Daf Yomi Bava Metzia Daf 85 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning say we have with us puras said from flap and we have the one and only Yi Klein boy said we could all take from Yi Klein who's started out as a plumber he has a plumbing company and on the side in his we to three major things this year three on his own he did the shabbaton he came to me when I was in New York and he said I want to meet with you he drove an hour each way just to ask me could I go ahead with the shabbaton that I was thinking about I don't want to ask too many people because I know I'm going to get a know from this one and thing do you give me I said yes I said what do you know about ChatOn nothing have you ever made Ain in your life no so what do you know I know Plumbing he took whatever he know he went he did shabat the nicest shabas I ever had in my life and then he said listen you're thinking about doing a fundraiser a charity thing let's do it so he went and he did it on his own at the shabbaton I said look we had this thing we spent a lot of time and money on it the tablet the kosher tablet and uh it stuck there's a Mr Anonymous who put many many hours hundreds of hours into it he developed a program but it wasn't ready yet like he can still break bre into it if you're really good the Kos basically is a a simple device there's one I think that cost about $99 and it downloads the shear automatically if you have internet and it just it has the whole from beginning of sh to where till here and every day just uploads it automatically and you cannot see anything else but the shear maybe we're going to do a few other things s ways that kind of thing but right now that's what it has and it was very very complicated hundreds of hours by Remy Cohen and Yi kle today officially we're launching the tablet at mdy merch I think the first one I think there's one that's a $100 one's a little bit more there's a simple one uho for remember him he used to come every single day every single day would come here and he went to Yesa in maybe and it's perfect his R called me up and said could I please have one of these devices for him I can't let him but on this device I'll let him do it so it's great for kids in Camp great for people in yiva great for yite you have to have access to Internet at some point during the day it uploads automatically you want to show me what it looks like you have something mdy merch.com it's officially online it's a big it's a big achievement took a lot the tech stuff you know lot a lot of so with that being said hi no I don't think you can watch Zoom it's afterwards it has the whole sh and afterwards I don't think you can do Zoom could you do zoom on it y he's asking if you do zoom on it I don't you could do zoom on it ah I don't know I didn't know you could do some great question r no it's going to cost $100 I know what your next question is no we're not getting out to to the island for free anybody here in the room no that's not I know oh I'm just kidding the whole you know what you free for you free for you free for everybody maybe we'll give him one huh I just did a sponsorship maybe we'll give you also because he come every he comes every day from M maybe we could hook him up I just did a sponsorship for the morning full D sh for 180 no that's not what I wanted to say here oh in honor of my dear friend y Aram samit who does the shear daily and constantly follows up with me and discusses the sheer on the joy occasion he follows up with the share every day on the joy occasion of his older son's engagement may he continue to be blessed with ab and joyously celebrate many additionally in celebration of my daughter's second birthday thank you Simon strs so that's it we don't have emails for today because we did the um the announcement of the tablet the culture tablet the sa speed return for all the hostages great grandfa my brother who carries his name brain intact and Le your full potential and tremendous success in all my Endeavors simz we had this in honor of my dear friend y Sam on the joy occasion of his oldest son's engagement another amazing da of many stories here some of them are very very familiar to us many different lessons that can be learned and brought into our own lives if we just put put our mind to it we're holding on the last last line of on the bottom so what happened was we had just to remind the we hadim who's father re everything he said [Music] the son of would knock it would tell him he would anticipate the question and say such silly questions leave on the side he's very demoralized and he went to his father this is Reb rebi who wrote All the m and his father says listen it's not a it's not a it's not a you know's father is I'm not so he's a lion the son of a lion so he's greater than you in Tyra you're a lion yes you're a lion but you're the son of a fox I'm just a fox so says the that's tremendous there three great this is what rebi says re is talking about my father cuz he called himself a fox and the son the the famous the son of the king we just said that he called himself thein the head of the they couldn't come up with the of PB p is it that year was shabas does a carb push off shabas they had no idea he said maybe asked this person his name is H H so they asked him he said yeah it pushes off shabas in fact he brought a bunch of R they realized this this person really knows this stuff they said you know what could you be the NSI we are the NSI we want you to be that's told his best friend DAV I thought you should be the king I'll be second in command now he's the son of the king he should be the king why is he giving it away says the you sure okay fine every P not why is that for giving over the kingdom to David he saw that everyone is going with David it would be a uphill battle to fight D at this point let me just do it m and I'll say listen you be the king and I'll be second when proved himself he knows that out on fell out on chabas he realized they realized that this person is greater than them and therefore you should be the so that's not a great R say on the fact called himself and he was called himself that's so going back that rebi wanted to marry re's wife and she told him no way the compared to my husband and he said why said I understand the T part but what about my and she said oh also he's greater than because he took upon himself so what does he answer love I love we don't know like what touches different people but I I received a number of messages about the the the importance of people have a lot of and they they loved yesterday's Su about how are my friend you call them my friend you call them so pay attention to these two words right here he accepted upon himself 13 years of it seems like he asked for the he had a stone in his urinary tract and other words a lot a lot of pain six years and he had some sores in his mouth terrible pain every time he ate and spoke pain was the opposite who seven of the urin tract infection or whatever it was and six so it was 13 years total says had tremendous amount of pain the B re the the guy that took care of re's horses rebbi is the wealthiest man in the generation the one that took care of the horses after M Mal he was wealthier than CH why so we learn all when they made a deal you take care of my horses you get all the manure that the manure the the fertilizer of was more valuable was more valuable than gold and silver of a this person made tremendous amount of money when he would give the food to the animals they made so much noise thousands of tens of thousands of animals eating and and getting excited over the food made tremendous amount of noise you'd hear three M away so he had a trick re with his infection whatever the stone in a tremendous amount of pain screaming in agony he didn't want people to hear it he want to drown out the sound so he made sure that the animals ate at the same exact time that that rebi went to the and even so re's screaming overcame the the sound of the animals you heard it on the on the ocean and even so even though he had such the ones of are considered better than those of they came from Love and they went with love the re those of is because of a story that happened was for him through a story they went so this is a very famous story what happened there was a CF young CF they want the calf went and hid under the cloak of rebi here something like this basically it wanted to survive the the and the calf cried what does that mean what are you doing here go you you need to Beed so they said since he doesn't have a little bit of a here telling an animal go get let's give him so we have to understand exactly I mean it's an animal it's supposed to be but he spoke in such a way the different like I saw in the he says you're talking about a Gil was that needed a kapar and he was crying to him no let me kids are certain but how did they go she was sweeping the floor there's baby weasel here swept them right out of the house with a he told her leave the weasel alone has on all his Creations including the weasel it wasn't mice mice roaches that sort of thing get rid of but the weasels let them let them chill in the house a little bit what's the big deal couple weasels since he showed now after 13 [Music] years all those years had nobody died early what's your name Shalom from Angeles ah no you're on the group and everything he got me you got me in h behind the scenes quiet not for nothing where you on the thumbnail of two days ago she whatever it was ah it's the da of Hill very nice yeah hey okay it's with you or not okay uh listen to thisat tell me who says it what's the difference between a Anda means that rear took upon himself just for his love he had no reason he had no he thought maybe perhaps he might have killed all those years that is's working for the king bringing thieves maybe one of them was innocent and what if what if they weren't what if they were all so all the all the he took upon himself was out of pure love to and in fact showed him don't worry about it you didn't kill anybody look not a single person is going to die early all through those years that have to show that nobody died for nobody dieded in vain everybody deserved to die so it's pure whereas rebi he needed a kapar he did something wrong he was so that's a ask him no not so much okay the I forgot who says one of the just explains the question is it says rebi accepted upon himself and then it says they gave it to him what happened he said I want you for 13 years oh you were here last night so that doesn't count that's what I said last night but it's good why why unbelievable guys listening it's unbelievable so the it says The rebi Wanted yur like rebelar rebelar he accepted upon himself y but he told him to go away in the day so he could learn so said I want those kind of so they gave him those with control once he did Thea once he he said he was to the animal then he lost his control over again you can see can make you have to beim on a calf you have to beim on weasels on raccoons all these animals certainly on human beings that are Yen and human being that are not Yen and and on y why from now on I'll be nice to you from this all those years that he had nobody died early before their time in other words a person doesn't could die early no that didn't happen the world for 13 years didn't need rain the day that it rains is terrible especially in those days they didn't have the drainage that we have today had mud and it was a bag you couldn't go to work you couldn't ride anywhere with your donkey nothing if not for the fact that we really need rain it's interesting what do you mean if the world didn't need rain the world does need rain the reason why this rain is because we need it but we don't need it like sort of then ra would have D and to be because it's such a nuisance accur it's not a Nuance every time rains there people are so excited and the canary went up another centimeter and this but in America or it rains in London it's actually doesn't rain like three four days out of the year or something like it's like the difference between summer and winter is in the summer the rain War the difference between summer and winter the rain and the summer is warmer I'm just haing because people say they don't hear the jokes they hear people laughing after especially if he's sitting all the way there here we have a picture of that if you want to know what it means when they would pluck a radish out of the ground there would be like a a well full of water on the other there's enough water in the world last there over here you see the idea of going to get more people to do the da getting people to Bringing people to working on people to become B here in this G Rabbi went searching like he had nothing better to do he was wealthiest person had a tremendous with thousands of he's going to search for one individual have a son in other words does have a grandson guest I don't know what your name is sh come on in have a seat's fine the weather's fine when you're here come he does have a son but he's a rash he's a BAL even a z that takes a lot of money she pays him for [Music] not so they bring him he says you know what I'm going to call you Rabbi right now maybe you're you're going to become a he gave him over to who him over his uncle you're in charge of him now I want to go back home I want I want my mommy we're gonna make you to put a nice clothing of of gold everybody's G to call you what's wrong with you you want to go home it's a I left that alone forget it I'm done I'm never going home I'm going to stay I'm going to become you what's going on here you don't what's going on here we have a guy from Manchester we have a guy from Flatbush and a guy from Los Angeles who have never been here in this base measures first time they come from around the world unbelievable we have Yi from mon here he's been there a few times what I'm saying it's it's beautiful I'm here I noticed when you came in today you should he grew up he's sitting in the of noticed his voice that sounds Mish like my friend my old friend that's in fact a son he has the same voice as his father the fruit of thead is a a tree of life that's his son what does it mean the grand when you take a soul you bring somebody off the street you of another and there's a lot of different D of doesn't just mean taking a guy that's completely irreligious person that doesn't learn a person doesn't do all the M he took him yeah of you mean yeah s he doesn't take any CR ah he's saying that it's him there's no question that he was in the question is the biggest on of there's three big yeah Listen by the way that said it the yeah yeah yeah yeah 100% I think thear does I don't know reab was be of this that yeah to what there [Music] is not um just to point out I I heard that the organization makes aot makes a lot of they did a it cost him they do shabb and they do shabat we know how much a shabbaton cost we thought we know how much it cost it cost them 13,000 shek to bring back one 13,000 shek and mdy we could do it for $35 when he the grandson of bring him to the they brought him to the there was a snake in front of the you saw the picture yesterday we'll show it again they did bring yesterday came to his father let the son come into the father yesterday we had that was the the snake let them in to today it didn't happen they had to bury him somewhere else say how many days are we before L three days before l so therefore I want to show you this video to me was the a tremendous it moved me greatly um not to toot my horn this is a with all in the realm of anava I want to show you this this beautiful video check this out I think it's a kiss from hasm the whole thing you can't why doesn't it show no can you have it show I get last thought of an idea I'm going to sponsor every and I think there five or six shim over there and announced be each one for that my first daughter had exactly n months later had a baby boy and my second daughter this past Friday 3 days black boy man had a baby boy I wish the help in supporting MD you see it really works make many all of us together have a good day so this is gold scene right here this happened exactly a year ago so three days that's it and here three days before we're talking about think and also I didn't believe it so I went to see the baby myself this is the baby that was born three days before a year after sponsored huh I'm not saying people but we don't have any probably that was very unique had on the five times says people said okay because is greater than than the son we see in life that when you learn like and both of them were in the cave for 13 years eating Bucker and water that is a different level of learning you can't compare that learning even if you're in a high level of learning it's still not the same level as when you learn it when you're B and B also huh Cofe no but if you don't have to you can drink coffee but if you get up a little earlier and you come bit that also does it if you don't feel like coming you come that's bit for us last retire oh you're right some people the S is to take a diamond out their pocket donate to mdy while you're learning that's why is that re went again to make another used to say that's what he would say if I'm wrong in this he like even though he was right took away Sons no he lost all his sons he has a grandson so they bring this grandson who listen to this this is unbelievable I don't there's no one in this room that could tell me that they would say such a statement a guy that's a he's with every Z in town he says listen if you do chva you'll marry my daughter my daughter why because he's the grandson of retire some say they they got married and they got divorced some say didn't marry at all why you shouldn't say people shouldn't say I did CH to marry this woman so he married her and divorced her so people shouldn't say why was rebi so insisting going to find one somewhere if you teach your friend's son up there we should all take this to Heart teach your friends bring them to says ifem promised me that I'll stand in front of him if I if you do TR please do TR and if you teach the son of I feel like that's me right now I'm teaching y teaching the son of yeah no no no you got to work in that [Music] if you could take out he you he'll be like my mouth so in other words let's go back even makes you'll be like my mouth [Music] says if you have three generations will stay forever it happens to be that when I was young like about 15 years old I read the the the the books about the art scroll the parador very very inspired by the book I think it made a tremendous raion for the rest of my life all the the way he lived the whole thing one of the things it said there is that when he came to this this thing in he would cry that was his and I only realized yesterday so like every time I say it like I remember the and like say and I realized he didn't have kids it was more of a for kids maybe than anything else okay but there's a that um theber in his SCH he had a guy that would show up on in a car oner say Yar and right after Yar he would leave so the people in SCH said this is back in Europe he said they said we should we we shouldn't let this happen calling like leave him alone let it be then the story is that they the Nazis killed that person and everybody and one of his daughters as she was being led out to as she told her son no matter what say Yar for me because that's what her father and because of that so the son would come to SCH on Yer and say and then eventually he stayed from mus and he heard that this and he became and their grandson was was a big so that that that idea of what what you see in the house what you see one generation another generation you see the father learning in the next are father it becomes part of you they saw became part of them you see doesn't it doesn't leave for Generations I will be the the T looks for its for its hotel for it you know the M that it belongs the T looks for you you don't look for it of the v's uh huh brother he asked if so every single person should be learn today because learned this three generations how come what's the so said on that question it's a good question you might like the question more than the answer said that if a person goes to Hotel every single year and he goes to the hotel and he shows up and they're anti-semitic them they say dirty Jew get out of here he's not going to go back the next year he says if there's a stop you're right goes back we go back to the same Hotel every year but if you make a a heart stop and say I'm not interested in Tyra T is not going to fight you for that then you have to start over again you need a new hotel he sat 40 fast and he they they read him the you're not going to forget the another 40 okay it's not it's not going to leave your sons by the way this is there of Y that forgot all his learning and went and reminded him all his learning y0 three generations I don't need any more fast we promised that the t is going to go back to its owner the famous 100 to forget the style of learning says rash the whole so Rashi says in in in B they would ask a lot of question say a lot of Tourism like we had yesterday was like Shem and was very smooth was very calm about things so he wanted to get rid of that natural tendency of fighting learning more like chill figure it out so he he had 100 to forget that style it shouldn't bother when he's there another that shouldn't die while he's alive that he should be stuck with all the the community things think about the one I know is K every time I went there dozens and dozens of people all the way down the stairs bothering for all different and everything and everything and please take a picture with with the K ear and then take a sa this way and write this eyes and then be a s go you can't learn you can't do anything you shouldn't die in my lifetime I should be able to learn another hundred they shouldn't have every 30 days he would check himself to see if he if he would be burnt in turn on the oven sit inside and the fire didn't burn burnt his thighs K I mean that was his name his name was he was short so they called him K with the burnt thighs how do you call somebody a name who's the person who's the wise person who will understand this told him over the secret why was the land destroyed what happened that it was destroyed famous said this they didn't they couldn't be himself had explain they left my tire which I put in front of them might be the what he do in front of the what he do before they didn't say before they started learning first of all I know that we just recently had this gar somewhere and in the DAR and I didn't know it was in I have a guy here from the so I'm I'm looking searching on I did nothing so I had no choice called up the bellz I said yeah but I did a search on they come up he says no over there says and you look that's why from last night so the the says that even though they learned they were they learned all day long but from the fact that they didn't say because proved what was the motive behind the learning they learned it for intellectual purposes only not because had to learn that's why not oh I forgot to say ice cream poof you're all destroyed you didn't say chose what your motivation is Sam says very interesting and I'm going to I'm we have to try to to when you give a br to somebody you say you should have Gs you should [Music] away comes first when you give a guy say you should be to do the every day you should have I want to say my own little you might not like it but it's good for you guys he brings that I'm pretty sure he says that maybe the is that when you have a day that starts off with you inak and you learn to d right in the morning it's a different day I'm not putting down those who y he writes to me two in the morning because of your D I'm to learn out two in the morning after a hard day and he did have a hard day but it's when you learn the da fresh and you start your day you go to work first thing in the day in the morning you go you learn the da if you can on the way to work tell Starts day two in the morning yeah turning the D the big of bigger cup Consulting and with official bring into our lives of course I I had to say theat yesterday with the Israelis and I got booed because they're there at 9:00 at night I'm not kidding they were not happy in a heart of a of a of a person that understands the will rest and in the innards of a simple person will be known it's different when you who has the push over there pick up the pushka who's that as okay here Ash give it a good Shake now when you have a little coin in a in a pushka makes a lot of noise fill it up to the top doesn't make any noise at all when you're the son of people say wow this guy G who's his father May the son okay okay it's what are you expecting the son of Hill said a beautiful thing he said why is it that a lot of time have kids that are M nothing and he says you know why maybe it's because when a person is a sometimes he knocks other you know doesn't come close to my to my toes he's sing his head goes like this the guy but he has said this the said that let's go see the you want let's take a picture with this guy that kind of uh admiration and and enthusiasm to causes that the kid wants to be like that so we could take that also even if you're treat [Music] other the the small one the large one will be in in the Cav will be a slave that's free from his master everybody ends up in the grave unfortunately that's how life is if you make yourself small for in this world what does it mean make yourself small go to someone learn to from somebody that's smaller than you if that's what it takes to learn you do it make yourself like a slave I like what the moral says he says that if you m yourself your goof and your both the T then that's it it's all then you win what does it mean your nees you make yourself small you go to somebody that's not as big as you in T and you go you learn from him so now you're putting down your nees putting down your gof means less sleep for T getting up a little earlier in the morning not eating as much then you suppress your body also so it's body and soul for T then you become free in the world to like you go to you see or whoever was put there the markers the the blue here's a c is a the grave of disappeared he he became um disheartened he a little depressed not depressed not the right word this is so just to remind who's together with wrote the the Maines something that a lot of people don't know is that wrote The Zo The Zo who said that who scream out Z oh why maybe yeah yeah a little bit so it's hard I'm working my me this y I'm working so there's also a famous that when the came to take he couldn't so then he said okay could I have some bread so gave the bread he says okay so now can I have my and that whole like what what I gave you bread but why should I give you he was not a simple person very very high madrea person so it says he couldn't find his grave and he was very discouraged he says Omar is talking I didn't I didn't learn like him of course you did when they would have a fight you're fighting with me you know who I am tell him if all of the and everything was destroyed I could bring it right back with my own tells him back fighting with me I did something that to forget about even if the everything was burnt it's not going to be forgotten this to me is one of the most powerful stories in ch there a tremendous amount you can learn here I and we have pictures for this just to I told Yoshi I love this so much please do something a little bit instead of buying the ready made and and teaching kids Tyra he decided he's going to plant the flax to make the net to make the net you hear what's going on here to make to to weave the string and to do all the malas the however many it is to catch the deer to Shack the deer to clean the deer to make leather out of it to write the sa to write it to write I don't know many years that takes to write remission on CL and to make it and then to give it over not just to buy it in this farm store I'm hiring a cipher because if you do it like that and it's pure should be pure there's no Tuma no go touched no person nobody's involved just me doing it then it's on a whole different level the toy won't be forgotten it's unbelievable that's what the vill says that if you build a sh with a shovel and the the hammer made not and Jewish workers and this and that it's a show that can never be destroyed I mean I don't know how to take it to our life but again Purity just being pure says the I planted the FL I made the Nets and I caught the the deer asked me this is another point that he says I took the meat and what did I do with the me I gave it to the the so was with I wrote five taught five children each one I took six children and I taught them six each one of say I told them I commanded them until I come back you should teach each other I'm I'm creating a situation where won't be forgotten who knows today why we have to who it is but he went through all those steps so every step you do for T is to better the T and that's why rebi said look how great the the of his actions what is he greater than you if you want to make it on a practical level went to with his wife because she was complaining was fasting too much and said he could continue fasting so he explained Herman explained because I teach children and the vessel that teaches the children should be pure so it's another it's one of these ideas of when you're making it when you're doing it it should be pure and when it's pure it comes from a pure place it lasts so re asked rebbi he's greater than than you yes it seems like if he if rebi felt that he was greater he'd tell him straight out you see that in the G that's not that's not you have to know the has to know is greater than my own father don't even say such words came to me in the dream where are you placed in G I'm sitting next to me and over here if you remember the you can see for the rest of the sh who's great who's not great I mean they're all great who's greater than the other one there is we don't measure over here measur of sit next to is great all the way in the top in the bottom what can't go there when lightning bolts torches of fire going to bring over here okay I saw this that would come visit him the I noticed in the morning his eyes were perfect when he came back at night they got scorched in the fire what happened to you how do you get burnt you please show me the I don't understand anything over here just it seems like every day I have to look into this it looks like they would they weren't they we learned yesterday they all had their Mansions each one had a a little later sleeping waking up NE so it seems like they would go home and then come back to Yesa wasn't like 24/7 in the same Yesa I don't know what that means I'll allow you to look at everybody you cannot look at the Throne of if somebody tells you don't look what do you do okay I don't want to look how will I know it's his throne you need to lift you up on this giant throne and bring you back down to I don't again who we understand what it means to take somebody off the physical take them off put him down besides the throne he knows how to get up and down all on his own I think I think it's the says if he doesn't so I'll say it that did everything by himself he was very independent I'm making my own linen my own string my own Nets my own this okay so so independent you get up and down the The Throne by yourself so I couldn't oh no sorry I couldn't control myself I needed to see him I looked at him blind two things of fire came blind the next day which is today I guess when he's talking because he said yesterday no he came and he went to the cave to and I said to him learn and he was healed say come to the to was late and he didn't show up tells him where's your late note like what do you think we come to late what is this came late until I woke up again what does it mean they sleep in they need alarm clocks and have to wash his hands we wash because maybe he touch and if you sleep maybe there's why and up there yeah you have to wash his hands what is he gonna say okay I have to put him back to sleep let them all three get up at the same time why have to wake up then come to on time and I guess because maybe that's longer that's what it says he came every day on time this day he wasn't on time so if all three came together would come early anybody re asks is there anybody alive like this that could like that so he told him a great secret if and his sons ding together M will come okay he puts it in in his head go so madeus said said okay now you we're gonna bring early wind came the whole world who told them the secret they hit him hit 60 lashes of fire also he came here we have a picture eveni came like a fiery beer now I want to tell you something real quickly he said they said you're talking about a split second from here to there in that Split Second who's the one that told him the secret 60 comes becomes a beer jumps in there because there is no time in it's all relative it's not oh no we have R from the wasn't like that it's not there's only certain amount of time in the day something like this takes also to come down from sh takes you have to travel no it's not millisecond and finally says the so the beer went between them the fiery beer tardo and they got confused over there and they stopped it boai have a wonderful day