Daf Yomi Gittin Daf 23 by R’ Eli Stefansky

in the house get over here the first one good we want to say we love talking [Music] Fox that's it right here give a broken a very long time to dance if I Dance Now on Potter no I'm not father thank you for coming [Music] [Applause] [Music] actually okay [Applause] nobody's getting married tonight and it came to share it's yomi it's about the yomi will be here tomorrow morning also didn't yaakov come like Yakov came something like not the okay whatever hi rebelli I mean listen to these shoes since the start of your vomits wrote you a couple times since for this message I will not reiterate how life-altering your share has been for me I will not restate that I went 20 plus years without learning before finally recommitting myself and that while I completed chass I was learning about myself and how learning with you is taking me my turn and learning to new places I truly can't wait to learn with you each day my wife loves it when I tell her some of the incredible insides that you need to share and will often replace certain segments so she can hear directly from her Bell anyway that wasn't the point that this email for this message I want to send you something that's been in my mind for several months now stay oh and when you unspoke about the commitment alone I had tears in my eyes thinking of the tremendously seriousness that goes into what you do so that we all may have a better learning experience I also know they have someone of understanding Sports World and for this purpose this analogy might be fun so enjoy the attached photos and perhaps you tell me even want to come up with a different nickname than the iron Magid Shear laughing out loud you tell me Mickey Hyman Cedars New York he attached pictures yeah of Cal Ripken 20 2613 or something but not I'm not saying about myself but there's people that like robust a really went like years and years without without stop much more impressive than Cal Ripken because Cal Ripken yes he played 2600 games but there's like three day break between games it's a different kind of a record huh yeah okay I really I feel as you know I as if I know you personally and we have a super close reputable relationship even though I've never met you my name is Joey Sanford I live in Riverdale New York and I've been to two live stream Barbara Parker Mata shops the white show but never came up to you doing the diversary important part of the day I feel it gives me a longer day my wife is driving force behind it all and she allows me doing the dive equally if not more than I do like you I bounce around I grew up in London went to Yeshiva Army now live in New York but doing the dive is critical to me wherever I go last week my wife and I were back trip back from Israel went to the United Arab Emirates attached to the video of me starting the daily death in the abrahamic shul in Abu Dhabi Republic if you've never seen a show like this I'm probably the only person so far to learn the death in that show so I want to say I'm not sure about that because we have a guy on Zoom almost every day his name is and he hangs out a lot in Abu Dhabi and in um Dubai he's like a specialist in in getting uh companies together so he's there and he's almost every day on Zoom front so I don't know if he's in the show or not he'll probably say that he was if you ask them maybe he's not maybe he's maybe Joe is the first so this show was built by the Sheik it opened in February 2023.30 reaches every corner of the earth not only I love you tired it's so approachable I love that I feel listen to this I love that I feel as if I'm in such a close bonded cheer group made up of every type of yid thank you for thank you to Ephraim bencher for getting me into the death you changed my convey item thank you to Rebellion all you do all the best Joey Sanford a boy say here's the show incredible foreign you do four cats and yet ah I think this is brain intact unleash your full potential instrument success in all my Endeavors Iris Lasky to thank Hashem on my 61st birthday you know him yeah here we go foreign don't take this for granted it doesn't happen very often that we are on the ummah that we need to be on they're forced lame sorrow this is a riddle that I don't think anybody's going to get some Malaysian what's your name tadik your land from um from stock from stock okay your name we've been uh our brother you're here for the thing you come all the time okay um you're saying the wrong place that's why so we had like this says everybody could bring a get I'm sorry to write again and the Gamora asks but they don't have Das so we saw two terrorism yesterday we're gonna go over the second one we went over quickly so we'll go over it again the gamara says it goes according to billies however we have and then and when you say the Messiah the get has to be written so we have a God that we have an adult that stands above him and tells him do it or that's what we're going to see right now we said yesterday it goes according to our mayor that is and now that's where we're holding so oh I was in the middle of a riddle yeah the riddle is and this is for a thousand points it's almost impossible to get has it possible and no no funny jokes here how's it possible that a human being is half half their body is male and half as female I remember that no they're a hundred percent half a half and half like you could literally pick up say this half is Zohar this half is the cable either they're 100 or they're it's not 50. yeah no there were two people two no two separate people in the room okay maybe maybe but today that's not where I'm going with you'll see you're not gonna like the answer okay foreign this thing that I said that a guy can't bring a guest we ask the cash from a guy do we apostolate we say that a guy can't bring a get but it seems like a guy could write again so male okay a guy could write a get um we learned that a guy cannot I didn't remember don't married ah you could learn like remayer that hold in the casino so it's okay A guy could bring a gift could write a guess so according to just to see this uh if you want to see it clear according so he holds that you need the signature of the get to be smarter holds he holds that the Siva has to be small foreign and a guy he definitely has his own dust you can't be ointment and tell him what to do and what to think he thinks he's on his own but if you have a child so he'll take instructions from an adult dog tells him hey I want you to think he'll think mayor says in the name check this out right boys I I have two two drawings here a little bit lower why was it so loud am I supposed to press I forgot how to do this look what I found for you and the garbage so or this one so the first one Yoshi did I did this one which one do you guys like anyways fine a guy jumps into the garbage can he goes dumpster diving and he finds a get according he finds a get written where's the Shema it's completed it's everything it's in the garbage as long as you silence caution you find the get in the garbage you just have to sign it you found that you're lucky the name of the the wife the name of the husband the city everything is is perfect all you need to do is sign it is it says that deposit says because of law it has to be the Shema my life too it's like yeah it doesn't mean literally the entire gate has to be written with intent of that woman that man say them so you'll answer no the because if it's not written with the intent of that woman that you want to divorce it's not good it's possible you'll say that it was not signed for that particular woman then it's possible when you write a little bit of the geta you write a little bit it's as if you wrote the whole thing with Shema so you see that you need the Shema over here you have the right to get this way you can't find any garbage can my laughs so let's just talk about the type of typos in the neighborhood told me came over to me a few days ago he said you know all your charts everything but this chart I like the most for him so it gave me a Clark had a tire of typhus at like whatever okay so what's the Toyota is the top part of the get not exactly like we have over here maybe close to that it has the name of the the husband the wife the the city and it says also your maguricious then the typhus continues on and says you move it to everybody etc etc and the bottom part is the casino so you have three parts of the get so doesn't this mean that if you wrote part of it you wrote the top part the toy review you don't have to write the entire thing as long as you write the red part the Shema the blue part is good enough even if you didn't have the Shema says you can't prove anything you can't force any proof it doesn't say what he wrote so I'm gonna say you know what he did the final part the green part the the Hashima of the Adam that was and that's all you need to do the Shema and the rest is good enough that would be like Ruby mayor because remainder says that all you need ishma El and I don't first of all I hear but it's as if I hear what you're saying but it basically means you don't have to do anything else that's what it said it doesn't say you have to do a little it's meaning even if you didn't do so even if it's in the garbage can what's the difference if you didn't write Le Shema you found in the garbage can is it a difference it's the same exact thing so that's it let's say you ask cash I say you look in them because both you're using the sift this and you're cheating what even if you said but what difference does it make if your your own wife is not Le Shema the turf is not for your own wife or the title was not respond for somebody else's wife the bottom line is as long as you do Hashima it's as if the whole thing is that's how I understand it I hear a Duke but mom ENT okay of course but the icker is the kasima when the tire says it's talking about only the the Hashima part the kasima part okay all these questions these questions that you just asked me from the braces so according to in economy according to Revelation you ask me oh it seems like you have to write a little small correct according to who let's go back for a second according to everybody who says so don't ask me a question from abrasive that says that you need yeah that goes according to everybody according to her mayor you don't need and now finally as I mentioned before this three answers to this one question how does the mission say that could write a get they write again can you imagine they can't write fill in doesn't have the ass says tomorrow and now we're gonna go back to that the cotton road again in the mishnah he wrote two out of the three parts he wrote the typhus but he wrote the typhus and he left over the tire which is the main thing hey Google sorry Rebel laws are says Shema and therefore he cannot write the Tariff a cotton can write the Tariff because that has to be done according to review mayor would it make a difference let the cotton write the Tariff so again if you look over here at the 3T rutsum the first Terrace and the last tires go according and the middle tires goes according to a mayor because the last terrorist only goes according to the blossom you don't need to say that he only wrote the type is not the type because he's going to the mayor the main part is says the gemara of represent nobody's going to listen to it to what you just said what does that mean why won't anybody listen the mission is telling us says in the whole get the mission is coming to tell you something this is saying that a cotton could write again the mission is trying to tell you that I'm putting down a get a get is nothing to me it says the mission is a mizazel in it not the written words but the actual fact that they saw a divorce so I don't care who wrote it um a second ago so again let's go back ribs says in the name of foreign you can't write a get that's attached to the ground and a second later the next line and if you did write it you can write it on and what if you did um it's a contradiction over there says here this is what we're talking about kindness is foreign 's here all the time in this room people hear different things they hear what they want to hear I'm writing them they both said the opposite he says okay mission is sponsored by Yoli Friedman's my dear father Ben Israel David now anybody could bring again these are three individuals that don't have Das or they're not in departure of ish bisuma not always do we have a blind person together with that which reminds me you don't have to laugh at this one but to be your design there was a blind snarer at its goods this is the famous it's collecting money in walks elderly persons they tell us the guy says the blind man so the guy's like wait a minute if you're blinda he says oh I was confused confused what I meant to say give money to a deaf man okay but it's on the same line over here so foreign what if the cotton matured first he received the get to bring to the wife but he was a cotton so he's possible and then he got older so we stopped right here what's Allah it's no good why is it no good because when he received it he was it was possible doesn't matter what happened afterwards he became he got whatever he became smart again he got his eyesight back sometimes you see even at the MSA they do like a procedure somebody's blind his whole life and then they do something and he can start singing again and then he became sane again so that love is all the same when he received the get he was a guy and now today is a yid apostle what if he started out he got he received the get when he was kosher and then and then he became a short because and then he became uh he became sane so this is an important line over here he was blind slash he became he could see and then no does it start the opposite yeah no he was able to see he became blind and then he's able to see I'm sorry a normal person saying insane sane kosher because when he received it he was kosher and when he gave it he was kosher so in between he had a little episode we're gonna ignore that as long as he starts off when he received it he was kosher I guess there's no what would we call it is um in kochim we have a heftic what's it called um over here it's Nera he was he was able to see it's okay later on he saw great because I'm sorry for him it does gosh you see that victory huh why because I didn't go to why you I didn't know I'm learning now oh everybody's quiet all the guys that learn to use guys I'm not saying a lot of slimy light there because he's not a guest he's been here how many times have you been in slimy lost count that's it once you once twice that's it another guess the Verizon thing over there not over here is boys so we learned from this possible conclusion that in order to be Sleek have to be a ish you have to be a badass which is interesting because this is talking about Corbin pesach and in America and Hutz Lords I believe the stone battle is called right which is it's a shiny and there's other discussions there about current pesach and why not a guy why can it be Ashley the Love by retail because he's not in the Parish of Heather meaning he's not in the parachute of get wow hello what is wrong with the Suma assume has Das what in the world could it be Omer absentious it's very interesting as we know was blind he was automative rap thank you and he did it himself he wanted to be like RAV the whole thing is every 30 days so it wasn't it didn't have a big impact on his Target but he didn't want to you don't want to look out I guess maybe you have to be a Sumer to understand to feel it sometimes you you're missing it like if you're not in the parisha you don't know what a blind person feels and knows I'll tell you nicely think about it a blind person doesn't know who the husband and wife are maybe they're fooling him muscular of yourself as forever Joseph another blind person [Music] Ally I'd have big promises revisitive if blind people you can't trust them who they know and who they don't know how they motor to their own wife how does any person how's any person motive to his own wife when he can't see this voice recognition I know my wife is based on her voice huh and she knows me what do you mean in what case a husband and wife yeah trust her how are you gonna trust her and if they're both blind and if they're both blind okay sir how do you Shiloh she didn't say anything the answer is because he recognizes you could trust the blind person to recognize the Asia's ish based on her voice you can recognize the the the the couple he knows who they are based on their voice if it happens to be just very interesting for me many people told me over the years that they recognized me based on my voice more than other people I think because I hear it a lot like oh they heard my voice once before this year like it was okay right so now they don't do that anymore that much now they see that because they recognize me from okay fine you should have seen people he's not it's not a joke people that listen on one and a half speed when they come to a live share it's like literally something's wrong like what is going on here and I feel like look at me like then I hop the staring at me because something is very wrong yeah Ms he's laughing because it's Mama Sheamus something is slow about him today oh I'm not a double speed okay another saying in the color hello foreign what if he wasn't blind when it happened he saw it he witnessed everything okay I'm at the culture so today that he's blind he could say that he saw he witnessed the get you according to what you said he's cautious because when he when he witnessed it he wasn't blind and today so what if he's blind he could he could testify what he saw but funny but I'll prove to you that it's not true it says that if he started out an upline then became blind then he returned to being not blind then it's kosher Sigma diet it's only because he went back to not being blind but if he remained blind he cannot testify no not a good deal no it's even if he didn't go back but I didn't finish because the rest of the cases it's talking about a guy that uh that he was normal became insane and then came back to be saying in that case if he didn't come back to be saying so today he's what a mashugana I'm a sugar can I bring a get so it has to be that he went back there's a third step of the husband so therefore the home is not to be uh what's the word everything is uniform everything is one case that he started out one way he had an episode in the middle and then he became uh not blind anymore but you don't have to say that he's not blind over I've actually died economy I'll prove to you the tone is says if he started with Das and he ended up with the Das and he's kosher Electronics means that he was as he was before doesn't have to be to go back to where he was born my name is what about a slave that's not her slave so I want to ask let's see if the Islam did kahoot is there a way where if a person a woman has a Slave the slave could accept the get for the woman does anybody remember um uh yeah this case right over here yeah this guy oh okay David coffers and sleeping at least the two clothes and why does it work in this case because very good you hear teddy bear no liebe from coil says because it's not because the Avid is coined for you okay so the so the Shiloh is what if you have another slave that's not yours can a slave to accept a gift for the woman or can he be a Schleich both cases the gemara says Kabbalah the gamar means also says Rashi and it's Avis from the continuation of the Gambar all right how come it says in our mishnah that a guy cannot bring a guest it should say much better what comes first when we we say breakfast in the morning you say so it's similar to a woman it would be a much much bigger kiddish to say that can't bring a get why why why say that a guy can't bring again okay so the gamara says kosher right the third word into the Ahmad evidence culture sponsored by the Friedman family if our sisters and sponsored our sisters should we go to zoom it's kind of late no you can't go to zoom today foreign columns are of asking the name of revoke and another Vietnam today and is and argues [Applause] he said a second ago evidence kosher no evidence possible the reason is because he's not in departure of again you have to be in you have to be involved in it you have to be able to to receive again from somebody in order to be up for somebody else cannot receive a gift and get divorced and he's not in the party that's it so you can't beat masculine um you're telling me that if Ed is in the pirate Shaw so you would be able to let me bring you an example says could make truma we're not going to show you the whole thing again but so imagine just says very interesting that a guy cannot buy land energy strong it's not his to buy so his food is tevo his food is because he can't be mafikia the Allah of the food all food that grows under Israel if you're Jewish describe you cannot buy a field from the Jew it's owned by the Jew so you can't be my kid and also another another since it's high if the guy goes ahead and makes Truman Meister it works because we learn in this process the second-ish tells me that it works got a guy also okay so if so a guy is in the parishion of truma so it comes out based on what you told me that if somebody is in a parisha if the guy doesn't take the Truman Meister you're also to eat that food he's in the parachute so he should be able to be beastly after a Jew if a Jew says Hey make Truman Meister on that pile of fruit he should be able to do it according to what he does told me because even if the Jew tells him to do it it's not good my timer at them so it says in the Apostle came through obviously you waiting for a joke not gonna happen yeah what's also to teach us Madame Israel so Rashi sticks in here because as I was learning was bothering me a little bit it's a special deal only in Truman no so it says actually once I learned that idea that you have to be Jewish we learn it to all the time okay you really want me to start from that if somebody even if a guy is in the Parish of tumor he could be mappers he could take 10 apples out of a hundred and give it to the Korean and if a Jew eats those 10 apples it's good truma yet if a Jew tells that guy be my schlier to do my truma he can't do it so he says just because you're in the Parish of trauma it doesn't mean that it could be says you have to have a bris in other words to Britain a brist with Mitzvahs and a physical Bismillah so comes out that Mazel Tov it comes out not it comes out that a Mazda Mazda everybody's messed up today it's a sheer it's a cheers okay so it comes out like this who's in the pirate show of what uh no yes if it does have a briss uh Evan has a bris and it's kind of a mitzvous so so really Avid should be good for schlier [Music] that's why your boyfriend comes and says no but he's not in the Parish of get you have to be in the Parish of again so when it comes to True memorizers okay he's in that power shot but when it comes to being a schlier forgets is not enough that he has a person that is kind of a Mitzvahs he has to be able to give a gift and he can't give a get to himself so maybe you can't bring a get for somebody else during the Parish of God they bench they bench on um yeah when they what they're available what they're but the wrist tire that's why rash says fine um so he starts off saying that evid cannot bring a get and then all of a sudden he says the future elevatories give them a condition and explains like we said before he's gonna learn the parachute you know foreign so even though we learned that now we're now we're jumping from from a wife to a slave if he says so if the baby that she's carrying she has a baby she's carrying a baby she's pregnant for the the shukri of the baby this woman could receive a get her for her baby you know why because she's in the partial we're talking about can a slave take a guess for a woman gerushin and then also he sticks in a case of going free going free she could be something for somebody else maybe because she's she herself could go free but she herself cannot be in a get so what do we bring you right from that says Omar ion he's actually another Allah here he said Allah about a slave could bring a guest for a woman you're right but there's another lot going on what's going on here so there's a few alakas they're very interesting Allah we have to see first of all a slave cannot accept a starshiper a release for another slave let's say he is a slave with somebody else under one master so you can't receive that get shikur for his friend why because his hand is the same Aloha as his Master's Hand so the master cannot take from the right hand put on the left hand he said so how could a slave receive a gift for himself how could he take the get like this his hand is his Master's Hand so now we say s that's only when that other slave is together with you in slavery but what about another slave somebody else huh what are you saying what what what oh okay so what about somebody else's life so what about somebody else's sleep the answer is that somebody else's life you could be macabo Champion not from his own because because he could accept for his friend don't matter if somebody Whispers to you what about the fact that there's a second slave here there's a baby involved it's so it's they both work a mother and her fetus the baby she's carrying are both working for one master and Allah is she could accept the Starship for that baby and marlover it's very fascinating the such a thing is by the way there's not only there's also something called you can go to two people it could be two dollars huh okay corner then what if you release half of your slave so the other half is called you know you're kind of the whole thing and the continuation of the Shadows he's explaining my time uh the rabbi bar was shot because because the baby is considered one limb with the mother says Rashi over here that it's half of her body says Rashi so as a thousand Point riddle it's a little bit of cheating but says here that a baby is half of the mother so if the baby is a Zohar and the mother is in a Keva so you have half zakar Africa you don't like that okay because how could this mother who's a slave and works for the same Master as the baby big her for her baby the answer is because the baby is her it's one and the same she's not being pregnant for a second slave she's kind of herself foreign [Music] so I just want to show you this thing real quickly take a look at this here we go we have a mother-in-law a mother who happens to be a mother-in-law this is Don's mother here's the husband Don Don has a brother and he also has a sister so this is the sister now he gets married to a woman and he marries the second woman he has two wives these are all the women Rabbi say that hate that woman in purple in the middle there's five women the mother-in-law this the the sister-in-law and so over here what we have is Don's brother who who could potentially go Fife is married to a woman and if they don't have children on the left so that is gonna have to be me her so she's a potential sorrow the second wife is also at Sarah a co-wife the the five Towner all the way to the left is a potential co-wife the the second wife is a is a co-wife right now today you also have the daughter of the husband of Don she also hates her stepmother okay and and his sister is called huh the daughter of of whose wife it's what do you mean no I mean stepdaughter meaning the stepdaughter of Hillary that's the stepdaughter yeah okay let's go let's just finish this battle these five women you cannot trust them to say that Dan died because they want to mess this lady up they hate her the sister-in-law the daughter-in-law they hate her why there's some problems with the Arusha later on it's all about money so they can make stories up nevertheless their mother's love is Gita they trusted to bring a get and we don't think that they're going to be Messiah if they get they're going to forge again just to mess her up who are these five women the husband's sister vitsarasa and her co-wife and a potential co-wife Bala and her own stepdaughter in other words her husband's daughter mapping get limited but why is it that when it comes to to testify about the death of the husband did not put trusted that proves it a woman is believed to bring your own get um have a wonderful day