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the other half you are renting the cow the cow dies the owner of course says that it died while you were renting and therefore you owe a whole cow and the borrower says no it happened when I was renting and I'm a renter Po from Potter H that you're using it up right that's one correction yeah what are you saying [Laughter] very good yeah I said okay the owner says while you're borrowing it and the sh I'm pretty sure I said the sh okay said while the first one I said the owner okay the sh said it was while I was renting it since the r said a very good oneliner so that's it he gets more Corrections he says as long as you make one mistake I'll correct you once very good if it's good good and starer take it we continue on there's another case M almost the same thing he borrowed it for a day and rented for a day and then the cow dies or the cow dies we don't know when the owner says it happened while you were borrowing it so you're the borrower says it happened when I was renting it third case is same idea he borrowed and rented two cows one was rented one was borrowed the borrower says it happened when I was renting the one that died and the owner says it happened when you were borrowing it now we turn to days we could start from the gamar we'll do it quickly even though we did it there's a few lines sham oh so the Mion continues sorry the owner said Top Line guy says I don't know I really don't know when it died what hours in the morning after I came home it was dead you the owner of some reason you know when it died so that's called a b the owner is certain the borrower is not he has to pay why cuz he doesn't know so the says so you see from here the same case when I tell you you owe me 100 and you say you don't know like you don't know this case you owe me 100 and he says I don't know this is the problem this doesn't go like our if I say you owe me 100 and you say I don't know I don't recall I don't recall it happens yeah it's happened to me people tell me I owe them money you know they laid out 100 Che or whatever okay say I don't remember exactly any doubt says in that case you are pot and our mission it says that case you'd be what do we do with this we're talking about that there's a the reason why says else also what if you're obligated to make a and there is no way for me to make a why is there no way for me to make a because I say I don't know so one am I going to swear if I know something I could swear that I know if I don't know I don't know and I can't make a so we have a concept if you can't swear you have to pay and that's why in our M you pay I just want to pause for a moment I see we have a guest sh what's your name wi from Detroit Detroit Michigan sh who are you with and you do the she with us dro the wrong sorry I'm sure he did for coming and what's your name I'm Randy kler from Seattle Washington Seattle Washington beautiful here visiting my cousin Rabbi wow and you also do the do with your Rabbi no no not with my Rabbi but I do the do elsewhere what about the fan well see there's an opportunity now wow visiting just a I've never heard of stefansky to be honest with you until now really but you just happened to fall in here unbelievable what a coincidence okay I feel bad I feel bad for that Rabbi you go to in Seattle when this is all over okay so oh this is a tough crowd we have we have a bunch of guests that don't even do the never even heard at least you heard about us oh okay good wow I mean you're traveling about so what is the exact case that a person you owe me 100 and the guy admits to 50 that's called what so a little bit of a and a little bit of I don't know since I don't know so you have to pay you can't make a you have to pay so what we're going to see is we have to add a to hour Su somebody admitted a little bit now the mishna says I took one cow and I'm not sure if the cow died while I was borrowing it or while I was renting it how could I do a mix on a one cow you can't have a m Mi on one cow you can have a m mix on two cows one cow I admit to you and one cow I don't know but how can I say half the cow I don't know if it a sh or and the other half I don't know there's no such thing can't divide therefore we're going to have to add cows to the mishna if we're ready talking about any so I got to tell you the story story there was a uh priest they say this a priest that demanded a public debate in the town square and uh the Jews were very nervous the loser gets thrown into a fire right there they build a fire loser gets thrown into the fire this uh wagon driver comes to town he sees everybody is Tish what's going on the priest demanded a public debate no so what's the problem so nobody wants to do it nobody wants to get thrown to the fire I'll do it no problem says you yeah I'm a professional debater don't worry about it so he goes to the town square with the priest and the priest looks at him he starts laughing what do you do he says I'm a wag he says okay you know what you go first he says okay when the gar says what does it mean so the priest says I don't know so the GU is the going whoa you don't know they took the priest they threw him in the fire so so they couldn't believe it they asked the guy you see this a I'm not joking they they asked the guy it's like how do you know how to pull off this trick so he says you know in when I was learning the G we learned any I looked in the T on the side the TA on the side said any there I don't know I figured if the the T doesn't know how's the priest going to [Music] know I want to just pause here for a quick moment we know that you're not allowed to lie and those who [Music] lie the Liars they don't see the if you had to think about this what would you say what is the worst lie a human being could say so the the worst lie is a lie that causes someone else a monetary damage when you tell somebody any some people think it's business I'm a good businessman I said the right word I said it in a way and I took money from the guy I liked him I tricked him that is they don't see I don't know they don't whatever that means it's a terrible thing think about it next time you're in business and you're facing another yid and you say that she that just a little bit a little bit of a lie to get the deal done so if there's as just stated on top of the that we have a little bit of you need to have a invol here Plus I don't know how do we have it we could find such a thing we must add a cow to the whole story The the beginning of the Miss was talking about one cow in fact it's two the end of the mishna right the rati means the two cases of I borrowed a cow for an hour and I and I rented it for an hour I borrowed a cow for a day and I rented it for a day so that those are the two cases they go together then you have the third case I borrowed two cows one was rented one was borrowed I must add a third cow to the story I gave you two cows not one either half the first case was half of the day was borrowed half the day was rented inam or the second case one day was borrowed one day was rented I'm telling you I'm the owner I know that they both died in the morning when they were rent when they were borrowed lent to you and therefore what you owe me two cows here we go we have two cows the guy says they died they're dead upside down Belly Up says the guy yes you're right oh you're right you're right you're right I owe you a cow it actually died in middle of the the borrowing period the other one I have no clue this guy I don't know it could be one of the other I don't know if oh so what do we have over here what do we have over here I don't know any IDE swear because of this well because of this also yeah you have to swear but I can't swear on this why because I have over here Anya what I'm going to say what do say about this guy I don't know if it died while it was rented or borrowed so we have a situation [Music] of therefore he must pay there's a famous story it's so famous that when I looked it up yesterday it was brought down in by at least 10 different Rebus was stolen by 10 different about the I'm not sure what's so about the story The Story Goes as follows came to the rebba he said Reb I see you struggling with parosa you have to know yish to appreciate it but I'm going to say it anyways even if you don't he says I see struggling with parosa so the Reb says I'm not struggling with paros I have two cows key in yish is a cow so the the guy says really okay following morning same knocks on the Reb's door the Reb has two cows yeah I'm here to to buy some of the Reb's milk he wants to give him those are my two keys that I have okay now we go it's not supposed to be funny it's just of I don't need your milk I don't need your in those days they didn't okay you didn't get a lot of now you used it up now you used it up over here comes every morning we got to add another cow got another cow that died over here yeah key I gave you two cows two were lent to you and one was rented guess what to your luck the two cows that I lent to you those are the two cows that died therefore what you owe me two cows you're right you're right so that's a check right over here I admit this is the one that died and this one I don't know and perhaps maybe this one I is a sh and I owe you money and the one that is alive is the rented one or perhaps it's the and therefore I don't owe you money for this middle cow the rented one the the lent one I'll give it back here it's alive have it back this guy I'm Potter for why because it was rented rented if something I rent dies on Potter you're saying it's on this guy and we have the and since he can't swear because he doesn't know what is he going to swear about he doesn't he P doesn't know so therefore he has to pay I skip this joke because I don't want to get cancelled if you want to see the joke you can go to the Hebrew one it's it's not a it's not a canceling joke but B you never know you say something and they start tching it up the wrong way fine like the joke I was gonna say Okay Z the why bring it up I was going to say it and then I the the the better the the the the smarter side of my Moa said don't do it don't do it I have this the struggle every day do you say the joke do you not say it you know what it was there I didn't say it because that guy was gonna sometimes sometimes I have control you never know it with subtitles this is the first time I almost spit up the water we're subtiles yeah that's really going to help those K they can put everybody wants to hear it it's not bad not bad Benny laughed a lot last night he laugh some jokes that are oh he's gone he just left says we're gonna have to add a fourth C sorry I gotta tell you this is a very very simple it's a short and I figured let me throw in the cows let me try to confuse so last night I was very much was they had no clue was flying by by the time it was over was today I'm not so successful check this out for a second according to there are three conditions that you need when have a seat let me guess let me let me take a guess England no you live here I knew something I felt theisha what's what's your name you what's your name okay don't tell me you don't listen to the sh you just came to see what's going on here be three for three today yeah that was great for so oh so wait a minute we know that if a let's do this together if a claims what claim does have to say in order to be Potter even if he says he's Potter provided that he makes a what does he have to say to be what does a have to say in order to be pot so these they must swear in order to get out of it without a they don't get out of it com says yeah first of all you need step on you have to say something if you're for instance you have to say n okay you have to say a that's poter now rabari where was rabari you saw now you you missed the in the back over there yeah miss the good stuff from but this first time here that's why okay okay but let me interview for a second let me see if he's right how long you doing this sh for a while okay for for the for the interview just lie say Yes Men I see you in a big rush somewhere what are you where you trying to get to wow today let's go come let's go so the second the second condition is you need a to say no nothing on this zero yeah this didn't happen and the third condition you need so again basically you need a it's not enough to have for you need a you need to deny it completely therefore we must add another cow and it goes like this so let's maybe take this guy away we're going to take out we're going to take this guy for for the third one because this is never happened I I deny the whole thing how does it work I gave you three that's the case half of them half of the day was uh lent half the day was rented or one day was lent and one day was rented and all three died all them were lent to you and you owe me three cows and says to him okay listen it wasn't even a cow it was a sheep it wasn't from you it was from somebody else the kids are you you got the story messed up yeah I I said something similar yesterday we just say guy says th this this drill that you returned to me is broken I gave you a fixed drill so the guy says first of all when you lent it to me was broken second of all it's fixed now third of all you never let me a drill that's okay you got the whole story messed up that's what happened over here I am I never I never borrowed from you three cows what are you talking about here this guy garnish nothing here not this one I don't like this one we'll do this one oh now it's some more understood yes this one I admit you see this one that died I admit I owe you a cow in be died during the period of me borrowing it and therefore I'm what about the third one here I have a suff I have no idea what happened you can't swear why can't you swear why can't you make a because I have another one wor I need it though thank you because I don't know and if I don't know there's nothing I could swear about when I don't know when I'm going to swear I don't know so have to pay let's a cow you just paying on the third one not the first one no the first that you admit of course you have to no no the very first one she no this one I'm I'm ker well you're what do you call it yeah you you have to you I would say you have to pay for that as well why not so what if you're a ker at the end of the day you have to make a and you can't make a you have to pay so make on what who says I'm not sure I'm not sure about that we have to look it up I gave you four three of them were lent one of them was rented of course to my luck the three that died are the ones that lent to you three cows and this is so the responds I'll do the sponsors when I'm done with this remind me then in four or five lines we got never happened and this one I admit to you I'm I'm a here I owe you that one happened while I was borrowing and I don't know this third one I don't know maybe it happened while I was renting and therefore I'm poter and this guy that's still around is the sh this is sha so here let's put one over here great this is a suff me there a suff maybe this leftover one is the the and therefore I do owe you for three or at least this one or did I skip something let's do it again the one that's left over might be the the bar one and thatter because it's it was was rented so maybe this guy was lent to me and therefore I and what's left over is the rented one very very simple so since I can't swear I can't make a I have to pay done okay put put these on the side sponsored by Eric Adan of bigger cup Consulting and M's wife was in critical condition after giving birth please stop and and my own son we have a between disagreement between the two people the owner of the cow and the guy using the cow the owner says that I lend the one that died is the lent one and therefore you a cow and he says no I know for a fact it's the other way around the one that died is actually rented okay it should be maybe like this if you want to see it okay like this is between the two who it is so what's the so the renter has to swear make a that the one that that was that was rented while it died okay now the gar for this we have to understand something very important we had a whole Su going according to the Mand according to ra who says we have to have a we're done with that for now we're we're going back to the originals the original mishna was there was one cow and two cows not two and three so according to the beginning of the mishna according to the m r who says we're talking about one cow not two cows so in this one cow there's no mixas you can't be a m mixas in half so I'm denying everything you're telling me you're telling me that this was this was lent to you and it died I'm saying no it was rented it was at the hour of rental so what am I saying I'm I'm telling you I don't owe you a dime and you're saying you owe me the whole entire thing you're telling me I owe you $100 I say I owe you zero so what am I I'm not a I'm a a doesn't have to swear what's going on [Music] here why should he make there's something called Gil here we go which means once you're already swearing every every Sher has to make a he has to make a that it died peacefully in its bed it wasn't that I was negligent it wasn't that I did something to cause it to die it died so once I'm making that oh I could I could add on other Shas right typically speaking I'm not going to make you make a why because you're well you already have to swear once you're making then I'm going to make another I'm going to make you swear another one that it happened while during the hour during the time of the day or during the day that was rented and not lent to you whatever the word here is you have to make a that it died regularly and because you're ready make another sorry great and the other cases in the mishna over there there's a suff and a suff you don't make both of them say like this where was it we don't know they're both a I don't know how could the owner know when it happened at what time of the day it happened right that was the question we didn't understand it ourselves he admits he doesn't know the guy renting it borrowing it also doesn't know he's at work when it happened he doesn't know if the guy if the animal died in the morning in the afternoon so what's the says who does that go according to very good what does say if you don't know we P don't know we'll never find out bezin can never deter what happened there unless there was a video somewhere we don't know so therefore the is you split it what but our must be going so we have a shil here and it's a continuous question it builds up one on top of the other and what's very normal for this kind of question is that the g at the end comes up with a here take a look at this chart so yesterday I don't know if you know but the AI was down a lot of the AI were down and uh so a lot of this was handrawn by Yoshi what he needs to he's he's a very good artist obviously so especially the guy sitting on on the box over there he's the owner of the cow rental place okay so the gar is asking if there was two let's say it was two months the first month is purple he lent it to the guy the second month the guy comes to return the cow he borrowed a cow he borrowed a cow for a month in a month you give it back to me yes he comes back after 30 days he says listen I love the cow it's doing great I'm not Dum plowing my field I know you want it back could you please at least rent it to me for a month sure I'll rent it to you so the's question is when you rent after you borrow are you starting all over again or perhaps some of theas that apply to you during the borrowing continue on why because some of theas are identical if you think about it is the worst off he's for everything he's for he's for everything so take all my here take a look when I borrowed it from you I did a m okay so now I'm in everything then I come after mon I said please continue it I was alreadying when I was a so now that I'm a I continued to be nothing changed so perhaps the fact that I was sitting on the box what does that mean I'm a b when you when you lent it to me you were B you gave me a cup of coffee and you lent it to me at the same exact second as you all remember the video from yesterday the tremendous acting from Gary when I rent you something or lend you something and I give you a cup of coffee at the same time you Potter and Absol from all anything that happens to the animal maybe she or not we had a the question of theor is do I take that B ofo that tour of B ofo and continue it into the so perhap no is a stop pause no we're starting all over again what are you saying you're probably thinking to yourself why why shouldn't it stop it stopped no or maybe not maybe you guys have in the room here it started off as I'm borrowing the cow from you and but you gave me a cup of coffee while you're were doing that and then a month later and when you rented to me you wen't there giving me a coffee you're smarter then you say listen it's two separate entities two different K happened here and the ball of that was in the beginning does not continue out throughout the whole thing they are connected why that that you had never went away you had a to pay if it was lost and stolen and Contin so maybe it's one and I could use the in the beginning at the end when you say are you saying that I agree with the first thing and that's the or not okay you'll say perhaps you'll say there's a continuation take a look at the chart for a second what if it started out with the r and ends off with a what's because now you added when you're a now you owe more you owe for also to take the the of of and use it for doesn't include a lot of things you want to include your B so now the question really is could you do b a par and then expand it to to the sh take a look over here let me see if it works now you became even more and you want to use that do say there's no connection between rental and borrowing because when you borrow something you're and when you rent something you're not since you're a little bit maybe does extend also to the period And I have a in that period as well and if you're going to say again now this now it sounds familiar these kind of sh shil usually end off with a A lot of times if you don't say that just because it's there in the beginning it should end take a look at the chart for a second what happened if I have three periods one period of then it goes into then it ends off in do I say that the original take a look now you have to check this out look at this guy on top over there does he kind of extend himself since he is by the sh so he should could be a continuation of by the so what if there was a a little bit of a break in the middle yeah there's no B of but do we take the original B of and put it at the end when the animal dies in step three do we have even though he's a usually but perhaps you have a of do we say that the original comes back into this place there's a big he if I'm mentioning the word he I just want to say the very famous I got to say once in a while we have to do that asks we're talking about right after between and and but Rea when he came back after 12 years to see ra his wife he heard her saying to the neighbor I wish my husband would stay another 12 years so he turned around and left and the question is he was already there why he open up the door and say how you doing how the kids and then leave it's because 12 + 12 does not equal 24 when you have a break you stop your it's a break also the power ofi is the non break every single day we learn every dayer [Music] yard sites weddings every single day what traveling working we're always doing it so yes and also to myself this is not to you I'm talking to myself when you're learning Tyra and you get that WhatsApp and you have that urge to look what's going on there that breaks the learning 100% it breaks it it takes minutes to get back into it and in terms of of the of it you lose everything the learning the used to learn six hours straight because there's nothing like learning straight jokes are all part of it it's uh you read not all whatspps are like that especially when you don't know what they are say like that but thank you very much cut cut that out right this I did so I don't know if it's as good oh is there's a stop sign over here great I don't know why Yi I just did this one so if doesn't come out perfect but the point is that it starts with goes to goes to had a few people bothering me while I was doing this they had video cameras in Z so it didn't come out 100 but oh same idea you move the guy from here to there does it work do you have sh when you have this it's the same question maybe there's a break we have a very very simple Mion here very easy it's the same idea over and over let me say sponsored by somebody that wants to recognize all the from MD myself when a person borrows an animal or any object when does the borrowing start let's say you you're you send the animal with your child did the barring start when you send it with the child or when it reaches my hand and I grabbed it so the the Mish says that exact idea in many ways back and forth the the owner of the cow is sending the cow with his own son with his slave explains it's not a is exactly like you it means somebody that lives in your house or the opposite um the borrower sending my kid to pick up the cow does it start then so I just want to show you real quickly what it is to send a cow with your child here first of all we have a video we have a couple things going on here here's a video found in uh on that t thing but this doesn't show the whole picture so I asked my 3D artist to do something okay you got the idea here's what the the South African guy did for us the guy's wearing mdy shirt screaming over there that he wants the cow oh of course the picture of me in the background yeah he says B I'm going to send it here we go oh hold on this is the n Boom the cow now look at his face very good so the cow dies on the way who's I send it with a two-year-old is it still my problem or is the borrowers problem is the two-year-old the good enough like how does it work I just want to say this real quickly also says that when a child pulls a cow the cow could give him one kick and kill him in a second and could trample him sit on him I actually once showed a video like that where a cow went M and trampled a kid because it was touching its baby whatever so when a when a when a cow goes after the human being is that an NOA says that's not Ana you know what that's called it's called shius when a human being puts himself down you're acting like a cow you're acting like a b also could put himself down that's shos no means understanding who you are understanding you're milus yet and saying I'm not I'm not better than another person I'm still evem I'm still nothing but I understand my mil just to act as oh no everybody step over me that's sh not no don't be a beh he says now but what if there's a saying here calls him up on the phone he says send me the animal with my son with my slave with my messenger with your son with your slave with your he says hey I'm about to send over the cow is that okay yes and he did it quick question why is he where's the K we talking the whole time he need to do m phone call is not enough where's the Kyon on a phone so they say there something called AR I guarantee something and that is and then one three more words the same exact applies when I want to return the cow and I say I'm returning and you say okay then that's it from that point on it's yours if I send it with my son but I we don't talk about it it's still mine if I send it with my son and we do discuss it you say do it then it's your yoursai have a wonderful day [Music]