Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 9 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning rap Bo it's a beautiful beautiful last night it's not that's first of all no was the very very first person in the year period very first person in the 8 Minute da that walked into my house and the very very first person walked into to and sat down the very first person is here B when I say I mean his son himself does the da should continue so it's a big it's a big mdy huh the same way you gave very nice now you want to know if he gave me a br under the you you know you know the answer no I asked not to give me send the call to something else I'm not going to ask anybody not to give me S the C I like s the co I only got it twice and a half one was an adult a 20 something year old he he wasn't really on my lap if you know what I mean his head no no if you have ever been but okay welcome who else do we have here and all guests oh you're the real guest we knocked you what's your name har har perel from an beautiful I just found out yesterday I didn't know this that in Panama they do the shear a guy sent me a whole voice I don't know how to how to play there I have an email for you hi rebell hope everything is well I'm so excited to see my buddy back at the she at times when he was missing I have screamed out to the screen when you've missed a couple of words knowing that n would picked it up immediately your sh is beautiful and delicious like a gaka chicken soup butman adds the salt to it your T from and the first guy to join the she from Bar Park of Li let me show you this is the first time I've ever done this I took a screenshot of my phone I know you guys have been doing it for years I've never used this feature and I'm not very good at it but I want to show you Dove Harris's status here we go just wondering how does your mag show and it goes through this thing that's so you can do all this on status it's like a little video and then okay the thing M what was the point I'm just trying to show it again and there's a reason why 20,000 people each day experience kmak from gamor like never before and then he gives you the link on the next thing this is how status looks toring Gaza thinking of rebi so with tour guide one of a few we have a few I don't know if they're in the room but galic see giving tours in Gaza just friends just friends friends but okay but still good morning notice re has been focusing on everyone updating their WhatsApp status while it's great and important way to spread the word about the she I think you're missing the lwh hanging fruit there's something called WhatsApp channels I don't know what that is which allows you to post daily to anyone who adds your channel on WhatsApp check it out we have channels okay dear B first I want to thank you for your amazing share recently started listening this share and really enjoy it Mya and I both Newly Weds learning in yes had a debate if this concept of it's better to be a does that apply to guys sitting and learning Yesa all day the argument is that the Yesa system was set up first s to learn and second so this Concepts apply to all stages of life thank you very much do green so when you're in Yesa you learn and a little bit on the side obviously is not to replace Thea system is not the best way to learn either it's the best way maybe for baltim who don't have a lot of time and it gives you that consistency but when you we have commitment and how do you say in English consistency I said it already so I just say it in HEB I don't know what it means um yeah so when you'rea I think you should stick to it I'm not saying that you shouldn't do that because it could be a very nice way to gain other things but I'm not saying this there's better ways to learn than and in Yesa they have a better way now exactly how to learn in Yesa I'm also not getting into I don't want to fight with all the RAS how slow they go with the like and the stier and all the the before how they said the speed Etc not going to get into that's a different argument long time daffer first time caller I started the da with subis with one of officials $11,000 incentive recruitments wow back in the day can truly say you've changed my life when I started the I lived in Baltimore Maryland now I live inbs gim I'm already to attend sheer live every night B my father is undergoing his shun revision surgery before shabas today thank you for all you do done and to do Mas it's good thing he brought his picture here because I would have I don't know if I would have known who Elliot Mas is but now I do is not sponsored is sponsored by Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages of the of his father ra David Joan happy 70th Manny Fe rebell da is an inspiring way you begin each day y see rasner remember in memory of my mother's yard side I just got an email from him is that you are you there rasner that's not you that's somebody else Oh I thought who sent me did you send me an email hello you sent me an email the other day no different person ell masz oh sucessful surgery today for and finally we haven't heard from him in over two days mother a very own Gary some that cares but Gary should be for the family and may the family know no no more sorrow the anonymous for the easy child birth his daughter and healthy baby that's the for the art we're holding on the bottom we were in middle of a sugya can you acquire an animal by riding the animal you're not doing you're not doing M what are you doing so re HUD is of the opinion that riding an animal is like sitting in a wagon you you could see that uh the artist revised it he's no longer holding on to the reings he's just his hand is behind his back like this if you want to see again no wrong one here see he's chilling R says that riding an animal is not Co the animal problem is what do we do the first Miss says that people are riding the animal they they divide the animal in half how do they make a Kenyon the answer is they kicked the animal they didn't just sit on the animal right they they gave it a little rub in the ribs that they were mic and that's why they're kind not because sitting on the animal just sitting not doing anything not pulling the rain that is not ACC to now we're going to see if that works out with other and otheres that we have a very very famous picture called from if you with us then you should remember this picture the whole is I think the only time I ever bought paid good money for this picture you know online they charge you money for pictures I usually steal them and then we revise them this one I actually paid I don't steal somebody just wrote me an email he says he watch so he didn't watch the shear he saw that we used the picture from in the shear I say we have from gave permission so this guy has plenty of time in his hand and he writes me an email a nasty one using the art picture watch the shear and listen to what I say okay people have nothing to do with their time just to write into and bother them and hack a China you say scream instead of screamed you said screamed scre okay fine people are people have a lot of time in their hands so we don't have you went to a guy guy from Lakewood big part of this year I like him a lot why did you go to the army base to make a SE the army base you know what the bagat I don't know what the bagat I don't care the guys I'm doing anyway I'm not going to say guy from Lake which non Anonymous trust me non Anon non Anonymous from Lakewood make AEM write yourself write myself an email this this how I those people vent in emails and I vent over here I'm the same sugar as them have to start day that's right oh here we go here we go everybody vents in their own way anyways Kam gaml is that's the name of this guy why cuz he's leading the camel and going behind the donkey that's exactly how it's done this is how it's done typically speaking you'll see in all the pictures in the desert there's a a guy dressed with this I don't even want to say what an Arab walking in front of a camel in front he's not in back he's in front with a donkey you walk on the side or behind so the question is like this two people are pulling the camel they're in front so that's normal this is normal but it's two people or two people are behind the the donkey or one in one oh I'll tell you this musack a mush all has to do with the D every musle this uh this donkey he they loaded him up a little bit too much and they want him to like walk up Mountain so he said don't refuse this they give him a z another one nothing zero so big donkeys came and covered his head with a sheet and gave him a zet so he took a step him another zet made it up the mountain he said what's is that the donkey was so heavy he looked up the mountain he said no I'm not doing this once he put the sheet on okay one step I could one step at a time you look at it you say 2,711 impossible we do one day at a time we don't look at the whole thing just one step at a time put the blindfolds on one one step at a time please that's how you're the guy goes in front of the camel the guy goes behind the donkey great rev that will see what it means exactly me the argues now this is it doesn't work like that you can't just go behind a camel you can't go in front of a donkey that's not how you kind of the D is to do it a certain way you go in front you lead a camel you go behind the donkey that's how it is and and that's you do it otherwise you're not he says is asking a question here what's the question at last night still doing it how long are you doing this year for since BR no way since bras I mean I've been on and up but on bras on again no no you've been on you've been on more than off I know everyone else yeah that's right he wants to go on the cruise we kids are you like at we're going to be stuck with a cruise somebody came who was the one from Manchester what's his name I forgot his name the guy just moved from Manchester Saunders saers he came to me with yesterday he comes to me with the number of the guy that runs cruises he you want to start talking to him like no it talks about isn't this a question rud says that I'm sorry it's not a question it's it's actually a r we're talking about M pulling animals pushing animals but it doesn't talk about riding on the donkey why not you see that revie this right that you cannot write a donkey not if you ride on a we're talking about to mention one of the no you are writing it's not a riot to so why are we emphasizing only these two by the way not to be confused and I don't want to Dr anybody a cup here we're talking about Rud r raud was he said that you don't acquire an animal by riding it and then theor on the top line talks about rebud who's rebud who was Reb's rebi re rud's rebi the the author of the mission is rebi the day that Rudi was n r Yehuda was born right think about it rebi taught RAV and RAV Ruda we just said yesterday rud always quotes rud always quotes RAV and RAV is a of rebi reud is re's rebi so because it's not so far away maybe 100 years away 150 I don't know few Generations away but they're not [Music] huh okay and you want to keep on going and and was the T of okay fine very good we can go on forever you're right I'm just trying to show the the difference between re Yuda and rabuda few Generations re was a Tana at the end of the tan he's more like a talet of of whatever those okay you see what I'm saying yeah yeah well then then you also have and but you're right rebi is is a but I'm just saying that they're not so far away was all way at the end of the was all in the beginning of okay says but the two different people not to be confused the says that it has to be in a certain way you have to pull the the camel you have to be in front of the camel and you take a stick and you whack the back of a donkey that's the way you're K we're not talking about all the K like riding and that it could be writing works also but we're trying to say not like you can do it either way even if you go behind the camel and you whack him you're Kaa and if you go in front of a a donkey you'rea so the language is not so good let's mix it up and just say it straight out that what two people we pulling and pushing doesn't matter what animal it works say it's not absolute why there's one out of the four options right a camel has pulling and pushing a a donkey has pulling and pushing four options one of those doesn't work and we don't know exactly which one it is if you were to pull a donkey it's Mish atag it's completely the wrong way to do it so that doesn't work and some people say hitting a camel from behind doesn't work it says in the the face of the generation is like the face of the dogs to explain that a dog pretends that he's in charge he always runs ahead of his owner and he K's in charge once he gets to a corner of a street he gets confused just looking and then he looks behind to see where where the owner is going to go he says that the in the time of Mia the leaders the manim are going to start looking behind them to see to ask kol what do you want me to say what should I do how do you want me what direction do I go they're going to ask not going to have enough guts to stand up and and then and be man this some say it's the same thing said the same just from the last part from the words that say this is the way that you're going to be these animals what does it mean this way and not what doesn't it come to exclude riding an animal that it's not not like it's going to say that if you do it the opposite way way you're not that if you push a camel or pull a donkey not that's exactly said that you can't do that oppos way no it's only one out of the four ways doesn't work is some say it means pulling the donkey instead of pushing it some say pushing a cam instead of pulling it oh we have a nice picture I forgot to show this finally after the is over here's beautiful David where's the where's the zoom we should put the zoom on the covered mendle mle is here oh here's zoom in second look at that everybody say hello to remal learner here you say wave to him you have remle okay what's the point meny what's the point you hear that TMA like Ellie enough of the zoom thank you what's the point huh I say men your M two different here okay so you like it that's why I keep on going man it's for you is this Bridal it's called in English this this thing that goes around the the the horse's head you don't see it oh cuz he's on Zoom that's why Dave enough with the zoom M said enough with the zoom what's the point are you able to get him off just stuck that's it we're done oh here's the brid on this thing that that holds the uh Reigns now we're not so we're not really talking about the Reigns in the beginning of the Su at the end we do go into the rains it seems like there's some sort of jump to the rains but m would mean the leather part that's strapped to the animal one guy is on the donkey and one guy's grabbing the M he thinks that if he grabs the M he's going to acquire this Donkey from the Hef whatever it is it's a m somewhere let's say a g di I don't know what the guy riding the donkey he acquires the whole thing so if we stop here we see what that riding is a Kenyon the guy that grabbed onto the he is the guy that only gets a tell you this uh have to say it in maybe it's it's a nice a guy comes to the rabbi he says the I need a t for the big AA I did what was the AA I stole I stole a leather strap so says okay so give it back no can't give back it was was tied to horse I took the strap I took the horse so he says uh so so give back the horse no no no the horse was tied to a wagon K so get back the wagon says there's two kids in the back of the wagon said I got rid of the kids ah so so what's the Nell I think no bad I heard this is like I think we all minimize our Affairs you say I only mom is steal a lot was a little took wagon I spoke a little guy now he has that's another problem I just said two words no no you have to think about the whole ramifications the whole thing don't try to minimize it's not the string don't fool yourself it's not just string okay it's not n Su really but I I was talking about a stream okay fine so you see from here that riding the animal is the guy that's holding on to the bridal is not K it's kind of a little bit of brid so says oh actually we have a nice picture here of a guy riding the animal and the guy holding the M see actually I know the original picture didn't have him holding the M like that over it's clear he's holding we're going to jump what he did over here just to show manag again it's very subtle but the beginning part you look at his shoe and you see M boom that kick is what's Co of the animal not the fact that he's on top of the animal there's no R was talking about when he's on top of the animal not doing anything that's not a Kon kicking the animal making it go fast or moving that's what's if if he's such a he's such a k he's so in charge let him also acquire the bridal why says Rashi let's say there's you you Adorn the animal you put a Tait on the animal you put some I don't know what a crown whatever it is on top of the animal they do that jewelry whatever it is so whoever acquires the animal acquires the jewelry so why is this any different than jewelry it's part of the animal it's it's on his it's on his head so she should be should be cing it so where right not only did he acquire the donkey he got also half of the bridal that NE guy that wanted to acquire the whole Donkey doesn't even get a whole M gets a half of M says but we have to understand according to what we learned yesterday when you have two people two people holding one Talis so the way it works is that each person we said each person has to have kavana to chire for the other person because each person is actually limiting the other person from acquiring it if the talus was like this you don't acquire it why because you didn't do you didn't lift it up off the off the floor so if another person is holding it you didn't lift it off his hands so how are you acquiring it so it has to be that I have kavana that he should be K and he he has kavana that I should be Ka and we're both kind together otherwise neither of us is kind a third guy could come and grab this Talis away so over here we have a problem because the bridal is on is on the donkey the guy on the donkey is not holding the bridal so if it's on the donkey it's like it's on the floor the guy that's lifting up the the the the bridal okay he's making a Kon but but the other guy is opposing him but the other guy is not lifting it the other guy is not helping the guy that's holding on to the bridal the guy holding on to the the bridal is helping and having kavana for the guy in the donkey it's a one-way street over here say the guy on the donkey the other guy has to be for him so at least he gets half but the guy holding on to the brid how is he oh so now we have to mend this as well now we're limiting even more the guy in the donkey gets everything the guy holding on to the bridal what's ever in his hand he's K maybe this is what it's not really uh let me just see it's more like this so the guy on the no that's that's later and what we had before yeah this not this not M yet go back what for himself who correct but of course he has D for himself but if he has that for himself he won't be C anything because the other guy's opposing him so the only way you could have you you're forced into being a nice guy and having that for the other person you're forced that's what I was telling Sly yesterday it is gonna end up with everything oh so in this case it's a big problem that's what we spoke about yesterday I'm only gonna do and have you in mind if you have me in mind if you're gonna have me in mind I'll have you in mind come will work for each other but over here not and that's exactly what the is gonna say it only works if both of them are going to gain something from it I'll gain half you'll gain half so in order for me to gain half I'm almost not going to gain anything I'm going to lose everything so I have to have you in mind and you're going to lose everything so you have to have me in mind and like this both of us will make a K on half on half of it that's if we're acting fearly over here I have a mind for you and you have a mind for me but in this case the guy in the donkey is not having me a mind he wants to take 90% of it he's leaving me with whatever my fingers grab that's nothing the guy that's grabbing on to the bridal to the rains whatever you want to call them right now the bridal still a little bit he doesn't have anything he why would he have the guy on the donkey in mind when he himself doesn't get anything out of it why should he help out the guy in the donkey the only way the guy in the donkey is kinded the whole Bridal is if the guy in the ground has him in mind what if the guy in the ground doesn't have a mind he won't be coming to the bridal so why should I do all the work I'm holding on to the bridal I'm giving you 90% for me to get 10% not fear so I won't have you in mind I don't have you in mind you don't get anything I'm not I'm not doing you any favors so therefore you're not going to be cing any of The reigns but you'll you'll acquire the bridal that's on the donkey because you're part of the donkey you got the donkey I grab a little bit of the rains so I get that part that I grabbed why because it's in my hands the guy in the donkey is not helping me so I don't get half and may all the rain the rains that are not being held not by the donkey driver not by the other guy hefer anybody could go and grab it that the guy on the ground grabbing the bridal like this here here let's show this picture again the guy on the ground holding the rains he he acquires the entire Bridal everything that was the initial thought of the gamar the guy on the donkey gets the donkey the guy that grabbed the brid gets the whole brid what's the so it goes like this if this Talis is on you see do you see this Dave no back it up a little bit are you able to back up okay maybe move this TS thing for a second pull that a little that way the ti is more this way yeah okay thisor okay this T if I go like this I'm not Co why because the Talis is on the ground I can't be Co it half is in my hand half is on the ground I didn't do I didn't do this if I did this for a second I'm Co what is this oh what if I have this go like this now I'm coo right now I'm coo why CU all I need to do is this oops why is that it on the ground it is on the ground but it's high up it's high up and I have the ability to go like this I could be Mantic I could just dislodge it for a second and then it'll fall and when it'll fall it'll be in the ear for a millisecond and as it's falling in the millisecond I'm coing it boom before it h the ground it's a of I could it's like a MIG I could pull it I could go like that okay so the doesn't like that because then you're making Naas if it's on the ground it's like this if it's over here I could go like that and if it's over here I could do this but if it's over here I can't do it doesn't say anything it doesn't say any where it is and how it is if I don't put if I don't have the whole thing in my hand I'm not What's because I could bring it to myself fine is like a joke it's a nice way of saying that it's not so accurate here we have a little bit of a picture here not a here you have a Talis on the Is this different than the Talis is on the ground according to what you just said yes cuz I just have to pull it a little bit and it goes flying off the off the beam the guy that lifted it off the ground even though it's still on the beam should be according to you what happened in this case another second person came and grabbed it off the beam according to what you just said the first guy was since he could he has the ability to be the first guys we don't see any enough Kina like that anywhere it's slightly a mistake very interesting we have it till till this very day especially here in so these guys in Co I see them walking to the bus stop they wait by the bus they wait so I I SP I spoke to them a few days so why you why don't you get a like a scooter th300 $400 a couple monthly things on the bus you and you get home in two three minutes you have to wait for 20 minutes for the bus and besides there's a you standing there with women then you get onto the bus you push around with it doesn't pass so much no if I ride a scooter my kids won't get married they won have so there's certain like certain communities you can't when I was a kid in very people big long white they even have pictures used to drive Vespas and they had a little seat next to them and the wife would sit in the seat a whole mat with the generations the things everything changed we became best mention in different communities whatever some people don't care my was flying around with a yellow helmet on his scooter remember that than what about it takes you an hour to get home instead of three minutes okay each person in their own thing it didn't start today we had in the time of the gor this pass now if you're riding in a field great if you lead your animal in the city great what if you're on top of an animal in the city so what it says that if you ride an animal in a field you're Ka rud says you're not ka anytime if you ride an animal so you have to say is not talking about is talking about he gave him a good zet I don't know if works there that wasn't the right way to say it but anyways so what's the difference between leading an animal or kicking an animal you both both are leading as we had yesterday that even though you're on top of it and you're leading it you're still not better than the guy leading it so if you're doing this in a city why is that not good says it's not it's not it's not it's not to ride in the city lifting up a wallet on what is a wallet Onis huh no is a that if you have a very valuable item like a like a a mil na for a beautiful painting his AR kiss huh no would be a hammer is huh he's right is right huh if it's a lot of money ins wallet what do you think is inside the wallet toilet paper peopleedit card oh okay so if it's toilet paper it's not M at all it's very usable but if it's if it has money inside money is it has no usage on CHAS you can't open up a a fruit with it you can't purchase anything with it so it's like a stone it's one of the worst no you don't cover about with it's one of the worst M this ever CU if you have a hammer I can move it away if I need the place I can take it off my seat if I need to sit down if you have money on your seat you can't okay fine what are you saying what's so that so and it's different than is that different than money NE right so that but more that's it would be more okay fine so that's exactly what I said that's anyway it's not the D of human beings to lift up a wallet on chabas the famous three said my re is unbelievable there was once a giant fire and there people so he said and he walked right through the fire said that's garnished there's a guy drowning he said went in there says that's gmas you're talking about gmas my reab when it comes to he could do it also what happened was he was walking on chabas and he saw a wallet full of cash he said chab CH and he grabbed the wallet but that that's why it says over here it's not they could pick up okay fine anyway he's also I didn't mean his you need to make him I'm waiting what what's the point he said he said what's the point beautiful beautiful anyway so what says at the end of the day you made a who cares if it's chab not chabas who cares if it's surpass I'm not going to have shim if I if I do this I ride the animal so you w't have shim but you made a Kenyon on the animal what how does that stop the K from happening the K Works we're talking about that there two people involved there I'm buying something I want you to acquire it only in one way the way that's normal for people to be to acquire it and therefore and this is the if you ride an animal why because you you are you're an amusement park you hold on to your to your child really tight you don't want him to get lost you're in the airport over here also you're people coming and going this animals Everywhere You Hold On Tight to your animal you ride the animal sorry you ride the animal because you don't want it you don't want to lose it and the Very of person like a imagine we had riding the the the donkeys so that's normal for them so that's that's within what the seller said the seller said a woman is weaker she's worried that she's going to lose her donkey so she she she rides the donkey instead of leading it and if he's a p whatever that means a very simple a simpleton who he also okay fine surpassed him a guy says you see these two sacks full of gold I want you to be Co it with my animal but I don't want you to to acquire the animal the animal is mine it's my car I need my car you purchase these two sacks make a Kyon through the animal so first of all let's get the the the technicalities here how could it be kind of me he didn't say the word which okay he did tell him pull it li no but no you have to say you have to be accurate okay so fine he did say okay we're talking about a case don't don't try to get into technicalities we're talking about a case he said he said all the right words does it work or not it's like if I pull the animal which is not mine am I acquiring the oh sponsor and to Baltimore Maryland the non official thanks to them 137 137 people you throw out the 137 people learn 16,000 somebody just wrote me an email from maybe I'll read it the next day whatever he said I'm Contin of course I'm continuing with over 700,000 minutes of wait a minute stop says ra you're talking about a case that he did didn't acquire the animal he just wants to acquire the Caleb what about if he tells him both it also doesn't work it's a walking like we have a beautiful picture from bakama I love this one one of my favorites it's a walking your yard your acquires for you but not a walking one not a moving C there's the famous M maybe it happened in Chicago maybe it didn't happen at all the guy says I want to build a Suka in my parking lot so the owner of the building says absolutely not no suas in the parking lot why not you have 20 Extra Spaces no no Jewish suas you you people were not going to have whatever he said okay you didn't let him build a Suka so the guy went and got a and uh he he he built a Suka on a truck and the truck he could park there the guy can't tell him not to park a truck in the parking lot and so this is a big sh what is a car is a car first of all so for Suka of course it works you allowed to build a Suka on on a boat Etc on a wagon but there's we'll see in a second maybe there's a difference says like this I'll tell you what happened was there was and he was walking with the donkey as soon as the donkey stops now he acquires the Cale because it Stood Still that doesn't work either if this donkey could walk since he has the ability to walk so even if he's standing or sitting it doesn't work it's a moving it's considered a moving says remember we had this with the slave if you tie down the animal so now it's a non-moving object so it's tied down it would work so they told if you are on a boat here we [Music] go it's a scary ride over there as long as they're not Panos I don't think they can do anything out of the water but anyway if a fish jumps into your boat so how do you acquire the fish says there's a here a boat is stationary so therefore the is kind of it's the water that's moving they didn't have engines then it's the water that that makes you move it's the the the whatever it is so that's why people have a shw what about a car some people want to go as far as saying that a car also stationary just has an engine inside that moves it but the car itself okay not getting into it but that this different far as different things what about an airplane airplane certainly well if it goes in the speed of the ear then it'll be like the ear moving it but since it goes faster I don't know I'm not a r but it's interesting it's interesting far that the boat is just stationary and the water is moving if a woman was walking down and the husband threw a get into the the point is this one the C here's the picture now look at look look what happens here it's p why he divorced her because she had those fancy uh sunglasses oh he threw a get into her basket is she not divorced now of course she's divorced how do I know she's divorced because that says that if you throw a get into a woman that walking basket she's divorced but according to what you're telling me it's a moving basket it's a moving the basket is not moving she's walking underneath it she's the one moving not the that's why it works says he's on top of an animal and all a sudden he notices a great find a lost object give it to me what we learned you could tell somebody to acquire something for you here we have we even have a picture what happened he's walking he's on his animal he can't reach it of course he tells the guy see socks and why socks lift them up for me so the guy says okay great for pointing it out to me he lifts it up I want it for myself he takes for himself just because you see it you can't be kind with r with just seeing however but if he gave it to him first he gave it to the guy on the horse and you know what I meant to to get grab it for myself because one of his friends told him oh you could have grabbed for yourself it's too late beautiful so is one of the gifts that you give a poor person you leave him the corner of the field comes a random person and says you know I have a neighbor who's very poor let me grab the wheat and give it to him says Rashi can't be the owner of the field the owner field is excluded you can't decide who to give the the the the the to so say but wait a minute according to later on you could be so he could be mf's field and then he becomes on then he could give it and they say no that also doesn't work it's a special Zer that you cannot you can never give your P to whoever you feel like even if you're so what if a random person off the street comes grabs it kind of from the hefer so to speak and decides which which need to give it to says it works she give it to the very very first on a guy comes to the Reb says um marrying off a kid what should I do he says go to and collect money he says I don't know what to do I don't speak English when I'm going to go to and St where do I go how do he says you go with you go with everything will work out so he comes to America he's there for a day he walks into the show he walks over a guy and the guy says how much is the she says you know how much the how much does the cost there it's not like in America okay whatever $20,000 okay just throwing it out $20,000 depends if you're doing kid or other place whatever you can do it cheaper $20,000 so he says $20,000 he pulls out a checkbook writes him $20,000 check gives him check the guy couldn't believe it he goes back tooll one stop one check next year of course he goes back to America goes into the show goes over to the guy guy says how much is the he says $20,000 he pulls out his checkbook gives him $18 $18 what do you do the guy said listen I I had a big Tor I told the first that comes to me the first guy I'm I'm paying whatever he wants so he goes back to the Reb and he tells the Reb the theb says yeah first time you went with B you went with full belief second time you thought oh I know how to get it already I know how to do it I'm going to go to this guy you don't have $18 when I was on the latest talks podcast in yish so the guy across from me I don't remember his name hully something something like that he shom BR Ran's brother-in-law so he said he really really wanted to go to really wanted to go to like this he couldn't afford that day he gets a phone call you want to go you want to go to come let's go guy took him he said he learned the whole way he in a different world he couldn't believe it that from from ding from in in a minute like that okay we have to have says the gar that's if a wealthy person a person that's not eligible for this food for the is whether a wealthy guy could grab and give it to a poor person a person has the to become poor in one second has $10 million in the bank he just have it to the world and he becomes poor and if he becomes poor he could grab this he could take the $3 worth of and therefore he could give it right now even though he's wealthy he could give it to whoever he wants because he has the ability to become poor I have a question for what kind of is that what normal person would take $10 million and throw it in the toilet so that it could have a little bit of wheat so the answer is that I myself know a few people that have done it B how for a little wheat what's wheat wheat is he's hungry he wants to eat now I know people that for one TAA one TAA they threw they threw away millions of dollars their marriage their children and everything they had all their friends and everything Bas I know a few people like that left the community cuz of one stupid decision one type they couldn't control himself this is also I get the hint I get the hint I get it it's already 8:00 somebody Trel yeah have a million doll yeah but he's starving right now correct yeah but he's doing it for another person also on okay I'm just saying the idea don't it's not such a farfetch idea that people throw out everything they have for one minute of a says and now so so one Mig is I could become poor the second this is a beautiful Mig if I could acquire for myself I could acquire from my friend and what does this have to do with anything this is amazing because if a person feels that he was like like the did something for his life so you have to be you have to talk you have to tell your friends but abundant that's great so you have amig that can become poor and once I become poor I could acquire for myself and once I acquire for myself I have the ability to acquire for somebody else but that's a double me I could say since I'm already poor I could acquire for myself so therefore I have the ability required for you but but to say but I could also become poor in order to be myself that's already a double step two steps we don't say to become step number one is I'm wealthy I could become poor and now that I'm poor step two is I'm poor and I could acquire for myself so therefore I could acquire for somebody else that's two steps I but if he's already poor then I could be for somebody else according to everybody have a wonderful [Music] day 8:30 and if you're interested in ACC quarter to two will say to for [Music] the