yeah I think it was this morning that remote they came to him with a a thing for a gift for a Russian and what was the child over there that even though uh the kids are emotional one of them they're gonna get and the story was that the the guy came in in middle and he says great news this is not even Jewish so you don't need to get like laughing because they were working so hard to get get together to start laughing remember she broke down crying this is another year to married a girl you give his mama but he was going into this idea of Henkin what was the child again of him do we say that even though they were they were married in Russia in a secular marriage it's still oh that was the problem the problem was that with these Russian couples they they get divorced in a secular divorce and then they marry somebody else it's a probably basic decision but the thing is oh they never got married with so everything I wanted to say that there is that they want to be married and therefore that that constitutes there is a problem okay but he threw on this word brings here foreign [Music] I wish I hope I don't know if they're going live over there but if they are the island gave me I know I saw it tonight they took the uh definitely hey whatever tap him of the gemara of kanzibar cancer you're safe thank you you're safe if you hear this yeah he's gonna edit he took it and he put into one video and just today just today 3 000 people watched it just the gamara of times of America beautiful it should be there for years to come who knows if they'll find the next dish above I don't know oh oh but now now finally you can ask the question and finally the same review that we brought down twice they went into open dog foreign [Music] we just said that you need to get and I was saying come on come on even if you saw that she's never alone we say this nose of course you see even again okay so we're just gonna do this little piece over here and we'll be managed to finish on time oh my boys so this woman we understood it was talking about a case of we'll just go back to this chart I like this simple tonight that's what we thought you'd get today oh tomorrow yes we are watching live hi a good a good thing you are I don't know what you say after digital okay we're almost done almost done we could start chakras even before when I'm in uh RBS even before that 8 15. so my invoice I mean we thought the case is like this the guy gives a get he thinks he's dying it's going to be get from now I'll give you today it might be if I die if he when he dies then to get his retro app so what status does she have from the time he gets the get until he dies the two years in between so everybody says maybe it says something listen to this no I'm kidding if the the whole thing is only how when he dies in other words according to I I didn't mention that but if you say that she's a Suffolk so Suffolk means you have to bring a carbon what is it called uh awesome though you bring on a on a Suffolk but if he didn't die then you bring it she's over yeah foreign [Music] one minute one moment before he dies and I never know when that one moment is so listen to this Rashi says sticks in one word here and that is the word retroactive clarification so when he didn't die when he doesn't die so I know that she wasn't divorced right she had a relation with she's married to Reuben she goes and she has relations with chin hoping that her husband is going to die within a moment and if you die within a moment then she divorced and she's not Asian she wasn't over unfortunately for her her husband didn't die he died a year later so it comes out that when she had relations she was Iran ish that's called but through active clarification but listen to this beauty because he says but at the moment when she had relations we didn't know that he didn't die it could be now he is going to die in one moment so at that moment it was a Suffolk what happens five minutes later says everybody say I don't care it's not going to change the fact that when they had relations she was a Suffolk that Suffolk remains forever says review I argue on your review though ribihooda says it turns out that she was Asian dish and she says foreign you have to kill her whatever it is no not true because at that moment there was a Suffolk the hindsight 2020 very good later on he found that he didn't die but that's later on but at the time when she was Oliver you didn't know [Music] he says there's no break repeat as the Suffolk remains forever I now is an inspired this topic I know I know the facts that's too late that's hindsight 2020. a Monday Morning Quarterback you can't do that at the time this is what I knew and what I knew is that I have a self except at that time you have to bring awesome thought as a result there I think we're done for today rap boys I have a wonderful day you should see uh