Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 36 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai all right I thought this is a cute little story from yesterday a kiss from Hashem to me I'd like to share with you uh a clip from yesterday's year and I'll explain so my sister I said this in sheer I was once for some weird reason I went on top of my plot like on the top shelf where I can't reach certainly my wife and other people can't reach I took a chair went up there and I see a pile of money and I realized that I put that pile of money there was like a Matana like wow so I was thinking about it yesterday and I went back to that shelf I know that I don't put money there anymore because I'm not gonna be crazy so I go back to that shop just to see like the thing about the Visa and what do I find a bottle of open wine it's probably there for three months already my wife put it there because she didn't want the you know because we have help whatever that is okay you know what happened yesterday so this is the maisa I I put money up on the Shelf I didn't know about it for who knows how long a year two years I went up there once I was I don't know what I was doing there I found the money that I said yesterday in cheer yesterday afternoon this is my you can't make this stuff up it happened yesterday afternoon a woman calls up my wife and says are you Mrs the fansky yeah your name is fagi yeah your husband Azalea I found your Suba on top of my refrigerator and I already have beer of 47. my we did not you know we had to do a story here because so whatever I put I guess that's my nature I put things high up and forget about it for a while my sister yesterday no the star of the Arkansas it's a I already lost my Suba by by the hasana we made a star there because uh and apparently lost that also in Irish habira 47 26 years ago it's been on top no you make another story there yourself is sitting on top of the refrigerator and I'm talking about it yesterday this woman she didn't know who we were it says Ellie and fagi from Chicago she did some research you found out yesterday what's your name from Flatbush what's your name hold on we have more show me what's your name yo what also from Dakota from yesterday wow two people from the coastal yesterday I went to I had another hospital for my son no him I met his wife his wife came over to me so I guess he said what do you say if your wife saw me then you die you have to come also all right and you're a rabbi Winehouse oh White House all the way from Lakewood New Jersey I know for years I know him so well I don't even know his last name what's your first name Sally the young man White House yeah not White House all right close but not real okay you squad for coming so who else do we have here guest anybody did you bring your who's that with you I saw like him dad come on in the rebelly's 3 am in the morning what's the Chavez couldn't sleep so I turned you to do today's dance gimmel I wrote you home and then I started to see him Miami that would should be as cool for myself and one of those other kidney transplant he's on the kidney transplant list I'd like to give a shout out to my javruso shmuel saroka in Lakewood Colorado here in North Miami Beach that arranged an awareness swine party here in Miami Beach with a great organization he got 200 people to attend and more than half of them did swabbing such a great Community as well as having such great friends there is a channel find a kidney for me so that I can continue to do the dot with you that I so much enjoy until I'm 120 hey Goodman Goodman you mentioned today is 35 about the Hillman cloth not sure if you're aware there's a project called the Hillman cleft Fila check out the website with dozens upon doesn't recording an important reading tell them from claf and praising the project just for an FYI good morning I'm amazed if I started your I didn't finish accepting my lifetime now I'm going on to finish my 14th Miss sector a day since this is Yankee Brooke so I want you to remember Yankee Brock whenever he shows up here because he's coming soon Yankee Brock b-r-u-k images show this coming week you know how I am he's gonna say thank you so you're gonna have to remind me the guy from the email thank you for what you do for all of us thanks to my cousin Klein for getting me hooked may you have a broken Chef everyone today thank you bro we're moving forward the coil is sponsored by now it's from Lakewood Laura Forrest my mother-in-law remember Yemen the mother-in-law is Esther based and the kylo the sponsorship the Mississippi Hashem that I'm able to thank you for everything that I have the month of the month Hashem should open up all the teenage Miser to remainder is and they're missing the Torah that they used to learn what do you do when people sit Shiva and they finish they skip ahead seven daf you don't try to make it up or boys don't try to make it up brain intact unleash your full potential execution tremendous success in all my endeavors who didn't change your name yet on her 35th wedding anniversary today I stopped obviously he didn't write that I don't think she's gonna appreciate that let's cut no we're not cutting art of the month let's say there for complete reforms AI we're holding the flamingham base and the mishna tells us that an armada should not swear in order to get her tsuba and therefore she doesn't get a tsuba but she has a way out of it she could make a nether also is it all right so to be over on the nether land asks but what good is another even if she makes a net there she could do one of these she could go from the three and they could be Mater nether this is another of the husband this is nether of a business they say they ask a few questions and they decided it wasn't even a nether so she wants to collect this big Suba she goes to bed and says I am making a nether I won't eat food forever if I'm gonna be over in the nether so they say okay you seem like you're serious and is this of their eyes they break the nether she collectsuba a minute after she collects of tsuba she goes in front of her best and says listen I made a nether I'm not going to eat food anymore they forget to ask her why and how I made another I was stupid I made it now I'm not going to eat food okay she gets a Suva she doesn't have to worry about it neither says because we hold like the manometer that you have to be Farrah together you have to explain everything about the nether why it happened why you did it where you did it under what circumstances once come here the reason they're not going to be matter Ebola who eight lines from the bottom sorrowful fire this under there you have to be fair now this reminds you a little bit of the lotion that we say Gibson so if a person knows about a certain nether that he made if a person makes a nether maybe to be messiah's himself in the Mitzvah and he wants to be Mata the Nether on Irish just the loose lotion that we use in Roshana he should take the day on him and he say listen I have a serious nether that I made uh my entire life I was eating call of Israel only and now he's starting to call stop whatever it is whatever is that it should be far in it okay well the gamara says do you have to be fired or not do you have to explain exactly what it is you don't have to be fire you don't have to give all the details to the rabbis the arm is sort of zillion the guy is what happens if he chops off some of the information like in our case she'll forget conveniently to explain that the reason why she made another she's not gonna eat food is in order to collect the tsuba just basing it on what she said she said I made a nether I'm not gonna eat food she skipped three quarters of the story and therefore there I have Farah is not a pharah she's a Ghana she's she took a super without getting a photo she's breaking a nether you have to hear all the details Michelle exactly because of our sugar we have to hear all the details let us let's hear maybe the reason why you made a net there is because it's something we don't want to give you something very interesting places I'm not going to earn any money anymore I'm done I'm done making Panasonic um so instead of just relying what he said and giving authors another he kept on pushing who does something like this why would you say you're not going to make paranos anymore this guy had a gambling problem he wanted to get out of his addiction so he made another if I ever a gamble I won't eat anymore I won't have any protein anymore something serious and now he regrets it he wants to go gambling his friends are going to Vegas or whatever he wants to go she goes to the road he says listen I made a nether that I'm not going to eat protein anymore so the rough could have said okay or he could say listen why why what happened now he realized I can't be Mata this nether because I'm I'm gonna ruin it for the guy he's going to ruin his life by gambling places so by us also we have to dig deeper and to see the real reason why this woman decided that she's that she made a nether once the Rob hears that there's a super involved he won't be matter it's none theless hustle if a person a coin marries let's say a Groucho or something that's puzzled him he cannot do that in the base of English he could still be married her but if he says a nether I'm making a nether that I'll never if I have any I know from my wife this and this is going to happen to me I won't eat protein anymore I won't eat food then he doesn't even have to divorce her on the spot he's in the basement he really feels the connection he wants to do that before he wants to go under his bed I can perform that fight she makes another says I'll never benefit from my wife in other words he's basically divorced but not divorced legally so you could do that voice play neither makes the nether you're ready he goes off to miss bear or wherever he's at um and then he performs The Garrison we are minister of the foreign had the same store that we had in Chicago I said this many times in the Adas there was a guy uh Korean that was married to a grusha and the rabbona pasigan that as long as he married Russia we can't even retired from Dominion he came every single day it was very very uncomfortable he would sit there he would finish one answering we would wait for the 11th guy exactly I know the exact feeling because it happened to me many times when he died in the street looking in my bed they saw a smile yeah they saw the guy with the shaved beard you're not gonna start go to your show anyway it's not a comfortable feeling what am I a garnished yes you're garnished okay good fine so what okay I didn't say we're in Ramadan they were my bad somebody anyway so Jesus the first five minutes so this guy so in Europe what they did a very very gishmaker trick the Rob said to the entire city there will not be any birkus until this guy divorces his wife and the story the other comes and goes nobody's got him so people started getting mad once they got mad they let it out on him they kept on pressuring pressuring him and then he divorced his wife and when he divorced his wife the rub awarded him the source of being the only kind in the city to do that that's what it was myself so we have this guy V armrest and it's okay says we had yesterday this is a very strong leather if you do the nether in front of 10 people then it takes effect and you can't be matter like that says that's great if you hold like that that if you do it from 10 people you can't go to a rub anymore you can't go to the yard foreign if you do it with their mashava he's not in charge anymore so he can't go to the best and say well if I would have known this and this and that I wouldn't have made the nether because we're not asking you we're going to ask the 10 people and the 10 people probably wouldn't give in if you get all these 10 people and say would you if it was you would you make this nether yeah some would say yes you have 10 people you don't know what's gonna happen the kids there's no there's no first in Durham when it's the 10. if it's in front of ten okay this is with their intent with their mashava then you can't break another like that but there is one foreign you can read my own right okay right behind me Lee says that's only if it's just a regular thing if I don't do x y z I won't eat protein okay it's virus shows avoidsville yesterday but if it's in order to be makayama Mitzvah so even if you make a nether from the 10 people it's breakable why Al that's the 10 people why because the 10 people will have that now to be mikaime Mitzvah if you're going to take 10 years and say hey would you make this net if you knew you couldn't perform this Mitzvah they would all say no of course I would make the nether if I want to make the nether the nether is bottle Nara boys that is the most popular song in my house you know every my daughter knows the song About Pets every time I say it she says you said it 100 times she says it over she throws it back at me Etc this is coming up this sugya but there's so much to learn from it we in our generation are not going to understand anything but it's a very very powerful story nevertheless says the gemara I'll prove it to you that if there's a mix of involved then you could break a nether that was done with the intent in the the makshava and the haskama of the rabbit what's the story crazy story ever this is he took ten people he said listen we're making a nether that this person won't step foot in school again he's not going to teach anymore why because he would hit the children a little bit too much now hold on a second bendy before we go any further first of all the piece of art here quarterly the Year award this is based on a real rebbe that I had with a real stick that he had story I already told you that I was in a particular School in Boro Park and one of the kids I got hit on my hand with the stick many times but the real cruel punishment that happened there was there was a radiator you know New York they have radiators there's a radiator protector made out of uh metal like a screen so that the kids don't touch the radiator the rabbit lifted it up put the kid in there squished them in there like a sardine in a uncovered like just one hand was like this and the kid was there like for 20 minutes like his face pressed against the thing and that's how he was five anyway at least they didn't get hit on a cent but I want to share with you one of the most incredible rashes you've ever seen in your life don't read it all in one shot we'll read it slowly together there's nothing involved without we're actually there was that murdered at least two children Mason not mace he hit them until they died says the gamara let's continue now that you know this guy's a murderer who number one two things two things are going against him he kills children he is killed in the past and also we made a net there in front of 10 people that he will never step foot in Haider you know what what's more important it's important that our children should have trapper and if there he's a murderer no we'll deal with it and the fact that we made a nether against him we'll deal with it we could break it because the most important thing in life is the proper kind of for the children whereas in some places we go for the the rebbe with the least experience because he had he takes the least salary or whatever it is we're trying we're trying to cut corners and we take a rebbe that squeezes the Yiddish Pride out of our children no we're gonna take everybody schmuck once in a while he murders a kid of two Nishka fella but La Mesa he's the mechanic of the year and we put him right back in do whatever you want with the story but the idea is unbelievable is strong like anything this gamara actually doesn't go very well with my daughter's tools that she got from YouTube but that's a different discussion that's right retroactive trauma clarification yeah yeah now it happens to be this is right [Laughter] no today they kill nishamas they don't kill the body five different stories I'm just talking from experience from the amount of emails from these people that had trauma and Yeshiva didn't learn for 20 years we got to do something about these rebaims start paying them better sound I don't know what we got to get good rebaim in there with me when I was in Crater the rebbe said I'm warning you I'm warning you this is Mara and Marcus that says Potter if I kill you I'm Potter nothing I don't go to Gala says Rashi don't go to Galas I'm warning you so me the mahotsav I said rebi worked on him if we kill you we're also partner what do you think you're threatening I don't want to say this I don't want to say the truth that Italian because then you'll say when I was a kid no I was a perfect child wasn't me foreign [Music] yeah you know that the story is not true because if a kid ever said that in our generation he wouldn't be here to talk about it says why they don't have to but it's good for the world they'll save people um here we have that The Nobby says go buy Fields you know this role don't worry you're going to go us you'll be back one day go go ahead and buy but it says in the bottom of the Apostle you should sign so if you sign a document for Real Estate sign the document forget what's the difference I'm a rebellious going back everybody knows this what what do they didn't do do they what is that Arrow there I don't know do that's your arrow Gary the blue arrow on the corner left corner oh River lots of holds we don't need what we need is witnesses that see that see the divorce and they come to testify so what's the big ticket they added an Institute that you should also sign your name why does it in the mic Society sometimes the sometimes a lot of times hey them died or they disappear the bottom line is you can't find them what's this woman gonna do with Austin says I never divorce you know we fix the world and we said you know what let's add another layer this this this hidden that sign I don't need to bring anybody alive here here it's in here if they if they if they didn't get divorced they wouldn't have signed there McCarty so what's the ticket the tire says you should sign them you're not going to believe this once upon a time when when a aid sign this get right over here so instead of writing his whole name just got gear I guess he would just write any poignant Pliny I'm a Pliny Aid why I don't know but that's how it was so the takano was that they should say like this who you are where you are I could find you who's your father exactly exactly like that lady in Arizona Biro who found us because our name wasn't like that yeah I'm saying if you have at least this detail you go on it you can figure it out it's gonna see this whole phone number but based on the names if you know she ate them it said Chicago it said this that and she figured out because just these words literally now what's what good is that is if you can recognize this handwriting caution it's great give him life possible sometimes just under any planning from the planet you break your head oh this looks very familiar so-and-so um we made the corner that let's say the name of ram beneath um what you have to sign your name what if you make some sort of symbol that that's how you used to decide a bunch of a bunch of examples would sound like a fish today fish is like uh a different religion thing okay a palm branch he wouldn't sign his name Palm Branch means it's like uh you know well that's it that's what you're getting from me he has an eye in his name all right very very interesting because Ram zulai who is the grandfather of check this out he was on a ship that stopped off I think in turkey and as they got off everybody got off the ship the ship sank with all their belongings so from then on it was a big nice he saw he could have been in the middle of the ocean when it sank it sank when they literally were unsure he signed his name this is his actual signature he signed his name like a ship a ship and the kid also the all the descendants they also signed similar to a ship based on you know I don't know based on this but it says the sale of a ship it sunk with him not on it he just got off it what okay signing a ship a sale a fish that's only good for rub why because everybody knows that this Rob he signs like a fish he signs a samach says very good today 25 years later when you see all the kolkai Rays and you see all the letters you know this is a signature but what what about day one how did anybody knows foreign when he's younger and eventually people got to know his signature Hillary can Crucible we're going back to the sugar principal so again I know it's on principal enemy shaman so we don't have to show this now so what's the principle again the principle is a document that says that even though I lent money so-and-so and shmita comes and when shmita comes it erases all loans imagine a guy borrows money and this happens a lot could I borrow a thousand dollars for a week I don't know if it ever happened to you I'm sure it did to me it happened many times I'm sure it happened to you many times just for a week the week comes is your best friend the week comes and goes a month comes and goes sometimes a year comes and go sometimes they pay back but that whole tire period you know the ten thousand dollars that know what's gonna happen now then you're embarrassed to look at him and show the whole thing come shmita he does this thing for three years yeah yeah I'm getting it I'm coming in this I'm coming tomorrow that you know the whole the whole thing come shmita gets erased and that's it you can't even there's no nothing so because he did some he wasn't he wasn't beside her he slept you for so long but once it comes you have zero time on him maybe he has to ask him for for I don't know what for some sorry cause you but zero for the loan even though he promised you for 30 days and it's five years later you got nothing zero still it's not stealing the Torah is Miss Shaman that's what I'm trying to tell you he did not steal okay you have a problem with it correct exactly that's where the minute girl comes from you're right so if you have a prismat you must pay the loan back his skin is one of the things that Hill azakian instituted people stop lending money and they were over on this possible it might be a positive not everybody's very familiar with it you might say to yourself how should I give a guy alone this is you'll be bad you'll have a a vicious eye towards your brother however and who's poor you're not going to give him money if he comes to borrow money you have the Eraser to give him money when somebody comes to you to borrow money you give him money it's a sin not to give him so hello didn't want people to be over on this possible it's management the opposite said you're going to be scared to lend money because it's gonna get erased and he's going to be in love with your Satoria whatever is going to happen but you're not you're going to be out of your money too bad you have to do it it's a passing the tire and as I mentioned I don't know when I mentioned recently maybe a week two ago three weeks I don't know the time talks about this how just imagine the guy is really really poor and he and he tells his family there's a guy in Chong and I know exactly when I'm gonna catch him right before and put on this suit and I'm gonna come and I'm gonna trap him and I'm gonna say this word and then he's gonna say that they're gonna film that and my kids is going to give us a nice loan of 500 and it's going to be unbelievable and it comes to the to the rich guy and the rich guy just doesn't even pay attention get out of here he says can you imagine the tire of him and his whole family you don't understand what goes on behind until a guy comes to you for the loan how much how much shovel went into it and how many how much planning you just you don't care you just like go like that okay and what does it says I'm telling you you die on him so this is the person I showed the other day it doesn't say any of this but this is the idea I guess basically I'm giving my loan to bezen they they are the ones that do that Vera of of um collecting the loan you just are there Schleich and you go knocking on his door but it's better that's doing it for you they're over that's the trick that's the the way to get around it and who signs that Diana could sign or Aiden fine ask the gambaro so check this out asking tomorrow comes and he raises all loans red you don't get paid it's bad red Vehicles he says go go to the bank collect your money how could he'll do something like that how the Turtle says you don't collect the loan who come tell us as you could collect the load um because Hillel holds like rebby so let me see if I I have this just to show you what's going on here just for a second because we saw this who's hello hello lived 100 years before the Corbin abbay Reby is reviewed I not see the author of Shas so Hillel is rebby's great-grandfather's great-grandfather foreign but Hillel holds like his great great great grandson rebby okay then what this is so uh uh this is the pasok visitor somebody so if you notice it says the word twice that we're all familiar with that on shmita you can't plant you have to let the the land rest vacation you have to let your money rest if somebody owes you money you can't collect is often one is dependent on the other that's called the heckish since the two words are in the same process we have a heck is one word to the other once we to the other so this man has said since we don't have you could collect alone foreign [Music] let's go back to this now so now it's green red green not red green umara said how can you go from red to Green how could you say the third says you cannot collect and rebby says you could collect it says no that's not what happened the tire says you could collect why could you collect because there's no shimited and this and what about Hillel who lived in the time of the basement says you didn't have multiplies from so with the rice even in time of Hillel if you hold like his great great grandson there's no shmita even in the time came along and they said there is shmita don't pay if you're alive and don't pay why returning to that English means so that people don't forget this idea about him I barely knew this came along and I remember when I was a kid we did a principal once but that's about it people don't know about the Allah today you're all going to lose your your your your loans shree this coming up don't forget the Salah says hello wait a minute but people stop lending money it's a big problem so let me go back to the Tyra that there is no shemitah today so all he'll did was reverse it to what the tire says to do the tire says I'm saying there's no shmita because I saw there's a reason let me undo what I'm saying we just turned until I'm involvement base no oh we don't have no sponsor no I'll say give out like for a second okay you say people's step up give out if you feel like the only place to put Your sponsorship is a normal base and there's a lot of people that love it go ahead give out I also do two spaces available roll hello but you didn't you didn't you didn't solve the problem okay so it started with green so how do you go to Red the same question I did before if it's red how do you go to green so if it's green I didn't go to Red if the tire says that there's no shemitah and you liver owe me a thousand dollars how could the say that the life it doesn't owe a thousand dollars he's stealing by the lawyer not paying the life is a gaslin so what's the answer what's everybody say no huh um unbelievable is something that we didn't think of that have the ability to say don't take action for instance as Rashi by Lila vanessaifa the third is don't shake they didn't say do Shake against it don't shake just don't do anything so we also don't pay back your loan don't pay back your loan they have the power to do have your best huh I don't know I don't have that or no you guys have Hefty resin doesn't have it so I don't know this artist will have yeah interesting okay so if Hearts will ask we're going to read it Hefner foreign I'm lost [Music] what ah it's the sensor you're saying very good that makes sense so they they put it in but it's not me and they said higher it used to be African but we don't do it anymore but it's not true we do have a good resin today bye oh yeah oh yeah okay so anyways Robert's answer goes on both ways whether you learn that rabbanon woman or whether you say like like now like in rebby that is either way you say it if there is if rabbana said that you shouldn't pay already said you should pay either way Cinema when Ezra came back there to Israel and they noticed that people are married to uh so he said whoever doesn't divorce his wife we're gonna punish him what are we going to do we're going to take away his belongings no what is that called half grip as an Africa I'm going to take away his belongings he's not going to be part of the community so you see happy birthday I have another right it should say Russia the leaders what's the others the fathers just like a father according to this has the right to give one son more than the other son when he's alive like a gift so too the leaders could also decide based on having to take from this shave it give to that one or whatever is the hello Institute this idea of principle only first generation what's the difference could Our Generation take a look and say listen we're very generous we're moving I know a person he's a big static this guy came here once he drove all the way here like uh over to I think it was a two-hour trip just to tell me something yeah whatever that's at it he refuses to do a principal and always is Michael why because the third says shmita he doesn't want to play games every day he says goodbye to such a cute guy she about her he has to leave now he waves to me goodbye okay then if it's for Generations sorry if it's only first generation only first generation you could be movable in our generation but if he did it for all generations oh first of all I have cameras in Africa we had already okay that's one new this is another one is this one right over here that a best then of one generation cannot overturn anything that the best in front of before it instituted if a bezen in a previous generation said something that's it unless you're greater than that business you decide we have bigger than that business and we're more than them okay my so did Hillel Institute a principal for all generations so here we have a beautiful map that you know she Drew this is it's it's a little hard maybe to see you have shmuel and purple on top he's from Narada and you have Raven gold on the bottom of the map in Surah those are the two but they didn't the great Raven shmuel the famous ravage wall and those but they didn't you could do a prism and no other best then what does that tell us if you think about it today we do principal in front of three yo-yos or whatever you want to call them far from being uh Raven small you know they're just regular average people so you see that it's he says it's only in those two but they didn't hello sorry and if he did it for all generations why only in this special but it didn't even should be in all body denim I remember during during like uh schmidta now with the people writing principle right before so there's like Signs oh you could do it in business foreign they are powerful enough to remove money to do African business okay so we don't have an answer yet did hello was Hill misaki in principal for all generations it's an embarrassment it's a hotspa of the day on him why because the doing something shlika did the third says you should not collect alone and they're going out and they're collecting doesn't mean just because a parent doesn't like something means that if a kid deliberately does something to upset the parent that's husband but anyway he says if I had power yeah I would get rid of I would do away with the whole principle how could someone in a later generation undo something from a previous generation foreign greater than hello who's greater than hello how did you go am I mean if I was greater than hello if in other words I wish I was greater than hello so I could I am not and I never will be so male's gonna stay as is but had I had the power then I would have done it I don't like this idea of possible I loved principal I'm gonna Institute it at what do you mean I'm going to Institute it it isn't it it's instituted so much that if somebody forgot to write a prosebo I'm going to do it for him you don't have to write it personal I'm gonna I'm gonna darshan that you don't even have to write a principle it's as if you gave your loan to the best gamara what does Obama mean I already told you because Rashi says it listen is it a lotion of is in other words let's get rid of because it's such a pain in the neck for business imagine the last few days right before you can't do a principle the lines out the door so we're gonna give them a little vacation no more principles of the best and they're loving it foreign terrible if you think about what happened to her with all the knees him and everything and what did Clyde Israel do I mean we can't even understand it it's not not for us to understand they made an ego it's cheating on on the husband we're the wife but at the Hupa like right after Hassan a minute later should be shamed of themselves so it's Allah not Allah great we're having a vacation he says all of Shahs that we don't want to mention ravari's father so we call him the daughter of the the son of the daughter of small whose daughter was captured and a guy had relations with her and he's that he's the product of that relation it happens to me that his father became a girl later on and so but we don't want to mention it micros are passing that the king is still there by his it's unbelievable I mean it's sad it's unbelievable because sitting there at his party he just gave the Torah listen glue him self and the smell of the perfume dissipated so good morning says even we did such a terrible thing even though we decided everything still loves us all smelled it up but that he gave a nicer loss it doesn't show how much loves us with everything that we did the boys I have a wonderful day