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[Music] good [Music] like sponsored the young girl a 12y old girl let's go back over here I always love to get these emails they're far and few in between Hebrew recently I found out about yeshu and different things okay I want to tell you that usually you read Mals from people who are usually considered balam or older people and because of the she they learn more but you should know you probably know this already I'm an A and A few of my friends we are from the way that you give over the and the change it makes in lives so if somebody thought differently also need you hear this also need continue learning to huh did anybody grab [Music] yet now they look down at you you go to that this is a nice piece that um ghi Rose wrote I will not read it it was one of the one of the first emails I am not going to read but I'm putting out here whoever wants to read it and laugh to themselves go ahead ourown arov rebell no wor thank you for the new tablet I drive to work and at times listen to the email while I have internet service I usually try to listen to sh during the day but with poor service on my phone it wasn't possible I ordered a tablet excited as a kid in an ice cream store thank you shabbat shalom 57 Arnon arov thank you so much for the sh community says Shalom is is I started at the and lasted through in other words from to that's not bad what is that a few hundred but fell out of it and kept starting and stopping since joined this year and not only and I not only have kept to the Y but have also been inspired to go back to the I missed while driving in the stand Island Expressway I was listening to today's da where thear mentions the size ofish as he read the words this Ford Expedition merges in front of me I followed him off the highway and took a picture of his license plate you can't make this up # kiss from Hashem here's the [Laughter] picture in New York New York we have here [Music] and O I forgot his name the motorcycle guy he's a a cop I forgot what he is but okay it comes to all the all the functions in Brooklyn so here by the had of Rab tski in brookin sets up sha once again of course this is the picture of the that we had the other day respons Anonymous for the safe and Speedy return of all the hostages Ros hrrest Queens the wedding of our granddaughter Rachel Burke of ela to paratrooper Dan sun and blck of Ron and Riverdale you guys know him you do you grew up with him no grew up with him ma by and my favorite Miram D in honor of yudi on the occasion of his birthday love IM big [Laughter] five one minute I need a video I I need it on him do we have oh hold on I'll get up for you really you give me a lot of by sitting very now we need mayor to join when he's here okay say we're holding on the bottom of B I stopped here also cu the Israelis were showing up and it was kind of late we did a little bit of lucka hair as you can see we had like this oil thing very nice um there were not that many people at the sh because but the fact that people actually showed up was unbelievable there's so many luck is going on and it's cool to go with your kids from place to place completely understand that the fact that there's people by the Hebrew also is unbelievable so we stopped here because it's actually we could have gone all the way to the last words in the but it's a continuation so we're talking about this him you come into someone else's Vineyard and you eat grapes seems like you're allow to go in so the says no we're talking about a worker the whole sugya was talking about can a worker eat food as he's working like you not to put a a muzzle on an animal as he's threshing the grain so is does that apply to human being as well so we'll see a little bit more of it today but the Learned at the end from the word and that this to stop your employee from eating applies to all fruits not only grain and therefore what do we do with the learns a whole bunch of different and now here we are middle here like five lines from the Bott what we do with the word interesting you're permitted to eat the grape but don't suck a little bit out of it and then throw it away by the way sh you're from South Africa where you from Edison New Jersey close anybody from South Africa nobody okay what's your name you're dad what's your name yeah even we know first name Ley sh we love your son yeah welcome welcome okay so anyway don't make half use out of it give a little uh taste and then throw it away you want to eat it eat it completely don't put salt on it or like today we do strawberry and chocolate so you have something like this also grapes and chocolate that might make you eat it a little bit more than normal and we're going to see this a number of times another like two three total three maybe your employee is like your nees like yourself so too is the ne of the employee just like when you eat in the beginning before this before you're done with this produce as you're getting it ready to sell to whatever you're from you eat you snack on it you don't have to give so to the employee when he eats the word until you're satiated but don't don't be AER don't eat too much of it where's that that mean so the sticks in here very interesting what if you just came from a wedding yeah M you just ate like a you ate so you're completely full and now you went to work in somebody's Vineyard it's also for you to eat the grapes it's not only that you can't fill yourself up with that person's grapes but even if you're full you're not allowed to eat the other person's grapes L what did I say oh sorry no no no I thought I really thought I said that's interesting and you shouldn't put the grapes into your own vessel the Tora is telling us when did this occur it occurs when you're reaping the fruit then you're allowed to eat when you're walk going with the tractor and and Gathering all these grapes and fruits then then you're allowed to you're permitted to eat it's the middle of the season the fruit are pretty raw they're not ripe yet then you're not permitted to eat so before you take from the fruit and you eat the fruit what happens to you what do you what kind of what happens if you eat you eat fruit that doesn't have when are you to give says through we learned this idea right here remember this concept when you flatten out you straighten out your pile that's the then then you're saying I am done I have nothing else to do over here I'm finished once you're finished that's when the of comes to play says and so does it's not true all this that we thought is not true yes you have to do but you also have to bring it into your house if you didn't bring it into the house through the front door has to be from the door let's say you brought it in from a window from a skylight not what about I don't care about so the is going to go back into this and see do something or not we'll see we'll see yeah there are those who are you the the third year of the C no whatever the over there is you say the the famous story with went to so told him he asked him are you a no are you a Ley no why not why you're not a had no idea what why not I'll tell you why not when said my great great great grandfather he went forward and yours sat on the couch didn't do anything so when you go to America you should have this in mind answer the call answer the call sometimes somebody something's going to happen don't sit on your couch because you never know Generations later there'll be a TI against you so you go get up sometimes you don't hear it but you have to understand it you have to be the one that jumps up and and takes control so I don't remember who says the that we say V what's a vi vi is something you say when a person is about to leave this world you say say What's that he took Trum why is that saying no I'm saying hem I feel bad that my great great grandfather he didn't step up to the call that's the V the reason I'm giving the is because I'm not a Cen I could have been a Cen I could have stepped my my great great grandfather could have stepped forward who says that I don't remember huh argu slightly says listen even a courtyard here Courtyard once you don't have to bring it into the house house even the front yard creates a now you have to give it obligates you to give the and I'll prove it to you once you go through the gate why would it says has to be in the house and we're going to ask the same thing on how come he doesn't go with the yes it says entire house but sometimes there's a that's simil the house what what does house mean house means that's protected there certain things that a house has brought down in you could eat you're not worried about people staring at you if somebody walks into your house you say hey please step out somebody walks your get out of here so the house are the same house what about the doesn't mean into your it means that you bring it from the front door and not through the roof and a so again they're saying that is not enough you need to bring the the food into the house in order to be up until that point you're not you can eat it you're not of anything as we said before yeah not a new to pause for a second that the Torah emphasizes once again how do you treat your employee it's very important you treat your employees like you treat yourself to emphasizes again and again we had it the other day in a different context just like you the you eat without taking me so to your worker takes without eating so says there's three people there's the B the guy that owns it there's the the employee there's another guy the buyer it doesn't say anything about the buyer it seems like the buyer if he purchases some of your fruit he does have to give Myer now the question is why where where's the here where what happened it didn't go into the house you're telling me it has to go into the house seems like the the guy that buys it is even if it doesn't go into the house what made it purchasing cannot be any better says Rashi than you're saying flattening out is nothing into the house and buying it is more of a of an action then flattening out how does how does purchasing show that I'm done done with this fruit versus I'm done putting up a sign saying I'm done that's not enough saying I'm done fling out I have to bring it into the house so why why guy why is it that a guy that purchases it doesn't have to bring it to the house even before that step you're not going to believe this you might not like it oh we're talking about even in a case where it's in a field where the guy buys a bunch of fruit on the side of the road you know by the farmers you know you go up Upstate wherever it is you see these guys selling the the the corn right there by the field you buy some corn you why there's no didn't come to the guy's house you told me the only time you're once it comes into the guy's house there's no house there Pap you're right there was a house how's there a house doesn't say anything about a house you have to say there's a house he bought it after it was in the house we're talking about a fig T doesn't like the Fig because we know throughout we keep what are you to so that's wheat grapes and oil olives and now we're talking about so is part of so this is a great right to the ramb says talking about and the right in a second we're going to even say that talking about the okay that's what people had in those days that's normal for guy to have a fig tree in his front yard I'm going to spear you this tysus unless you guys want to do the whole tyers it's not it's not bad that ters here so we talking about the nowadays it's the apple tree in those days it was a thick tree so right over here you have a tree that's outside but it's the knife how do you say knife the the branches okay they come over the fence into your house so when you pick it you already did you ready the if you say okay it's going over the we have is it is it enough to go into the yard or enough that or you must bring it all the way into the house okay so if it's in the house this is the story right here poof it went into the house what are you asking me oh how's the guy that purchased because it went into the house we're talking about such a case if that's the case that the Fig went into the house so why in this case is the owner of the Fig it went into his house we're done says the owner doesn't care about one branch he cares about the whole tree that's what he he loves the tree so when he thinks about the tree he wants everything on that tree so until he has all the fruit from that tree is not when you're purchasing a bag of figs that's all you want there a bag of f so when you have that bag and if it's in the house that makes you if it's in the field you poter that's what and going have to say according to other the other ones we don't have to come on to that now the goes into this so what do you think somebody who buys fruit in the store is he you're going to be surprised to learn that no the is if you plant fruit and you eat your fruit you're you sell it you're Potter not saying I can prove to you that the T doesn't require a purchase to take off why were the stores of H this place H destroyed three years before everything else was destroyed said that if he had let's say um a guy with his sh or two sh whatever it is and the people involved would say you know the reason why we're fighting is because we want cover we like C and that's why we have a fight the that guy's not giving providing me enough cover so nothing would happen you're being honest but when you say the reason I'm having is because I'm standing up for the T this is D toyra this is what the toy wants me to do that's the worst don't blame it on the don't blame your on the so this is similar not really saying look we don't care about the the we we're what they called meni yeah they go by the to we we have a store we have a big business do I have to give could you find yes or no no I I don't care whaton said a lot of people like that I found out on P lot of the young people were telling me this thing not not the okay so they but they said we don't want it but listen at the end of the day if all we're trying to prove is is it in the there is that's not in the T So once we see it's not in the T you in our Su we have to know it's what did they [Music] say2 how it 2.0 2.0 he's not happy with the 1400 1500 16 2,000 it says you should take Myer and eat doesn't say sell eat you take when you're going to eat so first of all we have we see the the is not when you sell say over here that what you planted not something that you purchased oh fine should we do the sponsor for a second sponsored by Eric ad of bigger cup Consulting and with fishal simp for bring rebell and into our lives yeah well the the not the BM the BM is not such a you mean the the one that grew it B is because theum would mean like also yeah the original guy that the grower yeah very good the very good that's we said grower there's this type of a type of G not a fake g a real gab AO yeah yeah yeah 100% that's what I said you have to say heo was right in terms of that it's a they're wrong not to keep the ra they were right we wouldn't bring them the saying we wouldn't we wouldn't we would knock them off no no they they had a good TI that it's not in the T but we know that RAB said they have to get take give TR what what we're not talking about stuki I didn't say it's St him I said I said before that they lik I got it yeah this this particular thing they they had a big business whatever it was they didn't feel like giving Meer they wanted to go they wanted to keep their 10% they didn't like the fact that told them they have to give another 10% or more when they didn't have to in the now says that's I don't know you have to go look into those why they say they have their reasons says the says you are right it's a good time it is so why do you bring a is just as they have some sort of source in the T it's not the T didn't really say they have to give they have a they have a Simon sort of if that's the case you can't say is coming to say that you're allowed to eat fruit as you are working in other words if somebody who purchases fruit is po so you don't need a that a worker is po fromer of course a worker is po fromer if if a purchaser is poer so worker is poer it's the same category he's not the the gav the guy that grew it why do I need a special POS can to say that a worker is from but that's not what happened there you're talking about a a crab sh arti yeah no P he works by the hour by the day say teaches something else if you yourself control yourself yeah you do one of these here the guy on the right let's say he the owner he's allowed to muzzle himself he's allowed to be on a diet he doesn't get malus for being on a diet so he puts a muzzle on his employee he's also not malus very important malus he's not on the how do you put a muzzle on your employee either you tell him listen if you don't eat I'll pay you or you tell him listen if you eat I'll beat you up one of the two ways I force the guy not to eat but listen to this if you want to be on a diet and not eat your Donuts you're allowed and nobody's going to give you malus for that so too if you do that to your employee you'd be for malus but you would be for this you're allow to eat grapes he can't stop you so you're over you're just not over on the because it takes away the malus so if we're already talking about this the famous marshmallow test the experiment I don't know so there's a how true it is or not but the idea is good they put a marshmallow in front of kid of a kid many kids in 1972 whatever forgot what college it was once someone those universities maybe you can't even say the name anymore the ra and they told the kid if you don't eat it for 5 minutes we give you a second marshmallow so they followed the kids for 20 years and they saw that those who control themselves they were a lot more successful later on in life they have the ability to control themselves so if you think about I think it's the instant gratification and I think that's what life is really about instag the right now or even diet yeah what what is it diet mean I want to eat right now it's right now this one but later on you sit why did I eat it why if you would have waited a little bit and and control yourself you would have had a lot more later on instant gratification versus that and the same thing with the various you don't have you want to talk right now so this thing okay just an interesting but all it means is what is it how do you finish a how do you how do you determine I'm done with this fruit so when it comes to gourds to cucumbers to to uh um what do you call them pumpkin squash Mishu so on a squash on the Cucumber look it has this yellow flour when that yellow flow falls off that's the as going to say in a second in Chinese they call cucumbers this is my told me this and I looked it up he had a in Google I looked it up in China they call a cucumber a yellow melon so why is it yellow it's green so there's two and the second is that because it has a yellow flower so it's called a yellow melon so so I'm asking you when is it finished when do I determin that cucumbers are done when that when that uh flower falls off says my so if so where saying has to be in the house has to be in the front yard over doesn't say that it says when the flower falls off then then what when the flower falls off you need two things you need to be in the house and the flower fall off now just says the the language is very difficult why because it says what from that point oh from that point means as soon as the flower falls off without a house so you tell me you need a house so then what should it say what say from until here just to explain a little bit if you need two things you need a house and you need the flower to fall off so should say step one you need a house and not only a house add step two you need also also not from also that the flower should fall off you need a step two if it's just the flower falling off not the house now it makes a lot of sense the way it says it now from the point that the flower falls off if you need two things so it's not from because it's that even if the flower falls off by itself without a house it should really say the word okay say no I couldn't say the word you know why if it would say it like that I would think that you need every single cucumber you're selling 100,000 cucumbers you need 100,000 flowers to fall off that's not true even if one out of the 100,000 the flower falls off that's the for this batch right here so that's why it says means from that point of one another question yeah so nothing new here when are you when is it no longer to eat it becomes to eat when the work is done what does it mean of what does mean to bring it in to bring it in where that's one way another way to say it in Hebrew is it's to gather Kos Kos why if you have a big pot in it's growing inside the house most people don't grow fruits and vegetables inside their house okay in the in the your in the yeah yeah that's what we discussed that's we discussed if the the the Fig goes into your house that's like growing in the house yeah what's the difference so what are you asking that what you don't need that isas that's already done that's like the question maybe what you're asking is maybe trying to point this point out don't you have to bring it into the house it start off in the house might not be enough you need to bring it through maybe that's what you're talking about right and if it is in the [Music] house oh that's what he's asking right but say no that's it's m in the house maybe it's taking is in the house it's in the house I don't that's what they talk about says so you want there's two ways to learn the word gather perhaps it means to gather it's like you guys said means to bring into the house that's what it means to be finished another again that it's not enough to do it's not enough to do you need to bring it into the house in order to be says another when did say you have to bring it into the house not all fruit only these type of fruits olives and grapes they are not the type of fruits they do to so since it says in the see if I have it here oh so only have to bring into the house okay so if this you didn't like this kind of stuff we have a whole different type of su now starting BR and easy so so far in our mishna talks about an employee who works for you he's permitted to eat fruit that is attached to the ground as he's plucking It Off the ground he's taking it off the vineyard he's allowed to eat grapes but and the sh we said about let's see check this out this sh right over here this bull what do he what do you not allowed to muzzle in this case he's doing disa he's threshing when you thresh grain it means it's detached so the only case that we know of when it comes to an animal is that an animal's permitted you're not permitted to give him a a in a muszle you not a Muslim when he's threshing meaning when he's dealing with detached fruit attached fruit we don't have any source for so there's two things that we're looking for in this G and through we're going to get to it first of all a human being how do you know that he when he works in a in a place where the fruit is detached how do you know he's allowed to eat and how do you know that an animal is allowed to eat from attached fruit we know one we know human being and we know an animal not how do you know the reverse in both of them let's start with a human being how do you know that if you have a worker who is working with grapes he's taking the grapes from the ground and putting them in a box he's carrying a box of grapes to the store how do you know he's allowed to eat from The Grapes simple simplest ever truth is not so simple because of this line right here aard does not eat he's not permitted to eat from attached says rash what do you mean in a second we're going to learn that a sh is permitted to to eat from attached says rash means it's not in the t is weak because it doesn't say the is allowed to eat from nevertheless when he's threshing the detached wheat you cannot muszle him he's permitted to eat but a human being that could eat from attached and certainly could eat from attached here let me just show you what I did here to make it very very simple we have a and says that if a axe could eat detached certainly human being could eat detached simple wait a minute but I have a what's the sh you not let to muzzle a sh but a human being you could muzzle maybe doesn't say anywhere that that you can't muzzle a human being so is more so therefore there goes your but if I could get rid of this red thing and prove to you that you're wrong that a human being you also can't muzzle then what then I have a I have a I'm knocking the you know what sh is different than don't prove anything from a from a from a bull human and Bulls are not very different why a bull I'm not allowed to put a muzzle on human being maybe I could says no but a human being also you can't put a muzzle on oh so if I have purple I don't have red and if I don't have red I have blue I have the a person does know well we said just to clarify this what if you put a muzzle on your employee you over anything yeah yes it means the means that you're not but says wait a minute so therefore right now at this point we we're we're at red red knocks out if we can knock out the with the purple then we're back to square one and we do have a good to teach us that a human being should be able to eat an employee should be able to eat when he's dealing with fruit that's detached but let's make a different that a person you should not be able to put a muzzle on a human being if you do if you see a walking down the street I was in Africa right you see Bulls walking around everywhere you see the guy's a real he's very skinny you have a to give him no you have to provide him you're not allowed to put a mule on him human being that you have to give where does it say in the you have to give you have to be M person who said that this week's par so I was looking for for to say over at the sud and I found this on this in the following beautiful story from that I don't think I I said over I don't remember hearing this one when was in Vienna for the the first one in t piml he stayed by a person by the name of in his house so everybody wanted to come see the who doesn't want to see the so guy knocking on the door no the said no no no you can't can't B one person he let in he said this guy is is a know asking he let him in because the guy said listen I need to speak to him this is mish my life he said okay go in so he sits down he brings him in he says the is almost finished his meal sit down and wait so was saying I guess it was a week day he saying it says in they should say that even in a week day he's saying he's saying he turns to his guest he didn't hear one word from they say he looks at him he says what's is a person means a guy wants to kill you he's chasing you what does it mean chases you you should be speaking about and all the people want to kill him and you Thea is a little weird a little different yeah oh okay you should chase them well it's chasing you but it's different you should Chase MIT I should Chase MIT that's great well how do the mitvah chase you you're running away from mitzvah chasing means that he's running after you you're running away you're not standing still okay say looks at him he says the is that when a person does a lot of and his wife tells him stop it's hurting the family it's uh it's taking away from you we don't have perosa you should continue doing the continue don't let don't let the red is don't think that is bringing you down doesn't bring you down no matter how much you do it's not bringing you down it's not taking away from your parosa guy looks him got up about tells the bber thank you thank you very much says but you didn't even speak to them he says you don't understand I have two big things going on I have a big and I have this and it's taking away I have no I can't I can't anymore it's just taking over my life just told me such thing if you do that if is right you so to speak taking taking over your life be it'll be fine we're doing a little different than the other that we had before so pay attention over here we had this twice already the third time should be like your employe the employe should be like you if you the employer you put a muzzle on yourself you pter from what from malus no we did have this one before we did have before if you put a muzzle on your worker youus but you are so let's go back over here we're holding over here sorry yeah we're holding that there's no there's no that what that a a should if a eats when he's working with t in the threshing so certainly a human being says no a human being not because it says that I have the right to stop you from eating so I don't have a so right now I'm I'm back to square one one square zero how do I know that a worker who works with Talos is allowed to eat because this P ruins it for us it says in this right over and then says so the first one I don't know if anybody remembers from yesterday what do we do with the word K anybody remember we learned all fruit is included in this het for you to eat it's not grain Comm that grows like this it's all fruit apples and oranges also if you're working you get to eat but I have the second com what I the second one so that's the famous Cloud if I if I don't I don't know what to do with this word over here it's extra let me learn for something else that's the teach us that a human being when he works with detached produce he's permitted to eat I don't even it says we had all in the beginning it says that if you walk into your friends Vineyard you're allow to eat okay we're going to see in a second it's talking about workers but it doesn't say what you're doing in the vineyard does it say that you're plucking grapes off the off the vine maybe you shlepping boxes says the gar and still you're allow to eat you allow to eat in also in all situations even when it's detached great now let's go to the other one how do you know if you have you're working a bull in a field next to fruit that are attached to the tree uh wheat that's attached to the ground how do you know you can't muzzle him he's allowed to eat so once again we're going to go through this whole thing same exact idea similar thing from a human being if a human being could eat from a so certainly well we just established that a human being eats a t so that rash says again it's not a human being that it's weak it's not that he could eat from detach you had to go through a whole thing a whole Su to find out that we learn from the word K Etc nevertheless he eats from something that's attached certainly should be able to eat from something that's attached the ground's the a person you have to sustain him you have to give him [Music] but if I have a have the purple gets rid of the red what am I left with so no maybe you should give I'll give you you see and knock walking down the street you just have to get feed him not let him die a human being you not you don't get malus if you put a muzzle on him nevertheless you have to sustain him make sure he doesn't die you have to have more on a than a human being if you put a mu on him you get so what if I if I have purple I don't have red and if I don't have red I'm left with the blue which is that should be able to eat from no I don't have purple why because I have the green no only human being so the bottom line is if I have green I don't have purple and if I don't have purple I don't have red I I don't have if I don't have a how do I know that a bull could eat from attached here's the it says what do I do with the first one a your friend not a but the second one would I do that a bull could eat from a have a wonderful e