Daf Yomi Berachos Daf 55 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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charge of that stuff but they they discuss it with the aussie billiard rabbi oh sorry this is it says on the bottom somewhere that this baby is the youngest baby to learn to do that i'm not true that was my grandson but i had a big cash when i saw this picture what's the kasha he's the first person doing the daft i was sharing sleeping but then i had a turret if you look closely it's on pause [Laughter] this is the baby that is supposed to be up here this should be up here teenage bandina bracha it's our good friend daniel landau's baby the yard the the this friday night on delay maybe put it lower no on the lave all the way up i don't know where is he here he was here last night it was amazing that he's able to make it to the sheer what 39 don't leave i don't know when you get to the left you make a right or left right make a right okay you'll find the can you side there um email actually there's a text this is uh this this means a lot to me where's barack it's barack here today this is like barack's competition he's not feeling well okay hi just wanted to say thank you for literally 20 plus years other than studying with my kids i didn't open a gemara in high school in yeshiva i fluffed my way through and really hated gemara i decided to brag out it's time to give it a shot and you're by far the best kimono shirt i've ever listened been to learning with you virtually every day yeah all right good to my horn learning with you virtually every day has really had a big impact on me like i promised they want to broadcast it will change your life so that's what you're saying it had a big impact on me the last two months or so keep it up and thank you so much again mati mitteldorf if you guys know him oh they all know him live on engetti by the way you have learned with me literally around the world berlin amsterdam kharkiv new york boston d.c all right mati president wants him here in the shire right here in this year do you have room for another one [Music] we're trying really hard to put together a nice clip for our serum which will probably be shown on yeshiva world news as well to get more people to join this year if you have something to say say your name where you live and why you watch the sheer and send it to this whatsapp number yoshikaya that's that this is an email in hebrew for a different time this guy's not learning the deaf he's actually not happy with you guys this guy is my cousin dr jake friedman he's a surgeon he's an ent surgeon and he is the somebody wants a picture of this i thought you want a picture of this okay since he's a young kid or i should say maybe a young teenager i took him every single year to vail and i taught him how to snowboard and now he teaches me how to snowboard so every single year this is my gift to you guys this is my sacrifice this year is the first time that i'm not going with him he's my caruso we go one on one for three days every year he's by himself now and very upset sending me a lot of pictures a lot of nasty texts and he's not learning to daff with us all right so that's jake fine i think uh we'll leave that for that now we we have a big a big daff just going for the water again where's my clock great i got it but no water today you're in charge of the water yesterday he got me two today nothing okay he's not in charge of this fine it's drinking tomorrow we're holding on the bottom definite endowment base i got it unbelievable stuff two lines from the bottom of the base tuesday tuesday night at best filo i'm sorry tuesday night here for women rav gav beautiful sheer last time woman very inspired he's one of the best best speakers today 8 p.m in this face measures and on our following sunday march 8th big seoum and based field rabbi i'm asking if anybody could come up with some sort of interesting idea that has to do maybe with me something that we could do something different something with purim bronchus i don't know brainstorm talk to noam about it everybody if everybody thinks about it we could come up with something really good food brachas dreams who knows what if you prolong these three things will prolong your life a longer davening the mother will explain a person that has long males is a great gemara for all of you that spend a lot of time with youtube in the bathroom this is great you see what if you dive in long it's great if you dive in and you look into it so if bali they can't leave at the end of the day you'll have a heartache because you're diving won't be answered and you're going to be wondering why that's prolonged it's going to cause a disease of the heart we know the answer right because we learned this there's a difference between a long davening and a diving that you're in and you you you decided on your own that hashem must listen to you that's the problem is there are three things that remind that about the person's awareness he opens up the file and starts looking into the person veil here not if you sit underneath a wall that's leaning in other words you put yourself in a you put yourself in a position of danger jumping out of planes um driving planes flying planes diving with sharks safari touching lions vita walking with the lion filo skiing is is filo so one of the three things is looking into your darkening s this guy just did this to me why didn't you deal with him look what a bad guy he is in other words hashem you're perfect deal with him so hashem looks into you holy cash you prolong it field but you don't think that you deserve to be answered then answers you but if you think that you deserve to be answered then hashem doesn't answer so therefore what do you do how is it done the map is you prolong in the rahman as you ask for but you don't think to yourself that you deserve it for a second and then hashem will answer yours what does it mean meaning you give the opportunity for the poor to join your meal that's what it means because it starts off the pasta with the there are people that want to be buried with their table i heard they make a coffin out of their shabbos table [Music] yeah out of his desk okay very nice there are 10 things that bring a person to hemorrhoids if you eat the leaves of reeds valley funny alec phantom is like really uh hush of a food no rape oh danny orlando we mentioned you're you saw zakhar and that the should learn his baby is still in the nicu so a little bit of learning wouldn't hurt valley funny and grape leaves it's amazing that he's here in the sheer this baby's over there his wife is over there and he's here it's tremendous what those are you know that's crazy to pay us they say the casitas those curly things that you see on grapes those are little very good funny you know you know what i'm talking about they have little vines they go like this literally they look like a chapel that's awesome and anything meat that has ridges in it such as a tongue and whatever it is the esophagus anything that has the palate that's one thing it's also the last showing anything that has ridges this shidduchie you want to say that the tongue is okay no he says no also he said anything anything there's ten parts of the body that i can think of that have ridges it's not smooth this is your shadow and if you eat the spine of a fish without malia and herring shining it's not completely done vaccinated and if you drink the sediments of the wine mama canner use toilet paper you use lime for toilet paper uber chairs and pottery this is gross mama cannes chicken use the same thing that your friend used to die so this is what we're trying to learn if a person hangs in the bathroom doesn't mean he squats and his he's not sitting on the ground he's like hanging his back is hanging in the air too much you always seem to die that's not good and we just said hanging out in the bathroom was great like ashley with ali if you sit on a chair you sit on a toilet that's great it's very healthy when you say if you if you squat it's not good um this is matunisa your face is shining like somebody that has too much time on his hands too much money like a how do you make a lot of money in those days you you it's it's easy money they're easy to to bring up the the the pigs with the malvi beribis and those who are shark loans they take ribos all things that are user but they make a lot of money i swear to you i don't do either of them the basement midrash there's 24 bathrooms from my house onto the basement i'm not exactly sure how far away the basement was was it a block away to 10 hours away but there's 24 of them you if you learned to yeshiva it's like really shiva's you know what i'm talking about there's like that always that one guy that's always biting himself and runs to the bat because sir there's an indian i guess to be biting yourself you know exactly what i'm talking about okay he's laughing okay michael bruce added that kind of cabrusa every four and a half minutes fight lavish there's that guy it's mekima mitzvah but even review the very light did it so certainly i could do it i won't do 24 i'll do 20. the casino there are three things that will cause a person to lose life mishandling safety leaders if somebody gives you the opportunity to read from the torah i saw you looking at me you give it off to somebody else so they say obviously if you don't know how to read and you're embarrassed you don't know the trump then that's not a problem but you know how to read about koira anyways the point is that you may validate the torah you say this is not for me torah gives you life it's always the opposite so it causes a shortening of the life kaiser broccoli if somebody offers you to do simon and you don't do simon that's a problem a person he takes his authority that it was given to him and he misuses it this is your life and you don't want life then i'll shorten your life from the gemara that it's the kaiser bracha in other words not just somebody says besides without a cup it's not that bad if they offer you the cup and they say now seriously with the cop because gemara says with the cop with a cup of wine 10 years before his brothers at 110. so i saw the art scroll it brings beautiful that the yosef attack for every time that they mentioned to him your slave our father and he didn't protest he's still pretending that he's a king he did they didn't know who he was he should stop that's my father you're talking about for every time that they said it he lost one year of his life the question is that in the torah it only says it five times and the answer is there's a metagaman he heard it ten times so that methagamon cost him another five years well review there are three people that need me [Music] himself says it with his mouth there's going to be famine vesuva the opposite of a famine there's going to be a lot this year um is going to be a great leader for clash royale for the for the community rob hashem calls it out very basic it will be plentiful vicorazi i call it out paranoid you have to ask permission first from the community and then you put him in there shenanima even barclays permission even mushroom asked for permission do you agree that is a good guy now how old was without that point 13. oh my lord everybody like you're recommending him i'm going to have a time about it um go ask questions we have no problem with him but anyways you have to ask the seaboard even if he's sure that he's the best you still ask them um back to the to the theme that a name has to do with the person's essence in this order first came to michigan the house then came around mccain and then came the vessels flipped it around where exactly did it flip it around so tyson says it's talking about a different party because actually in the past it says that hashem said to do it this way michigan craig tyson brings another possum there's a big discussion here oh my lord because the measure says the opposite is first you build a house and then you put it in your your calum and you want to do the opposite you want to buy vessels and then build a house around it where am i going to put these vessels the measurement says the opposite side first you do the arrow and it's most of it did i miss something ah no but before yeah it says omarloi moisherabeno yeah i know but i'm just i want to point out what's interesting is that betsalo says the word moisturabeno but he called into his face mushroom okay i thought it was interesting instead of just rabbenu or moisha he says moishe rabbenu like haravagoy ripham kanievsky you know you don't say that right both without his name and over here he said moisha rabbenu he said sarah and maisha together fine just interesting how did you realize this on your own i so some explain that much rabbit was trying to see and to point out that he tried to throw him off and tell bitsal hey make the calem and then the mishkan and he wanted to see if it's once he hopped on his own he said look at him he's great this guy's a genius and that he called him betsel you were in the shadow of akhole what how do you know that that's what hashem said in fact that's what exactly what hashem said and you know all right if you take the different letters of the olive base and you put them in certain ways you could create things you can make a golem because made the world with serif icy ice but sal knew how to do that that only gives wisdom to a person that has wisdom how do you have wisdom to get wisdom how do you start out with wisdom you only get wisdom if you have wisdom so then says so that wisdom you get on your own once you have that wisdom of irish understanding then he'll give you more of dreams there is a beautiful cartoon that ruvain made and i just enhanced it a little bit here's the dream i finish ass am i dreaming and here he's holding a nido the final masekta in okay fine this is it this that's it for today everybody said the rest you have to oh and for tomorrow's dreams rabbi pessin made a beautiful um i don't know like a whole thing and he gave it to me it's literally i don't know like eight feet wide and eight feet tall it's it's massive so i don't know maybe we'll hang it up here tomorrow and i'll have to point to it all the dreams like in cartoons the whole beautiful thing like a nice picture there's a lot of interesting rules when it comes to dreams called halloween dream anything you want but don't dream about fasting fasting in a dream is a terrible thing if you don't decipher the dream it's like a letter that you never opened up in other words there's no harm you don't know what's in the letter nothing happened i remember reading once i think it was lincoln he was once mad at like a certain general he wanted to destroy him so he wrote him a very very nasty letter and his wife took it to the post office and she threw in the garbage and that was the end of that so if you don't open the letter nobody knows about the letter then that's the end of the story he got to let me carry because the gemara is going to say later on that it's all in how you decipher it so you you put words into the into the dream that makes the dream be misguided if you don't look at it you don't know it then it's not nothing happens another side no matter if it's a good dream or a bad dream it never happens 100 like you dream it the gemara will explain it's better it's preferable to have a bad dream than a good dream because a bad dream will bring you to chuva says rashi you'll be scared and you'll start thinking about chuva on the flip side you have a good dream you feel all good about yourself you're comfortable that's not good when you have a bad dream that sadness that you have that goof is the kapara that undoes the dream because you're sad then the dream goes away but if you have a good dream and you're all happy about yourself it also it's that's not good for you it's not good to be happy who is blind so in other words he's he's blind and even though that he's blind if he has a good dream it's not good the the happiness that he has from the dream will ruin it for him i'll take away his time i was thinking about if a person is born blind how does he dream what does he see in his dreams what colors does he see like what shapes does he see he says the thought think about it i don't know he thinks about sound i don't know like i wonder what somebody i have to ask so if somebody knows i would be interested he wasn't that's why i said i said after reviews later on no there's a story about the rambam what very few people have no vision at all okay the rambam once had an argument they've got the stories that they've had an argument with somebody with some other doctor if you could heal a blind person and they claim that you could heal a blind person what from blind from birth and he said you can't and the and the doctors that i could so they they proved it to him they brought a baby a kid and they said here we healed him look he was blind for birth we healed him so when did you heal right now we just healed him so the rabbi pulled out a handkerchief and he asked the kid what color is this the kid said it's red he says how do you know what red is you never saw red you know you don't know what the color is all right it's better to have malcols than to have a bad bad dream shining about the kimonos chamber that you should fear him is a bad dream so the the navi is going to say over the dream i'm going to say over the truth he he compares the shaft heaven the shaft of the wheat as part to the wheat itself about dreams you cannot have wheat without the shaft it won't exist that's where we get the asia that every dream has falsehood in it is he's talking about his brothers and his parents that are going to bow to him but when they actually came to about him in mitzrayim his mother was long gone rocco was lifted away before by benjamin was alive obviously he had a dream correct correct but i'm saying even even even at the uh right but at the time from the beginning okay the dream it's about okay fine i heard [Music] you should wait for the good dream to come true for 22 years toronto when did he dream his dream when he's 17 years old and seven years of of of of of uh of plentiness and two years of famine retired in 22 years and that's when they came that's when they bowed that's when the dream came true oh my lord they're never going to show a good dream why because that will take away from his sakhar he'll feel so good he'll take away from this and to a bad person they don't show a bad dream because that will give him sakhar seems like rashid learns in ravuna and that's how you have to understand the surgery the raven is saying that to a good person they show bad dreams and to a bad person they show good dreams that's why i understand shouldn't have bad dreams so right after we stop here if attack has doesn't have good dreams but he has bad dreams but it says over here we dive in that he shouldn't have bad dreams bad dreams is not good for him ella am i what are you going to say he doesn't have either maybe rashi is wrong that's that's not how you learn the game it doesn't have either that's also a problem because it's sadly cannot go without a dream so what could it mean you won't be afraid but you know it's good why is it good what do you get if it doesn't scare you so then what did you gain from it a bad dream is only good if it scares you and you do true it's time to have a bad dream the negative in your in your in your house your wife coming back from a trip if she's a vadai then there's not a problem okay you'll you'll accept it but suffolk neither a person will have a very big problem with elo says that it's sadiq he won't see the bad dream but other people see the bad dream for him and he'll get the sahara for that what no mine is in parentheses if you sleep seven days without a dream nicaragua that's a bad thing shinema versus your pocket raw i think you're surveying good dreams but he won't know what they are so the bottom line in the gemara is the sahara of bad dreams he'll get through other people not going without a seven days without a dream he saw a dream just he doesn't remember it so he won't that won't take away from the sakha because he sees good dreams rasheed says this dream that he doesn't remember is not a bad dream it's a good dream that he doesn't remember mamela you guys are all cheaters somebody else what he doesn't have to know no they they dream it they tell you about the terrible things [Music] scary stuff no but i'm saying a person that goes seven days without dreaming but at the end he dreams he doesn't remember it but he's not around he knows in the morning he dreams he doesn't even know it has to be a fact that seven days went by and he dreamt he doesn't know about it too bad but he's not he's not a rah he had a dream that he doesn't remember all right if a person has a dream and he's very sad about it there's an amazing places here that says what is if tereno who does piston khaloimas rip shimmy this has nothing to do with sitkas this has to do completely with your muzzle venus has nothing to do with regardless it has to do with your muzzle person is born with it you can't develop it later on in life so if a person has a bad dream you should go to three people and let's see what they say asking more if toreno what he said he should be poisoned we said that if you don't open it up you don't open up a can of worms why why style what's that why should it be pisces that's what it's called make it better make it good no because they're not going to tell them what happened he's not going with the person like tomorrow we're going to have a crazy long soggy about rava 20 things that rather went to bergeo he said oh i saw this well that means your wife is going to die oh i saw this that means your kids are going to die that's a piston halaim we're not asking pizza i saw this that's great first of all you don't even say what you saw you said i had a and gamora's gonna explain here you don't say what it is and they're not telling you what it is no no it's bothering him he has to get over it it's bothering him right yeah aguma he is he's depressed about it what do you do he lies to them he says i have a i had a great dream for me and they say back home heavy it's a great dream it's going to be good exactly because you didn't open up we could do whatever we want with that dream we'll make it good that that's what you say that's not what you do you don't say it seven times you say it because should be geyser on you seven times which my others learn differently says this some people say this i guess now i understand why you say you say this if you say then then you don't have to come on to saying then by the way that talk about the reverse everything flipped 180. do this and then you say three you flipped over my husband to a dance we need judah you're not cutting it lady just not cutting it [Music] foreign we have to put a mic over there i don't think the island hears you but back the avalanche saw sign and i'm going to flip the avelos to sassoi and finally oh [Music] tell us something each one should say something that nobody ever heard before one of them said hi man of the year going to try to figure out who said what today not we're getting a break we don't know who and we'll never know a person saw a dream but he's he's worried about it he doesn't know what it is like him coming be don't know the parasite you die we do this this is when the queen will go smack because that's when we say the hatawa's because everybody has some sort of dream during the year that's your time to say it how do you do it the gemara explains what do you do you say the whole thing and the point is that when the quran you should make them great like the khalima's that joseph was paiser vinsworm and if there's a need for healing reform he made marijuana they must have been on the make sure they threw the stick into the water and made the bitter water into sweet uh who healed miriam he got an extra 15 years because of that alicia and eureka had bad waters alicia made the water good with some salt shame just like he flipped over his curse to abraham you should flip over all my bad dreams to god messiah says you should be messiah together with god what does know ask civica schoenberger i'm sure what do you guys do oh you're we're being right to you without even hearing us okay i say it oh the chronic say it yeah the grueling say it so no seriously it's in the center i say it because the draw doesn't say the other year route sign because of bakashas and he guesses you guys don't say it really not even once the gross is it three times supposed to say three times i didn't know that okay [Applause] and if he messes up and he doesn't finish off together with the omen of everybody else you hear people saying this there's something i have the minute to say this this is where it comes from the small you should take his thumb grab it with his other hand take the other hand and grab each hand grabs the other thumb like this and that's it rabbi sai i have a drill for everybody try to look at your nose could you see your nose who says yeah how many people you see there wow there's a lot of people with long noses there says the gemara no i have a pretty long nose and i can't see it and my husband said you're crazy how do you not see like he could see everything up his nose it's weird okay but only like six seven people raised their hand there so only like i don't know ten percent fine interesting sounding tomorrow you say you say to yourself i'm so-and-so the son of son and son of the year i come from yourself now the big question is i don't come from yours if i come from you the most of us come from yudho i have a yihas all the way to that's me most people also living in vegas so how can you say that they discuss it maybe it means i don't know i'm just throwing in here because i didn't see the stairs maybe it means there's some blood from your mother ben i know i'm not from yosef i think fine though doesn't have we're like we should be we're from his family we'll use that in her thing that he has for us bain poirots yosef bain paris are you for the people that do in horror there's no it's he's above the iron horror we have this also in this message they'll be like fish in the water protects them and if he's worried about his own arrow look at his left nostril if he could do so if you can't you're up a creek maybe maybe you got to pull it out i don't know close one no i can't i just can't look in the mirror what's the problem that that's the cause of dying harder but you look in the mirror wow what a good looking guy you are you're not supposed to you're supposed to look at your nostrils say wow i have such a long nose i have such a long nose that's okay a person this rabbis i think is very important i don't know the other side i always remember this gemara i never understood these people i heard about a guy but now i'm thinking about it i i was taking care of a i was involved with a guy that is a woman who had you know machia and she was marrying off her daughter and a whole long medicine she was ended up being nifty the week of her daughter's cousin so this guy went with him to her crime can help some time he told them don't tell anybody chasing a macleod but using stage four cancer don't tell anybody i don't know how it fits in here never understood this it says possibly high mandate a person becomes sick ill yo kamala gali you know a lot of people that don't it's a secret they don't tell people but it says in the gamora here the first day you shouldn't tell anybody it shouldn't be in horror so you see this kind of inaudible you shouldn't be happy when your enemy falls hashem innovation because if hashem sees that you're happy that you're ending that your enemy falls he'll take away the makkah from your enemy so mello i want my enemies to be happy therefore take away the michael it's a great trip one minute what we said earlier if somebody is ill then they should tell them oh you mean a different maybe yeah it has to be true i talked to people through a dream says robert would ask a question which one is it a bunch of liars you can never trust what they say so melo that's a dream yeah it's very very interesting all right business out maybe whispers in your ear you think you're dreaming of business some take this out some say it's a different requirements [Music] says i didn't get the same answer from any of them they all said something different the coulomb is kaimubi and all 24 happened them i hope they were all good you have the choice with your mouth to change the direction of the dream but it has to be from within the dream you can't just say oh he saw wheat so means he's uh he's going to fall it has to be within the same thing like the fine we'll stop right here you see that each each one the siren mash him dreamt about the sarah evans so they all knew that what he said was true have a wonderful day