Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 87 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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actually had about mdy Rea had 24,000 mdy has similar number we know thata were punished because they didn't respect each other I have only seen respect among each and every member of our family where our common denominator is our love of toy and not what makes us different I've been in several DFI classes throughout the years but I can truly say that my love of my fellow Y and my love of learning has increased exponentially in no small part because of you I really appreciate your constant encouragement in the area of and your love for which has truly inspired me thank you from the heart your talent since oh I know who that's you zoom in on him not on me here come come here come get over here oh yeah yeah we have to switch D him okay just watch your back how are you for the beautiful email you are really you hear since BR I started on zo but then I joined and you really mean this yes of course okay means a lot just watch your back okay thank you okay scary stuff okay so we are holding on all way on the bottom the sponsors the and speed return of all the hostages that were killed three years ago and by burn all the people that were killed in three years ago terrible terrible tragedy should have a Leo where we holding so actually no we are holding it's different cheer different time um does anybody remember we're holding exactly where oh four lines from the bottom man we had three guests that came who are the three no we don't want the the window open for what so maybe we should put it out put the door yeah you can put the fire outside the door it's too much smoke no CU it's starting to smoke yeah starting to smoke so let's take it outside l l here follow him with the camera show how it goes wait wait he says slow slow it's a beautiful Flame all [Music] right Dave you could uh put it out and we can reuse it next year all right who are the three guests I want everybody to enjoy your final final three guests that came to visit four lines from the bottom three famous came to tell Sor that she's having a boy H what say he came to came to flip over went to it's not just went together with G to save the asks that a doesn't do two we know so you see from here they could do two if it's in two different places it says singular one Mal flipped over so what did the other Mal do he came to save when told the three come inside he said okay we'll do whatever he tell us to do you had to beg them to come in see from here that when a great person asks you to do something let's say could you please be a the says and if somebody ask to be you say no you m three times not when person when the of the ask you to be to be the you shouldn't be you should you don't you don't you're not M you go you go up right away there was two rebas the vision and the lb said we should keep that door closed maybe we should even lock it but the problem is the Gary is out there what's going on they're having having a little trouble with the uh the fire I guess okay so there's two rebas the the the div Vision they're both in the elevator they're coming out of the elevator and each one wants the other one to go out first other one here you go you go a big fight so the says no no no you're you're G you go out so Gary Gary so the tells the vision you're God you go out first he says oh if I'm a God so I'm telling you to go and you can't be you can't you can't refuse it's interesting because the those who say that this whole thing happened on PES Night by by was PES Night by was P so there was they wanted to prove that Gary every time the door opens up can't hear what's going on she just lock it yeah good let everybody wait outside until that oh and then we're going to hear knocking it's going to be a so want to prove from here you know like they don't they don't M on P so if you don't if you're not supposed to miss on PES so what's the so what's the ri from here the knocking of course I mean you're not even supposed to miss you're not even supposed to eat by somebody else's house what's the whole you see from here that you that's what the want to say tells I'm going to get you some bread what what what ended up happening he didn't bring bread he brought tongue and mustard so why didn't he say bread it's interesting as is going to say soon he didn't bring bread at the end there's no bread the of is to talk very little but do a lot Russ says I'm going to do this I'm going to do that I'm going to donate this nothing happens we see the same thing by so said very little I'm going to bring bread and then he shows up with the steaks and the tongue and everything by erra in the famous story most of this you know we learned in uh maybe even before maybe in kindergarten and Nursery we have to see the end of the P which I don't have here says the famous everyone says forget it wor about the money later and then when comes to pay says no no no something that you could buy with everywhere around the world he found one place that that a is more like a two and thousand times more some places that call so instead of paying 400 she how much did he end up paying how much is 400 time 2500 million a million yeah but the I'm going based on the different weights and different things they say it's a million times the AR says a million times more and in terms of pounds it's 42,000 pounds of silver which in today's thing is $19 million he said don't worry about it we'll give it to you for free and then it takes close to $20 million from him not a big deal the vill somewhere says I don't remember where I remember hearing this that if he in those days you were able to buy the entire AG for $20 million like he does a with whole thing that that it's a lot of money $20 million he says make bread from and we said soas what's soas here this stuff actually soas is more like this soas just means it's it's um fine flower why is it fine because it it went through more process more not the process of sifting right we'll go this through go through this every time was it's it just sifted better it's thinner right okay so which one is it yeah it's better which one is it it was that decided to bring the cheap stuff the k and a brought the soiless some people say the oppos that s brought the soas and it was a that brought the K the question is by the way do you hear the outside or just us I just hear you V awesome okay good because I barely hear myself turn it it's very loud if you just hear me give all okay that's why we have this mic and not the other one the better mic would have picked it up probably the one that's on the table awesome Okay so some say it's the opposite that s brought theas and brought the K so if that's the case how do you see that a woman is stingier when it comes to guess so they say the famous Mya I don't remember said someone that uh lion a lioness took her baby and said you have nothing to worry in this world we are the strongest animal one day he goes in the city and he sees a picture of a lion being ripped apart shreds by a human being by sh goes back to his mother what are you talking about I saw a picture she Ah that's why there's a picture because it never happens and when it does happen it's so rare that we have to celebrate they have to celebrate those humans but the norm is that we we kill them SOA yes SAR brought SAS but that's that's that's just something special but typically that's why the Torah says oh she brought so to tell you that typically it's not so common if you're wondering where everybody is it's normal in to go out there's fires everywhere you take your kids and this and that whoever's here thank you for coming I could have could have been mean just David and Gary maybe if they knew we're doing a whole hadl ceremony needed and make bread what did he give them at then doesn't no mention of the of the bread it says he gave them butter milk and cattle so the emphasizes why we have a beautiful in the name of was very M to eat his his regular food as if he's a it should all be T piid she became Aid According to some it might have been the very first time she was Aid although it says that her came back was she was an Islanders she didn't even have a she certainly wasn't in either for a very long time and therefore she was M the bread excuse me the bread and therefore he didn't serve the bread even though the he didn't want to have anything that had Tuma on the table over there so nikolsburg says that was sitting in the fourth hour fourth hour of the day so by the time he made the bread for the malim was the fifth hour and if it was of P according to yud you can't eat bread you can't eat after the fifth hour that's why the says that it's the according to her mayor he has a problem according to that's galic why did he bring bread it was PES he can't eat bread after the fifth hour but according to Mayor makes a lot of sense they have to say that she was said where's your wife SAR oh she's in the tent so why was she hiding in the tent thank you very much why the tent because she was she didn't want to serve the guest the male guest she was exactly that in the so why it say she's in the tent to tell her that you should know your your your your wife is such a to give him so what do you see from a tremendous even though was 100 years old she was 90 years old they were married for like 80 years nevertheless it's never too late to give to a couple and one another 190 190 not 19 to give her a cup from the what do you mean we just said there's no bread she where's the found asks the question and he says that a could wine so perhaps wine here we go here's the picture so in the there's that on top of the which is where very very important stuff the T teaches us manners when you meet a man you say how's your wife but the question is you don't ask about her wellbe says you don't tell a husband send regards to your wife which a lot of us do I think we try to be polite s regard your wife my wife no no no no oh but you could say to the H you should ask the husband how's your wife how how are your children be polite he's not going to go back and tell his wife oh he asked how you are that's okay but when you make him a messenger to tell the wife that he said hello to you that could lead to the things that we don't want them to lead to her skin got all wrink many wrinkles and the BOS became tight her face became smooth no more wrinkles and became soft she became the she was one of the most beautiful women in the world so her beauty came back the famous s told but my husband is old how will I have children and then tells she said on herself that she's old didn't give over the way she said it I want to remind the something very important she was very concerned that he's too old we had a na hour day he's almost 90 years old no 80 88 years old so there's a very important thing here you're permitted to lie when it creates shom so it's very interesting the says you hear this man he says when you say a lie that's really MS that's great and when you say em that's really a lie it's bad in other words if a guy with a gun is chasing someone down the street he says where did he go he say he's hiding in the garbage can that's Ms that's sheer that's terrible you big S you said the truth you just told the murderer where to kill the guy that's not Ms some some people are n on that I know people are very very straight he asked me I had to say no if you say Ms the bring brings to she meaning brings to a bad thing that's she doesn't want you to say the in that case if you say if you say something that's going to improve Shas that's EMS I cheer no it's em it's the outcome that's what he's saying says it's the outcome don't be such and say the right thing and tell the cops where he's this and the this and the author if you could get away and make shom you're supposed to say shom even if it's a she said my husband is old I think this is also a very important Point St I didn't see this anywhere but I think it's important Point AB is 100 years old 100 years old and if hasem said your your wife said you're old you think you'd care for a second think about think would care if his wife said he's old he'd be upset no I think was a little bit bigger than the but he was 100 years old he really was old nevertheless you tell somebody it's heavy oh you're fat he gets he knows he saw in the mirror he knows he went on the scale this morning no he's 550 nevertheless it hurts when the wife says or whoever it is says it hurts yeah yeah that that that's a little different because wasn't a GH of he reminded him that he was a GH of years ago that's that I understand I'm saying something you are right now you are this right now you are 100 years old so I said you're 100 no can't tell the person straight but s said who's going to say to my husband of that s is going to nurse but it says bam Sons how many she only had one that that day that she was going the son what is this son when a kid turns two years old or today oh it's really two years old why do we make a he's two years old very POS because in those days they didn't have formula and if a mother couldn't nurse the kid very likely a kid would die okay you'd hire somebody this that and what in the middle of the night where you going to find somebody punked at 2: in the morning when the kid wakes up so a kid could die easily so if the kid makes it to two years old they make a big sudo yeah it happens imagine a couple married for 25 years all of a sudden oh go they had a baby people start saying you sure it's their baby maybe they adopted she put put a pillow in there for for 6 months so that's what people say how's a passel she's she's 90 he's 100 they found some baby they adopted a baby pretending making a make he went invited all the biggest people interesting you don't invite the the husband shouldn't invite the wife it seems like she invited the women he invited the men and they all brought their children the babies with them but they did a trick they wouldn't bring the how do you they call the surrogate the nursing the one that nurses the what nursemate nurse M the wet nurse wet nurse to say hey let's see if you nurse nurse our baby she was able to nurse tremendous amount of she nursed them all so but they still said okay great she nursed unbelievable is a pass that that a man 100y old should have a kid so he changed his face looked like until there was no such thing as somebody getting old so what happened people walk down the street they would sneeze and die thing is getting old that's later on by yeah I know but I'm not saying that now I'm saying it now you don't hear me because of the music outside they want to talk to they got confused they spoke to they look similar want to speak spoke should be such thing called what people should look old what I hear good I like the saying well before was born she already had wrinkles everybody there's always a sh I discussed this a few times I don't know if it's a normal shilot to discuss what's better for somebody to get killed in a car accident or to go through a terrible cancer episode you know a six-month cancer thing and then die what's better it's a hard chiler right so over here we have uh a little bit of a Insight I'm not saying this is the answer but this tells us it gives us a little bit of a there's such thing as being weak so as he says he wanted the ability to know when to talk to the family when to say yeah like the guy uh this old one you got to say once in a while the guy was was on his death bed his M A stingy guy so he says is MOA here yeah MOA is here and what about yeah she's here also and yeah new if you're all here why are the lights on in the bathroom a person has it's not a joke it's not it's not a joke it's unfortunately true people are Ming the head something like the last minute oh yes yeah so but but people need to be matava when a person gets killed at a young age in in a car has no CH no chance to tell to's business tell his wife this here's the counts this that the whole thing or and talk to your kids and so there something about knowing that you're dying and then being able to do things about it now that the first time in the Torah that talks about being sick once a person got sick until the time of the people get sick and die he was the first one to heal he died from the disease other diseases sicknesses he actually had three the whole story with namon that Alisha healed nam's teras and Nam wanted to give him gifts and Alisha refused to take the gift so whena left came to said give me the gifts he wants them he changed his mind he took them for himself when Alisha found out he was very upset and he cursed him the whole thing so the fact that he went so strong against him punish them at the end he told them do and said no I'm I can't which is wrong that somebody that sins and other people could do CH fact as I mentioned this I'll mention again I have a friend that I learned with him when a kid and he opened up an organization here in Isel very organization that helps people go off the D he went off the D and he he opened up such a thing and later on in life he decided to become Bela and it kills him he doesn't know what to do it's one of the most famous organizations Isel and because of him thousands of people go to D so he he works really hard to make his but could do [Music] CH we have atile picture here the story over there is when the kids uh bothered the the navi so he sent the beers after them they killed 42 children andem was upset at him so he got sick that was the one that he died from a different one the third one is the one that he died from going to start coming put something on the thing that we're not done okay so there was a story that the son went out and got workers and he said he promised them food and the father said you should just but I want to give them only bread and beans k n is it bread made out of beans or pass the K is it both like [Music] this it's both a a Channel of water called vus and here we have this thing right over here this is AO Mia basically is a stick that you use to distance yourself from the M the the Rocks M it's interesting because somebody once said a from the B and this and that and the guy said it's not true didn't have somebody else what difference does it make he said no it makes a big difference you see from this that makes the difference there EV not Evol in the story it's an old story happened 2,000 years ago who cares if he said past vickness or past kidness it's a 2,000 years ago so but says it's not so P because is what if I say past K do I have to give you bread with beans or just Bean Bread so the was saying it maybe that re didn't see I don't know the the story says you don't have to mention anything it goes what does it come to include I'm hiring you I want to pay you like one or two the people in the city no it's like a typical worker says he find the guy that works for the least amount of money four shek an hour that's what you give him so according to rash it's very simple you take the lowest one let's say take five and you take 10 and you do something in the middle seven and a half according to the ra it's a little different sponsored in recognition of all the guys fromd and myself that's it so if you don't like a good news we're out of now what not everybody likes I know it's good stuff okay we have a couple of Da very easy very easy Su it's a little bit of Li but easy Li very simple stuff you know like you to have an animal work with a muzzle on what about a human being could you tell him not to eat so says the Mish there are some situations that a worker is permitted to eat he's allowed to grab food if he's working on a field in a place that the the the produce is still attached to the ground and he detaches it from the ground he's working to to to reap the fruit then he's allowed to eat so let's say he's reaping the grapes off the vineyard of the vine so he grabs some grapes and eats the grapes is he allowed to eat a grape let's say halfway and spit it out little bit suck it and throw it is going to tell us no officer is he allowed to eat crazy amounts to fill up his stomach no what if he had a great meal beforehand yay he's full up to here could he eat no so there's a lot of alas here small alas little details but the the the the that we're learning right now is that if it's attached and if it's detached from the ground not like we just said before to give now we're going to go into a little bit about when you not or let's say before you take from bread that's also a way to finish off the finish the job you finish the job and provided that it's something that grows from the ground these are these are the workers that cannot eat cannot eat person who's working with something attached to the ground but it's not at the end of its work like taking out the weeds from onions says rash and if a person is like working on Rashi brings this case interesting cases he's working on fig cake that was completely finished like this and then it fell apart so I hired somebody to put it back together then you don't touch that you don't get to eat from that to repack the Fig cake something that's not let's say milk fish like the gar brings I thought also meat I'm not so sure about meat anymore we'll have to see the Su later on but the rash says fish and milk is that's what the gar brings down later says how do you know that if you work somewhere you're allowed to eat the the oh you're allow to eat from the fruit theer sponsored by Eric adman of bigger cup Consulting bigger cup Consulting and with and they me for bring reell into our lives not how do you know that a worker is entitled to eat from the fruit that he is working with remember this we're going to go away from this we're not going to learn from this but in the beginning says you walk into your friend's Vineyard and you eat so thear is gonna say we're almost done again it's very it is very simple I'm not joking so it says in the POS somebody's in a Vineyard he could eat and is gonna say later on talking about a worker but how he know other fruit why daa maybe the saying a Vineyard says just like a just learn it it's called what is this lith called when you learn one thing from the other just like we find by grapes it grows from the ground and a worker could eat from it so so two wheat that grows in the ground olives that grow from the ground when when when when you're picking it from the tree it's mul from it says how can I learn anything from a from a grape grapes are special check this out means these grapes you're supposed to leave it for the poor person so you see that grapes are different than everything else when it comes to oranges and apples special grapes so if grapes are different than other fruit you can't learn anything out of it you're right we're not going to learn from grapes scratch that and the actually at the end says we don't learn from this POS new POS I learn from wheat something that stands up and how we know that then the following says same thing person comes in to his friend's field and and his standing wheat referring to a worker he could grab some and eats but also I can't learn anything out from weed something very special only on wheat who told you that we're talking about wheat and the is actually going to stay with that too that K means all maybe it's talking about everything maybe talking about uh rice beans because I learn that's our POS kidding oh so we have is by the way this device right over here or I mean the smaller one is this one but didn't like it said no that's more of a huh this is a this is a mle this is the same idea okay does the same thing we had a video but whatever it's too late now oh this guy needs to be in the other one this miru one remind me Yoshi where's Yoshi he left he left so Gary I don't know if you could do it right now this picture yeah you could just copy it you could leave it here in case we need but put in the other one also please wait wait let me show you this is for you guys I don't know this is just a joke okay [Music] whatever when when on the second day of P when we do the we take what we take barley so that's a that's standing nevertheless okay so let's just let me show you this so we make it easier even though it's very easy as is we had we try to learn out from a Vineyard what do we say a Vineyard is those those weak grapes so we say okay let's learn out from so we just go around in a circle so let's learn out from car but but what's the common denominator from the it's not a lot of things a lot of times we have four five two things what's the common denominator that they grow on the ground and when when they're done when you're ready to pick the worker is allowed to eat from it both the K and the grape so I'll say oh so then I'll learn from a grape to give the The Grapes to the person I know these are very scary words but they're very simple each one has his own special thing the red box and the and the green box the bottom line is they have a common denominator then the day work could eat from it therefore anything else whether it's olives whatever it is the problem is that these things wheat and grapes you make wine you make flour you put on you put and you make out of the wheat let's just add once we're there we'll add the theive there's oil you don't need this whole it's just included in the word why Wow how do they get so late over here what time do we start half hour ago we did so it says like this very very quickly shim took upon himself a big fight with the he want to he want to kill them out without hurting CL he don't want to to go after the Jews so he made a personal fight and he got married to Aon Aus and uh basically he made a bet with the plish and he said listen if you know the answer then I'll give you 30 khif and if you don't know the answer you have to give me 30 khalifas so they went they didn't know the answer so they owed him 30 khif but they went to the wife and they pressed her and she told him the answer when he found out about it he got very upset so he killed 30 of them he took their khif and gave it to them he said okay so get then the whole story then he left her so the father of this of his wife was upset that he left so he married her off to somebody else even though she's still married to shim so when he came back he decided to burn out all those fields the famous story grabbed 300 Fox tied two of their tails together put a torch and they started running and they burned fields kider at the end of the day why they took the wife and they killed the wife the P them got upset so they killed the wife and the father so it says it calls olives a a Vineyard of Olives so you don't need a you don't need it's not called when you say Vineyard you never refer to olives but if you say the olive Vineyard okay fine then then it works at the end of the day how do we know that a worker that works with things that don't have a Shalom do you know the food that doesn't go on the a worker can eat from [Music] it that guy this guy right over here anything that use that Sickle whatever you want to call that device even beans and rice when you are cutting then you're allowed to eat it but before that when it's a little raw you're not supposed to eat from it says you should not it says you should put the the produce in the owner's box but not in your own so KES is is extra I learned from there every every in other words every type of food that you use this this sickle okay so rice beans wheat great how do you know apples oranges stuff that grow a tree you don't use a sickle or whatever this device is for that RAB the word that we had before and we said it means sweet now we're using that word that means all fruit so again what are we talking about when a worker works with all fruit with apples oranges wheat rice he's allowed to eat at certain points at the End by the ask you just said the word doesn't mean all fruit it means only things that are you're right that was before we had the word but now that we have the word it'sa called from the word it means everything even things that like rice so I already knocked out things that are not and therefore L is called all types of fruit so if I ask you what do I do with the word comm all fruit we just said we had the word a sickle that tells us not everything that that has Kal even things that don't have Kal the worker could eat and K tells us all fruit a worker could eat remember we started off the four lines from the top of the how do I know a workers allow to eat but now I don't need you're right but it's to teach you like I mentioned before when you have a worker you have to make sure that you pay him right [Music] away so one is I can't just walk into my friends it says simple in the I just walk in the v i start eating grapes that makes no sense so I learned from here that it has to be a worker you know what okay we'll do a few more lines velle we'll just do a few more lines what I learned from the words in your friend's Vineyard that if you work for ausi then you are allowed to take a basket and throw a bunch of fruit in there like the kids here in at a kides local Kish bring the big basket before the Kish starts take all the cakes Cupcakes and they go home you see these people come with they come ready with bags this pocket full bag and before they before middle you you work for hours to set up nicely and they come no problem talking about that's if you say that you're not Ste from a that's why I need a special to say that a worker is allowed to eat but if you hold that you're allow to steal from AI so if you're allow to steal so certainly workers allow to eat says we'll stop right over here he learns and not that of heges if you work for hegdish you're not allowed to eat on the job have a wonderful evening we'll see you tomorrow right and early a good week you're looking good for